i miss you, but i'm better off without you.

[@syrosmusic]

Listen to my playlist on Spotify :) spoti.fi/3dQxhua

[@grumpoi]

I once saw a quote saying something like "you don't miss the person, you miss the feeling", thought that it could help some of you. It even helped me. Sometimes you expect a lot of things and know that these are only possibilities, and even if these didn't happen, it isn't your fault, you'll find what you want with someone else or even with yourself! Don't lose hope, keep on going, recognising that it couldn't happen (despite your love and so on) with this person is already a big step.

[@niyuhxo]

is it bad that i want to find someone to replace him? I just miss him, yeah I do but, i just want to have somebody else, somebody who treats me better than he did, but to still feel the same when i was with him. does that make any sense? i know that thats just much to ask and i should get over him, but i do miss every special moment, all of the feelings that we have bottled up for so long, all of the birthdays, holidays, cute little dates and secrets just the two of us know about ...all of the things that i wouldnt be able to share the memories of with another person. And thats what kinda kills me inside

[@grumpoi]

@@niyuhxo I think that you're right when you said that you should get over him. I mean, you can have love again, but you probably won't find the same person. And if you try to replace him, how would you not think about him when you're finally with somebody else? It's kinda a bad idea in my opinion, because you're focusing on the past and not really moving on. Yes, these were beautiful memories, yes you miss them, but these won't happen again. Whereas, you can find so much more! Also, if you want somebody else who treats you better, I think that you can make the first step and try not to be with somebody to replace someone. Just think about how you would react if it was you, you would want someone who is with you because he loves you, not because he wants to replace someone. In addition, I think that you will be depending on him and I don't really like this idea. Because you want this feeling, you'll only try to pursue it, and not be focusing on how the person treats you for example. If you want someone who treats you better, you should also understand that you can be with someone totally different but feeling love again anyway (if it was what you meant when you said "feeling the same thing" then that's okay). And if you don't allow yourself to live something new, you probably won't find what's really meant for you. And try to be with someone because you really are into him, not because you want to find love. Now you can find love even within you, or with somebody else. But focus on the present because you still have enough power to make new memories, and maybe you'll find out that these new experiences were better after all...

[@bryanparks6958]

@@niyuhxo I am separating from my wife of 20 years because our marriage has become toxic and is having an negative impact upon my 15 year old daughter. This should have happened sooner, but I loved her and wanted to make everything work, even at the expense of the tolls and sacrifices it entailed on my part. Now I am tormented with the messy strings that entwine us through my daughter that is staying with me because she can't stand her mother and doesn't anything to do with her. I know I am better without her, but I sometimes feel lonely and miss her, but not the toxicity and not being loved and appreciated for who I am, instead of being loved for what I am not. It hurts, and I miss the feelings of love and intimacy that we shared, but that was under the lie of what I was not and never will be. I have learned to be me and nothing else that someone will maybe want in their life someday. But I don't know how or when that will come around as my ex-wife is refusing a divorce and will contest it to delay and drag it out because she can, essentially chaining me to this undead and wasted corpse of a marriage that binds her to me through my daughter that I love more than life itself.

[@Speed001]

If that's the case ("you don't miss the person, you miss the feeling"), how do you know if you ever really care for someone? Is it all just an arbitrary choice based on chance, feelings, and aligned long term goals?

[@grumpoi]

@@Speed001 I think that it depends Here I would say that it's about expecting someone to be like this or like that, but realising that you misunderstood this one. Sometimes your partner mislead you on purpose too. So when you think about wanting to be with him again, I don't think it's because you cared for him because you didn't know him. You know you care for someone when you truly know this person in my opinion? (Sorry if my answer isn't really good)

[@isredditandchill]

Daily reminder, You survived another week in a very tough world, even though at times it felt like you wouldn't, and I'm so proud of you…

[@mrbred-el3vf]

aw, thanks, you're so sweet. have a beautiful day.

[@isredditandchill]

@@mrbred-el3vf thank you! Have a great day!💜

[@bigmcg7484]

Thanks very much, you too

[@ichase8555]

thank you! i am a serial killer btw

[@streusel17]

@@ichase8555 you had us in the first half

[@AnnieMalmstrom]

Just a reminder that the person you're better off without doesn't have to be an ex lover. It can be a friend or even family, especially family, blood doesn't mean they care about what's best for you. Sometimes you have to look out for yourself because no one else will, even if everything you've ever seen tells you they should, sometimes they just won't. But it's okay, you're awesome and you can get through it and find people that love you for you and support you. A family is built on love, effort and support, not blood.

[@-lovekylah131]

Definitely a message I didn’t know I needed to hear thank you✨

[@dartdevious561]

@@-lovekylah131 you're awesome too and definitely liked this with quickness!

[@LuIsSaNcHeZ510]

Sometimes that person is yourself. A worse version of yourself that you need to walk away from.

[@jazz4asahel]

Thank-you Annie. The person whom I better off without might be the new relationship I'm hoping for.

[@justhere7192]

tbh i really needed this playlist cause that title really smacked the message to me. i need to remember that i only miss the memories with them, i dont actually miss them :/

[@nataliaparedes920]

I recently broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago, and I've been feeling so bad because I missed him so much. Still do, but I know I'm better off without him. Then this playlist came along... Wow fate's a weird thing huh?

[@netoki_]

google is spying on you >:D

[@Khn_2102]

Don't worry about that, I'm sure you'll find better one soon! 😊

[@harilove620]

hmm because youtube spy you...

[@ryderchittock1404]

wow I'm in the exact same situation..... weird.

[@esfdoggo399]

Ikr, fate is weird honestly but thats still the intersting part bout life, we just need to vibe sometime

[@halycon4923]

Just a little message that I'd tell myself and for anyone who needs to hear it... Just a reminder for those debating on messaging I know I've been in your position so many times but remember the reason you initially left and trust the past version of you had the best intent for you, there was a reason don't doubt or discredit yourself, you deserve the trust and love they broke the relationship/friendship, but that doesn't mean the love and trust you share with yourself is also broken, move on, forgive (You don't have to forgive them but forgive for yourself, let go of the anger and hate that continues to hold them accountable when you're ready for you'll only exhaust yourself for someone who let you go in a matter of seconds) and let the universe do the rest. May you be smiled upon, rest easy.

[@palak8742]

Such a beautifully put message. Thank you for this, kind stranger. I really needed it.

[@vttsiab]

Honestly, I've been wanting to hear this for a really long time, I feel like I've been exhausting myself because I keep coming back to feel that feeling but every time I do I overexert and lose all hope mentally.

[@deatharim]

sometimes i feel like i miss them, and then there are times that i don't miss them. i wish things didn't turn out like this 💔 relationships are so complicated, i wanted to keep trying and she saw me trying. but in the end, she was tired and gave out. i wish i understood how she felt all this time, as she bottled her feelings. but i can't tell when she doesn't tell me. now i have to move on.

[@circeeldritchworkaholicwitch13]

Sending this to a very special (not) someone who deserves this myself.

[@andyli2046]

I just came off from a long term relationship, I really thought that this person really was the one. I never thought this would ever happen to me but unfortunately I'm wake living in a world where she's no longer someone I can call my own. I needed this in my life as I grieve for the what if and everything we gone through together.

[@earlparkour9839]

Sorry man. I know the feeling, for me it never got so much less painful, it's just crossed my mind less and less these days. It's like some "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind" shit. I don't want to forget. ... But, what I can say 100% is I've grown a fuck ton and you will too. You will be surprised to see how different and improved you are in a long while. It's slow but everything happens for a reason, and we're going to make sure that reason counts.

[@spencerlarson9357]

My whole life, I've been good at hiding. Hiding pain, hiding addiction, hiding from people, hiding from myself. Hiding is how I survived. But now ... now I can't stop hiding. Hiding from healing, hiding from recovery, hiding from connection, hiding from dreams. Hiding from life. Hiding; I rely on it so much and I'm honestly terrified to stop. But ... I'm better off without it. Thanks for the music and this wonderful community. And thanks for listening.

[@emmanuelmbime6845]

🧡✌🏽

[@jazz4asahel]

You are facing things a bit at a time, and you are already in the recovery process. Godspeed.

[@MoroFullmetal]

Even though the days are rough, you wish you might just give up. But know this- we will be listening. To your tears, your pain, your hurt. And we will know. Who you are, who you want to be, all that you are and have become. And yet to beign becoming. So we wish you well.. we wish you well. -LightsWeKeepInside

[@leahle7066]

Thank you, I needed this.

[@AdmiringBlue]

There's beauty in proudfully being able to say, that lately you haven't being doing okay, that you might have trouble when it comes to finding your way and to realize that what life will look like tommorow... is decided today. Your head is in the clouds and moving on seems like an impossible task, all the stress surrounding had you put on mask. A mask that doesn't fit, that damn thing just doesn't stick, for it feels like trying to stab a solid brick, with what seems to be the equivalent of a toothpick. "It's alright!" we say, as if the all stress isn't about to make us crumble any minute now. As if a silent mumble going "it'll be okay somehow..." even remotely resembles what we could call our inner snowplough. It's not going to be alright through pretending to believe in an unwritten clause, as relieving the stress requires valiant effort when it comes to finding the root cause. We all have inner demons that try their very best to not let the sun shine, but what we tend to forget on our journeys, is to take it one step at a time. It's about making the stars align, about understanding that after throwing a dime, no matter whether it lands on heads or tails, in both cases you'll end up being fine. Dear fellow human - I trust that you can, but what is of more importance, is that you make today THE day, where the healing began.

[@YOOJOONKANG]

We all go through this mystery called love. Whether we think we understand it or not, it always remains something so mysterious yet so beautiful. If you've ever felt that you were betrayed or left behind because of your past relationship (whether it was romantic or not), just know that it most likely ended that way for the better. In order for you to strive, you must work harder and forget what dragged you down in the past. Use it as a source of motivation to become a better person. Remember, you are loved and you deserve so much better!

[@azly4930]

Thanks you. This playlist gave me the courage to write a farewell letter to someone who once broke me.

[@astumekei9610]

Everything just reminds me of him. Like, tiktok, there are some videos where guys will do this one voice, and he used to do that. There will be videos that remind me of him, videos on KZbin that remind me of him. I'm slowly trying to let go and not think about him. I'm not trying to forget him, but make it so I don't think about him everytime I see things. It just sucks man, cause like- I really liked him, but he just saw me as a friend.

[@reginadhesta1805]

i was feel the same

[@annabananas3940]

I relate to this way too much...

[@limonchi548]

me too. i thought he was the one from how sweet he acted towards me

[@greypotato103]

dont think ill ever find a relationship but this music is so soothing and perfect

[@ignacioalmiron7187]

hey, don't be so harsh on you, I'm sure you'll find the one

[@pomarutku]

Had a dream about my ex today and now I see this playlist in my "for you" page. Well.. yes, that's exactly what I was thinking

[@Capybaragee]

I also keep dreaming about my ex, it's a pain :,)

[@aria5614]

I'm seeing so many people talking about being the one to leave the other, but in my case I was the one left behind. It was the best thing that could have happened to me, personally, allowed me to grow from what I had been stuck as due to the other person's presence. But it still hurts. I still miss them and I still seek their approval. Even though they made it clear, at the time, that they never wanted to see me again. And honestly I also don't want to see them ever again. I just, want to know if they miss me like I miss them. If they occasionally check my discord or my Tumblr to see if I'm still alive. I need an answer and my mind is screaming to email them to get it. But I want to respect their decision and if they have some former bad habits of theirs still- When you're desperate to get away from someone, even if you cared for them intensely once, do you look back? Do you miss them? Do you miss someone that felt like a responsibility? Because I don't know. And it's tearing me in half.

[@photon1899]

Yes, I look back. At some point it stops hurting. You still get nostalgic or melancholic thinking back. But you can think of times that were good too. You can think of how getting past that person set you on the way to who you are now. And if you are at a better place now, you can look back and be thankful it worked out this way. A piece of you will always belong to the people one shared a lot with at one point in time. I miss how it felt. But I know there is no way it will ever feel like that again.

[@kid0i983]

I'm sure they have thought about it.

[@kid0i983]

Just because they where the ones who left doesn't mean they don't feel anything about it. I left but Im sure I feel more than what the people i left feel towards my departure.

[@jazz4asahel]

Most have those feelings, likely also the person you miss. Important is finding value in the person you are, and finding love for the person you are ever becoming. None of us are alone.

[@TaniaC0009]

You'll grow out of it and you'll be wonderful. Now the only person you need aproval of is yourself Wish you luck 💛

[@axolotlaugust7354]

It's been a year, and I still struggle to feel okay. Sometimes I feel like I'm getting better and moving on, and then it all comes crashing down and I feel like I can't be happy without them. Being happy has been really difficult since they left. They left with no warning, no explanation, just gone one day. It breaks my heart sometimes to think that the people I love can throw me away so easily. I won't give up trying to pick up the pieces of my life though. I've possibly found someone new, I'm not sure how things will go yet but I could see myself happy with them. I won't stop trying to love others and I won't stop trying to be happy. Maybe one day I can update this comment on my life once this chapter of it is over and I'm at peace with the whole situation.

[@antekb1034]

It must have been awful and i cannot begin to imagine the hell you must have been going through, but as a coomment above said, "This too shall pass" You diserve happiness, and no one should be treated like you were. Its slow, and painfull, and reallly f%&#ing hard, but as you saw the title of this video, you are better of without them, and you will get better. I wish you all the best, and that you finnaly see yourself for what you are, a diserving of happiness, mistreated person, that like a slowly changing butterfly will pop out of the cacoon and flourish, only looking back to remember what incredible metamorphosis they went through. Take care

[@jacksonitro]

2022 is just beginning and there are already more problems, this is a break, thanks

[@mikechow7261]

Sometimes, taking care of yourself, means forcing yourself to do things that you don't want you, its for the best...

[@jeweliee7188]

Reminds me of my ex bestfriend who I've known for 8 years. I talked to them 3-8 hours everyday. They changed by invalidating my thoughts and feelings for a couple of years, as well was super controlling. It's been almost a year since I've cut contact but I miss them everyday. Scratch that. I don't miss them, I miss what we had.

[@straynamic5711]

She broke up with me right before new years. I needed this. Thank you.

[@wolfieeeeeeeeeeee]

In two months it will be me and my exes day we broke up. So much great fucking things have happened since last year, it may have been hard at first but I'm still standing. I genuinely believe I am a better version of myself compared to then. I dont like sharing shit on the internet but i think ill do it just this once.

[@kryoxix7024]

its been 4 months since me and him broke up. its been a wild ride but i must say that eventually itll get better. the pain never truly goes away, but you learn to cope and move on from it eventually. it may take a couple months, maybe even years, but it will happen :)

[@MsJoyMaeda]

What hurt wasn't the decrease in communication due to busy lives. What actually hurt was that I tried to get back in touch and they told me they wanted nothing to do with me anymore. I'm slowly feeling better by the day, but sometimes the feelings of missing them comes back.

[@mrchocobo3264]

Once I had a realationship with a person I really loved. But every time the person left it felt like my heart just got ripped out of my chest. Thats why I decided to not meeting that person anymore. It was one of my best decisions in my life. I cant say that I am fine right now, but I can defenetively say that I am feeling better without that person. Thank you for the great music Syros and have a nice day OwO

[@LegoSwordViedos]

With my ex they were abusive and I wasn't strong enough honestly to move on and break up when i Knew I should. I was deathly afraid of being alone so much so I put up with the worst abuse in my life, for what little glimpses of love I got and promises they would stop hurting me and treat me better. and things seemed to just get a tiny bit better before they would get worse again, they would dump me and then ask for me back after I cried my eyes out and had a panic attack and they did this again and again and again. till on the 6th time I made them swear they would never pull that same thing on me again and then they did. they dumped me, and began messing around with others right after and then when those people saw the abusive emotional mess they were they didn't want much to do with them and then after a week they came back asking for me to take them back. And even though I know it was awful, that I still loved my abuser, I couldn't change my heart but one thing I did know is I could not trust them because they swore to me their most sacred oath and broke it, and I knew I couldn't be with anyone who didn't take their oath seriously. And I said no they left and I cried. And I know everyone will just say and know that I'm weak and pathetic and everything, I feel that all about myself, and for not being strong enough to end it when I should of when I saw the earlier warning signs, and I went through so much pain but also knowing I have no one to blame but myself for being so pathetic and weak to let it happen and it was all my fault, I had to go through such hell. but after a year some of my friends became good friends they listened to me vent about all of it, helped me let out my trauma even though I know it must have been awful and pathetic and cringe to hear and I wasted so much of their time. I am so very thankful to them because at least I felt cared for or like some part of my life mattered, and to me, that was worth more then anything because part of the reason I clung to an abuser is I thought they were the only one who had a shred of love or caring for me in this world, and I would do anything for that sliver of love and caring. but my friends showed me through their actions not just hollow words they cared a lot about me. and that helped me to know I did miss my ex (who also flaunted their new relationships and wealth and status in my face afterwards to further rub salt in my wound while I was single and lonely targeting all my insicutities I had opened up to them about), but even though I missed my ex and part of me was still in love with them, I was better off without them. and then I meet my partner that I am curently with and they are the best person I've known in that they treat me so well and it is like night and day compared to my ex. and I love them so much. I never even thought anyone other then my ex could or would love me. but my love showed me I was wrong and treats me so well I couldn't be happier and does anything I ask. and I want to show them how much I love them and how much they mean to me. and I would do anything for them as well. I don't know what I'm trying to say but to anyone else out there going through abuse. it can get better, I know it's scary but step out and be free, and slowly things will get better and the day will come when you see how much better of you are for moving on. if I had not moved on I would still be with my abuser, stressed and unloved and crying regularly, and I could never have met the great person I love now. But takign the risk is better then staying. and I hope you find acceptance and love that you deserve. And you no longer have to fight for what little affection you get. And know if you are in that situation I care about you, and believe in you. You may miss them but you are better off without them.

[@Capybaragee]

I just want to say that it is NEVER the victim's fault if they are abused. When you're being manipulated, it's not on you to figure out that you're being manipulated, that's the whole point of manipulation (it's like lying to someone and then getting angry if they didn't see through your lie, it makes no sense). It's entirely the abuser's fault for using manipulation/abusive tactics to get something from you. I'm glad you found some amazing people to support you. I hope you're doing well now

[@mon6335]

"I miss you, but I'm better off without you." Stares at Overwatch

[@Maxim9575]

There are lot of people write about their relations and what they feel now. It's wonderful, no I am not speaking about breaking up, I am saying about people which are not alone in common trouble here. Remember always, that there is a person that feels same as you. I wish to everyone here pure happiness :)

[@Cherryarzorb]

Not specifically a person but im missing my old friend group before i parted away from them. it was nice but i felt left out as time went by to the point that i sometimes get ignored. it was nice while it lasted.

[@jannoons]

It's my birthday today and it always brings up memories of the first birthday you decided to ignore. Lifelong friends to dropped like that. I've moved on but it still sucks to feel like that's the landmark on this day.

[@dawnnn568]

sorry to know. happy birthday tho fam, I hope you achieve many great things in life and be where you wanna be

[@naru2863]

Happy birthday!

[@jannoons]

@@dawnnn568 thank you ♡

[@jannoons]

@@naru2863 thank you! :)

[@mwk.k]

happy late bdayy

[@aster4025]

after you had to leave, i wished i could just forget you because it hurt so bad. but you promised you'd come back to me and i held on to that, besides the hurt. alas, you gave up on it all and blamed me for missing you. after my tireless efforts to support you and wait for you, even while you barely made space for me in your life. with the chance to let go, i realized i don't really want you at all. you were more trouble than you're worth. for me, anyways. i once would have done anything for you. now, if i never see you again, i don't mind. to be honest, it's even a relief...

[@vantom253]

This fits well to my situation right now.. I got in a fight with a dear friend I've know for over 3 years now because I genuinly hate her toxic friend. He's manipulative and only became friends with the girls in out group. He always pretendet to be that "UwU Shy boy" and plays the victim so he can seek comfort to the girls. But he didn't gave two shits about the boys. Joining in Discord he only greeted the girls, He always started fights and then he would play the victim again. There's much more but I can't list everything. She didn't like that I told her that and we cut out connection for a while. We're friends again now but it feels wrong.. She doesn't allow me to even talk about him anymore and it just feels different. She doesn't believe me.. A friend for so many years now. It's been hurting me for a while now and I think there's nothing I can do to convince her I'm right. I think I really gotta end it, for my own sake. I miss you, but I'm better off without you..

[@shepherdbrooks7609]

Recently got into D&D again. I'm missing my university D&D club. I made actual friends there. We had so much fun. Met a girl I thought would become a lifelong best friend, but she turned out to be a compulsive liar with a lot of other toxic traits, and same went for her boyfriend who I also once considered a good friend. I know I'm better off without them, but I miss the memories when things were good. I miss getting to PLAY D&D instead of watching hours of videos, dreaming of having a good group again like I used to some day. I want to be a DM. I want to tell incredible stories with people I care about. I hope I find my people soon. I'm really terrible at making friends. I have so few now and they don't have a lot of the same interests as me.

[@Capybaragee]

My ex used to play D&D and he would ask people on reddit to join his campaigns, maybe that could work for you? :-)

[@celestialbunny]

Same. With Fortnite instead cause my friend invited me into her group but she was the same as yours. It sucks. I thought I had the start of friends, but people left, one wasn't someone I was interested in for good reason, I liked this one boy. In a platonic way, but he never talked to me outside of the game. I wasn't going to play fucking Fortnite just to talk to him. I only played because of her, but she never wanted to be with me in and outside Fn. I had a good time. I left because I left my one friend and they were her friends, so I wasn't going to take them away for a few hours cause she would have thrown a fit. They weren't close to me regardless. I thought I had the start of something, so it sucks it did not work out at all. :/

[@CloudColumncat]

Daily after from my work and time, i will listen to this for chilling and peaceful moments.

[@Ashen_Viper]

This is how I feel about my League addiction lmao

[@nguyenthuyvy2244]

So, my best friend just moved away a week ago and I'm missing her so much. And I've been unmotivated and depressed lately. This playlist has helped me a lot, hehe. Thank you so much!💕💕😊😊

[@plexyp1881]

The meaning of life is to find the small joyess in this world, and don't give up if you can't find them yet, some day, someone you love is going to help you find them

[@Klyias]

My Good Game Empire addiction. I miss that game and still love it, but I'm better off without it because it sucks you into a grind of maintaining your empire almost 24/7 and getting sleep deprived. Great mix btw. Its very calming and helps me study.

[@alainaz7713]

I am obsessed with this playlist. Possibly your best playlist I've ever listened to!!

[@FoxletNull]

Sure there's parts of me that miss her, but in the grand scheme of things I'm overall better without. It's only been a little over a month and I've done tons with my life that would have taken me half a year when I was with her. She ended up dragging me down since I couldn't do anything without her having this constant need to be by my side. That made it difficult to focus on my education and future prospects. Now that's she's gone I've been able to travel freely and also get a very stable job. I've met tons of amazing people who are able to just be there for me and vice versa. I appreciate everybody here, even if I don't know you.

[@AveragePixelEnjoyer]

I got out of a traumatizing relationship a year and a half ago. There were terrible days, days I'm embarrassed to even think about, and days I made lots of mistakes because I was vulnerable and insecure and lonely, but as time went on, the days got fewer and further between. You'll have on and off days, and that's okay. It's part of the grieving process. Whatever you do, though, don't go back to them. Your healing isn't that way.

[@yugao2]

Indeed,I am better of without you. I don't even remember your name anymore.

[@shayoui]

two weeks ago i ended a year long relationship and yesterday i turned 18. i feel like my life has sped up faster in the past couple months than ever before. it’s all blurring before my eyes. im open and optimistic for change but it’s all happening at once. it’s hard finding the energy to keep up with planning the future and trying to enjoy my last year of highschool. just worried i won’t ever reach my full potential or truly experience things to their fullest. my life has become a fuzzy, bittersweet, dream.

[@haiweec]

I broke up with my bf 6 months ago, the first 3 months were hard. The one person who I talked every day, the one person I felt safe sharing my pain and emotions with, was no longer a part of my life. Although I made that decision, it was still hard and painful. I know now that I am better off without him. I can finally be who I always wanted to be and not who he wanted me to be. As I continue to grow and learn who I am, I know the person who I am supposed to be with will love and adore me for who I am.

[@Capybaragee]

Hold up, I also broke off with my bf 6 months ago and literally rediscovered how awesome I am. Are we the same person 🥴

[@sady_6866]

omg this song came in the perfect moment, i have been thinking about leaving this friend group allot since i took my break of from talking anyone in online and feel that i don't really feel comfortable anymore and doesn't really has the same old vibe, they kind people but this has been nagging me allot ever since i got asked from a friend there 'we are friends right?'

[@ayacroft]

i never knew id enjoy a playlist like this, its so soothing and calming and i like listening to it while doing my school work or just day dreaming. thank you!!

[@antonioalgustool7909]

thx, for this playlist and comments, this real help me.

[@creatrotera]

You used to be my best friend. Now that you are drifting apart, i feel like no mater how much i try to save this burning bridge, you arent doing the same. Im giving so much more love than what you are giving back and god it hurts so fucking much. I still crave your messages and calls but the more i wait for you to reciprocate, the longer i am prolonging my torture. You always seem so disinterested in me and no longer treasure the gifts i give you. This is why im letting go. I will miss you, you will forever have a special place in my heart, but Im better off without you.

[@HellnahhLol]

i sometimes think that youtube actually spies on me or something cause these recommendations are too good i was alone and had no friends mostly because my best friend left me because of his girlfriend , and i came to discord to maybe find actually good people to talk to , and i think i found a couple but the thing is that i was spending so much with them that although i was doing really good in my school , my family wanted perfection and they were putting pressure on me that i should just delete discord and study more , so i just had to be studying until my eyes were burning , and now im just alone again , by myself ... even though i know i probably should stay in contact with them but its so hard rn and i dont even want to talk about it seeing them having fun without me and knowing that ill never get the chance to be that happy again when im older kills me inside and then this playlist pops up and it makes me think about someone special that i really liked in discord , but i have to study to get to the PERFECTION point :") ...

[@sady_6866]

you can always be that happy again but now its just in another time but not now, you can always meet other people but i wouldn't recommend bringing discord the whole time your happyness and spend time with yourself more .finding what makes yourself happy and do the things that you like , it doesn't always need someone to make you happy i hope this helps and im hoping you have a really nice day

[@ouvie]

this playlist is one of my favorites

[@matthewlee4834]

That title means everything to me

[@hridswarmhands2688]

I love this mix. Ty.

[@dartdevious561]

Okay, this actually really good

[@kikiwipi]

this title......this....title touched me bc I lived this.

[@aitishasunday]

cute and soft ✨

[@xmxxnsx6442]

i saw this and instantly thought of my old crush, he moved and it broke my heart but while healing from that i found my soulmate and me and him have been dating for 3 almost 4 months :D

[@ichichew]

i still love him, but i dont want to back to those days, i dont want to left alone again, but i dont want my life without him.

[@elisautrilla]

I don't really now if i left or i was left.Really,i was exhausted and he gave me a "death line " to see if the relationship would work and i told him that if he wanted everything to end,ended it now.And he did.I was so fucking exhausted man,i did almost everything i could to make him happy,but at that time i was stressed out with my situation at home,my own health struggles and college .I had this feel i needed to make eveybody happy...but i think that the last one i thought about,was me. I can get he wanted that we spent more time,but always was in someones house,do the same things and for that stupid thing i had struggles with my parents.Because my life isn't like a teenage movie and he didn't have the same responsabilities and situations at home as i had...like i could change my whole life only to satisfy his desires Now i'm filled with anger,with guilt,with sadness and my anxiety sometimes makes me overthink my situation all over again...but i think that this situation was necessary.I was given less that i desserved and i did forget about me.I hope one day I can talk about this like a little happy time or try to be friends again...if he changes of course.But for now i think i'm better off without him

[@mathew3988]

Why do words hits so hard

[@elizabeth4689]

3 years ago I started a twitter to join a fandom, and there I made a friend who I texted and became confidants with, and even had skyped with. even though we lived half way across the world from each other we talked about things I don't like talking about with real life friends. I always looked forward to chatting with her and it made quarantine lockdown less lonely. but last month she stopped replying to my tweets and messages and if i'm being honest it really did hurt. of course, this is someone i've never met in real life, so it's questionable if we were really "friends". i'll never know whether it was something i said or whether she just outgrew our friendship. whatever you're doing in life, I hope things work out for you. regretfully, tofu.

[@frostie7105]

THANK YOU SYROS!

[@FateGenetic]

I had met you while we worked together. You flirted with me and I didn't see it. We ended up together and eventually I asked you to marry me. Almost 6 years together and you cheated on me. I guess you checked out of the relationship at some point. I wish you had told me more. I wish we had spent more time together. I wish I made you feel more loved so you didn't feel alone or defeated. I'm forever sorry for not being able to be there for you when you needed me most and I was struggling myself. I hate that we hurt each other when we wanted to try and work on fixing the relationship. I hope you work on your happiness more as time goes on, I'll do the my best for the same. Each day that goes by is easier and harder. The pain I feel is emotional, physical, and mental. Only time and help with therapy can heal the wounds this has left us. I can say I'll never love another like you and I hope you cherish that. Goodbye Tia. I love you.

[@DotcomJoe]

Thank you

[@Speed001]

2/5/2022 I don't think I've had someone like this in my life, so I'm happy for that. I guess nobody in my life has both been someone that I miss and that overstayed their metaphorical welcome. This is some introspective stuff. Maybe I'm just a drifter, allowing myself to socially be reliant on circumstance. But there are a few people I try to stay in contact with (meaning I might message them once every few months and they always respond. Though they never contact me first). I think we're all leaves blowing in the wind, I'm just too stupid to find a ground. I would hate myself for not acting sooner, if I could feel. Do something, anything, just don't do nothing but it falls on deaf mental ears. In a way, I've lost who I was in that aspect of acting sooner. It's like there's that person that I want to be and that person that I am. I want for the most unhealthy ideal, knowing how detrimental it would be for me mentally, in order to reach a logical end goal. There's who I am, who I want to want to be, who I want to think I am, and a vague developing end goal and few side goals that should take more than my lifetime, this way I have a reason to live, then I can die when there is nothing more that I can contribute, once my debt is payed. But I'll never be able to fully repay my debts and hopefully I'll (always) be able to contribute something, unless I get dementia or something so that death is a promising prospect. I know I'm probably just killing myself slowly each day, as I suppose we all are, but in the end I will never significantly impact the future in a hundred or even a thousand years. I'll just be part of the generation that messed up, while still trying to correct my own course and help those around me as if that will ever be enough. Like Hali Omani from "Profession" by Isaac Asimov, I'll never have as big an impact as George Platen, but I'll keep on anyways. This went from a 10 minute to a 30 minute comment real fast, but it's nice to have my thoughts saved somewhere.

[@souleater307]

i miss some of my past loves but always trust ive made the right decision. it still hurts tho to see most people fall in love and have happy lifes with someone.i havent been on a date in 6 years and really dont even care to try anymore. ive been in a few bad and some really bad relationships and my heart just cant take any more pain so i stick to just keeping my head down.

[@Circ00mspice]

Funny how the algorithm recommended me this a day before Valentine's

[@youllneverknow3585]

The ominous feeling in my dreams where it all feels oddly familar or like im being watched. And the feeling when i wake up and forget where i am gor a moment and get slashed back into the world where i have to wake up get ready and socialize all day. And see her.... ah

[@xenonmob]

this is one of the most depressing things i’ve ever heard in my life

[@playlistsport6505]

Happy New Year! 🎶🎼💕🎉

[@Viscerxl]

It hurts so bad.

[@---ni3mq]

I had a friend she was nice I thought she was to good for me she helped me a lot but she made fun of me behind my back and I kept thinking of what I did to make them do that then I realized that maybe I just better off without them without the stress I’m still recovering from them but I’m better then when I was with them

[@jingleroses]

This music is amazingggg ❤️

[@eggnought]

After almost two years he told me he wanted a break. I've been trying so hard all this time to fix us make things better, but I realised everything was just me. He didn't care enough to try and change or improve, he didn't care enough to solve the problems or fix the growing gap. I tried so hard to find excuses for him, I really tried. But I weighed everything, I couldn't keep being his credit card anymore, I couldn't be the one reminding him of things, asking him, begging him to tell me when he would be gone for hours at a time. I couldn't be the only one putting in everything, trying everything when I was sacrificing so much already. I asked him yesterday, if he ever thought of seeing me, since we're now on break, only a week in, and without pause he said no. I knew. I knew from the beginning everything was already over but I still hoped. I hoped I was wrong. I guess this is a goodbye to him. I love you, but I guess I'm better off without you.

[@tdevyt]

that's rough

[@verdantabyss5951]

Ain't that a mood

[@SneezeCake]

Just the name of this reminds me of a friend, she was kind and brought my day 2 life but she was exposed to not stuff she should have been seeing and she made dark jokes, I miss her but I'm better off without her.

[@wolfdogdav]

miss you. i do miss the feeling, but i miss you so much more. it doesn't matter now. we're not good for each other anymore.

[@jacqueline6610]

8 year relationship ended 2 years ago when I moved to another country. I still love him so much and held on to the hope that one day we'd be together again. Last month He Sent me a picture of his new born daughter. Im happy for him but It broke me. Coming to terms with knowing he's happy with someone else and we can never be together again. Life goes on, this too shall pass. I know I'll be happy again, one day.

[@TDaOO]

That title

[@playlistsport6505]

Honesty... 😉

[@fairy.015]

i dont even miss them anymore, at all. and sometimes i feel guilty abt it.

[@terro1525]

You can get through this, it's just a virus. If you survive, I'll be waiting. At the finish line.

[@ref0rmstvars]

Thank you for this

[@celestialbunny]

ay title reminds me of my ex friend. TL:DR I loved her more than anyonee, but there is a reason(s) why I just kinda left (despite her essentially ghosting me when we last fought., I was the one who put my foot down). I think about her every fucking day, I tried to reach out. Still, she has not reached out despite saying she would. Honestly, I don't care why. Whether she is busy. I know my worth, it is not her. It never was her. I hope she is doing ok, at least treating her friends better than me. It stings, but I don't wanna anyone to feel like I do. We're two different people with very different ideas of friendship. I still wonder if she ever cared about me, despite her saying it constantly it felt fake like a lot of things she said.... I wonder if she ever thinks of me and if it is anything good.................................................................................................................................................

[@annabananas3940]

Exactly what I needed to hear today, thank you for this

[@eilhady]

as a person with commitment issues this really hit hard lol

[@Chadsuki]

title: exists me: goodbye physics class

[@p0is0n49]

I'm losing my mind because these songs remind me of a song I CAN'T FUCKING REMEMBER

[@dinuli2494]

💫

[@zzy8811]

Take care of yourself and the ones you cared about

[@wongkl7804]

I reached the "I only miss the memories not the person" part a long time ago but it's the spontaneous "oh, this reminds me of the time..." Where I need to stop. Any of you have any suggestions to stop this? Or is it okay to do so? Is it wrong to "accidentally" think of a memory linked to the present? Thank you if you have any answers to this conundrum.

[@daiyuulan9789]

you might not be worth all the trouble, but sometimes i just wish i was enough for you.

[@diveruzumaki5556]

Internship is hectic and my mom is homophobic but even in a cruel world like this I have music like this to work to and a loving gf who is always there for me , Life is not that bad after all.

[@Johnny-mp2ew]

I'm the person they're better off without. But they would never realize it, they're too good of a person to think ill of me. That is why I had to separate us myself. I miss them, but that's not important, I need to protect them from me. Goodbye old friend. I'm sorry. I wish you happiness

[@higuys6881]

I am too emotionless for anybody to love me.

[@rupinz4054]

Hey, I hope you’re doing well, sorry if I’m bothering you or sumn, but I miss you. But that’s whatever, I see that you’re happy with him and I don’t wanna get in between that, I wish you the best of luck in the near future, see ya, hope you have happy times with him

[@Frye_Kui]

i do miss my ex friend, but i dont miss the way he treated me, so im glad hes not my friend no more.

[@soapiee]

this was posted the day I broke up. thank you