Kenyans, I really like your accent of English, very educated people, wish to visit the country.. Lots of love from SA
@missjane35952 жыл бұрын
Love you back girl. You're most welcome 🙂
@AriseBeHealed2 жыл бұрын
Yes beautiful country, many good people. I grew up there as a Ugandan.
@evalinen35262 жыл бұрын
Welcome to Kenya
@fridahmurithi39162 жыл бұрын
We love you right back
@mohamedasaid79102 жыл бұрын
But we Kenyans from the coast like Kiswahili and view our upcountry compatriots as suffering colonial hungover or luck self-esteem in not mastering an African language.
@sharon66742 жыл бұрын
Nice talk! The man's reasoning is super.
@dorcuskencey68162 жыл бұрын
Some of us are praying to cross path with a reserved and handsome gentleman like him...but they are very fewer while others are walking away.... Anway *only the wearer of the shoes know where its pinching...* Congratulations on your co-parenting...
@annabailey78852 жыл бұрын
Men hurt if they are left not if they are the ones who leave.
@gravisanАй бұрын
I'll never forget when my son stared into my eyes after loosing my kids to a wife who ran way with. Even though we were all back in the same house again, he could see the worry and sadness in my eyes, it made me cry many times afterwards thinking of if I'd lose them again (never in front of him).
@nabbosabeldine88852 жыл бұрын
Respectable man sorry about what happened hope God grants you true happiness ,you deserve to be loved and appreciated ...may God almighty intervene mightily 🙏🙏
@soniaramkissoon71052 жыл бұрын
Well said 👍 Yah's interventions please.😇🙏🏽🙏🏽
@lebogangsedumedi1432 жыл бұрын
I am learning a lot from this video so much . Marriage is work and its two people who are flawed and need mercy. A re-bound sometimes is never real its just a re-bound and will probably crash if a individual has not worked on themselves. May the Lord bless you Sir and heal you
@perrydaus53282 жыл бұрын
I pray such a humble man to locate me
@lazaisblessings26952 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@mpoliwamwampashi33872 жыл бұрын
On his way lol
@irenemwangi79922 жыл бұрын
You are one in a million you are a really gentleman... I wish you can locate me we are sailing in the same boat.
@babiescontent15342 жыл бұрын
He didn't have a Job by then, and remember for most women, nothing goes on without rent!!! No romance without finance 🐱🐱🐱.
@mwana45992 жыл бұрын
That was the reason. So painful.
@lillianochung74992 жыл бұрын
That man is reasonable, he needs a reasonable woman like me. I am separated with my family because of the malice, ego, of a man. He even denies me access to my kids… I found a job in the USA and it was a relief since I was not able to make it in Kenya. I was to take my whole family plus him but he refused to cooperate…. He took me to court for no reason. … To cut it short … I had attained green card for us all. I am a working professional in the USA Who can decline such an offer? One day I will be happy….. Am single and ready to mingle!
@lorinemulumba77932 жыл бұрын
Ooh we go through a lot in life😢hugs mumy🌹can you connect me to eny job their in US plss🙏🙏
@Mm_kenya2 жыл бұрын
All the best
@achiengrouzie.522 жыл бұрын
Helo Lilian. I pray that God will heal and restore your life in an amazing way.
@queenlynne41572 жыл бұрын
Ooh my gal ,,so sorry about that...may the lord heal you
@SB-rw7oq2 жыл бұрын
Girl I love your attitude!
@margaretwambui97092 жыл бұрын
Men also get hurt.I remember how Benny Hinn was hurt but thank God he and his wife Susana got remarried.
@nomathemba86882 жыл бұрын
He was the one who cheated on his wife
@mpoliwamwampashi33872 жыл бұрын
I respect this man. This is one side of the story. Heard from this discussion him saying he equally was planning a divorce against the wife. Anyways looks like they were both done. Happy they have moved on. Women are often committed to a point where when they decide they are done they will do everything to move on. Blessings to this man and his children....
@lucynjambi13812 жыл бұрын
What I have come to learn is that marriage is spiritual and thus when you get married without awakening you will find that you wanted some part to be filled by other person which only God can fill. I think what he's calling different core values is actually awakening to higher self and you don't know how to fight for the real thing. Until you understand what God has joined together no man put asunder you will know that you fight spiritual forces that interput your life not physical battles. Another thing don't fix God into your choices when you have not involved in the beginning and if you desire so let him build from scratch
@godsown4683 Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@prettydamsel92372 жыл бұрын
Unaona mtu amevaa suti ako smart anaongea pole pole lakini kwa nyumba
@fridahblessed92962 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂So true
@lindaoyoo30032 жыл бұрын
Truth, such are the worst 😏
@janetogutu49722 жыл бұрын
Turuuuu
@Karolina-yv2wb2 жыл бұрын
Such a gentleman his so reserved I like him how can he be reached
@babiescontent15342 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😝👏👏👏Ana achua na wewe ume ngoja.
@bornstrong22272 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤪🤪
@bornstrong22272 жыл бұрын
He divorces when the replacement is at the door
@Mm_kenya2 жыл бұрын
Mhhhh will be different
@Love-pd8lz2 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
@trizahmacharia29392 жыл бұрын
He's got a nice voice
@rosegallus40482 жыл бұрын
1.Change of expectations. 2.Different core values ( affects how you communicate and behave). Surely this summarizes the reasons for marriage ending and in my opinion relationships in general.
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@primmycooks8842 жыл бұрын
My eyes are teary already. So 😔
@fredrickigweta77562 жыл бұрын
Am in that state too and I feel you bro and I will be the happiest man when I will see my daughters in law to my two teenage boys asking me how did you make it dad.
@irenemwangi79922 жыл бұрын
Its not easy my brother ...I pray to be a good mother in-law to my son's wives,. My ex husband is a very good man but I can't tell what really happened he changed like animal and became womanizer...
@lovingdeeperwithnena992 жыл бұрын
Very intelligent conversations! Welldone from 🇳🇬 Nigeria.
@zoliswatinga8842 жыл бұрын
Mhhhhhhm💔
@mimi795572 жыл бұрын
Your story resonates so much with mine
@annmuchai62002 жыл бұрын
Wow such a lovely man .
@summergirl04802 жыл бұрын
Chances are, this man was not loving on his wife, it doesn't matter what is happening in a married, intimacy and connection could bind a couple.
@lilianmichael17872 жыл бұрын
God will provide a way out for you..
@constancesidi33862 жыл бұрын
Men hurt so much silently and it kills them slowly.women are loud and will talk about it and play the victim. May God help you find love again.
@rispergichohi35352 жыл бұрын
This is Geofre the leaderof epic at CITAM clay city
@petals84372 жыл бұрын
Hmmh.... Nice 👍 I like the way the man has allowed the mum to have access to the children I mean that all we need in this world .. understanding besides our difference
@tpshalom2 жыл бұрын
Lord help us all and He can give us all the wisdom to move on. I may be wrong but could it be that your ex became careful and tactical after you asked her for divorce two years ago. Many people talk about male ego as if women sometimes have no pride in them. In fact at a point, I began to think there must be something like female ego. When a woman feels rejected, her ego can rise up and cause her to find a way before she gets dumped. Thank you for sharing your story sir, I admire and appreciate you. I pray both of you know the Lord Jesus. He is coming soon❤💖💗🧡💙💜💞💕
@kunaanguu69102 жыл бұрын
Oh God! This man is so humble and intelligent. May God give him a good woman who will be there for him and the children.
@mpoliwamwampashi33872 жыл бұрын
Indeed may he be blessed
@davidmakori89902 жыл бұрын
This is one subject we discuss casually but in reality it's one of the most painful! Went through it @ 27, 2 lovely kids in the equation! Now @ 57 I still feel the "HEAVY DENT"! Pls discard this RUBBISH OF MEN DON'T FEEL A THING!
@margaretwambui97092 жыл бұрын
Its been seven years for me.It was painful at first but what I like most is am closer to God now.He's my beautifier.
@georginakamuti26932 жыл бұрын
May GOD heal you speadily Mr. Wanjala.
@marionnjoroge4412 жыл бұрын
The children agreeing to stay with u means u were a good Dad and I guess husband.
@antonylwanga29782 жыл бұрын
I too am I that stage and forsure it's one of the most difficult moment in life.
@n.m62492 жыл бұрын
So sorry, I'm sure marriage is hard. Only you understand what you are going through.
@sokilillian48292 жыл бұрын
My dear brother lwanga we are battling with similar problems of divorce but God is faithful 🙏 give it time
@fabulousfarrahinsouthafrica2 жыл бұрын
Today it's about sex and money sad world ....love is the 3rd wheel
@kayjeri2 жыл бұрын
No my friend, there's Jesus who keeps different people committed to their cows. Despite their differences.
@patann14632 жыл бұрын
Im divorced , when you are ready for it no pain. Nothing can replace peace of mind in abundance. Solution to a dysfunctional marriage. 💃💃💃😎
@bornstrong22272 жыл бұрын
Of coz it’s painful for 1partner who doesn’t want,always in divorce u find that 1partner is still in love
@lillianochung74992 жыл бұрын
Very true! I can attest that peace of mind is all that a person needs.
@margaretwambui97092 жыл бұрын
I wish I could get in touch with your two guests.Lord you are faithful.
@AdornmentMinistries2 жыл бұрын
Hello Margaret, Yes, God Is faithful. I went through that twice but God Is faithful.
@stellaekhator9302 жыл бұрын
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@jacklinejematia18522 жыл бұрын
Very difficult time.
@josephinewesonga53462 жыл бұрын
My perfect much,Tamima connect me with the man
@beautyblessed64012 жыл бұрын
Once you mention the 'D' word in a marriage and God is not the centre of it..boom..the devil runs away with it..marriage was built to last but some just want out once they jump into the ship..Divorce happens even before it manifests in the physical..what happened to compromise? Also a man needs to protect, provide and profess his love for his woman!! What he used to do initially in the relationship..If he is not doing any of this it eats him and sees himself less of a man..eventually leaves..women can detect things from miles away...
@n.m62492 жыл бұрын
Strange thing is I love my boyfriend but I don't feel like marriage is necessarily.
@carolinemutegi10562 жыл бұрын
Ooh my, the devil is the one qho breaks family. But at least that was a peaceful divorce
@transformyourlifewithvicki2 жыл бұрын
A quarter of a decade ago would be two and a half years ago.. I’m confused by the timelines here?!
@perisimera81692 жыл бұрын
,,25 yrs.
@janeachieng16912 жыл бұрын
People are passing through tough things bro take ♥ your story is almost mine because it's was two weeks to my wedding and the man change his mind he use to cry alot and ask him what is the problem he would keep guit I was heart broken till today I don't want any man in my life it's painful I understand you may GOD help you
@NdlovukaziFab2 жыл бұрын
He meant a quarter of a century ago
@carolynchemoss77232 жыл бұрын
@@janeachieng1691 take heart my sister. Every Eve has an Adam. Maybe he wasn't the one. Don't judge life by one person. There are 2 billion other Adam's. Let yours locate you and don't give up
@user-yq9go8ze2n2 жыл бұрын
Why u do so sir God bless u
@okponudobong32362 жыл бұрын
This man is very dubious. He doesn't say what causes the divorce. Going round and round without giving a clear answer of the questions that was asked. He is older than her, so he wants to control her, like a child. You never know what you have until you lost it.
@iannprincejumah2 жыл бұрын
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@KingofZamunda.2 жыл бұрын
bro, they had different core values, he answered.
@diplomatdiplomat28002 жыл бұрын
@@KingofZamunda. Different core values for 20 years? This is hard to believe since he mentioned that they dated for 2 years. He also kept accusing the ex-wife. Marriage doesn't just break down, and both of them contributed to divorce.
@KingofZamunda.2 жыл бұрын
@@diplomatdiplomat2800 I get where he is coming from, as a man maybe his naivety was to think that the wife was going to change. And that never happened. And i agree with you , it was both sides that sunk the marriage ship
@vivosereni2 жыл бұрын
@Ukpon Don't bring your marriage frustrations here.
@heraldloshi18642 жыл бұрын
What a gentleman 👏.
@theeastafricanpost10282 жыл бұрын
Watch "A match made in heaven" by Jon corson
@1980tx2 жыл бұрын
Divorce is painful regardless of the reason especially if you have been married for many years . I can relate : when asking for help and your partner doesn’t want to participate in getting help .
@bontlemaluleka80002 жыл бұрын
Wise man
@faboge2 жыл бұрын
love this woman!
@martinkuria38022 жыл бұрын
She needs to work on the questioning process and be more precise.
@marymutavi54462 жыл бұрын
Wooooieee,sounds sad waiting
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@marymutavi54462 жыл бұрын
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@iannprincejumah2 жыл бұрын
@@marymutavi5446 THANKS
@diplomatdiplomat28002 жыл бұрын
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@petals86572 жыл бұрын
The lesson in this wanjala is did u take time to ask her why she left ? Or she had to conform to ur ideals ? U said u stick to ur core values, marriage is about sharing compromising and accepting ur partner as an individual and not to be defined by the marriage.
@vivosereni2 жыл бұрын
This woman was playing you games with another man coz first he never took the kids & second she got married immediately after divorce same day.
@mjzimani2 жыл бұрын
She
@angiemorris13452 жыл бұрын
Ha ha my dear if you was loving and kind she would NOT have left you if you were giving her love she would not have left you for love am talking from my experience.
@alicenalulwe842 жыл бұрын
Wanjala oli wae
@omailtheresia2 жыл бұрын
The woman is working hard to secure of her children abroad and you are talking unnecessary things. You wanted divorce two years before, so the woman had to look for plan B. Which worked better for her. Most African men ,only wish to divorce a woman and see her miserable. You could not easily move on bc the woman was financially stable, so you could not challenge her with your side chick's period. This should continue to teach African men a lesson, that we are in the 21st century.
@johnadede37422 жыл бұрын
No century will change marriage principles. They are changeless and eternal.