I See My Future in You | {THE AND} Lande & Xavier

[@keilah4039]

I appreciate how Xavier explained his perception of Lande's beauty as a constant of reality, "a fact that we all know" and acknowledge like the sky is blue. It's a poignant reminder that because someone doesn't, perhaps, acknowledge our beauty as much as we'd like, it doesn't mean that they don't see us. Then again, it's also good that he's self-aware, realizing that he could make a practice of affirming her beauty with his words because that could be a desire of hers not just to be seen, but noticed.

[@JEtienneMusic]

Facts, I connected with him on a spiritual level on that but try to practice it often with my wife as words of affirmation is a love language of hers.

[@jonathancineus6424]

Keilah I’m only 30 seconds into this video, reading your comments.. and I already agree with you just because you expressed yourself so beautifully. Now I actually want to watch the whole thing to know what you were talking about.

[@boomboom6577]

That was poetic what you said

[@keilah4039]

@@jonathancineus6424 Thank you, Jonathan.

[@keilah4039]

@@boomboom6577 Thank you, LC.

[@sonjaortiz6857]

"I think you're pretty like I know the sky is blue.... it is just a constant fact that people should know" My heart just melted!

[@chrismigermainregis241]

@sonja Ortiz he's smooth but real tho so i see why you've melted :)

[@venyl8204]

Im gonna steal that

[@tiffanysmith8343]

"When I look at you, I can see more." So profound.

[@tk4609]

That's means he sees a future with her, she's the one

[@ernestcooper6523]

lol He needs some help

[@abdullahal-saloli3432]

@@ernestcooper6523 I hate to be the bearer of bad news he doesn't need any help at all he has a pure soul People think black people are aggressive but in real they're so sensitive inside , Xavier proudly represents me

[@abdullahal-saloli3432]

Indeed , and so touchy

[@ramondtango6117]

@@ernestcooper6523 why do you think he needs some help? Any specific reason?

[@123benny4]

Felt some of the emotion there during some questions. Great to take time and to communicate like this. He's cute. She's pretty. I'm lonely.

[@joyh4]

Nigggas are taking your women lol 🤣

[@ebbek6065]

Joy Hasan : you’re immature, grow up 😏

[@omyhaby1912]

@@joyh4 Your woman? Do woman woman to someone!

[@joyh4]

@@omyhaby1912 They are white

[@naturindabrenda1692]

Benny4😂😂

[@TheRootedBlueprint]

She is so stunningly beautiful

[@sandyg.8318]

Acina Matata is she?

[@TammyMacMac]

I thought the same. She's beautiful

[@yayayaya7708]

@@sandyg.8318 Without a doubt

[@rainbowsonmyeyeballs8771]

She really is

[@ppetrosofficial]

And so are you

[@Ren1976up]

I couldn’t decide on who to look at - they’re both so stunning!

[@lisaellis2593]

True.

[@LillePotter]

the way you can tell he is listening more intently and slows down for her when she discusses her emotions - gorgeous

[@thatotau7478]

Ever seen a girl so beautiful that when she smiles, she absorbs even more of your attention completely, when you already thought youre paying attention... and has you giggling just watching her smile. Her smile is intensely gorgeous. This guy is so lucky.

[@rbaraka1]

Rare to see a couple that is both so cerebral and emotional. Strong spirit connection between them.

[@BreezeeGreenz]

Agreed.

[@AsandaMbali]

Lande is cute? What are you talking about? She’s legit one of the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen, she’s effortlessly beautiful.

[@AsandaMbali]

Dave Chapelle Mr Chapelle you need to chill, and read my comment again, this time pay close attention.

[@dral22]

@Dave Chapelle Relax... He said "One of the most beautiful woman". Make-up or not, her facial features alone... is beyond stunning.

[@tstarajayi]

Asanda Mbali Dave is right she’s beautiful looking but you need to relax & get out more

[@AsandaMbali]

tobi ajayi Dude I said “One of the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen” I’m not sure what’s confusing about this comment, I didn’t say she the most beautiful woman. Also this is a personal opinion and if yours differs from mine that’s cool too, furthermore beauty is a very subjective matter.

[@DanielBoonelight]

WHY can't people get the basic difference between "breath" and "breathe"..? breath is a thing you have and contain, and breathe is something you do. such basic words.

[@ginagrey5287]

Just the way that look at each other pierces my soul! Brought me to tears! Perfect connection!

[@CC-dc6hv]

Exactly! I noticed how they would have these long “looks” (but they were more than that they were SEEING-experiencing each other) and she wouldn’t break the contact until he did.

[@octopuskittn]

As soon as he said “when I look at you I just see More”, I smiled. He had previously talked about not feeling like everything in his life was enough, and yet here she is being exactly more than that

[@javaristurner6146]

Very astute observation

[@jeremysmith9694]

I'm always confused why they show a couple at the beginning and then the rest of the episode is a different couple.

[@thenjiwemeyiwa167]

It's called marketing Jeremy

[@jeremysmith9694]

@@thenjiwemeyiwa167 it's so confusing. Normally it would show a clip of what's coming up in the episode. Not some random couple. I don't think it's a good idea.

[@thenjiwemeyiwa167]

@@jeremysmith9694 that's the same ploy used by movie theatres

[@jeremysmith9694]

@SuperPunch76 ok but a trailer makes sense. It's clear it's a different movie. It shows the title, the date. This is just one clip and no links. Nothing about it. It seems out of place. Confusing.

[@thenjiwemeyiwa167]

@@jeremysmith9694 oops I respectfully disagree. It demands high level analysis and creating connections. I'm glad they do it, thus calling for beyond-the-mundane interaction. I appreciate challenging presentations because they make us think, debate and in turn raise our cognitive capacities. Kudo to the team for not subscribing to mediocrity and spoon feeding viewers. Personally, anything that doesn't call for my critique and deeper analysis, I regard it as an insult.

[@JuliaPedro]

This man's smile is heartwarming and can melt the hardest of hearts.

[@E.Allen1]

Awww she made him blush 🤗. They're so cute!

[@dmsknb1541]

Their kids are going to be so freaking beautiful

[@blackngold007]

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[@twongirwecharity6305]

That's what i was literally thinking

[@dmcarden]

I agree Bro.. gonna be gorgeous!!

[@viviauliadiannova7762]

That's exactly what i was thinking

[@akanni2889]

@@dmcarden what if they look like Blake Griffin?

[@tortuga7044]

He is a beautiful man. So pretty eyes. She is gorgeous as well, gives me 70's vibes.

[@BreezeeGreenz]

That 70s Show.

[@corientewilliams]

That rhymed

[@ephascus8974]

I’m actually so lonely

[@dewilew2137]

Dr. Smiley Face 🤗

[@amusiclover7340]

Bro same

[@neveenebrahim2857]

Am here 4 u if you wanna talk ❤️

[@ephascus8974]

Dewi Lew 🙈

[@ephascus8974]

Neveen Ebrahim thank you!🙏🏾

[@perfectlyimperfect6781]

"What I am is enough .. who I am around is enough" .. this is an amazing feeling

[@Vyrkgrl]

I love their measured pace with answering the questions, they allow so much room for each other and answer as consciously as they can. That they give each other room for authenticity, even as they may hold different perspectives, that right there is so beautiful.

[@Tredale850]

First off can we acknowledge how STUNNING SHE IS ! This ‘skin deep’ moment for their relationship is groundbreaking because for the first time they’re acknowledging the deep feelings they have for one another which is also important. It’s what going to take them to the next level, very mature. They’re gonna do great 👍🏽

[@enthuzworld1784]

There needs to be an update video on this couple in a year or two. They are inspirational.

[@Hassonn88]

Why do these types of videos not have like 10 million views? Like they are TOO wholesome. No background music or noise, honest beautiful people, deep questions that gets the individuals to think critically and wholeheartedly like FUKKK these are wholesome 😭😭

[@niikobby4853]

They're so soft speaking. I love that

[@madikiestherkhiangte9884]

She's beautiful and her boyfriend is so.. soft and wonderful..

[@tk4609]

He is sensitive, she's emotional, both knows and understands that about themselves

[@MJ-gs6zt]

Hi Madiki how are you? Your very beautiful too

[@anthonyt425]

I love the vulnerability of this conversation. Nicely done!

[@dumisalengwati3068]

Usually, watching episodes that feature new(ish) couples fills me with anxiety because there is still an earnest and heightened awkwardness around getting to know each other and building a love map... But these two seem really invested and open despite their vulnerability, which is what taking a true chance at love needs!

[@alwayzhappysneha]

I hope my future boyfriend sees such videos. I love them and I wish to have such nice conversations. Good for the soul 💫

[@RobertHelder777]

sasha 94 I’m seeing it and I’m from 94 too

[@sidthebiscuit]

Then initiate these conversations, why you waiting?

[@bev_ovchic76]

I’m 44, twice divorced and survivor of an abusive relationship with my sons father, I refuse to be with someone I cannot have these conversations with. In my mind, this is the only level I can be on with a partner.

[@alwayzhappysneha]

@Beverly All the best to you, May you find someone who treats you the way you deserve 💕

[@mr.o2291]

@@bev_ovchic76 twice divorce? maybe you should look in the mirror

[@Noname-tg2mo]

The moment where u know that u putted the video on a full screen to just only focus on that and not reading some comments at the same time = the content is fire 🔥

[@miksrepublic7385]

Xavier looks like a Lion, man i love your dreads 💪

[@tylerthecreatorasscheckski7516]

reve lion lion LION LION

[@ozymandius8804]

More like a mop

[@ibrahimkhalid4298]

@@ozymandius8804 🤣🤣😂😂 that’s more accurate

[@Truechildofgod]

incase anyones wondering its 5 years later and they just got married

[@Bro-tl1ev]

Lande is so beautiful she really protrudes an angelic energy

[@thenjiwemeyiwa167]

True. And so is Xavier, he's more beautiful than handsome. They're both GORGEOUSLY BEAUTIFUL

[@RS-jp3fi]

I swear!

[@theladyofsorrowss]

Max and Lucas from stranger Things have really grown up :o Edit: this is really unrelated but if you happen to come by this comment, I would be so honored if u checked out my channel- I make music and original songs. Have a lovely day💕💕💕

[@ThePurpleCosmos]

This comment wins this comment section in my opinion!

[@MakeedaRoberts]

Omg yes 😭

[@bergelinjean4089]

Lmaooo

[@calvinthomasmuzik]

Definitely top comment

[@fatherfather2357]

Lol

[@abigaildarko2352]

Can we just appreciate her complextion for a minute..i mean WOW...flawless and glowing

[@Jessica-lp5cl]

Bro, his discription of feeling 'not enough' and 'not having enough' and being bad with money because of that deep seeded emotion, ALL THAT. My head literally exploded. Samesies, man, samesies.

[@rolandchisom1684]

These two should start a youtube channel. They are so adorable together and honest 🤩

[@seleneselene6151]

She reminds me of Botticelli's Venus.

[@Mcelle100]

Omg now i just see that

[@daniyaagha2462]

OMG YESSSS!

[@Lollita23]

Totally

[@ProdavackaDivu]

Wooow yes I see that

[@jimmyolum4344]

Thank you too @The Skin Deep for Creating this amazing content!

[@TheSkinDeep]

thank you for following us!!

[@Siyar612]

@@TheSkinDeep What is their instagram?

[@BreezeeGreenz]

"When I look at you, I can see you holding a kid." That was direct.

[@hiiipoweralumni6425]

that shit was weird😭😭😭im sorry

[@BreezeeGreenz]

@@hiiipoweralumni6425 we're saying the same thing, but you're being more direct.🙄

[@ingodwetrust7648]

I think he meant her having their child

[@rowanlafontaine675]

She’s so beautiful I’d be so uncomfortable talking to her in person hahah

[@thenjiwemeyiwa167]

TRUE. And so is Xavier, he's more beautiful than handsome. BOTH are gorgeous

[@lunsiondaddyhomeboy570]

I want to no you @Rowan lafontaine are u on facebook?

[@MJ-gs6zt]

Hi Rowan your beautiful. How are you?

[@HeavenlyJLove]

Y’all are literally so annoying with this I don’t see their chemistry nonsense. They chose to be together for a reason, leave these beautiful people be and worry about your own chemistry/connections, gee golly

[@100uand100me]

Evalay J-L preach.

[@ebcutiepie]

Oh so I wasn't the only one that feels he doesn't fit her?! 😝

[@maschatatjanaofficial-miss4156]

yes and they are both beautiful she is so raw and beautiful she truly loves him

[@mistanomercy5245]

@Evalay J-L U had me at gee golly

[@Hannahdealer8180]

@@ebcutiepie I didn't at first, but from seeing them interact, I changed my mind, but who knows?

[@tinychamberz]

shes so pretty :) they fit well together!

[@julie3722]

Wow, they are really connected and cherish one another how they are within. That's love.

[@siba_ponono]

"When I look at you I actually see more" I love them.

[@JadeciShryock]

They are so beautifully honest with one another

[@keroe973]

Beautiful couple. I hope they stayed together and are making a wonderful life together

[@angelu.7226]

Woah, I knew this guy in high school! He's changed so much!

[@crazyboy585]

Take notes people, this is a prime example of love has no color. These two have bonafide love for each other and its dope as hell. 💯👌👌

[@manuelfigueiredo7695]

Do you know them? They are 2gether for only 5 months. You guys are too emotional...

[@crazyboy585]

@@manuelfigueiredo7695 I don't have to know them it wouldn't matter if they talked for 2 weeks just be happy for them. You clearly are lonely & have nothing better to do dog.

[@manuelfigueiredo7695]

@@crazyboy585 happy for them... This a show, man. Dont you know this isnt a "natural" conversation? Leave the bubble.

[@crazyboy585]

@@manuelfigueiredo7695 I know a guy from my hometown who did this show with his woman dude. All they did was answer some questions, why is that such an issue for you sir? Why did you feel obligated to let the world know that you don't care about this show? Just let them have a moment lol

[@manuelfigueiredo7695]

@@crazyboy585 "bonafide love" says a boy who has no clue about these guys... Ok, believe in fairy tales...

[@Mr_Azali]

Xavier is deep...his answers were charged with honesty & multi layered understanding. They actually seem like a good couple.

[@lawrencejohnson2159]

I know there love one another. The crowd may not like this but he bores me to tears. It’s like watching grass grow

[@kerryfournillier4644]

Beautiful girl.... these shows need follow ups to see where these relationships went and if they lasted..

[@perfectlyimperfect6781]

He understood the importance of appreciation ..

[@jahd497]

"When I look at you I just see...more" ✨✨✨💛

[@Royalembers]

I believe alot of things were not said out of privacy and still getting to know each other, and I respect that.

[@framboise9755]

He has the sweetest heart I have ever seen

[@NWRafael]

Such a wonderful conversation and their connection.

[@newolympiangod8134]

It's amazing the male female relationship and how much we really need each other. Yet we fight as if we don't. I think when you find that one person that makes you just wanna love then and them you. You need to fight to hold on to that. Because who knows if that will ever come around again.

[@theduke6174]

The relationship still sounds early, like they need more years to realise they're the right fit or not.

[@warpzoneable]

I don't think time matters actually in relationships, I believe in experiences, life events.

[@theduke6174]

@@warpzoneable well experiences naturally comes with time

[@warpzoneable]

@@theduke6174 and sometimes it does not. Sometimes shit happens when you don't expect them and you are really in your dating life, and at these moments you can see people's true color. Sometimes you spend years with someone and you have a major life event and they're just not there for you.

[@theduke6174]

@@sydneycraig6023 thats YOUR experience, im talking about the chemistry we've just witnessed from these two.

[@sydneycraig6023]

@@theduke6174 i know that. i specifically said that I admit some relationships are not always like that. i know that's my experience. i never said it was anyone else's

[@MegaCadette55]

The Skin Deep...I appreciate you guys consistency and passion for what you do. You are such an inspiration!

[@boomboom6577]

He might not be ready for the level of depth and emotion she brings and will demand from him. I truly hope he rises to the occasion sooner rather than later. Together, they could be very strong for a very very long time.

[@nadeanbowles3052]

Right. Despite the last comment, she is in love with him and he seems surprised and dodging it.

[@boomboom6577]

Yes, it is subtle, but it’s there. If he doesn’t stop it, he will lose her. And he will regret it.

[@nadeanbowles3052]

@@boomboom6577 I don't know. Do men regret losing a woman who isn't the one for them?

[@boomboom6577]

NaDean Bowles I have no idea lol. Just based on what I saw in the video, he seems to care deeply for her and her for him. I *think* that men regret losing women who they believe loved THEM and for whom they could not care properly or with deep commitment. Ime, people can love and want someone while also slowly driving that same person away. 🤷‍♀️

[@teetop5776]

Xavier won a lotto draw! She should have been an actress. Her smiling/laughing Would make me want to do the same. I can tell they are both good humans. Glad they crossed one another's paths in life. They add to one another.

[@danielmarquez467]

Yeah. That was great. It made me think deeply about my own marriage. I pray that that couple makes it to the next level and beyond. They have so much potential: they don't even know about yet.

[@PrettyMonroee]

That last part 😢😢❤️

[@smilovert6058]

That ending is deep asf

[@user-wp4pp6gw8h]

What I understood is that my man is thinking of proposing to her

[@unplayedpiano7039]

I Think She’s More In Head With Him & He’s More In Heart With Her. I Think She’ll Get Better, Grow, & Leave When She’s Stronger.

[@stevenguenko7401]

This is the cutest couple i have ever seen! i like to see mixte couples.

[@joelGi]

Her hair literally feels like it's gold in hair form

[@jeremysmith9694]

I feel like they weren't really on the same page with anything they said haha. But they seem cool. I like em. She's pretty.

[@john.jai.sullivan]

Jeremy Smith I think he’s lagging a lot behind her. She seems to have more of a centralized focus towards what their relationship does and means for her.

[@BlaqueRainbow]

Jai Sullivan or maybe he’s shy and expresses his love in other ways besides being direct. He obviously makes her laugh and laughter is one of the best medicines for the soul.

[@naomik5722]

of course they had only been together for 5 months lol

[@iltony21]

I love when it's an interracial couple & they actually look alike lol

[@ShoroukA]

So it's not just me who thinks they look alike 😂

[@nolor8397]

They are both so beautiful

[@sydneyl9732]

Elle Luna they have the same facial structure

[@iltony21]

@@Luna7-v1p no for real. Their eyebrows, lips, eye shape. It's crazy but...cool. it gives you the sense that sometimes you are made for a person.

[@WindRegalia07]

Loren Cooper yeah and I read a sociology article that most people’s soulmate will look like them also the more you spend time with someone the more similar you become even with facial features.

[@cranmerracho5749]

Guy is so cool and gal is so beautiful. Can see real love when they laugh.

[@MrKry]

This two seem so low profile at first and then they have such interesting inner dialogue, it's fascinating...

[@RS-jp3fi]

Oh god, Lande is one of the most beautiful women I've seen!

[@graceb.5230]

Is the audio on this video quiet for anyone else? I can still hear it, but even full volume sounds kind of quiet

[@coasterb1]

I've noticed a few videos, there is a soft spoken person who needs more microphone. I understand making it raw, but we gotta be able to hear!

[@boomboom6577]

I think they are just low talkers. Which I personally appreciate.

[@MJ-gs6zt]

Hi grace b, how are you? Your beautiful

[@gracemaina6593]

I found it low too

[@Kenji-117]

Seeing this gives hope and really makes me miss things like they have together. It Looks so simple but ist so deeply beatiful.

[@dreesdog7]

I love people that see people as being people before they bring in the manutiae and nonsense. Two beautiful people discovering the beauty in each other and how to love in the space they are in...

[@alanna4148]

Wow what a gorgeous COUPLE !! 💚💚💚 I love them 💓 would love to see another episode of them together!

[@thorisotlake]

This girl is so beautiful, it's ridiculous.

[@pierrejeanuziel5280]

Her hairrr, the way that she looks at him, her smile, give me his phone number I wanna tell him to take care of her.

[@nadeanbowles3052]

❤️

[@ratanangmafatshe5629]

This is so intimate in the simplest way that I feel like an intruder watching this...

[@Rogerdis215]

Shout out to Him!!

[@MissOJAY]

GEEZUS their eyebrows are stunning

[@ahlamh8070]

I have not noticed until i saw your comment, and Girrrrrrrrrrl you are right

[@craftgunner]

I could watch these two all day. All damn day.

[@kirchenmaus1086]

His words are so beautiful

[@ingodwetrust7648]

Have you ever dated a black guy before ma'am?

[@racqueljarrett6272]

He's a beautiful man.

[@melmel7011]

The guy is so cute, I can't stop looking at him

[@potlichwaane7116]

Must have watched this 5 times. They seem so good for each other. They are both so pwetty🥰

[@munachiadindu6358]

I love love 😍

[@teetop5776]

I've seen a ton of women in my life. And see is amazingly pretty. I hope these two have the best future ever. They seem like good humans.

[@chrischambers7511]

Wow, she is so naturally stunning!

[@ijustneedmyself]

She's gorgeous without even trying!

[@Carolinenangra]

For the curious like me, they got married!

[@romelohdz]

Looking for someone on a schedule... maybe one day someone will be into me to say something like that . That actually hit to me to alone I am socially , I gotta make a change in myself

[@CC-dc6hv]

Also I noticed how they would have these long “looks” (but they were more than that they were SEEING-experiencing each other) and she wouldn’t break the contact until he did.

[@KS-nz1dl]

Very physically attractive couple but I’m not seeing the connection and chemistry that everyone else is seeing.

[@ronniegladden7387]

exactly. i think most probably WANT them to have chemistry. i get the sense the guy is much more invested in the relationship as opposed to his partner.

[@mebcovers8400]

5 months though

[@androssteague]

Take Me To The Sea it's only been 5 months though. She looks for him on the schedule. I don't believe all couples start off with good chemistry. It comes over time.

[@therealprinceofla]

@@ronniegladden7387 She pursued him. I’m sure they’re fine

[@Wilodawisp]

To tell you the truth I see there isn't any chemistry. I think the lady wants him to understand her and her emotions and being in touch with their emotions while the guy comes across as apathetic. I think the guy doesn't see the need to meet the lady halfway, he may have feelings for her but I believe either 1 he's not good at displaying his feelings or emotions or 2, he isn't emotionally invested in the relationship

[@native_tendencies7305]

I feel like these videos really expose how some people don't really love one another and barely know each other. I've heard some really uninspired answers to qestions about love.

[@RCR82]

I hope they're still together..... this made me smile💓👍

[@nmccray4494]

She gives me this Carrie vibe from the movie that came out in the 70s. "They're going to laugh at you." That's a great movie by the way.

[@winfredkavuo6670]

This couple is so amazing 😍 ..I mean they perfectly match ,and I love the compliment part

[@jenniferzollicoffer85]

I absolutely LOVED this!!! Beautiful couple!!!🙏🏽🤍🤍🤍

[@andrewpatrick1610]

Are really in love. Nice seeing interracial love

[@CC-dc6hv]

I just wanted to make the number of comments even and say I loved this interview, great way to end it off. Whenever I thought it was the climax they had “more” to give.