"I Miss My Ex So Much... What Should I Do?" (Tips That Actually HELP You!)

[@80skid83]

I now realise that a break up is one of the hardest things in life you will ever go through, no joke

[@BradBrowning]

Yes, it is.

[@kennytheripper2526]

I'm 15, still a kid. My girlfriend is really toxic sometimes but, tbh I really fuckin miss her n need her. But I just fucked it up somewhere and she moved on.

[@eddy7252]

@@kennytheripper2526 bro you didn't fuck it up, you may have done some actions that weren't right or said things or what not but she just isnt the person for you, i'm 20, i was in a serious relationship for a year and a half, she was toxic and she made me feel like it was my fault, sometimes it was but just learn and grow and you'll find someone better, it's just life, do what you always wanted to do in life man, you're young, you got time to grow and learn.

[@davidnorman2134]

Yes they are, yesterday I was driving down the highway and I looked over in the passenger seat missing my x presence and her companionship

[@faststongesdrc7075]

Wait till one of your Kids die before you...

[@mr.nutritionist4666]

Lucky are those who get text or call by ex during no contact. Why I am not so lucky:(

[@a.zaydeeellie0246]

Karan Keni actually not really coz i try to reply him in no contact period but he is nice and later on he will be rude again its a headache i dont know wat he really wants

[@mr.nutritionist4666]

@@a.zaydeeellie0246 I am facing the same problem

[@a.zaydeeellie0246]

Lee just wait for her or try to contact. Goodluck

[@a.zaydeeellie0246]

Karan Keni hope everything will be fine, ask some help from witch haha. Me im still hoping we will be fine coz he got me pregnant.

[@mr.nutritionist4666]

@@a.zaydeeellie0246 OMG!!! It is an big problem. hope so we will get our love ones back in few months.

[@death2sion333]

I miss her but I don't at the same time lol

[@BradBrowning]

Up and down emotions are common especially when a breakup is still fresh. It's all part of the process! :-) That's why you ought to give it enough time to see how you really feel after you clear your head and calm down your emotions a bit. :-)

[@kavishmehra3179]

Sir i need your help . I love my bf too much .but his relationship is with just physically. He feel my need when he want to change. Otherwise he DON'T call me . Don't meet me any time. When he want he talk to me and when he want he blocked me. Now situation is that suddenly after phn call he block me at WhatsApp before two months ago. And i also block him . He unblocked me after few hours but i block him 2 months . Sir i don't know what i do . After two months b he is not change . Jab milta hai to bolta he loves me but samj nhi ata kya karu .i love him too much . Koshish ki bhul jau . Move on kar lu but not possible for me . Plz help me for improve my relationship

[@skyhigh8667]

I know right :(

[@francescagiantomaso]

Damn I know exactly how you feel

[@olahuuber5540]

I know this feeling 😂😂

[@avocadoisavocado1778]

I wanna die.. I can't forget him😭😭 I feel physical and emotional pain everyday. I see him everyday.. I use no contact from the day we broke up... I'm so broken.. we haven't talked 5 months. But he is my classmate and we sit together.. we never talked. He tried but I was silent bc I was too hurt..

[@BradBrowning]

Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHTEnIKFiNx8n7s&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!

[@cabbarmalkoc8098]

Just get your aim better

[@cabbarmalkoc8098]

Plz dont get mad its just a joke.

[@khan49337]

same condition with me but i hurt more because she has find new boyfriend so she is happy seeing them everyday is very painful

[@luvs4tia_]

Yeah thats true

[@armyeee8492]

Hey Brad! My ex boyfriend and I broke up very recently and he told me it was because he didn’t feel loved for the longest time. He’s tried to tell me about this problem many times, but he’s now fed up with everything since there was no change in our relationship. During the time I was so overwhelmed with everything else so I neglected him, but I promised I would make it all up to him. He said he doesn’t love me anymore though and he doesn’t think we’ll be able to ever get back together. What should I do?

[@BradBrowning]

Give it time for your ex to get over the hurt and learn to truly forgive and trust you again. This won't happen overnight. So it helps to be patient! :-) Here are a few tips for you to hopefully help you out further: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGGpaaRofq6aqqc AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/p5-oYmxom7p-rqs

[@macxdeeyt2767]

Thankyou Brad I have done everything you said to get back with my ex. And yes it worked and I did. But this time it lasted for only 5 days until she said that she didn't feel like earlier and the excitement in her was vanished so she wants to break up again. So, I decided to let her go and never look back at her and at this relationship again then I thought it would be better for me to move on this tym cause I felt I was giving too much of importance to one undeserved person. God might be having better plans for me ahead. Now it has been around like 40 days since I have talked to her last and now I am happy with whatever I have. Life is too short to waste all your time on somebody who doesn't deserve you Still if you guys think that she is the ideal one for you then do whatever Brad says as it is and believe me you'll have 90% of chances to get her back. After getting her back don't just sit doing nothing. Do things that make her love you more. My best wishes. I know it is not easy to overcome but once you do you are up ready for your next goal in life :)

[@BradBrowning]

Yup, it does boil down to preference in the end. Thanks for your input! :-)

[@benrobbo2902]

You shouldnt have to make someone love you

[@alyaly9311]

It is pretty hard to over come...

[@dianakirkpatrick6789]

@@benrobbo2902 You can't make someone love you. Either they do , or they don't.

[@fazedarkseid9966]

She was a person who got hurt and was insulted by her ex, she was emotionally scarred and i became the best boyfriend. I taught her how she deserved to be loved and treated like the queen she is. She healed and is now happy with another guy. I miss her .

[@BradBrowning]

Sucks, doesn't it? Sorry to hear it. You'd want to be with someone who truly loves you and sees your worth though, not someone who uses you as a stepping stone. Consider moving on from this especially if she hasn't made any effort to reach out to you. Best of luck!

[@joecrow150]

My ex, she was probably the best person I ever met in my life.

[@BradBrowning]

Then it's worth fighting for!

[@terrelladams2905]

I moved out of state now my ex hitting me like crazy I'm good now 😂😂😂

[@paulschilling3302]

Love and miss her. For 30 years I have tried to create distractions but getting older it isn't so easy anymore. Idle my mind runs to her.

[@BradBrowning]

It's all right to miss someone but it's also equally important to see a situation for what it was. Learn from it. There's a reason why it didn't work out especially since it's been that long already.

[@archielenox9754]

Step 1: Ghost and block them on social media, have nothing to do with them anymore. Step 2: Move on and meet new people, have other activities you love to do, so as to preoccupy your mind and shift the focus onto something else more important! Simple.

[@BradBrowning]

I understand what you're saying, but each person has his/her own reasons for why they either choose to get back together with an ex or let go totally. You can't speak for them because it's their life, not yours to decide. Granted, not all relationships are meant to be salvaged, especially abusive ones and/or one that involves numerous instances of infidelity, but some are worth saving. This all depends on what kind of relationship you have and if you decide to move on or fight for it. There is no wrong answer on whatever your decision is. :-) Anyway thanks for your input!

[@geraldbalinquit249]

@@BradBrowning wow. Thank you for that thought!

[@User12345fan]

Block them? No matter if you cheated or lied or deserved the relationship to end, some people actually were good friends in their relationship and really did care about the other’s well being and future, getting blocked and told they don’t want nothing to do with you is hurtful and makes you not want to invest in a new relationship and take them seriously if something like this can happen again when the one you thought was the one you cared most deeply in the world, is the one that disappeared and I am not talking about the first couple of months to get over but disappeared for years

[@e1noralils]

simple? as if it was that easy

[@dishajha815]

It's not easy to meet new people in a pandemic, honestly the pandemic has made the breakup more difficult

[@alensmith1080]

I have been emotionally struggled with a toxic friendship for four years, with the fact living together for three years makes me hard not to miss the good times we had abs recently he stopped talking to me and I still feel hard to let go. I moved to my own place since last summer I miss him everyday it is just hard as I was so used to the environment seeing him every day. I wish I never lived with him so long so I cannot change the past

[@frankie6737]

I can relate

[@AeonGreyh]

It’s almost been a year now and I still miss her… M.💔

[@ewm4266]

A year 👀 Fuuuck, it takes that long OMG, I'm just 5 days into my break up 💔😭 😭

[@jagerday1597]

Man fr I regret it so much And really want to show her how much I've changed

[@chai1279]

I dated this guy a year back and I broke up with him just cause I thought I didn't like him. He got a new gf and moved on but I'm so hurtt. It was so easy for him. I miss him so much, how has he forgotten me now. He and his new girl are just rocking it. I cri

[@BradBrowning]

You didn't like him enough until he found someone new? It sounds like a case of Fear of Missing Out or FOMO. After all, you didn't like him anymore, right?

[@saimaralp89]

me too i miss my ex too much brad.., but he's happy now with his new girlfriend.., i want to end my self sometimes.., 😭😭😭

[@maviswilliams9848]

Please nobody is wealth dying for.

[@walterestrada9523]

saimar alp give urself some time to heal . It will get better in time . Love urself and Enyoy life . Life is beautiful.

[@allinonevlog988]

😭

[@amandaramsey9002]

Same

[@saimaralp89]

it's just that its been a month but it so hard to move on.., i love him so much but he just cheated.., i still in pain and it seems so hard without him.., i tried to forget him but he's always on my mind.., i still can't accept it

[@djpanrasdaversiteoldschool8912]

Even then it's rough to stop missing your ex especially when wanting to incorporate them in your keeping busy activities

[@life-is-inspiring3953]

I really thank your for your video which gives me strength to overcome the after breakup period; it’s hard for me so I watch your video every time I feel overwhelmed by the “missing feeling”

[@BradBrowning]

Cool! Stay strong!

[@gillnihal32]

Shits really buggin me.. how could some just move on that fast🥺

[@timothyprice3264]

I spent everyday in college with the love of my life and I cared too much to where I pushed her away and I feel like I’m never gonna get her back. College has ended and we live in different cities and I feel like it’s easier for her to let go but it’s too hard for me. I’m so fucking depressed I don’t think I can survive. Idk what to do. We made so many memories EVERY day. And not a day goes by where I don’t think about her. I text her but she’s always busy and I just feel like my world is grey and over. She was the only light in my life. Now I’m leaving for the Marines and she’s gonna go to college and make memories with other people. No matter how much I try to convey my feelings and have an honest talk about everything she always gets mad and doesn’t want to talk

[@munirazaira5465]

Dear, nop, its not easy to her...trust me, this bs of neurochemicals are for real... U have two results when u do NC...1st u can indeed get her back...2nd u will know if u really want this person... But, dont just sit, waiting...get busy, do a lot of things, find new hobbies in order to think less about u 2... * . *

[@BradBrowning]

Those are all big no -nos, man. Watch and/or review this first once you've cleared your head: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a6Wxg39tmbx2iqM

[@flaigus]

We’re all in this together break up brothers and sisters. I’m currently week 3 of my break up with my girlfriend of 6 years. Just found out my ex is dating a new guy and it feels fucking horrible.

[@BradBrowning]

You all be strong, everyone!

[@flaigus]

@Doctor Strange wow this is a blast from the past. Well I’m with a new girl and I recently became a dad. This breakup was honestly the best thing that ever happened to me. Once I got over the shittiness I started concentrating on myself, got my ass to the gym started doing all the things I couldn’t when I was with her and I became happy in my own skin again. Eventually started dating and met my new girl and it’s been such a more fulfilling relationship. I look back at that time I totally realise the relationship was wrong in so many ways, I sometimes see her about town say Hi and I feel nothing, she is alone and living quite a sad life which is ironic since I found out she had been with a couple guys immediately after my break up possibly before we broke up. Stay strong mate, I promise it will get better, you’ll wake up one morning and feel great. Do a few things to help yourself though, get in shape, find a hobby and travel if you can, meet new people.

[@nw1179]

Your first sentence made me laugh through my pain😅. Hope you are better now.

[@contorta960]

It absolutely sucks, miss her so so much. We didnt even fall out. It was a breakup over logistics, different countries and primarily her family. (China/ UK.) I miss soso much. Her love, her acceptance, that feeling of fullness. My life felt like it was empty or missing something big. As soon as we got together lonliness was a thing of the past. Life was so full. I never felt so safe and appreciated. She saw something in me that i can't see. I never felt that. She was amazing. And she was so happy. We were. But she finished uni, had to go home to her family. She got the PSW visa, she was supposed to come back but she broke up the month she was supposed to come back. I jusy wanna f***ing off myself. Really do. And that isn't new but things got so great in my life with her. Now its back to how it was just without her 😭😭😭

[@BradBrowning]

I understand and I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. It just takes a while for you to adjust to life without her. If it's any consolation, lots of people feel the same way you do during a breakup, so try to stay strong, yeah? Focus on healing and in time you will be back to your normal self again. Take care!

[@clb6675]

It hurts because we were both into each other but we’re never “together”. We started “talking” like two months ago but were already close because we had been around eachother prior practically everyday, because life. What hurts most is not that we broke up, but I think I actually started falling falling for her when she dropped the “not ready for a relationship”. Now she barely talks to me and I still have to be around her multiple times a week. It hurts because we were really damn close before the thought of being into her even crossed my mind, and now she acts like we’re nothing at all. I can’t just move on because I’ve grown to really truly care about her and I know that’s a hella simp thing to say but I’m just more confused and hurt than anything.

[@BradBrowning]

Unless there a good reason why she isn't ready, chances are she may not be that into you as you'd hope. It's easy to think the feeling is mutual especially if you two hang out a lot but actions to not commit and distanced herself from you and her decisions speak louder than words. Since you're asking me, I'd say move on because that woman is just not into you. However, Amy North or Kate Spring may have some other tips on what to do about that, so check out their channel, too!

[@ronnie_5150]

I missed my ex once. I started going to the range more and practicing so I won't miss next time.

[@takosmos]

how many broken hearts in the comments section

[@BradBrowning]

Tons and tons.

[@davidallahgod3217]

Hey brad! You need to have your own TV show! always watch your videos, your the man! Keep up the good work!10/10

[@BradBrowning]

Hey thanks, David! :-) Nah, I'm too shy for TV. KZbin's fine! lol

[@elimahmahmaroba2562]

Mee too I miss him

[@ASMR-kv6bq]

@@elimahmahmaroba2562 i miss him too what did you do maroba?!

[@sandramiracle7492]

Hi Brad! My Ex and I were engaged and called it off after 5 years of dating (2 yrs engaged). We had no contact for 2 years and just started speaking again 3 months ago. I just visited him last week and we both talked and agreed to be friends. He's a huge commitment phobe. Here's my question: While we were out he told a stranger we were sitting next to that I was "the one". When I got back to my seat the stranger told me this while he was gone to the bathroom. If I'm "THE ONE" why does he just want to be "friends"? I'm so confused.

[@BradBrowning]

It's because he's lost attraction for you. He mind thinks you're the one but the feeling of attraction just isn't there anymore. And as human beings, we're driven by emotions, which overpowers logic. It's a bad move to be friends with him. The boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5WZoamEi8p7oKs but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!

[@sandramiracle7492]

@@BradBrowning Thank you very much!

[@thelyric8266]

N he don't wanna b the hurt again...sex and friendship different....yall chemistry and friendship is prolly what he missed the most about u .....the laughter yalll share is probably what he cherish the most...if you guys have sex and Makin out it complicate things than old skeletons come back out and ruin a nother friendship...my ex left when I was broke n she was kicked out back to back...when she moved out the city she had a new life...a life I couldn't provide...she still wanted me but I just can't...cuz goin thru road of abandonment hurt me bad...im still hurt but atlease I can say me and her still can have conversation n move on with our life...it hurts without her bein in my life

[@082782able]

I miss my ex, our daughter, our dogs and our birds. Pretty much the household I once held. It’s been a month and a half. She left me for some bum. I’m not just saying that. He really is a jobless bum. Pray for me guys🙏🏽this shit is hardest the thing I’ve ever had to deal with. I feel so alone😔💔

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2OahX-brrqgrck There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Take care!

[@AbdurRahman-rh1zx]

you are amazing BRAD.I brought your EXfactor guide.its been 11months we broken up .your guide taught me a lot.I am already in my track to receive her.Thanks from bottom of my heart.BTW I am from Bangladesh

[@BradBrowning]

Hi Abdur! Thanks so much for your support, and for your kind words.... I'm really glad to hear about your progress as well, best of luck and I hope things work out for you! Cheers

[@Anonymous-tg8xj]

I miss her so much, literally most of my days spent thinking about her and I know she feels almost nothing for me. I done nothing wrong in the relationship and she even said that, but she just lost her feelings and I dont know how to get her back, what we had was amazing and we were both so happy but it just came of of no where and she ended it. The thought of her going with someone else would actually kill me it's just heartbreaking..

[@BradBrowning]

It's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept her decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, etc. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy

[@dalkhal]

She’s getting dick somewhere else

[@izzyfizzy229]

we dated for 2.5 years and he dumped me 5 days ago. haven’t talked to him in those 5 days but he broke up with me because he “doesn’t feel a spark anymore” will no contact work if he no longer loves me like he used to?

[@BradBrowning]

It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and the golden rules here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc

[@coreybeckman2837]

I’m trusting in this system knowing my chances fall to the unknown. I want to be with her. I know that this is true. Whatever I have to do I will do.

[@BradBrowning]

That's the spirit! Now don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Best of luck!

[@andrewkeyes5927]

Day 3 of 30 I'm still a bit shaky

[@1227maribel]

Me too! We got it 💪🏼

[@BradBrowning]

Stay strong! This may help: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a3iUeoWJYtF2rMU

[@PhillyFinesse]

Day 1 bro

[@Flossydope]

Day fucking 3 and I’m so upset

[@andrewkeyes5927]

@@Flossydope it does get better not perfect or ok but better I can promise you that keep it up

[@jovanventer1308]

I have a hard time knowing that someone else now holds,touches and makes out with her...

[@BradBrowning]

That's always one of the toughest parts and I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. This may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!

[@Joseph-wv3kg]

Hi Brad , I am 18 years old and I have been with my ex for almost 2 years. Everything has been going perfect , I know her parents , her brother , I was going to her house alot , her and my mom got along very well , we have lots of stuff in common and I thought she is literally the one. She broke up with me because of arguments we had and that I said that I am going to break up with her multiple time (I never actually broke up with her ) So because of this , she left me. After 2 days was New Years and I got invited to a big house party , so I went. A girl at the party came to me and started taking snaps with me and posted them on her snapchat. I dont drink alcohol and I dont smoke weed or any kind of drugs so I was sober the whole time. She had this girl in her snapchat and she texted the girl that took the snaps with me and started a beef with her because she is coming up to me and taking snaps and stuff. They spoke and they got to an agreenment. Later on she texted me a very big paragraph saying why she broke up blablabla and then blocked me of every social media because I have allowed thia girl to snap me ... So yh , I love her and I would never do something behind her back even if we broke up it will be impoasible for me to get with another girl from the party. I want to get back with her because she was perfect. Would love to hear your opinion on this case and tell me if we both have chance get back . Thanks !

[@ghostbusterdino2767]

She is jealous because she is probably still attracted by you. You dont have to feel bad about the snaps. You are free to do whatever you want and you dont owe her an eplanation because she broke up with you

[@BradBrowning]

As her boyfriend, you're supposed to offer her stability instead of shaking up her world. lol. She's likely stressed by your threats to break up. Anyway give it time for your ex to get over the hurt and learn to truly forgive and trust you again. This won't happen overnight. So it helps to be patient! :-) Here are a few tips for you to hopefully help you out further: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGGpaaRofq6aqqc AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/p5-oYmxom7p-rqs

[@Joseph-wv3kg]

@@BradBrowning We are back together ! 😋

[@BradBrowning]

Good. But I suggest you learn from your behaviour and not threat her via a breakup. Once she matures, women won't tolerate that kind of bs anymore. Good luck!

[@fabiocosta3306]

@@Joseph-wv3kg two years after, are you still together?

[@ssharma861]

its been 5 years, and I am still feeling this. I have gone through all the steps you mentioned above. I dont go a couple days with out thinking of him

[@BradBrowning]

This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!

[@miriammartinez9300]

Is been 30 days. No contact it all from both sides.. so moving on is next? Try to keep myself busy but I still miss him.

[@spadeprince1915]

go to his house maybe bring him gift like me and now were together horray

[@BradBrowning]

Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzbin.info/www/bejne/q3_CiXSdfc-UfK8 This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas Good luck!

[@liveforchrist1474]

I layed my hand on my spouse's shoulder and said to him, "Be born again in the name of Jesus." And he has been believing in God ever since, he is more respectful now, he doesn't ignore me near as much anymore.

[@noxolomalgas8074]

@@liveforchrist1474 I broke up with a good guy because we just weren’t on the same page about a walk with Jesus, I felt like he wasn’t genuinely interested and it affected the way in which we’d make decisions. Was I wrong? He was, still is an amazing person and our relationship was great apart from the faith part. Did I make a mistake??

[@myrkrinuu]

My gf broke up with me 3 days ago..she said she fell out of love with me..I understand people do..but she moved on alot already and I’m stuck in pain..

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. When a heart breaks, it don't break even. :(

[@angel_pops5941]

The breakup made me realize I’ve said so many things I regret and wish I would be able to see and apologize, but it’s been over 6months since I’ve heard from him at all and wish I would be Abel talk to him of where the mistakes happend ect… 😔

[@BradBrowning]

Are these words prior to the breakup and do you think it may have influenced him to end things with you? If so, then you could follow the tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqi0oYyjebCBpKc

[@eviec4421]

i broke up with him a few months ago but i miss him, and we never fully stopped talking to each other. i found out that he had been pretty much dating a girl throughout those months after the break up. and he lied to me about it, never told me they were hanging out even though we talked every day. he broke it off with her because he realized he wasn't ever over me. now im in a place where i dont know if it would be stupid to entertain the idea of getting back with him in the future because i am so hurt that he moved on fast and lied about it. but he is also very clear that he would take me back in a heartbeat and he truly hasn't lost feelings. i also haven't lost feelings, and we both can't leave each other alone. i have to decide if that whole ordeal is too big of an obstacle to overlook or if i need to mentally forgive him because hes single and its not like he cheated. i just feel like if we are really supposed to end up together, he should have never even caught feelings for another girl. i feel like his claims that he loves me more than anything are false. i am stuck. i would love advice or help please.

[@BradBrowning]

Try to stop talking to him first and see how you feel. When it comes to making big decisions in life, you ought to do it with clarity and having your ex in your life, despite the feelings you have for each other, will influence that decision. Anyway if you ask me, what's truly important is to make a decision you won't regret in the end. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@kev8057]

It’s been 3 years now and I still miss her. She is my everything I just want her back

[@Roadglide86]

That is tough brother, sorry your going through it still been a month for me really depressing

[@fizzielmao]

yeah i dated a girl 1 year ago i have anger issues and i was almost never angry when I dated her she was everything i needed recently i just remembered some memories and i don’t know what to do

[@kev8057]

Matt A it’s all good bro just gotta be strong stay strong Man you got this!!

[@BradBrowning]

This really depends on which phase you're on. Never skip the "no contact" part! Watch this to get an overview on what steps you ought to take in each phase: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Best of luck!

[@kayceerobin1251]

We just ended things 2 days ago. After 4 1/2 years he says that he doesn’t want to be together. Says he still loves me but just feels trapped I guess. He’s told me stuff like this before & ive always done or said stuff to keep him attached to me, which I see now was wrong of me cuz it only made him resent me. So I finally decided to give him what he wanted & let him be. I wasn’t toxic or anything, literally did everything for him. I’m just worried about him (he’s going through a lot mentally). I have no issue doing the no contact period I’m just afraid he’ll forget me & realize that I was a burden or something & never want to come back :(

[@BradBrowning]

Your issue is you think so little of yourself. And you need to build that confidence back up. He won't forget you unless he has amnesia. Watch this first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ipC6kJyim56rbNk

[@bwrrock8951]

It’s been a little over a month I haven’t heard a thing from ex. Maybe it’s completely hopeless. The last thing my ex said to me before going into no contact was, everything is cool between us. I felt like that was a lie because otherwise I would’ve heard from my ex by now. It’s time to just forget it I guess.

[@BradBrowning]

Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzbin.info/www/bejne/q3_CiXSdfc-UfK8 but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eHLLfqWjrJiGo9U This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas Good luck!

[@dianakirkpatrick6789]

Losing a job or being fired is EXACTLY like a breakup. Just realized that. My ex (he is 83 and I am 65) moved up north to take care of an ailing family member. (For 83 he is in fantastic shape!} We had lived in the same city for 17 years. He asked me to move with him, but I had a good job which I was not ready to leave. I flew a lot of times to go visit him. He never once paid for my hotel, or paid for my flights. He has money - he can afford it. He got really mad at me as he felt I was not doing enough - coming more often, etc. We had a bad breakup last month. I thought he was overal wonderful - then I started looking at the not paying anything towards my trips to see him. You think I would know better.

[@BradBrowning]

Yes, it is. As to coming to his place, he should do the same thing for you as well. Otherwise it's very unequal and long term relationships strive on balance.

[@roxanebassford5282]

What do you do when you always go one to two months with out talking to your ex.

[@BradBrowning]

Always? So this has happened before? Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

[@eyephone07]

Great point about dating other people Brad. Extremely useful tool. One must be careful however that your ex doesn't come back just to satisfy their own ego and then leave again after it's quenched.

[@BradBrowning]

Exactly. But I think most people know what their ex is like so... yeah, as long as they're mindful, then it wouldn't be much as a disaster! :-)

[@T_raw6]

I don’t know what to do I miss my ex so much i seen her the other day everything was good but one downside is that she have a boyfriend but before she left she told me she love me and wanted my number but I don’t know the step I need to take for to fully win her back

[@benm8543]

Yeah so I've won following these tips. Deleted here off all social media, no contact over 6 weeks and she's messaged saying she made a mistake, loves me and wants me back 😁😁

[@BradBrowning]

Nice! Congrats!

[@untouchable360x]

Go forward, ONLY forward.

[@BradBrowning]

It's always forward. Even getting back together with an ex is always considered moving forward since you're starting a new relationship with her and not go back to your old ways.

[@davisyt5921]

Me and her are gonna meet up tmr and I am very excited to see her again since I am still single

[@natsways9150]

I blocked him on Instagram and for the new year I unblocked him but now he blocked me~ im heart broken brad please help me~ he didn’t even say happy new year or merry Christmas

[@benjohnson4408]

Nat Sways same here she hates me

[@threciaadams5250]

Same here got to laugh thou he blocked me too

[@neilhendrixbayeta8448]

Same here but he never blocked me on all of our social medias but he never greeted me on happy new year and he's ghosting me

[@walterestrada9523]

Nat Sways sane happened to me . But it’s ok . I have moved on . 2019 is about me and moving forward .

[@BradBrowning]

Do you have other means to contact each other? The only time social media blocking and unblocking matters or has a huge impact is if you have no other means to contact. Otherwise it's just really not worth it to worry about all that.

[@rupeshkadam5544]

My ex didn't deleted our photos from instagram, it's been 2 months for break up. What does this mean ? I miss her !

[@BradBrowning]

That really doesn't matter. Sorry, but that's hardly a sign at all. For solid signs, though,here's what to be on the lookout for: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaS5g2qvi5mLbs0

[@slavic925]

Yea my bad pictures for 2 months as well, then told me to move on and deleted everything

[@rupeshkadam5544]

This was my comment before 6 months, give yourself time, you'll forget her 😂 i did

[@lucystokes57]

Me and my ex just broke up after 6 years and the thing that makes it harder is a just loved countries for university so i feel more alone and vulnerable then ever, he was supposed to move with me. Now we are strangers

[@piusmhapsekar1235]

Going from besties to lovers building such bond for years and then flash being strangers..... Hurts alott.

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that.

[@alexpescaru7891]

hey brad! what do you think about reverse psychology like telling your ex "i think you're right, it's time to move on. We're both in a better place now. Good luck"?

[@BradBrowning]

I actually recommend doing that. Shows you accept the breakup instead of whining about it. I've discussed that in one of my videos! :-) You should be able to find lots of information on how to get your ex back by doing all the right steps on my channel here, so check out my other videos, too.

[@inactive9943]

My girlfriend and I met in college, and for New Years, I flew up to my girlfriend’s house in Oregon to visit her and her family over winter break. When I got there, she started acting strange, all the way up until the 5th day of the trip, when I left early because of her behavior. She was saying she was “stressed about school”, which is why she didn’t want to look at me/touch me or barely even talk to me. The last night I was there, she didn’t want to be near me even though we were in the same bed, and the next morning had brought up the idea of me leaving. I told her that I already had plans to do so, and she drove me to the airport that same day. Not even 24 hours after I left, she unshared location with me and I’m waiting to see if she deletes me off Snapchat, too. I’ve been told to not contact her at all, until she contacts me. We haven’t spoken since January 2nd. She said there was nothing wrong between her and I before I left, and that it actually was just school that was bothering her. So I’m wondering what it is that could possibly be on her mind. I don’t want this relationship to end, because I know her and I have been really happy together and have treated each other well, until the 29th of December when she started acting strange. What can I do to have better chances at preventing a breakup over this situation?

[@BradBrowning]

This is a tricky one. There's really not enough to go on to try and figure out whether she's really just going through some tough stuff in her life or if she's looking for a way out of the relationship and is just trying to be nice to you about it. I suggest you observe her first and not jump to conclusions though. And DO NOT make the situation worse. At this point, you definitely need to do some damage control, okay? Since your situation may be unique, you can work with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@princeofsubliminal5312]

It's never easy one thing we all agree about 💯

[@brittanytyler1257]

I miss my ex but I don’t miss the lies, the inconsistency, the not showing up and the non stop cheating 💔💔💔😭😭😭😩😩

[@BradBrowning]

Weigh the pros and cons and decide if this is something you want to pursue or not.

[@crykercryker3626]

Hey brad, my boyfriend of 2 years has just broken up with me and has started dating my 'best friend' only 3 days after. During the relationship with him he would constantly tell me how much he disliked this particular friend. I'm assuming that this a rebound relationship how likely do you think it is that they will spilt and he will come back to me? Thank you x

[@machiniman01]

He probably already cheated with that friend while you were together..

[@BradBrowning]

Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his way of coping really. So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYalf5dspal8hK8 so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/inPXk2ZqnN5psNk This should hopefully get you back on track with what you ought to be doing during this time: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZOleqeqhriUoZY

[@SimonSaysFIFA]

Brad, so I am senior in high school and have a class with crush. We went on a date and then she came over to hangout at my house (nothing escalated). I made the mistake of talking about a relationship and asking her if that is alright. She told me that we should do it but on the "down low". I asked her to hangout again a week later but she gave excuses the two times I did ask her out again. She has never been in a relationship and never really wanted one. She told me to move on and that we should remain friends. I do not want a relationship with her anymore but I do want to hangout and chill with her without any labels. I've tried talking to her but she doesn't really respond with any heart. I just want things to go back to how it was when she came over. Also, I was always the one to start conversations and texts since the very beginning even before we met and went on the date. She told me doesn't really text all that often so I guess that makes sense but now she barely texts and seems very distant. How can I go back into class and act as someone she wants to be with? What can I do to change and show that all I want is to be casual and chill now? If any clarification is needed, let me know.

[@BradBrowning]

I think you're both too young to be taking this all too seriously. But one thing I can tell you for sure is if you still have strong feelings for her, then it's a bad idea to be friends with her. Give yourselves time first!

[@SimonSaysFIFA]

@@BradBrowning Well she is in my class so does that mean I should try and ignore her or just talk whenever we have to. I also want her to see that I have changed to someone who doesn't need a relationship but rather someone to casually see. I am not sure how to do this but I have stopped texting her which I think is good.

[@adelali3393]

It's 3 years ago, and i Can't stop missing her !!

[@BradBrowning]

Watch this first to help set your expectations: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bmPYhn1toLWLnqc and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ip-9q5h7frV4n80 If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b32mYpitnKeef7M If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and the golden rules here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc

[@lauriemorales7605]

Ive done the no contact and he has never reached out. I am just devestated, but hopefully, in time, i will get better. I feel he will never change and can't forgive him for what he did anyway 😢

[@BradBrowning]

The first step is to forgive him fully. Otherwise it will never work and getting back together will be just a waste of time. But once you can forgive, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYHGl3qbf9aIj9E including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmesZp5ratWheac but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

[@MelatCucullu]

me: 💬are you taking the cat out for a walk? Him: we don’t have a cat 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

[@BradBrowning]

😂

[@MilardoOfficial]

I miss my kim. May you be happy and the star guide us where we need to be❤

[@BradBrowning]

Hi, thanks for dropping by!

[@sanyasuhane6731]

I love him I miss him , I want him but I don’t want him hope you get my point

[@BradBrowning]

The more recent the breakup, the more muddled your thinking is. Anyway like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is. Best of luck!

[@yoshamii]

He cheated and tbh i think i had a normal reaction. I was very upset and told him how how hurt I was feeling and how could he do this to me. I blocked him mid argument and i felt horrible so i apologized and begged to get back together. He said no and told me how it was all my fault. I begged but he said no. I decided to move on but my feelings got the best of me. Like a month or 2 later I apologized for reacting like that and not handling the situation calmly. He forgave me and we started dating again in secret and then he ghosted me. I blocked him and its it's been 3 months. Its been so hard because randomly I'll remember him and sob. I deleted all pictures of him and our messages and everything that included him. I was about to cry seeing all our past memories but i dont have to see it anymore. He is a drug I have to quit.

[@bradbeaman7391]

Hi Brad, Been without my ex for 6 years now and I'm still where I was when we broke up. I miss her like crazy and I feel like I'm never going to love like that again. I never stop thinking about her. I dont know what to do Brad

[@BradBrowning]

Six years apart? Nothing ventured, nothing gained, man. Watch this first to help set your expectations: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hau5qqCPo7Z5is0 and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ip-9q5h7frV4n80 If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b32mYpitnKeef7M If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and the golden rules here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc

[@1MNUTZ]

You have a soul tie and need to be delivered

[@immature01orchid]

Those who love hardly shouldn't love ❤

[@zubairsultan2433]

Hi Brand, i am big fan. Your ideas and presentation are awesome👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@BradBrowning]

Hey! I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)

[@Coolcatscattery]

Thank you for this video. I don’t know why I laughed at tinklehorn though lol I needed that laugh

[@BradBrowning]

Take it easy, yeah? :-) Fake it til you make it, it works! :-)

[@happy_sole3274]

No contact did not help me get him back! But it definitely helped me calm down emotionally and live life...

[@BradBrowning]

Oh, it works in various ways. Watch what I've explained here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/apjUoGeIn9aIptE

[@lyssahampton1999]

How can I get my baby daddy back I miss him so much I don’t know what to do I tried everything 😔

[@BradBrowning]

Here are the basics to getting an ex boyfriend back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting, and the psychology of how a man thinks and understanding men in general. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy

[@leesamaupin1382]

I don’t want my ex back but she keeps popping up in my head and it’s getting obnoxious

[@saajnanullneel4368]

My ex's birthday is tomorrow and its been three months since we broke up and two since we last spoke 😔 wat do I do

[@BradBrowning]

Watch this first to help set your expectations: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hau5qqCPo7Z5is0 and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ip-9q5h7frV4n80 If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b32mYpitnKeef7M If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and the golden rules here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc

[@jordi1748]

I was with this guy all summer and we didn’t “date” but we were basically together lol. Tbh it was better than any relationship I ever had and I really loved him. He didn’t want anything to do with me anymore after summer tho so I just unadded his social media just so I could respect his space. It’s sad to think I may never talk to him again :///. He still has my number but I doubt he’ll ever care enough to contact me so it’s over. Honestly it’s so sad lmaooo you lose hope after a few people break ur heart :’(

[@BradBrowning]

Consider moving on from this, especially if it was just a fling to either you or your short-term ex. My program is all about regaining that lost attraction. However, there may not be anything to rebuild here if that's the case because there wasn't any long term bonding or attraction that naturally develops in long term relationships. On the brighter side, here's how the "no contact" rule will work for you, though: kzbin.info/www/bejne/apjUoGeIn9aIptE However, you may want to improve your dating skills and Amy North may has a ton of tips on what to do about that, so check out her channel, too. Take care!

[@jtonchev4]

I find your tips so helpful 💜❤️

[@BradBrowning]

You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂

[@MrsPetal]

We're back being friends but we miss being a couple, but we don't miss arguing.

[@BradBrowning]

If you both still have mutual feelings for each other, then it shouldn't be that hard to get back together if you really want to.

[@solracsagrav122]

This is the best video I made in my eyes ... I needed this I almoust craked 😭🤦‍♂️

[@BradBrowning]

Be strong. You can do it. It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!

[@solracsagrav122]

Thanks 🙏 I will

[@micahrutland9021]

I miss my ex so much. She was my best friend. I'm lonely. So depressing.

[@BradBrowning]

...and right around the holidays, too. Sorry to hear that. I understand what you're going through. You know moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZmLap3-Jlrhslas And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHTEnIKFiNx8n7s or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com

[@risam858]

No contact Day 1. Let’s see how this go.

[@BradBrowning]

Stay strong!

[@Hopekayeny]

I'm back to day one as well. Let's do this

[@lanceFin85]

If you need to play games, you already lost.

[@Hopekayeny]

Lance Johnson I don't see it as playing games. If the person ignores you, you have to stop contacting them too

[@dylanmcintosh3904]

Dat_ninja Mdot how’s it been?

[@theultimate577]

She broke things off with me 3 times, bread crumbed me for a year. I hate her, yet miss her a lot and wish she'd make things right.

[@BradBrowning]

With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKKkdpxvhcd4d6M But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!

[@al_t.i.m9802]

Does it work in teenage relationships as well??

[@stephaniestuart9722]

Dear Brad, after 3 months of trying I got him back. We've been officially together for almost 3 weeks. We were having a pretty good time before it became official but since last week, he's been acting very cold and distant. I've talked to him about this but he refuses to have this conversation and says that everything is fine and that he's not going to break up again. He told me that I am in the place he was before (The one who tries to make the relationship go further) and even though he says he's alright, I want him to explain me what's going on. How to handle this situation and shake him a little bit without acting desperate?? Please help me.

[@BradBrowning]

It sometimes takes time for everything to get back to normal. Just chills and try not to push it, yeah? Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJvVgKOulpKqnKs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/rGrQh62eZ7OJd8U All the best! :-)

[@pinkykansara7187]

No contact day 3 and I'm dying😂

[@80skid83]

How many days now 😂

[@natthekiwi7074]

This feels bad. I feel like you should do these things whether or not you will get back with your ex

[@nkamilla003]

And what if it's a long distance relationship?

[@robertastfleur8358]

Kamilla Nagy same😭😭

[@preciousthings1372]

Me too

[@xaviergarces3125]

I did an alpha move and left my ex so she could be with her other option. I couldnt bare to watch her be happy with someone else, and i sure as hell am not going to be her second option. I just wonder if she ever thinks about me at all.

[@BradBrowning]

Good. Stay strong until you're fully healed!

[@jun10rf3]

Why do I feel bipolar, lonely some days and some days not. I’m happy and not happy 😂 damn

[@BradBrowning]

It's all part of the process. Be kind to yourself during this time! :-)

[@philmstud2k]

It's been two weeks. : / I feel like I won't hear from her within the 30 day period. No contact will turn into never contact.

[@BradBrowning]

Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqDRfqeCe9RjZpI but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eHLLfqWjrJiGo9U This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas Good luck!

[@gothboiclique7978]

Hello brad, I would like to apply the No-contact period, only my ex girlfriend is in my class at school! I can apply it on social media only I see her every day in real life! can you help me brad, thank you❤

[@BradBrowning]

You can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck

[@AndersenTrades]

It’s been two years and I still miss her like crazy

[@BradBrowning]

If it's been years since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz and I find that clients who score at least 68 on the quiz have better chances at fixing things with their ex if they continue to play their cards right, so depending on your score, go get my 2.0 Ex Factor Guide, at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Good luck!

[@knight14333]

my ex have probably 13 exes, but i still love her, she is already in other relationship with a guy who is 7 years older than her( btw she is 17). should i try to get her back??? i really need your opinion.

[@shadeszn2355]

knight 9 damn 13 ex’s and only 17? I thought my ex had a lot, she has 7 and is 17, but it really depends on how long you’ve been together, if it’s less than a year than she probably got over u quick, or she’s just dating other people to get over you, it doesn’t hurt to try to get her back, I hope u do get her back tho cuz I’m in the same boat and it’s getting me depressed, don’t even feel like getting out of bed :|

[@knight14333]

@@shadeszn2355 we had 6 months together, i don't know she loves or not, the only thing i know is that i love her, but it don't matter to her, coz she has many boys eyeing her, i am also very depressed, my self confidence is destroyed, i feel soo empty, i feel like i dont even exist. my insecurities are killing me day by day, just need somebody as a mentor or just boost my confidence, because i have been finding it difficult to explain my situation to other people, i dont know anything, i am just lost.

[@shadeszn2355]

knight 9 the fact that I can relate to u in so many levels is insane, I’m also insecure, mine was 2 years, not bragging but she’s hot as shit and if she wants another guy she can do it in a heart beat, I’m just scared she does and I’ll never have a chance again, don’t doubt yourself, it’s probably not even ur fault, it’s all her, Ik it’s hard to open up to ur friends or other people cuz u might get judged heavy, I have trouble with that too, it’s hard, idk man I have no advise cuz I’m in the same situation :| we can only hope it works out, music and writing/ songs, is the only thing keeping me going and getting me distracted

[@knight14333]

@@shadeszn2355 same here mate, are you on snapchat ?? we have same situations, hopefully we can help out each other

[@BradBrowning]

The decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. Is your ex worth getting back together with? Check this out, though, particularly if your reasons for getting your ex back overpowers everything else: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qKazoZKqeNhgp8k

[@jesperstolk]

Its been 3 months now, last weekend i went to a club and saw my ex there, i am still missing her everyday... that night we kissed, she showed affection, we danced and cuddled later that night. It brought me back to the good old times, when i got home that night i was balling my eyes out. The next day she said she didnt want the relationship back.. but why be so atracted to me the night before?

[@BradBrowning]

Was alcohol involved? That could be the answer there. But granted the relatively positive interaction you've had, I say you're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com

[@sln06a.b56]

You are super attractive and handsome 😍❤

[@BradBrowning]

Why thank you! ;)

[@sln06a.b56]

@@BradBrowning i dont my ex anymore 😂 im crushing on you LOL

[@BradBrowning]

Good coz you need to be taking your mind off your ex for now anyway! lol

[@my_dixie_rect8538]

My ex broke up with me this week, after 5 years. She didn’t give a reason other than her head is all over the place and she just wants to be on her own. I’ve cut off all ways for me to contact her, as I’m worried I’ll get in touch. I’m so lost and sad. If I didn’t have family who cared about me, I genuinely wouldn’t want to live, that’s how bad the pain is. I’m just about to watch this video, hope it can help.

[@BradBrowning]

Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKariHaNmqxkrtU However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas and the golden rules here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc

[@richardojeda8744]

My ex broke up with me a month ago, she's in NY with her family on vacation and seems to be having a great time, posting Snaps and stories on IG. I've been mostly ignoring them and haven't liked her most recent picture. She randomly reached out to me 2 days ago and asked me to look for her dog bc he escaped and I was the only one she could ask. So I helped her and found her dog (Miracle). She thanked me and wished me a happy new year and never replied again, I was being mostly dry with her. I'm now heading to NJ(she doesnt know) last minute trip and plan to be in NY over the weekend. I plan on taking pictures and posting them on social media. Will this come off as creepy like I'm following her or trying to one up her? This was out of the blue, what are your thoughts? Thanks Brad!

[@patitoduck123]

Richard Ojeda bro please please don’t do all that. I’m cringing so hard over here. That will look bad and yes, creepy as if you were following her. I’m sure you’re hoping to maybe see her and that things will magically rekindle because of it, they won’t. Just continue and stay no contact and move on with your life. Because you know what? That’s exactly what she’s doing. You owe yourself the same thing. It’s a new year, make this one about yourself. Not enough time has passed at all after your break up. You need to make yourself desirable, you seem too available. People want what they can’t have. Which is why you need to just let it GO. You helping her with her dog is a sweet gesture and I’m sure she was thankful for that, but leave it at that. I was in your position 2 years ago and trust me I know the feeling, you need to be strong and learn from this.

[@patitoduck123]

Richard Ojeda also if your goal is to get her back, you’re going about it wrong. You need to just do your own thing for you, not do things for her. Or as if she’s gonna see them. If you do take this trip, maybe take one pic, but don’t blow up the TL with updates. You need to live your life as if she’s not coming back, and I know that’s hard to hear but it’s the truth. It’s hurts, but it will help you heal. It’s okay to have some hope, but don’t live thinking “she’ll be back..” that’s torture bro. No way to live. Go no contact and let time pass. I’m talking weeks-months. If she does reach out after that, just be really cool and set up something small and casual. Like a first date. You go from there. And never ever bring up your past relationship. Gl KING 👑

[@richardojeda8744]

@@patitoduck123 Damn, thanks for the insight, did you ever get back with your ex?

[@monteclipz3715]

Richard Ojeda bro, I had an even worse, WAY WORSE situation with my ex. We were in Highschool last year and she told me in person she didn’t want me and even slapped me. We argued many times in school and she would make scenes, but she came back to me begging to be with me after a 3 months broke up. We broke up in October of 2017 and got back together on January 9th of 2018.

[@monteclipz3715]

Richard Ojeda Now it’s the same thing, we broke up on July, Again, and it’s been longer than 3 months since we’ve broken up, but I’m just laying back, Bc confidence is key

[@neiltagyab2427]

I threatened her to get back with me, she told me to wait 5 years, we said yes but when the object of threat is no more she changed. I don't think i have any chance of getting her back, she told me to learn and grow up. She's also disgusted.

[@BradBrowning]

Yeah, unfortunately becoming a cave man and trying to whack your man in the head no longer works. All kidding aside, yes that was a bad move and you ought to consider moving on from this. If you're having a tough time doing that, then I suggest you get my Beat the Breakup e-book. I made sure it takes a wholesome approach so everyone can relate to and I spent a lot of time writing this and have given it careful thought, so I guarantee you'll find something useful in it to help you out and move forward in life without your ex. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!

[@nijoradey]

Hey Brad! You're really a very good person full of positive energy. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago that too all of a sudden. I am a small town girl of West Bengal India and he moved into another city named Bangalore India far from my place. It's almost impossible to see each other at least as he wants me to move on and he wants to do also. Everything was really good in between us. I was aware that he's gonna shift in that city so that we met on the 13th of February and spent one night together and celebrated Valentine's day beautifully. We've been in relationship for 4 long years and yeah we both have memories of loving, fighting, planning our wedding everything as same as every relation has. He met me with his parents and I also met him with my parents. He never seemed like he was unhappy. Yeah I won't deny there was time when I argued a lot and he disliked it and now he said these arguments are the reason for the breakup while recently we didn't even have any minor fights. I asked him for the real reason many times and he told me that his parents are not agreeing, then said he doesn't feel that love and attachment we had and then said he wanted to marry someone new, have sex with someone, meet his female friends. I never restricted him in anything. He was the one who used to doubt me but I gained his trust. But now he's saying he doesn't trust me, he doesn't feel his future is safe with me, our thoughts are different blah blah. I pleaded and cried and tried everything to not leave me like this. But he said this is his final decision. But he's texting me to know if i'm okay or not, then again blocking, then praising me while i sent him my song. I told him to stay atleast for now. He said he will help me to move on but he's not gonna text me and will not reply much. I said i can understand the situation i'll manage myself and you take care of yourself dont worry. He said "hm ok". Then I started watching ur videos and stopped contacting him. Just after 1day of not texting him he messaged if i'm fine or not. I replied the next morning that " yeah m good, little busy last night.. how are you?" He replied "good, stay busy.. study now" I sais "I'm in the gym, i'll talk to you later, bye" ..He didn't reply after. This is just today morning's conversation. When he was with me in the relationship he always told me to leave junk food and exercise though i have a maintained figure just a little tummy fat increased but now I'm doing gym. just joined. So after not replying ,he unhid his profile picture that I have begged for 2 days before while i was begging him to come to me. Now from yesterday when I stopped texting he's doing this stuff. [ we talk in whatsapp. our relation was public. we both made it public and used to upload our many pictures. now he deactivated his instagram and FB acount. and told me to delete all photos and removing his friends from my list] Is there any hope of him returning to me? Is there anything you wanna advise me Brad? I am really in a bad condition. I love him so much and want him back for forever. Please reply. Thanks ❤️

[@BradBrowning]

I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKqtg6OerKmWl5Y and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!

[@nijoradey]

@@BradBrowning Thanks for your kind response. I blocked him saying not to contact me anymore as he was contacting repeatedly and making issues and it's been over one month now. I feel independent and stronger. I get time to take care of my skin, my health and my study. I have cracked the NET JRF here in India and I am going to pursue a PhD. I actually have 3 besties and they always support and encourage me. And also my family is very much supportive. Yes I do think of him everyday but I believe that love never fades away and if it does then it's not love. I am happy Brad. Thank you. 😊❤️

[@KushiJain18]

@@nijoradeywish I also had besties I am also going through a similar situation right now

[@Sunnybias]

I miss my ex and not sure we can be apart. But it is all so complicated yet something ain’t right about being apart...

[@BradBrowning]

If you got dumped, it is right to be apart. Don't fight the changes, you'll only make it harder on yourself. Let go a bit first, all right? That's what giving space is all about!

[@mightgoberserk]

We broke up 4 months ago, after a 3 years relationship, and we kept talking until a week and 4 days ago. We haven't talked at all since then, nothing, after 3 years talking everyday, to nothing. I woke up this morning with tears in my eyes after dreaming that I'm cuddling and kissing her, and it felt so real..

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. It's only normal. Your brain and heart are processing the emotions and loss you're feeling. Just stay strong, okay? As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!

[@thegrimreaper5398]

I got dumped last year in February a couple of days before valentine's day. We dated for four years. Things were so good for so long. Till I messed up. Luckily, she will still text me. But it takes weeks till I finally get a reply and she will only text for a couple of minutes and then do the same thing again. Iv'd been telling her how much I miss her and how I want to be back with her so much. I'm always replying right away, messaging first, and to always say what's going on in life. While she is always being so secretive. I also am an overthinker. And will always think about bad things that can happen. Like her being with someone else and do everything that we did as a couple. Been hoping for so long to still get back together somehow. And I hope that whoever else is missing their ex a lot will be able to get that person back.

[@BradBrowning]

What did you do and what steps have you taken as far as my videos go? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJrOiGePjqhsr9E and from my other vid here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hn-QYWqhdtl8oNk but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p5-oYmxom7p-rqs

[@richardtorres8399]

Hey Brad i really need help and i hope you can respond to this comment. I recently stopped talking to a girl, we stopped talking about 3 weeks ago I’ve been begging her but she just keeps saying no she doesn’t even want to be friends. Our relationship was like we were dating you know we would pretty much do everything we would kiss, hang out, tell each other how much we liked each other we were talking for at least 4 months and In those 4 months I realized how much I wanted to be with this girl and how much she means to me. She’s a Senior in highschool and I’m a Junior. She’s going to college pretty soon she wants to go to a 4 year good college which is like 3 hrs away from home. She told me people told her that we rushed into things etc and then from there she just told me she felt and knew we weren’t going to workout she doesn’t love me the same way I love her, she also told me she believes she’s better off alone, the thing is she would always tell me how much she liked me and wanted to be with me and everytime i would ask her to hangout or even if I kissed her she would never deny me, now I’m just really sad because I like her so much and I think about her I’ve been begging her so much and I’ve even asked her if she’s wanted to be friends but she just keeps saying no, I don’t know what to do if you could really give me advice or help me out I would highly appreciate it Brad Thanks !

[@BradBrowning]

It's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@ells6756]

We broke up a week ago and started no contact 3 days ago but we had to talk yesterday to cancel a phone plan we had together. I'm really struggling. All I want to do is call him.

[@BradBrowning]

Really sorry to hear that. It is a really tough thing to go through indeed. Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck