👏 👏 BIG THANKS to Seamus for sharing his story. Read more about 47,XXY (also known as Klinefelter Syndrome) here 👉 ab.co/2VVnJZ8
@Binary._. Жыл бұрын
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@markrussell3428 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for Seamus's story, Some would try to suggest there are more than two sexes and use someone like Seamus as a case to "prove this point". Thank goodness he has the courage to speak so clearly about his condition, Hopefully it educates the illusional.
@davidmicheletti6292 Жыл бұрын
I too was born with a intersex condition. It has been difficult living with this. In all I’ve had seven or more surgeries and stage three testicular ovarian cancer. Today i am having a mammogram as I also carry the gene for breast and ovarian cancer. Sometime in the next years ill need another surgery. That will be number 28 Thanks for sharing your story. People need to know we are apart of the world.
@Fizzypopization Жыл бұрын
@@markrussell3428I know science is hard for you, but try actually reading more about intersex conditions. You are literally denying the existence of something well established and something you literally just watched.
@markrussell3428 Жыл бұрын
@@Fizzypopization Thanks. Honestly, this isnt hard for me to understand at all and I have read lots. If there is something specific, you disagree with please let me know. What I would say is intersex is a large category that captures a grouping of genetic anomalies and other abnormalities related to sex identification and functioning. The different abnormalities occur frequently enough to become identified and grouped in the larger Intersex category. At its core, these are genetic or related malformations that take the form of anomalies just like there are other anomalies or “birth defects” such as: down syndrome, cystic fibrosis or hypospadias. If someone comes from the Fausto-Sterling school of thought or believes sex is assigned at birth I can see where the confusion comes from. Sex forms in utero as a fetus develops, takes shape. Sex can be determined as early as six weeks with some degree of accuracy and normally is 100% accurate through amniocentesis later - well before birth. When its not clear in utero there is a risk for an anomaly.
@Forge17 Жыл бұрын
This man is so brave for going on camera and sharing his struggle. He’s owned it and is actually helping others
@sleepyanna8188 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, what a man !
@maddinek Жыл бұрын
Especially brave doing it as a man. I feel in our society it's so much easier for women to speak up about issues and the issues men have of any sorts get silenced the one way or another. Awesome guy!
@Forge17 Жыл бұрын
@@maddinek women feel a stigma too talking about infertility, but men feel emasculated to discuss any sort of issue like that 😕 especially regarding low T, Erectile D, or hormone issues
@maddinek Жыл бұрын
@@Forge17 men getting laughed about, called names and considered less of a men if they talk about emotions. The classic response is something like "mimini such a poor guy" and tons of other things. Therefore I'm not surprised we aren't talking open about them.
@ES-wn4oq Жыл бұрын
@@EG-misanthropeHonesty often takes bravery, yes.
@largemargetakingcharge4729 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to see more people disclose this type of sensitive information to the public. I am intersex who has male appendage, but ovaries and uterus. Find out around 20 years of age after periodically having what I thought was a uti or prostate cancer, but found out it was a period.
@Andrew_Warden Жыл бұрын
Wow, what a story you have. I'm curious to know more. Can I ask how you were helped with having periods? How do you identify? I'm genuinely asking.
@largemargetakingcharge4729 Жыл бұрын
@@Andrew_Warden Hey! I’ll be happy to answer your questions. My doctors have been amazingly supportive and quite knowledgeable of my condition. I’ve gone through two stages of puberty with my condition being the second. Shortly after my diagnosis, I began taking testosterone. Originally my body was producing a decent level of testosterone and around 18 years of age, it plummeted and I started having mood swings, lower back and stomach aches, occasional diarrhea with leg pain. I begin spotting thinking it was an uncontrollable uti and it would last for a few days and then I would notice changes in color of blood around the time it would stop. I don’t want to give too much details as I don’t want to gross out anyone. I was given midol to control the pain, or would drink black coffee which helped for a while, but had to go to stronger meds due to the pain. I also take sanitary napkins with me around the time I feel like it’s about to start. After starting “T” my menstrual cycle has changed tremendously. It went from every month to now once every four or five months. If I were to stop taking “T”, I could still develop breast tissue, widened hip, and a host of other symptoms, but T has been working well for me. I still identify as male.
@EikottXD Жыл бұрын
Birth control probably took care of the periods.
@NathalieCwiekSwiercz Жыл бұрын
Oh How scary it must have been to think you have cancer :( but thank you so much for sharing, you are absolutely helping others who may have your symptoms and dont dare go to the doctor's to get help! I hope you are doing much better now knowing what it is. Again, thank you for sharing ❤ (English isn't my first language, hope I didn't write anything wierd haha😅)
@anonymousanonymous7304 Жыл бұрын
I wonder if there's an environmental cause that we don't know yet.
@lynnsavron794911 ай бұрын
My stepson was diagnosed with this disorder. It was actually a relief to know that his behavior and physical symptoms had an explanation. He had all of the typical Klinefelter characteristics, and life was not easy for him. Unfortunately, one of the risk factors of this syndrome is testicular cancer, which took his life at the age of 35. He is much missed.
@its_britneybicth11 ай бұрын
Rip ❤
@DotMcFarlane11 ай бұрын
I can relate. My stepbrother James didn't have Klinefelter Syndrome, but he developed testicular cancer that spread to his manhood, kidneys and lungs. He passed away in 2018 aged 48. Sorry for your loss 😪😪
@lynnsavron794911 ай бұрын
@DotMcFarlane I understand. I am so sorry for your loss.
@kristineanderson498311 ай бұрын
Thank you for telling this story. Prayers to you and your family.
@davidarundel618711 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss . 🕉️🙏
@Mikeexteriorcleaning5 ай бұрын
I was diagnosed with XXY at 34, feeling tired and experiencing symptoms like low testosterone (1.1), gynecomastia, low energy, and reduced sex drive. Androgen therapy has significantly improved my condition. I also have ADHD. I am grateful to have two kids through a sperm donor, and I proudly call them my own.
@Rantsack Жыл бұрын
My fiance has 47 XXY and I never had a problem with him. When you're with someone, you have to be there and support them. Not judge them. Sadly, my fiance passed from cancer 12 years ago. We have been together for 14 years He was an amazing person and always tells me, how happy he was to have met me and I made him feel confident everyday.
@nodeofranvier222 Жыл бұрын
Rest in peace mate. I wish you good luck honey he's waiting on the other end I'm sure you'll meet him one day
@i10j0 Жыл бұрын
May he rest in peace.. What type of cancer did he have?
@dionne01208 ай бұрын
14 years as a fiancé?
@vay_exe6 ай бұрын
@@dionne0120 it says "we have been together for 14 years" so probably not fiance for the entire 14 years :)
@AmritSingh-gj5rw6 ай бұрын
Are you married now
@davechristensen8299 Жыл бұрын
I had a friend in the military who was also XXY. He didn't find out until he was 40. He had amazing extra mental abilities that very few people have.
@tigergreg8 Жыл бұрын
What were those extra abilities, if you don't mind me asking?
@FTKSoky Жыл бұрын
@@tigergreg8he could fly
@samofrabat Жыл бұрын
That has nothing to do XXY, but with the rest of the genes
@tigergreg8 Жыл бұрын
@@FTKSoky Lmao
@davechristensen8299 Жыл бұрын
@@tigergreg8 EXTRA ABILITIES He learned enough of a language in a week or so that he said was getting a good grip on understanding it. He could see auras and know things about people. He could tell what part of a person's body was ill. In the Air Force the doctors used him in their hospital office to tell them where the person needed help. This helped the doctors to diagnose people correctly and save lives. This was very real. He was dependable. There are probably people alive today because of his abilities. The Air Force doctors studied him. They found that one part of his brain was more developed. He himself attributed this to having an extra chromosome. I don't know if that explains his gifts, but it made him feel more positive about having an extra chromosome. His physical appearance was typical of XXY, but that's not so different from many other men, so as much as he was studied, the doctors did not think to see if he was XXY. He learned it later after the service. His differences caused him some difficulties in life. But I don't know what they are. He was a cool guy and had good friends. He was very close to God. Something about his character made being close to God natural for him. The human race has achieved things that other animals have not. Part of that is due to the tremendous diversity of traits among people that it takes to create a civilization. Everyone should be honored and valued. That is how Native American's feel about everyone. Our differences are gifts. Everyone was valued for their differences. My father had a saying that guided his life: "EVERYONE IS A DISTINCT INDIVIDUAL". There is something unique about everyone that we should not try to change nor fix. Honor people for how they are. We need the variety. I enjoyed this topic. There is a world of people who are unique in some way. "One shoe does not fit all". I wish everyone happiness!
@jameschamberlain5817 Жыл бұрын
I got diagnosed with 47xxy last year. This man's story resonates with me so much. ❤
@yo_darlin1516 ай бұрын
You’re a truly they/them person. 🙂
@UseYourManners1234 ай бұрын
That’s awesome! Knowledge is power! There’s a lot more men with it they just don’t know it yet.
@Liberperlo Жыл бұрын
I'm glad Seamus is getting the treatment he needs. I have Turner Syndrome, which is 45 X, so I'm a woman who lacks the second X (or Y). I also was helped with hormone supplementation, so I can relate. Good Luck Seamus!
@Liberperlo Жыл бұрын
p.s. I'm older, and It is really liberating that topics like this are openly talked about now. I was even told as a child not to talk or be open about having Turner syndrome.
@Connection-Lost Жыл бұрын
Not possible. If you had only 1 X you would be a clone of your mother.
@igorjee Жыл бұрын
@@Connection-Lost what about the 22 somatic chromosomes she got from her father?
@neigeepierrot4694 Жыл бұрын
@@Connection-Lostit is true I have it too
@neigeepierrot4694 Жыл бұрын
@@LiberperloI have it also it is nice he is talking about it
@JC-sm4mp Жыл бұрын
His mom building him up and advocating for his autonomy feels do heart-felt. Telling him he doesn't have to be stuck in a rut, that's a life changing thing from a parent
@paulastafford1642 Жыл бұрын
You've just saved many men from feeling depressed and confused about a subject they wondered about. Thank you for your bravery.
@chrisf5462 Жыл бұрын
Being this gutsy and open about your life is incredibly brave. What an extraordinary man. I wish him every success and happiness.
@raven4k998 Жыл бұрын
well now you know that it is possible to be born with three chromosomes so people saying that you cannot have three yes you can and it happens
@1Psalmaday Жыл бұрын
@@raven4k998It's a genetic abnormality. There's still only 2 genders
@stephss Жыл бұрын
Brave for being authentic and just existing? Your bigotry is astounding.
@kikib8434 Жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@kevinjenkins6986 Жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to this, I have a pituitary tumor that took away all my testosterone. My bloodwork said I was at 23, when the normal range is 300-1200. It is mentally and physically punishing, and more or less ruined my relationship. Glad this guy found relief and peace
@Anonymousey44 Жыл бұрын
I hope you've found relief and peace too 🙏
@KindCountsDeb3773 Жыл бұрын
@@Anonymousey44 I so agree. Kevin, I hope u get solutions to any areas you feel your need/want. You deserve it friend !
@mrbaab5932 Жыл бұрын
You can get testosterone replaced prescription from your doctor.
@amandagardner565 Жыл бұрын
g'day Kevin my oldest brother had a pituitary tumor removed when he was 42 (29 years ago), after 10 years the doctors in Melbourne Australia had a party because he was the 1st patient in the southern hemisphere to live 10 years after that surgery, here it is now 29 years later and he's still alive. he's a stubborn bugger lol, never say die. i had the opposite problem, i had too much testorsterone and began transition to female in 2003.
@Deb_BG Жыл бұрын
I hope you have found relief and peace, too. Everyone deserves happiness.
@trh4982 Жыл бұрын
I was born with XXY. A little different from this gentleman. Learning difficulties and anger problems when I was a child. Still have some of those problems at 40 years old.
@KindCountsDeb3773 Жыл бұрын
I wish you well. Hope you will avail yourself of any help you may feel you want or need. Live your best life !
@greencheeksconure Жыл бұрын
Wow you pretty much just described me, I'm going to look into this.
@gothicyid Жыл бұрын
Not sure it's related to the extra chromosome. Have you been tested for other things like adhd or dyslexia?
@trh4982 Жыл бұрын
@gothicyid I am not sure. But that is what my doctor said at the time.
@WhoJustReplying Жыл бұрын
Do you just get angry for something you don’t even know why ?
@jarcha4200 Жыл бұрын
My neighbor struggled getting a diagnosis of Klinefelter Syndrome back in 1988. I am so glad your mother was so supportive.
@PLuMUK54 Жыл бұрын
One of the things that resonated with me was how you feel after a diagnosis. At 58, I was diagnosed with a condition that I'd always had. I felt empowered, validated, and grateful because I finally had a label that explained why I was different. It was life changing. I am glad that people are brave enough to go public like this. When a person is diagnosed with any lifelong condition, it makes it so much easier when you realise that you are not alone.
@clankb2o5 Жыл бұрын
Very brave of him to share his story! And it is shocking to read that 1 out of every 550 men has this condition. That is so many!
@anglophils645 Жыл бұрын
1% of the population has some kind of hormonal or chromosomal problem that affects their fertility. That's 1 out of 100. Some women have only 1 X chromosome, instead of 2, for example. Kleinfelder's syndrome is just one example of these problems.
@R.Oates7902 Жыл бұрын
He's a good-looking guy!
@Sophie-mt8yf Жыл бұрын
@@jonathanwetherell3609 wow awesome! You(r son) may have been the reason why the doctor could diagnosed those other cases! That's great
@בתושלישו Жыл бұрын
He is brave and Jesus loves you!!!
@kellydalstok8900 Жыл бұрын
@@בתושלישוhow do you know what someone who supposedly lived 2,000 years ago thought or felt. You shouldn’t believe the stories anonymous men from a different country who spoke a different language wrote. If you had a clue about the origins of your religion you wouldn’t take these writings by ignorant people so seriously.
@1mourningdove54 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Seamus, for telling your story. I am glad that you found answers. I think that many people in the world need to hear stories like this so they can understand that not everyone is exactly the same, but that is OK.
@jennyellis2062 Жыл бұрын
Good on you for sharing your story about your extra chromosome, I am sure that lots of people will hear you're story and understand more about themselves and get the help they need
@Mizoneko Жыл бұрын
This is very brave, I have Swyer's Syndrome, I'm female, but I'm 46 XY, found it out when I was 24, had a surgery to remove the pseudo ovaries and been on hormonal replacement therapy since then, I'm 35 now and it is hell with the high BP, the weight problems, and all that... But here we are!
@HeleneWheatfield0549 Жыл бұрын
Seamus, I'm so happy that you're now feeling stronger and fitter, physically and mentally. You're a real star in speaking out to help others. Congrats!!
@herlandercarvalho Жыл бұрын
I love that so many people in the comments are praising the courage of Seamus on giving his testimony! But what I would really love even more is that no one would need courage for this, and everyone accepted anyone that has some sort of DSD, without having to suffer from other people's prejudice or carrying any stigma.
@Davett53 Жыл бұрын
In 1965 when I was diagnosed with having Klinefelter syndrome, very little was known about it or was written about it. I began getting testosterone injections, but even then, they were monthly, which later proved to be inadequate. But they worked enough, so that I developed body and facial hair and have a deep manly voice. I didn't really know my learning disabilities were also a by product, until I saw this video. I struggled in school, but since my mother was a educator, she made sure I was tutored. I hated that I went to "school" even during my summer's off from regular school. She recognized my skills and talents in being creative, so she made sure I could take all the art classes available, beyond what we had in our public schools. In high school I was already beginning to exhibit my art, and win awards and recognition. In college I won a 3 year arts scholarship, based on my creative body of work in Print Making and Sculpture. I earned a BFA and later after grad. school a MFA. I knew I could have sex with women, and not worry about getting them pregnant. So I never had to wear (condoms). I did always struggle with depression and anxiety, but until now, didn't realize it was probably because of my low testosterone. While this one thing I learned, is not a healthy choice, however when I discovered alcohol relieved my daily anxiety, I drank small amounts of it daily. I was never drunk,...just a tiny bit more relaxed, and it served me well. I never crashed my car, or passed out, or lost a day of work. I had learned people referred to it as "liquid courage". And I saw it as such, and utilized that way. It allowed me to buy and drive my motorcycle. It helped me lecture before a classroom of strangers. It may have been more of a "placebo", effect, since I never allowed myself to become drunk. Later in my 60s I was offered psychiatric medications, to replace the booze. They didn't work and I hated them. I'm presently sober, and off alcohol and all psych. meds. too.
@MraDigims1009 ай бұрын
Condoms aren't just for preventing pregnancy
@flewawayandaway47639 ай бұрын
Were you not worried about having a child then?
@Davett539 ай бұрын
@@flewawayandaway4763 I was sterile, even though I had some small amount of testosterone being produced. Even before I was receiving testosterone injections, I went through puberty. I was able to grow some facial hair, though it was wispy. My voice lowered in tone. My doctors made it clear I would never be able to father a child. At the time, I wasn't able process it. My one doctor spelled it out,....saying: "Go out and have all the sex you want", because your sperm will not be able to produce a baby". I could always adopt a child, if I wanted to start a family. I was older when I began having sex, and it was kinda cool, that I never needed to wear a condom. The time period was during the height of the HIV/AIDS scare. I was having strictly heterosexual sex with women, but the fear was at the time, was,.....having sex with multiple partners, & without using a condom, could put you in contact with a woman who (was carrying the Aids Virus) unbeknownst to herself. So I did wear one a few times,....if I thought the woman was kinda of sketchy. I met women through a dating service,....but not everyone was completely honest.
@UseYourManners1234 ай бұрын
Success!! 🎉 thank you!😊
@Davett534 ай бұрын
@@UseYourManners123 Well, yes if you keep plugging away. Being sterile isn't so bad. One can always adopt a child if that is your goal. Low testosterone doesn't help with depression, and maybe if I was younger, I'd re-examine the patch or salves. Maybe they have improved testosterone supplements, I think I read there is a product, a slow release (pellet) that can be surgically implanted under the skin of one's arm. I could have gotten into body building, to improve my muscle mass. It wasn't that important. I was a male, there was no denying that. Growing a great beard or mustache, wasn't important. I had decent head hair, I grew mine long. Even at age 70, I still have most of it.
@mauricioacorreia Жыл бұрын
My oldest brother had klinenfelter syndrome. I just learned that after he was dead (some 30 years ago). I wish I knew that before. His life could’ve been easier. Congratulations for helping others with your story.
@accidentcarrot722510 ай бұрын
How did you find out?
@dlo66343 жыл бұрын
I have Kline Felters syndrome also, life has been hard too but I manage. Thanks for your storie Seamus.
@freyjasvansdottir9904 Жыл бұрын
*Klinefelter Syndrome
@saltlake4098 Жыл бұрын
@@freyjasvansdottir9904shutup
@kristineanderson4983 Жыл бұрын
I just happened upon this video and clicked. What a wonderful man you are to present your situation to the rest of us who need education on this subject!. Your way of explaining is profound and essential! Without widespread information, there will only continue to be ignorance, which breeds negativity. Bravo, young man!
@vahvahdisco Жыл бұрын
I’m XXY - I was diagnosed with Klinefelter’s Syndrome at the age of 10 in 1979, when it was also found that I had an undescended right testicle. The docs tried to bring this down when I was 14 but were unsuccessful and in 1992, I had it removed with a prosthetic one put in it’s place, my left testicle was pinned in an area where it wouldn’t go cancerous, as it was still producing a little testosterone despite being chick-pea sized, and another prosthetic was put in to even me up. I was told that having an undescended testicle is common and it usually gets sorted out as a baby. Klinefelter’s used to be quite rare, but obviously with the internet and medical advancement, that has changed - still 1 in 550 is quite rare (it used to be 1 in 5000, last time I was told years ago) but to have Klinefelter’s AND an undescended testicle is rarer still ! I’d confided in a friend at school about my op at 14 and they told everyone, after which I was known as Benny One Ball, Benny being a nickname, and this caused me untold misery. Of course they weren’t to know that I’d end up with THREE ! LOL, so I suppose the joke’s on them now ! I’ve been on testosterone replacement since May 1992; in this time I’ve had fortnightly injections, daily patches, 6 monthly implants and am currently on 3 monthly injections. I had behavioural issues as a child from 7 to 17 and prior to seeing a psychologist at aged 8, I couldn’t tie my own shoe laces. I was diagnosed with Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder in 1998, and am also Gender Dysphoric, but despite feeling like a woman trapped in a man’s body, I decided not to pursue gender reassignment because I’m 6ft 5ins, with size 14 extra wide feet (US 15) and also on crutches, so getting men’s clothing and footwear is difficult enough - can’t imagine how I’d go on trying to get into women’s ! I have a lot of illnesses and am registered disabled. I also came out as gay when I was 16, I’m currently single but have FWB’s. I’ve been told that although I will develop Osteoporosis, I will stave it off until I’m into my 60’s due to starting on testosterone replacement when I did. That’s something that will go nicely with my Osteoarthritis and Fibromyalgia amongst other problems ! Just something else to add to my list and no doubt more meds ! I have a good outlook on life now, after failing at suicide, and almost dying when I was 42 from two massive Pulmonary Embolisms in each of my lungs in 2012. I don’t worry about bills if I’ve not got enough money to pay them - I just pay them in instalments instead. I’m kind and helpful, having done voluntary work for various charities over the years since the age of 16 with only a 5 year hiatus between 2012 & 2017 - I’ve even done voluntary work when I worked full time too ! I’ve been used as a ‘teaching patient’ in the past, for nurses and doctors who want to learn more about Klinefelter’s Syndrome - at the time I felt ‘special’ but also a bit of a freak ! I’m quite happy to talk about my XXY and how it has affected my life and continues to do so, so if anyone wants to reach out to me, be my guest.
@angelawossname Жыл бұрын
My dil is intersex and trans, intersex people are way, way more likely to be trans. It is also common for intersex people to be very tall because of low hormones during puberty. My dil is 6 foot 3 inches, not quite as tall, but please don't let your height hold you back! Because of her condition she has always had androgynous features, no facial hair and a more feminine body shape, so she just looks like a very tall woman and most people have no idea.
@Ariadne76-k3d7 ай бұрын
Wow, you have really been through it! Good for you for keeping on.
@elsynjogu75786 ай бұрын
Hope you are good... you went through that.. sorry!
@chigozieagala96284 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story 🎉
@theophrastus3.056 Жыл бұрын
He’s a brave man to come forward like this! A true picture of courage.
@jonathanwetherell3609 Жыл бұрын
Why? He has just got a medical condition.
@theophrastus3.056 Жыл бұрын
@@jonathanwetherell3609 Uh… did you hear what it did to him? I can count on one finger guys I’ve heard discuss something as intimate as that. He did it to help others who might have this extremely rare condition and not know it.
@AbBc-w4q Жыл бұрын
only women are brave, dont you know?
@vervideosgiros1156 Жыл бұрын
@@theophrastus3.056By listening to his accent, you can't tell he isn't american (it seems he's from UK), so probably he wasn't mocked because he has this condition. Just because in american society people are mocked because of their condition, it doesn't mean that it's the same thing elsewhere!
@theophrastus3.056 Жыл бұрын
@@vervideosgiros1156 I made no reference to his accent, which seems irrelevant to his story.
@eumenius Жыл бұрын
Seamus is a great guy, doing everything to stay great in a complicated situation. Always a pleasure to see strong people not yielding to the disease.
@erictheviking Жыл бұрын
Nothing to be aseamus about
@markjwu Жыл бұрын
What do you mean by "not yielding" to the disease, I was diagnosed when I was 20, I am 53 now.
@burlhorse61 Жыл бұрын
sounds more a genetic disorder-first time hearing of it
@elainebyrne1039 Жыл бұрын
It's not a 'disease' its a genetic condition; I have Tuberous Sclerosis 1 which means I have a gene deletion in my DNA which means I don't suppress tumours. This genetic condition is associated with various, separate tumour diseases. I have tumours in my brain, eyes, heart, lungs, liver, kidneys and uterus. I have also had 3 diagnoses of an associated, ultra rare cancer (less than 1 per million) in my kidneys, bone in one finger and uterus. There are many 'invisible' genetic conditions that people have that are not apparent to the onlooker and which cause daily struggles for the subjects. I regard myself as lucky that I have been able to work full time, have a family, study Computer Programming to Bachelor level and continue to be reasonably able to enjoy life at 70 years old.
@MamiT-1 Жыл бұрын
Not a disease at all hun. 👌🏽
@halewich Жыл бұрын
What a brave man Seamus is. Not only is he working hard to live his best life but he is sharing his story in order to help others. Good for you, Seamus. Keep on moving forward brother.
@montypython1042 Жыл бұрын
watching this really helps me be at ease as someone who also got diagnosed with klinefelters at 16 its nice to know someone talking about it
@MaxOakland Жыл бұрын
I'm glad it helped. There's nothing wrong with having Klinefelter's or any other medical issue
@cosmoplakat9549 Жыл бұрын
What a great guy for letting others know about this condition and how it can be treated. It seems like it must be pretty rare and not easily diagnosed. I'm glad he's feeling so much better. Kudos to his parents as well for being there and supporting him.
@cadelinha Жыл бұрын
Being born intersex its not that rare. Many people are intersex like him. The "i" letter from LGBTQIA. Many female models are intersex with XY cromossomes, and basket ball and voley ball players as well.
@WDBsirLocksight Жыл бұрын
it's easily diagnosed if you understand the process time consuming maybe too but process/diagnosis sometimes not accessible cuz genetic testing is expensive and not available in all regions as well as contributions from diagnostic error part of inter-rater reliability essentially doctor error.
@shoptastik22502 жыл бұрын
This made me cry because I never heard anyone talk about this and I'm pretty sure I know someone who has this. I'm going to have a chat. Thank you so much! Eyes opened is an understatement.
@OliverDixon-kb4si Жыл бұрын
Very brave man to do this interview. Proud of you mate! You’re bringing a lot of awareness of this condition. Helped a lot of people. Thank you
@dianewien683 Жыл бұрын
Seamus, not only are you brave but you are an angel. To speak honestly about your journey opens the door for others to learn about Klinefelter Syndrome and how they can be helped. So many people do not know about Klinefelter Syndrome , Turner Syndrome, Jacob's Syndrome or Triple XXX. Thank you!
@Andrew_Warden Жыл бұрын
Hey Seamus, just know you are helping so many men in your position with your honesty and bravery to be so candid.
@tommitchener46932 ай бұрын
Listening to your story has made me question alot of medical advice my grandson has received.THANK YOU FOR YOUR BRAVERY.
@poja82 Жыл бұрын
The bravery of this man is so admirable.
@chuckiejoseph4979 Жыл бұрын
courage is the appropriate term.
@darlenesawyer6739 Жыл бұрын
My great son may have this. My daughter is 19 weeks pregnant and i was were worried and concerned but know you have given me comfort. Thank you. God bless you.
@LivingwithXXY Жыл бұрын
Reach out to our nonprofit if you have not done so yet.
@scotarg19732 жыл бұрын
Approx 1:600 of males have the xxy or xyy variant. That's a lot of men. Roughly 6,500,000 and at least a couple of million are unaware of it. Thanks to people like Seamus, that know there is interventions that help, and are willing to talk about this as if it's just like any other health condition, which should be the case. Irrespective of the size of one's testicals, talking about it on youtube takes balls the size of grapefruits.
@japanpanda2179 Жыл бұрын
For XYY and XXX, like 95% of them are unaware of it.
@wenitraines8384 Жыл бұрын
When I found out (1984) about my XXY, it was 1:1000. No one knew how to treat it. In 2001, I was introduced to AndroGel which made me feel like I went through puberty again. I have used it daily. I’m in my early 80’s.
@wenitraines8384 Жыл бұрын
About a decade ago, I was member of three XXY groups online (XXYTalk which later was sold to a group on UK; KS group in California, and a group organized by owners of DELL Corp). No one cared about adults knowing they are XXY. Interest and research was on toddlers and young children, questions like how did they get it and how to treat. Discussion among members reached the point of discussing matters outside KS so I left.
@CaptainTae Жыл бұрын
There’s no such thing as male. Please stop normalizing this hate speech.
@lshwadchuck5643 Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@benjaminstewart4332 Жыл бұрын
Thank you I was just diagnosed with Klinefelters syndrome today and felt very alone, my biggest excitement I’ve looked forward to is being a father but now it feels crushed
@silentnight3970 Жыл бұрын
There are options, this is 2023. Check it out like he did and don't give up.
@orvos1459 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear about that. I hope things go well.
@orvos1459 Жыл бұрын
How much did the test cost? I’m thinking of having it done.
@mustanggox Жыл бұрын
He's quite brave to talk about this openly and publicly. Representation for people with uncommon conditions like this is important!
@lisaarata174 Жыл бұрын
What a blow, to learn who you thought you were is gone, and who you are is something you don't know about. You're giving a gift to people.
@eunicecracknell8413 жыл бұрын
Thanks Seamus, I'm glad you went searching and had your problem diagnosed and treated. It's good for us to be educated about lesser know chromosome abnormalities. I think a lot of people think 'Down's Syndrome' along with chromosomal problems.
@LivingwithXXY3 жыл бұрын
Yes! XXY is actually the most common chromosome condition in men, but since we are hiding in plain sight it is never diagnosed. 75% of men will die never knowing.
@rz5b1qszkdf443 жыл бұрын
@@LivingwithXXY I dont get it how one doesn't know... I've thought every man has tiny testicles, therefore you should know when you have KS... or am I wrong? Please help!
@richardprice59782 жыл бұрын
@@LivingwithXXY is it more common in Jewish or uk 🇬🇧 populations? or background and or DNA does make a difference? and can the mothers wome and or changes in chemistry change sex and DNA midway through pregnancy? 🤰 aka what is the risk factors in getting XXY? or XYY? or having XX but born with male sex parts?
@richardprice59782 жыл бұрын
when he said sensitively what did he mean? as trans male's to females mention ( im sis-gender, not that it matters ) there nipples being more ect. and i think 🤔 them saying there balls less-sensitive after HRT/bumping up oestrogen
@TagSpamCop Жыл бұрын
@@rz5b1qszkdf44 What, you think men go around examining each other's testicles to know what's typical and what's not? WTH?
@sundo-pf5zv2 жыл бұрын
Awesome story, your mom is from a medical background. That really helps! My dad was too, and he found my situation right when it caused issues (non-descending testes when I was 8.5), and he sent me to a university hospital for 7 days for observation and testing, back then in the 1960s
@Lauren-vd4qe Жыл бұрын
I had a horse with that condition; he looked physically like a gelding, but he completely acted like a stallion; i couldnt put him in with any other horses, he would fiest them, and i had to ride him with whip and spurs, he was so fiesty, u couldnt control him, he wouldnt obey without them. ive had several horses, never rode the other ones with whip n spurs, ever, this one, u had to.
@pegs1659 Жыл бұрын
Could he have an operation that would help him or horse testosterone?
@Lauren-vd4qe Жыл бұрын
@@AnythingEverythingAll no teenager can afford a chromosome test for a horse.
@mycelia_ow Жыл бұрын
@@pegs1659 He seems fine, as for his fertility that's just out of the cards until we can edit DNA and use stem cells.
@HexxedOfficial6 ай бұрын
I did NOT know you could be diagnosed with such a thing at a young age. Thank you for your story.
@Gizathecat2 Жыл бұрын
My brother-in-law was born with XXY. Don didn’t find out until he and his wife tried to have kids. (He was born in 1952) He had pretty serious cognitive problems and a very passive personality and was easily taken advantage of. He never had testosterone supplements nor received any counseling. Sadly he passed away from bladder cancer in 2015.
@KindCountsDeb3773 Жыл бұрын
I'm so very pleased you found out about yourself and found a solution. What a gift. And you are helping others who may need to learn as well. So good of you to be brave and find a solution and then go out and help others. Be well and the best to you and yours !
@gayeblinman5055 Жыл бұрын
This Is A Great Man ~ Brave, Honest , Open , Strong & Grounded His desire to inform and educate is generous beyond measure 🕊️
@louise9973 Жыл бұрын
Don't ever let anyone put you down for what you can't control, what you can control is what comes out of your mouth. Good on him. I find honesty attractive.
@krist6074 Жыл бұрын
I highly respect this man for going on camera and telling his story! It's actually very interesting and it's just incredible to hear how he's able to live with it. Never take no for an answer!!! God bless!!!
@Timbear459 ай бұрын
Seamus, your candour is very refreshing. Thank you and take care.
@kegelboy Жыл бұрын
Bless you Seamus, you’re a brave man and we feel nothing but respect and admiration for you for doing this video. Takes guts and power of the soul.
@peterrodby27862 жыл бұрын
I found out I had Klinefelters when I was 30 years old. After years of gels, patches and shots yielded little satisfaction I opted for the Testopel insertion procedure and I feel WONDERFUL! I feel vitality, alertness and a general feeling of gratitude for having made it this far. If I could just rid myself of this awful sense of anxiety (I've had it all my life) my world would positively change.
@danielreiman44462 жыл бұрын
What is that. I couldn't get testosterone so I bought it on streets and got another doctor to order tests so I could do it under the very best information on dosing and levels. Because of that I get denied everytime I try to get some. It is insane but they say due to me being in recovery I should just go without it . They don't understand I self medicated for years and I've been clean for so long but test made me more than just happy it made me feel the best I ever felt and it felt natural like I was 18 again
@danielreiman44462 жыл бұрын
Post opiates I couldn't get any satisfaction from anything ever. And I waited a full year to try test and when I did 4 weeks later I was amazing
@henners9747 Жыл бұрын
What side effects have you experienced with Testopel? I'm on Tostran 2% gel and am looking for an alternative
@AndySaenz Жыл бұрын
Were you able to have your own children?
@zzzcocopepe Жыл бұрын
When you take a deep breath, you get rid of anxiety on the exhale part.
@garthjack5233 жыл бұрын
Respect to you Seamus! Thanks for sharing brother.
@inekeverkooijen7262 Жыл бұрын
My son also has an extra chromosome xxy,but he has a child..it is not impossible to become a father.....good luck to all of you.
@summeroflove394 Жыл бұрын
He is so brave for doing this and spreading awareness about XXY chromosomes. I am sorry you had to go through so many issues, something you didn’t choose.
@BeeeHonest Жыл бұрын
It takes a lot to admit let alone share his story. You are much braver than I lot of so-called macho men or alpha men out there. Bravo.
@nodeofranvier222 Жыл бұрын
Really !! Have s great day ahead n !
@DESIGN.TREND.AND.CONNECTION2 жыл бұрын
I´ve just had my 4 years son diagnosed... It´s som important to fins videos like this! Thanks Seamus for sharing you experience!
@judithpedreira66092 жыл бұрын
@@bigmike4419 hello, I'm searching info, don't know where to find it , besides internet
@joaquim_17 Жыл бұрын
@@bigmike4419 what symptoms did you have bro? Are your testicles smaller than average? I'm 19 too
@_Julia.K_ Жыл бұрын
Why was he tested for XXY at 4 years old? It is too early for symptoms to show up...
@SIC647 Жыл бұрын
@_JulK_ Synptom definitely also shows as a kid: It can affect general growth, and often causes learning disabilities, speech impediments and motor issues. Which tend to be the reason why they get assessed and then diagnosed as children.
@ratherbedead253 жыл бұрын
Love your work, Seamus! So proud of you!!
@mullethater4223 Жыл бұрын
My bio teacher was talking about 47 XXY in class today and this video popped up on my timeline. Really interesting. Thanks for sharing your story !
@abigmouthful8452 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this Seamus. Hearing about people's lived experiences is key to raising awareness and delivering proper informed education (but you know that already). Wishing you all the best.
@DD-ze7qm3 жыл бұрын
It’s remarkable how different all people are. It makes doing the right thing for each other very hard to do and it is really wonderful see someone find out what is right for them.
@LivingwithXXY3 жыл бұрын
It's a wonderful video because most of the information on XXY is outdated.
@monicawallace-jn8tl Жыл бұрын
You are perfectly, yet uniquely made! Thank you for sharing your story, so that others might learn about this condition. Glad you found the right people to help you, and that you found your way through this. Your Mom is wonderful!
@prototropo Жыл бұрын
That was eloquently expressed, Monica. Thank you.
@AM-ux3yx Жыл бұрын
Low testosterone is no joke. I'm 31 when I was diagnosed with low testosterone due to a side effect of anti anxiety meds ( only after 2 months!). I went from fit, active, high on life, to chronically fatigued and depressed, a lot of symptoms the Seamus mentioned. If you're male and you're ticking the boxes, get a blood test, low T can be caused by multiple factors and it's hell! No way to live your life.
@maxmushroom111 Жыл бұрын
I truly feel your pain. I'm 28 and I'm impotent and it is truly a life not worth living for. but always hormone therapy. my condition is a pituitary tumor.
@devinpeirce7152 Жыл бұрын
Yes I feel so fatigued all the time
@lilacpower2693 Жыл бұрын
@maxmushroom111 You have a reason to live dear. Everyone suffering this disorder does too. Push through this. You'll be glad you did. Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
@arhoosier1058 Жыл бұрын
anti anxiety meds and SSRI’s have been proven to mess with the body like that. low testosterone is dangerous in general as it’s the hormone that helps keep everything in function, so yeah i would recommend anyone who feels fatigued or low immune system to check with their doctor and is also a serious problem of XXY.
@MrBrock314 Жыл бұрын
Not to nitpick but does 2 months even count as chronically fatigued and depressed? It seems kind of short even though I'm sure it feels terrible. :)
@marylizabetha Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy he received the care he needed and is feeling better and unashamed to share this about himself.
@angharadllewellyn2192 Жыл бұрын
I too have a genetic mutation, but not a chromosomal duplication. I knew something was wrong even as a kid. Over 30 years I saw about 100 different docs. They ALL told me I was just another hysterical woman with "crazy woman" disease. 30 years! I did not get a diagnosis until I was 53, by which time my professional life was essentially over. One cannot start over at 53. I left the US so I could get the meds I needed. Even thought the drug was developed in the US, the lab did not feel it was worth the cost to produce it. I was able to get the medication in developing countries! The US has the best medicine money can buy. If you are really sick and not able to work, you're just out of luck. This is Social Darwinism. I am really happy that Seamus is able to get medication. I wish I had medication as a young adult.
@sonwukong001 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Seamus story. I am so happy he found a way to feel healthy and happy!
@MA-naconitor Жыл бұрын
Helping others in your similar situation is the greatest thing anyone can do!
@emmalindsay72752 жыл бұрын
Great insight; I’m a biology teacher: great to share with my students when looking at chromosomal difference and how it’s ok to be different 💕
@bmr45662 жыл бұрын
as a biologist why don't you tell the truth...infertility, learning disabilities, genetic defects, and more serious health issues. And why don't you tell them how this comes about...the unnatural selection...are you courageous enough to tell the truth? I doubt it.
@danielreiman44462 жыл бұрын
@@bmr4566 wait are you saying, I need truth it sets us free from so much 😂 I am being serious im very interested
@sundo-pf5zv2 жыл бұрын
@@bmr4566 -- "..learning disabilities, genetic defects, and more serious health issues.."
@orenz.272 Жыл бұрын
@@bmr4566 Is having XXY unnatural ? Because nature is the reason people are born with XXY lol
@myfavoritesongs12345 Жыл бұрын
@@orenz.272 The same nature responsible for genetic abnormalities, like being born with a missing/extra limb?
@Knappa229 ай бұрын
I was totally ignorant of this - thank you for such an informative and personal explanation in this video. This is KZbin at its best.
@elainebyrne1039 Жыл бұрын
I have Tuberous Sclerosis 1 which means I have a gene deletion in my DNA which means I don't suppress tumours. This genetic condition is associated with various, separate tumour diseases. I have tumours in my brain, eyes, heart, lungs, liver, kidneys and uterus. I have also had 3 diagnoses of an associated, ultra rare cancer (less than 1 per million) in my kidneys, bone in one finger and uterus. There are many 'invisible' genetic conditions that people have that are not apparent to the onlooker and which cause daily struggles for the subjects. I regard myself as lucky that I have been able to work full time, have a family, study Computer Programming to Bachelor level and continue to be reasonably able to enjoy life at 70 years old.
@everysport7691 Жыл бұрын
I have 47xxy and neurofibromatosis type 1 but it doesn't hold me down I also think be proud of who you are No matter what you have
@lelouchdibritannia4508 Жыл бұрын
How did you get diagnosed?
@everysport7691 Жыл бұрын
@lelouchdibritannia4508 mum had nf, and my mum had my above 30 she had the test for Downs syndrome I my mum and dad know before I was born
@993turbo7862 жыл бұрын
I have Klinefelter syndrome. I am married and have been trying for years to have kids. It’s been really hard. I have no facial hair and I’m 39 years old. It’s a struggle but I gotta live thru this. Great story. Is there anything I can do to help grow facial hair. Thanks in advance.
@hectorsilva4012 жыл бұрын
Shave your face. Even If you don't have hair.
@slippinjimmy46902 жыл бұрын
@@hectorsilva401 that's definitely not true
@slippinjimmy46902 жыл бұрын
Rub minoxidil on your face. Guys grow beards with that
@StoreHouseFarmsInTheOzarks2 жыл бұрын
Testosterone cypionate injections, unfortunately if you’re KS unless mosaic you can’t have biological kids. And Testosterone, which is protocol for KS; Also causes infertility.
@ImtiazAsim2 жыл бұрын
You can use Minoxidil to grow facial hair. You can take advice from a Dermatologist regarding this.
@bevwest7428 Жыл бұрын
Thank you telling us your story, Seamus!
@seffalohpod10 ай бұрын
So glad for you, Seamus. And thank you for making this public. All the best to you, and every happiness life can bring !
@eyesopenedify Жыл бұрын
As a mother of 4 sons, and a grandson, I thank you so much for sharing your story.
@JulesUS8386 Жыл бұрын
I wish you all the best! As a person with a different genetic syndrome I understand there are struggles, trouble with doctors not knowing what the diagnosis is then the bitter sweet of putting a name to the condition just to find out there’s no cure only palliative care. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you can help at least one person find a diagnosis and some kind of treatment. That’s a life changing experience. 🙌
@Lokian_Mermaid Жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing well and can manage your condition in the best possible ways. Blessings to you. 😊
@clairefuzipeg1983 Жыл бұрын
So brave to open up about this. I wish more people would, as there is such a stigma surrounding genetic disorders such as this and it should be more accepted and known about as so many people are affected.
@SJmystic Жыл бұрын
Much gratitude, Seamus, for sharing your story. Thank you, ABC, for coving this important topic. May we all feel acceptance for the ways we are different from one another, and understand that such diversity gives us a more vibrant world and variety to expand our own learning and experiences. May this information get to anyone it is pertinent to, and may it help all of us feel compassion for those with differences who need acceptance because of the differences.
@keithrogers274511 ай бұрын
Im 67, i was diagnosed with 47XXY when 27. Sadly whats on offer these days, was not on offer back then. But to anyone who has it. keep going, these days there is always a way around it
@JJAmicon10 ай бұрын
My brother found out at 29. 22 years ago. I wish resources like this would have been available then. Ithe diagnosis explained so much about things in his youth. Thank you for sharing. You are helping so many people.
@sethaldrich6902 Жыл бұрын
Glad you got diagnosed! You're an inspiration!!!
@ANONIE47 Жыл бұрын
Good on ya for speaking up about this 😊 . Body issues need to be taught in schools.
@RealVedicAstrology Жыл бұрын
He’s very brave for coming forward about that.
@Angell_Lee Жыл бұрын
Props to this man for speaking about this, it takes great courage. You are not alone, sending you so much love xo
@Kidfromthemidwest Жыл бұрын
My sister was born with a extra chromosome and she’s completely fine. It’s a miracle really.
@codename495 Жыл бұрын
We don’t actually know how many people with zero issues have additional or fewer chromosomes. We don’t really check unless there are symptoms or outward signs.
@cupidok2768 Жыл бұрын
Is this intersex
@Feed_the_Kitty_a_Hotdog Жыл бұрын
@@cupidok2768intersex is different
@mujkocka Жыл бұрын
Is she extra tall?
@Kidfromthemidwest Жыл бұрын
@@mujkocka she like 5’10
@rmartin28192 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️. Glad to see more XXY guys sharing their story. 😎👍🏾
@savegraysoncats Жыл бұрын
Glad you got your diagnosis! Hope your treatment help you feel better!
@jamesshelton739511 ай бұрын
I came across the syndrome in my biology class when i was in my college. The Klinefelter Syndrome always stays in my mind. It kind of caught me off guard recently with my own sibling who has large breasts like a female, experiencing frequent fatigue, low in energy, large hip compare to the normal male, small testes, and tall. It never daunted me. But then when he shared his picture with me topless, it utterly shocked me. I requested he seeks a medical help. He shyly admitted to me that he has KS from the blood work done on him when had an automobile accident in his late 30's from the medical teams. The long of a short, there is NOTHING to be ashamed about because it isn't your fault. It happens during the conception time. Bless to those who embrace it well with treatment.
@ButterflyWings190011 ай бұрын
When I found out I had Leukaemia I was actually relieved as to know why I was always tired, cold, pale, sweating at night etc. A lot of people including my parents told me to toughen up (I’m female) etc etc so I can only imagine the same with this guy it’s better to know what’s going on & then address the problem. Well done for a great video, huge respect 🇦🇺❤️
@rubberdc Жыл бұрын
I have XXY and I didnt find out until i was in my early 50s, so pretty late. When I did find out i felt like a freak, but i had always felt freakish and not normal , not like other men . I suffered terribly from humiliating lack of confidence with other men .I had an operation to remove both testicles as I was ( in my mind) protecting myself from cancer . I had implants but because my sack was tight , they could only replace with same size balls . BAH !
@FoodNerds Жыл бұрын
You’re not a freak. No one is perfect.
@stephanieyee9784 Жыл бұрын
Seamus has taught me a little bit about something I'd never heard of before. Its great that he is being treated for his condition and is feeling so much better physically and mentally. He is very brave to speak about this publicly and I hope his story can help.other men with this condition. I hope Seamus Will be able to father children at some point should he want to.
@Brineytoes Жыл бұрын
You are an amazing young man who is doing the right thing for yourself, and brave enough to tell the world about it! It is such good advice for others! Your mom is a wise woman, and you are fortunate to have her. Nurses need to speak up to protect children and make sure they get the right tests and the right treatment.
@wholeNwon Жыл бұрын
Applaud and admire what you're doing to encourage others to obtain correct, life-changing diagnoses.
@dearcole123 Жыл бұрын
What an awesome interview and man to speak up. He seems very nice and I’m so glad he found out what was going on for him and got the medical intervention he needed. Hope he is doing great these days!
@marccastell6724 Жыл бұрын
So brave and so proud! What a difference your story is making for so many that resonate with you. You are a hero!!!!!
@adrianghandtchi1562 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad more people are talking about it, because that is the syndrome that I have, I’ve been diagnosed with that since I was 14 and trying to maintain testosterone treatments has been tricky over the years.
@roguephilosopher2465 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed XXY before I was born and I am now 20 and was diagnosed with osteoporosis as well. I was offered the option of getting testosterone injections but I have declined since I’m in college and will soon run out of health insurance at the age of 21. Because of this, I’ve started my journey working out and in the past I have done sports so I know it is possible for me to build muscle. I know I have to work 10x as hard and I have finally found the right diet as I’ve been told by my doctor and endocrinologist that there are no current dietary plans that have successfully worked for those with XXY who are as skinny as I. I hope I can share my journey with everyone one day to hopefully convince others that is possible to get ripped with XXY. Until then, let’s see.
@katar9090 Жыл бұрын
I take testosterone and the difference of having low testosterone and normal levels testosterone in your system is huge! I would still try to get access to testosterone if you can, osteoporosis is no joke and injections may be cheaper then pills or other methods
@dbandy18 Жыл бұрын
Doctor here. Please take testosterone.
@bjwilliams Жыл бұрын
@@katar9090as a female who discovered I have osteoporosis after menapause ( lost of estrogen), I take one pill a week , do leg weight exercises. I felt a difference in 2 weeks. I will take this for 5 years. Use modern medicine, research has been done for decades to help you. Peace\ NorCal 🌴😎
@roguephilosopher2465 Жыл бұрын
@@dbandy18 coming down to without insurance and having to do it everyday is one thing, but the fact I wasn't able to do tests for other diseases because of my lack of insurance also affects my decision. The type of career I want to take also would view me as a liability if I had to take testosterone because I would have to have access to that provider.- asthma is also an issue with it
@UseYourManners1234 ай бұрын
I just subscribed to you so whenever you decide to help others with what worked for you I’m here to take notes! 📝 Thank you! Oh and was there nothing to prevent osteoporosis for you? I did not know it was a symptom.
@johncmullins5005 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations for having the guts to explain this on a site like this. It is helpful information for so many men!
@Betamon7 ай бұрын
i have klinefelters syndrome/47xxy as well and another intersex condition affecting my genitalia, although i identify as a woman. i didn’t find out until i had started transitioning as i was raised male. because of my intersex condition they couldn’t figure out the gender to assign me at birth just based on genitalia and my chromosomes were tested right at birth and i was given surgery to give my genitalia a more penis like appearance. because i was diagnosed so young and my parents always knew, when i was a teenager i had started undergoing HRT with testosterone but was never told about it for fears of making me feel different and alienated. the sad irony is that from even my earliest memories as a kid i knew i was a girl and never felt alienated or isolated because of my differences. when i was a teen i started developing breast tissue and it truly felt like i was coming into my own, but that all got shattered once i was put on testosterone and started going through male puberty symptoms and it started destroying me inside feeling like i was turning into something i wasn’t. it led to me trying to take my own life when i was 15 and after recovering from that and talking to my mom about what was going on and how i was feeling i was taken off testosterone and things got a little better, but it wasn’t until i was around 19 that i started to discover myself more and start presenting as a woman which is when i found out about everything. it was pretty heartbreaking to find out that aside from the more serious medical affects that came with my klinefelters, had i known more about it and had it been more normalised to have discussions around intersex conditions and the gender expression of intersex people that it might have been avoided a bit. i don’t blame my parents for anything that happened since they didn’t know anything about it either and didn’t really have anywhere they could turn to. i’m at a point in my life now where i’m at complete peace with both my intersex birth sex and my gender expression as a woman. this man is very brave and strong for talking about his experiences. the more discussion and awareness we have around intersex conditions the more we can improve the ways we educate both individuals and families and medical professionals on how to deal with these things to let all the individuals shine and be able to live fulfilling lives authentically to themselves regardless of the circumstances they find themselves in and find joy and happiness ❤️ thank you for sharing your story