I thought I was pregnant | IUI #2 failure & aftermath

[@maryesquilin2526]

Hi from NYC, after five miscarriages, I was able to finally have my daughter who’s 21 years old. I beg you to be please do not give up, God will provide! 🙏🏼❤️

[@normmansor1313]

True story. My wife and I were married four years and we were trying for a baby for the longest time. IUI failed multiple times. So we went to a different gynaecologist. This particular gynaecologist suggested my wife correct the position of her uterus, which was retroverted. Something apparently 1 out 5 women (at least in my country) have. She did and a month later she was pregnant with our first. 11 months after our eldest was born she was pregnant again with our second child. So, in her case it was a case of having a retroverted uterus. That also contributed to her having to live with endometriosis for many many years. Correcting the position of her uterus not only helped her conceive, it also solved her endometriosis problem as well. Am not saying it's a guarantee. Nothing is, and every medical condition is unique to each individual. But never stop exhausting all avenues. You'll get there, as we did, eventually. Have faith.

[@monikasmykla534]

May i ask how did she corrected it?

[@normmansor1313]

@@monikasmykla534 surgical procedure. Not very major but under general anaesthesia. Overnight for one night at the hospital and she was ok to go home the next evening.

[@lestrouvaillesdejujuetnana3324]

Bonjour comment a t'elle fait pour corriger la position de son uterus j'ai le même souci ? J'ai aussi de l'endométriose

[@AllThingsJadene]

I’m so sorry that you guys are going through this thank you for the vulnerability and sharing his soul. Everybody else who is experiencing this knows that they are not alone even though this is a difficult process for you and your husband. I will definitely keep you in my prayers.

[@SavvySmiles11]

I know I’m just some random person on the internet. But I am following you in this journey and through all these ups and downs. I am tearing up. I partially understand what it’s like to deal with infertility and it’s way more difficult than anyone can imagine. Praying for you 💕

[@ginnithegreat5559]

You have a community with us here, we are waving our pompoms and praying for you and AJ. Reading all of the comments made me tear up all over again, as women we feel such deep empathy for other women’s challenges and it’s amazing to see how many lovely people care and are a part of your journey ❤

[@yougorgeousmonster]

Rachel, I see you and am so sorry you’re having to go through this. The journey is exhausting. Praying for strength for you as you move into the next cycle.

[@jennyhorton1118]

A court of thorns and roses is a series that gets better and better each book!! Seriously my favorite series ever and it took me two tries to get through the first book. Slow start but by the time you hit the second book your hooked! Reading is how I get through my infertility journey and Sarah j. Maas does an amazing job of taking your mind off all the stress it is to experience the highs and lows.

[@jahazielmelchor5270]

I am praying for you Rachel, stay strong ❤

[@AREEYAWNA]

As a long time watcher I can tell that this has you very down. I know I’m a stranger but I hope you aren’t too hard on yourself. This isn’t your fault and I promise you are doing all you can. Keep your head up and lean on God, even if it seems like He isn’t listening, He is. Ily!!!!!

[@tatjanaraison8940]

I think it's so brave of you to share this journey, I'm sure it's helping a lot of women. Sending you lots of love❤

[@luvinglife1854]

Oh Rachel I started crying watching you, reliving my own experience with infertility. Such a hard struggle. Grieve is all we can do while going through this, trying to remember to hand it over to God each and every month. Much love to you and AJ

[@jenniferfulford5257]

I'm sorry

[@jessssalemme]

I’m not even going through this and i am getting emotional watching this! Rooting for you ❤

[@michellebraddock6671]

My heart…I’m crying and praying with you. I am so sorry! I would 1000% please look into the severe cramping, it’s NOT normal. I worked for OBGYN/infertility specialist and women often think its common because we have been told that for years, but its not…please find a doctor that will look into it and listen to those concerns and not “fluff” it off! ❤ Sending some much love.

[@myers19761]

SENDING PRAYERS YOUR WAY Rachel ❤❤❤❤

[@jennyhorton1118]

It’s the progesterone suppositories!! They gave me extreme cramping every day! Plus basically all symptoms of pregnancy. Bloating, nausea, breast sensitivity and I went up a full cup size. Nothing more devastating that going through all these not fun symptoms and then not even being pregnant. I really hope the next cycle is better for you!

[@bobbih2022]

Don't give up Rachel. Take time to heal but don't lose hope. Praying for you (and myself lol. I just completed a 4th failed IVF but won't give up on my dream to have a family).

[@glencoco3142]

I have awful period pain like you do (and sometimes pain at random parts of my cycle). It took 15 years for me to get diagnosed with endometriosis. Blood tests, transvaginal ultrasounds, smear tests etc showed nothing. Doctors dont ever seem to explore further than that. They want something quick to diagnose. I had to fight for a laparoscopy. Which then lead to being diagnosed finally with endo. I then had to have surgery to remove excess tissue. Not sure why your pain is so bad but want to encourage you to keep pushing the doctors and asking for help. X

[@loredanab]

Praying for u guys and so sorry that you have to go through this… I understand the feelings and also when you film yourself and the tests are negativ I don’t feel alone … you are helping us also … we are in this TTC journey for 2,8 years now and 3 miscarriages already… we found out some stuff that I have and hoped for the best after that but I had another miscarriage at 6 weeks this time and had to go and stay in the hospital for a while … in there I met such a beautiful old lady who was so sweet and encouraged me to never ever give up…. And then I thought if my mother had done that me and my brothers would not me here… she tried and miscarried a lot for 8 years … Never give up Rachel …. ❤ we keep you in our prayers and our hearts 💕

[@becsullivan4802]

I was diagnosed with endo 2 years ago and my periods used to be like this as well - had to take days off work, I was on super strong painkillers, would have to sit on the floor of my clinic Csuse I couldn’t move, migraines. Periods shouldn’t be like this and you shouldn’t have to experience bouts like this. Please seek out a good gynaecologist who can explore this with you. I had the surgery to confirm and it’s life changing. Thinking of you so much during this time ❤️❤️

[@clareboussin5222]

Rachel, I really believe God has something great in store for you and Aj. I’m praying you get your positive soon! ❤

[@SofiaAbrantes]

Oh goodness 💔 Rachel my heart started racing with yours when you started seeing the line, even though the title said all that needed to be said. Enough people cannot comment how important you sharing this journey is to those who feel alone. Sending you so, so much love 💕

[@maddylovesgood]

Continuing to pray for you!! I truly believe god will give you all that you desire.

[@morganic989]

I’ve been following on this journey from the beginning. This was heartbreaking. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that everything God has for us is for our good. But I know you know that is truth! However your journey ends, we know that He is using you for His glory and for your good!

[@lifeaslindsey6229]

going through this journey with you Rach ❤ it’s such an emotional roller coaster. i pray for this baby for both of us and i can’t wait until they are in our arms

[@erniewornie]

Rach hun, I am almost 38 and am at the same stage as you. When I got my period last week, ooof I broke, so know this, you are not alone and you got this *hugs*❤

[@brittanym6981]

I’ve been following your journey and it has been very comforting as my husband and I have been dealing with this for a year and are now in the process of prep for IVF. ❤ stay strong girl! We are in this together.

[@charlottewestphal914]

Rachel, as someone that was diagnosed with Endometriosis when I was 19 (I’m 24 now) I can tell you that intense period pain is NOT normal ❤️. So many of us are being dismissed, by doctors telling us that that’s the way it is for women and we have to accept that but we DON’T 😭! Pleas talk to your OB about this, especially with your struggles to conceive. I know how hard this might be but even just the knowledge of having a diagnosis is so helpful and relieving. (She says, lying on the sofa with her heating pad and bad period cramps 🥲)

[@RachelVinn]

Thank you💜💜 did you do the surgery to diagnose it?

[@MissVBeauty02]

I had a dear friend do the surgery and she had 2 healthy baby boys soon after.

[@michellegilbert2014]

​@RachelVinn I found your videos today and so thankful I subscribed to you literally an hour ago wanting to know the outcome of your second IUI. I've been trying for 2 years and about to start this journey. I also had endo and had an op to confirm and remove. I feel your pain and are with you. What I loved most about you was your faith!!!! God will not fail us ❤

[@curlyvassa]

i have endometriosis as well! AND i had a “chocolate” cyst, that is apparently can cause infertility… basically i was diagnosed with endometriosis when my OB made couple of ultrasounds. and i’ve never ever received any recommendations how to deal with pains that i have. until one day i went to ER with the most horrific stomachache i’ve ever had in my life. and they did an x-ray with contrast and found a cyst 2,5 sm on my ovary. my OB was like, it’s okay, if it doesn’t bother you too much, you can live with it and try to conceive for a year with it as well. i went to visit my family in my homecountry, and went to OB there. and doctor told me it’s almost impossible to conceive with it and it’s also dangerous bc it can rupture. so i did a laparoscopic surgery, and doctors told me after, that cyst was a little ruptured already, bc i had a little bit of blood inside of my stomach… i don’t have crazy painful periods anymore. it’s still painful, but at least i can stand and walk now 👍 so i totally agree with Charlotte, talk to your doctor, endometriosis is a very common problem that can cause a lot of other problems …. ps (my doctor that performed surgery told me that i might get pregnant soon, bc the cyst was a big issue. i tried to get pregnant with it for 6 months.. and also i have only 7 months to get pregnant before the cyst grows back 👀 love being a woman hahaha)

[@darinapetrovsky8450]

Same!

[@malainaw]

Praying that the lord sends you comfort and healing ❤

[@tonyam1124]

Im so sorry. Ive done 3 IUI and no luck. I took a preg test too early after my IUI and it was pos but it was just the hcg from the hormones i injected. My dr warned me not to take one but i was just to anxious. I hope u get ur miracle baby. Im still trying.

[@wam6465]

God is good Rachel ….. you got this 🙏🏻

[@busiswamgcotyelwa862]

I cried watching this vlog, when you said you see a second line I literally started crying out “OMG Rachel!” Reapeatedly, Didn’t even think about the caption at that point. I’m so sorry Rachel💔

[@louchavez9420]

Hey Rachel, I hope you're hanging in there. I want you to know that I truly understand how tough it is to face those discouraging results. Remember, you're not alone on this journey-I've been in your shoes too. I wanted to share something that really helped me through my own waiting period. It's a verse from Habakkuk 2:3: "Put it in writing, because it is not yet time for it to come true. But the time is coming quickly, and what I show you will come true. It may seem slow in coming, but wait for it; it will certainly take place, and it will not be delayed." This verse has been a source of comfort for me, and I believe it holds a beautiful message of hope. You know what's incredible? The moment I found peace and entrusted everything to the Lord, along with my heartfelt prayers, His miraculous plan started to unfold. It might not feel like it now, but His timing is always perfect. Keep holding on, Rachel. Just like the promise in Jeremiah 29:11 says, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope." Embrace these words and let them fill you with positivity and strength. Sending you love, prayers, and a reminder that brighter days are ahead. 🌟❤

[@ANYANYY]

Hi from Greece! I’m in the stage like you. We start thinking that IVF is the only option for us . I have a retroverted uterus and both fallopian tubes with hydrosalpinx😢 Let’s stay strong!!!❤

[@christinelett4355]

Rachel, I’m am sorry you are going through this!! I am praying for relief of symptoms and a healthy pregnancy when it is your time ❤️ And it will be your time one day❤️

[@tinylocanena]

I’m so happy that I began following you. I am also going through infertility. I have one fallopian tube and it’s also blocked. I also have scar tissue due to abdominal surgeries. I have started acupuncture!!! Hoping and praying this works.

[@kayleenrosenberry]

I’m so sorry Rachel. Praying for you. And light hearted note- the ACOTAR series has become my entire personality. I LOVE THEM! And I was the same as you I thoroughly enjoyed the first book. And then just you wait it gets FANTASTIC 🙌🏼🤩🤩🤩

[@alexathena568]

Stumbled upon your channel recently and am praying so hard for you and your husband 🙏🏼❤️ Stay strong

[@miaelizabethbaard1322]

Just trust his way of things, and just keep on praying, I felt so sorry for you when you were in sooo much pain, sending love and hugs

[@shayshay80808]

Sending love, prayers and positive vibes your way. 🫶🏾

[@lauranewey4008]

Psalm 113 - Read to the end - it's what's keeping me going after 3 1/2 years trying - Please don't lose hope girl - My thoughts and prayers are with you, The Lord is good xx

[@shanimalka1216]

I'm sorry to hear, I understand you. I'm in a situation similar to yours. I've been trying to get pregnant for over a year. i must say that you that yours videos are so brave and help me understand that I'm not alone.

[@boneshakauhaahaa]

I am so sorry you are going through this. Every emotion you feel is valid. This fertility journey can be so hard and frustrating. My Husband and I are considering IUI as well. I’m our fertility coaching program we’ve learned about other potential reasons we aren’t getting pregnant/implanting correctly. I am being tested for other factors such as parasitic infection, bacteria overgrowth, etc. I was so surprised to learn about this since none of my other doctors had mentioned it. Maybe if you haven’t already, might be something to consider? Sending you all the love, prayers and baby dust! 💕

[@colleenrichardson5339]

I just recently found your channel and I LOVE YOU❤ I have been struggling too to get pregnant.. It will happen for us!!❤

[@Sarahrollinger]

I’m so sorry Rachel. My second IUI also failed. We were going to do our 3rd this month but the ultrasound tech said this morning I likely have too many follicles. My doctor is supposed to call later today to confirm if we have to cancel. This journey is so heartbreaking and I feel your pain ❤

[@Justme_elizabeth]

So sorry to hear this Rachel. You are so strong. I have stage 4 endometriosis diagnosed via lap. The cramping etc is very bad and definitely like you described. I have to take cocodomol, Mefanamic acid and oral morphine when on my period to try relieve the pain. Endo can cause infertility and blocked tubes. However, there is a treatment lap excision and it would unstuck the bad tissue, adhesions and clear the tubes. Might be worth you looking for an endo specialist and doing some research and there is obviously an issue and I guarantee it’s endometriosis. I would send you flowers if I could. Sending love and prayers x

[@lissetsanchez5316]

Rachel just said a prayer for you. Thank you for the transparency & sharing your journey. You are the sweetest. 💝

[@gabbyhuddleston2321]

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, praying for you and your family!

[@emilybusby6922]

Promethazine (just the tablets- not the syrup w codeine) is great for cramps. It’s a smooth muscle relaxer and the uterus is a smooth muscle. Regular muscle relaxers work on different types of muscles which is why they aren’t great for period cramps. If you can get a prescription for promethazine in pill form I would highly recommend it. But only take like 1/4 of one- they’ll make you extremely tired otherwise. They don’t make you feel loopy or wobbly or anything- just sleepy if you take enough, so avoid it. They’re a miracle for cramps in my opinion.

[@katjawenn9800]

All my love, prayers and thoughts are with you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@tracyelle2023]

My heart and prayers go out to you and any woman who is going through this difficult journey to motherhood right now. It’s okay to be strong if that feels like the response you are naturally having at the time, but it’s also okay to cry and grieve through the pain. May God continue to hold you, encourage you, and carry you as you go forward, Rachel. 🙏Also, I know that many have mentioned endometriosis in the comments, and I just wanted to add that the best route would be a specialist who specifically focuses on and understands endo, as well as other gynecological disorders, due to endo often being difficult to diagnose (it doesn’t always show up on tests and scans or general ob’s lack extensive enough training on endo). Please know that bad cramping/period pain is never normal and often points to some other issues at play. Progesterone can also cause cramping, HOWEVER, since this is something you’ve had in the past I would highly encourage you to find the answers and relief that you deserve. Sending so much love, God bless!💛💛

[@katrinregier6355]

I send you strenght and hope !!!❤️❤️‍🔥❤️ I pray for you

[@xtinriver143]

just said a prayer for you, rachel. stay strong. keep the faith. we are praying with you 🙏🏻

[@natalieanni1765]

Its awful seeing you suffer like this, I really hope things pick up for you really soon ❤ that period cramping doesnt seem right! Xx

[@dorcasolayiwola5472]

You are in my thoughts and Prayers girl!

[@nikkidionson1069]

My depo wore off this month and I just had the worst period cramps 😭 i took 1 advil and 1 other med, and it nothing for the pain. I took Flanax and finally it worked! Now I pray my period would stop so I can get a tvs to see if the treatment worked for my pcos. 😢 i have a doctor’s appointment next month, pls pray for me!

[@Raşel-1923]

Hopefully, that’s gonna be happen one day. Please try to stay positive as much as you could. All of my heart is with you.

[@janebarscz5130]

Praying for you sweet girl. 🙏

[@xtinriver143]

and yes to pendant lights 😊 so happy to see you continue to do things that fill your cup. rooting for you always, rachel ❤

[@Blo039]

I definitely think you should put lights over the island. As for the stools, even though they’re nicer than the ones you had before, I think the dark ones just go better with your overall decor & colors in the kitchen. The dark ones blend in seamlessly & the new ones (even though really nice) kinda stick out too much to where it can be like an eye soar.

[@AquaCloud97]

My heart goes out to you and I hope you feel better.

[@Yesad.]

Take A Good Care of Urself, God Bless U , Rachel !!

[@leahgillette7508]

Praying for you Rachel❤

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Good morning Rachel happy Thursday morning and I'm proud of you and you are amazing Supporter, sending you prayers for you

[@JordynLynnia]

Sending you lots of love and prayers Rachel ❤❤❤

[@ed6126]

Funny to watch the same things that i went through, the hope and failure again and again

[@HarryThomasPictures]

So sorry honey, sending lots of love to you❤❤❤!

[@stephanievaldes97]

I say this every video but you are so loved, and we appreciate your vulnerability ♥️ thank you for sharing your story. You remain in my prayers. ♥️💕 also, the way you RAN from FedEx, because same 😂

[@jazzpetry7089]

I high like recommend reading the women code book and the book flow both by the same author it’s about natural syncing period and it has helped many women with normalizing periods and has helped a lot of women struggling with getting pregnant. I have started it for 3-4 months now and am having normal almost regular periods that are not longer painful. I continue to pray for you both in this journey💕

[@MegsHollis]

Sending so much love Rachel ❤ your vulnerability and strength is unbelievable! Rooting for you guys 😘🥰😍

[@ladieessence]

2 Motrins with raspberry leaf tea usually helps with cramps and I mean sharp pain shaking cramps.

[@leannehanlon3623]

Sending love and prayers to you sweet girl ❤

[@jasminekaurbhinder35]

Rachel, i m from india n i had my sister in US she was unable to conceive for years n years lost all hope and then finally they decided to come to india for treatment n trust me its way affordable than US and u can get pregnant , when my sis became pregnant it was a miracle and after confirmation ofpregnancy they came back to US and she delivered a healthy baby. And second child she had naturally . Trust me if in future it does not happen plz consider Indian treatments . If u need more info on Dr let me knw. I would b happy to help. We are of same age n I understand 😌

[@jennyabcd123]

Hi Rachel, I am so so sorry that you are going through this. I’m praying for you🙏🏻🙏🏻. It does kind of sound like endometriosis or something, because that level of period pain seems abnormal to me. I get bad cramps sometimes but when I lay down they pretty much always go away 😕

[@sweetsali18]

Sending lots of love. I know exactly what you are going trough ❤ I send you a hug. ❤❤

Praying for you!❤❤❤

[@NailsbyIC]

Love that you're sharing your ups and downs. Wishing you all the best and stay strong!! ❤❤ Love the stools btw. Great choice Rachel 👌🏼

[@LadyErnst]

❤I will keep you in my prayers.

[@annakoretchko688]

Me not mad AJ says the thing I’ve been saying for years and now it’s time

[@waifongwong6260]

Sending you lots of ❤ and a big big hug.

[@Jpdesiigns]

I’m so sorry you guys are doing through this I am sending baby dust your way praying soon you get that positive beautiful 🙏❤️ this is my 3rd cycle trying when i tested last two cycles I was so sad seeing those negatives I pray this cycle is the one , I don’t know you personally but I feel like I do ❤️❤️❤️praying for you both ❤️🙏

[@kyratownes4554]

Much love to you, Rachel! ❤ Thinking of you at this time. It's hard watching people struggle, you've shown strength through time. Romans 5:3-5 His Word is True! I'm proud of you! ❤

[@emilyhawk481]

I have horrible cramps just like that and it's absolutely debilitating. ❤

[@Jeramie26]

Stay strong. God is your strength.

[@amberhaggenjos9007]

Sending you so much ❤️

[@mansoor3159]

Thank you so so much Rachel for sharing this video and I am so so excited to watch this video you are my inspiration and I wish you have a beautiful day always💫💕🙂

[@melissamahabeer7332]

Sending love Rach! I’m worried Vinny is gonna ruin those chairs 🙈 my cat would! Yes to pendant lights x

[@nestfulloflove]

Sending love and prayers your way ❤

[@Justlivebyfaith24]

Hey Rachel. I have excruciating cramps as well. I’ve learned the hard way to get ahead of the cramps. As soon as I feel any type of cramp I take 2 xtra strength Tylenols 💊 💊 w/food. 6 w/in 6 hours..it’s been working for me ❤️ Hope you find a resolve 🙏🏽

[@Angeliquess]

Regarding your dining set, I would maybe change it to a different material and having a counter top height table. We noticed each time we went our friends house, we would sit at their counter and not the table, and I really believe the height does a lot. We purchased a counter too height table and are super happy about it. It is less engaging to be sitting lower :) The stools are cute, but I would not keep them if they are note comfortable. Maybe you can add cushion to the grey one to add some color/personality to them :) Sorry this cycle did not work… 😢😢

[@JoMburu]

I pray God answers your prayer. 🙏

[@MarySmith-zn5dz]

Continuing to hold you up in prayer daily.

[@iuliiagolovina2539]

I am sending to you a big bug hug ❤

[@christielyle21]

Prayers, sounds like endometriosis, I have it too,it's not easy to live with

[@Rachel_Pence]

Prayers for your fertility journey, when I got off birth control I took Organifi's Harmony supplement. It made the biggest difference in keeping me regular and having pain free periods, I recommend it to everyone I know! Stay strong! You're doing everything right!

[@cassandrasaucedo4169]

Rachel, you are me hiding from the FedEx 🤣

[@Sunsetblaze1016]

🌹For you....

[@flourishingmiranda]

Aww Rachel ❤ is your period worse from your trigger? I just did my egg retrieval 6 days ago and was told my next period would be a peek into hell ❤ All the hormones really really get ya!

[@karenmockensturm2742]

I am curious to know if you have been diagnosed with endometriosis? You severe pain is a dead symptom as well as “undiagnosed “ infertility. I struggled with both for years and there is help. I was able to conceive in my late 30s

[@SoCrazyInLove13]

I have been told painful periods is due to low progesterone and high estrogen. However, aren't you taking progesterone during the last few month for your IUI's?

[@RachelVinn]

Yes