I Quit My Job With No Plan - So Far So Good

[@camela8445Mar]

Same, It sounds so freeing, but also a little risky. It got me thinking, what’s the smartest way to approach something like that without just hoping for the best?"

[@louisahernandez]

I know what you mean. Taking a leap without a plan can feel liberating, but if you’re not careful, it’s easy to land in a tough spot. I’ve seen a lot of people, even close friends, who thought they’d be fine because they had some savings, but things got tight quickly without a steady income. You really need a plan to cover that gap

[@V.stones]

Exactly. I feel like a lot of people just see the upside, like having more time or getting a break from a stressful job. But then they overlook things like health insurance, daily expenses, or how to keep growing financially. That’s where a seasoned advisor, like Eric Paul Elmer, comes in. He’s worked with all sorts of clients-from celebrities to everyday folks-and helped them make smart decisions even in big transitions

[@Colbe-lx7fb]

I think that’s a good point. People assume that if they’ve managed money on their own, they’re good to go. But someone like Eric PauL ELmer has seen it all, even the pitfalls most people miss. He’s helped people with massive wealth, but also folks who are just looking to make sure they stay afloat. He seems to understand that success isn’t about quick wins-it’s about keeping things steady

[@Bigwilli123]

Right! And it’s not just about not running out of money; it’s about avoiding common mistakes, like overestimating how much you have or underestimating monthly expenses. Some people quit without realizing the importance of having some structure-maybe a side gig, consulting, or just knowing when to cut back. Eric helps people think those things through

[@Churchillhump2268]

That’s what makes a good advisor. It’s not about pushing people to take risks or just getting by. It’s about building a plan that keeps you stable, even if things get bumpy.

[@Aarrenrhonda3]

A job honestly doesn’t gives you the time, space and opportunity to chase your dreams and achieve your goals. From personal experience i can tell you working a serious job is modern day slavery. they pay you a small amount for doing a significant amount of work and promises you promotion. Best advice make investments and take calculated risks that would guarantee your success.

[@Rachadrian]

This is really not as difficult as many people presume it to be. It requires a certain level of diligence, no doubt, which is something ordinary investors lack, and so a financial advisor often comes in very handy. That is how people are able to make such huge profits in the market.

[@Dantursi1]

The best course of action if you lack market knowledge is to ask a consultant or investing coach for guidance or assistance. Speaking with a consultant helped me stay afloat in the market and grow my portfolio to about 65% since January, even though I know it sounds obvious or generic. I believe that is the most effective way to enter the business at the moment

[@michaelwiebeck3]

@@Dantursi1 Could you kindly elaborate on the advisor's background and qualifications?

[@Dantursi1]

I have worked with a few financial advisors before now but i ultimately settled for 'Annette Christine Conte'. She is SEC regulated and licensed in US. You can easily look her up

[@michaelwiebeck3]

Thanks a lot for this recommendation. I just looked her up, and I have sent her an email. I hope she gets back to me soon.

[@TylerG7777]

Im 57, an ER doctor. I can’t wait to do what you have done! The last 20 years working under unbelievable stress, nights, holidays, etc. I too want to live simple life. I have my hobbies, my dog, my motorcycles. Why do you feel you need any excuse to just enjoy life and to live? Humans are the only ones who feel they need a “purpose” to exist on this planet. Just look at your dogs when they are sleeping during the day. Can you imagine if they were thinking, “what’s the point of life? What’s my purpose? I have no job and I earn no money, so my life is just useless.” Of course not. They’re happy to be alive and just enjoying their days with you. Feel no guilt!

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

I appreciate your comment, you are right. I worked in a hospital, I can't imagine the stress of being an ER Doc, thank you for what you do.

[@dawnnicholson6703]

I too am 57 and I work in healthcare. I too work long hours and weekends and holidays..trying to live more simply and looking into volunteering.

[@TheNomad8899]

Humans are not built to be happy. We are built for survival.

[@officialdanplants]

@@TheNomad8899 we’re also built to consume beauty and art. I would say those are what give the survival meaning.

[@KingaGorski]

Love the analogy of just looking at dogs sleeping during the day. I feel like I could watch my dog sleep for hours. So precious and peaceful, in the simplest and purest of moments. 🐾

[@BadRiverWells]

Most don't realize that when you reach that state of mind, YOU WON!

[@JosephBertrand-sf6yj]

Once you go down the path of a simple life you need other people less & less. At first you feel a bit lonely but eventually the solitude becomes your peace.

[@Leah-s6p]

So true, the less I hang around humans, the better I feel. I have my pets, they dont shout at you; cause unnecessary arguements and back stab you. Just the simple life, solitude and being with your pets, they bring you back to seeing the beauty of life.

[@ianstuart5660]

Definitely!

[@radishgirrrl]

I so get you. I retired at 62 this summer and almost everyone I told had a negative response. You're too young (nevermind my mental and physical health issues), what are you going to do?, oh, so now you're just gonna sit around the house? Crazy. Had worked for 46-47 years. Isn't that enough????

[@Movieman1965]

Of course, it's plenty. I believe the key is to have something to look forward to. Visit family, travel, read books, take cooking lessons, etc. Whatever brings you contentment. Enjoy your retirement. ✌️

[@Mr.Blabbermouth]

Are you going to just sit around the house? YES!!! After busting my butt for all those years?? YES

[@sarahjaneross2918]

I retired at 57 with a small pension a year ago... I'm still exhausted and recovering from a lifetime of stress. Am I going to spend time taking it easy? Absolutely. Other people haven't had your life.

[@jacksonpauljackson2557]

Enjoy take it easy do what you want 😊

[@waggytailsolo]

Hi. I'm 53, You're not alone. I decided to leave my job, rent out my house and live in my 35 year old VW campervan that Ive owned for 23 years. It's not the first time. Work is stressful and time is valuable. I just decided that spending my time at work wasn't what I wanted anymore. I have no big plan other than to stay healthy and enjoy positive experiences. Freedom. I'd like more company at times but I've realised that this lifestyle is a great way to meet like-minded people. Good luck. Joe. UK.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thanks for the comment Joe, sounds like you are living well and enjoying life. Nomadic living has an appeal for me, I watch van life videos and think I might sell my house, buy property in a lower COL area and travel around the US. The future is wide open.

[@jacintaocaoimh8903]

​@@CurtisRetiredLifeThat sounds like a really good plan. Well done for quitting your job

[@eltonlovell9898]

Cool! Similar boat at 52 - had my T25 22 years!.. they're great 🙂

[@SteveShiyan]

Did the same thing. Living in my truck camper. Sold my home . 4 years now. FREEDOM ! Go where I want ,when I want . Nothing to stress over. Enjoy life.

[@rebeccaz789]

Just remember to still take care of yourself. Eat healthy. Brush your teeth. Enjoy.

[@robertgarrett4425]

Thirty years ago I was in at a party with two women on the thirtieths floor looking out at lake. I had a new 7 series, a new Hummer, multiple pieces of real estate, making $150k a year with 10k on me and I was miserable. I walked away from the job, got rid of the cars and real estate, and bought a house in a small rural town. I’m now happy with less, I spend my days reading and running with my mastiffs.

[@KingaGorski]

Reminds me of that Jim Carrey quote, something like: If only everyone could become rich and famous so they could know that it's not the answer. Good on you for escaping the rat race.

[@gennyjustdownthelane8967]

That sounds like heaven!

[@rubenv.p.6344]

You are a master my friend, because being so wealthy you were in a harder position to jump out of that, That requires courage. Respect.

[@TheBryanmauro]

With that salary and a bimmer 7 and hummer I would be miserable too! Probably in major debt.

[@rokpeter8012]

Isnt this the story of Brian from London Real?

[@Oklahomachaser]

Not really retired, but walked off my job back in Dec and living off savings and little side jobs. Will work again as I'm only 40 but it's really changed my perspective. Why do I need stuff? I can live minimalistic as a single male and I'm 1000x happier living a simple life.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Good for you, I wish I'd been smart enough to have the resources and courage to take time off when I was 40. Holy flying debris Stormchaser, you have some awesome videos. 👍🏼

[@TheFirstRealChewy]

Yes, you can do that as a single male. Add a spouse and family and it gets more complicated.

[@kiturselassie813]

I wish I can retire early

[@sonialariviere4700]

​@@TheFirstRealChewyEspecially the spouse lolll 😊😊

[@florindagonzalez5700]

I'm a girl. 36. Did the same thing. And, with God's help and my brothers help, I downsized big time. Minimal minimalism. It's so nice for mental health. 🎉

[@sagira1935]

I am 54, a nurse practitioner. I quit my stressful job, sold my house and traveling. I have no plan right now but just enjoying the present. Our only purpose here I believe is to just Be and learn to truly love ourselves. So glad more people are making choices to leave the system and find joy.

[@Austin55-u4p]

I agree with totally as an ex health industry employee….😊

[@Mobirin]

I am 32 yo nurse and working 12 yrs in health care. 8 yrs of that here in Dubai. I am going home in november. Leaving everything behind here to go back home in PH to have a slow peaceful life and pursue art as a career. I will not wait till retirement to take risk anymore. I am done.

[@sagira1935]

@@Mobirin Awesome decision! 👍❤️❤️❤️

[@sagira1935]

@@Austin55-u4p Great! Our minds have been programmed to work like cog in a wheel abusing our body and mind especially in healthcare. The best thing is to get out of it and find peace within ourselves. I believe Then we can truly be beneficial to ourselves and others. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Mobirin]

@@sagira1935 thank you very much. 😊

[@itguru2037]

57 here simplicity is the key 🔑. My father passed away yesterday and as I witnessed it I realized that material possessions do not matter to the dead. Make memories with those who you love. Congratulations on joining the journey 🥊

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Sorry for your loss, thanks for commenting.

[@itguru2037]

⁠@@CurtisRetiredLifeyou have found out the truth. Time is the commodity of life. I am continually amazed by nature and simple things. Selling everything except my house and bike. I am debt free and investing. Also 57 here.

[@ofsoundmind143]

This is very true. I’m in the middle of moving out of state and was really stressed out about all my STUFF, then I saw my mom’s tiny urn of cremations and realized when it’s over for us none of this STUFF matters at all.

[@itguru2037]

@@ofsoundmind143 same

[@michaelmclean5088]

Retired at 57 .with not much money 2 do it .but 3 years latter im still not worked but happy and skint

[@MLRomo]

The algorithm is getting too good...I've completely reworked my "work life balance " a couple years ago. I left a stressful job for a part-time job. It can be done. You don't need all the frills the media sells you. I am now 50yo and happier than I have been in a very long time. I spend a lot more time,biking, fishing, hiking, reading and I have more time for proper meal prep. It is refreshing when I see a video like this letting me know I am not alone. Cheers brother 👏

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

I read all of the comments and there have been a lot that shared stories of very similar experiences, so thank you too for sharing. Cheers brother 👊🏼

[@vanessamariposa.christian]

That is what I plan to do at 45. Thanks for sharing

[@KingaGorski]

Totally. To have time for your hobbies, get outside, make proper meals to eat, and not hate your job... man. Some things money can't buy.

[@karenrockemam7921]

Once i found out i could retire at 59-1/2 i was done...worked since 15. I have enough money for the things i need but not much else, but thats ok, never been a big spender or needed much. Enjoy my free time sitting on my deck reading, visiting family more often, having bonfires, and just going for short drives. Looking forward to holidays and having the time to enjoy them. People who still work ask me what i do all day and i reply, "Whatever I want." Gonna enjoy my retirement and figure it out along the way. Good luck to you!!!!

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

"Whatever I want." Perfect response. 🙌🏼👊🏼

[@Mav0585]

39, retired military, debt free, quit my job and now stay at home Dad, wife works, happiest I’ve ever been

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Congrats! Thanks for you service. I joined when I was 19, always regreted getting out.

[@skillfuldabest]

I’m single, 36 and $17.5k in debt. Being debt free and married with children is a major life goal of mine.

[@Mav0585]

@@skillfuldabest You are close!

[@williamlewis3582]

Wow 👌 Thats great .

[@nathanfranck5822]

Awesome! You have it made

[@juliah8601]

I went back to trucking when the shelves were bare during COVID. I thought maybe I'd get a newer car and a proper house. Then the housing prices doubled while my pay fell. They were working me to death for less money. I quit. Working on getting my health back. I've lost 15 pounds just eating at home and my joints feel better. I've just been recuperating and not worried about the rest. My next chapter will unfold when it's time. If you're hating your life, make some changes. It'll be OK. It's amazing how little we really need to live comfortably.

[@IamThatiAm420]

You're not alone. I'm 57 and only work weekends as an oncall RN. Less is more!

[@MrLivewire1970]

I'm 54, no kids, wife, or even a pet at the moment. I'm still working, my home is paid off and no debt, just utilities and taxes. I have about $150k saved, but I'm in a rural part of the Midwest so my real-estate taxes are only $700 a year. For me, the best years are right now and I want to take advantage of the next 15 years, 55 to 70. After that, I'm not worried what happens. I already lived my life.

[@turtleanton6539]

Yeeh🎉

[@agphotographyis]

Where in the Midwest are you?

[@MrLivewire1970]

@@agphotographyis western Illinois.

[@Dollsteak69]

Same boat. Mid 50's. FedEx is consolidating with Ground. Took the severance. No debt. 300k floating that's not tax deferred. When you look around most oldsters lose their health at around 65 to 70. I'm s busy body but you can keep busy by exercise, maybe a side gig. I did this at 31 years old. I quit UPS and took a year off. The art of the mini retirement. Remodeled a home. The younger generation hops jobs all the time. The huge house, new truck, marriage, chasing things is a sham. Enjoy your day.

[@photonbeams80]

@@MrLivewire1970 I'm a decade behind you but essentially planning out the rest of my life like u have. I'm also moving to the midwest next year and looking for a quiet place and just stack bread for retirement. 10 more years of the rat and race and I'm done. Dick Proenneke built his cabin in Alaska when he was 53 and lived there mostly alone til his 80's. Looking forward to it.

[@lottorabbit]

I did the same thing when I was 40 years old back in 2010. I was so miserable working my job as a software engineer. I took two sick days and on the third day I wrote a letter and quit! I just quit cold turkey. No two weeks notice… Nothing. Things have been great and it was the best decision I have ever made! ❤

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thanks for sharing your story, now I can say I know someone more impulsively crazier than me, seriously though, congrats on being able to walk away at 40. 🙌🏼👊🏼

[@jacksonpauljackson2557]

Well done all best for the future😅

[@BrittanyAndThePhilbillys]

This is great inspiration. I’m a 41 year old disabled veteran dealing with MDD, anxiety, back problems, ankle problems and I HATE my job… Been talking to my wife the last couple years ready to quit and give up. Been chasing ALL the stuff for years, house, cars, toys blah blah blah… Ready to get up on my time and sit on my porch and drink a cup of coffee. Soon… Very soon!

[@RonniewbNC]

Same here. Take care of yourself and hope it works out.

[@ashjoma]

I’m in Australia and I was mandated out of my job exactly 3 years back. Living on a small, alternative income and savings. Sometimes a food bank too. I’m happy enough living very simply, no unnecessary purchases and using up what I have. I’ve been separated for several years and I’m mostly okay on my own. Age 59. One thing I have learnt is that no-one cares. I worked at my job for 17 years, constantly doing extra shifts to help them out, then let go via email and not another word since. No assistance. So, save your money folks, be frugal and have a safety net for the future.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thanks for the comment. I agree, nobody cares. A simple life can be a very good life.

[@cryptoslacker-464]

Yep , people can be nice to you when you are useful . Then quickly forget you . I learnt that too when I left my full time gig. We are all just a number .

[@tristesskartoffel8677]

Respect to you fore you’re Resistance ✊

[@sheridanjay]

Totally agree. In terms of employment we are all expendable. If you really love your job then that’s great. However, if you don’t like your job or it’s very stressful then find an alternative. Reduce your outgoings and stop buying useless stuff- Amazon can survive without you!

[@LoveOffGrid]

We were also mandated out of our jobs. Actually, we jumped before we were pushed, but we knew what was coming. Good for you for having a spine. So few don't, when push comes to shove. We started a new life and haven't looked back. Made a YT channel about it recently, too.

[@BellaVita100]

Im a big city fireman getting shot at....Im too young to retire but quitting next month....taking some time off and see what the next chapter of life brings me.

[@ChristianvanBeers]

It'll work out fine dude. The universe takes care of us. ,🙏

[@billgordon6489]

Well sir you articulated brilliantly exactly where I am at the minute, perched on the precipice of the same decision you’ve made. I’m in an industry that I’ve worked in for 40 years and I’ve just had enough of it, I can barely muster the energy to turn up that’s how shit I feel. I just need some time off to get my head together and recharge my batteries. I’m 55 and I have enough cash for a year off and after watching your brilliant video I’m gonna take the leap …. Thank you 👏🏻

[@LionheartLivin]

Best of luck to you my friend!🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@thomasvolman2448]

The thing is: "succesful" people are in the spotlight so they set a standard for what a good life looks like. People living a simple life go unnoticed, but probably are happier.

[@debbiemonk5239]

Man, this video is raw. I felt your emotions, your semi confusion. I feel the same really. I lost my job, but have no debt. Not much in savings but I'm managing. I live a simple life too and sometimes I feel like I'm going to rot on the vine because I'm soooo used to having to work and take care of things. Now I have almost endless stretches of time with nothing to do,really. I've also been exercising, exploring a new photography hobby. I sometimes feel like I should be doing more but then I'm like why? Enjoy this time. Be simple. I've decided to do an early retirement as well and planning eventually to do van life and get out and see more, enjoy nature etc. You are not alone. We must get in the right frame of mind to enjoy and follow the path the universe has designated for now. Everything in it's own good time. Thank you for your honesty and realness. Very rare these days. Sending you love and light.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thank you for sharing you thoughts, you are very kind. I also think about trying van life someday, to explore the states for a few years. Wishing you the best on you journey.

[@schadlarry]

I was let go at 47. I was going to take a little time off before getting the next time. Well I just turned 60 and still taking that time off.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Lol, thanks for that 😅

[@HealthCores]

Bravo brother! 👍 I quit my tech job last year after getting so sick of just being inside all the time working. After some ER visits, I decided to pull the plug, and I am now much happier and healthier physically, mentally, and spiritually. Still have to deal with other problems in life but at least I am no longer killing myself slowly.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

You and me both, cheers brother.

[@MiniHulk08]

This world is ruled over by darkness. Im 30... my hardwork and appreciation were not appreicated. I was stressed out in every work Ive been to find some peace. I am 100% okay with not knowing where my next meal will come from when i feel that i am treated as if i dont deserve to live.

[@Airops-td4qs]

It has happened to me.

[@jazfarm5726]

Just turned 62. OMG. Social Security. I retired at 54. Sort of. Ended up building a farm from scratch. It has been wonderful, and I have had to work very hard to calm down after a crazy stressful job. Now I have my animals and gardens and I am a weaver. I just couldn’t care less about the trappings of civilization. Living off the grid, self-sufficient, and creative, is about the most blissful state I can imagine. I am a prairie dog that lives in a BIG sea of grass in eastern Colorado. If you want company, let me know. There are precious few of us.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Sounds like a great life.

[@Anaiya2022]

54. Worked from home for 15 years. Literally asked to come into the office starting October 1st. Hard pass. They "need my voice" to help others grow. No extra pay. Lol ✌🏼out!

[@KingaGorski]

The nerve to not increase your pay, yet expect you to agree to that? (WFH to office commute is not a small ask.) In what worllllllld 🫠

[@maryjoortega]

Oh wow 😂 yeah I know what you mean. Returning back to the office after 15 years working home. No way Jose 😢😂🎉I hope you are happy and made a good decision Good luck 🍀 to all how desire to get away from stressful work.

[@ofsoundmind143]

Do you work at cigna? lol. That’s their return to office reasoning, we need to be in office to “mentor” the next generation. Nope, nah-uh, not going to happen, get some other schmuck to fall for that matrix micromanaging BS.

[@kwit7377]

Creating this channel will keep you plenty of company. There’s so many of us in a similar situation…there’s just less of us so it can seem isolating. But here’s all your people. You never know where life will take you!

[@jeochsner]

Thanks for letting everyone listen in as you think out loud. I will retire next spring and can't wait. Everyone keeps telling me how awful it will be if I don't have a plan. However, I think no plan sounds really nice, right now.

[@Mr.Blabbermouth]

You've been planning your whole life. Now this time is for YOU!!

[@officialdanplants]

I worked my ass off, traded away years for money, finally got it at the cost of my mental health. Bought all the fancy BS anyone would want, I dreamed of the days I could live out of a backpack 🎒 found what really matters. God, Family, Peace. If you have those 3 you’re rich. I’ve dedicated my life now to pursuing those 3 things. Started selling everything I own that won’t fit into 1 pack. I pray everyday now. God bless anyone reading this in Jesus name ❤

[@cryptojoecoin5480]

Awesome. Keep going. You’re on a good path choosing time with Jesus over everything else. The only thing I disagree with you on is fitting all you have in a back pack. A guitar won’t fit in there! 😂

[@officialdanplants]

@@cryptojoecoin5480 I know right haha, I got a backpacker guitar a little Yamaha portable and a line 6 HK stomp 😂

[@cryptojoecoin5480]

@@officialdanplantscool. Nice little set up. God speed, and I pray you get to the Lord more and more along your journey.

[@officialdanplants]

@@cryptojoecoin5480 thank you for your prayers

[@alphaomega1351]

Unfortunately, your god is a man made character equivalent to Santa Claus 🎅. Yep, you are grown and basically have an imaginary friend. 😲

[@danielx555]

I'm in the same boat. I stopped working in December, I thought it would just be a few months, it turned into a year-long sabbatical and I'm never going back to the same grind. I spent years not living. It's been 10 months and I'm still putting together plans, part-time work, a revenue stream, my hobbies.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Yeah, I don't want to go back to full time work, PT seems doable, though.

[@patti5999]

I quit my job in June. I'm a single 55 year old woman. I spend part of every day outdoors. The only stress I feel is on the 1st of each month when I must pay rent. Eventually, I must find I new job, but for now I am ok.

[@Nickpaintbrush]

Well done, some people are hellbent on working themselves into the ground. I`m 62 next month, I'm happy working when I feel like it!

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Working your life away is what everybody else is doing, so it seems normal, it can be hard to get out of that rut.

[@kumokun]

Right there with you brother! I’m 44 and quit last year living off savings, trimming off everything I didn’t really need. Just essentials. But there’s still plenty to release and let go of. In the meantime, rebuilding who I’ve hidden away for all these years. Your video is so encouraging and resonated so much with me. This is so important for everyone right now!!

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thank you for your words, "rebuilding who I’ve hidden away for all these years", I feel the same way. I also think I will become more minimalish/frugal on this journey, " trimming off everything I didn’t really need" as you stated.

[@roblincoln10]

Im only 37 and what worries me is, even after this short time, I too am already feeling burnt out. Work has been super stressful this year, I dont have any retirement savings, and I feel like ill never catch up to where I need to be.

[@0xDanielCamarillo]

I didnt quit my job, I was fired but it was the best thing it happened to me, Im stressless, I can wake up at the time I want, I no longer have to deal with people. I had a pretty substantial 401k money saved and working it, and Im not old. The only ones keeping me from traveling the world are my dogs, I have 5 and dont want to leave them alone or with anyone else.

[@Longlostpuss]

That sounds great, but how are you sustaining your dogs and yourself with no income?

[@sagira1935]

The motorhome is a good option if you have animals. 😊

[@0xDanielCamarillo]

@@Longlostpuss I am working my money in stocks plus dividends, it is giving me enough to live, kind of like an early retirement

[@0xDanielCamarillo]

@@sagira1935 everything is so expensive right now, but it is a great idea 👍

[@Longlostpuss]

@@0xDanielCamarillo Stocks move very slowly, too slowly to be making a regular income, unless you are scalping daily or swing trading at an incredibly stupid risk rate per trade. The only way the stocks and dividends method works, is if you've got a huge amount of capital/trading account in existence already. You need at least a $500,000 trading account to start living comfortably off dividends, is that what you're claiming? Dividends as a percentage don't really pay that much, the best ones are around 2% of your position size in said stock, it's tiny. Obviously scales up if your position sizes are huge and you would need them all to be dividend payable. When you've got an account over $1m, then you're talking. Not very realistic for the average Joe. Without dividends and the high capital, you can't just live off your investments, you need to leave the stocks to grow over a long period, you can't keep drawing the money out, plus you have to pay taxes on what you make. Most people who claim this stuff are full of crap.

[@webcompanion]

You're not alone and I hear what you are saying between the lines. I retired just over a year ago early in my 50s, had a high-stress corporate job with the same company for many years. I also suddenly retired sooner than planned. It took me well over 6 months to closer to a year to really get comfortable in this new routine. You're right, it can be a lonely place but there are new interactions to look for. Right now we just got past summer and had enjoyed free summer concerts outdoors at a nearly venue. Now here in the midwest I am looking at cider mills that have live entertainment and places to hike nearby. It's all stuff I never had time to even think about in the old chapter of life. I subbed you today so I hope to see more of your posts in the future.

[@theRealBMO85]

nothing wrong with being still and calm

[@joline2730]

The Real: In fact it's quite difficult, takes practice, but the benefits are humongous 👌

[@sw6118]

Time alone is so valuable, just thinking, just enjoying.

[@MrPeterschmit]

Hey man, power to you for taking the step. I'm in kind of a similar situation. I have one pearl of wisdom to share. Don't let yourself get into debt! Gotta live on less than you make. Hard stop.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Agreed, debt is a trap.

[@MrPeterschmit]

@@CurtisRetiredLife sure is. Ever see those older folks working at Walmart? A goal of mine is to not be one of those folks.

[@raymond_sycamore]

it is lonely, the road to freedom. Few want to join. Trust me, you just have to start accepting you're going to spend a great deal of time alone.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

I think you are right, freedom isn't for the weak of heart.

[@Me-np8fb]

I look at my solitude as a luxury. Most people are burdened with responsibility and ambition. The one bear trap I need to avoid as a 60 year old man is signing a marriage contract. That statistically would end in divorce and I would be ruined in divorce court. So I choose to see my solitude as a rare luxury. It helps me combat loneliness.

[@genespell4340]

A lot of people want to join him but they can't afford to. Student loans are a loadstone around millions of necks. I'm 69 and still work but part-time. Before I turn 70, I intend on doing a lot of bike riding and tinkering with some of my ideas. Addendum. I also plan on doing volunteer work.

[@genespell4340]

​@@Me-np8fb You can always volunteer to help cope with the loneliness. That is something I intend on doing. I guess I need to add it to my earlier comment.

[@bloodynorahvan2203]

​@@CurtisRetiredLifethis is the most profound thing I've heard

[@rayvarney7788]

I’m 35 and just lost my job yesterday for not punching out on break. I was gonna ten minutes. I really needed this video today thank you man! 💚🍀 you’re not alone I’ve been thinking the same way as you brother

[@Mr.Blabbermouth]

Sounds like your boss was a real idiot.

[@viviennemichaels666]

Hello from Scotland, I'm seeing this more and more. People enjoying a simple life, and stepping away from the treadmill. It is wonderful to see, do what brings you peace and happiness, and remember "the small things, are the big things". Best wishes to you, and your dogs.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Hello, glad to hear from you, I hope to visit Scotland someday. "the small things, are the big things" Thank you for that comment, I have been enjoying the small things so much since I left work.

[@spiculum1836]

Agree with your take. I'm a computer engineer and at 57, live a semi retired lifestyle running my own computer consulting business. My 20s - 40s were stressful - which was fine for that age. That stress is definitely not fine as you get into your 50's - just not worth it.

[@CraigJ1985]

I walked away from my career as a Airline Pilot at 35, only six months after I upgraded to Captain. I haven't worked in 18 months. I'm much happier and doubt I'll ever work another day in my life. My days are spent with my family, living slow and exercising every day. Life is too short to waste time on things that are not important. Just do you, and I wish everyone who reads my comment all the best with however you choose to live your life. 🙏

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Congrats, well put.

[@kerianlemaitre1523]

Vous avez tout compris..

[@FitnessRetroGaming-i8d]

so how do you survive without work and no money?

[@jeffpaul6252]

Same, friend. When the company forced me to upgrade, I took that as an opportunity to destress.

[@scottbillingham2221]

We're the only animals that have to pay to live on this planet.

[@kokalti]

You can always try to live like an animal and see how that works out. Plenty of animals out there die of starvation.

[@scottbillingham2221]

@@kokalti you're not one of those simps I've been hearing about are you?

[@kokalti]

@@scottbillingham2221 No I’m not. I’m actually someone that can use my brain. But I’m sure I’m talking to a 12 year old so p… off

[@foogriffy]

​@@kokalti yes, they're called homeless or unhoused people. hobos. and unless you've got a security blanket of savings and family, you're closer to being one of them than you think

[@marshalljimduncan]

@@kokalti Not to mention trying to find shelter, tolerating extreme temperatures, and being hunted...

[@IlluminateYourPower]

I'm on your wavelength. Nothing feels more healing than just having freedom and being outside. Im younger, but I dont perscribe to the hustle culture anymore, dont have social media, choose to keep a limited wardrobe, live a sober lifestyle. I eat well and exercise. My goal is to finish paying off debt (6 months out), save money, and get to a place that im working for myself. Whether thats a coffee cart, farmers market business, services, etc. This 40hrs a week chained to a desk is soul sucking - i despise looking at a computer screen all day as ive done it most of my life at this point.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

You have the right idea, hoping for your success, thanks for sharing.

[@IlluminateYourPower]

@@CurtisRetiredLife thank you! You too, thanks for sharing your experience.

[@AG-so4gl]

Do we really every retire?. I think of it as next chapter in life, pick up side hustles if you so wish. Key is being master of your destiny, and chill..

[@renatobianchi65]

Well done !!! Firstly, you quitted the imaginative frame they created😊😊😊

[@GBU61]

I retired at 53 from teaching. Most comments I got were what will you do now? I spent a few more years working part time, but only if I wanted to. A few years later I moved to Latin America and I selected an area where I never hear English. Watching people here have a much healthier work-life balance helped me realize life should be enjoyed, not worked away. No regrets!

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thanks for sharing.

[@amandamaple5524]

You are not alone this video was exactly what I needed there is hope for simplicity

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Yes, I appreciate your comment.

[@janethammond5925]

I quit working two years ago, at age 57. I rent a rural cottage and live simply...my lifelong dream. Yet there's still this calvinistic voice in my head that tells me I should be DOING SOMETHING...but why? It's like we're programmed to always be busy and to feel guilty if we're not. But I'm glad you've stepped away and chosen to LIVE. Every blessing for the future! 💐😊

[@11Bravo84]

I retired from the military at 38 started a small industrial sewing business, haven’t worked a day in 21 years

[@maddawgzzzz]

ive been living like this the last 5 years. I'm 34, and its good to see more like myself.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Wow, so you did this at 29 👏🏼🙌🏼👊🏼

[@pauldg913]

very curious, how? you from usa?

[@gmorales.audio93]

I am curious too, I am 30 and I don't want to live the corporate life anymore.

[@TheBryanmauro]

I retired at 55, you get tired, even when you start in a vocation that kept you inspired and interested over time it becomes laborious. I resigned from burnout so the timing was good. First 3-6 months comfortably numb. I believe we must orient ourselves mentally to new rituals that don't produce anxiety. The fact you don't go to work is reprogramming your mind. I say don't fight it, embrace your procrastination, wild thoughts, empty thoughts, and makes sure to wander around...this world is big and is a lot to take in. Boredom naturally relieves itself by transmuting into activity. Allow that activity to flow from you naturally and harmony sets in. Healthy boundaries are underrated and maximizing your wealth is overrated.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thanks for that comment, very much appriciated. 🙌🏼👊🏼

[@kerianlemaitre1523]

Oui, ce que vous dites est digne d'intérêt, j'apprécie votre votre point de vue.. Merci..Soyez en paix..

[@terencenelson1950]

Like that singer says thank God for the simple things , I want a simple life no bills and without bullies without liars

[@jimmydean358]

I'm 55 and retired forget that rat race 9to5 no time to do what I WANT TO DO . Now I do what I want to do whenever I want I love it !!!!!!!

[@rizfree]

the fact that we will never stop trying to figure out what we want to do with our lives no matter what age.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

I think you are correct.

[@samlestourgeon943]

1st video like this I've seen. Yes, in US all we do is MORE! I'm 67, retired & like you I go to gym, ride bike, grandkids, and NO STRESS. You are smart to take a break.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

I'm dumb@$$ lucky I stumbled into this lifestyle, and grateful.

[@madeinpapaswoodshop]

Thanks for sharing! I get it and appreciate you wresting with this out loud. I reinvented my life at 57. Got out of my toxic corporate job. I'm working on a video about 7 lessons i learned and I'll share it since you asked for help. Blessings on you.

[@navigatingwithnana]

Recently retired, I decided I didn't want to have to work, even part time, for the rest of my life. I was exhausted after a 45 year career. So I moved to Colombia, South America. Now I have a low cost of living, I'm debt free and the noose is gone from around my neck. I'm living a beautiful life filled with peace and gratitude every day!

[@GLADIATOR-tz7yt]

I enjoyed my job and never saw it as just a 'daily grind.' I had a lot of freedom and flexibility back then. Its been three years since I retired, and while inflation has made it challenging to maintain my lifestyle and even worse when I lived in the city, relocating to the countryside has helped to manage better, its lonely, as most of my friends and family are still in their routines but It's been easier to stretch my savings and hopefully, I won't outlive it

[@MarjorieRyanJoy]

I’m nearing retirement myself, and I had similar concerns. I started investing later than most, and just relying on ETF compounding wasn’t cutting it for me. After working with a financial advisor, I managed to restructure my investments and am now on track to retire with around $4 million. If I hadn’t sought advice, I doubt I’d be as confident in my plan right now

[@GLADIATOR-tz7yt]

I’m trying to figure out the best approach for my portfolio. How did you find your advisor? I feel like I need that kind of guidance

[@MarjorieRyanJoy]

I usually steer clear of recommending specific people because financial needs are so personal. But I can say that working with Emily Ava Milligan has made a world of difference for me. I noticed her strategies are tailored to fit personal goals and make sense for different needs. It might be worth exploring to see if her approach resonates with you

[@GLADIATOR-tz7yt]

Thanks for that. I did a quick search and found her page. I was able to email so I sent over a few questions to get more info. Appreciate you sharing

[@zarroth]

channel with less than 1k subs..and you guys spam it with your garbage advertisement and give yourselves WAY more thumbs up than you should compared to channel size. KZbin should charge bot accounts ad fees for posting.

[@Taxmaster3000]

My dad died unexpectedly at 56. Has really taught me that making it to retirement isn’t guaranteed. I want nothing more than to be ok with less and enjoy the time I have. It’s hard to fully separate from the societal pressures to always do mofe

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thanks for sharing.

[@rodneybugher9312]

I'm 56, single with no kids. No debt. Decent savings. Last two jobs, one company went out of business, the other was about to and let me go. Now working part time after taking a month or so off, and doing some side work in the garage. Had a similar situation in summer of 2015, took 10 weeks off that year. Most relaxing summer since grade school.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Yes, this summer has been wonderful and rejuvenating.

[@paulbrowning1758]

I retired three years ago at 56. Been enjoying it quite a bit.

[@acornlandlabs]

Great video. You're breaking the matrix. More people should live simply. We sure are :)

[@darynwilson8330]

People our age I'm 54 are waking up to the idea that the story we've been told just doesn't make sense anymore. Time is the only thing we truly own and most of us give it away far to easily working for others. It certainly doesn't make sense to me anymore and it probably hasn't made sense for the last 20 years. You have made the right choice, well done and just keep on keeping on 😊

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thanks for the encouragement and support.

[@nld0947]

I am 46 and want to retire soon. I feel exactly the same way as you. I just want a simple life and have times to do what I like to do rather than work in a stressful cooperated job. Right now, I have pretty much everything I dreamed for. I have a family with two kids, good education, good career, a big paid off house w/ pool, nice car, no debts, many expensive vacations, etc. I accomplished all of it, but I have to keep working with a very busy lifestyle to maintain it. I just want a simple life with a small house, times to go fishing/hiking, gardening with minimal materials.

[@plumeria66]

My health issues forced me to stop working. Time flies every day now. I have so much to do every minute every day. Exercising, meditating, enjoying a movie, going to my appointments, preparing home cooked meals. I can’t imagine working again unless it is on my own terms and easy and relaxing and fun and inspiring. Otherwise, no thanks.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

I feel the same.

[@MoneyVikings]

My grandfather used to say “know when enough is enough”. He was very wise and lived a great life.

[@Asil888-v8g]

I was made “redundant” a week before my 60th birthday this spring. 40 plus years of a nursing career and then corporate. I am exactly in the space you described so eloquently. You are not alone here. It is ok for us to feel our feels as we journey on. Simplicity is key. Thank you for sharing . It is so helpful to know there are other kindred souls out there in the same space. I think we are healing, resting and growing into our new lives. Sometimes it’s time to get off the treadmill and recalibrate. Gratitude first! Blessings to you on the journey.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

There have been a lot of comments from others in the same boat, I appreciate you and everyone else sharing their stories. Good luck on your journey.

[@FreedomFighter485]

I'm not sure why you're questioning your decision so much and you seem to overly concern yourself with other peoples opinions on how to live your life. Forget all that, you're living YOUR dream and that's all that matters. I escaped the matrix at 45 and live a very simple life like you describe. I've got my house with 5 acres of forest and I spend hours outside in peace and silence in nature with my dog. It's the best and happiest of times for me. Just relax and enjoy, you've earned it!

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

You are right, thanks for the straightforward comment.

[@JedHenry]

I understand if you’re feeling disconnected from people though. It’s a catch 22 - most people in their 50s are working, so early retirees don’t have a big social pool to interact with. Going back to part-time work might be a reasonable move to have human interaction, along with the financial benefits.

[@denise1176]

Amen ❤🙏

[@HOMeSKILiT24]

"If you can control your wanting, you control your suffering" Proverb from somewhere

[@stvartak7164]

And basically the entire premise of Buddhism (to grossly oversimplify it).

[@farmsteadgoldcompany]

Helping folks has always brought me joy. For the last 5 years I have been building my future homestead in southern Missouri and will call it my FGC Viking Outpost. The good Lord put it on me to prepare a place where I can provide quality food for the community, as well as a nice place for short and long term camping for like minded friends and family. It’s in the Mark Twain where I am surrounded my thousands of acres of wilderness; it so peaceful. I have a year before I retire, but I am so ready now. Thanks for the video brother. Cheers.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

I wish you the best in your future endeavors!

[@briancuthbert4508]

I quit my job too. Fell out with my boss one day and walked out. Best thing I ever done!! Life is too short to be unhappy. 🤷‍♂️

[@soyprospera1]

I'm a 50 year old female. Hubby just retired early this year at 55. I think I'm going to pull the plug next year and just work part-time.

[@joseCalderon1976]

The less crap you buy the BETTER. I've been a very big consumer of "wants" for almost 30 years now. I'm now concentrating on my "needs". And even some needs can become an issue like overpriced new cars, being house poor (buying a house that is too much for your salary), too many clothes, and other needs. My wife and I have done well with a modest home and buying only good used cheap reliable vehicles. I'm working on myself through therapy so that it can help me with my impulsive behaviors (buying too much crap that I don't need to survive). I feel so much better now. Before, I was stuck in the endless cycle of buying more and more stuff like a maniac. There's nothing wrong with becoming a minimalist. Just concentrate on the things that really matter like family, spending time with your family, being humble, and being at peace with yourself. I wish you luck in your minimalist journey. I started mine about a month ago. Cheers. Subscribed.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thank you for sharing your story, very inspirational, may we both be successful!

[@sws5833]

Our stories sound quite similar, Three months ago at 51 I was laid off from my job and went on unemployment, Along with some savings Im getting by ok, enjoyed the summer and did lots of fishing, a lot more than I could have otherwise, The thought of starting over again and getting back into the rat race is not at all appealing anymore, Selling my home, my classic car and buying a truck camper and will semi retire and spend most of my days beside a lake fishing . Looking forward to it and thanks for the Content

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

I agree, going back to full time work seems ridiculous to me now. Makes me think of the old saying, "My worst day fishing was better than my best day of work."

[@derbrad90]

Thank you for sharing this with us Curtis. I'm noticing more and more people waking up and realizing that this whole idea that has been implanted of working until you're dead and striving for things that actually, at the end of the day, aren't needed or aren't going to bring long term happieness and inner peace is just ridiculous and has turned human beings into lifeless husks. Time is worth more than money and the spiritual connection and bonding with others has faded to a dangerous level. It's amazing what we can do without and still be truly happy. I'm only 35 and I'm glad I have realized this truth at a young age.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

I am glad for you, at 35 I was making a good wage and spending without any thought, but I am glad I realized it in my late forties.

[@derbrad90]

@curtislake333 I've learned to be careful in that way too. You almost sound like you'd be happy with life on a farm since you seem to love animals and like being in nature and taking the time to appreciate your surroundings. I hope to one day have a farm and live off the land myself.

[@thisismyyoutubeaccount3322]

Bro you're living the dream. That type of life is all I've ever wanted. Wake up with the sun, go to bed when it goes down. Nowhere to be, no one else demanding my time. I can't wait to not have an obligation to be somewhere every day.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

You"re right, I am gateful. 🙏🏼👊🏼

[@AlishaConn]

Excellent video Curtis. After my divorce 10 years ago, I bought a lifestyle that I honestly couldn’t afford, but I did it for the kids. My youngest son just moved out and I am working on downsizing my entire life!

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Hi Alisha, nice to hear from you, hope you're doing well.

[@vanessamariposa.christian]

my son is almost out of the house and I plan on downsizing too

[@TomG-z4h]

Curtis, just watched your video and loved it! I'm 62 and in a position to retire (so I'm told by my financial advisor). I have loved my career and the many experiences and rewards it has afforded me, but it is stressful and taking a toll. Nonetheless, I'm watching KZbin videos about retirement and I'm seeing that the vast majority of youtubers say do it! Retire! You are the first person on KZbin that I have reached out to and reason is that you said something that resonated deeply with me. You do not have anyone to share your time with and I fully understand. I'm terrified of retiring because I'm alone and don't look forward to having all that time and no one to share it. Anyhow, thank you for your video. It helped me. Tom

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Hey Tom, getting away from the stress of my job has been great for my physical and mental health, but I also miss the company of the people that I worked with. I am an introvert and don't mind being alone, I actually like it, but I do get lonely sometimes, I really think I will end up working a part time job. I'm glad the video helped, good luck with whatever you decide to do.

[@williammartinez3883]

I'm retired at 62 .....8 months now Steve Jobs last days words are true .I have way more than I need..now I'm FULLY enjoying the fruits of my labor

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Congratulations on retiring, thanks for the comment. I too am enjoying the fruits of my labor, I just feel like there is still something missing.

[@MichaelSmith-yr8rb]

Congrats on retiring One year now for me A bit of rv travel in nature and learning how to go sailing No rush take your time enjoy the day without job stress The right people will gradually come into your life and start a new chapter cheers

[@rejectionistmanifesto8836]

​@@CurtisRetiredLifeSince you want another girlfriend just get ready to work another 30 years. It will always start as no expenses on you and soon you will need to earn double what you earned at your peak to afford the lifestyle she wants and you must do it till she is into her 80s per the modern standards of the West. So enjoy your last days of peace and respite

[@Lonewolf-Tomlee]

@@rejectionistmanifesto8836 facts

[@garymartens9151]

...what were his last days words?

[@guillermobarinaga-p5k]

I feel very identified with all your words. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR EXPERIENCE

[@may-maytanymaytany_s3417]

Thank you for sharing, you’re not alone. I’m only 59 and I’m quitting my office job to do the same.( in 6 months).Not yet able to collect my pensions but I’m burnt out,no more rat race. Will try to live a simple frugal life and enjoy every breath I take while I’m still alive. 🎉I have nothing but I’m finally content,no home,no car ( working remote from home), no debt. 🎉 one year away from my pension. In Canada pension is 60 & 65 years old.🎉 cheers enjoy 🎉

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

It's good to know so many people are doing the same thing, good luck!

[@Earthly_Being]

I love my dogs too and they make me very happy. Your dogs are cute and I enjoyed watching them run off to play.

[@TravelSpanish-j3v]

I just started my KZbin channel and moved to Peru 🇵🇪 I finally have time to relax! thanks for this video.

[@andrewxu]

Hi! Simpler liver here also, so happy to have stumbled on this video as I share the same sentiment towards wanting less and living more. I also find this period of life weird to navigate as we have this new found freedom to pursue anything and feeling lost at times. What I find helpful is to find hobbies and things you enjoy doing, and keeping up with physical exercises to improve mental and physical health.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Hi Andrew, I agree about hobbies and exercise, I am grateful to have the time and health to exercise more. I have restarted hobbies I never seemed to have time for and I resumed regular weight training and continue to feel better as I stay consistent. It is reassuring to hear that others also feel lost at times, I know that even though I still have bad days I am truly blessed to live such a rich and comfortable life, thank you for your comment. I browsed your videos, it looks as though you have had an interesting life, I look forward to watching some of your videos, especially the south-east Asia travel vlog.

[@wtkwtk4689]

Slow progress is good. A simple life with no debt is good.

[@NightinGal89]

Where is that? Beautiful. Wish I had nature nearby

[@Shannon-u8v]

Your definitely not alone! I did the same thing 10 years ago and I am 61 now. I still haven't cleaned out my kids stuff yet and not sure if I will. I go to the gym and enjoy my home with my dogs. I too am looking for others but realize I have to get out of this area to do so. Planning some road trips soon and one day at a time. Not in any rush!! It's ok to just be alive!! Safe travels

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Thanks for commenting.

[@MichelleRenee-ui5th]

YES. All of this!! We are born and thrown into this ridiculous machine, that literally costs most people not only their entire lives, often it costs their health, their families.. their joy. Your time is not replaceable.

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

We are all running out of time. Throw caution to the wind and take that chance.

[@drewsbenmad]

So many people are struggling with their finances because we are programmed to want all the best things in life not realizing that your health and happiness are not in those possessions.

[@greenguy2121]

omg I love your video. Calm and peaceful

[@LoveOffGrid]

My husband and I are your age. We "retired early" in 2020 when the mandates came around. It wasn't our original plan, but sticking to our values was more important than sticking to a plan. We live with a lot less money now but we're happier. We moved to a small farm and we spend our days improving it. We're both "project people" and finally using our energy and talents for ourselves instead of an employer makes us happy! The best part of retirement is that our time is finally our own. John and I spend at least 30 minutes to an hour having coffee together each morning and chatting then we go about our business, each working on our own projects. We're both introverts so we don't miss other people. Did I mention we're off grid in the middle of nowhere? 🙂 It's our heaven. I think most people focus on $ for acquiring shiny things and having BIG experiences (new car, vacations, etc.) but they spend very little time visualizing what they want their everyday life to look like. It's upside down. Life isn't made of exceptional events - it's a compilation of simple, usually mundane days. Those days shouldn't feel like something you have to survive just to get to the weekend; they should be more intentional. Anyway, longwinded way of saying I hope you find someone who shares your values and mindset. I think women like us exist (obviously), but we're usually not the ones you'll notice first. We're hanging back, watching. I hope you find someone great. In the meantime, keep becoming the kind of partner you'd want to find until she shows up. And watch our channel, too, if you want to see how we're spending our time. We'd love to hear from you. Greta and John 🙂

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

Off grid in the middle of nowhere does sound like heaven! "Life isn't made of exceptional events - it's a compilation of simple, usually mundane days. Those days shouldn't feel like something you have to survive just to get to the weekend; they should be more intentional." - That is so true and eloquently stated. I wish you two the best on all your projects. I watched your day in the life video, it's beautiful country where you are. Thanks for commenting.

[@Copilot1204]

After a lot of deep thought, I came to the conclusion that at 22. Although I'll be 23 soon.

[@MasteringMidlifeWithHeidi]

Wow, this sounds heavenly and the life I’d love to live with a partner like you have, Greta!

[@LoveOffGrid]

@@MasteringMidlifeWithHeidi I had to kiss a lot of frogs! 😆

[@MasteringMidlifeWithHeidi]

@@LoveOffGrid What pond do I need to search? 👀 🤣 🐸

[@chadtaylor9311]

Share your simple life with your wife and kids homie! I'm sure they would enjoy that nice spread you've got there big guy

[@perculiar_daughter]

Hello from the UK. I'm a 53 year old lady, worked hard all my life and reared 2 kids. My hubby and I decided in our 30's to focus on being able to ease up on having to work in our 50's. We didn't have foreign holidays, lived as frugally as possible but still had fun camping with the kids. We started our 25yr mortgage when I was 25 and it's now paid off. I cleared all outstanding debt and now put that extra money away, or as much of it as I can, into an ISA stocks and shares savings account. I don't drink or smoke and grow my own veggies in the small space I have. I now only work 12 hours a week and life is good. Hubby is still working but part time now also. Its so worth it to plan early if possible, as my gran used to say, "if you look after the pennies, the pounds will look after themselves"

[@beaulieuc8910]

but it will start getting expensive again with grand kids and your time will be used up with grandkids

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

It sounds like you have a well planned and wonderful life. Thank you for commenting.

[@smileyt7581]

I did the same thing... quit my job after 22yrs working. I still had 15 yrs left before i could "retire". I didn't have a plan. I was planning to decompress, declutter, do much needed yard work, and grow a garden. I haven't done any of that. I don't know what I should do with the rest of my life but i know that i want to help people in their journey. I enjoy being outside in my yard and just sitting wit God and my thoughts. You said a lot more and we're on the same path brother. I would suggest doing 1-3 things you always wanted to do. For me, it was learning to play piano, doing creative artsy stuff, learning to preserve food, etc. You're not alone!!!

[@CurtisRetiredLife]

There were a lot of commenters that had stories that were similar, thanks for sharing your story, I wish you well on your journey.