This is actually a really healthy way to go about this conversation. He gave her the choice with no fear of judgement or resentment, so you know her choice was based on her own feelings.
@AstroZombie12 жыл бұрын
Well yeah, he’s a psych expert. Obviously some of his knowledge will benefit his personal life as well as his career.
@Narra00022 жыл бұрын
Yep
@khalilahd.2 жыл бұрын
We love a healthy relationship 💛
@daebak_hana2 жыл бұрын
Probably why she said yes
@2bituser5692 жыл бұрын
@Louis Kingsta If he had not been nice she would likely say no even if she had feelings.
@pathbelow66522 жыл бұрын
Congratulations. I married my best friend too. I've known my husband since I was ten. Now we're over sixty and still just as in love. Five kids and fourteen grandkids and one great grandchild later. Its been a wonderful life.
@feche25092 жыл бұрын
Oh my! Beautiful! Thank you for sharing..
@NEPtune-fy1ug2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@yusrarujub68362 жыл бұрын
Oh wow
@Yourdad20052 жыл бұрын
God bless for a long life for both of you
@EricLatios2 жыл бұрын
That's very nice, but what are the chances of that happening? 1 in 1000? Statistically very unlikely for everyone else
@Paola-jf2qf2 жыл бұрын
My best friend asked me if he could be my boyfriend. I thought he was joking because he used his serious face and voice(he would do that with jokes before). I then saw his reaction and I felt bad for laughing. I told him I did not want to loose our friendship. He then explained why he wanted to date me. It was hard for me at first, coming from a bad relationship. This relationship was very different in a good way. We have been happily married for 5 years. We have a 3 year old and a 1 and half year old. Even when we argue or disagree (not often, but happens) about something instead of calling a time out I say I need to talk to my best friend...he says the same..lol it works.
@malihakarim16962 жыл бұрын
Aww🥺
@nancykerrigan2 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺
@ShayMarie.002 жыл бұрын
Omgoodness how beautiful! 🥰 Thanks for sharing. 💜💜
@jeeez.292 жыл бұрын
Aww that's so sweet🥺 god bless you both
@mabontlemotsitsi89472 жыл бұрын
Ncaww that is so cute😭😭
@ricardol.leonekulaif45312 ай бұрын
Who still doesn't understand that long-lasting couples who love each other do so precisely because they are friends?
@ahmedkamel7065Ай бұрын
Trust me, it is not logical for a person to bear the sins of another person, and it is also not fair for our God (ALLAH) to punish😞 someone for the sins🫵 of another person and also Jesus is not God but he is a messenger from our God(ALLAH). Therefore, a just God will hold every human being accountable for his actions. You can learn and read about the religion of Islam 🌷😊
@FacuFeri4Ай бұрын
@@ahmedkamel7065 XD
@akmarkan24902 жыл бұрын
"The Chance that You and I could be together is too exciting for me to keep it to myself"
@richbrass122 жыл бұрын
That was a perfect thing to say
@Tbone34712 жыл бұрын
That was such a perfect way to express it. Good for him and them . Wishing them all the happiness in the world
@richbrass122 жыл бұрын
I got to use this
@akmarkan24902 жыл бұрын
@@richbrass12 Me 2🤝
@nidhirana36682 жыл бұрын
He'll make a good writer!❤️
@mr.anderson32882 жыл бұрын
They say relationships between best friends tend to be the healthiest and longer lasting ones
@davidca962 жыл бұрын
they actually say the opposite, I wish them the best but I wonder if she deep down respects him. Guys in the friend zone are always a womans plan B, a majority of the time.
@jaimesaucedo63762 жыл бұрын
I had a best girl-friend but it was when we were in 7-9 grade , I went back to Arizona after spending time in Texas border farm land learning Spanish came back been back in Texas 7 years now my best girl - friend is happy married now in Wisconsin with two children but we have grown and I always look kindly to the memory of our friendship.😉
@theplourde2 жыл бұрын
Not true.
@GGA007Gaming2 жыл бұрын
Imagine all the people who convinced themselves that dating best friends is unhealthy reading this trying to look at the stats to prove you wrong only to find out your correct. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Mind blown 🤣🤣🤣.
@hennajenner1262 жыл бұрын
Yeah but what if my best friend is like a 5 and I'm like a 8?? It wouldn't be fair would it? Lucky for them they at the same level though 😏 congratulations 🎉👏❤️
@carloscolon1986 ай бұрын
I also married my best friend… we met in 10th ( 1980) grade; I had cancer that year and my leg amputated … a year later she had me back. We married 1993 and are still married. She is still my best friend, best mother and wife. Now again with Cancer ( stage 4 NSCLC) she is still right besides me. God; I am so lucky to have been blessed with this Angel that you sent me …. Thank you
@Ahra-Su6 ай бұрын
I hope and pray that you will overcome your illness and regain your health. The God has power over everything, and if He does not want it, not even a leaf will fall to the ground without His permission. So don't lose hope. Maybe He gave you this illness so that you could seek and find Him. If you really want to thank The God, do not associate anything with Him. If you want to live on the right path until you die, put your forehead on the ground like all the prophets and Jesus did and ask The God to guide you. If you really sincerely want to find the truth and insistently ask The God for help in this matter, He will definitely help you. May The God Almighty heal your body and soul and give you all the best in both world and protect you from tormenting of the blazing fire.
@JESUStheARK6 ай бұрын
Yes…praying also that the God of heaven and earth who made you will send His Word to you and heal you… and reveal Himself to you more and more. There is no other way to Him except through Jesus, His Only Begotten Son. He is your Redeemer who was beaten & crucified to shed His innocent blood for you that by His stripes and spilled blood we are healed and He was raised from the dead so that we might also be resurrected & have life eternal with Him when we choose to believe in what Jesus did for us because we could not & cannot do it on our own. Praise God He sent His Son!!! Our Deliverer!!! 🕊️🙏🕊️🙏🕊️
@user-fg3fv9hl3b6 ай бұрын
Wish you the best, happy to hear it. Life is hard but has its charm.:)
@Emivioricomex6 ай бұрын
Pls stop taking the ☠️poison safe&effectives..too many ppl getting turbo cancers or their cancer in remission from yrs past comes back with a vengeance...or a different cancer..
@Keepinitreel1086 ай бұрын
Sending you positive vibes to heal 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@dsheng_98272 ай бұрын
One of the most beautiful things is to marry your best friend. 😭💐
@spanishpeaches2930Ай бұрын
That means i'd have to be gay.
@ahmedkamel7065Ай бұрын
Trust me, it is not logical for a person to bear the sins of another person, and it is also not fair for our God (ALLAH) to punish😞 someone for the sins🫵 of another person and also Jesus is not God but he is a messenger from our God(ALLAH). Therefore, a just God will hold every human being accountable for his actions. You can learn and read about the religion of Islam 🌷😊
@spanishpeaches2930Ай бұрын
@ahmedkamel7065 oh do shut t f up with your religion. I am sick to death of it.
@lavernejones44712 жыл бұрын
So, so sweet! 🥰🥰 My husband and I met when we were twelve years old. We were friends first. We have been married for thirty four years now😊
@Priya-im2bx2 жыл бұрын
Omg.... Awww
@lavernejones44712 жыл бұрын
@@Priya-im2bx 🥰
@meeehere32112 жыл бұрын
I wish you a happy long life together 💕
@lavernejones44712 жыл бұрын
@@meeehere3211 Thanks so much! That’s very sweet!😊
@mbr09162 жыл бұрын
That’s truly a relationship you only see in movies, but I absolutely love to hear it is your reality! 🥰 Congrats on 34 years! 💗
@dpmart32752 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend 35 year's ago she thought I was kidding when I asked her out now we have 3 kid's so glad she said yes hope you two will have many more year's together
@freetruth1232 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you! Wishing you two many more years!
@chimenemouafofonga44102 жыл бұрын
Amen to that, for them and for me and my bestie
@azairvine4 күн бұрын
Many more years......many fewer apostrophes....
@deidreharris42272 жыл бұрын
I literally married my best friend too!!! Here we are 21 years later, been at it since I was 15! Married at 21… Congratulations you guys!!
@freetruth1232 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to both of you for 21 years!!
@mariemadeleinesaget14292 жыл бұрын
I met my husband when I was 15, married when I was 17 he died after 63 years together now I'm lost
@freetruth1232 жыл бұрын
@@mariemadeleinesaget1429 So sorry to hear this. How lovely that you had such a long time with your best friend. ❤️
@cheriboberry18082 жыл бұрын
Yep. Same. We’ve been friends since I was 11 became best friends later as teenagers, married at 21 we’ve been together 17yrs now.
@cheriboberry18082 жыл бұрын
@@mariemadeleinesaget1429 I married my best friend frm childhood n hes my everything. My whole family has passed away n everyday of my life I think about the day I might loose him n I’m scared to death of it.
@marciaevans-v1sАй бұрын
Soul mates, they even look alike. Much happiness to you both xx
@ronrice22492 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on marrying the woman of your dreams. She's a real beauty. Many people aren't that fortunate.
@anthonytillman63638 ай бұрын
Facts
@icysnow57cold648 ай бұрын
I don't think the romantic type of love is special, and I think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. It seems that most people love their platonic best friend more than their romantic partner. People can survive without a romantic partner, but people can't survive without a platonic best friend. Platonic relationships are always better than romantic relationships. Platonic relationships are more powerful than romantic relationships.
@heleh98897 ай бұрын
@@icysnow57cold64 that's because you have never had a good romantic relationship then. Because there is no way of thinking a friendship is stronger than a real relationship with your partner. And if a guy choose his friends, run away. ASAP
@icysnow57cold647 ай бұрын
@@heleh9889 Platonic best friends are a lot better than romantic partners are. A platonic best friend will love you way more than a romantic partner ever will. Platonic best friends are not just important, they are very important, very special and one of the best people you could ever have in your life. Platonic friendship is such an important and fulfilling kind of love! You can have a rich, unconditional connection with your platonic best friend. The love a person has for their platonic best friend can be one of the deepest and most intimate connections in their life. The deep, platonic love between friends is stronger than the love between romantic couples is.
@catedoge32067 ай бұрын
yuh
@WonderfulHayden2 жыл бұрын
I teared up watching this. The best relationships are built on a foundation of friendship. I hope your marriage is fulfilling and lasts forever.
@gabynarufan2 жыл бұрын
I love my best friend but she's a female. She's not attracted to female.. some people are just lucky I guess.
@WonderfulHayden2 жыл бұрын
@@gabynarufan I'm really sorry/saddened to hear that. I hope you find your special someone. Don't give up hope.
@waypiel64632 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@Ghostrider-ul7xn2 жыл бұрын
@@RQC7RU You don't realize this but you only "felt it right" and "liked his confidence" because you already found him attractive. If it was your friend who attempted this, you'd be revolted by this.
@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix57332 жыл бұрын
Simp talk
@lucylock58926 ай бұрын
This is a lifetime of happiness. You two have known each other as friends for years before marriage. So sweet!
@piak786 ай бұрын
They know each other's dirty secrets too, which they will used as ammunition against each other when they fight. Also one of them might definitely develop retroactive jealousy. Knowing intimate details of your partner with other people can derail you mentally.
@PrincessPink-x6 ай бұрын
@@piak78Yeaaahh. That mainly happens to couples who aren’t friends first….
@ahmedkamel7065Ай бұрын
Trust me, it is not logical for a person to bear the sins of another person, and it is also not fair for our God (ALLAH) to punish😞 someone for the sins🫵 of another person and also Jesus is not God but he is a messenger from our God(ALLAH). Therefore, a just God will hold every human being accountable for his actions. You can learn and read about the religion of Islam 🌷😊
@Caiocsilveira5 ай бұрын
The only true path of having a happy relationship, is having a real, true friend on your side. Because? Because a partner to share life is more than friend, is a confident!
@ahmedkamel7065Ай бұрын
Trust me, it is not logical for a person to bear the sins of another person, and it is also not fair for our God (ALLAH) to punish😞 someone for the sins🫵 of another person and also Jesus is not God but he is a messenger from our God(ALLAH). Therefore, a just God will hold every human being accountable for his actions. You can learn and read about the religion of Islam 🌷😊
@highcontrast44882 жыл бұрын
When I was 16 in high school I asked my best friend if she could be my girlfriend. Now I'm 30 and still alone to this day.
@mmafanatics98902 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@MongeziRobertMbanjwa2 жыл бұрын
My friend rejected me when I was 16, ghosted me, complaining about ruining our friendship. She rejected me again when I was 20. I met my wife when I was 21 (I'm 40, her 37). My fomer friend recently posted: Men are trash (she's still single, 40yrs with 3 kids). Dodged a bullet 🤣🚮 PS. All the kids have different Baby Daddies 🤣 PSS: she's having number 4 in January, another Baby Daddy 🔥
@_VelociDad2 жыл бұрын
I lol’d at this! Well played.
@leekato27222 жыл бұрын
I was a fat dude who made a teacher's salary because that's what I was when I got rejected I got ghosted I lost 80 lbs, got shredded and a new career making six-figures. That shallow bitch sends me a friend request on FB. We meet up. She's now attracted to the new me. So I pumped and dumped that shallow bitch and I ghosted her. Pay back! 🤣
@mikenewton47952 жыл бұрын
@@MongeziRobertMbanjwa congrats man !
@lifeistolive16172 жыл бұрын
Me to myself : "Write that down..write that down.. " ✍️
@pranjalgupta5702 жыл бұрын
Same here 😂😂
@Hope-ou3mv2 жыл бұрын
"...to tell my girlfriend in a completely fake and imaginary scenario in my head"
@KotleKettle2 жыл бұрын
What is there to write down? You can hear this cliche shit in literally EVERY romantic movie, and in 99% cases it won't work in real life. Don't get delusional. These TikTok videos are deceiving. A girl can take that cringe soy choice of words if she likes you initially. But then again, you don't need to use them in this case, you can just casually say you like her and the result will be the same. I personally don't understand why do you have to ask her to be your gf. If she likes you everything comes off naturally without excessive words.
@lifeistolive16172 жыл бұрын
@@KotleKettle Well.. I'm the girl.. So.. 😂🤣
@pranjalgupta5702 жыл бұрын
@@lifeistolive1617 Why you writing down then 🥺
@ozratarot6 ай бұрын
Friendship is the foundation of a happy marriage. Stories like this give me so much joy.
@terrance086 ай бұрын
@@BobDevV💯 i couldn't say it better. Guys will always have ulterior motives with his girl bestfriend. Girls need to understand this.
@djkobafemi6 ай бұрын
@@terrance08...Agreed, but romantic feelings developing for the female "best friend" is also a NATURAL progression of emotion. The "alterior motives" don't have to be the guys goal from the beginning, but it'll creep up in there eventually. Females, don't be surprised when it "do"😂
@hayleypbop6 ай бұрын
Yuk
@punishanpika6 ай бұрын
@@terrance08 It is not an ulterior motive if they also want to be friends with you.
@livestar06 ай бұрын
She looks 30 yrs older than him 😂😂
@JoeyscustomRC5 ай бұрын
Congratulations bud, this is literally the dream of like 90% of guys on earth…not only did you conquer the friend zone, you literally kicked the living shit of it 🎉🎉🙌🙌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@DymondzTrucking19622 жыл бұрын
My wife started out as my best friend for 6 years we've been together almost 40.
@PsychobabbleRapp2 жыл бұрын
You were not best freinds, you were hopelessly attracted to her and it took you for ever to acknowledge it
@ladybird4912 жыл бұрын
6 years? I would have said no, you had plenty of time to propose.
@DymondzTrucking19622 жыл бұрын
@@ladybird491 we live together for five of those 6 years. And she always said she didn't want to get married. I was the one that was pushing to get married.
@HibiTeamQueso2 жыл бұрын
@@ladybird491 we found the entitled one!
@williamgray96922 жыл бұрын
@@DymondzTrucking1962 but she was still living with you. thankfully it worked out but you didn’t pick up on the obvious signs based on her actions.
@m.w.njoroge74386 ай бұрын
"I understand you may not feel the same way about me and that's OK...I'll respect your decision either way." Guys, men, pursuers, this part of the speech is very important. No pressure = true, honest expressions. Congratulations to these two best friends turned married couple! 💑💐❤🎉
@MaciejRC6 ай бұрын
Or just pure simping?
@mimilapin6 ай бұрын
@@MaciejRC you people say that when it's just a guy being in love. If that's what you call love then YES women want a "simp" we want someone who will "simp" for us as much as we will "simp" for them! No woman wants a bitter, angry, nasty little boy who doesn't understand the importance of friendship.
@rewdskwid6 ай бұрын
@@mimilapintell em, the manliest thing a man can do is be true and honest about the love he feels
@jakeg37336 ай бұрын
@@mimilapinYou do know where those bitter, angry little boys come from, right? You created them
@disgruntledgrunt2416 ай бұрын
Except it's a lie, once it's out there things will never be the same whether she's on board or not.
@ThePrincemgomez5 ай бұрын
Married my best friend of 10 years now married for 16. Love’s flame burns strong through every chapter in life. Smart choice, God bless you both
@jd578710 ай бұрын
With all the negativity in the world it's great to see this story. Congrats to the two of you. Wishing you both a life of happiness.
@deeksharajpoot01042 жыл бұрын
Bro passed the friend zone with flying colors 😂❤️
@DB-hz2os2 жыл бұрын
This whole thing is jokes! How many dudes she picked over you while you was in the friend zone?!? 🥴🤣
@user-hn4zn9nx3c2 жыл бұрын
@@DB-hz2os Thing is, being friends means being friends, not consort in waiting
@localstreetsbatman2 жыл бұрын
@@DB-hz2os you must give up on your dream life because the girl you like was dating guys before you? Then most of us men wouldn’t get married! If you’re in a relationship, breakup cuz she did date other guys
@DB-hz2os2 жыл бұрын
@@localstreetsbatman if you an alpha man you not making a life you dream of based on a woman. Betas do that and you my friend will learn the hard way. Chase your God given purpose not women my brother.
@localstreetsbatman2 жыл бұрын
@@DB-hz2os what the actual f*** are you talking about? Alpha male and all that bs. I wasn’t talking about our goals, I was talking about our personal marriage life idiot. That’s the topic here right now, and if you don’t want a marriage life based on a woman, then there’s another name for you 🏳️🌈
@lopezmt52 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend 30 years ago. We still hold hands and take a nightly walk in our backyard and just talk about our day. Our five sons have all graduated college and are working. Can’t wait for the grandchildren.
@firstnamelastname96162 жыл бұрын
5 sons and 30 years is Winning. Congrats
@inquisitivesoul36182 жыл бұрын
5 sons?! I’m sorry cuz I know you were trying for a daughter, but I’m sure it all worked out in the end.
@lechanneldemysterieuxmante18072 жыл бұрын
Wow Terry, the way you paint your life with that evening ritual sounds so calm and mellow and happy. Nightly stroll and convo is one of those things which is a great way to wind down the day.
@buckethead1332 жыл бұрын
Lucky you Teddy.
@eveleung88552 жыл бұрын
One of my neighbor also try a daughter, she finally got one at 6th, then she got another boy at 7th, so now she has 6 boys and one girl 😂 a foot ball team
@rolfkoch23485 ай бұрын
Finally a sane woman. Congrats.
@thatguythatdoesstuff74482 ай бұрын
Give it time.
@HouseOfSneedАй бұрын
time for her to ride the carousel ?@@thatguythatdoesstuff7448
@Kafen8d2 жыл бұрын
You're the luckiest man ever... To get to be with your best friend for life, and to be her best friend for life.
@ahmedkamel70656 ай бұрын
trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷
@debbiewoznicki24192 жыл бұрын
Married to my best friend for 31 yrs! Great marriage! He's in heaven now can't wait to see him again💙
@yusrarujub68362 жыл бұрын
🥺
@alyponk50162 жыл бұрын
Lots of love and respect 💕
@ceironkosterec2 жыл бұрын
♥️
@nostalgicbliss55472 жыл бұрын
How do you know it's heaven??
@common-men34062 жыл бұрын
He could be dating someone else in heaven 😜😜
@amybradbury3382 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend too, you guys are so cute! Thanks for making me smile on this day. I needed that.
@TarotRider-t2m2 жыл бұрын
I had made a friend few years ago but i liked him I think he didn't think me like a friend or didn't like me much, i just keep hoping he becomes my friend and like me too.
@earlonaweary91552 жыл бұрын
@@TarotRider-t2m Step out on faith! Ask him what he thinks about y'all going out on a date 🤷🏽♀️
@chinmayaprakashsahoo99812 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🥳🥳👊🙇🤗❤️ happy for both of you.. Have a great life ahead 😎🤘🔥🥳👊🙇🤗❤️
@mclovin49742 жыл бұрын
Half of all marriages end in divorce though
@JaySewani2 жыл бұрын
@@mclovin4974 not really
@mannyluke75665 ай бұрын
That's honestly the best way to do it. I started hanging out with a girl from my friends group and we were both serious about not dating anyone so it took all kinds of pressure off whenever we were hanging out. We were married by the end of the year.
@icysnow57cold643 ай бұрын
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely to be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse. Romantic relationships are pointless, while platonic relationships are not.
@mannyluke75663 ай бұрын
@@icysnow57cold64 My wife and I started out at platonic friends. And then things got romantic real quick when we realized we liked each other. Sure it's not as easy as being platonic friends. But we work through our issues and I prefer what we have now over what we had before we started dating.
@ubuu73 ай бұрын
@icysnow57cold64 we found the asexual.
@TurquoiseInk2 ай бұрын
@@icysnow57cold64 Um, you are projecting a lot there. There are many couples who find happiness on the first try, many who find love after several tries. If you are asexual / aromantic that's totally valid, but no need to make sweeping statements about other people's lives.
@icysnow57cold642 ай бұрын
@@TurquoiseInk There's a lot of dangers and risks to romantic relationships, so they should be avoided. The concept of romance should be removed from this world. Most parents hate the idea of their daughter dating and getting married someday and want them to be single for their whole life because of how dangerous romantic relationships are, while most of the time, they're ok with their daughter having platonic friends. That's because romantic relationships are far more dangerous than platonic relationships are. Most parents (both fathers and mothers) who have daughters are hoping their daughter never dates or get married and remain single for their whole life because it's much safer to be single than it is to be in a romantic relationship.
@rararara70092 жыл бұрын
That's how it's supposed to be. From time to time my daughter will call and relate how she is with her best friend today. And I'll say who is your best friend Mija, then her answer is Steve... Her husband. I am so happy they found one another on the rooftop patio where we used to live. He is like a real son to me.
@brandontrammel45812 жыл бұрын
Nice
@payalmehta7882 жыл бұрын
Nice! ❤
@thankunext16252 жыл бұрын
Aw
@lindsey53652 жыл бұрын
Too bad this can’t be everyone’s story, some of us actually have to pray and wait.
@danlol52332 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and it sucks when you see the love of your life being in love with an abusive man.
@zackmoore13512 жыл бұрын
I prayed and have been given a dream, prophecy and vision of my wife. I think the wait will be worth it.
@abigailcosta17162 жыл бұрын
No. Go after it ❤️
@christopher20k2 жыл бұрын
Get out man run 🏃♀️ get better social skills you are your ONLY limitation
@thegreatcommission81922 жыл бұрын
@@zackmoore1351 I am on the same page as you bro, let us keep doing what is worth doing, and God will crown our effort with the best🤝🔥❤❤Simon is my name.
@xoxolovechristielynn2 жыл бұрын
My best friend since middle school asked me to make a pact with him in 9th grade, that if we both weren’t married by the time we were 30, we’d marry each other. Well, when we were only 18, right after high school he had a horrible accident. He fell 12 feet onto concrete while bike riding and broke his neck in 2 places, fractured his skull and had bleeding in his brain. He very nearly died. We were inseparable from the day he got home from his 8 week stay in the hospital, we began dating and were married just 6 months later. It’s 15 years of marriage this year and we have 2 sons. The “friend zone” is sometimes just a really comfortable and natural place to be that builds a genuine relationship and core friendship that will sustain much longer than any other kind of relationship. He’s still my best friend. 💜
@Sabito865912 жыл бұрын
Thank god he recovered. 12 feet made hurt all over right now. Also what a lovely story to tell the family for generations to come.
@stephanea53647 ай бұрын
Man he really went overboard to be with you, having an «accident»....
@kieranb70476 ай бұрын
The friend zone is somewhere where women keep their back up men. It's usually not until the men get some self respect and walk away that the woman realises what they will lose. Sounds to me like his accident made you realise what you could have lost and made you look at him as more than a friend. Glad he's ok tho and something good came from his horrible experience.
@enriqueperezarce54856 ай бұрын
@@kieranb7047I think a lot people are like that both men and women. They take stuff for granted, they gotta lose it to truly appreciate, this is not always but a lot of cases with “friendzones”
@1CuteRN6 ай бұрын
Make sure to ALWAYS make time for each other no matter your hectic schedules. Communicate about the good and bad things. Don’t ever lose your date nights. Doesn’t matter if you’re married you still need the enticement of a date. Swap it up so it keeps it exciting and keeps you guessing. Much love to you both!
@Joe_Cool482 жыл бұрын
“And then, my alarm clock went off”
@roshjacob69022 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@RichLunaMusic2 жыл бұрын
OUCH
@ybebinchilin24212 жыл бұрын
Beat me to it
@kyfarmerman2 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@mokaLARE2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@DizzyDez6136 ай бұрын
Excellent story. I’m a middle-aged man. Been through a lot of different relationships and situations. My advice for anyone crushing on a close friend falls under two categories: If you only kinda like them, just forget it. Enjoy the friendship, maybe try to put a little bit of distance to maybe help you like them a bit less. Unless you have reason to believe they have feelings too. Then just go for it. But if you REALLY like them, might even be in love with them, you HAVE to tell them. For both of your sakes. One of two things will happen: 1 - They will reject you, and you should end the friendship to be able to move on and eventually get over them. 2 - You will find out they like you too, and you can get married like this dude.
@anantakesharipanda40855 ай бұрын
There is a third outcome too after you confess your feelings: She says she’s not sure and she needs time, and keeps you stuck in a situationship leaving you wondering for months or even years where things are going.
@DizzyDez6135 ай бұрын
@@anantakesharipanda4085 If she has to think about it like that, leaving you waiting, it means she isn’t interested
@tataatthedisco2 жыл бұрын
You were never in the friend zone. There was just hesitation and contemplation
@Inn12 жыл бұрын
Yep T-Bear that was the whole point in this video: waiting 4 the rite moment 2 B 1 (couples/spouses/GF/BF, etc...)
@maxjohnson17582 ай бұрын
@@Inn1 Nah, I don't think it was. The whole point was to give all those poor fools stuck in the FZ false hope so they'll stay and fester there until their love interest is done getting railed by Chad and Tyrone. F that.
@NYandAZАй бұрын
Keep expressing yourself with her. Communicate and listen to each other. Sounds like you’ve already established a healthy friendship so communication should be the superpower of your relationship/marriage. Congratulations on marrying your best friend. That was a sweet video. Thank you for sharing it with us. ❤
@wikanhastuningdyahbudihart84742 жыл бұрын
One of the best blessing in my life, having my best friend as my husband.
@abilmut2 жыл бұрын
Hebatr
@TmacPlushVideos2 жыл бұрын
The Bible says that no one is a good person. We have all broken God's law the 10 commandments, we have all committed, lies, adultery, idolatry, and blasphemy. We deserve hell, but because of what Jesus did on the cross we can be forgiven. So if you Repent of your sins, change your wicked ways, and put your faith in Christ you will be written in the book of life. 👌 🙏Repentance is reviewing one's actions and feeling contrition or regret for past wrongs, which is accompanied by commitment to and actual actions that show and prove a change for the better..
@davidswan45212 жыл бұрын
Great story. My wife and I are also medical school sweethearts. Met in 1st year, got married between 2nd and 3rd. We have been together now for 43 years. We even retired at the same time and now are grandparents! Even better than being doctors. It does work though not without struggles along the way. However, nothing that really matters is easy but well worth the effort. It has been quite a journey.
@orjibaby7 ай бұрын
I am a medical doctor, too. I didn’t want to marry my colleagues before due to the high incidence of promiscuity amongst them. But after seeing your story, I am having a rethink. Just maybe, I could have a wonderful love story too. Just maybe.
@ahmedkamel70656 ай бұрын
trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷
@shreyamishra9166 ай бұрын
@@ahmedkamel7065 oh shut up already. People believe in different Gods and that is okay. No one god is superior you man child.
@robertohidalgo7826 ай бұрын
Hahaha promiscuity among Medical Doctors the Question Is in What Time ? Medschool you Pass studying For the Boards and Residency you Work 80 hrs per week For the Hospital @@orjibaby
@MichèleNoriega-k6d6 ай бұрын
@@ahmedkamel7065 There is God, The Father. God, The Son, who is Jesus Christ. And, God, The Holy Spirit, God’s very own spirit. All three in one Almighty God. The God of The Holy Bible. Through God’s Holy Spirit, The Blessed Virgin, Mary, was conceived of Our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is therefore God made man. Incapable of sin because of his divine nature. It was imperative for God’s purpose that in the form of God The Son, that he should possess both human and divine natures. So that he could walk among us as one of us knowing and acknowledging all our human frailties without succumbing to them. God used His Beloved Son as The Way, The Truth and The Life to teach and convey to all God’s children that the only path to Him, God, is through believing and following the teachings of his Son, Jesus Christ. The most important being, that we should love our fellow man as we love ourselves. Without love, we are nothing, because : GOD IS LOVE. 🙏🤍✝️
@Enchanteralle2 жыл бұрын
I love how this shows the healthy way of how relationships grow and not just needing to make it happen after meeting and chatting on some dating app.
@allyb35102 жыл бұрын
So relationships that start via dating apps aren't healthy?
@Enchanteralle2 жыл бұрын
@@allyb3510 not all, but survey shows almost 90% don’t work out long term
@Enchanteralle2 жыл бұрын
@@suziesmith8288 I agree about the hookups. I have met some guys who immediately assume I'm looking for a hookup and I think it's because that's what they're used to and just think any women on the app is looking for the same thing. I'm sure some women look for hookups on apps too, but yes I'm done with those apps. I've also met up with a couple guys who look different from their pics.
@brocks1stop3422 жыл бұрын
@@allyb3510 nope. And women want it that way.
@brocks1stop3422 жыл бұрын
@@suziesmith8288 most of the women on there are the same, or that just attention, validation or followers
@aussieatheist960Ай бұрын
Take it from someone who doesnt have much time left on this earth, live your life to the fullest!! Dont let opportunities pass you by!! Keep your loved ones close & dont waste time holding grudges!!
@CofFDnSnaps6 ай бұрын
She was way ahead of you. You were never in the friend zone dude.
@billbored82776 ай бұрын
I tend to agree... she had feelings for him all along, because no man ever gets out of the friendzone. He was never in the friendzone.
@barrymantelli80116 ай бұрын
yep
@carlosshimmin91696 ай бұрын
I agree. He was a tall, good looking guy to start with, I'm sure he wasn't struggling too hard in the first place.
@ghfudrs93uuu5 ай бұрын
She's clearly the one dating up here
@manfredschmalbach90235 ай бұрын
That's what I thought .... he's humble, and feels lucky, but she's the lottery winner here.
@JackFelker6 ай бұрын
I hope and pray this beautiful couple have an amazing life together.
@kilodeltawhisky15046 ай бұрын
AMEN!
@calebkent67066 ай бұрын
Well done to whoever this guy in the video is! You made it through medical school, found the love of your life, and on top of that youve been best friends with her for a long time! Sounds like a good match! And all at the same time!
@subhamdaslovesraptor99Ай бұрын
Wow, brilliant. May God bless you. You are emotionally intelligent. I was weeping watching this. 😇😇😇
@u1405502 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t always go well for everyone, and everyone reacts differently. Glad it worked out for you, and congrats my man.
@DiannaAngela2 жыл бұрын
Of course it doesn't go well for everyone, but the point is that he was honest about his feelings, respectful of hers and ready to accept potential rejection without judgement.
@huaweiuser6912 жыл бұрын
If you don't bet/play you won't win.
@MrBennylargo2 жыл бұрын
@@huaweiuser691 Don’t lose either. She could have said no. And now that I know how you feel, our friendship isn’t going to work. And now they’ve both lost their friend.
@LakadMatatag27022 жыл бұрын
Sadly I am one of those losers. She never reply to me again.
@MrBennylargo2 жыл бұрын
@@LakadMatatag2702 I’m sorry that happened to you.
@Sarahc04076 ай бұрын
I married my best friend 15 years ago, I might not have got everything right as a teenager but he is the one decision I have never regretted, and now we have two beautiful little boys. Life is better with your best friend. Congratulations to you xx
@melissadc67392 жыл бұрын
My best friend said he wanted to be my boyfriend. I said to him that I’d rather have him in my life knowing I have my best friend forever than to date him & have the chance of losing him forever. One night he kissed me & everything changed. We have been together for 8 & a half years, we are currently engaged with a baby boy on his way ♥️ I’ll have my best friend & little boy forever Edit: Better understand at the end x
@SFC4152 жыл бұрын
Omg! Wonderful♥️
@melissadc67392 жыл бұрын
@@SFC415 - Thank you ♥️
@skyj4512 жыл бұрын
You dont need a lot to change your mind.
@melissadc67392 жыл бұрын
@@skyj451 - Wow, but you’re insensitive & rude considering I’ve just told the basics of the story hey. I was in love with him for over two years. I’m sorry you’re THIS type of person.
@TheeLeodraco2 жыл бұрын
Lol liar lol
@admseraph4 ай бұрын
Your wife SHOULD BE your best friend. It should start out that way, and continue through your marriage. Best friends can disagree, but they always respect you and have your back. That's the foundation of true friends and a marriage.
@katicollins82266 ай бұрын
Not me crying over here. happy tears for you because it's truly beautiful when the right people look in eachothers direction.
@safffff10006 ай бұрын
He's little slow wasted over 4 yrs
@scorpion16476 ай бұрын
@@safffff1000better slowly than never. Not every person is as confident.
@RackemDawg6 ай бұрын
@@safffff1000have you met women these days? Four years is perfect. I’m gonna need to vet the bloodline, and that takes patience. I need to see how you treat homeless people, admirable people, peers, what does your love look like when you’re really comfortable and stop wearing “pick me” masks. Are you demanding? Are you submissive? Are you spiritually led? Are you above pool chicken-fighting the frenemy couple from down the street? How do you win? How do you lose? Are you my intended? Will you go to extremes to make sure that our domicile is one of peace and love? Can you cook? Will you learn? If we go on a day hike, are you down to clown 100yds from the path? What’s your mothers body type? Are you healthy? Is it a womb or a playpen? How can you figure all of that out in a year? There’s no way. Gotta take it slow. Start with just the tip. ❤
@dsories62192 жыл бұрын
Marriage with best friend is literally the best relationship ever.
@CA_Hardev_Jadeja12 жыл бұрын
Really?
@Ijamsuxx2 жыл бұрын
But it is risky, bcos if its not worked, the friends that you made all the way during that relationship will have to pick side, and divided. 💔
@jenster292 жыл бұрын
@@Ijamsuxx they don't though. Adults can choose to be friends with both.
@Ijamsuxx2 жыл бұрын
@@jenster29 Well, yeah you can assumed that, but reality is different and tough. I commented based on experience, i lose A LOT of friends after breaking up with my partner/best friend, and i am an adult.
@daos45572 жыл бұрын
It depends. Some ppl are better with being just best friends.
@sherrywilliams4096 ай бұрын
Congratulations! I wish you both a wonderful life! I married my best friend but he died four years ago with brain cancer. We were married 39 years. Now, I’m trying to be me without him.
@Emi_B46 ай бұрын
Im so sorry for you, sending prayers out ❤
@sherrywilliams4096 ай бұрын
@@Emi_B4 thank you!
@wesp12136 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss. May God bless you till you meet again
@wendysnyder64436 ай бұрын
Ohhh, 😢 you’ll make it through . . . just keep praying & drawing closer to God. 🙏 He’ll help you grow stronger! (James 4:8) 🥰
@sherrywilliams4096 ай бұрын
@@wendysnyder6443 yes I know I’ll make it through! I’m not trying to get sympathy I’m just saying I married my best friend who passed away.
@Barcahernandez.Ай бұрын
Beautiful congratulations and wish you both a happy and prosperous life.✌🏼
@melissaschloneger99026 ай бұрын
We met in med school and have been married for 24 years. Still best friends, still making each other smile.
@GeorgiaStein6 ай бұрын
so fortunate❤
@faithadeyemi715411 ай бұрын
Since the first day I met you, you've been the best friend I never had You are strong, confident, funny, and smart and the best soccer player I've ever seen The more time I've spent with you, the more I realise I want to be more than just your best friend I understand you might not feel the same way about me, and THAT'S OKAY But the chance that both of us might be together is too exciting to keep to myself How we proceed from here is completely up to you, and I'll respect your decision either way.
@ahmedkamel70656 ай бұрын
trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷
@JamesBenjaminNelwan6 ай бұрын
Trinity... God... Jesus and Holy spirit... Three forms of God... and He is God...!!! Gbu all...!!! ❤
@olivest5092 жыл бұрын
I want a man who treats me with this level of respect and honesty and I'm working so hard to become a woman who can match that energy. I won't let my past follow me into my future. If you get a moment, and if you want to, please say a prayer for me. I believe God has better plans for me than I ever had for myself.
@dirkdiggler23792 жыл бұрын
If you're over 30 and you've been ran through good luck to you.
@timmymannies68882 жыл бұрын
Same, I'm 17 and I'm looking for women who has respect and honesty. I'm too young but right now I'm just focusing on my future goals and physique. I had my first love when I was 14 and it didnt end well, but I battled insomnia and depression through faith. I'll definitely pray for you before I go to sleep, may God bless you!
@TheWhisperTexan24 күн бұрын
If you've fallen in love with your best friend you have to tell them but from my experience and stories from my friends and family it is very rare that it works out so if you're one of the lucky ones be grateful.
@Fun4GA2 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend back before the wheel was invented, and we are still loving every day as best friends and as husband & wife. It's such a blessing to desire to be together thru all these years. May your love never stop growing.
@MWard-hl6gg2 жыл бұрын
Same here. Being best friends makes it so much easier
@therealdeal36726 ай бұрын
I love it when people are willing to tell each other that they love each other deeply. It's so sad when people waste a bunch of time pretending that they don't have the feelings that they have. What a beautiful story and couple. ❤🎉
@gracelai94212 жыл бұрын
"Two years, we got engaged- on a soccer field" I died when the music stopped then 😆
@titotoledo42 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for "And last weekend, we got married... on a soccer field"
@trinabaker31866 ай бұрын
You don't know how lucky you are. I hope you have the most amazing life ... ever !
@goranmilic4426 ай бұрын
He deserved his luck by giving her choice. I wonder how would he react if she told him no. Would they still be friends?
@16CMB5 ай бұрын
@@goranmilic442 He crossed the line of being a best friend by developing feelings for her. So no, they shouldn't still be best friends after she said no, and those feelings won't just go away because she said no
@goranmilic4425 ай бұрын
@@16CMB Why wouldn't they still be friends? Explain.
@mrj12993 ай бұрын
Because he loves her and she does not love him Back. @@goranmilic442
@marwan05112 жыл бұрын
A true love always starts with a friendship, even if attraction was there.
@user-ju6zx3rm8d2 жыл бұрын
cope
@klopcodez2 жыл бұрын
Not always be careful with that I have been in many relationships and friendship zone where many women will see other guys then decide your an option in the end if things don’t work the things is you just don’t know even if there interested right away best to know what kind of person your dealing with test them who ever it is guy or girl test the person before committing and take some time to know about there actions
@ronj99332 жыл бұрын
Not according to Reddit, lol
@zeroceiling2 жыл бұрын
Yeah…no not always!….sometimes the person that pisses you off the most at the beginning …is the the one you end up wanting the most….
@11dagit2 жыл бұрын
Not always but when it happens it’s kinda “5min friendship” and you start dating, NOT years in the friend zone 🙄🫠
@jmcclean77602 жыл бұрын
Aww, this is so sweet! I love how genuinely he presented his love, for her, not just of her. He let her make the decision, with no pressure or resentment. Beautiful
@ahmedkamel70656 ай бұрын
trust me that our God isn't Jesus and Jesus isn't our God and no his son. He is a messenger from Allah and our Muslims love Jesus but our God is Allah and He is the Greatest there's no God but Allah and you can learn and read about Islam religion 😊🌷
@senyordoug82962 ай бұрын
He didn't get out of the friend zone, she went into her epiphany phase. Stay strong Kings 👑
@hannahmarie68482 жыл бұрын
"I understand you might not feel the same way about me, and that's ok" I guarantee, that is the only sentence that made them more than friends. And he meant it. He said he respected whatever she wanted. That is what women want. Some men are so forceful about wanting to date, and it makes us glad we have you in the friend zone.
@joelman19892 жыл бұрын
Had a similar conversation with my best friend. She was talking to a guy at the time (I know this is irrelevant but for those insecure guys out there this dude was literally a foot taller than me lol) anyway so I told her how I felt and told her it was up to her that I still wanted to be friends first. And the other guy who she had dated for years and broken up with but was still talking to, told her she should be with him. And she said she knew it was me but that kind of sealed the deal in her mind. As soon as he said that she called me. We were married 6 months later and have been married for 7 years now.
@goborderpatrol12 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend, we got 2 daughters and we’ve been together for 21 years…
@sipioc2 жыл бұрын
Kudos
@HeavenlySunset242 жыл бұрын
Amazing
@trainwreck420ish2 жыл бұрын
So?
@Last_one_before_I_go5 ай бұрын
Hope it goes the distance. Good luck to you both.
@mattt66952 жыл бұрын
Congratulations brother !! Reminds me of mine and my wife’s story !! God bless you and your wife may he fill your life with many blessings
@lynnern572 жыл бұрын
Being friends first is the best! Glad you went for it! Congratulations!🎉
@itsmegannnn2 жыл бұрын
Aww, congratulations! That’s so beautiful 😭❤️
@WDavidCastaneda2 жыл бұрын
Yes, it is.
@jjde8424Ай бұрын
Dr. Goodman, you get my vote. It is precious. Wish you both all the happiness.
@imdiyu2 жыл бұрын
This is the most beautiful thing I have seen in a while. You deserve each other.
@cagneybillingsley21652 жыл бұрын
i hope you guys realize she was messing around while he was the safe option and will likely grow bored of him and cheat for that exact same reason. blackpill
@helloworld78182 жыл бұрын
To be honest though they never looked like friends, from picture 1 they already look like a couple. It's a different vibe than those that have no attraction towards each other.
@teresamcmurrin86722 жыл бұрын
Yep. When my best friend and I met, everyone else could see there was something between us. One of my oldest friends (who became our best man) would just grin like crazy when he's see us together--he was waiting to see how long it would take us to figure it out!
@YumegakaMurakumo2 жыл бұрын
Kudos to them but yeah, OP has got it.
@rasheemthebestfirstone32742 жыл бұрын
Key word you said “look”
@rasheemthebestfirstone32742 жыл бұрын
No shii how you think she and you going to get out the friend zone if she has no attraction for you
@some_dude15962 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing. I think she was waiting for him to make a move the whole time.
@kevinklein95652 жыл бұрын
Y’all were acting like a couple, not best friends. 😂
@floogalflambyn68052 жыл бұрын
That's how girls hang out with their "best friends"
@puffpuffpanda43832 жыл бұрын
That's how it is brother I do have a girl best friend and close friends too we both go out together hope together eat together and sometimes we have sleep over (no $exual) and you know it's the best..i was falling for her and she too was by the way she talk with me after being BFF for nearly 2 years and here we are today as couple for 3 years now and going strong we both know each other weaknesses, likes and dislikes...and I think it's the best ^^
@KimAhrina112 жыл бұрын
They're not a couple?
@chriskibodeaux98182 жыл бұрын
@@puffpuffpanda4383 not remotely how it is!!! Ur also proof u can’t just be friends!!
@maddy56402 жыл бұрын
@Floogalflambyn Not everyone tho but I get you lol There are asexual/aromantic girls out there you know as well as others who just find it easier to hang out with guys and some who just have a guy best friend (some from birth and others later on in life)
@chasepeterson16965 ай бұрын
Congrats! I had a similar experience. I met my wife in the first grade. Fell in love with her in 7th grade. Started dating when we were 22. Got married in 2016. My son was born in 2019. My daughter born in 2022. I couldn't be happier! Enjoy man. You're in for a really great life
@m.wojtak2 жыл бұрын
congrats🎉 also, dude, jake, you stopped me from committing suicide. even if there’s setback, you helped. i’ll never forget that.
@M4rshmllow2 жыл бұрын
Damn..are you ok is everything alright?
@kmmusic82 жыл бұрын
Best of luck with your recovery
@m.wojtak2 жыл бұрын
@@M4rshmllow i’m recovering, it’s a slow process
@annettesjoy2 жыл бұрын
Hey, you are strong, confident, and I wish you so much love and joy that your heart is bursting with happiness.
@user-fn6jr7gt8n2 жыл бұрын
You got this and I’m proud of you! May your life be fulfilled with blessings and all good 🤍
@suyapaochoa94886 ай бұрын
What a sweett story!!!, Wish you a beautiful & strong marriage . God bless you!
@jjdd43072 жыл бұрын
He was never in "the friend zone". 💯
@huzarion38142 жыл бұрын
Ok look at those two he is 8 she is like 7 , he just leek confidence , and what is saddest , when he will relize that he is 8 and she lower , and get confidence , they will divorce ... same sory happen millions times , that is not original :/
@MijoShrek2 жыл бұрын
@@huzarion3814 🤣🤡 down that bad huh. You carry that energy with you and keeps you stuck from rising up to meet what could've been.
@anmazool7252 жыл бұрын
@@huzarion3814 she is a 7? Ahahha she is a 4-5 bro tf ur twlking about
@Timithos2 жыл бұрын
Nailed it. And he's a doctor.
@huzarion38142 жыл бұрын
@@anmazool725 ... you are just depred , he is higher that she that is just fact.
@stflaw3 ай бұрын
It's not easy to get out of the friend zone. Congratulations.
@idaeric62582 жыл бұрын
I lost my father two days ago and this put a smile on my face. Thank you so much for being so understanding jake not a lot of people are ❤
@henri65952 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel. I lost mine too 6-months ago. Hang in there and be strong. It's always the darkest hour before things get better! Don't forget to talk to people, think things really through, cry, and truly accept things.
@svlagonda74172 жыл бұрын
Relationships are the best when the start off as friendships. Perfect foundation to build on.
@azizalarrie28yearsago82 жыл бұрын
me: *cries in single *
@sahiladkar33932 жыл бұрын
With 0 femail interaction😢
@zentiga2 жыл бұрын
Our partner will come whenever we ready to meet them, we’re getting ready! Get ready guys and ladies! The love is coming our ways SHORTLY! Just focus on yourself first and get busy with you, everything has its own time 🤍
@lmlmtmtm36412 жыл бұрын
😂
@Ella-nf9so2 жыл бұрын
Hello fellow Larrie 💙💚
@mo.on_air45462 жыл бұрын
Cries in friend-zone
@Micrometer-dr7rr3 ай бұрын
Once I had a best friend .... Then one of our common friend told me that , he likes me , but as I never saw him in that way .... I wanted to tell him , but our very imp final exam were just 2 month Far , and I dont wanted to make feel him sad ,or disharted ...I just started keeping little distance from him... But just after one month , he proposed me , and when I said "NO" , he stopped talking to me , and this is how I lost my friend... I have No regreats ... As it was his own choice ... I wish I could gave it a better ending than this ... But no worries , as a person cant be in your life for forever , everybody has a limited part in your life ,and when it ends ,person dissapears... ❤ ... I am happy , as I have a very special thing which can never leave me ,is myself ,me and my art skills...❤
@michaelkaczmarek93752 жыл бұрын
Congratulations for following your heart ❤️, good luck in your lives together.
@royhi1809 Жыл бұрын
The things dreams are made of. Congratulations to both of you . May you both have the marraige of a lifetime, childrens that cherish you and a long and happy life. (This video made me smile : )
@theweyrd2 жыл бұрын
That’s a beautiful story and the way you told her was very, very well put. I wish you both an ocean of happiness in the years to come. Congratulations!
@myriamlegault71222 жыл бұрын
Awwww that’s so cute congratulations I just got friends zoned To everyone who got friends zoned try to not be sad but de happy to stay friends Because if you are still friends is that you are enough mature to realize that the person love you as a friend and that won’t change no matter if you tell them that you have feelings for them
@myriamlegault71222 жыл бұрын
@Jason Rood thanks I always prefer look at the bright side Just doing that make me happy every day so I think the most important thing is to realize that you didn’t lost everything 💜
@myriamlegault71222 жыл бұрын
@Jason Rood I am from Canada and I have final exam at my school What about you?
@myriamlegault71222 жыл бұрын
@Jason Rood 15 you?
@myriamlegault71222 жыл бұрын
@Jason Rood ok
@HandleUnclear2 жыл бұрын
@@myriamlegault7122 Just curious, since I can't see Honda's response to you. Are you saying your 15? If so, let me give you some general advice. I'm a woman who is married to her best friend, and I was the one who asked him out. I dated guys before I dated my best friend, and in general I found when guys are younger than 25 they tend to not want to marry, many want serious relationships, but when marriage becomes a reality they get cold feet, can become resentful, or just straight up realize you aren't the one they would want to marry. I would suggest in the pre-25 years to build friendships, focus on learning about yourself and learning to love yourself, so that when you do date and/or get into a serious relationship you know your own boundaries.
@alanwiggins472 жыл бұрын
Dude made it out of the friend zone. What a legend
@dynamopirate4702 жыл бұрын
No such thing as a friend zone.
@sassynana52012 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. Don’t ever forget that this is how you feel about her. Life gets tough sometimes. People change and grow. But make sure you are always able to go back to how you felt here. I didn’t. And now he’s dead so I can’t. And he was once my best friend.
@nurshark10Ай бұрын
Beautiful!!! Marrying best friend is awesome!
@reginafallangie28672 жыл бұрын
My best friend “asked me out” & I said no because I didn’t want to ruin a good thing. We remained “just friends”, until I realized that I did like him more than that. We’ve been married for 21 yrs, together as a couple for 28. A strong friendship is integral to a healthy relationship. Best wishes to you both!
@pioneerprepper20482 жыл бұрын
So basically you showed respect. Which is exactly what most guys in "the friend zone" don't show which is why they don't get the girl
@Halo4beatsB022 жыл бұрын
They don't get the girl because they don't have looks and have no charm
@FourTwenties2 жыл бұрын
Or they don‘t want to get someone to anything and just wanna be friends?!
@pioneerprepper20482 жыл бұрын
@@FourTwenties what
@Ghostrider-ul7xn2 жыл бұрын
You didn't see him show any respect, you only hear him saying he will respect her decision IF she declines. Since she already accepted, you wouldn't know how he'd have reacted if she declined.
@pioneerprepper20482 жыл бұрын
@@Ghostrider-ul7xn no.
@thatssonerdy44672 жыл бұрын
He is one of the fortunate ones because the majority of the time even when you lay your feelings out just like this...you still get rejected and kept I'm the friend zone if you allow it. I'm happy that his story worked out, but I wish that this could be true for everyone.
@njvega66922 жыл бұрын
That’s because women are only friends with beta males
@MM-we4no2 жыл бұрын
What do you mean “and kept in the friend zone?” So you were just there in her life as a predator and not really a friend 🚮 Possibly why you keep getting rejected
@thatssonerdy44672 жыл бұрын
@@MM-we4no first of all I'm in the same relationship that I've been in for the last 8 years so rejection isn't an issue. It's also pretty bold to assume that desiring someone's time and attention is "predatory". Sometimes the feelings for another person are so strong that rather than risking losing their presence in your life you would rather suppress your own feelings for fear of driving them away. So let me ask you this...Would it still be "predatory" if the roles were reversed? Or is it just because this specific instance is predicated from the male perspective? Is it wrong for someone to want to be loved and try to build a bond with someone before actually getting into a relationship with them? Is it wrong to try and build trust before opening yourself up to another that could hurt you? Is it wrong to be nervous about rejection? You may need to lay off the feminism and come back to a more rational reality.
@ayushmalpeddi27937 күн бұрын
I hate to say it but as a guy, if I got rejected I would probably have to end the friendship too. It would just be so unhealthy and unfair to each of us. Yes it SUCKS but all good things come to an end. If both of you don't share the same feelings it's gonna be hard to just stay friends and even see each other grow into new relationships, etc. I think many men will agree that thought will ALWAYS be in the back of our head like "why did she say no to me but yes to this other guy" or whatever. Some people are able to easily see past the rejection and if so I'm jealous of you.
@avonzo3 ай бұрын
Best friends are the best life partners. Period! Good for you guys for going forward. All the best to both!!
@michaelbrookman892 жыл бұрын
I've never thought that simping could work. I'll never do it. When I put a woman in the friend zone, she'll die there.
@anonymous54242 жыл бұрын
bro same for me , never ever . the streetz are cold , no simpin
@vidax.82382 жыл бұрын
Yup, and I'm a woman. Where are the Dom's at?
@michaelbrookman892 жыл бұрын
@@vidax.8238 don't know and don't care.
@imran49682 жыл бұрын
Awww this was so adorable. Congratulations and feel free to share more couples content.
@luckyme1001782 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you guys 😍. You are soulmates and both doctors. What a power couple 👍