Throughout the entire story, hubby kept warning OP about her actions and she kept ignoring him. He simply had enough! OP took no accountability at all! She deserves the streets!
@Springfield20169 ай бұрын
An alcoholic gets drunk at a work party, tells off her hubby, then gets caught heavy petting with her boss, if not having sex, and it's the hubby's fault? While I hope this story is fake, there are too many narcissistic women who think like this. The "It's not what it looks like" excuse right out of the cheaters handbook. "It was the alcohol, not me!" .......
@eidhabbal7 ай бұрын
it do not think it was a kiss or a hand under a skirt
@captainterrific9 ай бұрын
It never ceases to amaze me. Women seem to have a very deep conviction that somehow their reasons and explanations for engaging in adulterous behavior somehow magically changes the nature of what happened. What's going on in their minds? That if the cheated-on spouse just heard the rationale for why their spouse cheated, why, it would make everything okay? To listen to it, they seem to be insisting that the REAL problem here is not that they are adulterous monsters, but that their spouses didn't listen to their enlightening explanations. Yes, that's the REAL problem.
@SuperOdyss9 ай бұрын
Women also think their bodies are magical and that all they need do is sleep with their betrayed husband and all will heal.
@melvinmelvin96069 ай бұрын
I made my previous statement while only half way through story. I now understand what u meant & it is just amazing how they do something wrong, then put all the blame on the man for how he reacts. They really think the man is to blame for his reaction & not the facts of what she did to cause it. Lol thus the reason I never once considered asking for a woman's hand in marriage. What for? So other men can bang ur wife mor than u do??
@visheshtan90199 ай бұрын
Correct I do agree
@ikongchin30889 ай бұрын
WARPED THINKING REALLY DEADLY .
@selfaware39409 ай бұрын
All you have to do is flip the genders and ask the same women if they would just get over their husbands kissing and cuddling the secretary...and then when the wife gets home with an intent to work on the marriage they find the same secretary snuggled up to the husband...
@Peter-vr6co9 ай бұрын
This story is so full of self righteous, poor me, I'm the victim here. What a load of crap.
@originalsklaus9 ай бұрын
Right. She accidently kissed her boss( fell on to his lips?), Wm had long forewarned her about Dave, and at the party , the table, Wm was trying to watch her drinking but she saw this as a buzz kill, so she turns around to Dave. Yeah, she the victim?
@harryking40079 ай бұрын
A sh t load of crap indeed. This female was F ing her boss 100 mph.
@tonynelligan19308 ай бұрын
she demands her husband talk? he was talking and telling you things you didn't want to hear. now that it's done it's done. she knows she's in the wrong or worse doesn't got a clue and her husband was smart to go away. what could he say at this point other then hearing her bs some more?
@ivayloyankov99057 ай бұрын
Totally agree. Too bad for the husband, who had to go through that and waste years of his life for such woman.
@GaerLlwyd9 ай бұрын
An alcoholic decided to take that first drink after years of sobriety, even though her partner -- who had suffered through the terrible years of addiction -- tried to prevent her relapse. The alcoholic failed to heed the warning. Bottom line. THIS is what created OP's disaster. The husband did not want to live through the potentially horrible years of readdiction that he had experienced earlier in the relationship. OP needs to be reunited with a 12-step program.
@Toncats9 ай бұрын
If you, as a woman, do not understand why your husband gets angry, think that if you are drunk and kissing on the dance floor while your boss is feasting and grabbing your body, that is the reason why things go completely wrong.
@keithwashington46739 ай бұрын
This is the problem you disregarded William‘s feelings from the very beginning he warned you about Dave. He informed you his uncomfortable feelings about your relationship with Dave yet you disregarded him during your job disregarded him after he made you aware of them, and then returned back to alcohol disregarded, and disrespected him, emasculated him, and then proceed to emotionally. and publicly, disrespected him in front of your colleagues, and his former colleagues, then you use returned to the person that help you demoralize the man you said you loved wanna relationship, have a family with have kids with spend forever with, and grow old with, and then when he confront you, you get upset anger because he doesn’t see the situation from your point of you he only warned you because remember how he got you he was your boss now how Dave has you he was your boss, so how William got you he know another man can get you . Because remember William, was your boss when you fell in love with him now you have this emotional and drunk and experience with Dave who was your boss so you want William to see it from your point of you and your perspective take it up and look at William’s perspective you disrespected them at your party you disrespected them on the job. You disrespected him in in yawls house with Dave coming over all the time as he walked into the front you about it and he’s wrong for just not caring and walking out. Did you even really love William or was he just a boss available at that time?
@iamdragonkrys9 ай бұрын
OP is so self-centred 😅
@hockey_rules8 ай бұрын
Wow, to those who pointed out this woman's selfishness you are so right. It was all about her, never acknowledging the pain she put William through. And then she brags about her "friendship" with Dave. Yup, she was the victim, bravely going forth, determined to right a path for herself. With that attitude, I wouldn't be surprised if all her future relationships turned out the same way. Wow, just wow...
@russellwood87509 ай бұрын
Woman is completely disloyal. He did the right thing by just walking away. There is a reason why they say talk is cheap talking, action, speak louder than words and actions have consequences. Anyone can say they love you it’s only words they could be completely lying. It’s nice to hear and it makes you feel good, but it’s not proof. Someone’s love is demonstrated true their actions and their behavior. This is much harder to lie as it requires major effort on their parts and deceitful people don’t like putting into work. This is why they use their words. It’s the minimum amount to try and convince you they care about you. I say bullshit prove it. if you wanna know whether your wife or your husband cares about you, it’s really really simple get yourself a little notebook and every time they do any small little gesture, write it down after a couple of months look back through the book as to what they do for you, this will demonstrate how much they really care.
@ikongchin30889 ай бұрын
Loop
@Two2thirds239 ай бұрын
She kiss her boss marry woman don’t do that
@iamdragonkrys9 ай бұрын
Who will go drunk with their colleagues or boss?😢 It's a professional event. Not a friendly party
@iamdragonkrys9 ай бұрын
Dave is snake😅
@0660tbag3 ай бұрын
A diabolical one too!
@RitaJefferies-b8y9 ай бұрын
Maybe this wife should have taken her husband's feelings into consideration when he first expredded his concern about her boss. Even after she hugged and kissed her boss in the office she still thought it a good idea to sit between hubby and boss at the party. Next she decided to disregard her husband's warnings and engage in drinking shots with boss. And obviously her boss had ulterior motives, otherwise he would have shown more respect for her husband and removed himself from the situation. Later, after husband disappeared she chose to meet Dave to discuss whar happened at the party and her marital situation. Even inviting him to her house, alone. It seems that she doesn't truly love her husband, and definitely didn't respect him or her marriage vows. Yes she cheated. When you're married it's never acceptable to kiss another man, nor make a habit of spending time alone with him in person, talking on the phone, texting and especially discussing your marital problems with him. What married woman doesn't know this, Isn't this marriage 101?
@stevetallent46379 ай бұрын
OP still can’t see that she had an emotional affair with her boss. There is a reason all the people at work thought she was having an affair. All of the excuses for messaging late at night and working late were justifications. It didn’t need to happen. And then she crossed the line, multiple times, started treating her husband with disrespect, and then when he responds, she runs to her emotional affair partner for emotional comfort. And she’s the victim.
@Vergenak.Brooks-e2s9 ай бұрын
Girllll you didn't care about his feeling when you knew he didn't want you working closely with your boss, you got busted and he left YOU !! 😂
@selfaware39409 ай бұрын
27:00 "despite everything william put me through..." seems like she is already blaming william for her predicament.
@phoenixred2407 ай бұрын
The audacity of this woman to claim that she was drunk and that's why she cannot remember and control herself. What a piece of work. You still went back to that man claiming friendship and supporting you. This kind of woman does not deserve a man but just be a one night stand.
@0660tbag3 ай бұрын
Let me be next in line for the one night stand!
@Vergenak.Brooks-e2s9 ай бұрын
Why Do People Always Be Blaming It On The Alcohol ? You Was Gone Do It Anyway !! 🤣🤣
@franklinmatthys92629 ай бұрын
This women kissed her boss after her husband gave her a warning and at the end she still not see that she was to blame. Good job William, she has cheating abilities.
@superbirden579 ай бұрын
So often men can see the minute signs of other men having less than pure intentions towards their girlfriends and wives. That same thing applies to women having greater awareness of other women's intentions. Yet neither partners takes their other halves opinions.
@Funcreativity-Ij6 ай бұрын
The fact that she kissed him twice ( one of those two times she was completely sober ) and thinks she's done nothing wrong is crazy Not to mention that after all that happened she went to the guy she cheated on her husband with to "vent" Lol Amd she says she deserves happiness
@JohnKendall-je4rx4 ай бұрын
Telling your co worker about problems with your spouse are a form of cheating.
@mentalward456520 күн бұрын
She chose her boss over her husband over and over again. How can anyone be so clueless.
@chickenwhisperer6878 ай бұрын
She should have quit her job and broke off all ties with dave. A husband deserves to be number 2 in a woman's life and GOD number 1.
@iamdragonkrys9 ай бұрын
In which country New year is celebrated with work colleagues? I can't understand 😅. 😒 WTF!!
@Funcreativity-Ij6 ай бұрын
"One seemingly innocent mistake" What world is she living in😂
@scottm80769 ай бұрын
Wow! Accountability is kryptonite to women!!! So her husband ‘abandoned’ her? He voiced his discomfort with her boss. She kissed her boss BEFORE the party. She has an alcohol issue and he voiced his concern with her drinking so much at the party. She blew him off and hooked up with the SAME GUY HER HUSBAND VOICED HIS ISSUES ABOUT!!! Yeah, HE needed to talk more!?!? Stay single forever, stay happy for life!
@devynrod90438 ай бұрын
The husband DID talk to his wife and outlined his concerns about the relationship between her and her boss. Apparently the wife either forgot his concerns or didn’t care. She proceeded to get drunk (as is her way) and kissed her boss. The husband should have just divorced her then. She just didn’t care about him
@thomassmith57489 ай бұрын
First mistake OP made was referring to her alcohol intake as an obsession rather than an addiction, you never have any control over an addiction. One drink and you’re done. Second mistake was to completely disregard her husband’s concerns for as long as she did. She landed in a self destructive trap because of her overconfidence and selfishness.
@loopslytle9 ай бұрын
Yes, she is a cheater!
@johnshaw8739 ай бұрын
So she, an alcoholic, gets drunk over the protests of her husband and starts kissing and groping her boss (who the husband who had worked at that company) never liked. For the bulk of the project she is binge drinking. Then over a three month period she turns to this man for support and the husband walks in on them as she is about to hug her this man and she can’t understand why she has no credibility?
@antonglas74884 ай бұрын
How does a person accidentality kiss someone else? Absolutely BS. The OP must have had an attraction for Dave. William done right to call time and leave.
@Steve-nu4sv9 ай бұрын
I think she also needs to set some clear boundaries between her mouth and alcohol. Husband left the house took everything except the bed probably because she was sleepinng in it. Clear message "We are done"
@Mentallect8 ай бұрын
A jilted man should never let a woman explain her infidelity because men know the actions count, not the reasons, excuses, delusions, etc. behind her treason.
@wackyiv2199 ай бұрын
She literally kissed her boss, let him come over repeatedly after her husband left, and she just can't seem fo piece it together they're having an emotional affair
@joehohmann60159 ай бұрын
So what was the "physical encounter"?
@RobbieSalmon-oc9gf8 ай бұрын
YOU DONT GO TO A NEW EVES PARTY GET DRUNK AND THEN HAVE IT OFF WITH YOUR OWN BOSS EVEN WHEN YOUR HUSBAND IS THERE OR NOT,I,M NOT SURPRISED AT ALL WHEN HE SENT HER THE DIVORCE PAPERS MAYBE A BIT HARSH BUT KISSING YOUR BOSS IS GOING BEYOND REDEMPTION,THE WIFE DESERVED WHAT SHE GOT
@BikersDoItSittingDown9 ай бұрын
"what should I do now" buy a cat!
@skynetcreations-b3l9 ай бұрын
the moment a man sees stuff like he did see your girl kissing her boss and him even groping her in intimate places, the opinion of the women becomes irrelevant, nothing she says will justify it nothing she does can repair it, she did it even openly for everybody to see, that's like using a railgun to shoot your feelings, everything gone in one blow no coming back from that.
@SuperOdyss9 ай бұрын
Yes, for one thing the value the woman had in the husband's eyes evaporates and the husband suddenly realizes he is married to a 304. Nothing she can say after that can alter his image of her.
@toco62709 ай бұрын
She needs to be alone. She knew she was a drunk but got drunk anyway. Got what you ask for. Hanging out with the guy who felt you up. That's rich.
@harryking40079 ай бұрын
This female did way more than just kiss her boss! Now she is here telling us she lost her marriage because of 1 kiss??? And it's her husbands fault because he didn't realize her worth and not talk to her. This story is garbage.
@harryking40078 ай бұрын
This female claimed that she wasn't here to blame her husband for anything at the same time blaming her husband for not talking to her and not sucking up her disrespect and disregard....terrible and shameful story.
@FrankSykes-on3zw7 ай бұрын
She should have understood how things were between them. Especially after the problems they still facing. She should have listened to her husband tried to warn her about drinking. She disrespected him in every turn. He tried on many occasions to let her know how he felt about her INTERACTIONS with Dave. She refused to hear him.
@louellacentina899 ай бұрын
No way that her excuses are valid ,and she has made his man embarrassed inf😅ront of her boss,the hubby is gone for good enoughis enough ,divorce is a better option,making her husband looks like an idiot while she is engaged into a wild frenzy? No valid reason for her to justify her actions I congratulate William to make a right move to a wife who cannot know the difference between right or wrong.
@dannysneddon82849 ай бұрын
She needs a drink ! LOL..women have a lower tolerance for booze, that is a fact, but that is NO excuse for cheating! this man Knew the Writing was on the wall when she fell from grace.. this man did everything to prevent this happening, NO one can fault his good intentions, oh and by the way... a kiss, a grope, whatever.. IS! infidelity! wheather it be a woman or a man.
@cwho178ho710 күн бұрын
never get involved with people who can't control their drinks.always leads to trouble.
@maxjones-rs4ek4 ай бұрын
Her husband should have forced her to leave and threatened her boss, because of her alcohol issues he should have known she couldn’t control.
@claudejalabert84679 ай бұрын
It's all the husband's fault! He has accepted her alcoholism and withdrawal and must accept that she kisses her boss because of his drunkenness again. He deserves better. We will do without her comments on the couple and communication. Unilateral for her.....
@christophervisser58109 ай бұрын
Please ensure going forward that the text commentary in the video follows your opening synopsis???
@chuckroy3678 ай бұрын
The problem was all her. She was selfish and tried to bully her husband. It would have stopped if she stop texting and calling all night. She put her work before her husband
@scotthuffaker42229 ай бұрын
Dave is such a piece of don’t f with peoples feelings
@garymcdonald7695 ай бұрын
This was definitely written by a woman who has no regrets just trying to justify themselves
@Life4Stories9 ай бұрын
This news changed their family's life forever, you won't believe what happened, this vidoe with the story is on my channel. 🙄
@kennethbarkley14919 ай бұрын
OP is delusional, she had all the signs of an emotional affair. She did not keep a good work home life balance. The boss took advantage of OP to get the project done by not trying additional help for the project when the one employee went out on maternity leave. OP and the now the boss then compounded the emotional affair by engaging in a drunken spectacle with OP telling her husband telling OP to leave her alone when he tried to stop her an alcoholic from drinking. This at a time OP was supposedly trying to show her husband there was no affair.Then when William did come back he catches OP and the boss about to embrace. OP is a fool and ended her marriage by her own foolishness. William had already stuck by her as she went through her alcoholism. Most would have been done once started drinking again.
@kurtpopejoy45309 ай бұрын
Ok i have to comment red flag 1. Dave, your husband who's been your rock has a bad feeling about and doesn't trust sucks all your time from your husband doesn't put a stop to rumors encouraging you to keep drinking and has no remorse about getting hot and heavy with a married woman that works under him red flag 2 you find out the reason your husband is gone and your reaction is to give him space and become closer to the man that caused it which once again your husband warned you about just wow Yes husband was extreme in some ways with his actions and could have explained what you are doing but you did nothing to fight for your marriage
@joehohmann60159 ай бұрын
And how stupid was she to be meeting Dave after what happened at the party even if it was innocent? She should've broken all contact with his and waited for a response from her husband but she just dug her grave deeper.
@stevecross80069 ай бұрын
It's always nice to know if your wife gets a sniff of alcohol she turns into a cheater and of course you have to understand
@Kuyatone9 ай бұрын
Wow. How ambivalent can some women be?
@iamdragonkrys9 ай бұрын
She never had a sigma male in her life 😅 Now she will manage better her future 😊
@gasperguy69-r3l4 ай бұрын
I read the original story on another website and it was a lot better than this version and a lot more in depth , a lot better outcome!
@SmithAndy243 ай бұрын
You kissed your boss and disrespected your husband so you are the red flag!!
@j.vincentlee95789 ай бұрын
Right …she’s the victim…. Hope she likes cats…
@800776558 ай бұрын
Total click bait...there is no "wife kissing her colleague during a dance, and sliding his hand under her skirt".
@lionelbeckles68989 ай бұрын
You were a recovering alcoholic one drink is too much, if you did not take those shots then you would not have been in the position
@thomassmith57489 ай бұрын
Another narcissist bites the dust and she’ll never know why 😒
@johnedwards65388 ай бұрын
Stop your belly aching and accept responsibility for your actions. You don’t go around kissing your boss. Saying your husband doesn’t understand your feeling to justifying the reason to cheat is crazy!!! You have no respect for your husband or yourself!
@rusticmamofthewoodsАй бұрын
That's what people don't want to understand why this happens you new that drinking would lead to this and he truly tried to stop you but you wouldn't stop drinking. When the trust is gone it's just gone forever. So get a grip and move on .
@johnengelbrechtnyjets9 ай бұрын
This is stupid. A job is a job. Stop making excuses
@DeniseParnham8 ай бұрын
Wow Hubby Nice Of U To Stop Drinkin😮😮😮
@AlicePadilla-c1d9 ай бұрын
She got what she asked for, she did cheat!
@jamespandiscio52194 ай бұрын
It is time the female narrator grew up and acted her age-love honor and forake all others-you didn't do that !
@terryferguson14599 ай бұрын
Best advice, quit drinking
@garymcdonald7698 ай бұрын
You cheated You're a cheater and there's another word that you can't use on this form. You can justify it all you want and say that no one supported you and your husband was weak it's all lies you are what you are and what you will be
@DeniseParnham8 ай бұрын
Yeah Theres Something Going On Wife 😮😮😮
@timthompson19479 ай бұрын
Trust is simple to earn easy to lose impossible to regain
@DeniseParnham8 ай бұрын
Poor Willam😮😮
@DeniseParnham8 ай бұрын
Daves A Woe😮😮😮😮😮😮
@paulinaigun59465 ай бұрын
Cheat not mistake Cheat is choice
@eidhabbal7 ай бұрын
as a man it would be bloody no if and or
@DeniseParnham8 ай бұрын
Bad Wife Talkin To Dave Stupid😮😮
@DeniseParnham8 ай бұрын
God Not The Damn BOSS😮😮
@rusticmamofthewoodsАй бұрын
You had a problem with acahal so why did you do all the shots with him and a kiss that was over the top.
@rogerallen17679 ай бұрын
ur 2 busy blaming the poor man look in the mirror amd u will c the problem
@artisaprimus63066 ай бұрын
Yes, right! She wanted an affair with her boss. She was already having an emotional affair with her boss. She refused to stop drinking when her husband tried to insist, showing she didn't respect him. She wanted to cheat. I hope the ex husband finds a decent woman that won't make excuses for cheating.
@nicolasyazigi22338 ай бұрын
She is a cheater !
@Jspooner18 ай бұрын
she cheated but its his fault...
@DeniseParnham8 ай бұрын
Go To Bank And Get Credit Cards
@garyarford51693 ай бұрын
Absolute crap and the title was very misleading.
@markjordan23828 ай бұрын
This woman was a snake
@JaimeSotero-d4x6 ай бұрын
are you inside the cave?..
@lowellgriffin32486 ай бұрын
Her fault
@marshallrosamond4219 ай бұрын
Yes your a cheater
@malcolmbriggs42815 ай бұрын
You cheated.
@CarlHall-h6g9 ай бұрын
Like years investment only come back by saving getting you something nice with money left every time in you pocket every day
@CarlHall-h6g9 ай бұрын
Cash an all
@PerryChamberlain2 ай бұрын
This is one of the dumbest and longest and waste of time stories I've heard on KZbin. You need to find a new line of work or tune up your AI. It's not very good. It's shitty
@CarlHall-h6g9 ай бұрын
Speller ain't good speller lol
@joeseay28836 ай бұрын
What a stupid tale.!
@raybryant4314 ай бұрын
Alcohol
@CarlHall-h6g9 ай бұрын
It's always a battle that you win every minute of every day by staying sober you a winner hang in there via con dios