I told my best friend I liked her, then this happened

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JakeGoodmanMD

JakeGoodmanMD

Күн бұрын

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@kikicogger2284
@kikicogger2284 2 жыл бұрын
This is actually a really healthy way to go about this conversation. He gave her the choice with no fear of judgement or resentment, so you know her choice was based on her own feelings.
@AstroZombie1
@AstroZombie1 2 жыл бұрын
Well yeah, he’s a psych expert. Obviously some of his knowledge will benefit his personal life as well as his career.
@Narra0002
@Narra0002 2 жыл бұрын
Yep
@khalilahd.
@khalilahd. 2 жыл бұрын
We love a healthy relationship 💛
@daebak_hana
@daebak_hana 2 жыл бұрын
Probably why she said yes
@2bituser569
@2bituser569 2 жыл бұрын
@Louis Kingsta If he had not been nice she would likely say no even if she had feelings.
@pathbelow6652
@pathbelow6652 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations. I married my best friend too. I've known my husband since I was ten. Now we're over sixty and still just as in love. Five kids and fourteen grandkids and one great grandchild later. Its been a wonderful life.
@feche2509
@feche2509 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my! Beautiful! Thank you for sharing..
@NEPtune-fy1ug
@NEPtune-fy1ug 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@yusrarujub6836
@yusrarujub6836 2 жыл бұрын
Oh wow
@Yourdad2005
@Yourdad2005 2 жыл бұрын
God bless for a long life for both of you
@EricLatios
@EricLatios 2 жыл бұрын
That's very nice, but what are the chances of that happening? 1 in 1000? Statistically very unlikely for everyone else
@Paola-jf2qf
@Paola-jf2qf 2 жыл бұрын
My best friend asked me if he could be my boyfriend. I thought he was joking because he used his serious face and voice(he would do that with jokes before). I then saw his reaction and I felt bad for laughing. I told him I did not want to loose our friendship. He then explained why he wanted to date me. It was hard for me at first, coming from a bad relationship. This relationship was very different in a good way. We have been happily married for 5 years. We have a 3 year old and a 1 and half year old. Even when we argue or disagree (not often, but happens) about something instead of calling a time out I say I need to talk to my best friend...he says the same..lol it works.
@malihakarim1696
@malihakarim1696 2 жыл бұрын
Aww🥺
@nancykerrigan
@nancykerrigan 2 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺
@ShayMarie.00
@ShayMarie.00 2 жыл бұрын
Omgoodness how beautiful! 🥰 Thanks for sharing. 💜💜
@jeeez.29
@jeeez.29 2 жыл бұрын
Aww that's so sweet🥺 god bless you both
@mabontlemotsitsi8947
@mabontlemotsitsi8947 2 жыл бұрын
Ncaww that is so cute😭😭
@ricardol.leonekulaif4531
@ricardol.leonekulaif4531 13 күн бұрын
Who still doesn't understand that long-lasting couples who love each other do so precisely because they are friends?
@akmarkan2490
@akmarkan2490 2 жыл бұрын
"The Chance that You and I could be together is too exciting for me to keep it to myself"
@richbrass12
@richbrass12 2 жыл бұрын
That was a perfect thing to say
@Tbone3471
@Tbone3471 2 жыл бұрын
That was such a perfect way to express it. Good for him and them . Wishing them all the happiness in the world
@richbrass12
@richbrass12 2 жыл бұрын
I got to use this
@akmarkan2490
@akmarkan2490 2 жыл бұрын
@@richbrass12 Me 2🤝
@nidhirana3668
@nidhirana3668 2 жыл бұрын
He'll make a good writer!❤️
@lavernejones4471
@lavernejones4471 2 жыл бұрын
So, so sweet! 🥰🥰 My husband and I met when we were twelve years old. We were friends first. We have been married for thirty four years now😊
@Priya-im2bx
@Priya-im2bx 2 жыл бұрын
Omg.... Awww
@lavernejones4471
@lavernejones4471 2 жыл бұрын
@@Priya-im2bx 🥰
@meeehere3211
@meeehere3211 2 жыл бұрын
I wish you a happy long life together 💕
@lavernejones4471
@lavernejones4471 2 жыл бұрын
@@meeehere3211 Thanks so much! That’s very sweet!😊
@mbr0916
@mbr0916 2 жыл бұрын
That’s truly a relationship you only see in movies, but I absolutely love to hear it is your reality! 🥰 Congrats on 34 years! 💗
@lifeistolive1617
@lifeistolive1617 2 жыл бұрын
Me to myself : "Write that down..write that down.. " ✍️
@pranjalgupta570
@pranjalgupta570 2 жыл бұрын
Same here 😂😂
@Hope-ou3mv
@Hope-ou3mv 2 жыл бұрын
"...to tell my girlfriend in a completely fake and imaginary scenario in my head"
@KotleKettle
@KotleKettle 2 жыл бұрын
What is there to write down? You can hear this cliche shit in literally EVERY romantic movie, and in 99% cases it won't work in real life. Don't get delusional. These TikTok videos are deceiving. A girl can take that cringe soy choice of words if she likes you initially. But then again, you don't need to use them in this case, you can just casually say you like her and the result will be the same. I personally don't understand why do you have to ask her to be your gf. If she likes you everything comes off naturally without excessive words.
@lifeistolive1617
@lifeistolive1617 2 жыл бұрын
@@KotleKettle Well.. I'm the girl.. So.. 😂🤣
@pranjalgupta570
@pranjalgupta570 2 жыл бұрын
@@lifeistolive1617 Why you writing down then 🥺
@dsheng_9827
@dsheng_9827 Ай бұрын
One of the most beautiful things is to marry your best friend. 😭💐
@mr.anderson3288
@mr.anderson3288 2 жыл бұрын
They say relationships between best friends tend to be the healthiest and longer lasting ones
@davidca96
@davidca96 2 жыл бұрын
they actually say the opposite, I wish them the best but I wonder if she deep down respects him. Guys in the friend zone are always a womans plan B, a majority of the time.
@jaimesaucedo6376
@jaimesaucedo6376 2 жыл бұрын
I had a best girl-friend but it was when we were in 7-9 grade , I went back to Arizona after spending time in Texas border farm land learning Spanish came back been back in Texas 7 years now my best girl - friend is happy married now in Wisconsin with two children but we have grown and I always look kindly to the memory of our friendship.😉
@theplourde
@theplourde 2 жыл бұрын
Not true.
@GGA007Gaming
@GGA007Gaming 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine all the people who convinced themselves that dating best friends is unhealthy reading this trying to look at the stats to prove you wrong only to find out your correct. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Mind blown 🤣🤣🤣.
@hennajenner126
@hennajenner126 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah but what if my best friend is like a 5 and I'm like a 8?? It wouldn't be fair would it? Lucky for them they at the same level though 😏 congratulations 🎉👏❤️
@deidreharris4227
@deidreharris4227 2 жыл бұрын
I literally married my best friend too!!! Here we are 21 years later, been at it since I was 15! Married at 21… Congratulations you guys!!
@freetruth123
@freetruth123 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to both of you for 21 years!!
@mariemadeleinesaget1429
@mariemadeleinesaget1429 2 жыл бұрын
I met my husband when I was 15, married when I was 17 he died after 63 years together now I'm lost
@freetruth123
@freetruth123 2 жыл бұрын
@@mariemadeleinesaget1429 So sorry to hear this. How lovely that you had such a long time with your best friend. ❤️
@cheriboberry1808
@cheriboberry1808 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. Same. We’ve been friends since I was 11 became best friends later as teenagers, married at 21 we’ve been together 17yrs now.
@cheriboberry1808
@cheriboberry1808 2 жыл бұрын
@@mariemadeleinesaget1429 I married my best friend frm childhood n hes my everything. My whole family has passed away n everyday of my life I think about the day I might loose him n I’m scared to death of it.
@dpmart3275
@dpmart3275 2 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend 35 year's ago she thought I was kidding when I asked her out now we have 3 kid's so glad she said yes hope you two will have many more year's together
@freetruth123
@freetruth123 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you! Wishing you two many more years!
@chimenemouafofonga4410
@chimenemouafofonga4410 2 жыл бұрын
Amen to that, for them and for me and my bestie
@JoeyscustomRC
@JoeyscustomRC 4 ай бұрын
Congratulations bud, this is literally the dream of like 90% of guys on earth…not only did you conquer the friend zone, you literally kicked the living shit of it 🎉🎉🙌🙌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@carloscolon198
@carloscolon198 5 ай бұрын
I also married my best friend… we met in 10th ( 1980) grade; I had cancer that year and my leg amputated … a year later she had me back. We married 1993 and are still married. She is still my best friend, best mother and wife. Now again with Cancer ( stage 4 NSCLC) she is still right besides me. God; I am so lucky to have been blessed with this Angel that you sent me …. Thank you
@Ahra-Su
@Ahra-Su 5 ай бұрын
I hope and pray that you will overcome your illness and regain your health. The God has power over everything, and if He does not want it, not even a leaf will fall to the ground without His permission. So don't lose hope. Maybe He gave you this illness so that you could seek and find Him. If you really want to thank The God, do not associate anything with Him. If you want to live on the right path until you die, put your forehead on the ground like all the prophets and Jesus did and ask The God to guide you. If you really sincerely want to find the truth and insistently ask The God for help in this matter, He will definitely help you. May The God Almighty heal your body and soul and give you all the best in both world and protect you from tormenting of the blazing fire.
@JESUStheARK
@JESUStheARK 5 ай бұрын
Yes…praying also that the God of heaven and earth who made you will send His Word to you and heal you… and reveal Himself to you more and more. There is no other way to Him except through Jesus, His Only Begotten Son. He is your Redeemer who was beaten & crucified to shed His innocent blood for you that by His stripes and spilled blood we are healed and He was raised from the dead so that we might also be resurrected & have life eternal with Him when we choose to believe in what Jesus did for us because we could not & cannot do it on our own. Praise God He sent His Son!!! Our Deliverer!!! 🕊️🙏🕊️🙏🕊️
@user-fg3fv9hl3b
@user-fg3fv9hl3b 5 ай бұрын
Wish you the best, happy to hear it. Life is hard but has its charm.:)
@Emivioricomex
@Emivioricomex 5 ай бұрын
Pls stop taking the ☠️poison safe&effectives..too many ppl getting turbo cancers or their cancer in remission from yrs past comes back with a vengeance...or a different cancer..
@Keepinitreel108
@Keepinitreel108 5 ай бұрын
Sending you positive vibes to heal 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@lucylock5892
@lucylock5892 5 ай бұрын
This is a lifetime of happiness. You two have known each other as friends for years before marriage. So sweet!
@piak78
@piak78 5 ай бұрын
They know each other's dirty secrets too, which they will used as ammunition against each other when they fight. Also one of them might definitely develop retroactive jealousy. Knowing intimate details of your partner with other people can derail you mentally.
@PrincessPink-x
@PrincessPink-x 5 ай бұрын
@@piak78Yeaaahh. That mainly happens to couples who aren’t friends first….
@DymondzTrucking1962
@DymondzTrucking1962 2 жыл бұрын
My wife started out as my best friend for 6 years we've been together almost 40.
@PsychobabbleRapp
@PsychobabbleRapp 2 жыл бұрын
You were not best freinds, you were hopelessly attracted to her and it took you for ever to acknowledge it
@ladybird491
@ladybird491 2 жыл бұрын
6 years? I would have said no, you had plenty of time to propose.
@DymondzTrucking1962
@DymondzTrucking1962 2 жыл бұрын
@@ladybird491 we live together for five of those 6 years. And she always said she didn't want to get married. I was the one that was pushing to get married.
@HibiTeamQueso
@HibiTeamQueso 2 жыл бұрын
@@ladybird491 we found the entitled one!
@williamgray9692
@williamgray9692 2 жыл бұрын
@@DymondzTrucking1962 but she was still living with you. thankfully it worked out but you didn’t pick up on the obvious signs based on her actions.
@Caiocsilveira
@Caiocsilveira 4 ай бұрын
The only true path of having a happy relationship, is having a real, true friend on your side. Because? Because a partner to share life is more than friend, is a confident!
@ronrice2249
@ronrice2249 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on marrying the woman of your dreams. She's a real beauty. Many people aren't that fortunate.
@anthonytillman6363
@anthonytillman6363 6 ай бұрын
Facts
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 6 ай бұрын
I don't think the romantic type of love is special, and I think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. It seems that most people love their platonic best friend more than their romantic partner. People can survive without a romantic partner, but people can't survive without a platonic best friend. Platonic relationships are always better than romantic relationships. Platonic relationships are more powerful than romantic relationships.
@heleh9889
@heleh9889 6 ай бұрын
​@@icysnow57cold64 that's because you have never had a good romantic relationship then. Because there is no way of thinking a friendship is stronger than a real relationship with your partner. And if a guy choose his friends, run away. ASAP
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 6 ай бұрын
@@heleh9889 Platonic best friends are a lot better than romantic partners are. A platonic best friend will love you way more than a romantic partner ever will. Platonic best friends are not just important, they are very important, very special and one of the best people you could ever have in your life. Platonic friendship is such an important and fulfilling kind of love! You can have a rich, unconditional connection with your platonic best friend. The love a person has for their platonic best friend can be one of the deepest and most intimate connections in their life. The deep, platonic love between friends is stronger than the love between romantic couples is.
@catedoge3206
@catedoge3206 6 ай бұрын
yuh
@highcontrast4488
@highcontrast4488 2 жыл бұрын
When I was 16 in high school I asked my best friend if she could be my girlfriend. Now I'm 30 and still alone to this day.
@mmafanatics9890
@mmafanatics9890 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@MongeziRobertMbanjwa
@MongeziRobertMbanjwa 2 жыл бұрын
My friend rejected me when I was 16, ghosted me, complaining about ruining our friendship. She rejected me again when I was 20. I met my wife when I was 21 (I'm 40, her 37). My fomer friend recently posted: Men are trash (she's still single, 40yrs with 3 kids). Dodged a bullet 🤣🚮 PS. All the kids have different Baby Daddies 🤣 PSS: she's having number 4 in January, another Baby Daddy 🔥
@_VelociDad
@_VelociDad 2 жыл бұрын
I lol’d at this! Well played.
@leekato2722
@leekato2722 2 жыл бұрын
I was a fat dude who made a teacher's salary because that's what I was when I got rejected I got ghosted I lost 80 lbs, got shredded and a new career making six-figures. That shallow bitch sends me a friend request on FB. We meet up. She's now attracted to the new me. So I pumped and dumped that shallow bitch and I ghosted her. Pay back! 🤣
@mikenewton4795
@mikenewton4795 2 жыл бұрын
@@MongeziRobertMbanjwa congrats man !
@WonderfulHayden
@WonderfulHayden 2 жыл бұрын
I teared up watching this. The best relationships are built on a foundation of friendship. I hope your marriage is fulfilling and lasts forever.
@gabynarufan
@gabynarufan 2 жыл бұрын
I love my best friend but she's a female. She's not attracted to female.. some people are just lucky I guess.
@WonderfulHayden
@WonderfulHayden 2 жыл бұрын
@@gabynarufan I'm really sorry/saddened to hear that. I hope you find your special someone. Don't give up hope.
@waypiel6463
@waypiel6463 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@Ghostrider-ul7xn
@Ghostrider-ul7xn 2 жыл бұрын
@@RQC7RU You don't realize this but you only "felt it right" and "liked his confidence" because you already found him attractive. If it was your friend who attempted this, you'd be revolted by this.
@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733
@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733 2 жыл бұрын
Simp talk
@NYandAZ
@NYandAZ 4 күн бұрын
Keep expressing yourself with her. Communicate and listen to each other. Sounds like you’ve already established a healthy friendship so communication should be the superpower of your relationship/marriage. Congratulations on marrying your best friend. That was a sweet video. Thank you for sharing it with us. ❤
@jd5787
@jd5787 9 ай бұрын
With all the negativity in the world it's great to see this story. Congrats to the two of you. Wishing you both a life of happiness.
@ozratarot
@ozratarot 4 ай бұрын
Friendship is the foundation of a happy marriage. Stories like this give me so much joy.
@terrance08
@terrance08 4 ай бұрын
​@@BobDevV💯 i couldn't say it better. Guys will always have ulterior motives with his girl bestfriend. Girls need to understand this.
@djkobafemi
@djkobafemi 4 ай бұрын
​​@@terrance08...Agreed, but romantic feelings developing for the female "best friend" is also a NATURAL progression of emotion. The "alterior motives" don't have to be the guys goal from the beginning, but it'll creep up in there eventually. Females, don't be surprised when it "do"😂
@hayleypbop6997
@hayleypbop6997 4 ай бұрын
Yuk
@punishanpika
@punishanpika 4 ай бұрын
​@@terrance08 It is not an ulterior motive if they also want to be friends with you.
@livestar0
@livestar0 4 ай бұрын
She looks 30 yrs older than him 😂😂
@m.w.njoroge7438
@m.w.njoroge7438 5 ай бұрын
"I understand you may not feel the same way about me and that's OK...I'll respect your decision either way." Guys, men, pursuers, this part of the speech is very important. No pressure = true, honest expressions. Congratulations to these two best friends turned married couple! 💑💐❤🎉
@MaciejRC
@MaciejRC 5 ай бұрын
Or just pure simping?
@mimilapin
@mimilapin 5 ай бұрын
​@@MaciejRC you people say that when it's just a guy being in love. If that's what you call love then YES women want a "simp" we want someone who will "simp" for us as much as we will "simp" for them! No woman wants a bitter, angry, nasty little boy who doesn't understand the importance of friendship.
@rewdskwid
@rewdskwid 5 ай бұрын
​@@mimilapintell em, the manliest thing a man can do is be true and honest about the love he feels
@jakeg3733
@jakeg3733 5 ай бұрын
​@@mimilapinYou do know where those bitter, angry little boys come from, right? You created them
@disgruntledgrunt241
@disgruntledgrunt241 5 ай бұрын
Except it's a lie, once it's out there things will never be the same whether she's on board or not.
@mannyluke7566
@mannyluke7566 3 ай бұрын
That's honestly the best way to do it. I started hanging out with a girl from my friends group and we were both serious about not dating anyone so it took all kinds of pressure off whenever we were hanging out. We were married by the end of the year.
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 2 ай бұрын
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely to be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse. Romantic relationships are pointless, while platonic relationships are not.
@mannyluke7566
@mannyluke7566 2 ай бұрын
@@icysnow57cold64 My wife and I started out at platonic friends. And then things got romantic real quick when we realized we liked each other. Sure it's not as easy as being platonic friends. But we work through our issues and I prefer what we have now over what we had before we started dating.
@ubuu7
@ubuu7 2 ай бұрын
​@icysnow57cold64 we found the asexual.
@TurquoiseInk
@TurquoiseInk Ай бұрын
​@@icysnow57cold64 Um, you are projecting a lot there. There are many couples who find happiness on the first try, many who find love after several tries. If you are asexual / aromantic that's totally valid, but no need to make sweeping statements about other people's lives.
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 Ай бұрын
@@TurquoiseInk There's a lot of dangers and risks to romantic relationships, so they should be avoided. The concept of romance should be removed from this world. Most parents hate the idea of their daughter dating and getting married someday and want them to be single for their whole life because of how dangerous romantic relationships are, while most of the time, they're ok with their daughter having platonic friends. That's because romantic relationships are far more dangerous than platonic relationships are. Most parents (both fathers and mothers) who have daughters are hoping their daughter never dates or get married and remain single for their whole life because it's much safer to be single than it is to be in a romantic relationship.
@lopezmt5
@lopezmt5 2 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend 30 years ago. We still hold hands and take a nightly walk in our backyard and just talk about our day. Our five sons have all graduated college and are working. Can’t wait for the grandchildren.
@firstnamelastname9616
@firstnamelastname9616 2 жыл бұрын
5 sons and 30 years is Winning. Congrats
@inquisitivesoul3618
@inquisitivesoul3618 2 жыл бұрын
5 sons?! I’m sorry cuz I know you were trying for a daughter, but I’m sure it all worked out in the end.
@lechanneldemysterieuxmante1807
@lechanneldemysterieuxmante1807 2 жыл бұрын
Wow Terry, the way you paint your life with that evening ritual sounds so calm and mellow and happy. Nightly stroll and convo is one of those things which is a great way to wind down the day.
@buckethead133
@buckethead133 2 жыл бұрын
Lucky you Teddy.
@eveleung8855
@eveleung8855 2 жыл бұрын
One of my neighbor also try a daughter, she finally got one at 6th, then she got another boy at 7th, so now she has 6 boys and one girl 😂 a foot ball team
@melissadc6739
@melissadc6739 Жыл бұрын
My best friend said he wanted to be my boyfriend. I said to him that I’d rather have him in my life knowing I have my best friend forever than to date him & have the chance of losing him forever. One night he kissed me & everything changed. We have been together for 8 & a half years, we are currently engaged with a baby boy on his way ♥️ I’ll have my best friend & little boy forever Edit: Better understand at the end x
@SFC415
@SFC415 Жыл бұрын
Omg! Wonderful♥️
@melissadc6739
@melissadc6739 Жыл бұрын
@@SFC415 - Thank you ♥️
@skyj451
@skyj451 Жыл бұрын
You dont need a lot to change your mind.
@melissadc6739
@melissadc6739 Жыл бұрын
@@skyj451 - Wow, but you’re insensitive & rude considering I’ve just told the basics of the story hey. I was in love with him for over two years. I’m sorry you’re THIS type of person.
@TheeLeodraco
@TheeLeodraco Жыл бұрын
Lol liar lol
@deeksharajpoot0104
@deeksharajpoot0104 2 жыл бұрын
Bro passed the friend zone with flying colors 😂❤️
@DB-hz2os
@DB-hz2os 2 жыл бұрын
This whole thing is jokes! How many dudes she picked over you while you was in the friend zone?!? 🥴🤣
@user-hn4zn9nx3c
@user-hn4zn9nx3c 2 жыл бұрын
@@DB-hz2os Thing is, being friends means being friends, not consort in waiting
@localstreetsbatman
@localstreetsbatman 2 жыл бұрын
@@DB-hz2os you must give up on your dream life because the girl you like was dating guys before you? Then most of us men wouldn’t get married! If you’re in a relationship, breakup cuz she did date other guys
@DB-hz2os
@DB-hz2os 2 жыл бұрын
@@localstreetsbatman if you an alpha man you not making a life you dream of based on a woman. Betas do that and you my friend will learn the hard way. Chase your God given purpose not women my brother.
@localstreetsbatman
@localstreetsbatman 2 жыл бұрын
@@DB-hz2os what the actual f*** are you talking about? Alpha male and all that bs. I wasn’t talking about our goals, I was talking about our personal marriage life idiot. That’s the topic here right now, and if you don’t want a marriage life based on a woman, then there’s another name for you 🏳️‍🌈
@rolfkoch2348
@rolfkoch2348 3 ай бұрын
Finally a sane woman. Congrats.
@thatguythatdoesstuff7448
@thatguythatdoesstuff7448 13 күн бұрын
Give it time.
@amybradbury338
@amybradbury338 2 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend too, you guys are so cute! Thanks for making me smile on this day. I needed that.
@TarotRider-t2m
@TarotRider-t2m 2 жыл бұрын
I had made a friend few years ago but i liked him I think he didn't think me like a friend or didn't like me much, i just keep hoping he becomes my friend and like me too.
@earlonaweary9155
@earlonaweary9155 2 жыл бұрын
@@TarotRider-t2m Step out on faith! Ask him what he thinks about y'all going out on a date 🤷🏽‍♀️
@chinmayaprakashsahoo9981
@chinmayaprakashsahoo9981 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🥳🥳👊🙇🤗❤️ happy for both of you.. Have a great life ahead 😎🤘🔥🥳👊🙇🤗❤️
@mclovin4974
@mclovin4974 2 жыл бұрын
Half of all marriages end in divorce though
@JaySewani
@JaySewani 2 жыл бұрын
@@mclovin4974 not really
@rararara7009
@rararara7009 2 жыл бұрын
That's how it's supposed to be. From time to time my daughter will call and relate how she is with her best friend today. And I'll say who is your best friend Mija, then her answer is Steve... Her husband. I am so happy they found one another on the rooftop patio where we used to live. He is like a real son to me.
@brandontrammel4581
@brandontrammel4581 2 жыл бұрын
Nice
@payalmehta788
@payalmehta788 2 жыл бұрын
Nice! ❤
@thankunext1625
@thankunext1625 2 жыл бұрын
Aw
@debbiewoznicki2419
@debbiewoznicki2419 2 жыл бұрын
Married to my best friend for 31 yrs! Great marriage! He's in heaven now can't wait to see him again💙
@yusrarujub6836
@yusrarujub6836 2 жыл бұрын
🥺
@alyponk5016
@alyponk5016 2 жыл бұрын
Lots of love and respect 💕
@ceironkosterec
@ceironkosterec 2 жыл бұрын
♥️
@nostalgicbliss5547
@nostalgicbliss5547 2 жыл бұрын
How do you know it's heaven??
@common-men3406
@common-men3406 2 жыл бұрын
He could be dating someone else in heaven 😜😜
@RCAMPOMAS
@RCAMPOMAS 4 ай бұрын
Man, I wish I was that lucky. Not even because you got engaged and married in such a beautiful way, but because you were sincere and close friends in the midst of a world that assumes that there is no way a man and a woman can be true friends, something I believe is one of the silliest beliefs that could exist. May God bless you and keep you united forever.
@Kafen8d
@Kafen8d Жыл бұрын
You're the luckiest man ever... To get to be with your best friend for life, and to be her best friend for life.
@ahmedkamel7065
@ahmedkamel7065 5 ай бұрын
trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷
@gracelai9421
@gracelai9421 2 жыл бұрын
"Two years, we got engaged- on a soccer field" I died when the music stopped then 😆
@titotoledo4
@titotoledo4 2 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for "And last weekend, we got married... on a soccer field"
@marciaevans-v1s
@marciaevans-v1s 2 күн бұрын
Soul mates, they even look alike. Much happiness to you both xx
@katicollins8226
@katicollins8226 5 ай бұрын
Not me crying over here. happy tears for you because it's truly beautiful when the right people look in eachothers direction.
@safffff1000
@safffff1000 4 ай бұрын
He's little slow wasted over 4 yrs
@scorpion1647
@scorpion1647 4 ай бұрын
@@safffff1000better slowly than never. Not every person is as confident.
@RackemDawg
@RackemDawg 4 ай бұрын
@@safffff1000have you met women these days? Four years is perfect. I’m gonna need to vet the bloodline, and that takes patience. I need to see how you treat homeless people, admirable people, peers, what does your love look like when you’re really comfortable and stop wearing “pick me” masks. Are you demanding? Are you submissive? Are you spiritually led? Are you above pool chicken-fighting the frenemy couple from down the street? How do you win? How do you lose? Are you my intended? Will you go to extremes to make sure that our domicile is one of peace and love? Can you cook? Will you learn? If we go on a day hike, are you down to clown 100yds from the path? What’s your mothers body type? Are you healthy? Is it a womb or a playpen? How can you figure all of that out in a year? There’s no way. Gotta take it slow. Start with just the tip. ❤
@davidswan4521
@davidswan4521 Жыл бұрын
Great story. My wife and I are also medical school sweethearts. Met in 1st year, got married between 2nd and 3rd. We have been together now for 43 years. We even retired at the same time and now are grandparents! Even better than being doctors. It does work though not without struggles along the way. However, nothing that really matters is easy but well worth the effort. It has been quite a journey.
@orjibaby
@orjibaby 5 ай бұрын
I am a medical doctor, too. I didn’t want to marry my colleagues before due to the high incidence of promiscuity amongst them. But after seeing your story, I am having a rethink. Just maybe, I could have a wonderful love story too. Just maybe.
@ahmedkamel7065
@ahmedkamel7065 5 ай бұрын
trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷
@shreyamishra916
@shreyamishra916 5 ай бұрын
​@@ahmedkamel7065 oh shut up already. People believe in different Gods and that is okay. No one god is superior you man child.
@robertohidalgo782
@robertohidalgo782 5 ай бұрын
Hahaha promiscuity among Medical Doctors the Question Is in What Time ? Medschool you Pass studying For the Boards and Residency you Work 80 hrs per week For the Hospital ​@@orjibaby
@MicheleNoriega-k6d
@MicheleNoriega-k6d 5 ай бұрын
@@ahmedkamel7065 There is God, The Father. God, The Son, who is Jesus Christ. And, God, The Holy Spirit, God’s very own spirit. All three in one Almighty God. The God of The Holy Bible. Through God’s Holy Spirit, The Blessed Virgin, Mary, was conceived of Our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is therefore God made man. Incapable of sin because of his divine nature. It was imperative for God’s purpose that in the form of God The Son, that he should possess both human and divine natures. So that he could walk among us as one of us knowing and acknowledging all our human frailties without succumbing to them. God used His Beloved Son as The Way, The Truth and The Life to teach and convey to all God’s children that the only path to Him, God, is through believing and following the teachings of his Son, Jesus Christ. The most important being, that we should love our fellow man as we love ourselves. Without love, we are nothing, because : GOD IS LOVE. 🙏🤍✝️
@Joe_Cool48
@Joe_Cool48 2 жыл бұрын
“And then, my alarm clock went off”
@roshjacob6902
@roshjacob6902 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@RichLunaMusic
@RichLunaMusic 2 жыл бұрын
OUCH
@ybebinchilin2421
@ybebinchilin2421 2 жыл бұрын
Beat me to it
@kyfarmerman
@kyfarmerman 2 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@mokaLARE
@mokaLARE 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@stflaw
@stflaw 2 ай бұрын
It's not easy to get out of the friend zone. Congratulations.
@wikanhastuningdyahbudihart8474
@wikanhastuningdyahbudihart8474 2 жыл бұрын
One of the best blessing in my life, having my best friend as my husband.
@abilmut
@abilmut 2 жыл бұрын
Hebatr
@TmacPlushVideos
@TmacPlushVideos 2 жыл бұрын
The Bible says that no one is a good person. We have all broken God's law the 10 commandments, we have all committed, lies, adultery, idolatry, and blasphemy. We deserve hell, but because of what Jesus did on the cross we can be forgiven. So if you Repent of your sins, change your wicked ways, and put your faith in Christ you will be written in the book of life. 👌 🙏Repentance is reviewing one's actions and feeling contrition or regret for past wrongs, which is accompanied by commitment to and actual actions that show and prove a change for the better..
@u140550
@u140550 2 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t always go well for everyone, and everyone reacts differently. Glad it worked out for you, and congrats my man.
@DiannaAngela
@DiannaAngela 2 жыл бұрын
Of course it doesn't go well for everyone, but the point is that he was honest about his feelings, respectful of hers and ready to accept potential rejection without judgement.
@huaweiuser691
@huaweiuser691 2 жыл бұрын
If you don't bet/play you won't win.
@MrBennylargo
@MrBennylargo 2 жыл бұрын
@@huaweiuser691 Don’t lose either. She could have said no. And now that I know how you feel, our friendship isn’t going to work. And now they’ve both lost their friend.
@LakadMatatag2702
@LakadMatatag2702 2 жыл бұрын
Sadly I am one of those losers. She never reply to me again.
@MrBennylargo
@MrBennylargo 2 жыл бұрын
@@LakadMatatag2702 I’m sorry that happened to you.
@jmcclean7760
@jmcclean7760 Жыл бұрын
Aww, this is so sweet! I love how genuinely he presented his love, for her, not just of her. He let her make the decision, with no pressure or resentment. Beautiful
@ahmedkamel7065
@ahmedkamel7065 5 ай бұрын
trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷
@Last_one_before_I_go
@Last_one_before_I_go 4 ай бұрын
Hope it goes the distance. Good luck to you both.
@JackFelker
@JackFelker 5 ай бұрын
I hope and pray this beautiful couple have an amazing life together.
@kilodeltawhisky1504
@kilodeltawhisky1504 5 ай бұрын
AMEN!
@calebkent6706
@calebkent6706 4 ай бұрын
Well done to whoever this guy in the video is! You made it through medical school, found the love of your life, and on top of that youve been best friends with her for a long time! Sounds like a good match! And all at the same time!
@therealdeal3672
@therealdeal3672 5 ай бұрын
I love it when people are willing to tell each other that they love each other deeply. It's so sad when people waste a bunch of time pretending that they don't have the feelings that they have. What a beautiful story and couple. ❤🎉
@ThePrincemgomez
@ThePrincemgomez 3 ай бұрын
Married my best friend of 10 years now married for 16. Love’s flame burns strong through every chapter in life. Smart choice, God bless you both
@goborderpatrol1
@goborderpatrol1 2 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend, we got 2 daughters and we’ve been together for 21 years…
@sipioc
@sipioc 2 жыл бұрын
Kudos
@HeavenlySunset24
@HeavenlySunset24 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing
@trainwreck420ish
@trainwreck420ish 2 жыл бұрын
So?
@xoxolovechristielynn
@xoxolovechristielynn 2 жыл бұрын
My best friend since middle school asked me to make a pact with him in 9th grade, that if we both weren’t married by the time we were 30, we’d marry each other. Well, when we were only 18, right after high school he had a horrible accident. He fell 12 feet onto concrete while bike riding and broke his neck in 2 places, fractured his skull and had bleeding in his brain. He very nearly died. We were inseparable from the day he got home from his 8 week stay in the hospital, we began dating and were married just 6 months later. It’s 15 years of marriage this year and we have 2 sons. The “friend zone” is sometimes just a really comfortable and natural place to be that builds a genuine relationship and core friendship that will sustain much longer than any other kind of relationship. He’s still my best friend. 💜
@Sabito86591
@Sabito86591 2 жыл бұрын
Thank god he recovered. 12 feet made hurt all over right now. Also what a lovely story to tell the family for generations to come.
@stephanea5364
@stephanea5364 5 ай бұрын
Man he really went overboard to be with you, having an «accident»....
@kieranb7047
@kieranb7047 5 ай бұрын
The friend zone is somewhere where women keep their back up men. It's usually not until the men get some self respect and walk away that the woman realises what they will lose. Sounds to me like his accident made you realise what you could have lost and made you look at him as more than a friend. Glad he's ok tho and something good came from his horrible experience.
@enriqueperezarce5485
@enriqueperezarce5485 5 ай бұрын
@@kieranb7047I think a lot people are like that both men and women. They take stuff for granted, they gotta lose it to truly appreciate, this is not always but a lot of cases with “friendzones”
@trinabaker3186
@trinabaker3186 4 ай бұрын
You don't know how lucky you are. I hope you have the most amazing life ... ever !
@goranmilic442
@goranmilic442 4 ай бұрын
He deserved his luck by giving her choice. I wonder how would he react if she told him no. Would they still be friends?
@16CMB
@16CMB 4 ай бұрын
@@goranmilic442 He crossed the line of being a best friend by developing feelings for her. So no, they shouldn't still be best friends after she said no, and those feelings won't just go away because she said no
@goranmilic442
@goranmilic442 4 ай бұрын
@@16CMB Why wouldn't they still be friends? Explain.
@mrj1299
@mrj1299 Ай бұрын
​Because he loves her and she does not love him Back. ​@@goranmilic442
@lelandunruh7896
@lelandunruh7896 4 ай бұрын
Who knew that forthright vulnerable honesty could be a good basis for a relationship?!
@Enchanteralle
@Enchanteralle 2 жыл бұрын
I love how this shows the healthy way of how relationships grow and not just needing to make it happen after meeting and chatting on some dating app.
@allyb3510
@allyb3510 2 жыл бұрын
So relationships that start via dating apps aren't healthy?
@Enchanteralle
@Enchanteralle 2 жыл бұрын
@@allyb3510 not all, but survey shows almost 90% don’t work out long term
@Enchanteralle
@Enchanteralle 2 жыл бұрын
@@suziesmith8288 I agree about the hookups. I have met some guys who immediately assume I'm looking for a hookup and I think it's because that's what they're used to and just think any women on the app is looking for the same thing. I'm sure some women look for hookups on apps too, but yes I'm done with those apps. I've also met up with a couple guys who look different from their pics.
@brocks1stop342
@brocks1stop342 2 жыл бұрын
@@allyb3510 nope. And women want it that way.
@brocks1stop342
@brocks1stop342 2 жыл бұрын
@@suziesmith8288 most of the women on there are the same, or that just attention, validation or followers
@lynnern57
@lynnern57 2 жыл бұрын
Being friends first is the best! Glad you went for it! Congratulations!🎉
@CofFDnSnaps
@CofFDnSnaps 5 ай бұрын
She was way ahead of you. You were never in the friend zone dude.
@billbored8277
@billbored8277 4 ай бұрын
I tend to agree... she had feelings for him all along, because no man ever gets out of the friendzone. He was never in the friendzone.
@barrymantelli8011
@barrymantelli8011 4 ай бұрын
yep
@carlosshimmin9169
@carlosshimmin9169 4 ай бұрын
I agree. He was a tall, good looking guy to start with, I'm sure he wasn't struggling too hard in the first place.
@ghfudrs93uuu
@ghfudrs93uuu 4 ай бұрын
She's clearly the one dating up here
@manfredschmalbach9023
@manfredschmalbach9023 3 ай бұрын
That's what I thought .... he's humble, and feels lucky, but she's the lottery winner here.
@avonzo
@avonzo 2 ай бұрын
Best friends are the best life partners. Period! Good for you guys for going forward. All the best to both!!
@DizzyDez613
@DizzyDez613 4 ай бұрын
Excellent story. I’m a middle-aged man. Been through a lot of different relationships and situations. My advice for anyone crushing on a close friend falls under two categories: If you only kinda like them, just forget it. Enjoy the friendship, maybe try to put a little bit of distance to maybe help you like them a bit less. Unless you have reason to believe they have feelings too. Then just go for it. But if you REALLY like them, might even be in love with them, you HAVE to tell them. For both of your sakes. One of two things will happen: 1 - They will reject you, and you should end the friendship to be able to move on and eventually get over them. 2 - You will find out they like you too, and you can get married like this dude.
@anantakesharipanda4085
@anantakesharipanda4085 4 ай бұрын
There is a third outcome too after you confess your feelings: She says she’s not sure and she needs time, and keeps you stuck in a situationship leaving you wondering for months or even years where things are going.
@DizzyDez613
@DizzyDez613 4 ай бұрын
@@anantakesharipanda4085 If she has to think about it like that, leaving you waiting, it means she isn’t interested
@lindsey5365
@lindsey5365 2 жыл бұрын
Too bad this can’t be everyone’s story, some of us actually have to pray and wait.
@danlol5233
@danlol5233 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and it sucks when you see the love of your life being in love with an abusive man.
@zackmoore1351
@zackmoore1351 2 жыл бұрын
I prayed and have been given a dream, prophecy and vision of my wife. I think the wait will be worth it.
@abigailcosta1716
@abigailcosta1716 2 жыл бұрын
No. Go after it ❤️
@christopher20k
@christopher20k 2 жыл бұрын
Get out man run 🏃‍♀️ get better social skills you are your ONLY limitation
@thegreatcommission8192
@thegreatcommission8192 2 жыл бұрын
​@@zackmoore1351 I am on the same page as you bro, let us keep doing what is worth doing, and God will crown our effort with the best🤝🔥❤❤Simon is my name.
@Fun4GA
@Fun4GA 2 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend back before the wheel was invented, and we are still loving every day as best friends and as husband & wife. It's such a blessing to desire to be together thru all these years. May your love never stop growing.
@MWard-hl6gg
@MWard-hl6gg 2 жыл бұрын
Same here. Being best friends makes it so much easier
@1CuteRN
@1CuteRN 4 ай бұрын
Make sure to ALWAYS make time for each other no matter your hectic schedules. Communicate about the good and bad things. Don’t ever lose your date nights. Doesn’t matter if you’re married you still need the enticement of a date. Swap it up so it keeps it exciting and keeps you guessing. Much love to you both!
@melissaschloneger9902
@melissaschloneger9902 5 ай бұрын
We met in med school and have been married for 24 years. Still best friends, still making each other smile.
@GeorgiaStein
@GeorgiaStein 5 ай бұрын
so fortunate❤
@mattt6695
@mattt6695 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations brother !! Reminds me of mine and my wife’s story !! God bless you and your wife may he fill your life with many blessings
@helloworld7818
@helloworld7818 2 жыл бұрын
To be honest though they never looked like friends, from picture 1 they already look like a couple. It's a different vibe than those that have no attraction towards each other.
@teresamcmurrin8672
@teresamcmurrin8672 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. When my best friend and I met, everyone else could see there was something between us. One of my oldest friends (who became our best man) would just grin like crazy when he's see us together--he was waiting to see how long it would take us to figure it out!
@YumegakaMurakumo
@YumegakaMurakumo 2 жыл бұрын
Kudos to them but yeah, OP has got it.
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 2 жыл бұрын
Key word you said “look”
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 2 жыл бұрын
No shii how you think she and you going to get out the friend zone if she has no attraction for you
@some_dude1596
@some_dude1596 2 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing. I think she was waiting for him to make a move the whole time.
@tataatthedisco
@tataatthedisco 2 жыл бұрын
You were never in the friend zone. There was just hesitation and contemplation
@Inn1
@Inn1 2 жыл бұрын
Yep T-Bear that was the whole point in this video: waiting 4 the rite moment 2 B 1 (couples/spouses/GF/BF, etc...)
@maxjohnson1758
@maxjohnson1758 Ай бұрын
​@@Inn1 Nah, I don't think it was. The whole point was to give all those poor fools stuck in the FZ false hope so they'll stay and fester there until their love interest is done getting railed by Chad and Tyrone. F that.
@sherrywilliams409
@sherrywilliams409 5 ай бұрын
Congratulations! I wish you both a wonderful life! I married my best friend but he died four years ago with brain cancer. We were married 39 years. Now, I’m trying to be me without him.
@Emi_B4
@Emi_B4 4 ай бұрын
Im so sorry for you, sending prayers out ❤
@sherrywilliams409
@sherrywilliams409 4 ай бұрын
@@Emi_B4 thank you!
@wesp1213
@wesp1213 4 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss. May God bless you till you meet again
@wendysnyder6443
@wendysnyder6443 4 ай бұрын
Ohhh, 😢 you’ll make it through . . . just keep praying & drawing closer to God. 🙏 He’ll help you grow stronger! (James 4:8) 🥰
@sherrywilliams409
@sherrywilliams409 4 ай бұрын
@@wendysnyder6443 yes I know I’ll make it through! I’m not trying to get sympathy I’m just saying I married my best friend who passed away.
@Sarahc0407
@Sarahc0407 4 ай бұрын
I married my best friend 15 years ago, I might not have got everything right as a teenager but he is the one decision I have never regretted, and now we have two beautiful little boys. Life is better with your best friend. Congratulations to you xx
@imdiyu
@imdiyu 2 жыл бұрын
This is the most beautiful thing I have seen in a while. You deserve each other.
@cagneybillingsley2165
@cagneybillingsley2165 2 жыл бұрын
i hope you guys realize she was messing around while he was the safe option and will likely grow bored of him and cheat for that exact same reason. blackpill
@jjdd4307
@jjdd4307 2 жыл бұрын
He was never in "the friend zone". 💯
@huzarion3814
@huzarion3814 2 жыл бұрын
Ok look at those two he is 8 she is like 7 , he just leek confidence , and what is saddest , when he will relize that he is 8 and she lower , and get confidence , they will divorce ... same sory happen millions times , that is not original :/
@MijoShrek
@MijoShrek 2 жыл бұрын
@@huzarion3814 🤣🤡 down that bad huh. You carry that energy with you and keeps you stuck from rising up to meet what could've been.
@anmazool725
@anmazool725 2 жыл бұрын
@@huzarion3814 she is a 7? Ahahha she is a 4-5 bro tf ur twlking about
@Timithos
@Timithos 2 жыл бұрын
Nailed it. And he's a doctor.
@huzarion3814
@huzarion3814 2 жыл бұрын
@@anmazool725 ... you are just depred , he is higher that she that is just fact.
@marwan0511
@marwan0511 2 жыл бұрын
A true love always starts with a friendship, even if attraction was there.
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 2 жыл бұрын
cope
@klopcodez
@klopcodez 2 жыл бұрын
Not always be careful with that I have been in many relationships and friendship zone where many women will see other guys then decide your an option in the end if things don’t work the things is you just don’t know even if there interested right away best to know what kind of person your dealing with test them who ever it is guy or girl test the person before committing and take some time to know about there actions
@ronj9933
@ronj9933 2 жыл бұрын
Not according to Reddit, lol
@zeroceiling
@zeroceiling 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah…no not always!….sometimes the person that pisses you off the most at the beginning …is the the one you end up wanting the most….
@11dagit
@11dagit 2 жыл бұрын
Not always but when it happens it’s kinda “5min friendship” and you start dating, NOT years in the friend zone 🙄🫠
@axelkings5286
@axelkings5286 Ай бұрын
On behalf of the ones that failed while trying Im happy for you Wish you the best
@svlagonda7417
@svlagonda7417 2 жыл бұрын
Relationships are the best when the start off as friendships. Perfect foundation to build on.
@dsories6219
@dsories6219 2 жыл бұрын
Marriage with best friend is literally the best relationship ever.
@CA_Hardev_Jadeja1
@CA_Hardev_Jadeja1 2 жыл бұрын
Really?
@Ijamsuxx
@Ijamsuxx 2 жыл бұрын
But it is risky, bcos if its not worked, the friends that you made all the way during that relationship will have to pick side, and divided. 💔
@jenster29
@jenster29 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ijamsuxx they don't though. Adults can choose to be friends with both.
@Ijamsuxx
@Ijamsuxx 2 жыл бұрын
@@jenster29 Well, yeah you can assumed that, but reality is different and tough. I commented based on experience, i lose A LOT of friends after breaking up with my partner/best friend, and i am an adult.
@daos4557
@daos4557 2 жыл бұрын
It depends. Some ppl are better with being just best friends.
@kevinklein9565
@kevinklein9565 2 жыл бұрын
Y’all were acting like a couple, not best friends. 😂
@floogalflambyn6805
@floogalflambyn6805 2 жыл бұрын
That's how girls hang out with their "best friends"
@puffpuffpanda4383
@puffpuffpanda4383 2 жыл бұрын
That's how it is brother I do have a girl best friend and close friends too we both go out together hope together eat together and sometimes we have sleep over (no $exual) and you know it's the best..i was falling for her and she too was by the way she talk with me after being BFF for nearly 2 years and here we are today as couple for 3 years now and going strong we both know each other weaknesses, likes and dislikes...and I think it's the best ^^
@KimAhrina11
@KimAhrina11 2 жыл бұрын
They're not a couple?
@chriskibodeaux9818
@chriskibodeaux9818 2 жыл бұрын
@@puffpuffpanda4383 not remotely how it is!!! Ur also proof u can’t just be friends!!
@maddy5640
@maddy5640 2 жыл бұрын
@Floogalflambyn Not everyone tho but I get you lol There are asexual/aromantic girls out there you know as well as others who just find it easier to hang out with guys and some who just have a guy best friend (some from birth and others later on in life)
@IandMStudios
@IandMStudios 29 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. Especially when you said you respect her decision. That was really deep man
@suyapaochoa9488
@suyapaochoa9488 5 ай бұрын
What a sweett story!!!, Wish you a beautiful & strong marriage . God bless you!
@m.wojtak
@m.wojtak 2 жыл бұрын
congrats🎉 also, dude, jake, you stopped me from committing suicide. even if there’s setback, you helped. i’ll never forget that.
@M4rshmllow
@M4rshmllow 2 жыл бұрын
Damn..are you ok is everything alright?
@kmmusic8
@kmmusic8 2 жыл бұрын
Best of luck with your recovery
@m.wojtak
@m.wojtak 2 жыл бұрын
@@M4rshmllow i’m recovering, it’s a slow process
@annettesjoy
@annettesjoy 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, you are strong, confident, and I wish you so much love and joy that your heart is bursting with happiness.
@user-fn6jr7gt8n
@user-fn6jr7gt8n 2 жыл бұрын
You got this and I’m proud of you! May your life be fulfilled with blessings and all good 🤍
@theweyrd
@theweyrd 2 жыл бұрын
That’s a beautiful story and the way you told her was very, very well put. I wish you both an ocean of happiness in the years to come. Congratulations!
@SubieTrei
@SubieTrei 4 ай бұрын
That's the sweetest story ever 🥺❤️😭❤️🥺 if more people in this world could value individuals and invest in relationships like this before the commitment there would be so much less heart break and loneliness in this world. You are both such a great example to everyone about the long game approach.. And of course I'm sure other relationships come and go in between when you are completely unaware but the moment you did become aware you didn't hesitate ❤️ absolutely love it!! And I hope you both have the best longest happiest life together, don't stop having fun..
@imran4968
@imran4968 2 жыл бұрын
Awww this was so adorable. Congratulations and feel free to share more couples content.
@myriamlegault7122
@myriamlegault7122 2 жыл бұрын
Awwww that’s so cute congratulations I just got friends zoned To everyone who got friends zoned try to not be sad but de happy to stay friends Because if you are still friends is that you are enough mature to realize that the person love you as a friend and that won’t change no matter if you tell them that you have feelings for them
@myriamlegault7122
@myriamlegault7122 2 жыл бұрын
@Jason Rood thanks I always prefer look at the bright side Just doing that make me happy every day so I think the most important thing is to realize that you didn’t lost everything 💜
@myriamlegault7122
@myriamlegault7122 2 жыл бұрын
@Jason Rood I am from Canada and I have final exam at my school What about you?
@myriamlegault7122
@myriamlegault7122 2 жыл бұрын
@Jason Rood 15 you?
@myriamlegault7122
@myriamlegault7122 2 жыл бұрын
@Jason Rood ok
@HandleUnclear
@HandleUnclear 2 жыл бұрын
@@myriamlegault7122 Just curious, since I can't see Honda's response to you. Are you saying your 15? If so, let me give you some general advice. I'm a woman who is married to her best friend, and I was the one who asked him out. I dated guys before I dated my best friend, and in general I found when guys are younger than 25 they tend to not want to marry, many want serious relationships, but when marriage becomes a reality they get cold feet, can become resentful, or just straight up realize you aren't the one they would want to marry. I would suggest in the pre-25 years to build friendships, focus on learning about yourself and learning to love yourself, so that when you do date and/or get into a serious relationship you know your own boundaries.
@kirk1618
@kirk1618 2 жыл бұрын
Great to hear. This is similar to my wife and I. We have known each other since kindergarten. Never dated throughout school, matter of fact, never really even payed attention to each other. About 5 years after school, and I had done military service, we ran into each other at a mutual friend's wedding (to be honest, it was a subtle setup). For a year or more, we hung out as friends, filled in for each other when we needed dates for events, just had a blast hanging out with each other. Util one day, I looked over at her and there was a whole different feeling, my heart fluttered, I just felt different. I knew I had to tell her, and if she didn't feel the same way, we needed to back apart. Wow, she felt the same way. This October, we'll have been married for 30 years. We've had a few squabbles, but no fights. We've been through some real tough times and some real good times. We've done it together. Good for y'all. I truly believe that marrying your "best friend" give you a real strong foundation to build your life on. I hope your next 30 years are as happy and filled with love as ours have been. Looking forward to the next 30!!
@admseraph
@admseraph 2 ай бұрын
Your wife SHOULD BE your best friend. It should start out that way, and continue through your marriage. Best friends can disagree, but they always respect you and have your back. That's the foundation of true friends and a marriage.
@faithadeyemi7154
@faithadeyemi7154 9 ай бұрын
Since the first day I met you, you've been the best friend I never had You are strong, confident, funny, and smart and the best soccer player I've ever seen The more time I've spent with you, the more I realise I want to be more than just your best friend I understand you might not feel the same way about me, and THAT'S OKAY But the chance that both of us might be together is too exciting to keep to myself How we proceed from here is completely up to you, and I'll respect your decision either way.
@ahmedkamel7065
@ahmedkamel7065 5 ай бұрын
trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷
@JamesBenjaminNelwan
@JamesBenjaminNelwan 5 ай бұрын
Trinity... God... Jesus and Holy spirit... Three forms of God... and He is God...!!! Gbu all...!!! ❤
@thatssonerdy4467
@thatssonerdy4467 2 жыл бұрын
He is one of the fortunate ones because the majority of the time even when you lay your feelings out just like this...you still get rejected and kept I'm the friend zone if you allow it. I'm happy that his story worked out, but I wish that this could be true for everyone.
@njvega6692
@njvega6692 2 жыл бұрын
That’s because women are only friends with beta males
@MM-we4no
@MM-we4no 2 жыл бұрын
What do you mean “and kept in the friend zone?” So you were just there in her life as a predator and not really a friend 🚮 Possibly why you keep getting rejected
@thatssonerdy4467
@thatssonerdy4467 2 жыл бұрын
@@MM-we4no first of all I'm in the same relationship that I've been in for the last 8 years so rejection isn't an issue. It's also pretty bold to assume that desiring someone's time and attention is "predatory". Sometimes the feelings for another person are so strong that rather than risking losing their presence in your life you would rather suppress your own feelings for fear of driving them away. So let me ask you this...Would it still be "predatory" if the roles were reversed? Or is it just because this specific instance is predicated from the male perspective? Is it wrong for someone to want to be loved and try to build a bond with someone before actually getting into a relationship with them? Is it wrong to try and build trust before opening yourself up to another that could hurt you? Is it wrong to be nervous about rejection? You may need to lay off the feminism and come back to a more rational reality.
@itsmegannnn
@itsmegannnn 2 жыл бұрын
Aww, congratulations! That’s so beautiful 😭❤️
@WDavidCastaneda
@WDavidCastaneda 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, it is.
@Emily_Garcia
@Emily_Garcia 4 ай бұрын
The way you express him/her your feelings makes a complete difference. Be honest, and do it scared. ❤
@idaeric6258
@idaeric6258 2 жыл бұрын
I lost my father two days ago and this put a smile on my face. Thank you so much for being so understanding jake not a lot of people are ❤
@henri6595
@henri6595 2 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel. I lost mine too 6-months ago. Hang in there and be strong. It's always the darkest hour before things get better! Don't forget to talk to people, think things really through, cry, and truly accept things.
@michaelkaczmarek9375
@michaelkaczmarek9375 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations for following your heart ❤️, good luck in your lives together.
@bigrivtodagled8210
@bigrivtodagled8210 2 жыл бұрын
This is how relationships should work!You get to know each other and then take it to the next level!
@nathanknight6042
@nathanknight6042 2 жыл бұрын
After she banged a hundred Chad's in college and Med School, she finally gave in to Beta FriendZone Simp Orbiter here when she realized she'd soon hit the Wall and likely just to appease her mom's wishes. If she REALLY was attracted to him, especially physically, then there never would have been a "friend" stage.
@lz2347
@lz2347 2 жыл бұрын
True that!!
@faraday1178
@faraday1178 2 жыл бұрын
Let’s be truthful here, being besties with a girl rarely ends like this. Can’t imagine suppressing my feelings for a girl just to be a “best friend”
@meyeneetuks4680
@meyeneetuks4680 2 жыл бұрын
@@faraday1178 ikr? I def aint waiting 4 years like this guy to ask out a girl lmao
@Just_B0red
@Just_B0red 2 жыл бұрын
It was a mutal crush without anyone making a move, if they were "friends" there would have been relationships with other people instead of 2 of them spending time together for 2+ years
@JUSTICEathena80
@JUSTICEathena80 4 ай бұрын
Congratulations 👏🎉👏👏 🎉👏 And both you working, having The Most Important Job on Planet !!!!!!!!
@joelman1989
@joelman1989 2 жыл бұрын
Had a similar conversation with my best friend. She was talking to a guy at the time (I know this is irrelevant but for those insecure guys out there this dude was literally a foot taller than me lol) anyway so I told her how I felt and told her it was up to her that I still wanted to be friends first. And the other guy who she had dated for years and broken up with but was still talking to, told her she should be with him. And she said she knew it was me but that kind of sealed the deal in her mind. As soon as he said that she called me. We were married 6 months later and have been married for 7 years now.
@hamptondillard6429
@hamptondillard6429 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats man! I just got married as well! It is the greatest honor a man can experience in this life. Good bless man.
@whimsicaltee412
@whimsicaltee412 2 жыл бұрын
I ❤️ your mentality! 💯 Congrats to you! (And this fella as well!)
@badabingbadaboom7968
@badabingbadaboom7968 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations.
@jenwithonen7047
@jenwithonen7047 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!🎉🥳
@crystalmelzz1982
@crystalmelzz1982 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Seeing comments like this make me wish I had smartened up a lot earlier in life, and maybe, just maybe, given the good guy a chance. The kind of guy who would say things like that 👆🏼☺️ God bless you and your wife, may your marriage be filled with everything you need ❤️
@nells194
@nells194 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!!!
@firebirdstark
@firebirdstark 2 жыл бұрын
We always say “ladies, your husband is in your friend zone”.
@douglass1940
@douglass1940 2 жыл бұрын
No Husband 😳?
@elicruze7188
@elicruze7188 2 жыл бұрын
Not all the time though.
@allsystemsgootechaf9885
@allsystemsgootechaf9885 2 жыл бұрын
@@elicruze7188 usually. Hes just invisible until hes shredded and successful and at that point, hes not into you anymore.
@andresnieto37
@andresnieto37 2 жыл бұрын
And that's the pure truth!
@elicruze7188
@elicruze7188 2 жыл бұрын
@@allsystemsgootechaf9885 some are just snakes pretending to be your friend just to get to their end goal and when they say “no” they blame you for them being in the friend zone.
@chasepeterson1696
@chasepeterson1696 3 ай бұрын
Congrats! I had a similar experience. I met my wife in the first grade. Fell in love with her in 7th grade. Started dating when we were 22. Got married in 2016. My son was born in 2019. My daughter born in 2022. I couldn't be happier! Enjoy man. You're in for a really great life
@trex9194
@trex9194 2 жыл бұрын
You were never in the "friend zone". You both were attracted to eachother but to shy to make a move. Friend zone is when one party likes the other and the other just wants to be friends.
@josecarrizales7310
@josecarrizales7310 2 жыл бұрын
Yes ! That is so true about this two, and it's the perfect conclusion to their love story disguised in a friendship now that they are going to spend the rest of their lives as one.
@josecarrizales7310
@josecarrizales7310 2 жыл бұрын
I feel myself I'm in a similar situation, and I need to make an effort for this hope to become true, because a hope never fades.
@ybebinchilin2421
@ybebinchilin2421 2 жыл бұрын
I think that it was def the guy that initially wanted to be more than best fiends with her… but hey you could be right 🤷‍♂️
@Zoxeo
@Zoxeo 2 жыл бұрын
cap 🧢
@trex9194
@trex9194 2 жыл бұрын
@@Zoxeo I don't think you know what cap means. But I bet you just heard that word and found the emogi and just had to comment that no matter how ignorant you look. Congratulations... you played yourself.
@reginafallangie2867
@reginafallangie2867 2 жыл бұрын
My best friend “asked me out” & I said no because I didn’t want to ruin a good thing. We remained “just friends”, until I realized that I did like him more than that. We’ve been married for 21 yrs, together as a couple for 28. A strong friendship is integral to a healthy relationship. Best wishes to you both!
@royhi1809
@royhi1809 Жыл бұрын
The things dreams are made of. Congratulations to both of you . May you both have the marraige of a lifetime, childrens that cherish you and a long and happy life. (This video made me smile : )
@dbrownwind
@dbrownwind 2 күн бұрын
Congratulations, on asking her and not putting any pressure other than normal. Long life to you above much successand love.😊
@pioneerprepper2048
@pioneerprepper2048 2 жыл бұрын
So basically you showed respect. Which is exactly what most guys in "the friend zone" don't show which is why they don't get the girl
@Halo4beatsB02
@Halo4beatsB02 2 жыл бұрын
They don't get the girl because they don't have looks and have no charm
@FourTwenties
@FourTwenties 2 жыл бұрын
Or they don‘t want to get someone to anything and just wanna be friends?!
@pioneerprepper2048
@pioneerprepper2048 2 жыл бұрын
@@FourTwenties what
@Ghostrider-ul7xn
@Ghostrider-ul7xn 2 жыл бұрын
You didn't see him show any respect, you only hear him saying he will respect her decision IF she declines. Since she already accepted, you wouldn't know how he'd have reacted if she declined.
@pioneerprepper2048
@pioneerprepper2048 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ghostrider-ul7xn no.
@PJHynes-ff5sg
@PJHynes-ff5sg 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!! I too am married to my best friend. 55 years this September!
@bluejaysmedicmike6831
@bluejaysmedicmike6831 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations My Brotha I made 24 years of marriage in May of 2022
@cuprunnethover2509
@cuprunnethover2509 2 жыл бұрын
Yay!! Congratulations!!
@luckyme100178
@luckyme100178 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you guys 😍. You are soulmates and both doctors. What a power couple 👍
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