I married my best friend of 14 years and I regret the years we spent together as a couple-Tuko Talks

[@Tuko]

Would you marry your best friend? Connect with Ruby here kzbin.info/door/6-A3Y7pi0StY6S-SdX7u3A To share your story on Tuko Talks, send an email to [e-mail] or [e-mail] Thank you for watching, have a lovely weekend

[@reshyrhee51]

Thanks to Ruth may God continue blessing her

[@phamineserica]

Am just here rolling my eyes😂😂😂😂😂coz am dating my best friend 🏃🏃🏃🏃

[@Remodaniels]

@@phamineserica me too lol

[@bettyshii706]

No I would feel like I'm dating my brother

[@blessedmama5367]

Nope ! I wouldn't be happy to know that he has been seeing mead a woman not a person .

[@ireneatuke1581]

Team single with no stress weka like ukipita

[@evanatukunda2538]

This is painful. I pray 🙏God gives you the strength 💪and the healing hand over your baby 👶

[@ireneatuke1581]

@@evanatukunda2538 Amen

[@fl0rencemutuku40]

🙈🙈🙈Sometimes I just ask myself more questions than answers

[@Mindful_Mm]

@@fl0rencemutuku40 why? 😅

[@chntymnemo3964]

@@fl0rencemutuku40 on my side I'm stressed more because I work had but still I cannot do the best for my Kids💔

[@iamrubyandrew5043]

Thank you everyone for your kind word's. It's very encouraging. You give me strength

[@mswaithera5307]

Anytime girl🥰such a lovely soul.

[@whatagoal8115]

Hello Ruby take heart my dear you an amazing soul indeed you are heading new heights, I have a question for you how can I find you?

[@paulinenyambeki7788]

Ekiababa be strong for the sake of your kid,This son's of pharaoh wako everywhere.

[@amoskipkorir824]

Be strong my sister, it's well

[@Mo-kei-rah]

It is well vava, things happen in life with a reason. God is with you and your Adorable baby

[@lovethildah7340]

I'm I the only one who finds her kid Adorable 🥰🥰? Every kid with disability is a special blessing from God,, their lives matters💪💪

[@mumcounty]

Hoo yes , I have a son.who is physically challenged and God has blessed me alot through his prayers

[@iamrubyandrew5043]

@@mumcounty you're not alone my love

[@paulinenyambeki7788]

Kwani Lynn mliambiana outfit of a day. Likes za Lynn tukiendanga for the great work.

[@iamrubyandrew5043]

Lol😂

[@annblessing5585]

By the way outfit

[@ريتال-ز2س]

Yeah they look beautiful in same same outfit

[@kaytewambo3151]

People hide so much while dating when you get married now you start seeing everything slowly by slowly....dating long doesn't mean you know the person well

[@mercynyawira5719]

That true

[@Misstrendylocks]

True

[@mercedes-benzbentleyranger1070]

How can someone pretend like that???!!! Even an entire relationship they can pretend everything. Isn't it draining???

[@emiejacktv2889]

True!

[@lite-ck5mj]

Woiiii soo true I have first hand experience... You can't know everything in a coffee date aki

[@phoebenyanje6931]

For the first time seeing someone from Us 🇺🇸, very simple, humble, polite with normal English. God bless you n your baby🙏 ❤

[@iamrubyandrew5043]

😂😂😂 English tungejulia wapi tukiwa indoors

[@hellenkeesha4393]

@@iamrubyandrew5043 I am impressed as well,, people go there and fake accents yet when white people don't change theirs when they come here.Ruby you are so strong,God bless you and may his favor always be with you and your daughter.

[@getinspiredfeelmotivated]

Hukuona mercy atis?

[@THEGOAT03655]

@@iamrubyandrew5043 lol

[@susanathiei4985]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Wakinyua]

Narcissists are like brothers...all Stories I hear about them are alike.

[@pendoonyango6676]

For sure don't judge any woman who left her home to stay alone ,we go thru a lot some we don't say ,pipo are out there ready to judge and insult us without knowing what really inspired .May God give all single mothers strength to move on n way to provide for our kids n ourselves .Hugs dear God has a better plan for both of u .

[@marymusyoki2045]

Pendo I love your comments. Tumekiona and that's why one makes a way forward decision.

[@pendoonyango6676]

@@marymusyoki2045 Absolutely dear

[@hairdoctorsalon1780]

Amen

[@DrMaryMugo]

Hapo anaacha yeye akiwa mgojwa wanalala kwa floor na mtoi I couldn't help shed a tear.If you have faith let's lay hands on this child and she will be healed.

[@fiderismwenderichard9788]

Who noticed they are matching, the outfits zimeweza

[@Nyar-Karateng_TV]

Haha

[@naomogwangi9843]

kwani wali dress pamoja

[@fiderismwenderichard9788]

@@naomogwangi9843 ni kama

[@zipporah.5714]

Hahaha 🤣 you are funny.

[@fiderismwenderichard9788]

@@zipporah.5714 really?

[@christinelihavi7714]

Only God knows our lives wapiii likes za Lynn na guest for matching clothes

[@gracenazi9724]

Never quit your personal goals for a man...that screams trouble

[@GO-wr3de]

Likewise for mean too...🤨ask me

[@winniegathura3377]

Marriage only works if both parties have the intention that it should work. Lately, it’s a whole different story. Pride, ego, paranoid partners etc. Marriage should be a humble institution but it’s no longer that.

[@maranguhillssecschool9094]

Exactly Winnie

[@fredrickkoech8396]

Mm

[@delphnwach2950]

This gal was my primary school classmate n friend..Ruth Bosibori😍God will see you through.

[@mamanyamiraKemmy2027]

Yes her names are Ruth Bosibori Omari.

[@estheresther8090]

Keep praying for the baby too..I believe God can heal her completely...fasting and prayers works

[@123keniakiki]

🤣🤣🤣prayers & fasting hasn’t worked for covid19.

[@lbelieveinjesus6198]

@@123keniakiki have you got it yet or lost a loved one? Maybe someone's prayers has kept you could be your parents prayers or siblings or God's grace has kept you dear, please, have an attitude of gratitude

[@FavouredEunice.]

@@lbelieveinjesus6198 so true. Mostly our parents back at home pray for us every single minute. Huyu hajui anachosema

[@estheresther8090]

@@FavouredEunice. some People dont know they stand because of someone in the family Praying for them...life is spiritual, nothing just happens

[@ريتال-ز2س]

​@@123keniakikiwe kwenda

[@MishenOnMission]

Things went wrong when she left her life back and started living somebody's life (school and work) . Again hi anxiety ya kwenda USA is bad.. if he was a true friend and a good future man... He could be petient afanye exams then transition ya kwenda US ikuwea open and clear. Anyway pole Ruth... If the road could only talk. It could have told you what the future holds.

[@rkim3928]

I think a controller will be one whether in Kenya or the US. A man who doesn’t want his partner to better herself is insecure, regardless of geography.

[@immanyathira6828]

MARRY YOUR GOD ORDAINED HUSBAND:HII MAMBO YA BEST FRIEND NI KUTUPA...RAFIKI WA KWELI NI YESU..

[@stanleywanjiru6556]

How do you know who's God ordained?

[@immanyathira6828]

@@stanleywanjiru6556 the spirit never deceives, you will always see red, yellow or green flags,,kaa macho

[@manchesterunitedakamrtread8317]

Those are the worst

[@janemwaura3319]

@@immanyathira6828 am leaning towards that and full discernment coz nowadays fake is allover

[@ambersmith7741]

@@stanleywanjiru6556 God Doesn't Speak Much but Answer Much Many do people do their own Will But not the Will Of God Jeremiah 29 says When you call out to me and come to me in prayer, I will hear your prayers. When you seek me in prayer and worship, you will find me available to you. If you seek me with all your heart and soul, 14 I will make myself available to you,’ says the Lord.

[@lucywangari6764]

Getting married nowadays is like adding a problem in your life.Naishi single roho Safi.

[@mercynjogu4027]

Volume

[@auntiemylee3157]

Ongeza volume

[@nyongesassafespacenss3518]

So true.personally even a guy just saying hi to me irritates me.

[@allan4528]

Who hurt you, guys.

[@Wakinyua]

Not always

[@stellahmarriswambuwah9919]

THERE IS SOMETHING WORSE THAN BEING SINGLE!!!MARRING THE WRONG PARTNER🔥🔥🔥

[@pattiwanyeki436]

Well said

[@veronicamakokha4992]

😭😭😭😭

[@stellamwali6264]

Correct

[@hairdoctorsalon1780]

Point

[@LindaTinahTV]

The red flags, the red flags, the red flags, we always ignore them thinking it's going to be different for us.

[@paulinekimanja8177]

True

[@mwindanji6714]

Very true. If you cant stand something about your partner, find another. A leopard does not change his (or her) spots.

[@ndutak5690]

True...we ignore red flags for red roses.. im 30 years old and very okay being single, yes it sometimes sucks cause I want to get married and have kids, but I'm patiently waiting.

[@ريتال-ز2س]

​@@ndutak5690me too dear am afraid of getting into marriage

[@nimuyreemu3723]

Am happy the baby is a US CITIZEN.....her medical future is in good care

[@dorenmiramar4597]

Not necessarily as a black child it's bleak in the white pple land

[@mumbualove]

There's no universal healthcare in the US.

[@julielilote3496]

@@dorenmiramar4597 Not in France and Germany we have universal health care which free but pay through taxes. My kids are Germans,i am a french citizen. We have better health care than Germany.

[@abedi6088]

Take heart..People do change but God never changes..When people turn their backs on you, remember the Creator can never leave you..May your sorrows turn to Joy and happiness

[@wlkmwlkm3381]

Exactly

[@thecomingmessiah7886]

Absolutely

[@thecomingmessiah7886]

Absolutely

[@Sunshine-h7c]

Imagine going through all this in foreign land alone 🤦🏾‍♀️God is your strength Ruth all will be well....

[@marywathoni901]

Shes so beautiful , calm n composed thanks Lyne

[@catherinemutune661]

Ruth's story with her daughter reminds me of my princess. Taking care of a special needs child is no joke. Its physically and emotionally draining, not forgetting financially. You get to a point you become numb. All those feeding tubes, therapies, medication (as was our case). A break like Ruth is taking is very important otherwise you can run mad. I thank God for giving my husband and I the grace and strength to take care of her for the 6 years he blessed her with. Losing her in 2018 was so painful but with God the journey becomes bearable. Those souls are so beautiful.

[@jenipherachieng9837]

One thing I've learnt about this stories za marriage; 1.Never leave your career to go settle unless you know you have a back up plan. 2.Joint account is okay but as a lady have your own backup account just incase. 3.Dont leave school so that you can get married utalilia kwa choo. And above all mothers going through such situations may God restore everything thats lost and Happy Mothers day in advance,we love you and cherish you.

[@victorioussuestar3131]

Learnt this first hand Noone should give up their life for marriage,everything should continue be it work, studies.....

[@jenipherachieng9837]

@@victorioussuestar3131 true

[@roselinechuku4010]

Exactly. These points are what I live my life by.

[@krystynaha2455]

I want to be strong like ruth and other women who are father and mother to their children.....it's not easy but with God it's easier.

[@nyabokethehoneybee8912]

Amen

[@nancymusungu3703]

Same category

[@nyongesassafespacenss3518]

Thinking of being a single mom coz i can comfortable provide for a child...i just cant stomach men anymore

[@gracenzuki1298]

N may the Lord give us strength

[@liliannthenge8960]

You can do it.... trust in God always 💕

[@joskyshams4758]

Who has realized she don't tweng? Mwingine ameenda USIU juzi and we can't breathe.

[@setapartforhisglory1925]

🤣

[@bekaogoro7071]

😆

[@lilyanekageha6581]

Hahaha hiyo ni kali

[@lynnmdavid]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lydiakirigia8469]

Ukweli uwesi send ametoka uko....kiswahili pia ako sawa

[@aokookello5564]

When you are told marry your best friend, it doesn't mean someone you have known for a while, it simply means someone whom you date like friends.

[@daizymonnie9588]

Exactly

[@auntiemylee3157]

U r right

[@gracewambui6524]

Sasa we are told to marry our best friends ...then boom!!Ruth gives her story 😪😪😪

[@Gracia_Habibi]

I don't want to marry anymore I kif up

[@sarahngwono4511]

Everyone has a story, create yours and testify of its goodness

[@ruthkonana8795]

And we decided to go back to factory settings

[@rosemutua9761]

Dating or marrying us best friend is a suicide am a witness to this.

[@sultanmswahilitv4864]

Mtajua hamjui

[@perezali4651]

Kind of these things is why some of us are single. I don't understand why people hide their true character while dating, Ruth you are blessed in a special way the lord will see you through together with your baby mothers are special in the society let's us adore and celebrate 💖💖 💖 mothers outside there

[@CherieDeDieu]

There is something spiritual behind this. Pray, pray, pray....there is a reason God brought you to Kenya at this particular time.

[@emiejacktv2889]

Many women are going through really tough situations and are suffering in silence! I pray that we all find some respite, someway somehow... 🙏Happy mothers day to all our gallant women out there🌹❤️

[@narcissisticabuseawareness3607]

It’s sad!

[@nyongesassafespacenss3518]

sadly many wont walk out coz of what the society will think of them.Nothing as important in life like happiness and peace of mind

[@emiejacktv2889]

@@nyongesassafespacenss3518 hmm. Sad.. But really the ''how'' always, is the problem..

[@jamesg8286]

And men as well. They dont talk about it. I know so many

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Tough situations are not unique to women

[@Maryblessedgirl]

Be strong mama, he has a void in him and don't know what to do with himself to fill it in. Narcisitic people derive pleasure in hurting others. Jijenge mamii..

[@achiengcaroline5920]

I agree, all narcissists are climbing out of the woodworks. They are the devils children.

[@tenge529]

Most ladies pay attention to superficial attributes like height,whether he drives or not,etc instead of looking at the quys character and heart.

[@anitahdarling7233]

ladies learn to love yourself na kama it's not working just walk out. some marriages ni scam haki. God give you strength woishe Ruth and your baby is adorable. Doha mko well represented team hamam kama kawaa

[@rispathequeen]

Yes Doha🇶🇦🇰🇪

[@anitahdarling7233]

@@rispathequeen yes na tu nakazana tu

[@mbotemary1681]

Hapo kwa shule. I lost my man since i decided to go back to school and he was so insecure thinking naenda shugli zingine instead of him supporting me all he could do was oppress me and it got to a point i had to walk away. Ruth you're a strong lady may God bless you

[@lizmamaina8125]

Insecurity....will kill them....

[@chasingclouds7101]

Me too. He left because I went to do my masters. Saa hii niko PhD and going strong.

[@zuhurakinyanjui7731]

Why are men so jealous of women?

[@tenge529]

Most ladies pay attention to superficial attributes like height,whether he drives or not,etc instead of looking at the quys character and heart.

[@pamelaodede4957]

I left mine also in Europe because he didn’t even want me intergrate to a foreign language. This men who bring people to the world of milk and honey ni Narcissists.the different is he was not a best friend but a stranger.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Wewe uliendea pesa.. hiyo ndo shida. Yeye akaona wewe ni dependent, so anaku treat kama mtoto. That was part of the bargain when you enter such relationship. Hakuna cha bure

[@marykariuki7381]

Compare the healthcare systems in the US and Kenya. In Kenya I am sorry to say the baby would not be here today. And then getting some support to take care of a child with special needs in the USA compared to not getting any in Kenya. I feel sad at the state of healthcare in 🇰🇪

[@julietmutiso8091]

Imagine you call emergency and they respond in four minutes. Kenya is one for himself God for us all

[@marykariuki7381]

@@julietmutiso8091 I know... my cousin collapsed and died a few years ago. I always wonder if there was better healthcare she would have probably lived. It’s a sad state of affairs

[@esthergitau777]

I am also liking the fact that 911 responds that first 4 minutes!

[@marykariuki7381]

@@esthergitau777 nice 👍🏿

[@maryannekimani3748]

I have never heard about "shock" in Kenya u don't breath u r dead nothing more

[@jom.8938]

Maneno ya kuoa watu wa Diaspora- be very careful mtu ameka diaspora anakuja kenya anatafuta bibi ama bwana- trend carefully kwa sababu- when you are in Kenya you think kwenda majuu is the ultimate - your life will be made etc. BUT before I break your heart - 1. Never ever rush to marry someone who has lived in the diaspora esp.USA before you investigate vitu kwa ground- its so easy to love bomb from majuu - many are the exported spouses who are here crying, being treated like trash, isolated and humiliated. 2. Discuss in length vile utakuja kufanya- kama unapanga kwenda shule....discuss its possibilities before you even fly out of kenya and don't back down before you get to go to school. Keep your FOCUS and save yourself heartbreak. 3. Under no circumstances - get pregnant ***if you are stuck with an abusive or narcissistic person- they will torture you most when you are down plus adding a child to an already crazy situation is a no no. Listen some mad men will insist that wanachelewa and get their newly arrived wives 3 kids in 2 years- unajua this is suicidal in the diaspora- childcare is crazy, you are bound and isolated- some have commited suicide due to torture. So no pregnancy until you know your way around and make other friends. 4. Watch out for isolation- people don't want you to meet other Kenyans, start talking bad about anyone you talk too.....restricts your movements and/or your finances. Before you leave Kenya, make sure you know another kenyan number- it doesn't matter if they are your villagemates from the other ridge whom your mother knows. Get their # and as soon as you land call & say hie- you never know when you may need them or their input. You don't have to post anything on social media but anyone telling you to cut your social media etc- watch out. Best wishes

[@vivianmaina4515]

Out so true

[@sandratolle]

Everything you have written is spot on and so true. Those with ears will listen.

[@freeasabird5239]

That is my husband is one sentence. Thank God i took myself to school even though late than i had planned.,i understand his Narcissistic tactics.. Someone can trash you one second and love- bomb you when they need something (money) from you in the name of investment back home that are not even in his name. When i first came here (USA) mine used to call everyone that was close to me even his own family members, not to ever call me ...anyone that is willing and ready to orient me .I stayed for 6 months with no phone only landline ya nyumba. Hata nikitembea kwa street i can't call nobody.

[@jom.8938]

@@freeasabird5239 pole sana my dear. Let us educate our dear sisters at home......hawa diaspora fiance's na hata wazungu pia ni mtu awe macho. Wengine wamezunguka, ni ma alcoholics, hakuna mtu in diaspora in their right mind who can marry them- then wanaenda home kuchukua fiancé who is so in love (love bombing manenos & foolishly falling for "love is blind") mtu akifika 🇺🇸 blinders Zina anguka- ndio unajua even in your lowest ukiwa Kenya 🇰🇪 hungeongea na majamaa wengine, hujawai starve ama lala jaa.....imagine. Have heard of many stories in the states. Glad you survived

[@cheronolinet4160]

Now we can put this way,let people in Diaspora marry their own if they are kenyans let them marry themselves,and that's how they are doing nowdays since they complain bringing someone to U S A reaching here they start Drama 😅

[@teckie__songsofworship6680]

Ruth your kid is a blessing,may God locate destiny helpers to you.

[@iamrubyandrew5043]

😭😭😭 thank you

[@lucyjuliana7345]

@@iamrubyandrew5043 God bless you

[@itsdemidy5439]

DON'T GO INTO MARRIAGE GUYS. STAY SINGLE AND ENJOY LIFE BY YOURSELF. Am 26 yrs old Just got my first job as a lawyer 1 year ago in Nairobi.. i go to vacation alone and support my family home . Single and happy. I wish people could embrace single life.

[@christineatieno]

Le people try marriage life even for few months and find out what exactly it is. Give it a trial mamy

[@itsdemidy5439]

@@christineatieno my friend. Let me tell you. 7 out of 10 cases that we handle here in court every week is about MARRIAGE. people are really suffering in marriage..mostly women. I would advise people to first be stable financially before going into marriage. Or second best option is NEVER try Marriage. Look around you and judge by yourself... 80% to 90% of marriages are not happy so why should you get into one.

[@nimuyreemu3723]

@ITS DEMIDY very true...

[@geeglow8269]

@@christineatieno ndio mtu akufe na depression ama uuliwe

[@sarahraymond7719]

Me to i don't even wish to get married one day i don't even want to know how marriage life is let me enjoy my single life

[@Cheezyb34tz]

Pole sana! Nilipitia hayo yote kama wewe. The minute i walked out of the abuse, I got my life back na mwanangu yuko salama. Ahsante Mungu

[@leahkemunto9399]

Men who import wives from Kenya 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️ they are the sweetest lakini fika tu US....... one day I’ll tell my story... pole Ruth, I’ll reach out we are neighbors.

[@angel.----]

Wee sasa Mimi mambo nimekuwa nikijionea ni kama marriage ni scam...I think the best thing ni God anipatie job nilee watoi wangu coz men aaaiii anyway may God see you thru dear lyne😍😍😍

[@jemmyshiko3527]

Karma will caught up with him,but God is the Judge..Our God is faithful.Ruth from Us simple,humble and kind speaking normal English..Woow she is the best.wapi like za Ruth.

[@johnkubondo8661]

My baby died through that condition, me and my wife we stayed and believed in God. Nimeona hiyo story inauma sana n am saying if have a kid like that treasure the baby

[@mercye.4277]

POLE SANA SANA. MUNGU AWATIE NGUVU. NAWEPENDA BURE NA MKEO. MAANA MLIJUA SIRI YA KUACHIA MUNGU.

[@kanungoetieko8562]

Pole John.

[@mariahcarrey7780]

Sorry to hear that

[@joskyshams4758]

Hugs pole

[@ireneabuya7231]

so sorry

[@ambersmith7741]

I will say this From Joshua Selman,,, Don't Marry your Best friend Or Someone You Love First Of All Seek First Thy Kingdom of God and all things shall be added unto to you that is Marriage, Businesses, Family etc we can never Know someone's heart or Intentions it May all look soo Good at the Beginning but in the next 5 to 10years you will be Crying reason being you didn't Involve God in your relationship or asking him if he's the one or Not because our heart are so deceiving.

[@seraphinegudo7075]

"Be still and know that am God." Psalms 46:10

[@samuelchege9231]

Wow! this lady is very beautiful. May God bless all the single moms with pure intentions and give them strength every day.

[@teddybusima]

Thanks for being strong for your child, never give up

[@gladokeryy499]

All this stories of Tuko talks makes me know that be still in God and know he knows our sorrows and problems we under go through in marriage.

[@rozabellkigotho2725]

Huyo mjamaa ile itamkuta ata kukumbuka Ruby, God is seeing all he has done to you and his daughter. Ruby God bless you and give you strength.

[@maasaimkisii9089]

Be blessed Ruth and those who are here seeing this "you're adorable just the way you're" God bless you and your beautiful Family

[@iamrubyandrew5043]

Thank you Maasai for your support 🙏

[@queengracenjeri167]

I take care of my different abled sister since 2015 when my mother died (rip) after everyone rejected her, and for sure God is faithful, we never lack food, shelter, school fees or money for her nanny, she is a blessing and my first born and a special gift mum left for me.

[@abigaelpeace5058]

God bless you abundantly 🤗. May you never lack in Jesus Name 🙏

[@sheilawangari6548]

God bless you n increase you in Jesus mighty Name

[@teckie__songsofworship6680]

I really feel so sad ,many people think having kids with disabilities is a burden,,,but truly u never know his/her ability ;God has good plan for each other and we should appreciate the God's work

[@victoriamali5249]

It takes a special and a great person to have a special child.. the lady is a beautiful lady with a beautiful heart

[@thefarahatlifestyle]

When you got married that's when you know the true colour of your partner.. I can tell this with confidence.. Marriage is not a must thing in life.. God will lift you up Ruth for the struggle. Never choose Marriage over everything.. Your best friend a times turns to be your nightmare. Hugs Mums 💖💖💖

[@iamrubyandrew5043]

Thank you Noor. Allah bless you 🙏

[@thefarahatlifestyle]

@@iamrubyandrew5043 Allah Grace is Always sufficient.. I love you mama and that spirit you have God Bless you my dear,, one day will shine here in TUKO when you come back to speak about his I mean God blessings.. Love and Hugs Ruth 💖💖💖💖

[@thecomingmessiah7886]

True

[@faithmbithe1155]

Well said gal.mambo mirriam

[@dotdots7868]

Marriage is accomplishing half of ur deen and prevent u from zinah

[@denilsonmecha2370]

Marriage nowadays is full of drama and heartbreaks is same as being an Arsenal fan

[@suekimberly5798]

Unachomaaaa😁😁

[@denilsonmecha2370]

@@suekimberly5798 wapi dear😂

[@suekimberly5798]

@@denilsonmecha2370 Fans wa Arsenal😰

[@denilsonmecha2370]

@@suekimberly5798 haha mtakua sawa soon

[@suekimberly5798]

@@denilsonmecha2370 Mimi ni wa ManU

[@monicahlishiarwangendo3178]

Katika Maisha tunakutana na watu tofauti .ata ndughu wa toka ni toke hukosana ila kwa yote tisa Chuki Ni Ngumu Kubeba Samehe Ili upate Amani .Yarabbi akubariki Ruth na Lynn pamoja na familia zenyu

[@yumrecipes4461]

In life don't listen too much of relationship advices one should listen to what God is saying

[@tenge529]

true

[@lydiakusimba7266]

Single forever Wacha nikae na watoi wangu

[@esk147]

Single mothers mnakuanga bitter...

[@djzezeman2715]

Better wee uko single na watoi, how will others be single without a child?

[@gracewambui6524]

@@esk147 we are not bitter...the things we have experienced.only God knows

[@bettychepchirchir5671]

I second this dear

[@givensnamuduma4472]

Same here dear acha nkapambane na mtoi wangu tu

[@pendop1662]

Life has no manual..if u try to script it, it proves you wrong..yule Mungu amepanga utazeeka nae it doesn't matter whether ni stranger, enemy ama friend

[@hopeinallah5112]

Lol hapo kwa enemy

[@anitaonyango4073]

I feel Sis (Ruth) needs to engage in fasting and prayer, all this is not normal. From her baby suddenly getting cardiac arrest at that tender age, to her marriage falling apart suddenly. All this calls for God's intervention for God to expose the enemy working against her life and to restore her life.

[@nzingomazera9214]

True

[@mamachloe10]

My thoughts at the beginning because he hates her! Something spiritual is a miss!!!!

[@beatriceletting8540]

There things in life that happen and only God knows why.. most people will think having a child with special needs is a curse or having a broken marriage is a curse..no it's not I see it being a blessing..they say God cannot give you what you cannot handle.. it's all planned shes making a difference by helping other families in need when herself needs help..its amazing and I'm inspired by her story.

[@teopistorsind9874]

@@beatriceletting8540 Get real. Marriage is God ordained. How then can broken marriage not be a curse? The Bible says our war is not of flesh and blood but spiritual. So it is true what others are saying, she should engage in a spiritual warfare. Prayer and fasting.

[@Xixoz]

Stop conspiracies, anyone’s kid can get sick and marriages break angetaka she could stay ateseke but she was wise..this life anything bad can happen to anyone

[@annmuthemba8875]

Happy mothers day to all Mothers in all universe

[@wanjirungari5781]

Happy mothers day to you mama ngotho

[@teresianjeri4544]

Happy mother's day to you to

[@thatsreality1177]

Happy mother's Day 🏵️🌹 to you all

[@annemary8182]

Happy mother day to you too!

[@proudgakware7799]

Happy mother's day to you too

[@teckie__songsofworship6680]

Wapi likes za Ruth and Lynn apart from sad strong they look gorgeous💞💕💕

[@modikiramaisa4619]

I love what she said at the end that as a woman don’t get too comfortable and despondent make sure u can drive , work , study even if it’s online

[@achiengcaroline5920]

This happens to all weather highly educated, employed and well established, a narcissist or an abuser will do it do it regardless.

[@modikiramaisa4619]

@@achiengcaroline5920 true my point was if you get too comfortable if or when the man changes you’re not completely left vulnerable

[@juliagichs1]

@@achiengcaroline5920 true.

[@jessandsons.8153]

Very true...character development has made some of us realize this.

[@carolynbosibori3403]

This is my long time friend from high school a great and strong lady .My dear you're an inspiration to many.May God use you to change many.

[@mercymackey4846]

She was my classmate a really strong woman

[@noniotalexas8384]

@@mercymackey4846 which school?

[@annyjoyceungelle1711]

Dada Mungu akutie nguvu, when you have a physical challenge kid,always men run away, the burden of taking care of a child is for mother,please siz keep on praying, take the child to men of God, she will be delivered in Jesus Name,i love you from 🇹🇿

[@theceefamily7764]

Infact she will get back to her normal an walk again,talk an enjoy life as other normal children,GOD works an I know Ruth u are a strong believer ❤️💪 🌞🙏🇰🇪.

[@catherinenaswa5028]

Very true mine married secretly because my son has Cp nilimuwachia Mungu

[@iyanasomers139]

Some men are very deceptive they hide they true colors until they put a ring your finger I had a husband like that he was very nice u till we got married then he became dictator told me what to wear ,who to speak to, how I was to speak but me being a university graduate and an independent person I wouldn't have it he started to treat my kids with anger he spoke down to me my home became a very disrespectful and toxic place to be ,he raised his hand to hit me and I told him not to let the devil fool him cause if he hit me I was going to kill him. I got tired of the arguing so I packed my stuff and moved out and went back home . Now I'm reunited with my soul mate my kids father and my first love who came back to our country and now I'm very happy . Seek God before you get married let him lead you.

[@gracemugoh1417]

Yaani Lynn youre always matching with your guests ! Unplanned!! This show is from God

[@victorioussuestar3131]

😂Gives me doubts sometimes

[@oobrowyeonarm3339]

Hey Ruby, so sorry you’ve gone through emotional, financial and psychological abuse in the hands of that awful man. You are strong with a lot of tenacity and with time you will I reckon you’ll find yourself, break boundaries/stigmas as you keep advocating for your little miss fighter. God picked YOU, just you because he knew you had it in you to look after your little precious girl. I believe through networking you can find a friend who understands CP to assist your little girl and willing to help you then you can go ahead and fulfil your career/study goals. Go Ruby, you’ve got this!!!

[@martawambua6556]

To answer your question Lynn, YES.. been married to my childhood friend ( friends since class one ) for the last nine years . We are blessed with two adorable daughters and my only regret is not having married him sooner . It's been worth everything

[@Iamliterallyjustagirlonline]

She didn’t lie. Life in America is not as sweet as everyone thinks it is. Huku ni kazi. Yes, it has opportunities but before you get there...wah the struggle & suffering is real!

[@damacklinelaban7770]

Ruth, you are the strongest woman ever, every woman wants the best for her children.

[@janechomba2113]

Those suits looks alike and are so beautiful. Hit likes za unplanned similar suits. 💕👍

[@ksgrmdsdl2383]

feminist coats

[@magnam6807]

I'm impressed that she's not developed that irritating American accent (with a loud African accent clashing with it😉). May God come through for her

[@Isaiah--vj2xu]

Thanks for giving words to my irritation.. Well explained 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@annaondara3021]

Thank you for saying it. So irritating when people do that! I leave in America for several years now but I can never imagine forcing myself. I actually embrace my natural tongue

[@keishycutie9526]

Marriage is like a scam , I better stay single also remembering how my ex husband destroyed our marriage bringing another lady in the house at night and throwing me out like a dog I slept whole night in the streets rained on and no where to go but I'm thankful I'm somewhere now with God grace. Take heart dear with God everything is possible God has a reason for everything and I believe your daughter is a hero

[@kevookila922]

and you are strong also

[@keishycutie9526]

@@kevookila922 yes I am

[@MissKabugarah]

Listening to this story is just making my heart weep. Being in such a situation myself. Ethan didn't make it but in all God will restore all that I lost in my years for lack of better words. Take heart sister. Jesus loves you and you are worth to receive all good things in yours and baby's life.

[@phyllismagunde5844]

What really pained me is, even if you had differences, how could a father abandon his child when you were so sick that you couldn't even cook for the baby? Even suggesting that you take 100% custody of the baby? He should never have turned his back on his own child. May The Lord see you through. May you never lack anything in your life, in JESUS name. Continue to acknowledge God's presence in your life. He will carry you through.

[@laurachepwogen8002]

May her and the baby live long to testify the goodness of the lord in the land of the living

[@eleanorayebare1406]

Point to note: Its not the tribe or religion that makes someone good.

[@patiencemwende3841]

Very true

[@saharodon1087]

I feel like he had the red flag when he was dating you but you were too busy to see that . I can’t believe she was Oky with him when he says he will be the one going to the school instead of her . I would be mad 😡 if someone says don’t do this i would be the one doing it .

[@truphymaya5517]

Pole sana ruth im so sorry i never knew you had passed through all this..pole sana praying for you and baby.God bless you.singeweza kua kwa wedding but my family was there..will call mama.much love and hugs

[@nectarblue]

Nothing wrong with marrying your best friend but remember, we have all kinds of friends. We know their weaknesses and shortcomings. The lure of going to American perhaps made you ignore all the Red Lights. I have had many male friends but l know for sure lbwoukd never marry them.. Marriage can be a bed of Roses or Thorns depending on who is in it.

[@nancietessy8886]

Wapi likes za outfit

[@shikohmuriithi5216]

When you think you married your bestfriend,then things fall apart😥😥...Pole Sana Ruth

[@iamrubyandrew5043]

We will be okay. Thank you Shikoh

[@kembero]

Abasacha ba gusii bare mache ng'umbu toumerane gesona magega tokwane ake. Amang'ana aya nayaigure ker'engaki ekororokana omochande nore tobwenerete gokõra.

[@rnashows4456]

Kuna rafiki na Kuna kujua mtu for years. I believe Hawa walikuwa wanajuana for 14 years.... May God keep that beautiful angel

[@fayahmummahafrika9188]

Very humble lady and down to earth..join single clubs and be happy dear..you gat a lovely kid...Hii kuoa best friend ni gutee ..good hubby come from God..Huyo ex Wako ni fake

[@annettemwenesi6443]

Most of tuko stories normally take me back in those years I was going through hell at the same time they show me how life iko na madharau hadi nime give up.

[@iamrubyandrew5043]

Don't give up, if I can be strong you can too

[@bettychepchirchir5671]

Be strong for yourself dear

[@shiishii6948]

This story hv really touched me, may God continue add this gal the favor

[@akiaikamar6813]

My dear Take heart, this moment will pass away. All I can say it will not take a day, a week or a month. Read acts 4: 23 to the end Prayer for boldness to go through everything.

[@kbanda3148]

Amen

[@Sonyambulo]

God gives special mothers special babies! Ruby you're a special woman!

[@gladysbosibori8552]

Ruth is a very strong woman and our good God will bless her , never give up girl keep moving.

[@judynyarangi6996]

That was a narcist. Gal move on. God grant you strength and wisdom.

[@Nothwest]

Sending you Love from Germany my Sister, and praying for you

[@felistagesare3207]

Hi Queen

[@julietmuhonja1931]

I love you so much my sister Lynn nikija Kenya nitakutafuta aki I have More story to tell the world watching from Bahrain

[@brianmartin2766]

Muharraq locked msista.

[@brianmartin2766]

Mi ndiyo kuna maisha nilikuja kupitia hapa Bahrain venye nilifika 30th May 2017 gai. Sijui kama kuna mahali naeza shidwa ku survive.

[@danayieko1685]

Ruth you are a strong woman, may God continue giving you strength, please continue serving your God no matter what, be blessed.

[@lucilleomwodo9985]

Lynn is asking some legit questions? Good job Lynn and Tuko team!!

[@terrygolda4525]

Exactly. when something is not clear she just interjects to ask like she has read my mind

[@Kasweetie_254]

Most of Lynn's interviews huwa sadfa wanavaa nguo matching