Watching this video brings back a painful memory. Years ago, a guy I dated abruptly ghosted me without a reason. When I managed to call him, he shouted, 'We're over, get it into your head. Don't call me again,' then cut all contact. It's been 23 years, but those words still sting. Remember, the hurtful words we say can leave lasting scars. Just 8 years ago, in a shopping mall, I saw him with his pregnant wife, and those moments flashed back.
@Hallo_winner316 ай бұрын
Omg I feel like yelling at him in front of his pregnant wife : yes it’s still in my head and I hope your wife won’t have to hurt u the same way you did to me… u know about what goes around comes around….. try to let it go, Jiayou 🥲
@glorytruthlove6 ай бұрын
So sad when u see him
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story! ❤️❤️❤️
@twogtheworldofgangnam99176 ай бұрын
Should have this kind of conversations more, I hope Ben & Randy will bring more of these episodes to us, perhaps even inviting some guests! ❤
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Yes we love doing this series!!! Stay tuned for more! ❤️
@jzlly.c6 ай бұрын
Being the one initiating the breakup gives you time to think things through when you are still in the relationship so you are technically “prepared” already but the other party can only start thinking things through and grieving after the breakup so it takes longer for them to get over the relationship
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Yes this 💯
@janessalee1586 ай бұрын
I almost ended my life because of my previous relationship it ruined my mental health so badly. So I really agree with what you all have said , is not the end of the world , if things arent meant to be then is just not meant to be no matter how much chances you gave. There is so much more to life , be a better person not for anyone else but for yourself , be happy and do the things you love to do !💌
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
You are doing so well now!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@janessalee1586 ай бұрын
@@BenRanAway thank you 😭
@jeremeytheking6 ай бұрын
You guys should make the next BeReal episode about us. Like read our anonymous stories and react to them. (I always have something I need to get off my chest 😅)
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Good idea!!! Leave your stories now!
@thesarahleo6 ай бұрын
I never been in a relationship and hearing in this video i think to save myself all the sorry feelings is just to keep being single
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
🙈
@summeronmymind6 ай бұрын
love this kind of conversations cause it’s so real and we get to know more about you guys ❤
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@VOPS336 ай бұрын
It took me a few years to get over my last r/s and I've been single for the past 10 years ever since as I'm afraid of getting hurt again.
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story ❤️
@jaysonjun6 ай бұрын
I hates being ghosted, at least give me the concrete reasons for breaking up... I am also agree that must talk face to face, using text or video calls won't helps sometimes.
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Agree!!!
@x_FakeLove_x6 ай бұрын
I kena trend on insta or fb b4 during one of my breakup.
@drstrange72256 ай бұрын
Do a longer series but in podcast!
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Yes we would love to do it!
@wang44396 ай бұрын
Wow this video felt so meaningful 🫡🫡 thank you for sharing
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
❤️
@freeagentnetwork6 ай бұрын
Good topic of discussion…..love it!
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Yay! Thank you for loving this video! ✨❤️
@MsLilac886 ай бұрын
Hello Ben & Randy, I feel inspired by you guys, I can relate to Randy. 💜 I had 2 break ups in the past in my early 30s before I married at 34 years old. I feel that break ups are never easy, jia you, Randy. 💜🙏
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind comment ✨❤️
@MsLilac886 ай бұрын
@@BenRanAway You guys are awesome, hope to bump into you guys soon. 💜
@YUZ_SG6 ай бұрын
As we aged, it’s even more harder to ‘walk’ out of the break up
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Yes agree!
@DeathHela6 ай бұрын
omg i can imagine a young cute baby Randy carrying a teddy bear waiting for his ex who ghosted him downstairs 😢😢😢 I can’t imagine why would anyone do this to him 😭😭😭 Also Ben looks like a player 😂😂😂🌚
@afifah66186 ай бұрын
i usually remember the bad things of my ex instead of the good things
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
🥲
@samantha89_6 ай бұрын
I ended a six-year relationship and canceled my BTO flat. It was a really difficult decision.
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Yes it must be 😔 hope you are feeling better now ❤️
@resvagaz7836 ай бұрын
My ex left after almost 9yrs in the r/s and 1 month after getting a kidney transplant. Cheated with another girl. Kinda felt stupid wasting my whole youth mayb coz my ex tt can't find anyone better with so much health problems during our r/s tgt
@embershen3646 ай бұрын
I just watched this chinese drama where the boyfriend ghosted the female lead on their wedding day. I've never had a relationship before and even I have trust issues. Given that ghosting is so prevalent now, what's stopping anyone from leaving their partner at the altar? There's also no point in talking, of course no one will admit they are planning to ghost right. Especially since the female lead is so pretty somemore. As an average mediocre person, I feel like don't even bother. Better focus on my studies/career first. Given that I've never had a relationship before, it's very likely that my first relationship won't work out either.
@thamzavier91606 ай бұрын
Closeted - Describes a person who is not open about his or her sexual orientation.
@lily-zc1wj6 ай бұрын
U also think both of them are actually gay ?
@thamzavier91606 ай бұрын
My gaydar sense tingling
@gohippo6 ай бұрын
Would be interesting to know how many ex or past relationship?
@chingru6 ай бұрын
Can do an episode that talk about aimei? Recently I was being hurt badly as this guy did all the aimei action but when I try to dig some info, he told me those actions are only a gesture of friend and he has someone he like.
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
That’s an interesting topic!!! Thanks for suggesting!
@cherriemay5286 ай бұрын
I'm single for life can't relate 😂
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
😅😅
@Edeline_linn6 ай бұрын
Thats actually scary😭
@marialim64696 ай бұрын
Sorry i cant relate as I've not been in relationship before
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@TELEE-t6r6 ай бұрын
How about share abt your haunted stories will be more exciting and more viwers will watch
@sweetenglow12636 ай бұрын
6:48 Randy's expression :p
@lindababy19906 ай бұрын
Ever since having her in every video I rarely watch your video
@sgtsr16 ай бұрын
After all, different people have different perspectives. 😊😅
@agoodlif36 ай бұрын
I cannot relate but this is a new one ah.
@JiaXuan036 ай бұрын
Ben or randy are you still doing the give away
@lanaitgirl6 ай бұрын
it's quite entertaining how yall continue each other sentences
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Hahaha ✨chemistry✨🤣
@yslam56 ай бұрын
Obviously Ben is from Mars and Randy and Rachel are from Venus 🤣
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@fernng7406 ай бұрын
Randy looks a bit sad. Take care, Ben and Ran.
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
❤️💕
@Unknown807766 ай бұрын
I rmb the bad side more than good side bcoz I have been ignoring 🚩s, keep on tolerating and forgiving and I got dumped.
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
😔😔😔❤️
@jerra_ng6 ай бұрын
There's 1 similarity about 3 of them. Guess what? 😄
@lalalalaland845 ай бұрын
Wei, rebound also difficult la. Unless maybe gigi hadid level maybe that can actually distract you
@TELEE-t6r6 ай бұрын
Hope to see more funniest video this video ok lah at least listening stories
@aaronaven27026 ай бұрын
Hi Ben Randy ❤️
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Hello! 💕
@valentinalim94632 ай бұрын
where it rachel go :(
@KEinSG6 ай бұрын
Mine was once randy relationship disappeared no where and wanted to look for the person but can't even see.... I can't even get new relationship until secondary nor now. And also always got played and disappeared one . As there's one guy liked me since sec2 until now but I'm like you damm annoying 😂 but was thinking tat he will continue to wait but who knows he got into relationship and I'm like ..... Not gonna find him anymore 😂
@RoyLee896 ай бұрын
Is Randy okay? Take care
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
❤️❤️
@crystalcai63146 ай бұрын
Ghosted after 6 years ……
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
😔😔❤️
@mrdonniegoh6 ай бұрын
Jiayou Randy 🙇👍
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
❤️❤️💕
@jj964326 ай бұрын
Wah randy story legit sad sia
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
🥲🥲
@TheOpenGaming2226 ай бұрын
Is your ex a guy?
@lily-zc1wj6 ай бұрын
U also think that both of them are actually gay?
@TheOpenGaming2226 ай бұрын
@@lily-zc1wj I don't think, I know. It's as clear as the sky on a cloudless day, as undeniable as the sun rising in the east each morning. There's no doubt in my mind, no hesitation in my heart. It's a truth as solid as the ground beneath my feet, as inevitable as the passage of time itself. THEY GAYYYYYY
@justinli6755 ай бұрын
i was listening v carefully hoping that there would be a slip of the tongue, but Ben and Randy were very very careful haha. Rachel tried to use 'this person' at first, but when she got a bit emotional, it became 'him'.
@cadenchen69646 ай бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
❤️❤️
@sgtsr16 ай бұрын
4th! Hope I could bump into you all some day! 💙😅
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
We definitely will! 🙏🏻
@lazytofat6 ай бұрын
Oops I’m like Ben 😛
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
🙈🙈
@stargeri58776 ай бұрын
HELLO❤❤❤😊
@BenRanAway6 ай бұрын
Hello!!! ❤️❤️
@jasonlow22666 ай бұрын
This guy has a childish mindset definitely cannot succeed in relationship 👎
@telee14006 ай бұрын
This video is not as funny because is not about eating nor is about cheap vs expensive things
@highchxxkbones6 ай бұрын
getting blocked is the worst feeling ever = you are forced to accept it and move on, your world just shuts off and you are all left blank-ed, but big pat for all who had made it through!!🤍see? it isnt that hard right?🤗