Every man who is bad to his wife is good to everybody that's why people don't understand when you are telling them how you are being treated coz they are soo good to everybody else
@PolenaEsther6 ай бұрын
True
@lucyasimo98586 ай бұрын
Totally agree
@Shonieasmrsatisfaction6 ай бұрын
That’s a fact.
@phililemosia69566 ай бұрын
That's what we call narcissist. They are very cruel and manipulative, they are good on their evil game, they are good outside bt not with the partner
@estellemoyo-in2se6 ай бұрын
👍
@stephaniezion14026 ай бұрын
Lack of empathy, serial cheater, gaslighting, projecting, controlling, lack of accountability, smear campaign, serial liar, emotional and financial abuse, very concerned about how people perceive him/he - all signs of Narcissist Personality Disorder
@lorrainemounts24166 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Narcissists are not capable of love for anyone not even their children.
@elvisndlovu12326 ай бұрын
Please women choose the fathers of your kids wisely
@madialemotsiri5866 ай бұрын
Problem it's LandRovers, Gucci's etc
@startingover72176 ай бұрын
Men lie... 🫠
@koke92976 ай бұрын
they sell us dreams and we fall for them, only when we are already too deep in then we realise it was all a trap. Believe me if we were prophetess' we wouldn't be where we are right now. But i am glad that you wont fall for such.
@siphamandlamkhize97666 ай бұрын
@@koke9297You have to know no one can give money for free, even your parents want u to pay them
@khensanebaloyi68356 ай бұрын
People change
@gloriandagire14526 ай бұрын
I'm here listening to her and wondering why I relate to her story. I divorced the guy....cold turkey, i blocked his entire family and friends, I left contact with him cause we have a child together, after sometime he didn't want to parent anymore, he blocked me. .. I think. And I cut my losses. The rest is history.....I'm remarried by the grace of God!!! I don't know people like this existed before the dude......people are very wicked. It was Hell divorcing the dude.
@okaymea5 ай бұрын
I just left a narcissist and I'm pregnant, you're giving me hope shame
@mercykudimba41524 ай бұрын
😢
@Miss_Maya_ZA6 ай бұрын
Nigerians are not for everyone shame. I knew I could never keep up with the bullying. 2 months was enough for me. I can never be with someone who doesn't like me. I hope you heal Sisi❤
@nosiphimalaza19746 ай бұрын
Let her stop that issues of ritualist,he might be a yahoo guy..but i don't support domestic violence.
@nosiphimalaza19746 ай бұрын
He's a ritualist according to Linda,but you're still living with him,having kids with him...eating his money?My sister fix ur family,no family's perfect including my own.I m a Nigerian living here in South Africa,there's a lot of south African ladies in Nigeria..being in peace with their family members that side...you never trust him,that was the reason you hav not even visited Nigerian,even without ur childrens..you're shouting on lin targeting his properties!
@KB.236 ай бұрын
@@nosiphimalaza1974go home wena msunu
@mmabatho6 ай бұрын
@@nosiphimalaza1974she knew after the loss of her daughter...
@Dimz78906 ай бұрын
I'm also scared of Nigerians. I have this guy who tried to ask me out but the way he speaks, loud with pigeon English makes me anxious and steals my peace. Would not date a Nigerian shame.
@abigailtakobana29506 ай бұрын
Thank you Owami for giving her a safe space to talk
@Glo-zj2vf6 ай бұрын
I m so happy for her,I cried for this woman when she was given a cold shoulder, lowish I can give her a big hug
@therealitiesoflife015 ай бұрын
Right a safe space to lie
@SiphesihleNameng16 ай бұрын
You know Owamie the awareness this channel is creating. You doing the lords work ❤
@afrobest30076 ай бұрын
He is a narcissist. I went through this same miserable marriage 20 years ago. Thank God I'm alive today. You will survive, just put your trust in God. ❤❤❤❤
@silaton3056 ай бұрын
Amen
@giftedchild94906 ай бұрын
Lol hope you have discovered who was really the narcissist.
@stephaniezion14026 ай бұрын
Yes, you are so right. I also was married to one
@stephaniezion14026 ай бұрын
@@giftedchild9490 narcissists are very manipulative and convincing. They have a way of making sure that when they speak everyone believes that they are victims. Never fight a narcissist, just walk away and block them everywhere. If you try to fight them, they will destroy you and the little reputation you have left. They are so wicked and evil and very manipulative
@okaymea5 ай бұрын
I dated one, took my virginity and I left when I was pregnant
@noctanal92696 ай бұрын
Netflicks could learn a very important lesson from you. Air all the episodes on the same day for heaven sake.
@nondumisomhlongo6 ай бұрын
True. While we are still invested in the story lol
@lindelanimadilonga99026 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂I agree with shiiiibubu
@ZeeInterpretationz6 ай бұрын
@MaleboD6 ай бұрын
Strue😂😂😂
@pineee.e6 ай бұрын
😂
@Vickymackay6 ай бұрын
any guy who tells his mom everything is not a person to carry on with
@victoriaibrahim6566 ай бұрын
You are 💯 correct
@sarah.hanock6 ай бұрын
thank u for bringing part 2 quickly
@msLu_darlings3 ай бұрын
As a Professional Nurse and Nursing educator who worked in a Neonatal high care and ICU, also peads ward. I can tell you this was a Cradle or Cot death mama. My condolences but that is a natural cause or death. The confusion and everything else came in because of the loveless marriage, God knows why you wanted to be married to this man but I also tell you that this was not witchcraft or whatever. The lady had so many red flags herself that it didn't make any sense on so many occasions. Her story didn't add up and I came from the 1st part, all this was just a venting session .
@tam_tam34963 ай бұрын
I think she liked the lifestyle… I know she feels ashamed to say but its nothing to be ashamed of WOMEN like things. She didn't want to leave coz of the lifestyle
@busisiwemakhubela49792 ай бұрын
True
@makatisomokete98622 ай бұрын
That's how my baby brother passed, he went to sleep and never woke up😢. I'm told he was soooooo beautiful. I dont remember him. We dond have his picture at home! I hope she mourns the baby and heal
@Flo4KeepsАй бұрын
I agree. Sounds like SIDS
@NinthJewel6 ай бұрын
7:22 I’m so sorry you went through this 💔💔❤️ that man was a narcissist. He’s so evil . May God judge him
@khangwelokhangwelo65536 ай бұрын
😢but nigerian man are all caring and gud man 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@lorrainemounts24166 ай бұрын
@@khangwelokhangwelo6553😳😱🙄
@Molebs6 ай бұрын
The mother-in-law knew what her son was doing.
@curvykay62326 ай бұрын
Dating foreign men is a danger sana
@LIFEASLEE_6 ай бұрын
Lol
@Lungi-r5k6 ай бұрын
Very dangerous 😮😮😮
@treyngwenya2586 ай бұрын
Even South Africans are toxic
@cindyrambau44766 ай бұрын
Dating a man who doesn’t love you is dangerous
@JemimaBhobho-y1c6 ай бұрын
They just want paper's nothing else
@P2004-cQ6 ай бұрын
My dear take ur son and run for ur life. It's not about what you own. Some wealth don't envy pray and let Jesus bless you in his own time.
@dikeledimmatloa95174 ай бұрын
To think she's still crying for material things even though she's not sure of how they were accumulated!
@ZeeInterpretationz6 ай бұрын
I'm so invested ninja what did God reveal to that bible pastor hle. I feel like I'm watching a nigerian movie. Is part 3 coming?
@sapatrioticcitizen87186 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 a typical Nigerian movie 🤞 @ZeeInterpretations
@ozzaM226 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@carollovings28306 ай бұрын
Nigerians need to be delivered and healed from ,ancestral witchcraft. Was married 28 year's, two children and it was very demonic, to be honest I honestly don't believe what that ate warring against, I God's mercy,salvation and deliverance... in Yeshua name
@humbu2826 ай бұрын
He never loved her and it's almost like he hated every minute they spent together.
@thulisilemasiza19936 ай бұрын
That's what I'm also picking up. He didn't love her at all.
@Nogi_836 ай бұрын
They were never in a relationship from what i sense
@fredahama39576 ай бұрын
marriage of convenience
@JustinClark-r4z6 ай бұрын
The lady used a muti
@nobuhlemkhize85526 ай бұрын
Nigerian men hates South Africans they never loved us and never will
@lisohl72586 ай бұрын
Cleaning up everything first day after baby died is a very weared business maa'n 😭😭😭
@Elizabeth-vu1tb6 ай бұрын
It was just God. That certificate God just blinded his eyes. Yhooo my sister please leave that man alone. Get a divorce and start from scratch with your kids. God is there. Cut all ties. Don’t contest anything.
@joycetsosane35136 ай бұрын
Yeah because the wealth came from your babies's blood 😢don't share the property please. Everything is cursed
@JustinClark-r4z6 ай бұрын
@@joycetsosane3513 low thinking negative human
@eyoleable6 ай бұрын
@@joycetsosane3513Yes he used her blood
@sibongisenisakhele31146 ай бұрын
Narcissist don't empathy. Emotions are a weakness to them
@zahmbuyisa5766 ай бұрын
Sadly they are like that to their kids too
@Winterflowers16 ай бұрын
This is so sad, loosing a child is one of the hardest things you can ever experience. I hope she finds peace, she's been through so much
@carmenmoitoi43486 ай бұрын
Men put women through so much. It's like she's narrating a fictional story. You have been through so much sis. May God carry your through it all.
@Prism4466 ай бұрын
There is a Zim lady who had to get contributions from the Zim community globally to run away after being stuck there & they wanted the kids .Each time live videos came up with her talking were sad .Now she is back in Zim & she says she wont set foot there .
@Lhiza-r2d6 ай бұрын
Where?
@Nokutenda7746 ай бұрын
I heard about the story. She was kidnapped and they took her child if that’s the same story. Nigerians are evil when it comes to juju.
@neegee37556 ай бұрын
In 2021 when I lost both my parents. I was dismissed and invalidated when I grieved and cried. A week later somebody’s son filed for divorce because he couldn’t stand me .
@jeanmwesi34896 ай бұрын
Sending hugs🫂❤️
@sammym92596 ай бұрын
Askies dear❤from one orphan to another.
@MaleboD6 ай бұрын
Sending you love and light....
@linha77086 ай бұрын
🫂🫂 ....may i ask if he was from nigeria also?
@LukeRev4806 ай бұрын
Haybo nina🤭 Xolo vha..
@thatotlhowe6 ай бұрын
I am just wondering what made Linda to brush off the morning after pill especially for a stranger at the time, I mean he ghosted her for a month after they slept together. His sangoma lady warned her which to me was eye opening enough but she still stayed. Legale thanks for sharing my dear.
@Sterfillah6 ай бұрын
When we tell them bathi si zenofobhiki
@Winterflowers16 ай бұрын
And she kept getting pregnant even after seeing guy’s true personality
@GodsFavourite20246 ай бұрын
@@thatotlhowe Ladies, this woman's encounter with this man was deeper than any imagination and physical measures judging from the story. Surely There was alot of forces at work and she wouldn't have just acted within her norm. Life is spiritual and if you meet a master manipulator you may just wonder at the end of it that was that even u to begin you with😔
@nolwazincongwane58506 ай бұрын
@@GodsFavourite2024 so sad that most people don't believe in the spiritual thing😢
@khetimthembu84656 ай бұрын
@@GodsFavourite2024exactly!!!
@Vickymackay6 ай бұрын
that’s nigerians for you 😢 you need to know what you signing up for.. be strong
@nolwazincongwane58506 ай бұрын
When we tell em dlalelani kudze nema Nigeria they say we are xenophobic 😢
@tendanipelaelo62936 ай бұрын
@@nolwazincongwane5850This is not the right time to say such. It makes you look like this heartless evil person. Let's be considerate to other people's situations
@kaygee17566 ай бұрын
@@nolwazincongwane5850it’s true and very sad that we aren’t to say that because we’re portrayed as these evil people.What happened to this sister is horrible and I so wish every other woman can take from her story and other’s stories so they can run away from Nigerian men.Unfortunately it is true that some of them don’t wanna listen and learn.I hope this beautiful woman heals from all this heartache
@ThatMissP6 ай бұрын
I know people who are happily married to Nigerian brothers. Let's not paint a nation guys
@nolwazincongwane58506 ай бұрын
@@tendanipelaelo6293 oh i see😥 you know want to be heartless like you've said but the red flags were there from the start and middle 💁♀️
@jessicankosi13466 ай бұрын
Nigerian guys especially the ones without papers fear them xem 😫😫😫my sister keep on praying n trust God 😢
@khangwelokhangwelo65536 ай бұрын
What papers the ones that have papers are fake ids 😅😅😅 Pathetic having a paper won't change nigerians
@tombimashri81496 ай бұрын
Always Hide your ID nd passport from them, keep them at yr parents
@prixy25286 ай бұрын
Sister why should we fear them 😮
@klaw14255 ай бұрын
Why you generalized every Nigerians
@Shonieasmrsatisfaction6 ай бұрын
First in a long time I watched something for this long and not get bored. Mi nah go ask why you stayed but that man is heartless.
@andisiwemcasa73606 ай бұрын
Owamie is standing on BUSINESS babe💁♀️💁♀️
@naledindlovu9766 ай бұрын
Hhai kabi neh when you find time yekani ama foreigners especially Nigerians... for a lot of them you are just a means to an end ...I wonder why did she even enter into a relationship with this guy because from the onset there was no love from him...but keh
@paulsekhoto60476 ай бұрын
Do true I never liked them yooo
@itztocanoel126 ай бұрын
My Sister almost died because of a South African man who did isithwalo with her son sow not all man are the same whether from here or outside the country but we all have our thinking and it will never be the same 😢
@naledindlovu9766 ай бұрын
@itztocanoel12 so sorry for that but let me elaborate on this...the chances of foreigners especially those illegal doing horrible things is much much higher...a lot of times they date because of desperation or scamming rarely ever for love...and I'm talking specifically on foreigners
@tebalelomarobane84966 ай бұрын
@@itztocanoel12true, I know few ones married to professionals and they fine.
@etvscandalfanpage20116 ай бұрын
@naledindlovu976 I 100% agree with you. I wish my own sister could come tell her story on these podcast because Wow. She got arrested because her Naija guy used her bank account for scamming old white woman. Thank God she did not spend a lot of time in jail, but it affected her
@kafitamenshi36396 ай бұрын
That’s why it’s important to be independent, Solomon’s sons are bad news, especially when they know that u r not independent.
@klaw14255 ай бұрын
Independent of what elaborate if you will?
@Sma_dzadza6 ай бұрын
Thank you 😂😂😂I kept refreshing…love and light to the beautiful guest
@lindelanimadilonga99026 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂girl me tooo
@ntombyomzulu15276 ай бұрын
Him leaving for 7 days might have been his way of healing but i dougt he loved you and most nigerians have no emotions amagogogo nje and this is how they probably treat their women back home or saw their fathers treating their mothers outt of 100 you'll find 10 nigerian men with emotions and loving loudly and right and in my opinion i tbink ibo nigerians see women as objects
@tombimashri81496 ай бұрын
Truths nd also poligomy set ups the children fight eachother the mothers always fighting eachother no love respect. Endless competitions nd jealousys for eachother, their mothers fighting eachother children get involved it's just crazy madness. An honest Nigerian once told me what u see in their moveys majority of it happens in reality.
@tombimashri81496 ай бұрын
Someone said they r now marrying muzungu s. Yes true but Muzungu s will not take all the bull they will leave if not treated with respect. I m sure if ,(muzungu) white lady is rich or comes frm rich fam they sign a prenuptial agreement nd he will never know their worth. THE only ones they may fool are the old Granny's dateing the young Nigerians although investigators are now getting involved as its getting out of hand.
@Styliee6 ай бұрын
South African women need to be more assertive. This girl allowed so much BS unnecessarily.
@elvisndlovu12326 ай бұрын
That mother in law is wicked as well
@Glo-zj2vf6 ай бұрын
Very wicked she's the one who sacrifice the chil
@JustinClark-r4z6 ай бұрын
shut up, this lady is an opportunist
@elvisndlovu12326 ай бұрын
@@JustinClark-r4z yes brother
@eyoleable6 ай бұрын
@@JustinClark-r4zYou said low thinking in another comment and here you say oppotunist? Whatever be the case; thisan hmmmmm!
@lorrainemounts24166 ай бұрын
@@JustinClark-r4z You are a bot. A wicked one.
@STAR-ks5hf6 ай бұрын
To survive marriage with a Nigerian give it to him gbas gbos. Have your own money and show him you can survive without him. He will shame you and do whatever he wants because he is feeding you. Never leave your job and never become a housewife. If this woman lived in Naija that man would have killed her long time. It’s just that they are in SA and it won’t be easy for him.
@eyoleable6 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@NtombikayiseDanisa6 ай бұрын
But why should anyone stay in that sutuation for a month even
@sammym92596 ай бұрын
Jooohhh 😢😢😢financial emotional verbal abuse at highest levels 😢😢😢😢thiza thank God her father's spirit guided her😢 i can NEVER endure such
@phiwomvubu-ti5hb6 ай бұрын
Linda described the father of my child to the T.....Only now I realise how traumatized I was....I always tot something was wrong abt me that made that man treat me like that.....Nigerian men are broken nhe?
@mpuse75276 ай бұрын
definitely a Nigerian Igbo...exactly useless like my sister's ex...I wish the lady the best in life...thanks Owamie ur the best
@sammym92596 ай бұрын
Bingooo 😢igbo..i avoid them with every fibre of mine. I loathe them
@Remiremi74306 ай бұрын
Are igbos usually scammers or known to have bad traits?
@elvisndlovu12326 ай бұрын
No man😢.... women are going through hell
@Phyllisjordan20066 ай бұрын
Oh man what a sad story. Love and light to her. Cant wait for the last part.
@evelynib79006 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for all that happened to you after listening to your ordeal with this boy. There are certain things/rules attached to this ritual thing. I’m not a ritualist but a good mom for my children ( they are grown up. Eldest 42yrs old and the youngest is 20yrs old) and my grandchildren. He’s not allowed to give you the money because it’ll have a negative impact on him but he can spend it on people that surround you which explained why you weren’t paid and being denied of handling money. He dare not treat a Nigerian lady like that because he knows that they will catch up with him. Not all Nigerians are like that but I respect you for your bravery and your subtle ways of handling everything. The Lord is really on your side and please don’t relent in your prayers. I pray that God will give you double for your loss and give you your own husband in Jesus Name. The Lord will protect all your children and nothing will happen to any of you IJN.
@kunbiakins6 ай бұрын
Please I’m in this kind of situation in which my husband has never given me money but gives everybody around me money. he will personally make sure he buys everything needed at home, toiletries, food stuffs, even things like Maggie and salt. I must say I was hypnotized bcos my eyes did not open until after 18 yrs with 3 kids
@kefilwemadi7506 ай бұрын
Some of the pieces of your story reminds me of myself with my ex Nigerian hey... These men are something else and I thank God I forgot and forgave all.
@sibongisenisakhele31146 ай бұрын
Amen! 2 Timothy 1:7, we have have not been given a spirit of fear but of power, love and discipline.
@mathelesenyeho78116 ай бұрын
I expected to get details of these rituals or cult activities
@Vickymackay6 ай бұрын
same thing happened to my baby girl 💔 the guy also left
@kikiUN16 ай бұрын
That's awful 😢
@silaton3056 ай бұрын
Pole sana. May Almighty God give you peace and shower you with his love and strength ❤
@nontsikelelonoruwanahealth80356 ай бұрын
Yhooo part 3 please.
@_.hlengi6 ай бұрын
you can never win with a narcissist everything you do or don't do is wrong
@JustinClark-r4z6 ай бұрын
You SA women are problem
@MaleboD6 ай бұрын
This woman went through it shem yoh.... I am so sorry Sisi,may God heal,guide and protect you
@angelshungube76 ай бұрын
I remember she was saying he started getting money when the baby passed on. But she was gifted a car while she was pregnant with the baby. I’m confused. Sis hlanganisa your stories.
@risuna_s59416 ай бұрын
Exactly my point. It’s just a goal digger who didn’t get her way, now she mad things didn’t go as planned so she orchestrated this whole thing Akers you guys as long as it’s Nigerians you will always side with South African girls even when they are evil lol. She sounds more like someone who rushed to twist the story before she gets exposed. Remember she also lost her previous husband. I hope the son she has won’t pass away .
@PhophiNemakonde6 ай бұрын
Thought i was the only one confused by that part 😂
@kgaleesto6 ай бұрын
I think the baby girl was kinda like the last sacrifice, remember she said she had a miscarriage early 2019 or so after the son, n she thinks she's had more is just tht she doesn't know cause she'll be in her period then no period for a while, n remember the sleeping with the girls from tinder, that's how the money for the car came from I think. I stand to be corrected though
@joycemwewa87446 ай бұрын
What's her handle on tick tock.
@emilymankotseng23994 ай бұрын
She said the first miscarriage
@QueenShaz-oc3qg6 ай бұрын
love is hard. this man was a demon, may the Lord deal with him and the others like him accordingly. Mama i am sorry.
@bitsangabi97856 ай бұрын
Ijooo Linda! I wonder why you stayed in that relationship? Imagine why someone saying he loves you and he does not like your child. You were so brave my dear to enter that relationship with your daughter.
@carollovings28306 ай бұрын
Witchcraft, it is not her fault
@nozizwerugongo52636 ай бұрын
As women God blessed us with the spirit of courage fighting endurance and intelligence as long as one believes in God
@k-leyalgae91296 ай бұрын
I dated a yahoo boy from nigeria we separated when he started phushing me to marry him because he wanted south african Document and to be honest they dont just spend their money anyhow and they dont pretend their red flags will be there from day one, i remember for me he was honest from day one that we should first make a baby so that even if his family does not like me they will accept me for the sake of the baby in their culture they dont abandon their blood. He told me from scratch that he is getting his money from robbing ladies online . He said he loves me and want us to marry so he can get South african Passport and document. I still love him but we separated we met 2017 and separated 2022.
@GodsFavourite20246 ай бұрын
Us loyal day 1 ninjas phakati inside part 2😊
@HlobsileNosimiloNxumalo6 ай бұрын
Linda plz start the utube...God has made u to pass thro this painful experience to help, empower a lot of women out there..u are a women of colour ,a really imbhokodvo... God is alive, do not fear...
@wandisatshisa97566 ай бұрын
After all the red flags and people hinting to her that she must run she still stayed why betunana 💔💔 was it love? was she under the spell
@athenkosibango66266 ай бұрын
That's what makes me angry , even before marriage she had many opportunities to escape but she did not
@Yasmeen-k5b6 ай бұрын
Because of a luxurious lifestyle
@nomangesi_6 ай бұрын
Spell dear these men are dangerous 😢
@tombimashri81496 ай бұрын
How foes woman stay with a ritualist yr daughter died, he diesn t give e u money disrespects you. I m sorry I would v gone long time
@silaton3056 ай бұрын
@@tombimashri8149Easier said than done. Until it happens to you. We’re ignorant of spiritual things. By the time we find out the truth, it’s already too late, we’ve lost everything including our sanity - literally dead man walking. I’m still shocked that it’s him who called her to tell that she’s pregnant with his child 😮
@pfulu6 ай бұрын
This Man the reason he married her was just for Passport.
@cindyrambau44766 ай бұрын
He definitely came with his Nigerian passport 😂😂😂unless if you are referring to a permit
@soflamonama88876 ай бұрын
@@cindyrambau4476 😂😂😂
@JustinClark-r4z6 ай бұрын
She was a street and a club girl, Go listen to the Nigeria guys interview with owamie
@mikejohnson36016 ай бұрын
He is evilous full of demons
@klaw14255 ай бұрын
How do did you know that
@busisiwemichelle53916 ай бұрын
I am soo invested in this story l just hit like button before listening
@PipsoffPain6 ай бұрын
I've always been taught not to let my emotions cloud my analysis of stories, especially sad ones that can provoke or manipulate feelings. However, this particular story doesn't add up for me. The guy supposedly bought her a Range Rover while she was pregnant and a Porsche before they lost the baby. Typically, in stories involving rituals, the sacrifice is made first, and then the rewards follow once the sacrifice is accepted. But in this case, her husband apparently bought expensive cars and then performed the sacrifice afterward. When she mentions seeing money in the bank but claims ignorance about its source, it's hard to believe she didn't know where it came from. Perhaps she can't talk about it because she benefited from the activities and doesn't want to appear complicit rather than a victim. Losing a baby is undeniably painful, and no woman deserves that. However, some of us are not kids. Yes, your husband was a narcissist , unfaithful and an A**hole but your ritual story raises doubts. The host asked her how did she come to conclusion that he performed a sacrifice , her response was based on his history of infidelity and the divorce. Finally close to end she answered that its sangomas and prophets that told her he did sacrifice the child, this could be lair’s, again if you live with a ritualist in the same house you can definitely tell by the strange things which will happen in the house eg foot steps or sounds none of that was her evidence.and yet Again, she still drives the same Range Rover supposedly bought through ritualistic means involving the blood of her child. Sorry, but this story sounds like a woman who is being taken advantage of and now she’s just fighting back..therefore part 3 is waste of my time
@nolwazincongwane58506 ай бұрын
Same here i feel like something is off.
@User088826 ай бұрын
You have articulated my exactly thought. Alot doesn’t make sense here. There’s alot she isn’t saying
@PrivilegeMbali6 ай бұрын
She said that she had a miscarriage first then got pregnant for the daughter
@PrivilegeMbali6 ай бұрын
@@User08882she said that the men first benefited from the miscarriages and sometimes she ddn’t even know she’s having miscarriages
@PipsoffPain6 ай бұрын
@@PrivilegeMbali Speaking of rituals, not witchcraft, in the case of miscarriage, blood is typically required. Most victims are instructed to use a bucket to collect the blood by the perpetrator. However, in her case, there's no evidence of this. It's hard to believe she doesn't have first-hand evidence if she was living with a ritualist. But only sangomas and prophets are her source. Again, Owami should have inquired whether the day she was crying on TikTok was the same day she discovered or told her child was sacrificed. If not, then she must have been crying for other reasons.
@tukiejohannes97716 ай бұрын
welcome back our Queen ninja
@anithahsibanda70476 ай бұрын
A narcissist will always make you believe you are the one who is wrong and you will never be happy in that relationship,it's all about him
@RamaselaMorifi6 ай бұрын
Kunini ngithi yooooooo 😢...My sister you need to break the covenant,only God can save you . Blessings and strength to you and you are so beautiful ❤,Owamie well done shbooboooo
@_.hlengi6 ай бұрын
love was never served at that table...periodt 😢
@tasha_t92106 ай бұрын
There are three sides to every story, your side, my side, and the truth. And no one is lying. Memories shared serve each differently.
@tombimashri81496 ай бұрын
Those who know them know this lady is not lying
@barbrahc75 ай бұрын
: waste of time to hear the side of the Nigerian man.
@jerminahmotsapi61016 ай бұрын
It’s so sad that she had to be exposed to such a traumatic experience. No one deserves what she has went through and I have learned that we respond to things a different way. She might have really not seen what she was getting herself into and unfortunately there’s spiritual covenant that have been built. I really hope the grace of God locates her and release her from any bondages built against her. She should run and not walk away🥹😭
@phililemosia69566 ай бұрын
The narcissist hates seing ppl cry, he or she will hurt u and expect u to be strong and nt talk abt tht incident, they pretend as if nothing happend.
@Savebygrace-it6 ай бұрын
7 years of fancy life has turned to a nightmare.2017 to 2024 😮😮😮. Continue dating them at your own peril
@siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN6 ай бұрын
wena you should showing sympathy
@Savebygrace-it6 ай бұрын
@@siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN I do have empathy but after 1st child with a narcissist you continue to have a second one cha ngeke. Just an opinion nje
@siphindilemaphumuloZA_DURBAN6 ай бұрын
@@Savebygrace-it eyy oe uyakhohlwa kuthi all of those guys from the west Africa they are using umuthi ohamba nezilwane can I send you another link then ubuye Kimi cos ozokuzwa kuyona will open your mind to realise how low then can be if bafuna kuthwala ngomuntu esaphila
@nomangesi_6 ай бұрын
@@Savebygrace-itshe's under a spell
@mmabatho6 ай бұрын
It was never good, she's a surviver
@pfulu6 ай бұрын
There is always higher Power, God almighty 🙌🏽
@PhomoloKhan6 ай бұрын
Ameen God will Protect you even when you Didn't Ask for his protection this story is a proof
@MatomeMachaka-o2i2 ай бұрын
Am so disappointed how we as men treat women who try to love and protect us.😢
@madialemotsiri5866 ай бұрын
Girl was supposed to steal money and hide it during happier times 4 rainy days.
@Simply_Bonga6 ай бұрын
What money babes… this guy literally even bought the groceries, he didn’t give her money let alone saw his money
@minahmokoalakoala9776 ай бұрын
What money
@tshegotumelo6 ай бұрын
O kgatlha ko bolela yong
@mmabatho6 ай бұрын
What money? He was using her for everything blood, mental health,
@LIFEASLEE_6 ай бұрын
Nigerian women bekezela till death See their fave Chioma there’s plenty of them. Even here in SA yhuuu haa
@gloriamahuma89376 ай бұрын
What is revealed,is redeemed!pray very hard,God is faithful!
@KholekaCindi6 ай бұрын
They say never say never but me never... This lady also... I judge especially when it comes to the kids... No man on this earth will disrespect my kids never.... She negotiates too much
@zamokuhle19926 ай бұрын
Details of your hair please Queen Ninja
@OwamieEntertainment6 ай бұрын
Classic Beauty on instagram, it’s on special R900 run and say I sent you ❤
@sonixboy54816 ай бұрын
Hayi ngeke why does she keep on getting pregnant
@nomangesi_6 ай бұрын
Yhoooo I wish you know these Western African men spell 😢😢😢
@lulufierce016 ай бұрын
If my baby were to die and I get home and all my babies things have been removed and burnt hayi someone else will die that day.. The nerve. 😮
@yolandangcuzana80106 ай бұрын
But how bad does it have to get for one to leave a toxic relationship,niyabekezela bafazi!!!!
@nosiphomsomi49016 ай бұрын
Red flag from day 1 Hello Hi 👋😊
@tombimashri81496 ай бұрын
Unfortunately they are filtering in2 RSA. Wonder why they keeping away from Ruwanda
@lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga66 ай бұрын
Poor baby's clothes and pictures were burnt and her corpse was burnt down😢😢😢haaaai guys...aaaih man😢😢😢
@sammym92596 ай бұрын
Being a tokoloshi of her grandfather 😢😢😢😢😢hini bawo
@precioushafe50016 ай бұрын
@@sammym9259imagine burning a baby
@zoelove43734 ай бұрын
The story of my past life! Thank God both my kids are still alive by the grace of God. I can relate to EXACTLY R200 petrol, and so MANY other things she said.
@ewaweru5 ай бұрын
Am so sorry sis. I pray that you receive healing. May the Lord protect you.
@normadunjwa71356 ай бұрын
Why wont she respond to the question of watchcraft
@MashuduYanta-pc8md3 ай бұрын
I waited and waited and yoh she still went on on how he treated her..not wat owamie asked her
@mbongesmith9046 ай бұрын
Yooh im coming from the guys video yoooh kuningi!!!
@LillySaidasKitchen4 ай бұрын
What is the name of his account?
@Marthashiningstar6 ай бұрын
Thanks Owami girl ❤❤❤❤😊
@bofelomatlhare58196 ай бұрын
But why is she still using the cars from this guy..thats blood money property,and her daughters blood..she needs to get rid of everything that is from that guy
@Mathilda-f3i6 ай бұрын
I also dont understand. Why use the cars vele mara vele I mean dont they remind you that they were bought with your child's blood. Something is off with this lady, she claims the guy treated her bad but when a guy suggests a divorce she begs him to stay now she wants half of his money. Bakithi kudlalwa ngathi Lana
@mmabatho6 ай бұрын
Kana she has to live and survive too, I'm not gonna blame her
@monicaolwagen94266 ай бұрын
You are so beautiful! Pray GOD protects you
@lorrainemounts24166 ай бұрын
2 Timothy 3 3 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. 6 For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, 7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@Thobekambokazi5 ай бұрын
Linda sorry for your los..nxese cc . Owamie you are doing a great job my daughter...I wish to see you one day and hug you.
@soflamonama88876 ай бұрын
I'm sooooo triggered 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢I just left a 22years marriage from a Nigerian man who had almost the same character as your husband. I'm also in Alberton please Linda let's hook up.
@mmabatho6 ай бұрын
I had two friends who are married to nijas I'm wondering where they are. Yho😢
@PromiseMoropa6 ай бұрын
Nigerian don't love our sisters!!! We keep forcing...
@soflamonama88876 ай бұрын
@@PromiseMoropa Mostly have narcissistic personalities, even the ones who married in their countries, my Nigerian sister in laws are always crying the only difference is in their culture, most women don't have a voice.
@JustinClark-r4z6 ай бұрын
What do you do for a living, you SA women will always disappoint Nigerians, when things are good you guys stick, but when things is going bad you guys start misbehaving
@mankamercyachanyi76206 ай бұрын
I'm also a victim who got married to a narcissus husband. I just left the man, we have lived together for 20yrs. Finally I left early this yr. In marriage matter how u try to make things work if its not going u can't change it 💯. What I learned in marriage is that from day one in ur relationship don't compromise. Assuming that no he will change especially those rich men. They can not. They have no emotion. They have alots of prides bec of their wealth. Some don't know that they grace u have , as u live together it enhance their growth in wealth.
@TheReal_GuguG6 ай бұрын
The Nigerian English accent 😅
@sibongilemasombuka81545 ай бұрын
I thought it was my imagination 😂😂😂
@Marthashiningstar6 ай бұрын
Owami is so funny😅😅😅😅 Uber easts in a Porsche 😅
@khangwelokhangwelo65536 ай бұрын
Funny I was watching ur tick tock about this 😅😅😅
@KwambiPrincess6 ай бұрын
Yooooooh ! My gosh ! Is there a part 3 😳😳😳😳😳
@CeeMotsoeneng6 ай бұрын
The divorce proceedings are not necessary for customary marriage with a foreigner. The customary marriage act only applies to two South Africans.
@mmabatho6 ай бұрын
Where did u get that?
@CeeMotsoeneng6 ай бұрын
@@mmabatho from two divorce attornies.
@Sarah_M846 ай бұрын
This guy hated you and you keep on staying there, you are brave.
@palesamacholo33676 ай бұрын
I was married to a Nigerian man for 3months, I couldn't bekezela😂😂
@LIFEASLEE_6 ай бұрын
Not 3 months haibo Owami other lady here Another 3 part
@gracedrosie51276 ай бұрын
congratulations to you babes you WON
@shelleanrugg36896 ай бұрын
I listened to your story. It is very touching. How did you put up with your husband I felt so sorry for you my lady. Be strong, and take care of your son. I am so sorry for your loss, l know how it feels to loose a child. God bless you and your son. Praying for you.🙏 Divorce him, In God you trust.
@Fezo1026 ай бұрын
He just didn’t want her, it’s not that he’s narcissistic. He didn’t love her and wish she had not stuck around.
@yoliswaosang59726 ай бұрын
What stopped him from leaving her, the love was there in their own way That is how they love