Sharing My Greatest Fear With a Stranger | {THE AND} Blind Date Alyssa & Ejay

[@cynvolk]

Gloriously authentic and real. Solid and healthy connection. They expressed themselves very well.

[@uclaca8262]

OMG HE IS SOOOOO CUTE

[@sinqobilem]

He makes himself an open book. No games and nothing to front or hide. I know I’d feel super comfortable around him for sure.

[@mariadelcastillo8983]

He has kind eyes

[@ctalley9667]

He really does!

[@ctalley9667]

@1GoldRunner I'm hoping you're only coming from a place of humor because having kind eyes has absolutely nothing to do with race

[@ctalley9667]

@1GoldRunner yes, please help me understand why I would have to go to every Asian?

[@mariadelcastillo8983]

@@ctalley9667 I cant understand it either

[@EjayMenchavez]

@1GoldRunner I feel like you said it because Asians usually don't get that comment and it would be really nice if we did.

[@ti6659]

They’re so cute and awkward together

[@uclaca8262]

THEY ARE CUTE TOGETHER

[@jaykay5086]

They both get more attractive the more they speak

[@ShadoWolf43]

This man is so intouch with his own feelings! YES!! WE STAND FOR THIS!

[@thriftasista101]

he is SUCH a babe 🥰😍

[@unlovebreather]

i feel like people tell her often that she's beautiful and that they are attracted to her but she just let it roll off her sleeve. Not in a narcissistic way but just as someone who doesn't care much about external beauty. She seems down to earth and sincere so I think she likes to look deep into someone before knowing if she's attracted or not.

[@lifeisawesome5685]

I very much was thinking that and agree with you because I know someone in my life who is kind of like her in a way.😊

[@aylinpriscilla9258]

Their nervousness is so cute ☺️

[@CB-rr3os]

Lol the second he said “you might not know how pretty you are” the interest drained from her face

[@lipsohlips97]

He is sooooo cute and I loved his honest answers as well as his nervousness. It was adorable and refreshing. :)

[@mariekeschoutsen]

I feel like they are both very kind souls. And the conversation is very friendly and sweet because of that. But definitely no romantic chemistry. He just mistook his nerves and the setting for it.. :)

[@mariee_e]

Ya hit the nail on the head

[@bethecomedic845]

I disagree. I think EJay felt true chemistry with Alyssa, especially when she mentioned that he needed to hear he could be a good father, that really seem like it hit home for him.

[@mi834]

I think there was chemistry on his end as time went on

[@JesRocWitMe]

I think she played reserved on the chemistry question. She first said she's didn't know and smiled at him and his face didn't really reciprocate that smile so as she continued talking she stayed slightly reserved in her response

[@jreev335]

Jese Rocchild this is dead on accurate

[@mistersir3185]

true but then my guy knew what to do so he put that cherry on top and I guess they're gonna take it from there

[@arshbehal6312]

Yes.

[@true4623]

It broke my heart when it seemed like she was saying she didn't feel chemistry...his face looked increasingly disappointed.

[@ketchup1185]

Alyssa was giving off signals the entire time she wasn't feeling chemistry. There was major tension between the two that Ejay was pushing for it and she was getting to the point that she was uncomfortable that he couldn't read her signals.

[@abbeyterry8845]

Can you explain some of the signals? It appears I missed it, and I'm a total novice when it comes to reading people.

[@treesforlifeong1639]

Same!

[@Flourboi11]

He’s so dreamy😍

[@martinmugwe923]

She is a natural- Beautywise and communication wise! Looks intelligent as a bonus too.

[@plantecsmiths1622]

Part Indian imo

[@stephaniechambers2841]

They would make a great couple. They’re kinda like opposites but you can tell they would be great together.

[@inilantalks]

OMG! HIs logic about evaluating everything from the eyes of your existing/future child is exactly what I use in life to judge right from wrong! The best realization I ever had!

[@TiffanyLeeanne]

He reminds me of an Asian John Legend!

[@katederrick2033]

Tiffany Le YES

[@ekenebyekene4801]

John Legend is part Asian, so....

[@lissaniachristian189]

thats it!!!!

[@princesssolo1197]

BECOMIIN with Ekene no he’s not, his wife is half asian tho

[@JOEL-mm7th]

@@princesssolo1197 he is though

[@JEN_AUB]

I 100% love her words to him on being a good/great dad one day! As a child I had a horrible mom situation. I had that fear that I could never be a good mother...so I understand his fear. Now I am a mom to a 3.5 year old , and I can say that things are turning out just fine! I am committed to making sure she never feels what I felt, so I guess I have learned from the mistakes before me... Ejay, you will be fine! ....more than fine :)

[@TheSkinDeep]

This is such a beautiful comment. Thank you for sharing your experience with us-we love that you were able to connect to the video and to Ejay's fears about parenthood. Thank you!

[@EjayMenchavez]

Thank you!

[@itsbrittnybeech2757]

Your comment is seriously underrated there should be waaay more likes on this im so happy for you and im so glad you achieved your hardest goal that's incredible commendable 💫❤❤❤❤💫

[@JEN_AUB]

@@itsbrittnybeech2757 Thank you! You are so kind!!! ❤❤

[@maevapereira5776]

Let's just be very superficial... this guy is soooooo handsome! I couldn't take my eyes off him 😍😅

[@amynata487]

Yes omg

[@mrsa6925]

He’s more handsome than she is pretty. 💁🏽‍♀️

[@queenvic83]

@@mrsa6925 lol she has a plain Jane kinda look next to him.. LoL 😂

[@knolose1]

He’s a amazing listener ...so rare !!

[@M.I.22]

This man is beautiful! If you would ever read this: the fact that you're thinking about your childhood and are consiously working on yourself like you've said is so beautiful to me. I'm in the same boat as you are with my dad and what you're doing, I would love to see him do it.. I would be so proud, I think your childeren will be as well with a father that is willing to be emotionally vurnerable, which is what you're doing, in a very beautiful way!

[@angelicashley]

He is so honest. God bless him a good relationship!

[@matthall113]

I love seeing vulnerability in people, it shows a beautiful side of their personality

[@Deenique16]

Can you do two people who have never dated?! Lol it would be more relatable .

[@KYRA_FX]

Two people who've never dated anyone before ?

[@Holystuffz]

Ky Ky yea, they’ve never dated anyone before and go on a blind date

[@jaykay5086]

I know right

[@Deenique16]

@@KYRA_FX that's what I said.

[@bethecomedic845]

That's going to be one awkward convo.

[@selmandeyanayih]

I like these two, as individuals. Raw

[@Deenique16]

It's always raw that's why I like these episodes

[@TheSkinDeep]

@@Deenique16 Really appreciate this, thank you!

[@queenvic83]

@@TheSkinDeep Can we get an Update?!? :)

[@omar8634]

He was so let down when she said she didnt feel that much chemistry. My man you got it yo could do even better!!

[@Deenique16]

Nothing wrong with that.

[@Whimswirl]

LOL it's really not that deep, calm your ego.

[@Artinerario]

I think she just approaches intimacy differently... esp with all the cameras around, so chill.

[@GloomySkiez]

Omar Cito He Just said he could do better, Ain’t nothing wrong with that; Y’all are the ones who need a chill pill.

[@Kiwi-kp1zi]

He's attracted to her confidence and intelligence, along with her appearance. This dude fell inlove xD

[@mikemahoney5080]

She looks and seems like a genuinely beautiful person. I could feel her glow through the screen. Lovely video👏🏽

[@brooklynitec6888]

This series is teaching me how to be a better communicator. Thanks guys!

[@nzungu7773]

I could actually see them together sitting in a porch in their 80s.💔

[@jeremysmith9694]

Yes. In the floor boards

[@psychoslayer6808]

She’s sooo awesome. I love her personality.

[@kmarieking12]

Giving me shang from Mulan vibes 🥰

[@Macleodking]

I think this got derailed early on. It started off like there was romantic chemistry, but the more they talked and got to know each other, the more it began to take on a friend dynamic.

[@islandlife1508]

There IS chemistry, please ! 😃

[@fh5151]

I like when people actually take the time to answer the kissing question. it makes it even more awkward when they try to get out of it instead of just answering it. plus they should know its coming if they've ever watched one of these

[@nishac05]

It started off awkward but it got so deep. The conversation felt so genuine because neither of them had any hesitation to speak what they felt/thought. I like how Alyssa tried to make Ejay comfortable because he said he's nervous. Also, 7:24 ❤️

[@markuskalchbrenner3284]

Such a natural and beautiful woman with awesome lips and wonderful teeth

[@douaelgchiri5654]

We need part 2

[@Anon92456]

Honestly, regarding that chemistry question. It's a no. You KNOW when you have chemistry. It's not something you rationalize.

[@dk3xyz]

This was a solid unpretentious conversation. Wondering if she felt some chemistry.

[@user-mz9ql7br8w]

they are so alike but different at the same time. i wonder if anything happened after this!

[@Deenique16]

I doubt it.

[@Nathaly0886]

@@Deenique16 why you say that? Just curious...

[@jllogan8710]

They were both nervous/fearful and the questions highlighted what in their minds were their vulnerabilities. He didn’t want to say a low sexual partner number because he thought it would make him look like a punk, she wanted to be clear she doesn’t sleep around. She got defensive that it’s been 2 years since she’s dated-she was afraid it would look as if it is still an issue. He was just curious why she’s been single that long. No judgment. They definitely came at things from different angles. I think she was scared he’s say he didn’t feel chemistry-she said Idk, smiled big and waited for his response in facial cue and he’s got an excellent poker face. She misread and went conservative. He realized that he threw her off. Think he also figured out her insecurity dead on and that’s why her face changed. Like, is it that obvious?

[@LindaTinahTV]

They both seem like very good people and a perfect match. Wow

[@arshbehal6312]

They are both such nice people. Just nice, decent human beings and so vulnerable and so emotionally intelligent. It's so attractive. He made her so comfortable and so did she.

[@oxforddictonary]

Ejay's hair game is on POINT!! DAT HAIR LINE THOUGH! They're both super sweet though and authentic and I kinda want them to hold hands and live happily ever after. I don't know that there's full on chemistry though. Maybe as friends. Maybe it could develop over time though.

[@bernice8473]

I like how he explains things so throughly!

[@thandekamkhize1649]

They both have beautiful eyes that suggest warmth and empathy.

[@PersianGirl11]

omg she is so pretty, in and outside

[@JjBianca]

He seems so kind and supportive. If that's true, he can call me😂🤣😂

[@nat5112]

Their chemistry 🧪 is off charts!

[@sahilchoudhary-jn2op]

The girl is very emotionally intelligent. She has learnt sooo much from her past relationshipS..she waited for 2.5 years. She likes him as a human being but she won't date another man-child (not at all in a bad way) but she is in a very mature head space. Also, i know she did not judge him for his number.....but her partner has to have the same values about physical intimacy as her.

[@leogirl6695]

Agree. She seems really mature and put together

[@YonnieL1985]

sahil choudhary Amen! Awesome observation

[@catherined2876]

Wow, one of the best THE AND ive seen! hope they both find happiness whoever that's with!

[@zact4289]

7:00 contemplation is just amazing - he’d make a great dad

[@ekkariya]

her answer about chemistry is so pure

[@marinaskyler7930]

he totally felt chemistry before she basically said she didn't

[@simritkaur8088]

Bring part 2 with these two people but in a scenic environment - just out of the enclosed space they were in .

[@DrAdnan]

His personality reminds me a bit of myself

[@Makta972]

Needy and uncomfortable around women ?

[@belac_4176]

I think she's really smart. Her speech speed.

[@Fulgano]

omg, she is absolutely gorgeous!

[@mediokritet]

They both seem like good people, but this was really nice example of being a good and emphatic listener who validated and soothed him ❤ 8:27

[@EnemenyYT]

I think they would be good friends

[@StepHanie-fb9nn]

I hope they ended up dating. Both are so open and she reminds me of myself somehow. Super nice💯👍🏻

[@susanhitchler1881]

She should have said thank you when he said she was prettier than she thinks she is. That’s a huge compliment. I think he will be a wonderful.

[@nataliaalves6178]

She is gorgeous, but her beauty goes beyond her physicality. She has something special! She smiles with her eyes... And obviously she knows she is pretty haha

[@x0DeadAngel0x]

His reaction are realy not common feeling like he's special or that he's not used to social interaction but at the same time he can clearly see what's on her mind while she's speaking so it's kinda wierd but interesting. Realy nice video :)

[@Alyssa-mt9bb]

Not sure if she was into him and I guess that's okay, but what an emotionally expressive dude!

[@bethecomedic845]

They both seem like very genuine kind people "however", to me they are still trying to figure out who they are as individuals, and don't need to be getting into any relationship.

[@sapphiiee]

Im so sad, im not in the age range he'd date me but lord hes beautiful, and he seems like someone i'd vibe with on a physical and emotion level 😔💔 bless them both though, theyre both genuine, no games and so real 🌸

[@leogirl6695]

There was chemistry for sure. Really interesting conversation also...they were both expressive and talkative

[@velvinsamkul3254]

He is a SNACK😍😍😍😍aawwwww

[@swuave29]

The first look when they take their blind fold off her facial expressions...lol

[@drhall343]

Damn and I thought I was awkward.

[@alwayscatholicknight7920]

lovely couple read they got married to each other.

[@jeremysmith9694]

Really?

[@ctalley9667]

Please come to Orlando to film some of these blind dates! I volunteer lol

[@googlereviewer1944]

She's lovely! Really thoughtful comments by both of them. Enjoyed watching them share that.

[@zubaasaad8443]

He is so raw 💓💓💓💓

[@giacomotessitori8970]

She Is razor sharp and was screening him HARD! No wonder he felt so nervous

[@MuyebaA]

I like her dentition so perfect.. Tops it up with that cute 😊 smile

[@patriciakeats1621]

Gorgeous people. She is natural beauty!

[@winxxclubbb]

Yoooo, on the “how many intimate partners” question, I said seven out loud, & then she said it😂

[@DanielleT192]

8:39 she hit the nail on the head. It's so true to fear or being like someone, especially your parents, but you should take those bad experiences to allow you to grow as a person and use them to your advantage on what you shouldn't be like.

[@yanesthi]

I love their connection..

[@ermias2423]

" If it feels like its WRONG or if it feels like you ONLY THINKING about yourself, my be you shouldn't do it!" Well Said! When it comes to her response to the feeling of Chemistry between them, It sound like " yes i feel Chemistry between us but i won't throw out my self that easily plus I told you that I see my self more Conservative ! Dummy " So , CATCH ME IF YOU CAN kinda thing...🤔🤔

[@noname-ze9pe]

Not really. Being conservative or liberal is a personal choice. To be either isn't a bad thing. When you don't categorise things as particularly evil or good, I feel makes a person more humble and accepting. When asked about the chemistry she found herself in a position of solidifying a situation for someone else. She stayed humble to a situation of what if.

[@simritkaur8088]

no name many times , we cannot name what we are feeling - there was a connection between the two . But maybe she didn’t feel like saying something just yet like you both pointed out .

[@noname-ze9pe]

@@simritkaur8088 yeah that's understandable. I just meant there was no catch me if you can intent from her side. :)

[@maika5556]

they're soo cute!

[@kingovue]

Oooo he's cute

[@ginsup4412]

Probably cutest one on one convo ive ever seen 😍

[@audenitag]

Oh my...who wrote the "how many partners" question? Yikes!

[@mrsa6925]

Audra G It was asked too early too. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kambuibomani231]

They’re literally the same people 🙂

[@jordansage9655]

I don't think so at all...

[@siobhanrachel2969]

keep her! she was listening #youcanbeagreatdad one day

[@folakemiokiji6140]

😭 I see chemistry for sure but personally I find her more awkward.

[@KinglyPoruits]

I like awkwardness.

[@reginamushi6582]

Great guy, honest and open

[@JoNa-tl2sg]

I want them to be happy together ❤️

[@crazyanimeloveable]

I think they are on another level not necessarily bad or good but they just think differently

[@elenav1287]

His eyes wow

[@almasa7643]

My god he's gorgeous

[@kissoholic135]

Tere are lot of shows like this but yours feel so real..

[@127Coco]

One of my favourites.

[@sunniec7395]

Thats it! No update?!?!