I Was Not Heard - Healing Traumatic Invalidation with EFT Tapping

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@Staying_aliveforwomen 2 ай бұрын

I found u voice soothing and compassionate. I'm glad I found you.

@eflowtionsupportservices 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comment and Tapping. I'm glad you're here ❤️

@xtraterrestrial4672 2 ай бұрын

Thank you, this was a really good one! Growing up as the scapegoat the traumatic invalidation was pretty much constant, not only from family members but from so many others who always believed their lies instead of seeing the abuse and saw my ''acting out'' (speaking the truth) as the main problem. It was and still is a very painful, lonely and isolating experience but I'm still trying my best to recover and heal. EFT is helpful and your channel is one of few I turn to when I feel like I need to be supported because you tap on subjects that many others don't. Very grateful for your channel. 💚

@eflowtionsupportservices 2 ай бұрын

Thanks heaps for your comment and for Tapping it's appreciated. ❤ For about 10 years or so I practiced Shaolin Kung Fu. I quite enjoyed it and I got to visit China a couple of times to train kung fu with the Shaolin Monks as well as other masters around China. Now it’s perfectly acceptable in martial arts that if someone decides to attack you that you act out of self-defence to stop yourself or others from getting harmed. Sometimes the best defence is running away and living to fight another day. Yet it’s apparently not acceptable to act out of self-defence when speaking up about receiving abuse. Which any issue not addressed tends to continue its pattern of harm. Also if that’s the case then the judicial system is also unaware of this fact. But to address an issue means the abuser has to address their offensive actions. Which might be highly inconvenient as it means taking responsibility for their own actions. In a society focused towards glamorising success and abundance those who have been abused tend to be viewed as somewhat problematic. It’s kind of like going to an Intensive Care Unit and saying, ‘Why aren’t you guys succeeding in life?!’ We’ve sustained damage from problematic people and we need to address the hurt in order to ’succeed’ in life. Damage we’ve never asked for, we never sought out, but did our best to survive from. Which might be hard for some to understand as they’ve never been through it. For me I have. Still am. It’s like a diabetic they are the best person for knowing what treatment they need if they’re hypoglycaemic or hyperglycaemic, as they’ve most likely been dealing with the condition for a long time. I’ve been dealing with CPTSD so it’s in my best interest to know a lot about trauma for my wellbeing. That’s why I can produce information on a live or video without scripting. That and working 10 years frontline mental health support work. You see and experience a lot. Hence why I’m also an EFT Practitioner. As for other EFT channels I can’t say I’ve seen them all. They do well in their area. But from what I’ve seen they can benefit from doing better when it comes to trauma. Both in knowledge and doing more than the bare minimum with EFT Tapping to address it. I don’t mean that as a negative statement at all. There’s a lot of good practitioners out there I like on KZbin but fall short in trauma. Same could be said with doctors. If it’s not part of their training or life experience then they wouldn’t naturally know. At one time even I didn’t know until I had to know once I was re-diagnosed.