I quit my job...without another lined up // healing my mental health

I hopped on the "escape the matrix" bandwagon 2 months ago - and it has been an incredibly eye opening and transformative period of my life. I didn't have a job lined up when I quit so I have been getting creative with making an income (which I will share in future videos), but most importantly, I've been forced to dive inwards and unlearn a lot of what capitalism taught us.
thank you for being on this journey with me.
Where you can find me:
Instagram: / anais.dottavio
TikTok: / anais_speaks
Facts about me:
Born: Rome, Italy
Location: Austin, Texas
Uni: Drexel University

[@Intangibleinspirations]

I just quit my 6 figure job with no plan. I’m mentally exhausted!!! Being a full time caregiver to my mother, a single mother of 3 and working. I need a mental break!!!

[@GodsDaughterQ]

Can I ask how you afford living? This is the piece I struggle with!! I want to take a mental break but bills would pile up

[@Intangibleinspirations]

@@GodsDaughterQ Law of Attraction. You create your own reality.

[@BukwaseMgidlana]

Girl, are we twins? I just don't have kids, instead I have mental health issues, dealing with the divorce of my parents because my mom doesn't have the capacity because she is not well, her mental health is also down the drain, and I'm starting to battle suicidal thoughts and openly saying I cannot do it anymore. My life is a lot and I'm just in my twenties.

[@BukwaseMgidlana]

I've put it in God's hands. I haven't slept hungry at least. But also I wouldn't listen to myself I have depression and anxiety@@GodsDaughterQ

[@Lalabooey]

What were you working as where you were making 6 figures?

[@lazzzZaruZ]

i quit my 9-5 five cuz it was back breaking. i was to exhausted to focus on my hobby in the evening and im geting older so i must prioritise health. im downsizing in living standards to take a part time job and have moore time for music and guitar paractise. when you close a door others open dont be afraid to let go.

[@edwardmayfield9061]

Your health and sanity is way more valuable than money

[@Agentunderfire]

I quit my job back in September 2023 and have been on a 5 month vacation ever since , I’m living off my savings until March. It’s so relieving not going to work the next day or dealing with annoying co-workers. I’ve had a lot of time to reflect and figure out my next move. Wish you luck on your future endeavors 💪🏽😎 we got this!

[@yayacruz5755]

Watching this as I am sitting at my corporate job. Freaking out and scared about leaving this job because I have a baby and a 2k rent bill and credit cards and everything else 😩😩😩😩

[@chad4536]

I feel you. I'm contemplating the same thing.

[@pamelaandem2414]

Watching this and I’m honestly tearing up because how is this so accurate with what I’m facing. Just quit my 9-5 job with no job or money lined up and this just made me feel better❤️ Thank you so much for sharing

[@user-ng2gf4ox9q]

You just quit your job with no plan and no money saved up? Why is everyone leaving their job without no money saved up? This is so crazy. I don't know if I should laugh at you or feel sorry for you. Listen to what you just said. You said you left your job on your own with no money saved up and the lady put a heart by your comment as if you did the right thing. So how did you survive? How did you buy food and pay your bills if you don't mind me asking. Why is everyone leaving their job? Is it that bad?

[@mariancounsellor]

Most people don’t work for an employer thinking they’re making someone else rich. They’re doing it as a trade for a salary so they can live. Unless someone has a regular income from somewhere, savings, or a partner who has an income, it’s almost impossible to just quit their job.

[@CarmyDivine]

Cause must people are not awake of theie purpose

[@user-rb9pn2ew1z]

Identity crisis will make you do strange things like quitting your job during these dire economic times. Delusion at it's best. These young people have a long way to go in understanding how this life works. Being a monk does'nt pay bills

[@temprary580]

Thats what I'm saying...who can just quit..even if you have savings...just to burn up your savings and end up getting another job in a few months?

[@truthbetold6942]

Just saw in these comments that a single mother of three young kids just quit her 6 figure job with no back up plan. I could never put my children in that type of financial risk!

[@user-rb9pn2ew1z]

@@truthbetold6942 madness indeed

[@qbills3185]

I’m proud of you Anais. Everybody y’all remember, YOU come first🤝

[@anaisdottavio]

Thank you!

[@angelhopeshaktiathena1429]

💜

[@lwazikunene3330]

I just need the courage to walk and never look back. I deeply hate what I do for a living. This isn't what I envisioned 😢 and it's just not doing it for me. I'm mentally and and physically drained! 😪

[@alondra2317]

I cope by working out at home, yoga and reconnecting and deeply diving into my relationship with self and with God. I have been feeling this way for so long, I'm just now allowing myself to breathe and to come into peace and understanding with my physical and mental health. Thank you for this video!

[@anaisdottavio]

Tuning in so important. We often are go-go-go without realizing that we’re on autopilot and need to re-center. Thank you for sharing!

[@stemikger]

You are on the right path young lady. I'm 59 and a half and after 30 years of dedicated service as a coordinator in the Document Services Department at a now defunct law firm, on Thanksgiving Day I received an email telling me I was terminated. Corporate America does not play fair and unfortunately, I was too scared to act on it. in my younger years I see you young people are rewriting the rule book. Good for you, the Universe will send you where you need to be.

[@marting.9613]

Beautiful comment thanks for sharing!

[@sbugumede3862]

Guurl I just resigned from a Good paying job last week effective immediately. I had lost my folks both in junior high and had a strong sense of independence AND self preservation from a young age of 14. Its Okay to have doubts but I maintain that when Ur selfworth , ambition takes the Driver's seat.... Nothing is impossible. At the Age of 34 now,I'm embarking on a very scary and rewarding studies in architecture.Let Providence Guide Me 🙏

[@angelhopeshaktiathena1429]

Everything Will be Fine

[@drearoses1306]

This is a great video. I see that my daughter has the same mindset. She was in college (a renowned HBCU) and after one semester she realized she was not fulfilled. She moved into her own apartment with the help of her parents and had me paying the rent lol. The more she got up every morning to go to class, the more she realized that her destiny was paving a very different blueprint. She told me her plans and the minute I came to remove the last bit of items out of her apartment, she began her journey to self entrepreneurship. She has not stopped and continues to work on HER dreams, instead of someone else's. That to me is the meaning of a true girl boss lol :) You're definitely an inspiration and I will continue to follow you on your journey...Loving the hair by the way chica!!

[@anaisdottavio]

She’s my little queen!! Can’t wait to see all the wonderful things she’s going to accomplish, especially with her queen mama by her side ♥️ i miss you!

[@SolH2OYachts]

I had a similar talk with my supervisor and their suggestion was more work. I think not! I am preparing for a career break one way or the other.

[@anaisdottavio]

Sending you luck and best wishes! It’s a difficult path separating from something that’s kept us comfortable and stable but we won’t know all the amazing opportunities waiting for us if we never take the leap.

[@lifewithsmurf]

been asking for a sign for quitting my job, but i feel like me asking for a sign is the sign! thank you for this piece of advice! blessings to you and your journey 🩷

[@mogadimarutle825]

This sounds like me 10 years ago! I quit my law firm after 6 years it was toxic the culture the people and quit with no back up ..scariest thing but so worth it. Took a year to travel and found a dream job. You were so brave ❤❤ thanks for sharing

[@jasmineharrison690]

You literally have a powerful and star quality . Thank you for sharing this .I resigned from my job without something lined up too. I am terrified but my intuition told me it sad time to leave and prioritize myself and my mental health and I am proud of that and proud of you !!❤❤

[@anaisdottavio]

It can be very scary, but if money is a concern just know that you can always change your mind and find temp employment while you focus on what you’re feeling really called to do! Good luck 💛

[@tahliahdottavio7480]

My favorite quote about this topic “The more you seek the uncomfortable, the more you will become comfortable.” ❤ this is just the beginning of an amazing life ahead of you!

[@anaisdottavio]

Thank you for your support 🧡

[@camilleamaclean]

Watching this after having a breakdown twice this week! Been praying alot and getting more opportunities with my side hustle. So I am taking this as a sign! Thank you for this video for it is so relatable and hits home.

[@CDGbyGraziaCosta]

WOW! A BDR?! Sales roles can lead to quick burnout for many. I hit burnout and I quit! Kudos on making the switch, and I wish you all the success in your new role!

[@hudaa3264]

You are so mature and so wise. You're going to be just fine!

[@iryna_kovpachishka1667]

Thank you! I’m just quite 4 days ago with no plan and money. 4,5 years I hate it, and now freedom. But sooo much happpy))

[@toopoiseddiary]

We’re definitely in the same boat. Just quit my job as a practice administrator 08/18/23. I been through so much with employers the past 2 years that I believe I’m jaded. I don’t believe I’m mentally ready to work for a company right now. I’m not sure what I’m going to do I’ve been so dependent on a job since I was 15. I was supposed to make a video but for the past 44 days I have been back and forth between “crumbling” and hopeful. Your video has encouraged me to make. Hopefully I can muster up enough energy to make it this week. I would love your support. New content coming soon.

[@nicoletiana]

im having this moment right now.. i can feel myself getting weary at this day job that im at.... and idk, im real nervous about ACTUALLY doing it... please god give me another sign............

[@TheQueenPsChannel]

I’m crying watching this video. Because this everything I feel. 😢

[@anaisdottavio]

Aw we’ll make it out ok! 💓

[@naomie167]

Happy to be the 1k like ❤ Thank you for sharing your story, it is very inspiring. I want to quit my job, but still searching what I want to do next.

[@mariefprats]

Thank you KZbin Algorithm for letting me see your video! I love this video so much Anaïs. Everything that you said resonated with me as I also left my job without any lined up. But, every since I quit, I've never felt any happier and I'm finally focusing on myself, passions and hobbies like creating content too. :)) Excited to follow your journey!

[@Marek_Cali]

it depends on so many things. not everyone can make money on their own. this is reality. but there are always improvements we can make. question also is...how much is enough. this is where i am at........52 and trying to understand "how much is enough" i am close to quitting well paid IT job and live my life. life is too short to be stressed out

[@anaisdottavio]

Totally. These massive corporations are putting food on the table for many families, but employees’ jobs can be taken from them at any moment especially in this economy. Which is what makes it scary as well

[@ItsThinkpink212]

Hello Anaïs! Im also Anaïs and am about to quit my receptionist job at a 5-star hotel wellness (spa). I’ve done it before, which is why it doenst scare me to jump out free fall without anyhing lined up. But sometimes I feel it creeps on me that I may be doing the wrong thing ;which is why I’m here. Hearing from others who just don’t feel good in their work environment anymore share how they took the step to put themslevs first is beyond motivating! Thank you for this ❤️

[@rachelchanel7941]

Hi there! This is the first video of yours that I'm watching. It was recommended to me. Thank you so much for sharing. I'm considering leaving the job I have now. It's scary to make that decision, but my body is screaming for me to make a full stop. I'll have to look at your other content to see how you're doing now :)

[@LS-bw7jt]

This is me right now. So depressed

[@Giannina-LoveThemAll]

Shes still working but multiple part time jobs to pay her bills while she works on her. I dont understand how close minded some can be.

[@keefthestone]

I’m so glad I found this video. I quit my 6 figure job for many of the reasons you listed. After 11 months, I decided to apply for another corperate position. I made it to the final round when I was badgered by the interviewer on why I would quit my previous job. Despite being low on funds. I’ve decided that company is not the one for me. This video really helped me to feel stronger in my decision and not gaslight myself.

[@marting.9613]

This is very inspiring. Thanks for sharing!

[@alondra2317]

Watching this as I eat my breakfast, and so on time!! I can relate so hard to this.

[@sailoranimegirl101]

You’re describing exactly what I’m feeling at my job now. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@samiabamia]

Glad I came across your video! I'm also working towards leaving my job! please do post videos about what your doing in the interim in terms of going for jobs to cover bills :) Good luck on the journey

[@jrexplores_]

Such a positive and calm video. Congratulations on your strength to quit and focus on your health. I am on that path myself. I am at a full time draining job that leaves no energy and time for content creation or any sort of side hustles. Your video helps to think there is another way. Good luck:)

[@tayanamercedes1750]

feeling really lost in life right now. thank you so much for creating videos, it's helping a lot!

[@anaisdottavio]

we all do at another point in time, but these ebbs and flows help us grow and move towards what is actually meant for us!

[@RichardLopez-lr4el]

On this same journey right now! 🎉 starting a KZbin channel to build something for myself and beyond a corporation. Wishing you the best of luck in your journey!! You’re not alone in it!

[@jenice7592]

Needed this video, thank you

[@adachannmentalhealthcrisis]

Yes Anais, you are definitely right, unfortunately 2.18K sibscribers are not enough audience to be able to pay your bills. So how can you manage to pay your bills? Happy new year!

[@sheenastar1639]

Wow! I needed this!

[@bashirauwal5825]

This is an extraordinary video that helps so many people around the world, you're helping to change people's life everyday. Thanks for telling us the truth. I quite my job as a medical practitioner last 2 years After almost 8 years in the field, I retired from my position as a registered nurse two years ago. Though it was not an easy choice, life is too short to spend each day dreading going to work. No amount of money can truly buy true happiness. But friends, I'm not asking you to quit your job or shut your business. Just be wise

[@bashirauwal5825]

​@Katty Stelmach I started planning for early retirement while I was still working, making about 3k a week from my investment portfolio while planning to build a new side hustle and income. Best advice : Never invest your life savings in a single asset.

[@queencj7228]

I feel you. I think about quitting 2. Yesterday, just really hit me.

[@Oli-pr7ww]

New Dallas subscriber, glad I ran across your content. Cant wait to see your Austin and future content.

[@anaisdottavio]

Thank you!

[@JanaJmusic]

goals 🥹 following ur footsteps soon

[@ronderukumasan]

That is what I did with the shithole of the managers of a retail job I work at. Like suspension for little to no reason so I said fuck it and left. No regrets. I won't kiss ass who treats people like garbage

[@Marcin-ji1vm]

Also an ex-lawyer here. I didn't like law firms, I tried academia and simultaneously working for the government. 2 years ago I switched the industry to growth marketing which I really enjoyed at first. And now I'm thinking about quitting this as well to start my own business.

[@anaisdottavio]

Wishing you luck! I think even being able to try different avenues is a privilege in itself

[@tylergnosis2581]

Man you opened my eyes

[@kickingitwithkd7337]

I just quit my job today and needed some validation. Couldn’t have come across a better video, I resonate with everything you said🥹 excited to see where it takes me and I’m so happy I’m finally choosing myself 💕 thank you for this🫶🏾

[@anaisdottavio]

so excited for you! congratulations!

[@edwardmayfield9061]

All money's not good money

[@gordopeso2159]

Hey Anaïs, Thanks for the 🔥 video. I’m kinda going thru something like this too. I kinda quit. And I kinda don’t give a dam. I’m starting cdl school very soon to drive a tanker with hazmat local. It’s a dangerous job but pays 80-100k+. I plan on doing it for 2 years or until I get my own business off the ground. Wish me luck. ❤

[@anaisdottavio]

Good luck!

[@Day-xp1eg]

That backup looks so pretty

[@victoriahart8841]

Anais, hope things are going okay for you since you left your job. You should be proud of yourself for this. I am also in a similar situation and am so grateful I stumbled onto your video. I can very much relate to the feeling that we have been so brainwashed into believing in corporate and making other business owners so much money. I’ve been in hospitality since I was about 15 and now I’m 30. I quit my job yesterday also with no backup plan, but my soul has been tugging at me to do this and I can’t shake it. The creative in me is wanting more. Life’s short, we have to make the most of it. Very proud of you! Going to follow you on Insta 😊

[@nicothefreelancer]

Definitely me. Hopefully next year I can confidently quit my job.

[@SingleMaLife]

I'm proud of you and got inspiration tonight as confirmation to take the same leap of faith. I just gave myself an end date and wrote my resignation letter out. You gave me courage to take this leap not just for me but my almost 2 year old daughter. Thank you and keep pushing ❤

[@anaisdottavio]

Wishing you the best of luck 💛 life isn’t always promised, so if we’re privileged enough to be able to make the most out of the little time we have, we have to!!

[@srinivasnarayana4494]

Thank you it's really helpful.

[@ktsayasafira]

Amen and thank you for your video

[@bobbyball1057]

This world can be exhausting. It’s no wonder suicide rates are so high.

[@ezzywrldent]

Inspiration ❤️😊

[@DEJUANALGODON]

Enjoyed the video keep going

[@mikedonato2977]

They don't appreciate us. I'm glad you left.

[@Nkmusiclast]

Cost of living too high guys dont quit the job 😁 Message from an unemployed friend... 🤣🖤

[@choosetoshine2610]

Excellent content! New subscriber. ❤️

[@Penny-yx3dh]

Wow 🤩

[@Honestlylovely]

It's okay

[@chuitropcool1]

My inspiration! It’s so hard to switch up the mindset of no longer breaking your back for someone else…can you share tips on how you prepared financially for it? Like how much did you have in savings and how you budgeted your money?

[@anaisdottavio]

Great idea!

[@ArianaMMR]

Girl Im you right now.

[@amycolucci6769]

I like the video, but the background music is way too loud

[@fernandohernandezjr5696]

LAWD😘🇵🇷

[@BEACHDUDE71]

Office Space movie

[@yougetaspear7799]

😛😝🐟🐟🤤🤤ok boo

[@SpinodoDragon]

Hates capitalism, wants to build wealth. K

[@truubluu3330]

yeah because how else are you going to survive?

[@lmae8337]

@@truubluu3330 Work a nonprofit organic farm for room and board.