Wow, I can't believe how many views this video has now. The comments are so touching, thank you so so much.
@limolnar4 ай бұрын
How are things now?
@millyabster3 ай бұрын
I can't believe that I'm finding this video only after 7 years, I absolutely enjoined your video and you have such a great family
@itzchip._.3 ай бұрын
hmmm, lemme guess, did you got recommended the "growing up with two dads" vid?
@millyabster3 ай бұрын
@@itzchip._. yess that was the first video that I saw from him
@stevewu19202 ай бұрын
me too, why KZbin didn’t show this video to me earlier, damn!
@michellew50722 ай бұрын
Me too. Just saw it today
@kbsongy7 жыл бұрын
"You open your heart and you get the kid you're supposed to have" Wish my dad had a similar outlook. Your family is beautiful
@zekebanister8655 жыл бұрын
You wish your Dad was a homosexual? Um...better not tell him that
@safehaven88954 жыл бұрын
@Zeke Banister No. They meant that their dad saw things the way they did.
@BecomingBenSmith4 жыл бұрын
Hey Kitten, thank you so much for the kind words and for watching and supporting us. This is what keeps me going.
@DeanAllman6 жыл бұрын
I grew up right next door to your grandparents and Dad and Aunt. They are wonderful people . What a treat to see them! Thanks for posting!
@jordancastillo46317 жыл бұрын
You have such a unique family, glad to see a family like this. Love, Peace
@sonyk25425 жыл бұрын
Zeke Banister Whys that?
@zekebanister8655 жыл бұрын
Sammy, only for one obvious reason to anyone with a modicum of common sense. In a best case scenario chidren should be raised by one man and one woman. Each sex brings something to the equation that that the other cannot thus helping the child, or children in question. Yeah...not difficult concept for us to wrap our minds around my friend.
@user-sg4ov7ng4h3 ай бұрын
@@zekebanister865 what told you that? surely not science and personal experiences. pretty sure people live good if they have good parents, something straight parents struggle to even do, i guess its so easy to have children for them they dont wish it enough and dont work enough for their children
@laibamalik48122 ай бұрын
@@zekebanister865There are some extremely awfully raised kids of straight parents, they teach their kids to be bullies, to be abusive, not all straight parents are good parents just because they are straight😐 While there are some extremely incredible people raised by gay parents, in fact, the kids raised by gay parents are usually a lot more sweet and tolerant than the ones raised by straight parents because their gay parents know what it feels like to be bullied and discriminated, so your pea-brained answer is absolutely stupid☺Maybe have some "common sense"️ yourself idiot☺️
@laibamalik48122 ай бұрын
@@zekebanister865There are some extremely awfully raised kids of straight parents, they teach their kids to be bullies, to be abusive, not all straight parents are good parents just because they are straight😐 While there are some extremely incredible people raised by gay parents, in fact, the kids raised by gay parents are usually a lot more sweet and tolerant than the ones raised by straight parents because their gay parents know what it feels like to be bullied and discriminated, so your pea-brained answer is absolutely stupid☺Maybe have some "common sense"️ yourself instead of preaching others☺️
@katabatics8312 ай бұрын
I cried when dad said there are many ways to be a father and there are many kids who want a father.
@LimAmli3 жыл бұрын
Why did took me 4 years found this? It's AMAZING
@-ydxmiqi3 ай бұрын
It took me 7, you’re luckier
@Sarah-b7r3g2 ай бұрын
Ben you have no idea how many people out there would die to have a family like yours: so much love and support❤thank you for the video🙏
@victoriagoingforit61833 ай бұрын
Gosh, you have an absolutely fabulous family. How lucky are you? They are lucky to have you too cuz you're a good son to surprise everybody and spend time with your family. So sweet. Loved this.
@lifeofahooligan33574 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!! I was also adopted, but by two moms, and they got “divorced” (before it was legal to get married in the first place) when I was younger, and they each have new partners now. And I have an older sister who was adopted from China. Just subbed. 😁💖
@BecomingBenSmith4 жыл бұрын
Wow! What an amazing story. Would love to hear more some day. Thanks so much for sharing and watching. :)
@lifeofahooligan33574 жыл бұрын
Becoming Ben Smith I will probably make some adoption related videos in the future!! 😁
@bromleyborzell84043 жыл бұрын
ur grandpa talking about the hickey is so sooo funny omg
@allisonmcpherson78692 ай бұрын
What a wonderful loving families you have! This video answered my questions. I enjoyed watching it.
@tanyabrown69697 жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you for saying you had your ups and downs, because that's more realistic than claiming it was all gum drops and rainbows ...because by design, no family is.
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Yes, Tanya! You are right!
@BehindThe55 жыл бұрын
Ben, this was such a beautiful video and really well done!! I was beaming the whole time :) Thank you for sharing your story - it’s inspiring!
@BecomingBenSmith5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you for watching Lily, means a lot!
@KoreanAmericanbaby2 ай бұрын
What a beautiful family!! You are so lucky to have 2 dads who love you more than anything!! Good luck to you, and thanks for sharing your story!
@CleberLirio7 жыл бұрын
From Brazil... I am love with your modern family! Thanks for sharing... its so inspiring...
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching Cleber! I love Brazil and Brigadiero. share with the people of Brazil for me!
@latefordinner45135 жыл бұрын
I love how the whole family jokes around so freely with everyone and how non pc they are
@frankwicks30727 жыл бұрын
Absolutely fantastic! Ben is a genius and a beautiful human being.
@bensmith50307 жыл бұрын
Thank you Frank!
@icecreamlove8417 күн бұрын
what a loving family I can't stop cryinig while watching this.
@lululacanuck38243 ай бұрын
Your family from Granddad and Grandma to both your dads and their respective partners to your aunt and uncle and cousins (?) to your sweet sis are adorable. Wishing you great success with your vlogs. Now I’m going to see how many more you made. lol. Lovely video and great to meet your beautiful family.
@jeanfoos13587 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Thanks for sharing your story. I only knew the very beginning. Looking forward to what's to come!
@szszszsz953954 ай бұрын
You seem well-adjusted and a positive and helpful human. That is what matters.❤
@lorenamorenojimenez83672 ай бұрын
I think the algorithm is showing this video to a lot of people at the moment. Lovely video!❤
@kbsongy7 жыл бұрын
YOUR GRANDPA HAS ME YODELING
@neuroseptember10205 жыл бұрын
Love this! I have gay moms, and I wish more people knew about us.
@BecomingBenSmith5 жыл бұрын
Hi September! Thank you so much for your support. Just preparing to relaunch my channel - would love to hear about your story.
@darkhero7924 жыл бұрын
do you know who are you're biological parents?
@neuroseptember10204 жыл бұрын
@@darkhero792 one of my moms is my biological mom, and I have an anonymous sperm donor who I have never met.
@laibamalik48122 ай бұрын
@@darkhero792Why do you care so much about a stranger's life?
@sm1else5 жыл бұрын
You have an amazing family. How incredible you are for surprising your dads! And OMG I recognize the place that farmers' market is in. My mom worked in that building for a long time when I was a kid. It was the first "skyscraper" (pffftt!) built in that area. It's an interesting place, they're trying to retrofit a walkable urban area into an 80s- style car- based suburb. I am excited to see how it turns out.
@BecomingBenSmith5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much! I'm relaunching my channel soon, have any video ideas for me?
@sm1else5 жыл бұрын
@@BecomingBenSmith You're young and you live in New York. If there's a vlog I would watch it would be yours. Show me bars, restaurants, whatever your thing is. I want to see you having a good time. [Old man voice] If the DC area didn't grow up around me the way it did to become as awesome as it is, I'd have moved to New York. [/Old man voice].
@LillieAmeliaRose7 жыл бұрын
Aw this is so sweet! Thanks for sharing🤗
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lily! Really appreciate it!
@rauhashitenda68664 жыл бұрын
Husband material a family guy so cute , show u love from Namibia
@skywatcher6513 жыл бұрын
It is important to be loved. I am glad that you are deeply loved by your 2 dads. Proud and happy for you all
@ericescher60457 жыл бұрын
True meaning of Love is Love ❤️
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Thank you Eric! What was your favorite part?
@leonardotrassi44257 жыл бұрын
I'm from Brazil and it was cool to see that you Like João Gilberto... Ha ha ha! Great video!
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Joao is my favorite! Bossa Nova is my favorite type of music!
@johninsf19844 жыл бұрын
Love! Love! Love! This video! I am a South American adoptee ..... loved your video and looking forward to seeing me
@bixby4514 жыл бұрын
I was having a bad day and for some reason I ended up watching videos about families with same sex parents and I'm glad I did, I feel happy now :)
@daniellelaplune80507 жыл бұрын
loved this so much!!
@bensmith50307 жыл бұрын
Thank you Danielle! More to come - thanks for the support!
@skiersobolski4 жыл бұрын
Hello Ben, I just suscribed and from the south of France (where it is difficult for the moment), I want to tell you that your video is sweet and well done. So, good luck and be safe.
@bethgriffiths16647 жыл бұрын
Such an amazing message. Love your vibes man c
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Beth! Yes, good vibes only! What was your favorite part?!
@ria71033 жыл бұрын
so you actually have 3 dads you’re so blessed 😭😭😭
@juztina73463 ай бұрын
3 dad and a mom ? If i didnt understand incorrectly
@lilsislaura4 жыл бұрын
Ben your family is so cute!! Great first vid as an introduction vid showing your background:)
@BecomingBenSmith4 жыл бұрын
awww thanks Laura!
@doc2log7 жыл бұрын
Great family and congratulations to your dads!
@latesukiyaki7 жыл бұрын
Just subscribed. Your family just genuinely love each other.
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! I really appreciate you watching. What was your favorite part?
@katireijonen4 жыл бұрын
OMG your family is so cool and you are such a wonderful person Ben
@Lemarcus034 ай бұрын
Pappie & Grandpappie be looking exactly alike, except for the age difference
@claudiadeuchars42257 жыл бұрын
Beautiful family..!!! God bless you all your family!!! Viva la Vida,
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Claudia! What was your favortie part? Viva la vida siempreee!
@jaspermaynard-zhang89586 ай бұрын
Your family's excited reactions to you vlogging are so endearing!
@shaaravsedhu62483 ай бұрын
I am gay guy (19) and yk we dont have see and come across a lot of gay families and see the culture. I hope i can make a family like your fathers and have a child and make my own family with my own fav ppl
@antoinelemarier35674 жыл бұрын
Wonderful. Continue to enjoy your life like that with an awesome family.
@Kkk-jh3yc7 жыл бұрын
So sweet!! 😊
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate it Kiraaa!
@aliasmarg8ta1272 ай бұрын
Your Grandparents are so sweet. Look at his hickey! LOL
@blessed19404 жыл бұрын
Grandparents were so happy to see him.
@chandarussell3 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter who makes up your family as long as you have family.
@SnackMuay7 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOUR WHOLE FAMILY
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I love your positivity! Please share and subscribe and spread the love! :)
@Adrian-xl8mr7 жыл бұрын
Your family is too sweet. Great video!
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Adrian! What was your favorite part?!
@vickydaniel10147 жыл бұрын
This Is So Awesome Thank for Sharing.
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Vicky! What was your favorite part? Did you want my dad's wedding video!?
@szszszsz953954 ай бұрын
How do you distinguish between your 2 dads when they're in the same room? Is one called Pap or another name other than Dad?😊
@losangeles98533 ай бұрын
So sweet!💗
@malloryemclaren3 ай бұрын
How’s this channel not have way more subscribers?
@Strangeldad7 жыл бұрын
Great video ben keep it up!!
@Serenemind.135Ай бұрын
Love this
@kingpuppet58812 ай бұрын
So did the other dad marry a woman? As long as everyone is happy who cares. Love is love.
@louisdewit4429Ай бұрын
I was flabbergasted. Perhaps bi. Tried the man/man part first, separated and now do ‘the other’ side. Just wonder if that dad knew about his bi part being young. Interesting. 🤔
@moulcode Жыл бұрын
great family great ben love your vlogss
@The_Black_Caps4 ай бұрын
Ur family is absolutely adorable dude ❤❤
@kbsongy7 жыл бұрын
T H E G E N E S
@MichelZongo-q3r25 күн бұрын
This was absolutely amazing m
@crystalkroberts5 жыл бұрын
My heart is full! Love my family!
@cailindubh3 ай бұрын
Awh myron is so cute
@theouroboros11114 жыл бұрын
Tears! Omg so sweet 💗🌈☺️
@sulemanmakhani5 жыл бұрын
So cute, made my heart warm
@lingeringquestions5197 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you can make this video.
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuu! What was your favorite part?
@lingeringquestions5197 жыл бұрын
At about eight minutes, when you give them stuff, his little monologue after, the will jokes, and the fathers day visit.
@nihilisticnirvana3 ай бұрын
Everyone's so kind
@kbsongy7 жыл бұрын
Your meme level is off the charts, Ben. You're doing your grandfather proud...
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching my videos Kitten!!! Wow, really appreciate it!
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
What does off the chart meme level mean? hahahaa
@kbsongy7 жыл бұрын
That your jokes are unrivalled
@kbsongy7 жыл бұрын
That's what i meant at least ahaha
@jeromefitzroy4 ай бұрын
Love knows no bounds
@SuccessOlemeforoАй бұрын
Wow I would have love to know what courses the split
@SuccessOlemeforoАй бұрын
Plss can’t you give me a hint of what course the split that made he got married to a woman , my reason for asking is bcos of my self
@ria71033 жыл бұрын
you are so loved 🥺
@mabelsmith91877 жыл бұрын
really nice video!!!!!!!
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@Xii_josh3 ай бұрын
I am really confused why is your other dad married a other boy?? 🤔🤔🤔
@Asa...S3 ай бұрын
Probably because they fell in love!
@theanon59063 жыл бұрын
this is such a cute family. wish you the best
@ForTheLoveOfMike5 жыл бұрын
I know I'm late but just wanted to say what a beautiful family you have 💙
@andikybanez26153 ай бұрын
HI DUDE..IM YOUR AVID FAN FROM THE PHILIPPINES....
@petershen73934 ай бұрын
you are all set! you are in his will! LOL LOL LOL
@ams75285 жыл бұрын
New subscriber here! You are amazing!
@juztina73463 ай бұрын
Very complicated modern family even for my complicated mind to unddrstand 😅 but glad that you survive
@rainiergutierrez962Ай бұрын
Mucg love from the Philippines ❤🇵🇭
@denniscampeau65774 ай бұрын
❤ love is always the right thing to do!
@josephval55934 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful ♥
@montana196963 жыл бұрын
This sooo cute and beautiful!!!
@TheBoyfriendChannel7 жыл бұрын
Hey Ben! I like your channel. When are you going to be posting more videos?
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'll be posting new videos late december! Stay tuned!
@loretxiki3 жыл бұрын
What a heartwarming and cute family
@mrsTraveller643 ай бұрын
Interesting, I allways wondered what the outcome would be once the kids of gay-couples grew up, at least in your case it seems you have had a good life so far, and with the split-up between your dads you even gained two more nice,loving people in your life❤
@rosmeryoniyemaya16064 жыл бұрын
O M G this is the wholome and boutifoul vidio! 😊😊 i have 2 uncles and are gay 💕and i respet that cuz im bisexual
@Jayakodic4vАй бұрын
God bless u son and your to fathers
@LongDistanceCall113 ай бұрын
how sweet 🥰
@ravenna99697 жыл бұрын
adorable new sub
@BecomingBenSmith7 жыл бұрын
Thank you RavennaBonet! Hope you enjoyed it, do you have a favorite part?
@sanusiyousuf64922 ай бұрын
Wonderful family
@kazehayaryoji31453 ай бұрын
Where's the other dad? They one that adopted him
@billsmith61607 жыл бұрын
Next blog hire hair stylist for Smith Dad
@pandagaoel2 ай бұрын
Ur dad looked like Richard Gere.
@nonthawatsuklerd46765 жыл бұрын
I wish I had two daddy
@elvespresley22823 жыл бұрын
Your 2 dads broke up? Omgg
@juztina73463 ай бұрын
At 5 year old apparently and has new partner that last much longer than that..😅
@Ingodwetrust1233 ай бұрын
Is the other dad alone? He seems so sweet
@juztina73463 ай бұрын
@@Ingodwetrust123 both got partner .. then again this video is 7 years ago