EP 22 Asnath Mathiba on her husband having an affair with her siste’s daughter for 6 years

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[@Ameerah07]

*marriage does not change a person, it amplifies their character and morals*

[@noluthandomaseti3257]

I believe you here.

[@zoliswangqiniso6584]

True I heard that from my therapist

[@NtokozoGumede-h2s]

True

[@tokozanimazvimbakupa5450]

Very correct

[@mohlagopilusa1953]

Because after the 1st ordeal of finding her boyfriend with a girl & STILL accepted lobola & stuff, she knew exactly what she was signing up for.

[@nobathembumpetsheni7817]

Can we just mention just how beautiful Asnathi is😍

[@chiomaenyeribe3800]

And very well spoken

[@bomikaziportiandaba8369]

She is very beautiful hle ❤️❤️❤️

[@katlin1615]

Yerrrrr o montle this lady

[@PrideNkuna]

I am literally saying it out loud, "Umuhle kodwa"

[@nakaibeauty4137]

She’s stunning

[@NtandoNkosi-o9d]

I love how madam speaker doesn’t interrupt her guests. Asnath is a really a strong woman

[@madams___speaker]

Thank you so much

[@lemogangomatla5328]

I love her for that 🥰

[@rebeccamagopa5160]

Right,that’s the reason I look forward to her podcast 🙌🏽

[@mmapeugracemokalapa5386]

Me too she’s therapeutic 👌🤞🤞

[@keotshepileplaatjies8424]

Oh yes!!

[@KhensaTinghitsi]

Too many red flags,i pray when i get married one day to respect my wife n loved her wholeheartedly, never cheat to her

[@sharonmatoli3193]

True man😢❤

[@JudithSibanda-w4d]

U a the man, big up to u

[@Ladydee510]

The minute she broke down! After narrated her story as a brave woman, i shed a tear. We are going through a lot 😢

[@madams___speaker]

😭😭😭😭

[@ReginahMarike-ku7mb]

Going through a lot sheim, believe me.🤞

[@ALPHAROYCE]

Rubbish

[@ntsakorachelchabalala4808]

😢😢

[@SibongileWeeto]

Phephi Sesi..it will be Okay..You haveaGod that listens.. The father must maintain the Kids. That must HAPPEN..🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💖💖

[@confidenceponagatso5060]

What ever red flags 🚩 you see during the dating phase, it multiplies 3x more when married

[@lavjamsoflocamp]

10 x I always say and shall make u crazy

[@gugulethuwinifred6529]

Your mother inlaw destroyed your marriage 😢..may the good lord punish her for her sins

[@ignatiusmoela8396]

Where you married before?

[@phindilemvundla9466]

You can say that again

[@dithbug3191]

Kabisaaaaaaa

[@rebotilemogadime4169]

There will be a time where women will say "Enough" and start putting themselves first. We can't allow men to waste our resources (time, money, wombs, dreams and goals, mental sanity and self) anymore we really cannot its too expensive a price to pay.

[@noluthandosibiya108]

I wish that I could like this comment a hundred times.

[@bokamosomcephe2965]

This is why the Korean women started the 4B movement 😢😢😢😢.

[@rebotilemogadime4169]

@bokamosomcephe2965 its slowly going to infiltrate the whole world its only a matter of time. And you will see these men will throw tantrums or become more violent. The birth rate in Korea is so low that day care centres are closing and they are trying to give benefits in order for women to give birth but the women are saying andizi

[@teeslife2408]

Amen 🙏

[@qn7403]

Louder because most of her misery was because she didn’t have self love

[@silentio9t]

The more I see these stories, the more I am learning that men are not everything and I must learn not to put men on pedestal they don't deserve, I hope things will work out for her and I know it will..God bless... sisi Perseverance you are doing a great job Makukhanye.

[@Zine_Ngcobo]

100%

[@tbozzm6941]

Never ever put anyone on a pedestal...!!! Put you instead... Love yourself, empower, advance you...!!! Guard your peace & sanity... Anyone that you allow to come into your life must make a deposit... bring value and never deduct nor reduce any aspect of you...!!! Amen!

[@treshasstarr1513]

First learn to LOVE YOURSELF

[@veronicamakhafula6389]

You are strong my sister❤ I'm in tears. My niece had an affair with my boyfriend (baby daddy) while she was staying with me. She would leave my place and go to baby daddy for days, come back and life continued(because i didn't know). The day i found out,I broke up with baby daddy, she moved in with him, she packed her clothes and left while i was at work. I was not ok, i even went for counselling. I loved my niece, she was like my baby sister. They had a child. Baby daddy passed on September 2023. Niece moved back to her parent's house after the guy passed on. My sister and i are ok,but i don't go to her house because i don't want to see my niece. It still hurts.

[@botshelotong6403]

Tjooo I am so sorry Mommy 😢🫂

[@ameliasmommyshazi7585]

😢😢yooo it's too much I'm so sorry sis

[@sindiswampungose9242]

So sorry about this sis,its alot! It will get better. Sending love

[@precious-mh3ds]

I never thought people do these things yaz. Uxolo sthandwa sam❤😢❤

[@veronicamakhafula6389]

@@botshelotong6403 thank you

[@sibongilenkwana8835]

She tells her story so eloquently with such grace. I wish you peace Mommy. ❤

[@spm9130]

When she said, “a man who has loved you your whole life can wreck you”, I felt it! I was there, and you will be fine my dear. You are stronger than you think, you will rise above the situation. And one day, he’ll come begging. He will regret this, you can count on that!

[@lifewithtshidiedza381]

She will be fine ❤❤ I was told I will never amount to anything I am from a poor family The guy mocked me. As I speak am an auditor and am happily in love...my sister said use prevention mma. I don't trust this guy. That hit me so hard. He dated everything that he saw. When he was done with me he sent me out 😂😂. I was sad but I am so glad he did. She will be ok❤

[@auntyb4130]

❤​@@lifewithtshidiedza381

[@_molebogeng6281]

Based on the story she narrated, this man never loved her or maybe he did at some point but it was actually her who loved him with her whole life. The ex husband also seemed like a mama's boy but anyway I'm happy she is finally choosing herself this time around

[@madams___speaker]

Sometimes you will even question if someone ever loved you 😢

[@DelisileNgema]

i left 16 years ago even today he has never saw a reason to apologise if we did not have a daughter he wouldnt even exist in my life but because of her i try to be civil

[@NtobekoSoyamba-kp3sl]

I will also keep her in my prayers because I was kicked out my home by my husband and his mom last year. I'm unemployed and had to move back home with 2 kid's. I've had to start from 0 zero!!! I keep going because of GOD and children.

[@ndileka216]

Wishing you the best ❤

[@angypapa2191]

Trust God everything will be ok

[@InnocentiaMotaung]

Sending love😢❤ I pray you get a job🙏

[@katlin1615]

Why is thqt house still standing? 🔥🔥

[@godsfavouritedaughter3476]

Yoh, I saw my mother in law do this to my husband's brother's wife. So bad and the husband was like he never knew her, just kept quiet 😢. So sad. She also don't like me😊

[@NqakalaS]

Used to work with her, what a humble Nurse and human being, always loving and friendly, used to see the husband fetching her and you could see his a jealous boy friend by then and that how you see that a man is a naughty person in most cases. God bless her and heal her broken heart.

[@mariont2961]

Rule number 5: *Never love too deeply until you make sure that the other person loves you with the same depth. The depth of your love today is the depth of your wound tomorrow*

[@godfreykhoza8770]

It was her first love, thats where the problem was. Women always stay for things because they love the first boyfriend with everything. Especially when there's kids involved

[@sanuranassoro7660]

Period!!! 👏🏼👏🏼

[@oumzin6541]

lol but love is hard to quantify. And sometimes our heart breaks as a result of our trauma. We may be loving from a place of trauma therefore not loving ourselves. I’ve never seen somebody successfully managing how much or how little they love.

[@kgadiaphane177]

A man can destroy you more than the devil can😢

[@nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035]

Yey say that again atleast we know the devil and snake can harm us but human beings. I fear.

[@kgadiaphane177]

@@nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035 too bad. Extremely bad.

[@hildadavids217]

Men can be very cruel, love yourself. Be selfish, I went through this hell, 40 years ago. Go to church, God carried me all these years. I have 2 sons who are young adults now. God will carry you through all this, you just need to down grade. The children grow so fast. Thank God that you have a job and support. He will get his day, karma never forgets the address. Strength to you my sister.

[@zoliswangqiniso6584]

Yrue

[@kedibonethatelo9809]

​@kgadiaphane177 some people are so evil 😢

[@simangelenyanda5158]

For 4 years you supported him and never once called him a parasite. I am so mad on your behalf! Love and light to you, your kids and your sisters. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@avuazahc1966]

Partners dont call each other parasites, thats rude of you

[@mologadi-acceptedinthebelo2923]

She was married to her enemy 😢😢😢

[@vbling1881]

Exactly

[@Hlangothi25]

Deep.

[@tee9828]

Women tend to be more attached to men who are toxic to them. Ya'll get bored with good guys

[@dunisaniirvinmaluleke4703]

You are very right

[@victorpoya]

The number one Narcissists enabler is the mother for a son.

[@innocentmashaba9925]

Exactly

[@tee9828]

Its actually the woman in the relationship with the narcissist whom is the enabler

[@londiwemkhize1377]

Worst ppl ever those ones biggest enablers of chauviniztic behavior... Mncmm

[@ThatoNtshingila-v3m]

An asshole if note

[@DineoP.Malope]

6jl.6u

[@kefentsemamabolo5520]

I feel like the lady is as powerful as madam speaker ❤❤....2 beautiful ladies in one room

[@Moyana-b3e]

This lady is well spoken,and so beautiful.May the lord see her through.

[@YoandaNet]

I went to the same primary with her, she was and still is a very calm person, hugs babes🫂🫂🫂

[@madams___speaker]

❤❤❤

[@kedibonethatelo9809]

She is so down to earth,I don't know her, but I love her energy ❤😊

[@moeledikgale2493]

Yohh I found myself crying at the end when she said "I don't know what I did to him so bad". You didn't do anything Asi, that man never loved you and hence the horrible treatment. He loved the idea of the comfortable life he had, just not with you. You are going to be fine with the kids, oska wara. God will definitely see you through this storm. He's going to change those lemons you sucked all this years into a sweet lemonade. Trust in Him, O tla bona. All the love to you and the kids sisi❤️❤️❤️

[@greatergodage5219]

"I don't know what I did to him so bad" I will tell you. You cheated by taking revenge. You made yourself something that is like him. You demeaned yourself. You showed that you're not better than him, that the two of you are the same kind of human beings: untrustworthy, uncommitted, gutter people. He sleeps with his niece and other women and looks in the mirror and doesn't like the man he sees. Now he looks at you and sees himself: the person he is running away from. You are not better than him. My take: Do not let anyone make you what you are not. Always maintain your standard and integrity because in the end they will speak for you. Even if they parted ways, he would have so much respect for her because she is a better person, and would try to please her from a distance. See how a 3 months fling brought the lowest points in her life to the whole world, crying on camera. That's lower than lowest. Not that it matters in this age and time, men have evolved (I dare say genetically evolved) to look for and stay with a woman who is a better person than he is. He wants that to rub off on him.

[@lavjamsoflocamp]

He is a narcissist off the mom

[@theemapsmash]

​​@@greatergodage5219🎯🎯🎯 truth of the truths, as a woman you don't cheat on a man, they don't want that, if they claim to forgive you, they'll frustrate u coz it's not his nature to forgive a lady Fr cheating(it destroys his ego) hence the abuse nd him wanting a DNA test. A woman's biggest protection is fidelity, no man can tell you sh*t if you've always be loyal to him and he can literally do anything fr you.

[@charmainemathe2194]

My dad did the same thing to my mom,left her with 3 children and we had to go back to Riverpark. It was hard to downgrade but we survived. You will be fine 🫂

[@sholasholknb9199]

You are sweet

[@nyangomapamella9517]

Downgrading is a bold step towards moving on.

[@mayedwathandeka-jw3iq]

I can relate.🫂

[@thenamakays6871]

If theres a Podcaster who knows how to ask relevant questions ... Madam Speaker! 🎉🎉

[@madams___speaker]

Thank you so much

[@ntoshkondilathi3865]

You are not alone cc, I was left with three children as an Intern then with no shelter but now God blessed me. Cry to God to carry you through

[@allthingsluxury6877]

Thank you for sharing ❤ I don't feel any guilt of not wanting children in this marriage

[@fionagilchrist7907]

Esnath you are a very strong young lady this will come to pass God is with you His light will shine upon you

[@evismbofana6002]

This lady has opened a lot of wounds for other women. Story of my life. Stay strong sis.❤❤

[@suigeneris5193]

That man should not be trusted around minors, he’s a predator

[@preciousdaniels5717]

He must get arrested just like this pastor who is trending!! Yooo plus he is not supporting the children.

[@robbylebotha]

Trust, ne he needs be be charged and arrested.

[@jospatmutandwa6636]

Don't trust one side of a story next time

[@janicebenson526]

@@jospatmutandwa6636What could she have done for a man to sleep with a minor, he's a predator.

[@ivyachola5210]

My cousin's husband tried to get me to bed with him. He was totally pants down and I refused. Thank God for that.

[@theresaphooko3594]

That niece of your will never have it all, Be grateful that u got out alive, some dey don't get de chance see another day or even raise their kids...u are a very brave and strong women.

[@esmert1622]

I learned the fact that we shouodn’t ignore red flags from the beginning

[@candy23451]

It hard to do when u are loving tht person

[@tlhogid663]

Me too

[@NdaizeleSebabili]

While watching, at some point I started jubilating because I could see that wena Asnath, you, are the hero of all the times. Continue praying, continue being strong, continue the fight at the forefront. Our good Lord Jesus Christ will never leave you. Very soon, I repeat very soon some people somewhere will openly envy you. You are blessed. You have your family that loved you even before the foundation of the earth was laid down and on top of aaall these, you have Jesus. You children are the everlasting blessing. LOTS AND LOTS OF LOVE FROM TANZANIA!

[@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369]

I love her, such a great story teller and she is so beautiful. I am glued.

[@madams___speaker]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@nezisanogumla9730]

I love her, she’s fun 😅and jolly

[@MelcahBoshielo]

you can say it again.shes pretty

[@ntombizethukhumalo-bo3xd]

Very beautiful

[@ntombizonkentuli3770]

Take Him to court. He must deal with the law.

[@candy23451]

Tht what am thinking

[@luciossithole5487]

How? Please elaborate

[@VeliswaMa]

I am in a very similar situation. These podcasts are my therapy. On the part that breaks Asnath about the man severing ties with his children in every form, I can identify. It used to make me ask myself questions to which I didn't have answers until one day I came across this quote. " A narcissist will never co-parent with you. They will counter parent. They don't care about the emotional damage that the constant drama inflicts upon the children as long as it causes emotional drama to you."

[@sinedladla1955]

This is wise!!

[@ntshengedzeninetshilindi2561]

Hi Asnath, the word of God says “a living dog is better than a dead lion” as long as you are still alive nwana wa hashu,something great will come out from you. Keep on praying for the Almighty God to strengthen you and live for your children. I will also put you in my prayer. With God everything is possible. There is still hope

[@naturalbeauty8041]

How can the niece be blamed when she was a CHILD? This man took advantage of her. He was responsible not the niece. 😢 Sad

[@retsebilemalele1715]

I'm suprised people keep saying a affair, sounds like rape

[@naturalbeauty8041]

@@retsebilemalele1715 Exactly 💯

[@KamoheloSehloho-go1yw]

It's wanting someone's life that lead people to and young woman to a devil's world. She wanted her Aunties life.

[@angiebaks2859]

She should have said something.. not innocent here. What is the worst that could have happened to her to speak out??!!

[@refmokobe7698]

​@@angiebaks2859She wanted her aunties life

[@LesegoMakhafola-24]

As young man I'm really disappointed💔for what our brothers are teaching us.. I can see now that our brothers are cowards and selfish🚮what shame as man.

[@busisiwemichelle5391]

You can say that again they are even showing their sons so it's a never ending cycle

[@LesegoMakhafola-24]

@@busisiwemichelle5391how can u jss leave ur children jst like that..

[@Savebygrace-it]

Noble young man. Learn and choose the right woman do the right thing and respect your family. Keep it up❤❤❤

[@sihlendwandwe5777]

I feel like the mother is the cause of all this chaos

[@LuckyJudaz]

​@@sihlendwandwe5777everything is blamed on women 😢 we're even used to that now

[@Iam_Nelisa]

I’m watching in my TV but I needed to come here and like this video, the host is an angel for allowing her guests to speak!

[@thonkhaPatricia]

Red flags were even dripping blood but she just kept going.loving someone is a complicated matter.😮

[@robbylebotha]

Dont forget she threw bricks in cars and nearly killed a dog out of anger. And yall find it funny

[@candy23451]

Patricia.. very true

[@annmaryjoseph879]

@@robbylebotha At least she admitted she did but check yourself. Are you one of those prideful men who treat women with such disgrace or commit sins too shameful to even talk about but here trying to put down a woman who lashed back at those who wrongly and wickedly hurt her?

[@Lelough_]

When do these people with so much love give this same love to themselves?

[@daisyfleming886]

A man like that should not be trust with children be very careful be strong for your children

[@nyeletiabquddes4624]

I was going to say the same thing, what he did to her niece is rape since she was still a minor. He took advantage of her, her niece is like her own child. What is stopping him from doing the same to his kids.

[@SarahAnenorwot-d1g]

Exactly what I thought.

[@Naledi_Matsane]

Love and light to you mama🙏🏾🙏🏾 …my biggest takeaway from this is as women we need to learn to love ourselves and take accountability for the role we play in our own suffering

[@gugukhumalo9313]

"take accountability for the role we play in our own suffering..."

[@ShielaNetshandama]

U actually took me back and u know what!! After all the struggle and the pain ,I achieved so much in my life after the divorce and I know u going to make it,with God by your side.Keep on praying,prayer is so powerful and will pray for u aswell My dear,so touched,your kids and yourself don't deserve all of that.

[@karaboramadie1713]

I have a son and i pray for wisdom to raise a better man😢....may i be a truthful mom and never allow my son to destroy another woman's daughter ❤ You are beautiful and u will heal trust me😊..... But yoooo this is painful 😣

[@angelsotsaka1716]

I know her very well she's a nurse from the clinic I used to attend while I was pregnant so humble

[@GeminiJune0608]

This woman is strong. She did not cry all thru her story, only whn she talked about her kids, she lost it. Now thats being a woman. I really love the advice given by the host. Madam Speaker you are wise❤. I was told i was not the 1st and the last woman to start from scratch. Women hv been doing it. Asnathi is going to make❤

[@yuptaliv]

Self esteem and self respect is so very important in this life. Being so desperate for love wont get you anywhere in this life.

[@lifewithtshidiedza381]

The marriage should have been never took place😢

[@MMAJWALASOOTHO]

It's late for that

[@lifewithtshidiedza381]

@@MMAJWALASOOTHO We know We are just saying the facts

[@Lelough_]

She forced it and she got what wanted, a HUSBAND

[@lifewithtshidiedza381]

@@Lelough_ true😔

[@LethoHali]

Sis! Gather up strength to go to family court! God is with you. He will NEVER leave you nor forsake you!

[@dimphogift3747]

Madam speaker those words of encouragement at the end was something else❤you deserve your flowers girl

[@zandilealvinah4644]

The way i was laughing when she narrates her story, at the end i was crying... I love you Asnath❤

[@gabsileathalia3935]

Bro🥹🥹 same here man u know all this time ngithi she’s strong but eix💔💔💔

[@mphohappiness1736]

God is nooot a fool. We will all pay for the things we do to people. I love that the mother in law has daughters. That's exactly where the karma will hit her. God will pull through for you mama. Your kids' tears will find justice my dear. You are still young.

[@osheimohmagdalene7548]

So touching, God will take care of you and the children. He'll come back begging but it will be too late. You deserve a better life and family for the kids. God bless u

[@jackienyemba4748]

OMG, this made me cry like a baby. This is an emotional roller coaster. I went through almost the same scenario.

[@tertiat]

Why is he not paying child support, take him to court. Fight for a better life for your kids, he can't be enjoying life & the children are suffering.

[@candy23451]

Yebo

[@sinedladla1955]

Madam Speaker!!! Here here!! I felt it when you held her hand in yours. We cannot give up. Some of us are cutting and chopping through. This man will suffer!! Do not worry Asnathi!!!

[@YoandaNet]

Women go through alot, we are lovers by nature, we give in... This remind me of me relocating to where my boyfriend was and the first message I receive when I landed to where he was, was that it won't work😂😂😂😂🤦 imagine he was supposed to pick me up 🤭 you will heal my dear, you will be okay🥰🥰 his day is coming 🌹 stay strong and love yourself whole heartedly

[@nelliedejager9553]

Wow...such a beautiful articulated lady...you are wise and knowledgeable beyong your years..stay strong...you'll rise from ashes...you saved your kids by moving out of that house so you can reach your destiny..now is your time to rise...go and make the world a better place..you have soo much to offer..great lady..you are going to make it big out there ..God bless ...praying for you.

[@dineochokoe9532]

I love the fact that she has her lovely and supportive sisters❤oh my God I can imagine the love. That's what gives her more strength. I wish I had one like hers. Take heart sisi nxase❤❤❤

[@NatashaDawson-gg9rf]

Us as mothers needs to teach our daughters that men are not nice or good human beings there for be independent....work for yourself....love yourself and by all means love yourself first.....I pray that God will hold your hand and guide you at all times my love ❤ you're a strong beautiful woman ❤love you and keep well my darling ❤

[@thenkaliway85]

At 1h15min, she mentioned she doesn’t go to church but she prays now… I recommend to start attending church and find comfort in the community. It helps

[@hildakgodu5796]

A lot GOD will heal her and she and her kids will be just fine 😢

[@Ameerah07]

Chruch is toxic Do u think if she was in a chruch community they would advise her not to leave?

[@overstandself9954]

I dont think church helps with most matters. It's kinda like family. You will be lucky to get help without being a hot topic of some sort.

[@sparkle257]

Let her do what works for her. Church is not always the solution.

[@bwari01]

Church is where they laugh at women who are divorced. Church is where women are manipulated to stay in abusive relationships while praying for men who are not praying for themselves.

[@thandomanana293]

I've lost count of how many times I watched this episode bathong this lady is so smart and outspoken I love her❤

[@sajobleads]

The niece was just a baby💔 I’m asking myself if he can be trusted with his own daughters 🥴

[@naturalbeauty8041]

I was just thinking the same. How can the niece be blamed when she was a CHILD when this man took advantage of her. He was responsible not the niece. 😢 Sad

[@ntombidlangalala3298]

Actually this was child abuse . Her husband sexually molested this child . This is so sad for the niece , the poor girl was raped at such a young age . May God help the niece and heal her .

[@mbalimthimunye]

Yes the baby was groomed 😭😭

[@rikavandenberg6874]

The mother in law has always hated you. Don't stress about regrets it's made you a stronger woman and mum. The mental abuse has been crazy from the start. All you did was love an unlovable selfish cheat. Don't blame yourself. Your children are your blessings, and they will make you proud. Trust God trust what is happening

[@hlulaninohlahla]

The puppy part made me laugh so hard and stopped sympathising 😂😂😂😂 but when she continued from there she made me cry 😢😢God restore the years that the locusts has stolen from her like you did Joel 2 :20 -22

[@kgomotsomaleme1320]

The puppy situation made me laugh too😂

[@Bessie-ff7rs]

He even robbed the children of health insurance wow!!

[@phindileforbeskhumalo2571]

I highly recommend church my sister, a community of believers that will walk this journey with you and help you carry the cross. I wish you and your children healing!

[@Vhuhwavho_mul]

True

[@phindileforbeskhumalo2571]

Just to add my sister, please make it a point to forgive your ex husband. It might be difficult but ask God for strength to forgive him so that you can succeed in your ways. God has a beautiful plan for you my sister and this is not the end of your story!

[@prettyserakoana6723]

The consequences of our youth. The selfishness of men. The fact that a man can hate you and still marry you. The fact that a man can leave you high and dry and decide to start a whole new life. Toxicity of in laws. Yoh kuningi. I hope she heals 😢

[@theemapsmash]

I sympathize with what she's going thru but let's not forget she also cheated, men don't take cheating lightly. Yes he cheated but a man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating( we are not the same nd we've been taught this guys). Men can cheat but he still has his main in his heart. The man loved her but he also messed up by not respecting her enough but she also messed up by cheating. Our fidelity as women is our biggest protection.

[@kgadiaphane177]

I love how u held her hand madam 😭

[@b_mandisa8560]

I cried 🥹

[@careerjungle739]

As a man I really don't understand men who abandon their children, even when you don't get along with their mother, you must always support and be there for your kids. It's a shame that there are men who do not want to be part of their children's lives while the mothers desperately want them to be involved in their children's lives. There's men out there who are fighting to be in their children's lives but they are denied that right nxa.

[@ingridphillip5367]

This story is just wrong on every level! She ignored all of his red flags. I thank God she was able to get out of this nightmare, she’s beautiful and I know that God Will restore everything that happened to her🌻💕🙏

[@sifisosithole9631]

The relationship was just a red flag as a whole

[@nomthanxumalo8392]

My sister I’ve been there keep pushing one day you’ll look back and say it can only be God,indeed you are not alone and you are loved❤️❤️❤️

[@sulezinyembezigqeba]

The best guest ever, the Pablo part killed me 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm sorry about her marriage though❤

[@floydvukeya8664]

😂😂😂 Pablo was just at wrong place at the wrong time.

[@hellenmolapo348]

She's still in so much pain, you will heal eventually God bless you.

[@tebogonemakhavhani3884]

😭😭😭😭😪😪😪Yooh I hope this guy never finds peace sham cause it’s sick that he is out there having the time of his life while 4 people are suffering cause of him 😢Yooh I pray this lady finds peace and the strength to conquer this hey.

[@enthierm3658]

Trust me... It will start with him loosing his job... Then he will remember he has a family...

[@BLewanika]

Sis 😰

[@olgakwennie3905]

I want to hear your story after 5 years again.. You are strong woman I know this too shall pass and you will prosper.. Revenge with success, start them make up companies and cook as much as you can and others, you got this..Keep on praying too, even harder. Woman you are a super hero..❤❤❤

[@madialemotsiri586]

I suspect the mother is behind him moving on, karma is relocating him, watch de space.

[@kopanomoabelo7609]

Definitely the mother

[@bakibaki5475]

True

[@MissBonoloOabile]

This was my suspension as well. A very horrible mother of tou ask me.

[@katlin1615]

Definitely

[@francinantombi6923]

Yes de mother in law knows a lot,she's not enough with the husband but y is she doing ths to his son

[@Savebygrace-it]

I am crying with this lady. Saw all the red flags and stayed but got discarded in the end. lts very sad. Let's put ourselves first ladies ❤❤

[@nozukojoseph2214]

A man that you've love your whole life will wreck you especially if that was your 1st love. What makes things worse is you persevering in the hope that "things will get better". You work your butt off building a family, you love him, his parents, siblings & relatives more than your own. Every affair you find out about, you forgive & soon another will surface. Unfortunately, (as much as everyone will be trying to convince you that this is not working) it is only you that will make a decision to leave. You definitely will cry for a long time BUT time will come whereby you'll be narrating the story as if it happened to someone else. At that time you'll be saying "Thanks God for taking me out of that". As a mother you have no choice but to be strong for your kids. Channel all that love to them & only them. ❤❤❤❤

[@NomsaDube-v6f]

Ausi sorry about the abuse atleast you are privilege to have a job you are able to take care of your children and remove you and the children from that toxic life some of us are not that fortunate we have to stay in the abuse situation because being jobless 😢we wish to get out but we can't, I congratulate you for doing it for you and your children

[@thatssozimbo]

Madam Speaker that monologue at the end, I cried😢😢

[@zoliswangqiniso6584]

She is a very strong woman you will pull through, I've been there when people said you will be fine Time heals i thought they were buying my face ,but here i am today Im fine staying with my 3 kids it's not easy but kuyenzeka.wish you all the best

[@Boity_Lehihi]

She is a funny story teller, a brave woman, until she breaks down for her kids😭😭😭 God is with you Asnath❤❤you will be fine

[@marciamasemola8262]

I love the fact that you just let her narrate her story and didn't interrupt her... Her story is painful and I pray that God meets her at her point of need

[@Yoza1113]

😂😂😂😂Pablo oh my God i love your guest she is a good story teller Very sad story though very touching the kids will be fine my ccta must go for mantainance

[@tumi2610]

😂😂😂Pablo ke stress, Her story telling is on another level.

[@leboganglekgoathi1560]

Not pablo catching the smoke 😂😂😂😂

[@tumi2610]

@@leboganglekgoathi1560 😂😂😂Where was he going le yena

[@mahlodinorah487]

They actually love us to our death, nothing else. Too many of our sisters died bcos of the phrase "I Love You". They died, they hv bn buried. Be strong my sis, life will work itself out while they are growing up. As for stock-sweet, those who has it in their mouth forget that it's getting finished. I promise you, one day will be one day.

[@maryanderson73]

This woman has beautiful skin and smile. This life is hard for many people through no fault of their own. God bless Madam Speaker! 🙏🙏🙏

[@ntsakisimashele7905]

Salute Madam Speaker. If my sisters keeper was a person. You are doing the most my love. Thank you Sesi ❤️

[@MusaMphahlele]

Asnath I love you. I'm proud of you. I wish we can meet. During my interview with madam Speaker, I've realized that I really needed to speak about things I've went through. And after the podcast shooting I felt a sense of relief that I've never felt before. Yes I received negative comments from our fellow woman, but that made me even stronger. Madam Speaker you're doing a very great and excellent job by inviting woman we can relate too. May God give you strength not to get tired. See you at Soweto theatre ❤️❤️❤️

[@Asnathmatheba]

How do i get hold of you

[@isobelndoro]

I am so sorry. I saw your interview, Musa. May God bless you and your children

[@isobelndoro]

​@@Asnathmatheba Thank you for sharing . May God bless you and your children

[@Ntando-cw1uq]

​@@Asnathmatheba❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@SizakheleChabangu]

@Asnathmatheba ❤❤❤

[@joycendamase2645]

I wish we can have a prayer group composed of women like Asnath.

[@josephinekasolekani8004]

Am in

[@SindisiweMalinga-n7q]

You will do this life gal. Some of us are trying to rebuild again after being in similar situations like yours. Trust me you will get through this. Strength to you. You are in our prayers 🙏🏾

[@amazetimbane]

Such a good story teller ..was so glued to the way she does her expession sounds "the mmhhh" "Haaaa" "Okay" I love Asnathi❤❤ ..... She carries such a presence 😊😊

[@oliviajoans]

Can we talk about how that men groomed the niece 😭

[@-Natefo-]

Danko

[@TimMacquire]

He is so conniving

[@ElethuDuna]

Dude. He is a pedophile. She must have been 14/15 years old. If I was the mother of the child I would have reported him for statutory rape.

[@qn7403]

She needs therapy that poor girl

[@maipelobaliki8382]

Kante why can’t they press charges coz the abuse stated way back

[@lebolenepa8266]

There’s nothing wrong with starting over and kids need a happy home, they don’t care about fancy materialistic stuff. Mother’s love goes the long way. You will get through it ❤.

[@Funeral1000]

The education in this channel is loaded.

[@NomthethoZozi]

My sister you've done your best The time is yours now just love yourself and love your kids and don't judge yourself just pray and know that man doesn't deserve someone like you ,we are all being abused by these people that we thought they love us

[@NonhlanhlaSijiyo]

Couldn't wait to hear this story. I think he is bitter cos he never thought you would eventually burst him. Kerp strong gal. God will heal you

[@buyijoydlamini6340]

Asnathi, please go to Maintenance Court; you don’t need a lawyer. That money will come straight from his salary before it goes into his account. All the best and may God heal and uplift you ❤

[@xhosa789]

You remind me of me. Mama you need to get to a point where you realise its just you now, you are not alone however when it comes to those kids... its just you. Don't aak him for anything, he enjoys hearing your pain. Do what you can and let God do the rest. It sounds like you have an amazing support system and that is beautiful. I pray nothing comes between you and those who love you. that team behind you will grow and flourish with you

[@buhlebethumsomi1642]

When u said the youngest could notice u were not ok. As a mom this made me realize It's better I leave now, 1 baby, my career just starting out, so that I am a happy and a healthy mom for my son❤❤❤ aaaarh as a mom I am soooo sorry u had to go through this. You can start over and be the best version of urself as an independent woman, mom❤

[@Sesi_Nano]

Bathong! The dog part😂😂😂

[@leratomotsomi]

Im just amazed as to how I relate to Asnath's story. Giving up is not an option Queen!!

[@emilykunene480]

You are alone, My ex went from an involved father to a non-existent father. Yesterday our 8-year-old was asking me what his father looks like. I showed him the picture of his father and the way my son looked at that Photo. Our Firstborn is 24, Middles 19 and the baby 8 and he has no contact and does not even maintain the two because the 19-year-old is in college. A lot of women are going through this pain.

[@LuyanduthandoSibisi]

madam speaker can really allow her guest to narrate their story i love it, also the lady is a very good story teller i listened from start to finish without skipping