I used LOA to manifest my SP - but I will NEVER do it again

[@createwithcorri]

Loveeee this video 🩷🩷🩷 hope it gives a lot of people comfort that they’re not crazy and they’re good enough and that the lessons you’re sharing are the real self concept shift it’s all about - loving you, not gaslighting yourself anymore! You’re inspiring so many people xxx

[@jemmajohnson7037]

Couldn’t agree more! 💖 xxxxx

[@MirartLeonz]

But upto how much we should love ourselves?? To the fullest ok. But what about the desire?

[@ceciliamac4283]

@@sheemery2024Who is Dylan James? Sorry for your experience. It’s never a good experience to go live especially when you invest money in it. How are you doing today? 🤍

[@sheemery2024]

@@ceciliamac4283 he has a KZbin channel on how to change your beliefs… I’m doing well ❤️❤️❤️ how are you

[@sheemery2024]

@@ceciliamac4283 and I’m doing great today - how are you doing??

[@nolimits7495]

Self concept is only a crumb of information. SELF concept in relation to how they are to you, what they do for you combined with YOUR CONCEPT OF THEM. Is what matters. If you’re LIVING WITH THEM, have their phone and text then it’s difficult to recreate them as you are naturally more focused on 3D and IT FEELS LIKE YOU ARE MANIPULATING AND YOUR MANIFESTATION FEELS MORE LIKE FORCED AND A LIE, 4D feels like a lie if it’s mixed with 3D. You’re deep down holding grudges with them and unfortunately you can lie to yourself that I’m forgiving them consciously but you’re secretly reacting to them which is what changes your bad SP. This is why it’s better to have good start from the start for months so that you never gotta do all this, if we all pedestalise and choose pricks then yes you can change them but not when living with them or when talking to them everyday. You yourself said you had best results when you were in no contact. I’ve also had same mindset as you that “you’re not in 100% control” when I was living with a narcissistic monster. Trust me, I have the ability to command fixing WiFi or bring back electricity or change weather in less than 5 minutes, DESPITE DOING all this regularly, I had a traumatic flashback and suddenly my mind tricked me into thinking I can’t do this. I’ve literally lost faith in what I always did in the snap of fingers since a year and a half. Then I calmed down and read again and VOILA, manifested WiFi adapter to fix itself in 5 mins. So I’m your case he clearly messed with your mind as he was in proximity with you, he’s not real and alive inside, no one is in your reality. So you gave your awareness to him, as if he’s “a sentient being”. I’ve drastically changed my narc mother and humbled her but I refuse to be with her as I know I’ll activate her old version due to my extreme hate. They’re not lying but some purposely tell the incomplete information only to engage you more and more to find step by step for views. Whenever I listen to coaches, I feel impatient and the icks because I hate being told how or what to do as I’ve found my own techniques reliable. My own ways worked for me after reading specific material online regarding the selected topic.

[@marcelazimna1022]

It is unfortunate that our traumas from childchood still plays out in our adult life without realising it😢.

[@sheemery2024]

This is why we don’t follow random ppl on KZbin also cuz we really don’t know if their teachings are really even working for them

[@ceciliamac4283]

That’s exactly what I thought these past couple of months

[@sheemery2024]

@ceciliamac4283 me too I had a feeling this coach and Corri relationship wasn’t going well… and I’ve seen it w other coaches in the past…. It always comes to light

[@sheemery2024]

@@ceciliamac4283 same. I had a feeling this coach and Corri relationship wasn’t going well. I’ve had this happen with other coaches too. It’s all smoke and mirrors

[@belictacastelbarco5097]

Thank you for sharing your story, but it is YOUR story and experience and truth. The teachings is true understood is not changing anything or anyone but choose another version of my self, sending you much love ❤

[@Janetandrew]

Grateful for your honesty, and grateful for him for being the person that propelled you to find love ❤️ What a beautiful teacher he is ❤️

[@Self-ish]

Thanks so much for this comment ❤

[@coffibaa]

I am extremely grateful for this video. Thank you. I was confused by a few of your videos previously (I’d left questions but unsure you saw them). This validates how I was feeling. I felt other videos gave mixed messages because you’d say about the toxic side of manifesting but then add you manifested SP so I didn’t know what the advice was. Thank you for this. I feel so much better, and sane!x

[@Self-ish]

Glad it was helpful!

[@mariaelenabartesaghi6322]

Yes, it all makes sense now!!❤

[@kavyashrivastav4258]

Hi Amy! Thank you for sharing such a personal part of your life with us. You're so brave for doing this. I am watching this video with so much empathy for you ❤ one fine day I also woke up and realised I didn't need my person anymore, I just needed the validation that I had previously gotten from them. Handing it over to god really is the most peaceful thing ever. Wishing you more and more healing and growth in this new year ✨

[@ceciliamac4283]

Also confused on 20:16 you can’t get love from the outside. What do you mean? I know couples (close friends of mine) who love each other (and several of them, one partner gives a bit more love than the other). But also, i have a couple of very close friendships who love me unconditionally. When I am sad and hurt and simply find it hard to appreciate and love myself, they show me love and that helps. I would love to hear your thoughts when you get a minute 💜

[@saraht8474]

We need balance. Balancing the inner and outter. Outter has a reason to exist too.:)

[@ceciliamac4283]

@ That’s exactly what I feel :) Happy to hear I’m not the only one 😁🤍

[@fahimshahriyar2494]

Sister saving lives, You're great!✨

[@Self-ish]

I try

[@hellothereinternet]

Same situation with me hence why I’ve aligned to finding your channel! I was trying to manifest back an abusive ex. Everytime I would ask for guidance god would remove him! This community would keep me in a state of poor self worth and disconnected

[@ceciliamac4283]

So happy that you were guided away from the abusive ex 🤍🤍🤍

[@Jesse12851]

Ok I get the whole point of why the journey causes so much suffering and why it's not a good thing to do, but what about the people who have manifested their SP exactly in every detail despite their circumstances being seemingly impossible that we see on Reddit, KZbin,etc etc and their just sharing their whole process? Some of them are now married? Is it possible to do so like them?

[@Self-ish]

Do you personally know these people?

[@thismyworld222]

I manifested 2 people but they didn't come until I forgot about the desire lol

[@thedivinesfinest]

I believe one the reasons why so many people get so caught up with trying to “change” our SP is because we have witnessed them treating others better than they have when we were dealing with them and we want to have that experience that as well with that person. I’m sure that not just myself but others went through this. A lot of times when this happens we just don’t want to feel those feelings of being rejected. However I definitely resonates with this video because I was one of those people too where thier assessment test inside of thier course helped me identity my self concept beliefs and yes I got some results but it was wishy washy. Smh. But hey lesson learned because I know that I’m good enough just as I am. Thanks Amy for this video ❤

[@Self-ish]

You’re welcome ❤

[@anonymousa-uy1hk]

The standard I set for myself now is that, if a relationship is meant for me, it needs to be easy and effortless. Anything that requires me to jump through hoops of fire is off the table. Also, if early on in a relationship with someone, they don’t show interest in me by asking me questions about my life or demonstrate what I consider to be thoughtful behaviours, it’s an automatic dealbreaker and I refuse to invest any more emotional energy into that situation. I understand where you’re coming from and, at some point in my life, I would have done the same thing (thanks to early childhood trauma). I’m now at a point where, after TONS of inner work, I realize that someone who I’m meant to be in a loving relationship with would NEVER diminish me in any way and that ANYONE who does that is not someone who I care to invest any time, energy or resources changing. I’m not sure how old you are, but you appear to still be quite young, so I’m glad you got the lesson early in life. Now you have all the time in the world to build a better, healthier and more loving relationship with the right person.

[@margaritaurbina5897]

Great video Amy! Keep going, you're such a smart and valuable woman 🎉❤

[@lmfisher650]

My body and brain was naturally rejecting the theory of us being the ones causing the circumstances in the 3d and their behaviour. I knew that it wasn't me causing my sp to dump me. It was him.

[@nolimits7495]

I don’t know but in my experience whenever I became narcissistic and kicked his butt while manifesting him, he bended to my will and will obsess over me. THIS drove me nuts that why can’t someone love me for just being me, why do I have to be femme fatale black cat to make someone head over heels? Realised my Sp originally was captivated since day 1. But my toxic male friend curated my self concept and bad assumptions about men and also being raised by a narcissistic parent. Which escalated mental health issues and I was looking for a short cut to manifest. But I realised I was never obsessed with my SP but only wanted to desperately escape this environment and wanted someone to heal my trauma. So instead of healthily focusing on my own passions that I wanted the most, I ended up chasing him and not using manifestation correctly thinking he’ll just serve my heart and mind.

[@ceciliamac4283]

Thank you Amy 🤍 Love this video so very much and I appreciate you being here on YT. You are making a beautiful grand difference 💗

[@Self-ish]

Thank you so much!

[@Ksiuiu]

Dear Amy! I’m really impressed by your videos! You seem super intelligent and finally another perspective! Keep shining! ❤ Sharon

[@user-hs7pf6by6v]

I agree with every word.. experienced the same last 4 years , with different Sp's. And the last was an dismissive avoident for 2 years on and of , and thinking that i could change his behaviour.. 😢 Now i know it's actually about setting bounderies for your self. And don't accept anything you don't want, like you said what you are accepting or not. Iam now all in to me and really don't allow any kind of pour treatment. And i am at peace in myself, and don't need no one. Also for the first time after 4 years in de manifesting community following everything and everyone. I also wish i knew this before.. it's so toxic.

[@Self-ish]

Thanks for the comment ❤

[@lesleyn6430]

This video is brave, but you are braver. Im sorry that you went through that, but im glad that it led you to where you are. I agree with everything that you said, despite my heart pounding a little with nerves,but its because i know what you’re saying is true❤

[@Self-ish]

Thanks so much

[@wholesome_J]

Thank you for sharing this. ❤

[@alivargas4756]

That's why I feel everything in moderation. I believe there are some great things about self concept. Thanks for sharing your story as I will learn from it just as much as someone who has completely succeeded in LOA. All stories matter.

[@Self-ish]

Absolutely!

[@Michaelpeterscoach]

This was wonderful.

[@Self-ish]

❤

[@noone-gd6pm]

another great video, this is helpful. like really helpful, thanks so much !!!

[@Self-ish]

You're very welcome!

[@JaeSwift10JamellaSwift]

This video was great. I think that you had to go through the process of following the law of assumption, being with your ex, and even receiving coaching that didn’t feel right to arrive to this moment in time. It all happened for you, not to you. We can select what works for us with LOA AND also release it, and surrender the desires to the Divine. I still believe that the desire is God in us, and your self concept can work against you, ie, always seeing the worst in a person. However, intuition needs to be relied on as well. I have had many relationships and now know that it wasn’t always them. I needed to hold myself accountable for the relationship too. However, you did the right thing by surrendering it all to the Divine. Walking on eggshells does not feel good. I desire a relationship that feels as delicious as my relationship with my dog. 😊

[@Self-ish]

Thanks so much ❤

[@katherineb.gavino9955]

Thank you for sharing. I'm on the same boat. Let Go & Let God is my daily affirmation in this journey.

[@Self-ish]

You are so welcome

[@sheemery2024]

Thanks for sharing. Was this video about the avoidant ex you were just in a relationship with and your other videos are about?

[@Self-ish]

All of my exes were avoidant! But yes it’s my last one I’m referring to 🧡

[@sheemery2024]

@@Self-ish thanks for actually being REAL

[@sheemery2024]

@@Self-ish I thank God everyday that I didn’t get what I wanted

[@SamoraC]

Sometimes people gotta hear things they dont want to. Ur correct. I know some normal people who dont "manifest" and probably have shitty self beliefs and have stable marriages etc...

[@Ksiuiu]

Also, the twin flame journey is more or less gaslighting imo! Which you probably also came across during your manifestation period?

[@esroskesafos3533]

Thwin flame journey is a lie. You only have your journey

[@ceciliamac4283]

On 16:32 were you talking about your current partner i.e your husband? I got a bit confused for a sec 😅

[@SkyBlue-bs7uj]

Thanks for sharing I am Agree in somepoint you were sharing and same time i am disagree. I think what you been experienced were baised of not looking for redflags, ignoring and not setting for your self boundary and accepting all nigative things and its totaly understandable, but blaming the LAW or Labling so hardly is also a limiting belif. The law is working even we trust or not we follow or not, its our moment based moments choices make differenent where what our result we get. There are milions of humanity getting the result so i dont think it would make so much different what 1 person may share, Good luck and best wishes and surrounding in God is powerfull message

[@Self-ish]

It’s the teachings that’s the issue and I think I explained that in the video. LOA teachings are based in fear and control. I used to believe that I had full control because I ‘learned’ how to use the Law. However, now that I’m out of that I can see how really it was my own patterns I was attached to that I needed to let go of. It was never about the Law to begin with. I had been drawn to yet another situation where I had to repeat the same pattern and was given the same lessons over again until I let that go

[@SkyBlue-bs7uj]

@@Self-ish Thats the meaning of learning our lessons, come near to our soul and real desires which came based of our values not based of keeping a guy. I think those guys are also human beings and have stories, fears and some desires. its good to respect thier choices and whish them the best as you did and I did same thing. Surely they came as a teacher in our life that we learned our lifelesson, love and accept ourselfs and take different choices nest time.

[@saloras9500]

Thank you mam! God is great and god is real ❤

[@lmfisher650]

I love how you love God. I am the same. I could never understand some of the teachings from the manifestation community and how they try to declare themselves as God.

[@sheemery2024]

@@lmfisher650 well we are God but they use that to control ppl

[@lmfisher650]

@sheemery2024 if we are all God then explain how the earth came about and everything we see on this planet? Explain creation, explain how they discovered Jesus's blood, Noah's Arch and other evidence as per written in the bible. I know we are made in God's image BUT we aren't God or God's. It is a sin to believe otherwise. I believe in manifestation and the spiritual realm but I certainly don't believe in us being the creator. We have a creator and his name is Yahweh. I put my faith and trust in him.

[@sheemery2024]

@ I’ve had experiences showing me I’m a part of God. Everything is. I can’t answer all your questions and you don’t have to believe me but I’m gonna trust my spiritual experiences over your paragraph. Still, doesn’t mean we should be controlling ppl with our thoughts.

[@lmfisher650]

@sheemery2024 I 1000% trust in God but he is a separate entity to us. We are made in his image but he is the creator.

[@sheemery2024]

@@lmfisher650 ok that’s your opinion

[@eleaklea3180]

I am sorry what you went through. However I see several contradictions in your video and comments. You talk about your childhood trauma and how all your relationships were with avoidants. Clearly these avoidants were brought into your life by your trauma. You basically "manifested" them. Then you talk about your former sp coming back multiple times. Well you were "manifesting" him and the change in him was coming back to you instead of going away. So this contradicts your general assumption that people cannot be changed. Not to mention that this general assumption was also getting projected into your reality. It's true that with our conditioning it's easier to imagine a new person with a different behaviour than a change in someone with whom we have a history. But you saw in your history of relationships that different people were playing out the same role. Yeah focusing on torture brings only more torture, and focusing on feeling guilt brings more of that. It's a perpetual manifestation... For sure focusing on God brings more God into your life, or in your case it seems your idea of a protective paternal figure taking care of you. Maybe one day you will come to realization that there's no separation between you and the God, and no separation between you and anyone in your life.

[@Self-ish]

It’s not a contradiction, he never really changed. I once believed everything you said in this comment but I can see now how the manifesting community completely gaslights us into thinking that we are the cause. It’s not that you’re manifesting people into your life with those characteristics, your finding these people attractive because they’re familiar and follow a subconscious pattern which you are drawn to. The same when you break the pattern and drop it, it’s not that you’re manifesting different people in your life, you’re just no longer drawn to those who perpetuate the old pattern anymore. We can’t change people, only God can change them and they need to be a willing participant. I know there’s no separation between myself and god but this does not mean that people don’t have their own ego, personality, beliefs and characteristics that are out of my control as a human. The idea that we can change people by simply affirming or imagining them difference causes cognitive dissonance and mental health issues and sends people down paths towards abusive relationships thinking they can change their narcissistic ex. It’s dangerous thinking

[@eleaklea3180]

@Self-ish you never detached until maybe now. And why would he change if you didn't change? well you are probably changing now, I won't be surprised if very soon you will see some massive changes in him. But now you keep affirming - people cannot change. Well good luck with changing your clients with this generic assumption...

[@Self-ish]

My clients do change, but I’m not going to take the credit for the hard work they have done. I respect your opinion but I’m not into solipsism

[@sheemery2024]

@@eleaklea3180she’s not affirming people can’t change she just accepted how he is right now stopped trying to change him herself… she became unattracted to how he’s being now. You’re doing too much blaming on her it’s weird bro

[@ajgraf6571]

Yay 😀!!! Thank You

[@hemapriya6648]

Okay, so leave about narcissist, but generally what you are trying to say?? Like you can't manifest a sp by changing your assumptions?? It can be with anybody but if you don't change chances are it can repeat with anybody any sp!! Ryt???

[@Self-ish]

You can’t change a person and if you’re in a relationship with someone who is disrespecting you then look at whether this is a pattern and why you are drawn to people who don’t respect you, are narcissistic etc. you don’t need to assume anything, you drop the pattern and ask for guidance as to how you found yourself here again (no judgement at all by the way). Learn from it so you can spot this with the next person.

[@jannaliese5242]

But you can change yourself, or specifically said, your view on other people right? That’s where I’m still stuck on…it’s the same pattern I unconsciously manifest but with different people, that show up fantastic first and as soon as my insecurities get out of hand it gets shitty. So surely they can turn up differently as soon as I get rid of my assumptions?! 🙃

[@ceciliamac4283]

@@Self-ish They are also drawn to people who see good in others, to helpers who want to support people who need support. They are Dewan to people who are full of life and who see beauty everywhere and in almost everything. They feed drops that energy. They are drawn to kind and calm people. I just had that experience. I wasn’t attracted to his coldness because he only showed it after. I was never drawn to his disrespect. And to his gaslighting I was so putt off by it. I just wanted to put this here because it very important to see it from a different perspective. My responsibility today is to try my best to get out as soon as I feel off. Even if I have feelings based in his good side, I will walk away no questions asked. 🤍

[@ceciliamac4283]

@@jannaliese5242with the right people, your insecurities won’t be a huge deal. They will find ways to hold you while you work on yourself.

[@hemapriya6648]

Also, there is no person in this world who is in full perfect relationship with any sp, so everybody wants change in some or other way, so why you think that loa cannot change your relationship??? With your sp

[@Self-ish]

You don’t change it with LOA, you give it to God. LOA is not God, it’s manipulation and control

[@hemapriya6648]

Then how you think you'll manifest what you want, leave sp, take a desired specific job as a example, take a iphone as a example, I am trying to manifest it but I didn't get it, will you say oh, it's not meant for me that's why i didn't get that??( No hatred or offence btw!)

[@ceciliamac4283]

@@hemapriya6648 Just pray for an iPhone. If that iPhone is going to be of good use, I’m sure God will deliver it to you. Same for everything else. Things that are good for us, when we pray for them, we always get them. Always. On the right time. Trust the process (I know it’s easier said than done. But trust through faith is the answer)

[@Brielle312]

I think Marianne Williamson teaches universalism but youre hitting the many points that manifesting makes it off: it’s worship of desires (and that you think you can control it), very ego driven and self seeking. Not a fan of course in miracles because I feel it’s led me to those points that made me delulu

[@Self-ish]

I can understand that when it’s mixed with LOA and I went through a huge identity crisis because of it! I think Marianne and ACIM was a stepping stone for me to move away from LOA teachings but I agree with you in that it took me a long time to listen to the message within it. Thanks for your comment 🧡

[@schoolofashley]

Amen!!!!❤

[@sharissaschannel3644]

Thanks a bunch. Need to hear this! I think if they were meant for me....then they would be here. Maybe there is an unknown reason. Maybe protection. ❤

[@esroskesafos3533]

Nope.

[@esroskesafos3533]

If you want something it is meant for you

[@michellegilson-g7g]

Bravo x