I planned a romantic trip on our anniversary to propose to my gf...

[@christophergray1673]

He left early bit she says she had a fun trip 😂😂 run don't walk

[@AliothAncalagon]

Never settle for a partner who doesn't consider you a priority.

[@lifeisamess8100]

Normally woman don't, so what r trying say? R they not to be considered as partners??

[@AliothAncalagon]

@@lifeisamess8100 What a weird conclusion. If "normal" women don't qualify where you come from, then find an "abnormal" one who does.

[@AnnaAiLisa]

you are 100% right with that

[@AliothAncalagon]

@@lifeisamess8100 What a weird conclusion. If "normal" women don't qualify where you come from, then find one that isn't "normal" who does.

[@oneofspades]

No. That is not love that is narcissism. You have to think more than yourself. However in his case in wouldn't have worked out. It you don't grow together, than you will grow apart. He has to change for her and she will have to change for him.

[@noahnewcomer5180]

“Single women keep other women single”

[@nephastgweiz1022]

That's not really the case in this video though, that quote isn't relevant here

[@noahnewcomer5180]

@@nephastgweiz1022except if you actually listen to their behavior it’s obvious they were a problem. How they all basically ignored OP Not giving him a second thought on the trip and how they all “ganged up” on him when he had enough. Obviously they’re toxic and had some influence over his ex-gf.

[@l-l-l-l-l-l-l]

This. The truth of the matter is Sarah's friends keep treating her like she is single and never acknowledge OP's role nor existence. This was doomed to fail from the beginning.

[@BenDerHoverunicorn]

@@nephastgweiz1022 it is definitely the case here. The single friends should have seen that she would be the third wheel in a couples vacation. The friends choose to come even though it is painfully obvious it was meant for just them two. that quote is extremely relevant to this story

[@BenDerHoverunicorn]

@@noahnewcomer5180 he didn't actually listen to the video, if he had, he would realize it 100% is relevant

[@TheWolfengoth]

She has no respect for OP bringing friends on the trip. An ANNIVERSARY trip. Women that have friends and family harass their SO for not behaving the way they want shows the immaturity and selfishness they display.

[@Views-rj3nw]

she didn’t even seem committed to trying to convince him to stay. op is delusional if he thinks life will just "pull" them back together. she didn’t want him that much it seems, to begin with.

[@coffee3530]

If others don't respect you don't stay

[@gwenrichard7507]

The friends 100% wanted this. 1) They are single and did not think to ask both of them as a unit 2) They injected themselves into a private argument. 3) They did not apologize

[@johnbradbury8610]

when OP says he planned the trip I bet that also means he paid for it.

[@TheCentralScrutinizerAgain]

1000%

[@christophergray1673]

Good job leaving trip.. having her friends gang up on you is the only red flag you need. Means she chooses her friends over you

[@Sakyosha]

Nuts and bolts, she didn't care. She left pretty easily.

[@hayden8571]

She definitely cheated when he left. Plus she got no respect for the guy.

[@TheBigExclusive]

He's still being a doormat because he refused to realize this is the true end. He kept saying, "If life brings us back together years later then so be it." No. That is not how you should think. Don't leave that 1% chance of hope in the future. It's done. End it 100% in your mind. Block her and move on. Don't even entertain the idea of a 1% chance of getting back together in the future.

[@karishma_k]

Yea, OP himself said she's been saying that for years, but nothing has changed. So what changed this time that made him hopeful about future possibilities? But after the last update, I don't think they are getting back together so good for him

[@johnbradbury8610]

He still has a lot of simp in his DNA. He doesn't see how he brought this on himself by being a doormat for five years. If he doesn't get back with her, there will be another women waiting

[@johnbradbury8610]

"if life brings us back together" like if she goes up to him and says she has changed Op will say "Well, life brought us back together."

[@tonyr.4834]

Wow, incels incoming

[@setpunks13]

Honestly, i get the feeling Sarah just doesnt like you that much dude. Sorry

[@TheCentralScrutinizerAgain]

She thought she had him in her pocket.

[@donaldforest1942]

If you married her is she going to ask her friends on your honeymoon??

[@winniethepoohandeeyore2]

When she invited her friends that was an instant relationship ender. He should have cancelled everything when she invited them.

[@crashthecat]

She wanted to get rid of you. She cheated that night.

[@steven1671]

If a woman wants you, they will do things to keep you around. If they don’t, they will intentionally sabotage their relationship with you. Simple as.

[@thor7219]

Your girl sounds like an epic BIT

[@snidecommenter7117]

You want to bring your friends along on our anniversary trip? Tell you what, you and your friends go. Have fun. ( then move out while she's away )

[@tom23245]

The worst thing a woman can see is her female friends being happier in a relationship. Unfortunately, most women don't realize this.

[@CIutchX]

"My GF... SARAH!

[@christophergray1673]

Dont get back together!! She will use this break as excuse to be a 304

[@cakelolcake]

Romantic trip tells your partner all she/he needs... its for 2 person not a whole group... she doomed herself

[@Tekniq182]

"I wanna get through my notes before she talks or tries to interrupt me"... dude stfu about your feelings and just leave her ass. Too many weak dudes out here overcomplicating something that is so simple.

[@deathknight1239]

Well that was anticlimactic

[@AnnaAiLisa]

that was horrible

[@martynrich5187]

OP didn't communicate properly both before the trip and OP should have told tge friends and roped them in to help your proposal, instead you made it confrontational

[@TheCentralScrutinizerAgain]

hey i`m planning a trip just for you and me, please don`t invite your friends 😂🤣Hey we need to go get some groceries, please don`t invite your friends

[@martynrich5187]

@@TheCentralScrutinizerAgain I don't think he communicated at all other than saying 'we're going on a trip/I've booked a trip for us'. If not clear with your partner all you'll get is a lot of misunderstandings through your short relationship.

[@Mousse9]

@@martynrich5187That doesn’t solve the problem of her prioritizing her friends over him. Always needing to head that off would get tiring very quickly. Her friends are more important than him, plain and simple.

[@vtrmrl]

there is always a knight in shining armor trying to put the man on the wrong side, even if he didn't do nothing wrong 😂😂

[@ilyarepin7750]

Why would you even agree to go as soon as you found out she was bringing friends?

[@johnbradbury8610]

because was is a spineless doormat. He "told her he wasn't comfortable with it" which shows that he won't stand up for himself. She probably walked all over him through their relationship

[@RabidDisposition]

Straight up doormat. I will never understand this pathetic, desperate behavior shown by men in relationships.

[@lifeisamess8100]

Like a normal woman, she put her feelings, desires and wants above than OP' feelings. She did nothing wrong.

[@lifeisamess8100]

He is not a doormat since he expressed his disapproval and if he have done anything more, he would've called controlling.