I Saw My Old Bully While He Was On A Date

[@RinAikou]

My bully is the reason I didn't finish High School. He would deliberately pick a seat behind me in class and he would chew up food and put it in my hair. At the time I had hair that was long enough to reach my butt so I wouldn't notice this until everybody in the class would laugh at me. I told the teachers and they did nothing about it this went on for years and eventually I reach my breaking point and I had to leave. I did end up getting my GED and getting on with my life. Fast forward 10 years later and guess who finds me on facebook? I guess he decided that I had a glow up or something because he very much wanted to be with me. So of course I let him think that I wanted to be with him too, I never went on any physical dates with him but I was able to talk him into buying me free food and having it sent to me. Thanks covid for giving me a wonderful excuse not to see this person that made me wonder how much life was actually worth living back in school. This went on for almost a year until covid restrictions let up. When the restrictions let up, I invited him to go to Florida with us. We live up close to New York. So I might have possibly gotten him to drive all the way down south to the Florida Panhandle and when I had confirmation that he was there, a selfie of him surrounded by palm trees... I told him that he was the worst person I ever met and explained to him how much he affected my entire life just from his selfish actions in school and then I proceeded to block him. Sorry not sorry have fun getting home.

[@adarkerlink]

Disgustingly PETTY, I love it!

[@onelove7170]

Me sitting here cheering 😂😂

[@youniverse6841]

YASSS GIRL!!! Because eff him 🙂

[@RinAikou]

Honestly, this was the best I've ever felt in my life and I don't care how much he had to pay for gas to get all the way down there and then back home. He made my life hell, this was the least I could do. Petty therapy is the best therapy. Also, I forgot to mention, two weeks later he messaged me on a fake account calling me every name in the book.. I don't feel bad at all I just laughed at him and blocked that account, as well as the 3 friends he had trying to gang up on me in my DMs.. I moved away from that town, he can keep spinning around in his black hole all he wants, he's not dragging me in with him. Not again.

[@dianac846]

​@@RinAikou girl don't even think about his gas or mileage this is the best thing to do to your bully. I hope you prayed that he had car troubles on the way back

[@YourGirlAngie]

I actually ran into my middle school bully at a nail salon!! I immediately felt all that same tension and stress - she had made my life hell for 3 years. I chose not to acknowledge her and decided just to try to enjoy my manicure. Imagine my surprise when she approached me and called me by name. She proceeded to profusely apologize for everything and say that she thought of me often and sincerely regretted the way she treated me all those years ago. It was wonderful to have that kind of closure to that rough time in my life - she spent the rest of the time I was at the salon chatting with me and asking about my life. It’s good to know that some kids grow out of it :)

[@Breathe-In-and-Out]

How sweet!

[@eliza_lynn_moonmaiden]

This one is sweet, you showed empathy. That's very admirable and courageous of you ❤

[@Ecanbee]

I’m glad she grew up and had the character now to apologize for her horrid behavior. You’re a legend for showing such graciousness in that situation. Glad you got closure and hopefully were able to leave it in the past!

[@EmnM2010]

I thought I saw my youth group bully come in a nail salon in the middle of my manicure, and when the tech noticed me tense up she asked what was wrong and I explained to her, "I think that walk-in used to bulky me, but I can't tell if it's the same person..." And without hesitation, she patted my hand and said in the most motherly voice, "If she runs a card, I'll tell you what name is on it. Then you'll know for sure." If you can't trust your nail tech, who can you trust?

[@EmnM2010]

"So... I heard your mom... the PASTOR... got divorced.... Again... That must be fun!"

[@reighost8399]

I had these girls that would not leave me alone during high school. Cooking class comes around one day and i notice one of them messing with my oven, turning down the temp so the pineapple upside-down cake we were making would be undercooked. I waited until she had gone to the classroom to do the written portion of the class, and turned the heat back to normal, popped over to HER oven and served up some of her own medicine. I went to fill in the paperwork and when we were all sent back to pull our cakes out of the oven, everyone was being slow so i had time to get to her oven and make it look like it was the right temp before going back to my oven. The teacher comes around at the cakes and of course everyone gathers around one by one at each cake as they're put on the cooling rack. Mine was PERFECT, caramel oozing over golden-brown cake. The look on the bully's face was sweeter than the actual cake, full marks for both. Teacher goes to bully's cake. The cake once turned upside-down stays perfect for two seconds before the insides ooze out. Undercooked as heck. DOUBLE the perfect look. She was so flabbergasted. Then that realization washed over her face and she looks at me. I tipped my non-existent hat and went back to my cake. I STILL cackle about this decades later.

[@Just1Nora]

Revenge is a dish best served warm but half baked. LOVE IT!

[@kelleywyskiel8513]

Such perfection of class act badassery

[@muller3641]

I love it, when Karma is a petty bitch! 😂

[@beanardo09]

Omfg! The imaginary hat tip! You go girl!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@jennifermcclain4478]

AWESOMENESS!!!!

[@michellew97]

The test thing actually happened to me in HS. I put a little mark by the right answer & then wrote a big wrong answer so my bully could clearly see it. I then ‘reviewed’ my test until she handed it in & changed my answers. I made a 97….she made something like a 45. She started to complain when I said, “What’re ya gonna do? Tell him you cheated badly???” Never messed with me again. 😊

[@edgloss1299]

I remembered the same thing happened with me. But the twist was I actually told her the right answer, but she misplaced all of the answers in a wrong question 🤣😂 so I got 97 when she got was half of mine 😂🤣😂 She went ballistic to me but the only thing I said was " I'm sorry that you're stupider than I thought you were " damn girl was speechless and stop bothering me cuz my teacher heard it... Edit : I surely said those words loud enough for the teacher to hear as he passed by because I finally understand that my bullied was just an idiot under that though, bratty, and mean behavior of her...

[@itsjustmaddisen]

Something similar happened to me, but I used pencil for the really important parts of the tests then changed it last minute. The look on that girl’s face made my whole year lol.

[@Sunari]

I remember a boy in a science class in middle school saying the only reason I existed was give him the right answers or something. My hand shot up so fast the panic on his face was great and luckily it was a decent teacher so he was actually in trouble. Later he wasn't so bad so I'm not sure what spurred on that moment of dickishness, but glad he turned around. EDIT: and it wasn't even a test lol just some regular worksheet or something

[@Leorakatify]

That's amazing 😍

[@CursedRose200]

I don't think I had big bullies. I regret following a rumor about a girl who I befriended later on. My ex husband is my biggest bully. If I ever ran into him (different state tho) I hope I'll have my sweet partner with me and my ex will be lonely. I'll ask him, 'how's dating a corpse going? I bet she ghosted you.' (Context: he told me he'd rather be with a girl who had passed years ago than me. He never met her or dated her. So I left) The biggest revenge for me- is finding my true happiness and hopefully he never drags another woman down again

[@cshijinx]

I remember one time my mom and I ran onto one of her bullies from high-school when I was about 6. I had heard stories about how this guy tormented her and spread nasty rumors about her. So while they were chatting I looked at him and said "you're the guy who called my mom mean things in high-school! You're a jerk!" (Or something like that its been a long time) and kicked him hard in the shin. His wife wouldn't stop laughing

[@kelleywyskiel8513]

You’d be my favorite child no matter how many children I had after that act or heroism.

[@lauraroeleveld4053]

The honesty of kids! I love it. ❤

[@ilovestrongheroines1999]

Like how the wife both acknowledged her husband' was a jerk and enjoyed seeing him reap what he sowed.

[@SD-os2ym]

😂😂😂

[@kathleenhall5301]

When I was in high school…..40 some years ago lol I had a male bully. He called me names, made fun of me for being chunky and generally got laughs at my expense. About 10 years after grad I moved back home for a bit. I was in fantastic shape and looked pretty good.. I went to work in the local club and saw him one night. He did not recognize me but I knew him. He walked up to the manager and asked him to introduce him to me lmao! They came over..him swaggering of course, as soon as the introduction started I interrupted and said I knew exactly who he was. Said my name and told him I did not then nor would I ever have the time of day for him. It felt good! 😂

[@ItsMeTish2.0]

What did he do after? What was the look on his face like?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@asanda.mkhize]

Girl, tell us more! 😂💀

[@barbmck28]

Don't leave us hanging!

[@lizcandrawanime894]

Not a bully but she made me pretty much feel miniscule,unimportant and a outcast (I guess she is one) not only that but she almost cost me my grades. Three years later I see her again and she's surrounded by friends . I was planning on ignoring her but she said hi . So I smiled so brightly ,hugged her and asked her how everything was . Not exactly sure what she was planning on saying to me but after how I reacted she immediately got uncomfortable while her friends were wondering what was wrong with her since I look so happy to see her . Never saw her again . Back in forth grade this boy ( I still remember his name cause this wasn't the only time he did something like this) kept kicking my feet(hard) during class . He would stop when I tell the teacher but continue on the next day . One day I met the teacher after class to ask what I should do . She told me what I should do and I did exactly that . The next day when he kicked me , I kicked back even harder than he did . He yelled and told the teacher. She just said that was what she told me to do everytime he kicks me . Five minutes later he kicks me again and I kick him back harder than before . He started crying and the teacher just said ," she's not going to kick you if you don't kick her . I know you are desperate for a girls attention but this is not how you get it ." End of being kicked .

[@billies_avocado]

OMG YOU AND THAT TEACHER WERE FREAKIN SAVAGES RIGHT THERE AND THAT BULLY GOT WHAT HE DESERVED LMFAO

[@lizcandrawanime894]

He tried to get me in trouble with another teacher with a bogus reason , bogus because of the facts and reasons I gave which had me back in class in my seat and him in the chair in front of the principals desk

[@AB-mx1de]

That is a great teacher!! Bravo to your both

[@ziggystarlust]

I was bullied for many years. In middle school, I pulled the EXACT same thing that "Jan" did, where I let them copy my (incorrect) answers. They knew I was a smart kid but they did not know that I am also petty. They were pissed when they found out what I'd done but knew they couldn't say anything about it because it would be obvious they had cheated. If those girls from Discovery Middle School in Washington see this, hi! I got less ugly, hope you all grew out of being stupid. :)

[@asanda.mkhize]

Such an icon! 😂😂🔥

[@daisy9910]

Hahaha best last sentence ever!

[@Saxophrenic25]

I had the most bizzare encounter with one of my childhood bully’s mother at a FUNERAL of all places. A little backstory: the deceased was the husband of my aunt-by-marriage’s cousin. We saw them every summer at my aunt and uncle’s barbecue, and they were always very friendly and kind to us, so we went to the funeral to pay our respects. The service at the church went completely normal. Everyone then went to the cemetery to attend the final burial rituals at the chapel. When that was done, my parents and I were approached by an unfamiliar woman who very angrily asked us “What do you think YOU’RE doing here?!”. My parent’s and I looked at each other very confused and put off. We told this woman we knew the deceased and his family. She told us that was impossible, and again angrily demanded to know why we were there. My mom told her that the deceased was the husband of her sister-in-law’s cousin, and that we saw them every summer and were at the funeral saying our final goodbyes like everyone else in attendance. This seemed to satisfy her, and she turned her attention to me, looked me up and down and said “I’m Alyssa [Last Name]’s mother”. And everything suddenly made sense. Without any prompting, she continued with “Alyssa currently has this amazing high paying job with an amazing company, and she’s working at their branch in Glasgow, Scotland. What have *YOU* been doing with yourself since granduation?”. I was so stunned, all I could do was point at my mom (who’s in a wheelchair) and say “I’ve been taking care of her full time since her stroke”. This woman just smirked at me and was like “I see. Well, I have to go. It was nice seeing you”, and she walked away. My dad was like “That was weird, right?”. My mom and I agreed. This was several years ago, and. still can’t believe my bully’s mother, on her daugher’s behalf, tried to have a dick measuring contest with her daughter’s victim at a fucking funeral. What kind of person do you have to be to think that’s appropriate?

[@coloraturaElise]

The kind of person who teaches their children to be bullies, too.

[@k.s.k.7721]

Sounds like your family and mine are related. Which is why I moved and didn't tell anyone a year after my parents died. It can be an entire family dynamic.

[@louiseb6111]

Did she know her daughter was the bully? Or did the daughter tell her YOU were the bully? 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@Donna-qt1ot]

@@coloraturaElise , exactly!!!

[@Just1Nora]

Throw the whole person out. What a terrible personality. You my dear, handled it with grace and civility and I'm proud of you for not getting upset and stooping to her level. Hell, you'd have had to jump into the grave to get down near her level. What a twat.

[@lilik7323]

My best revange: I have good live after leaving space where I was bullied. I am autistic and I wasn't diagnosed until my 19's (because diagnose system is made for boy's autism and girls have different symptoms). Those characteristics and fact that I made small circle of friends (which also is connected to my autism) were part of reason why bullies from my primary school chose me as their target. They were insulting me, screaming at me (I have hypersensitivity at sounds), destroying my self-confidence, kinda gaslighting and other classic stuff. I was so traumatized that when government announced canceling middle schools and adding 2 to primary school, I was crying and terrified. Fortunately it was implemented after I went to middle school, so I could escape my primary school. I went to special school for high inteligent kids, made new friends, who are one of my the healthiest relationships. I found passion to writing and even win some competitions. One award ceremony was in my bullies middle school. I was sitting there in my school uniform (in my country very little schools have uniforms and most of them are prestigious) with my mother by my side, while my old "colleagues" was pointing at my, because they recognized me. I was also looking much better, because I learned to care and how to dress up to look nice and puberty. They were watching me getting reward for my short story z proud on my face. Then I went to high school, had good scores on finals, get my hair half blue and now I am at university. In that time my bully was partying, get so drunk that she slept in bowl of dog food and probably failed school. Sometimes I see her on street and feel satisfaction that everything in my life goes well, despite of her efforts to put me down and fact that she traumatized me... (I am under psychologists custody and working on my perfectionist issue and fear of rejection by everyone/being alone and doing mistakes. Everything is better and better.)

[@jkfantasyrecords7377]

Hi I'm austistic as well. I completely understand you as I had to go through bullying like that too. Wasn't diagnosed til adulthood for same reasons. I don't know why people seem to have a radar for neurodivergent people to bully. Live your life good and go on being your fine self. In the end bullies always self destruct because of their horrible personalities and behavior.

[@youniverse6841]

👏👏👏 You made it girl! Good job on handling everything!

[@juliasemenihina3776]

You go girl ❤❤

[@barbmck28]

I am very proud of you and all your hard work and successes! You are such an amazing person and I wish nothing but great things for you 😘

[@Kahnah23]

I was bullied during elementary school by my neighbor. Being in the same class and having to walk the same route he had enough time to shove, pull on my hair and make fun of me. When I told people I just got the "oh, it's because he likes you :)" Well I showed him how much I liked him after 3 years of this. It was pouring when we walked home but that didn't stop him. Unfortunately for him it also meant I had a weapon in the form of an umbrella. That umbrella quickly made acquaintance with his head and he went down. I then proceeded to make him CRAWL through the mud and dirt of the street until my mom saw us and was appalled by what I've done. Well, that guy never said a word to me anymore. Don't mess with a nine year old, holding a kitty umbrella

[@youniverse6841]

👏 Good job!! If I was your mom, I'd come out and cheer for you!

[@carabenfield4240]

I'm proud of you!

[@piiinkDeluxe]

"he likes you" HEELLL TO THE NOOOO! this attitude is so toxic! so that is how I'm supposed to be treated by a man who likes me? wtf. plus, the helplessness. I'm glad you were able to defend yourself!

[@Kahnah23]

@@piiinkDeluxe I completely agree with you! We have to get rid of that toxic mindset!!!

[@FirstnameLastnames]

😂 kitty umbrella beating FTW+

[@speedracer1177]

OMG! I had a workplace bully who made my job a living hell! She started off nice but got a power trip when she took over as acting store manager when the actual manager needed to be off for LOA. If something was wrong she and her "best" work buddy would throw me under the bus. I needed to do projects neither one of them wanted to do, even though my workload was hefty. My anxiety kicked in. I had panic attacks every day before going to work because of them. The final straw came in October and both of them requested Halloween off. The acting store manager literally just set up the manager's off-day calendar, so I knew she gave herself the day off and her friend the early shift. I asked to work in the morning so I could take my children out. I was told they were both attending parties that night, so I would not be able to. Well, a couple of days later I put in my 2 weeks and my last day was 3 days before Halloween. Petty? Yes. I did not care that those two were left scrambling to find a closing manager that holiday.

[@JamieM470]

I was in almost the same situation a few years ago. When the bully is the manager, it turns a decent job into a nightmare. So glad we both got out of that situation. I hate bullies.

[@BakedKoala95]

At my old warehouse job these girls who thought they were better than everyone started bullying this guy I worked with (who was only 20 and had a lot going on but was the sweetest guy.) I had worked there for over 3 years and became good friends with the security we had. I was called "Mama T" to most of the security and once I told them what was happening that day those girls came back from lunch super late and speeding through the parking lot. My boys got them and they were fired the same day. As someone who was bullied as a kid, as an adult I don't put up with that shit. The guy who was being picked on ending up getting me and another girl who stood up for him a necklace for Christmas. I'm not religious by any means but I wear my cross necklace everyday and still think about him. I hope he's doing great.💜

[@asanda.mkhize]

That's so sweet! 🥺😭🤍

[@karenmitchell77]

This happened to my best friend when we were in elementary school. She kept snacks in her backpack that was kept on a hook out in the hallway. Its easy really easy to steal stuff out of different kids backpacks because the halls were unsupervised during school. Anyways, she always had her snacks being stolen. One day her mom decided to mix cat kibble in a sandwich bag with cocoa puffs for the bully to steal. Her bully stole the bag, ate the snack and that was the last time she had her food stolen.

[@kelleywyskiel8513]

I love your mom because that’s such a perfect way to deal with that. Plot twist would have been if you learned it was a teacher who was stealing the snacks… so much funnier

[@sherrineville2475]

One of the guys on my parents' bowling league liked to take chocolate covered graham crackers to work in his lunch. He worked as a lineman and his crew spent all day riding around in a van, usually stopping at the side of the road to relieve themselves. His cookies kept coming up missing. So he melted the chocolate off them and replaced it with a chocolate type of laxative. It didn't take long to find out who the thief was!

[@hebercloward1695]

Sort of had something like that happen at work long ago. Worked at a large hardware store "Eagle Hardware" so about 100+ employees. Someone kept stealing sodas from the break room fridge. Opened or not. Put a note on it, it didnt matter. So I got a bottle of ipecac and poured it into my coke after drinking about 20%. It disappeared later that day. The weird thing is no one went home sick that day. I thought for sure we would hear of someone projectile puking and then we would know who it was. Didnt happen, no barfing anywhere that day. BUT that was the last day sodas were stolen. The only thing I can figure is that they took it home and had it with dinner that night.

[@amandaloel1782]

​@@sherrineville2475 so good 👍😊

[@retrofan42]

All Hail The Potato Queen!! I had a workplace bully when I started with the company I have been with for 23+ years (you may know them Charlotte, depending on your video equipment). Unfortunately, it was a supervisor who basically tried to imply that I was no good and was a waste to the company. I eventually transferred to a different department which handled information for our products. Part of this had to do with selling them, and we relied upon specific information to determine accessories for our products. I noticed some information was incorrect, and submitted a request for correction. This bully happened to have been promoted to the Department that handles these type of things, and while I was on vacation put in his reply that my request was wasting the company's time. When I got back I saw this, and let one of the technicians that I knew what happened. I immediately got apologies from several of the managers and supervisors, and I think the bully was eventually let go within a month or so.

[@ginadeam6813]

I'm sorry you went through that. Sadly, I can relate. Seems nowadays employers expect you to bend over backwards, complain you're not bending enough, and the pay they expect you to accept is insulting in comparison to the work they require of you. "Why hire two people to do a two person job when we can line our pockets instead, hire ONE person, and hound them to maintain the same expectations for a job that is NOT a one person job.

[@biliousbecca]

Didn't run into my biggest bully from middle and high school, but he messaged me on Facebook a few years after graduation. He said he'd been going to therapy and apologized for how he treated me in school. He said that he was jealous of me because my parents clearly let me express myself (based on the way I dressed, dying my hair, etc.), and his dad forced him to be/act a certain way. He also said he knows that's not an excuse and didn't expect me to forgive him, but he really wanted to apologize and hoped I was doing well. Shocked the shit out of me. I told him I did not forgive, but I appreciated the apology and was sorry that his dad was so controlling. Told him I was glad he was getting the help he needed and also wished him well. He said he understood and that he wouldn't forgive him either if he were me.

[@SaidiLouise]

I've forgiven all my bullies...more for me than them (not healthy to keep those feelings). I never got "revenge" but life or karma did that for me. My two main bullies have had a very VERY rough go at life since the get. I knew at a young age that they were picking on me because they were hurting themselves. They've maintained that rough and difficult life. It showed on their faces in our 20s. Now in our 40s, I haven't the slightest idea of how they're doing but I do hope they've healed over the decades. Must be horrific to go through life with so much hurt. I respect your bully for reaching out to those they'd hurt.

[@krystaladair2586]

There was a group of girls that bullied me horribly in highschool. Our 10yr reunion came up and I really didn't want to go because I still, all those years later had this incredible fear of seeing them. So my friends talked me into going, we were sitting at the bar of the event location and up walks two of them. Then one looked me straight in the eye and said they came over to apologize. They said they both had thought about how they treated me for years and regretted their behavior. They both said that they didn't exactly know why they did it but that they wanted to tell me that they were sorry and did not expect forgiveness....little did they know that I had an abusive home. My mother abused me in every way possible and I had no outlet. No safe space to go to, home was a litteral hell and they made school unbearable. I accepted their apology and forgive but understand why you didn't.

[@whome4642]

I probably would have forgiven him. It took a lot of courage for him to apologize and he didn’t have to do it. But you don’t have to forgive. That’s your prerogative.

[@AimeeAimee444]

I’m shocked that you didn’t want to forgive them. Why hold onto ugly hurt? It frees you to be the one who forgives and moves on. I don’t know how deeply it affected you but I wouldn’t want to carry anger in my heart. You do you and I’m glad they did apologize to you. ❤️

[@michellehaws8230]

I had a workplace bully and reported her to the boss who then TOOK HER SIDE and began bullying me. Not only did I leave the medical practice but I left medicine all together. That’s how bad it was.

[@cherylmaclean4349]

Here’s how I dealt with my disabled brother’s bully in high school in 1983. I am 52 and have a brother who 4 1/2 years older than me and is physically disabled with Muscular Dystrophy. When I was in grade 9 my brother had returned to repeat grade 12 because part of his disease made him go legally blind on top of having great difficulties walking. Back then our special education bill was just passed in Ontario, and we certainly didn’t have computers so he couldn’t meet the expectations when he lost his eyesight , yada yada yada. He returned the year I started grade 9. One day, I was at my locker talking with a boy and my brother walked by me (he didn’t see me and people always stare at him). A big grade 9 football player, let’s call him Dirk D., walked behind my brother and started imitating the way he walked. It happened right in front of me! In a split second, I stopped my conversation, walked up to Dirk, punched him as hard as I could (I was good at this having 2 brothers) and told him “That’s my brother you’re imitating, a**hole,” then I broke down crying. And I reminded him for the remaining five years of high school what I thought of him. (We still had grade 13 in Ontario then.) I am pretty sure he was afraid of me, and I also think he understood how his actions impacted others. I didn’t tell my brother or my parents about it until almost 15 -20 later. I am fiercely loyal to my brother as he gets weaker. I’m his big little sister, as he calls me and sometimes he won’t tell me things or tells me ‘not to call the company’ about something they have done that goes against the “People with Disabilities Act” because he knows I will call companies out on things. Instead, I give him the information. I’m a teacher and use an edited version of that story with my grade 6s (when they are mature enough to hear it) to talk about bullying and how to properly deal with it. I explain that I didn’t have the education or resources to know what to do back then but they do. We discuss how I could have properly dealt with it. (But, they ALWAYS clap when I tell them what I did for my brother.) Thanks for reading. ❤

[@juliasemenihina3776]

Bless you ❤ Big D should be very very afraid of his karma. Bullying a disabled person....will hit him hard. Even harder than you did 😉👏👏👏❤

[@heatherzwicker8031]

Gawd, OAC. I never was diagnosed in those 14 years. My autism flew right over so many teachers heads. The arguments! hugs

[@shania991]

Shouts out to the best big little sister ❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@asanda.mkhize]

🤍🤍🤍

[@billyjack8]

Ur a born fighter.

[@Awesomemomy]

There was this short, rich, and admittedly pretty smart guy, who bullied me on and off during 5th and 6th grade. I was in the hospital for quite a long time (fractured femoral neck) and after that, I hardly made friends in class again... being shy and introverted, didn't really help either. Anyway... we parted ways after 6th grade, but the damage was done. My academic performance and self-esteem had suffered quite a bit. About 10 years later, he came to the billiard parlor where I worked. I recognized him immediately. That growth spurt, that a lot of boys get during puberty... he obviously didn't have it (5.4 feet at most)😂On top of that, he was still the same entitled show off. He really wanted to play a game of pool against me... he thought it was a good way to "flirt with me"... he had no idea who I was. The look on his face 😲😵‍💫 when I pulled my que-case out from behind the counter was great, but beating him 4 times in a row😲😵😭 , was priceless.😂😂🤣🤣

[@madduck2323]

And I hope you reintroduced yourself 😆😆😆

[@Awesomemomy]

@@madduck2323 Not really, but he recognized me later. He came in later and wanted to chat about "old times"... which I had no desire or time for (I was working). His friend (one of my regular customers) had apparently told him who I was. He was then very "unpleasantly surprised" when I told him, that there are many people from my school days that I always enjoy seeing and always enjoy reliving old times. But that he is one of those people from my past, that I am happy and grateful not to have to see anymore. I then wished him a nice evening and goodbye... and walked away to serve another customer.

[@unhingedunit562]

I am so glad Jan didn't fall for the bullies suddenly being nice to her. Bless.

[@Danisuzette]

Haha I ran into my highschool bully while visiting my hometown. I was newly 21 , wearing leather pants and a corset. I let him follow me around hitting on me all night before going on stage and re introducing myself then dedicated the song to him... Don't cha 🤣🤣🤣👀

[@LS-um3zq]

I had to look that song up but it's fantastic! Great revenge!

[@markbernier8434]

@@LS-um3zq what song?

[@eljay1980]

@@markbernier8434 "Dontcha wish your girlfriend was hot like me" I'm guessing, released in 2005 by The Pussycat Dolls.

[@kookie_2178]

😂👍🏻💅💅

[@alira9990]

I did get revenge on my childhood bully. It probably went too far but I still have zero regrets. It was at his would be wife's bachelorette party. I was her " one that got away ". At work he was my boss and neither of us realized the other knew her. He was going on at work about getting married bragging about how much he spent on it. It was around $15000 if I remember right? Anyway.... she contacted me out of the blue and wanted me to be her last one before marriage. So she got it planned that it would be her bachelorette party which was around a month before the wedding. I saw the at the food court in the mall one day sitting together when it clicked in my head the reality of what was going on. I walked up from behind my boss and loudly called my ex's name and ran up and hugged her and told her how much it meant to me that she thought of me that way and the party was an awesome time we shared but it won't happen again. That is when he spoke up and when I turned I faked surprise and asked how they knew each other. He got up and said something like, That "was" the woman I was going to marry and left. It didn't hurt me that she got caught in the middle because her cheating on me was the reason I left her. Looks like she was doing the same to him.

[@Michelle-fz4px]

Good one😅🎉🎉🎉

[@edgloss1299]

Bot of them deserve it then.. Hitting 2 birds with 1 stone 👏

[@solitaire10]

Aww, it sounds like they were made for each other. You should have revealed your connection after the wedding which would have led to a compound multiplied protracted revenge yielding possible yearly passive bonus updates 😈😈😈

[@JamieM470]

@@solitaire10 Wow. That's a whole new level of petty. I like it.

[@solitaire10]

@@JamieM470 Thanks 😊

[@marycasanova8905]

I ran into my bully at my 35 year reunion. Our eyes met across the room and he bee lined straight for me. The first words out of his mouth were "I'm so sorry". He said when he saw me all he could see was me crying, and he knew it was because of something he did. He grew up and became a real person over all those years. We're still friends now. There is always hope for people.

[@melaniereese5226]

I'm so sorry for everyone who had to deal with bullies...my heart goes out to you all. I had a different experience with cheating in high school. I was kind of popular and I got straight A's in English. I loved the required reading and no one else did. When it came time to take the quizzes and tests the cheating started. My friend behind me copied my answers, the one behind her copied her and so on...all around the room. The entire class did this for 3 books before the teacher caught on. I was the only one that didn't get in trouble because I sat right in front of the teacher 😄

[@belledonasco7047]

Oohh the pettinesses! Love it ! I was bullied from elementary till university . After 15 years our class had a group chat for a reunion and when they were chatting about the good old days , all I remembered was the constant bullying and name calling . Then I finally had it and sarcastically thanked my bullies . When one of them ask to see how far I got in life . I undoubtedly told him I’m happily laying on a couch in my own house outside of the country having been back from a trip to Galapagos ❤️

[@garnetmooncrow99]

I actually have a bully story (or two) . One of my best moments was a few months after getting my Masters Degree. I was running to Walmart after work. When I walked in the door, I saw one of my jr. high bullies with a name tag that read "Greeter-in-training". That was not the best part. The best part was that she said "Welcome to..." and could not finish the sentence as she read my name badge. She dropped her head and walked off. I felt instantly vindicated. I giggled unapologetically as I told my husband about it. I love Karmic Retribution. #DontBeADick

[@ItsMeTish2.0]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 not Greeter in training 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rayanagi]

I was bullied so badly in Middle School that I actually changed school systems and went to a private high school several towns away. My senior year I was out shopping with my mother buying new clothes to start college and I noticed that the girl working the register was one of my worst bullies from middle school. I broke out into a sweat and felt like I was going to cry but my mother was quick to remind me that I was off to college and this girl was working a register and not looking like she had many prospects. Suddenly I felt much better and we confidently took our purchases up to the register where I said well hi there I haven't seen you in a long time what have you been up to? She looked very uncomfortable and pretended she didn't remember me. I heard later that she had dropped out of high school and that working as a cashier was indeed her only source of income. 😏

[@dianaquick8883]

Oh sweetie, your revenge is that you have over a million people who adore you, had your pilot picked up that you wrote, produced, and (hello) starred in, and you have a wonderful boyfriend who is perfect for you. The best revenge is truly living well and darling, you are KILLING IT!!

[@amenwalton]

I am here for Jan's story! That was wonderful!

[@jodyknight]

I was plagued by bullies quite a lot during my school years. More so when I was younger but I soon learned to be tougher and didn't get picked as much. Still to this day if I see someone bullying someone else I'll step in if it feels appropriate and the victim looks like they could use someone in their corner for a change. However, sometimes you find out that the kid that bullied you the hardest had a horrible home life situation and ended up putting themself in the way of a train to end their struggles and you look at bullies in a whole new light. That's what happened to me. I still remember her name, but won't name her. May she rest in peace.

[@adarkerlink]

Having a bad life is not an excuse for abusive behavior.

[@jodyknight]

@@adarkerlink I completely agree.

[@slinkywhippet]

As someone who had a workplace bully who caused me a nervous breakdown and kickstarted a serious medical condition that I'm still suffering with & unable to work because of 15 years later, I love hearing these kind of revenge stories 😊😊😊

[@evelynneufeld7610]

IKR?

[@lollybirdy]

8:37 I'm living for the mean girl references in this post lmao

[@kimc5814]

To all those who have been bullied, know that the awful times you've been thru have made you stronger, wiser, and more equipped to help others going thru struggles. You make the world a better place. ❤️

[@kutie_koala]

I saw my high school bully years after at my work (retail) after some quick small talk I discovered that she was an unemployed single mum of two (both kids named after alcohol) just to give you the exact impression of the classy lady she was. Yet here I was in a great management position, great friends great boyfriend at the time. I ended our conversation with "its funny how karma always wins right" as I walked away out the back of the store. Best moment ever

[@MichaelDeBusk]

I did something similar with a kid who was sneaking my homework out of my bag, copying it, and putting it back. One day I made up a fake paper with obviously weird answers. Kid came up to me afterward: "How'd you do on the homework?" "Aced it. You?" "Uh, I didn't do so good..."

[@hodso1ra]

My workplace bully was the big boss. Fake af personality, really good at making you feel like the smallest person in the world, all while doing it with a smile on their face. Company made a big deal of me leaving for a better job, got hugs and gifts from a bunch of people. And a half-a$$ smile from the boss. I'm in a similar field still, so we run into each other frequently. Same fake smile, same veiled compliment/insult sandwiches. It's super satisfying knowing that I'm climbing the ladder at my new job, and they are on the way to losing their's because of the way they act.

[@Eshkarose]

I was teaching at a preschool ministry and came upon a precious little 5 year old who loved to jump in my arms when she saw me. Mind you this was almost 10 years ago. She always gave me kisses and her mother was a joy. I was at a benefit & I hear my name being yelled. It's the precious little one running at me, "Miss Angela! I want you to meet my Daddy! He's here!" She took my hand and drug me around the corner and guess who was there? My high school bully. I'll call him Greg. Little one wanted in my arms, so I put her on my hip and said, "Hello Greg" His jaw dropped b/c I look a bit different than high school. His daughter was confused, 'You know Daddy?" I just smiled, "Your daddy and I went to school together way back when. You can ask him about it." I held out my hand to him and introduced myself. When I said my full name, his face went completely pale and jaw dropped. He knew what he did. I just hugged his daughter and gave her a kiss on the cheek. I told him his daughter was lovely and a joy to work with. She jumped down and we danced for a bit while the father took a moment to get himself right. He took his daughter's hand and walked off without a word. :) Precious sweet little girl. Never said anything else to him or saw him again. His wife did laugh when she saw me the next time and gave me a hug.

[@Che-e]

Let's get ready to get petty on some bullies!!

[@emilydutes8272]

I had a coworker like this. I got him fired for "playfully" calling a new coworker a monkey because she is black and he thought because he was Puerto Rican he could because it wasn't racist. U could totally tell he was doing it because he thought he was better than her. That's just one of the things he did

[@ninagi8832]

My former best friend from high school declined the invitation to our class reunion with a well written and detailed report, why she doesn´t want to see any of her bullies. Exposing them to all the members of the garduation year (probably over 100 people) most of them are living in the same Town we graduated. This burned the entire city down from what i heared xD

[@mochi_and_me]

Over 25 years ago I returned to England to visit my family and ran into my elementary school bully. I suggested we get a coffee and catch up. I told her that her bullying was the reason I left our school and went to a boarding school. She said she honestly had no recollection of her bullying me. I brought up memories of how I HAD to invite her and her friends to my birthday parties, then days later hand over all the gifts I got. She was shocked! But I basically left it at that because just a few weeks earlier she had lost her son in a car accident. It did feel good to face my bully though.

[@isabelacampello8696]

Fun story! I was bullied all through elementary school, they were little devils to me, they made my life hell... But I moved out of state during high school. Years later, I returned to my hometown for the Hollidays, saw one of my bullies and heard from him how beautiful and amazing and changed I was. I laughed, said "The world goes round, right? Cause I can't say the same about you!" and left without looking back!

[@charissa7052]

9:54 Good for her!! 😆💖

[@lizetelliott1443]

I had a bully in elementary school. in middle and high school we were civil with each other but clearly ran in different circles. She never apologized for how she treated me, but like 24 years later when my dad had a stroke and eventually passed, she wrote my family and I a really nice letter with all of the things she remembered my dad participating in when we were in school. I'm not saying that made up for the lack of apology from her, but it showed me that people can grow and change from how they were as a kid...even if I still sometimes have this gut reaction to not trust her niceness and it's now been over 30 years.

[@davidguidry657]

The only people more deserving of petty revenge than bullies … cheaters. And Miss Charlotte serves the tea on both!

[@Peachesrgreat]

Cheaters are trash but I feel like bullies are more deserving.

[@keriezy]

Not a bully. But an actor. Lol. We were working together at Hollywood Video and he went on a lunch break and never came back to work. Years later he and a date came to my new job as a waitress. I didn't say anything to him, acknowledging I knew him. Halfway through their meal he asks if he knows me. I asked him "How was you lunch break? And Thomas wants his shirt back." He went silent his date was shocked. It was fun. I think he left a decent tip. I've seen him on national cold remedy commercials since then (18 years!).

[@JohnSmith-md5bf]

I wasn't bullied in school but it all happened at home. My two older brothers were terrible. It lasted until I pick one up by shirt and threatened to body slam him. They are still to this day jealous because I avoided having kids. I have a garage full of toys and a beautiful wife that loves our constant vacations. There are no strings on me! lol

[@erikarussell1142]

I love these revenge stories on bullies. I feel like it's super cathartic for your tatertot community

[@theOGdebb]

Years (like 10 years lol) I saw my ex when I went to go get some good old nuggets at midnight, and saw my ex in a different city and laughed in his face hahahah He told me I would amount to nothing and no one would want to be with me. He also bragged that he was going to be so successful and didn’t want someone like me dragging him down. I’m now married (8 yr to a tattoo artist. Free tattoos babyyyy) with 2 amazing kids and a house

[@morningsun6410]

I was bullied by teachers, and therefore by classmates, who knew no better with such an example from the older, in my first school and was practically forced to change it by them lowering my grades and giving me a choice either stay for second year or find another school. Passed entering exams to another school without any mistakes. And the day, when my old classmate asked me how I dealt with bad semester grades (in our country lowest grade is 2 and you have to re-take exam on holidays), was the day I still giggle about, after over 15 years: "I don't know dude, I never had this problem coz I always passed all tests and exams" 🤷 turns out, without me, many of my classmates became new target of those teachers. It was a terrible school, but I was blessed with amazing teachers in the one I was transferred to.

[@lynnhamps7052]

SCAM SCAM SCAM...DON'T REPLY!!!!!! 😠😠😠😠👿😠😠😠😠

[@raquellofstedt9713]

It´s horrible when teachers set a bad example by bullying. It happened to me too. I think you found the best revenge! Keep living well!

[@morningsun6410]

@@raquellofstedt9713 💕 they broke me in some ways but also made me stronger. Hope you live your best life too. Some people are just miserable, we can't help it but move on

[@youniverse6841]

What sort of adult- nevermind. There are grown adults who bully too. I just don't understand how people let them get away with this sort of stuff. Im sorry you went through that.

[@Booksn0b]

I was bullied from 4-11th grade, I’ve found time, and bad decisions took care of my bullies for me. My encounters with them have actually left me feeling sorry for them. I was with a group of friends during one such happenstance, and they were goading me to get revenge. However, it just felt like picking the low hanging fruit. I said I was cool, and just walked out. Living your best life is the best revenge.

[@kyracroft751]

I ran into my middle school bully at a bar with some friends, she was super drunk and immediately recognized me( we both looked very different, I didn’t recognize her immediately). She drunkenly apologized over and over saying “if someone did that to my kid I’d beat them up,” she asked for forgiveness and I told her I forgot all about you and that a long time ago. She thanked me over and over not realizing I said I forgot about her existing at all. It was really awkward, but I saw her karma was in full swing, she looked miserable and the guy she was with didn’t looked interested in her drunkness slurring and falling around everywhere.

[@ramachandra776]

In another 3 days i will be completing 1 year of watching Charlotte's channel . Thanks for all the laughs potato queen . Some days it was the only bright spot . I do not claim to be wiser but i definitely know how to avoid being a jackass at weddings , restaurants and to photographers . Also try not to make a big fuss if things don't go my way .

[@kaya_nori]

Oooh, I really want to share! It'll be a long post, sorry in advance. In my late teenage years I was a part of a popular hobby club in my area. The club had meetings every Sunday and sometimes during the week, it had several hundred members and everyone knew everyone at least via a mutual friend. There was one guy, a shining example of a neckbeard, who decided to "court" me. Needless to say, it was horrible. It was horrible in every possible way. The most horrible part was that at that moment I'd already realized I was a lesbian and had no interest in any guys, overwhelmed by one-sided affection towards a nice and smart girl and the feeling of existential dread because my life perspectives seemed all ruined by the fact of my orientation (times were different back then, especially in my area). The guy didn't understand any hints and polite declines, so once I had to jump off my seat in the middle of the club meeting, smack his inappropriate hand and yell "Piss off, *Name, I'm a lesbian!". Not the way I was planning to come out, but it worked out well - or so I thought. Later my friends started to bring me some rumors - like "Hey, have you heard what guys at school are saying about you?". Turned out that guy was so shocked and offended, that started telling everyone and their dogs about me being promiscuous, sleeping with literally every guy in the club and beyond. Some people just shrugged and forgot about it, but some believed and passed that forward. In a couple of months the story solidified like that: apparently, I was a h**ker, he proposed to make me an honest woman, I declined and proclaimed I was a lesbian just to nullify the suspicions. Like 20 smth years ago. In a very traditional and homophobic country. Yeah, sure. I got hard time during last year of school, was bullied even by teachers, got kicked from that club (their loss), had to move, but eventually it got better. In my uni no-one cared, I found new friends and met the woman, who's the love of my life. The guy moved too - he entered the same uni, similar specialization, tried to continue his campaign against me, but wasn't successful (thank god, I'd've probably killed him and then myself). Times have changed, but my offended and petty nature hasn't, you can be sure 😊 So until this day whenever I meet that neckbeard guy (more like a sad middle-aged man smelling like old cheese and bear) I wave at him and happily proclaim: "Hey *Name! How are you? Guys, meet *Name, the man WHO MADE ME A LESBIAN!"

[@r.brooks5287]

😂

[@bfkennedy]

This was a fantastic story! ❤

[@giulia6344]

Lmaooooo

[@Starbean89]

Rock on hun and keep being the absolute bad ass you are. Heck with that neck beard looser

[@kikynessanez5060]

@Mara Fiona I loved that end!!!

[@butterflydiva72]

I don't think you're ready for this petty!😂 Now everybody sing !😂😂😂😂❤

[@CaseyAvalon]

Charlotte is just so enjoyable to watch. 🤠

[@charissa7052]

I, too, live vicariously through these petty revenge stories 😂

[@liyahjasmine7422]

So my bully was very brief but I remember her because she always called me scar face. I have a scar above my lip that is now barely noticeable. She used to bully me every day about it. Mind you this is when I was in foster care as well so the added emotional crap she put me through made my life a living hell. I saw her a little over a year ago where I work….. I’m a stripper. Her boyfriend had been coming to see me for a few months now and was giving me hundreds all the time. Mind you he did mention her when we first met but I didn’t think much of it. One night he talked about her wanting to meet me because he said I was his favorite stripper so he showed me a picture. I immediately remembered and without hesitation insisted he bring her next time because “Id love to meet her.” A week later she came in and they came to my stage, she was shocked when she saw it was me. Now dare I mention it’s full n*de and one of my talents is putting both feet behind my head at the same time. Her boyfriend had thrown a wad of cash at me while I was twerking, she was so pissed she got up and left. 😂 He was still at my stage but confused and that’s when I told him she was my highschool bully. Couple months later they broke up and he is still my regular. 😂 Good times

[@kizpaws]

Charlotte, your videos are so darn addicting... But a bonus in this 'addiction' is reading your many, many comments! So many people relate to your videos, and this is just so cool!! ♥

[@jaybird1083]

Best petty revenge I ever got was when running cross country in high school. The team was like family until my senior year when I started having some knee issues. There was a Junior who started beating me and got really cocky behind my back about it. I had no idea she was talking shit until my mom (so supportive btw, went to every single meet to watch me run) told me. Kinda gave me the push I needed to put my big girl pants on and push through pain of bullet-proofing my knees. She never beat me again, whether it was practice or a race. She looked so flabbergasted when I was MVP for the girls’s team again.

[@Ahirth05]

I actually had a post bully encounter. This particular person caused elementary school on until basically high school torture in tournament for me. One day I went to donate plasma to earn a few extra bucks as one does win financially struggling. Later on after my donation I received a message request from my elementary school bully. She wrote saying that she had seen me at the plasma center and she wanted to come up to me but she was hesitant. She goes on to apologize for all the torment she had caused during my school years and said that she has children now and wouldn’t want her children to go through what she put me through

[@rush4962]

I had multiple bullies in a well know hotel franchise. I worked in two different jobs at the same place. First was as a night team member. Started off great, then someone that I thought could trust, who was fairly nice towards me, was going behind my back to management and complaining about all the things I didn't do. After handing in his resignation, just just didn't turn up one night and never returned. He was the team leader too. The next team leader straight up didn't like me and when I asked for help, he turned around and said no, claiming I left the work to everyone else, which wasn't true. I was just a little slower. The other two team members, as well as the TL went out of their way to isolate me, because I was different. During this time I didn't know/wasn't diagnosed as veins autistic. My mental health got so bad, that I began to SH and ended up going to the crisis team in A&E. Took a month out of work on sick leave and got some help. When I returned to speak with management, that's when they told me that they saw CCTV of me running around reception, working my backside off and saw the other three sitting around for two+ hours. I transfered to housekeeping, nothing much had changed in terms of treatment, it just wasn't as obvious. There was this Karen of a co-worker, who everyone basically didn't like. She would constantly complain to my face about me and even shouted at me over a piece if cake that the manager of HK let me have as no-one else was going to eat it. Two guests came out if their room while this happened and Karen calmed her tone and left. I can only guess that the guests reported it as she barely interacted with me afterwards. I was so happy to leave that place and I'm now working towards a nursing degree. If I ever saw any of them again, I would go up to them with confidence and tell them how much better I am in myself, my autism diagnosis and in front of guests about their discrimination and bullying behaviour. I can imagine their faces if I ever did anything like that.

[@andel9302]

I had two pretty much daily bullies in grade school and one absolutely daily bully in 7th grade through my senior year. I’ve outlived all of them. The best revenge.

[@dainastone7021]

I had 2, from 2 different cliques. One was from the popular group & the other moved to the area in jr high. The first one started in 4th grade, we had just moved to the area over the summer, & I was blissfully unaware until someone literally pointed out that “THAT girl whispering over there is saying things about you to everyone.” & this was within the first few weeks of school. I had never noticed her before then. Turns out her grandparents were my neighbors, very kind people. They made sure to greet us if they were outside & were always polite. After I became aware of the bully, the next day she was standing in the yard at her grandparents house, staring at me going in our house. Watching like some creepy b!$h. By end of 4th grade, I was wearing a training bra & nobody else was- yay for early development, it’s always so fun! So from then until 9th grade- I was a bra stuffer. Doesn’t matter that by end of 5th most girls were in trainers too- that’s just how long it took for her to finally need an A cup. She made a lot of bad choices & was going to be held back for missing too much school in 8th, she mostly ditched & was doing some wild stuff, but then found out she had leukemia. She was the reason our school started allowing, in certain situations, homeschool through them. Anyway, she came back around 11th & was an aide in the library for the same period I was. The librarian tried hard to get us to be besties & I had to beg the office to be an aide for our English teacher for that period. She disappeared again, graduated with the class below us, went back to the wild life, lost her kids because she can’t stay sober, & has a Facebook profile she rarely says anything on. The 2nd bully joins us around 7th grade & is mostly just settling into the stoner/party group. I think it started right after she saw me talking with one of the cute guys in the group- it was about babysitting his little sister & brother, of all things. She comes to “rescue him” from me & I just walked away. She gets privy to bully #1’s claims that I stuff my bras & runs with it. Never mind that we have PE together & everyone can clearly see what we have going on in the locker room. Anyway, she makes it a point to “rescue” any guy from having conversation with me & starts blatantly telling him right in front of me, “You don’t want to talk to someone who stuffs her bras. You want real titties for your hands!” Doesn’t matter if we’re discussing homework, notes, babysitting their young siblings, projects…. That was always her go-to. I’ve always had a crush on boys older than me, but still in school. She found out about the one I crushed on the longest, & it turned out they’re related… but she was nasty flirty towards him so much that he’d leave the lunch line because he was so uncomfortable with it. And she’d yell after him “At least you never have to guess what I’m wanting from you!” & it was embarrassing. One of my friends said “You know she does this to bother you.” & I’d ask- what am I supposed to do about it? It’s gross & it brings attention to her making a fool of herself. Someday she’ll get bored with it. So it was probably sophomore year that it finally came to a head. We’re all leaving PE, my crush is heading to the locker rooms with his friends & she gets in my face & says loudly “I’m tired of you getting away with stuffing your bra for attention!” I legit freed the twins right there while yelling back in her face “Do these look like Kleenex to you?!?!” My lovely, perky, C cup twins in full view of anyone that bothered to see what the commotion was. My friend grabbed my tshirt down & pulled me away. That one disappeared not long after that, reappeared the next year in the class below us, & kept to herself. Eventually I met my now exhusb, who’s related to bully #2…. She had apparently made some bad choices after she graduated high school, was caught cheating on her husband, & lived out of state with no intentions of returning to our little town. Then she catches wind of who married me about 3yrs into it. I’m pregnant with our 2nd at a family reunion & she surprisingly shows up- nobody knew she was coming, not even her mom. She’s all smiles & booming with happy sounds, looking in my direction the whole time she’s hugging people she hasn’t seen in 8yrs. Makes her way to where I’m sitting with my husband & mil. Greets them, & moves on. Thank gods she didn’t say anything to me. She leaves about an hour later. Otw home, my husband tells me she was sexually aggressive with him when they were 14-15 & she essentially raped him for a few years before she was sent away by her mom to stay with family elsewhere. She was allegedly pregnant with who knows who was the father, since she had claimed her mom’s husb raped her several times… I felt bad for her if she had been violated & I rationalized that her behavior back then could’ve been from what was happening to her at home… Anyway. She moved back the next year & spearheaded a local family get together instead of the mega reunion like the year before…. She was super friendly to everyone & tried to introduce herself to me, insisting we went o school together & had some friends in common…. & I kept saying “I’m sorry but I don’t remember you. It’s nice to meet you. Thank you for organizing this family get together.” She stuck around another 4yrs & bailed. Whenever she would be around, I’d acknowledge her by saying “Yes, we met at the get together after the first big reunion… She seems really nice & outgoing.” She’s mumbled “we went to school together… you don’t remember me?” “I’m sorry no, I don’t.”

[@taylorjorgenson7230]

I was bullied a lot to in highschool. I graduated in 1995. I would do nothing when it happened. I then joined the Marine Corps 7 months later. I was the first person in my class(170) to join the military. Got out the day after Y2K. 28 months later I join the Navy(April 2002). I get out. I go to Bible college and meet my future wife. I get married in 2012. 8 years later I go to my first high school reunion.(my wife couldn't come do to work place restrictions for COVID) People were swarming me, apologizing, thanking me for serving in the military, giving me hugs and sorry for how they were treated me. People say it so much. The best revenge is a life well lived. I'm looking so forward to spending the day with my wife this Friday and getting my free meals and deals on Veterans day. I love this country so much.

[@Mystearicia]

Applause to everyone who had their petty revenge on their bullies 😂😂😂

[@Millicemt23]

I left a toxic work environment as my workplace bully was my supervisor. He had a habit of throwing me under the bus for things that I didn't do. I heard from a former work friend that he had lost his job a week later. I was the only one on one of his teams that did all of the work. I love Karma.

[@davidguidry657]

It always makes me a little 🥺 when Miss Charlotte talks about being bullied. Even tho she is getting the absolutely best revenge by being gorgeous, talented, funny, driven, successful, happy, and in a wonderful relationship it makes me think of her sweet spirit being hurt as a little cutie and it just makes me sad and mad all at once. I really do wish she name drop so we (her loyal Tater Tots) can get the revenge she is too busy crushing it to get herself.

[@Birdbike719]

That's not the kind of rep she wants.

[@LazyIRanch]

She's too classy to do that, her petty skills are more covert and clever. Like when she mentions former buddies who tried to use her, copied her, and felt entitled to take from her... you know those beeyotches are watching her channel and they have to know that THEY are the trash she kicked to the curb! MWUAHAHAAA!

[@davidguidry657]

@@Birdbike719 oh, I know. I saw what happened with the jumper for her million subscriber party. She is above that and is all about her living well. But I can dream too damnit! I mean darn it. 😉

[@davidguidry657]

@@LazyIRanch yet another reason why I’m a subscriber/fan AKA Tater Tot.

[@sharisemartinem]

I was bullied at work before. Ended up crying in the bathroom. Was super sensitive as is because of my home life at the time. Just glad I got away from them. Quit and never showed up again. I don’t regret it.

[@jacklow9611]

I was bullied throughout school, mostly because of my weight, and while there was no physical bullying (no hitting or something like that) there was a lot of verbal attacks. At the time, many of my bullies were not heavy-set, although there were a few. After my sophomore year of High school, my family moved out of state to a town where I was an "unknown quantity" and wasn't bullied as much (Let's face it, they're everywhere) and while not part of the "popular crowd", I was accepted by the ones who were less popular (and, I found, more fun to be around). I did gain some popularity being in the Drama club because there I could shine because that was my passion at the time and for many years afterward. After graduation, I moved back to where we'd moved from two years before. Even though I hadn't graduated at the local school, because I had attended there for the first ten years, I was invited to the class reunions, but didn't go because I hadn't graduated WITH them, and also because I didn't want to run into any of my old bullies. I did eventually go to one, and found that all those who dad bullied me because of my weight had gained bodies that were more corpulent (and were raging drunks much of the time), and that much of the bullying was because they thought I was some kind of Brainiac (which I wasn't, as some of them generally had better grades than I did). In a way, the bullying helped me to be a better person, and toughened me up so I could handle some things that I went through in later years.

[@AnnaKath3]

I used to be bullied on and off by a girl early in middle school. But at some point I was able to differentiate myself from her, even though she was in the same class with me. One day towards the end of middle school i was sitting infront of her and I saw her totally screwing up another girl. The girl was always very nice and was just very shy. That's when i blew up and I turned to the bully and asked her if she didn't have anything better to do in her miserable life than bully other people and so on. She became very quiet and my shy classmate later thanked me for it. To this day I'm glad I reacted that way.

[@Duck-hm1gm]

hi charlotte - so proud of you and TheSwipeLife and its so nice to see how happy you are to have your boyfriend. You guys go so well together and he gets you so well. Were so proud and forever here for you - you may not know us all or at all but we have your back

[@CaseyAvalon]

I have ducks. Nice comment btw 🤠

[@emmaearthling444]

A standing ovation for Jan 👏👏👏👏

[@vikimseruh4500]

I ran into my bully about 30 years after the fact. She bullied me so much in first grade and wanted me to have no friends but her. I recovered from it years later but when she saw me she was so nice and so glad to see me. I didn't let it bother me, I figured she knows now and it eats at her. I was polite and said it was great to see her and hoped she had been doing well. Bullies have to come to terms sometime in their life with the awful things they have done and I didn't see the need to be mean in return for something that happed so long ago. I grew up and didn't let petty things like that ruin my good hearted self. You can either let what people do to you ruin your life or you can learn and grow from their stupidity.

[@torisisk5252]

My favorite thing about these videos, is the hope that the people who bullied or just overall horrible human being in the stories , see these videos and feel ashamed, extra brownie points if they are subscriber!

[@danikeebler1662]

I had a high school bf that turned into a bullying situation. He was also my neighbor. We graduated and didn't have to see each other any more. I drove past him all grown up and looking fine as h*ll. I thought he was going to trip over his tongue staring at me. Couldda, shouldda buddy.

[@Jasminepetit]

The work bully sounds like my old high school bully Chris like spot on for his character.

[@AHVENAN]

Most of my old bullies that I have met later in life have sincerely apologized for what they did, and I have forgiven them, there is one exception though, this one guy who I kept running in to at the local night club when I was at the "going-clubbing-every-weekend" stage of my life, I would often hear him make dumb remarks or call me "big head" which was one of the names my bullies used to call me, of course, at this point I had learned to just ignore it so it didnt really affect me. But one time when I was at the club, I walked past him and as I passed him i heard him say some dumb shit about big head, so I stopped, backed up, went face to face within, literally no more than a couple of inches between us, looked him straight in the eye and said "I can't help that my brain is bigger than yours", turned around and walked away, the entire time expecting to get punched in the back of my head but nothing ever happened, since that day I havent heard a peep out of him ever again....

[@samanthafairweather9186]

My school bully is now a homeless drug addict and alcoholic. He tries to tell people that he's had such a hard life growing up, but didn't realize that half the people he spoke to either knew the truth about him, or were his former victims! He made the mistake of trying to tell me and one of our former classmates about how bad he'd had it when he was younger. We started laughing, and asked him, "What, you don't recognize us? We were the biggest victims of your bullying at school! We know your family, you grew up with everything you asked for, and your parents never let you take responsibility for ANYTHING!" This guy broke 2 of my ribs, and put my other friend through so much hell, she went through YEARS of therapy. After being homeless myself in the past, I wouldn't wish it on anyone else - well, except for him. He's finally getting what he deserves

[@LanHua711]

I did something like Jan in high school. I’ve always been great at history and when it came time for that class it went from open season on Ashley to everyone being my best friend. One girl, who in the past had threatened me, stole my test off my desk after I finished and filled in hers, then gave me a thumbs up when she was done as if I was in on it. So I left a note on my test telling the teacher what happened. My bully failed but the best part was she came to me saying she got a 0, all laughs because she thought she got me in trouble. I smiled and told her I got a 98%. She never asked for my help or tried to cheat again.

[@TinaKimAliseLLC]

Hey lovely! I love your new channel and how your vibrancy shines through. I recently came across an old video of you at your old company and I can see that you just weren't happy. I love this for you! Keep up the good work!

[@jacintadonadio1208]

Loved the petty revenge on the bullies we need more of these Charlotte 🇦🇺💜🇮🇹

[@lobeliacross431]

yeah i run into my former bully just 2 months ago. I was all smiley and she fall for it and she asked me'' what are you doing?'' I smiled brightly and list all the achievements after highschool till now. Love love the fact that her smile slowly dim into jealousy. Revenge is tasty.

[@cariadalexandrite]

A few years ago, I was love bombed and really messed up by a guy called Sean. I saw him out a couple of weeks ago and he sauntered over, thinking he still had some sort of effect on me. I smiled brightly, said hello and introduced him to my friends. As Shane.

[@goddessfourwinds5174]

What? A guy love bombs you and then really messes you up? Are you using "love bombs" the right way? A love bomb is a "bomb of love." I've seen it used when a lot of friends will "bomb" a friend of theirs with "love" if that person has been feeling down or whatever... Are you using in some kind of way I've never heard it?

[@juliasemenihina3776]

@@goddessfourwinds5174 maybe she rejected him, and then he messed her up? Like a revenge?

[@goddessfourwinds5174]

@@juliasemenihina3776 I don't know.. I was hoping to get some clarity. /smh

[@ryanzell480]

I was a bully in H.S. popular athlete that peaked his sophomore year...I was down right horrible to people who i thought i was better than, a kid in my class took his own life a few years after high school and despite not knowing the reasons or anything behind it, i blame myself everyday. Ive been confronted by many people from my small town about how i treated them, or in turn have been treated badly as adults because of my old actions. I will always remember everything i did to anyone back then because it haunts me in my sleep every night. I fight severe depression ptsd and anxiety attacks (even when just approaching to talk to the checkout person at Walmart....) I started using light drugs and partying to compensate for the guilt but it never filled that hole...I sometimes wonder if this life is worth it anymore now that i have made a complete mess about it. It took me some time to get to this point but I have been going out of my way to apologize to people whom i hurt. Or if approached, i own my actions and humility and apologize to them for my actions back then. Its never easy and not always accepted but i like to think its the thought that counts. Yall might say i deserve what i am getting and i agree. Despite the fact that 20 years later i still get treated differently, i remind myself that i made my own bed and now i have to sleep in it.

[@JM-ic6ie]

I see my high school bully almost every time I take my kids to their pediatrician. She's one of the MAs so she takes the patients back to the office and does vitals. When she first noticed me, she intentionally ignored me. Like wouldn't even look at me when I walked by her. I just try to be kind and joke around. She enjoyed making me feel like crap and bullying me, so did her brothers. I could never figure out what I did to invite that behavior, but I don't let her get to me now. I guess some people are just mean hearted.

[@Nem01]

'You add this salt, baby!' Hell yes!

[@rebeccaerazo825]

Happy birthday Mike! Thanks for loving our Charlotte…She’s a gem (I’m sure you know).

[@absolutelytiffany]

If I saw my bully (I’ve had several) out living their lives I would live mine. The best response to a past bully is them seeing they are your past and not your present.

[@raquellofstedt9713]

I spent most of my school years being bullied. I was an agressive, smart girl who was a bit socially awkward and while there were some teachers and kids who did appreciate me for my strengths, a fair number did not. I caught a fair amount of beatdowns and verbal/psychological abuse, the latter from some teachers who had trouble understanding what made me tick. School was HELL, and I couldn´t get out fast enough. Looking back,I can see that a number of the worst bullies thought I had anything I could wish for; my parents were stillmarried, my father was a doctor, my siblings were the type of smart that teachers in highschool still talked about years after, we lived in a nice part of town. they had no idea that things at home did not live up to what they assumed. My parents had problems. Big ones. My bullies probably thought they were evening up life´s unfairness. They were simply turning up the heat on the frying pan. To end a long post, I don´t think, now at 55, I would chose to continue a feud with the epople who bullied me. I have gone on, married an academician, have worked as a school psychologist for ten years, and have two kids who each, in their own way, are doing well. That´s my revenge. Such people tend to make their own beds of pain, and if they chose to lie in it out of ignorance, I won´t stop them, but I won´t push them.

[@animefreak2709]

My elementary bully and middle school bully actually went to high school with me. We all ended in the same science academy and somehow sitting near each other in all of our classes. Fast forward, their friends became friends with my friends and we all merged into a giant group. We hung out everyday and I didn’t know how to tell my friends our history. One evening when we were doing one of our sharing circles, we had a tub of ice cream with one spoon passed around and whoever got the ice cream would have a moment to be vulnerable, my elementary bully had the floor. He began to open up about how he used to bully me in elementary school and teared up and started apologizing. Turns out that ever since our friend group merged he was thinking of how to apologize to me as he had felt guilty all these years. My middle school bully did the same right after him. All three of us began crying and sharing our feelings. It’s been 12 years since that night and we’re all still friends ❤😊

[@aimeefawn765]

"You add that salt, baby" 😂🥔👑

[@TheMoniMonster]

I wish I had the guts to do anything back when I did bump into my bully on the bus. This girl was my best friend of 7 years in elementary and middle school, cut contact with her once we went to high school. 2 years later during one calm school morning I got on the bus to go to school and low and behold she was there. How and why, no clue, as this was the first time I saw her since grade 9. What did I do? Nothing except struggle to breathe for the rest of the 30min bus ride and prayed to anyone and anything that she would NOT talk to me. She didn't, thank gods.

[@hiroshi2020]

My childhood bully had a hard life. I didn't realise he was so cruel to everyone because he simply never encountered kindness at home - his whole family were sh*threads. Well, after I went to university, we started working together at my part time job. I'll never forget, one day, he came to work and I could tell he was after crying. Ironically, he looked at me and said "you alright?" I guess I was shocked because I'd never seen this hard man, who showed nothing other than (what I thought was) hatred. Well, it came to be that we took lunch together. Our breaks were the same time. I don't know if it was divine providence? His father and mother hated him, so it seemed. He was only cruel to others because every day his parents told him he was worthless and he was jealous of our parents. So he cried again, apologised, and I could clearly see through those tears that he was actually a very beautiful person and just never had a break in life. I know this is long but there's my bully story. Sometimes people just can't catch the break they need, but so severely deserve it. We are good friends now, and it taught me the lesson of forgiveness.

[@AnnaBelll.e]

Brilliant! My bullies got exactly what they deserved. They never win.

[@showpro1178]

Best wishes to Jan and her partner!!! Much love, health, and happiness!

[@sngray11]

Stories like these make me so happy. I love it when karma catches up to a-holes. 💗

[@janepearce8103]

I was a chubby redheaded kid with freckles, all I knew was being bullied. It changed a little when I got a decent rack but to this day I think it's a trick when someone's nice to me.

[@bulkvanderhuge9006]

"Jock-Like Mentality" and "Childish" are like peanut butter and jelly, they ALWAYS go together.

[@annetteniemann9718]

My high school bully asked me out. I told her to order me the most expensive thing on the menu as I'm running late. I was in my pajamas watch The Office and never arrived. I blocked her so I'll never how long she sat there..but it was very sweet

[@kristina3threat]

I am SO FOR these recent petty bully revenge vids of yours, Charlotte! Totally living vicariously through these!