I surprised my 2 gay dads on Father's Day!

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Becoming Ben Smith

Becoming Ben Smith

Күн бұрын

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@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, I can't believe how many views this video has now. The comments are so touching, thank you so so much.
@limolnar
@limolnar 4 ай бұрын
How are things now?
@millyabster
@millyabster 3 ай бұрын
I can't believe that I'm finding this video only after 7 years, I absolutely enjoined your video and you have such a great family
@itzchip._.
@itzchip._. 3 ай бұрын
hmmm, lemme guess, did you got recommended the "growing up with two dads" vid?
@millyabster
@millyabster 3 ай бұрын
@@itzchip._. yess that was the first video that I saw from him
@stevewu1920
@stevewu1920 2 ай бұрын
me too, why KZbin didn’t show this video to me earlier, damn!
@michellew5072
@michellew5072 2 ай бұрын
Me too. Just saw it today
@kbsongy
@kbsongy 7 жыл бұрын
"You open your heart and you get the kid you're supposed to have" Wish my dad had a similar outlook. Your family is beautiful
@zekebanister865
@zekebanister865 5 жыл бұрын
You wish your Dad was a homosexual? Um...better not tell him that
@safehaven8895
@safehaven8895 4 жыл бұрын
@Zeke Banister No. They meant that their dad saw things the way they did.
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Kitten, thank you so much for the kind words and for watching and supporting us. This is what keeps me going.
@DeanAllman
@DeanAllman 6 жыл бұрын
I grew up right next door to your grandparents and Dad and Aunt. They are wonderful people . What a treat to see them! Thanks for posting!
@jordancastillo4631
@jordancastillo4631 7 жыл бұрын
You have such a unique family, glad to see a family like this. Love, Peace
@sonyk2542
@sonyk2542 5 жыл бұрын
Zeke Banister Whys that?
@zekebanister865
@zekebanister865 5 жыл бұрын
Sammy, only for one obvious reason to anyone with a modicum of common sense. In a best case scenario chidren should be raised by one man and one woman. Each sex brings something to the equation that that the other cannot thus helping the child, or children in question. Yeah...not difficult concept for us to wrap our minds around my friend.
@user-sg4ov7ng4h
@user-sg4ov7ng4h 3 ай бұрын
@@zekebanister865 what told you that? surely not science and personal experiences. pretty sure people live good if they have good parents, something straight parents struggle to even do, i guess its so easy to have children for them they dont wish it enough and dont work enough for their children
@laibamalik4812
@laibamalik4812 2 ай бұрын
​@@zekebanister865There are some extremely awfully raised kids of straight parents, they teach their kids to be bullies, to be abusive, not all straight parents are good parents just because they are straight😐 While there are some extremely incredible people raised by gay parents, in fact, the kids raised by gay parents are usually a lot more sweet and tolerant than the ones raised by straight parents because their gay parents know what it feels like to be bullied and discriminated, so your pea-brained answer is absolutely stupid☺Maybe have some "common sense"️ yourself idiot☺️
@laibamalik4812
@laibamalik4812 2 ай бұрын
​@@zekebanister865There are some extremely awfully raised kids of straight parents, they teach their kids to be bullies, to be abusive, not all straight parents are good parents just because they are straight😐 While there are some extremely incredible people raised by gay parents, in fact, the kids raised by gay parents are usually a lot more sweet and tolerant than the ones raised by straight parents because their gay parents know what it feels like to be bullied and discriminated, so your pea-brained answer is absolutely stupid☺Maybe have some "common sense"️ yourself instead of preaching others☺️
@katabatics831
@katabatics831 2 ай бұрын
I cried when dad said there are many ways to be a father and there are many kids who want a father.
@LimAmli
@LimAmli 3 жыл бұрын
Why did took me 4 years found this? It's AMAZING
@-ydxmiqi
@-ydxmiqi 3 ай бұрын
It took me 7, you’re luckier
@Sarah-b7r3g
@Sarah-b7r3g 2 ай бұрын
Ben you have no idea how many people out there would die to have a family like yours: so much love and support❤thank you for the video🙏
@victoriagoingforit6183
@victoriagoingforit6183 3 ай бұрын
Gosh, you have an absolutely fabulous family. How lucky are you? They are lucky to have you too cuz you're a good son to surprise everybody and spend time with your family. So sweet. Loved this.
@lifeofahooligan3357
@lifeofahooligan3357 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!! I was also adopted, but by two moms, and they got “divorced” (before it was legal to get married in the first place) when I was younger, and they each have new partners now. And I have an older sister who was adopted from China. Just subbed. 😁💖
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! What an amazing story. Would love to hear more some day. Thanks so much for sharing and watching. :)
@lifeofahooligan3357
@lifeofahooligan3357 4 жыл бұрын
Becoming Ben Smith I will probably make some adoption related videos in the future!! 😁
@bromleyborzell8404
@bromleyborzell8404 3 жыл бұрын
ur grandpa talking about the hickey is so sooo funny omg
@allisonmcpherson7869
@allisonmcpherson7869 2 ай бұрын
What a wonderful loving families you have! This video answered my questions. I enjoyed watching it.
@tanyabrown6969
@tanyabrown6969 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you for saying you had your ups and downs, because that's more realistic than claiming it was all gum drops and rainbows ...because by design, no family is.
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Yes, Tanya! You are right!
@BehindThe5
@BehindThe5 5 жыл бұрын
Ben, this was such a beautiful video and really well done!! I was beaming the whole time :) Thank you for sharing your story - it’s inspiring!
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you for watching Lily, means a lot!
@KoreanAmericanbaby
@KoreanAmericanbaby 2 ай бұрын
What a beautiful family!! You are so lucky to have 2 dads who love you more than anything!! Good luck to you, and thanks for sharing your story!
@CleberLirio
@CleberLirio 7 жыл бұрын
From Brazil... I am love with your modern family! Thanks for sharing... its so inspiring...
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching Cleber! I love Brazil and Brigadiero. share with the people of Brazil for me!
@latefordinner4513
@latefordinner4513 5 жыл бұрын
I love how the whole family jokes around so freely with everyone and how non pc they are
@frankwicks3072
@frankwicks3072 7 жыл бұрын
Absolutely fantastic! Ben is a genius and a beautiful human being.
@bensmith5030
@bensmith5030 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Frank!
@icecreamlove84
@icecreamlove84 17 күн бұрын
what a loving family I can't stop cryinig while watching this.
@lululacanuck3824
@lululacanuck3824 3 ай бұрын
Your family from Granddad and Grandma to both your dads and their respective partners to your aunt and uncle and cousins (?) to your sweet sis are adorable. Wishing you great success with your vlogs. Now I’m going to see how many more you made. lol. Lovely video and great to meet your beautiful family.
@jeanfoos1358
@jeanfoos1358 7 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Thanks for sharing your story. I only knew the very beginning. Looking forward to what's to come!
@szszszsz95395
@szszszsz95395 4 ай бұрын
You seem well-adjusted and a positive and helpful human. That is what matters.❤
@lorenamorenojimenez8367
@lorenamorenojimenez8367 2 ай бұрын
I think the algorithm is showing this video to a lot of people at the moment. Lovely video!❤
@kbsongy
@kbsongy 7 жыл бұрын
YOUR GRANDPA HAS ME YODELING
@neuroseptember1020
@neuroseptember1020 5 жыл бұрын
Love this! I have gay moms, and I wish more people knew about us.
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 5 жыл бұрын
Hi September! Thank you so much for your support. Just preparing to relaunch my channel - would love to hear about your story.
@darkhero792
@darkhero792 4 жыл бұрын
do you know who are you're biological parents?
@neuroseptember1020
@neuroseptember1020 4 жыл бұрын
@@darkhero792 one of my moms is my biological mom, and I have an anonymous sperm donor who I have never met.
@laibamalik4812
@laibamalik4812 2 ай бұрын
​@@darkhero792Why do you care so much about a stranger's life?
@sm1else
@sm1else 5 жыл бұрын
You have an amazing family. How incredible you are for surprising your dads! And OMG I recognize the place that farmers' market is in. My mom worked in that building for a long time when I was a kid. It was the first "skyscraper" (pffftt!) built in that area. It's an interesting place, they're trying to retrofit a walkable urban area into an 80s- style car- based suburb. I am excited to see how it turns out.
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much! I'm relaunching my channel soon, have any video ideas for me?
@sm1else
@sm1else 5 жыл бұрын
@@BecomingBenSmith You're young and you live in New York. If there's a vlog I would watch it would be yours. Show me bars, restaurants, whatever your thing is. I want to see you having a good time. [Old man voice] If the DC area didn't grow up around me the way it did to become as awesome as it is, I'd have moved to New York. [/Old man voice].
@LillieAmeliaRose
@LillieAmeliaRose 7 жыл бұрын
Aw this is so sweet! Thanks for sharing🤗
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lily! Really appreciate it!
@rauhashitenda6866
@rauhashitenda6866 4 жыл бұрын
Husband material a family guy so cute , show u love from Namibia
@skywatcher651
@skywatcher651 3 жыл бұрын
It is important to be loved. I am glad that you are deeply loved by your 2 dads. Proud and happy for you all
@ericescher6045
@ericescher6045 7 жыл бұрын
True meaning of Love is Love ❤️
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Thank you Eric! What was your favorite part?
@leonardotrassi4425
@leonardotrassi4425 7 жыл бұрын
I'm from Brazil and it was cool to see that you Like João Gilberto... Ha ha ha! Great video!
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Joao is my favorite! Bossa Nova is my favorite type of music!
@johninsf1984
@johninsf1984 4 жыл бұрын
Love! Love! Love! This video! I am a South American adoptee ..... loved your video and looking forward to seeing me
@bixby451
@bixby451 4 жыл бұрын
I was having a bad day and for some reason I ended up watching videos about families with same sex parents and I'm glad I did, I feel happy now :)
@daniellelaplune8050
@daniellelaplune8050 7 жыл бұрын
loved this so much!!
@bensmith5030
@bensmith5030 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Danielle! More to come - thanks for the support!
@skiersobolski
@skiersobolski 4 жыл бұрын
Hello Ben, I just suscribed and from the south of France (where it is difficult for the moment), I want to tell you that your video is sweet and well done. So, good luck and be safe.
@bethgriffiths1664
@bethgriffiths1664 7 жыл бұрын
Such an amazing message. Love your vibes man c
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Beth! Yes, good vibes only! What was your favorite part?!
@ria7103
@ria7103 3 жыл бұрын
so you actually have 3 dads you’re so blessed 😭😭😭
@juztina7346
@juztina7346 3 ай бұрын
3 dad and a mom ? If i didnt understand incorrectly
@lilsislaura
@lilsislaura 4 жыл бұрын
Ben your family is so cute!! Great first vid as an introduction vid showing your background:)
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 4 жыл бұрын
awww thanks Laura!
@doc2log
@doc2log 7 жыл бұрын
Great family and congratulations to your dads!
@latesukiyaki
@latesukiyaki 7 жыл бұрын
Just subscribed. Your family just genuinely love each other.
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! I really appreciate you watching. What was your favorite part?
@katireijonen
@katireijonen 4 жыл бұрын
OMG your family is so cool and you are such a wonderful person Ben
@Lemarcus03
@Lemarcus03 4 ай бұрын
Pappie & Grandpappie be looking exactly alike, except for the age difference
@claudiadeuchars4225
@claudiadeuchars4225 7 жыл бұрын
Beautiful family..!!! God bless you all your family!!! Viva la Vida,
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Claudia! What was your favortie part? Viva la vida siempreee!
@jaspermaynard-zhang8958
@jaspermaynard-zhang8958 6 ай бұрын
Your family's excited reactions to you vlogging are so endearing!
@shaaravsedhu6248
@shaaravsedhu6248 3 ай бұрын
I am gay guy (19) and yk we dont have see and come across a lot of gay families and see the culture. I hope i can make a family like your fathers and have a child and make my own family with my own fav ppl
@antoinelemarier3567
@antoinelemarier3567 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful. Continue to enjoy your life like that with an awesome family.
@Kkk-jh3yc
@Kkk-jh3yc 7 жыл бұрын
So sweet!! 😊
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate it Kiraaa!
@aliasmarg8ta127
@aliasmarg8ta127 2 ай бұрын
Your Grandparents are so sweet. Look at his hickey! LOL
@blessed1940
@blessed1940 4 жыл бұрын
Grandparents were so happy to see him.
@chandarussell
@chandarussell 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter who makes up your family as long as you have family.
@SnackMuay
@SnackMuay 7 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOUR WHOLE FAMILY
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I love your positivity! Please share and subscribe and spread the love! :)
@Adrian-xl8mr
@Adrian-xl8mr 7 жыл бұрын
Your family is too sweet. Great video!
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Adrian! What was your favorite part?!
@vickydaniel1014
@vickydaniel1014 7 жыл бұрын
This Is So Awesome Thank for Sharing.
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Vicky! What was your favorite part? Did you want my dad's wedding video!?
@szszszsz95395
@szszszsz95395 4 ай бұрын
How do you distinguish between your 2 dads when they're in the same room? Is one called Pap or another name other than Dad?😊
@losangeles9853
@losangeles9853 3 ай бұрын
So sweet!💗
@malloryemclaren
@malloryemclaren 3 ай бұрын
How’s this channel not have way more subscribers?
@Strangeldad
@Strangeldad 7 жыл бұрын
Great video ben keep it up!!
@Serenemind.135
@Serenemind.135 Ай бұрын
Love this
@kingpuppet5881
@kingpuppet5881 2 ай бұрын
So did the other dad marry a woman? As long as everyone is happy who cares. Love is love.
@louisdewit4429
@louisdewit4429 Ай бұрын
I was flabbergasted. Perhaps bi. Tried the man/man part first, separated and now do ‘the other’ side. Just wonder if that dad knew about his bi part being young. Interesting. 🤔
@moulcode
@moulcode Жыл бұрын
great family great ben love your vlogss
@The_Black_Caps
@The_Black_Caps 4 ай бұрын
Ur family is absolutely adorable dude ❤❤
@kbsongy
@kbsongy 7 жыл бұрын
T H E G E N E S
@MichelZongo-q3r
@MichelZongo-q3r 25 күн бұрын
This was absolutely amazing m
@crystalkroberts
@crystalkroberts 5 жыл бұрын
My heart is full! Love my family!
@cailindubh
@cailindubh 3 ай бұрын
Awh myron is so cute
@theouroboros1111
@theouroboros1111 4 жыл бұрын
Tears! Omg so sweet 💗🌈☺️
@sulemanmakhani
@sulemanmakhani 5 жыл бұрын
So cute, made my heart warm
@lingeringquestions519
@lingeringquestions519 7 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you can make this video.
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuu! What was your favorite part?
@lingeringquestions519
@lingeringquestions519 7 жыл бұрын
At about eight minutes, when you give them stuff, his little monologue after, the will jokes, and the fathers day visit.
@nihilisticnirvana
@nihilisticnirvana 3 ай бұрын
Everyone's so kind
@kbsongy
@kbsongy 7 жыл бұрын
Your meme level is off the charts, Ben. You're doing your grandfather proud...
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching my videos Kitten!!! Wow, really appreciate it!
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
What does off the chart meme level mean? hahahaa
@kbsongy
@kbsongy 7 жыл бұрын
That your jokes are unrivalled
@kbsongy
@kbsongy 7 жыл бұрын
That's what i meant at least ahaha
@jeromefitzroy
@jeromefitzroy 4 ай бұрын
Love knows no bounds
@SuccessOlemeforo
@SuccessOlemeforo Ай бұрын
Wow I would have love to know what courses the split
@SuccessOlemeforo
@SuccessOlemeforo Ай бұрын
Plss can’t you give me a hint of what course the split that made he got married to a woman , my reason for asking is bcos of my self
@ria7103
@ria7103 3 жыл бұрын
you are so loved 🥺
@mabelsmith9187
@mabelsmith9187 7 жыл бұрын
really nice video!!!!!!!
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@Xii_josh
@Xii_josh 3 ай бұрын
I am really confused why is your other dad married a other boy?? 🤔🤔🤔
@Asa...S
@Asa...S 3 ай бұрын
Probably because they fell in love!
@theanon5906
@theanon5906 3 жыл бұрын
this is such a cute family. wish you the best
@ForTheLoveOfMike
@ForTheLoveOfMike 5 жыл бұрын
I know I'm late but just wanted to say what a beautiful family you have 💙
@andikybanez2615
@andikybanez2615 3 ай бұрын
HI DUDE..IM YOUR AVID FAN FROM THE PHILIPPINES....
@petershen7393
@petershen7393 4 ай бұрын
you are all set! you are in his will! LOL LOL LOL
@ams7528
@ams7528 5 жыл бұрын
New subscriber here! You are amazing!
@juztina7346
@juztina7346 3 ай бұрын
Very complicated modern family even for my complicated mind to unddrstand 😅 but glad that you survive
@rainiergutierrez962
@rainiergutierrez962 Ай бұрын
Mucg love from the Philippines ❤🇵🇭
@denniscampeau6577
@denniscampeau6577 4 ай бұрын
❤ love is always the right thing to do!
@josephval5593
@josephval5593 4 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful ♥
@montana19696
@montana19696 3 жыл бұрын
This sooo cute and beautiful!!!
@TheBoyfriendChannel
@TheBoyfriendChannel 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Ben! I like your channel. When are you going to be posting more videos?
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'll be posting new videos late december! Stay tuned!
@loretxiki
@loretxiki 3 жыл бұрын
What a heartwarming and cute family
@mrsTraveller64
@mrsTraveller64 3 ай бұрын
Interesting, I allways wondered what the outcome would be once the kids of gay-couples grew up, at least in your case it seems you have had a good life so far, and with the split-up between your dads you even gained two more nice,loving people in your life❤
@rosmeryoniyemaya1606
@rosmeryoniyemaya1606 4 жыл бұрын
O M G this is the wholome and boutifoul vidio! 😊😊 i have 2 uncles and are gay 💕and i respet that cuz im bisexual
@Jayakodic4v
@Jayakodic4v Ай бұрын
God bless u son and your to fathers
@LongDistanceCall11
@LongDistanceCall11 3 ай бұрын
how sweet 🥰
@ravenna9969
@ravenna9969 7 жыл бұрын
adorable new sub
@BecomingBenSmith
@BecomingBenSmith 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you RavennaBonet! Hope you enjoyed it, do you have a favorite part?
@sanusiyousuf6492
@sanusiyousuf6492 2 ай бұрын
Wonderful family
@kazehayaryoji3145
@kazehayaryoji3145 3 ай бұрын
Where's the other dad? They one that adopted him
@billsmith6160
@billsmith6160 7 жыл бұрын
Next blog hire hair stylist for Smith Dad
@pandagaoel
@pandagaoel 2 ай бұрын
Ur dad looked like Richard Gere.
@nonthawatsuklerd4676
@nonthawatsuklerd4676 5 жыл бұрын
I wish I had two daddy
@elvespresley2282
@elvespresley2282 3 жыл бұрын
Your 2 dads broke up? Omgg
@juztina7346
@juztina7346 3 ай бұрын
At 5 year old apparently and has new partner that last much longer than that..😅
@Ingodwetrust123
@Ingodwetrust123 3 ай бұрын
Is the other dad alone? He seems so sweet
@juztina7346
@juztina7346 3 ай бұрын
@@Ingodwetrust123 both got partner .. then again this video is 7 years ago
@KryCaNe
@KryCaNe 2 ай бұрын
This is so nice.
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