Iam Tongi Makes The Judges Cry With "Monsters" And His Emotional Story - American Idol 2023

This one’s a tearjerker! Iam lost his dad, Rodney, just a few months ago and says he can still hear him harmonizing with him on every song he sings. Rodney taught Iam music from a very young age and always wanted his son to try out for American Idol. Iam is so emotional in the room that he has trouble starting his song, dedicated to his dad.
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American Idol 2023
Helping to determine who America will ultimately vote for to become the next singing sensation are music industry forces and superstar judges Luke Bryan, Katy Perry and Lionel Richie. Emmy® Award-winning host and producer Ryan Seacrest continues as host of the beloved series, for the historic 21st season.

[@jerisunderwood6406]

This kid was my neighbor. He, his mom and his sister came to our house and sang to us on our front porch. He came over and he and I sang together while he played that guitar. I remember when his dad passed. It was so sad. I am so happy for him.

[@ijnap81]

wow. you must be proud of him wonderful story, wonderful Iam

[@justaskjudy]

Wowwww ❤❤❤

[@MHP-hk5ks]

That’s awesome, thanks for sharing ❤

[@CarlosRosario]

Lucky neighbor!

[@irmarosalinda3339]

ssnd big 🤗 for IAM......very lovely man

[@joearias5124]

“I’m not your son, you’re not my father, we’re just two grown men saying goodbye “- just hits me hard…

[@gnoel3735]

Yeah I agree, that was a tough one.

[@letsgo7368]

Agree. My dad and I were best buddies. Being beside his bed at our home with my brothers and mom was hard but humbling. We are all humans and we had to tell him goodbye.

[@markpierce4416]

He reminds me of Iz. His voice soothes and moves me at the same time.

[@nopoint808]

i was thinking to myself “this song not too bad” then when he said that line gahhhhdam it hit me 😭😭

[@aceface3216]

Man my dad just past a few days ago from cancer and this song hit me to deep

[@zymbotictoot]

I'm a grown ass man looking at a phone sobbing. This kid is amazing.

[@jjackkk887]

same man, just found this and my laptop got tears everywhere

[@vershagreer9781]

Me too bro😢

[@bubbagump1306]

Sobbing?

[@jjackkk887]

@@bubbagump1306 sobbing means crying loudly

[@ErinHolmes-cd2id]

Same my man ..THE SAME !!!!!!!!

[@MrNikes91]

My dad passed on in October 2023. Because of this video, he wanted it to be played at his funeral. A friend of mine performed it and knocked it out the park. Thank you Iam, I will have this memory and video, forever

[@Victor-nv2tl]

Hopefully he is in peace. My dad is still around so I'ma try to still cherish the moments together

[@MrNikes91]

@@Victor-nv2tl make as many memories as possible, take copious amounts of photos and videos. Cheers man, thanks for the message

[@ronnie7100]

Wish I had something like this, my father had no funeral 😢

[@MrNikes91]

@ronnie7100 I hope you received closure. All we can do is hold onto the memories. The last thing they would want is to see, is us suffer

[@Yankees123454]

Sorry for you’re lost Brody 🥺

[@MrFirstMiddleLast]

That might be the most incredible performance I’ve ever heard. No auto tune, no producers. Just a boy with a guitar, mourning the death of his father.

[@darrylcounts3157]

Phenomenal

[@projectdelta50]

I knew that emotion would empower him to perform at 1000%.

[@krombopulosrick7920]

Singing a song like this only happens once. The nerves and emotions turn it into something that can't be captured in the studio later.

[@redddogg2461]

That was awesome and hurt at the same time. That lil dude just made this grown man cry. I don’t have a dad but I lost my youngest brother in 2010. Death of your best friend who is also blood really sucks man. This kid has a long road ahead but he made it I know his pops is proud!!! Rip to his pops and RIP my lil brother!!!

[@somerandom7458]

I prefer the acoustic guitar to the electric. He was awesome.

[@siopetongi5791]

My dad attended the funeral for Iam's dad. Music flows strong through the blood of the Tongi family. Never met you cousin, but I love you and wish you luck!!

[@i.loves.you.3000]

Awwww !!!

[@jayasavunat7173]

Malo toko

[@francisenterina4097]

awwwww❤❤

[@rhondawebb1439]

What a beautiful young man with an amazing voice! An awesome tribute to his Dad who I am sure was smiling down at his son from heaven as he sang ❤️

[@dennislee5270]

Love this comment 💯

[@mtlson]

I had exactly the same reaction as Ritchie at 2:49. "We're just two grown men saying goodbye" just hits differently.

[@Loops-1]

Omg me too. When it started I was like “oh this is a nice little love song” and then my heart dropped when I heard that line.

[@lawrencegatley6157]

got a lump in my throat as soon as I heard it

[@T-BRAX]

Same

[@SamM-kh2vd]

It's simple. A father and sons bond is like no other.

[@adamw7340]

If you have a decent father...

[@user-mx8dh3zn2w]

​@adamw7340 decent or not, anyone can be a monster....what you let go of is blaming yourself for it, making yourself accountable for a monster who didn't ever blame himself. Make yourself better than him and then see what happens...still havent achieved the last bit..Will lyk how it goes

[@Garf_malarf]

@@user-mx8dh3zn2wbeautifully said

[@knowntalmbout]

He sang this for his father. I haven’t cried or shred a tear in almost 7 years. This broke me down.

[@satan4hire]

Shred lol

[@Itsyourboy_ray]

Listen to the original which was created by james blunt because his dad was dying

[@emzzan88]

❤❤❤❤

[@onelesschromey1256]

Shredding harder than Metallica

[@dustinwhitehead2310]

Lost my pops Canada Day 2015, this right here has me wiping a few silent tears away myself.

[@taraartsgameindonesia]

When you see something so pure, you realize the studio don't need any fancy editing. Dried my eyes from crying so much 😭

[@fstv5543]

Bang Tara 🤲

[@febiahmad6086]

Sama bang 🥺

[@anonymousarbi]

You're damned true ! This pureness just magnificent !

[@muhamadafanamirularif1338]

Bangggg 😭😭😭😭😭

[@VinzeDiesel]

Vanggg 😭😭

[@jaimechapman9366]

My mother was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer on November 28, 2023. In that time I have seen her fight for each day and to choose to make each say her best. She is my bestfriend, I cannot imagine what life is going to be without her. We are within the final stages and we don't know how long we have. Each day is a gift and a blessing. This man's story touched a deep part of my soul. That was beautiful. I'll be showing my mom this video. I know she's going to love it.

[@farmingwithbron]

I will pray for you and your mom.

[@hopeful5303]

Prayers to your mom!! She deserves the best and is doing her best throughout the process, bless you ❤❤

[@brennanbourne]

Wishing you beautiful memories with your mom. My father passed when I was eleven. It doesn't get easier, but rather becomes your new normal. I cherish all the time I had with him and hope you will too. ❤

[@adrianpereira2327]

I'm so sorry

[@joecarroll1990]

Before my father passed away 2 years ago when I spent time with him I started asking him about his life. His whole life, like every memory he had. And I just listened. It’s some of the best memories I now have. I wish I would have asked sooner. I got to learn so much about him that I never knew.

[@jseedoubleu]

My dad passed 14 years ago. I still remember hearing my mom's blood curdling scream and i ran out of my room to see her standing at his feet as he was gone. I went through a major depression then I lost my mom 7 years after that and yeah this song just yeah

[@simenutti3852]

ill pray for you

[@bobobignutz]

@@simenutti3852can you pray for me too? Sorry

[@seven0hhsavage]

Sorry to hear.

[@dickmasterflex7522]

Hugs ❤

[@Garf_malarf]

They are always with you. I’m sorry for your loss. Go kick ass and make them proud.

[@jpengen]

Some music comes from the mouth.. some music comes from the mind... some music comes from the heart... This man's music comes from the very center of his soul. He didn't just sing a song to audition.... he gave us the privilege to enter his life and see his character, his love to see his father and his hope to secure his future. He didn't just share his music... he gave us a priceless gift. Iam Tongi, thank you.

[@stevenveganightowl12]

I felt the sameway, he's going to Hollywood, and I hope he makes it deep in the finals. It got me.

[@yply.o.7877]

Beautiful comment that has put the crazy string and graph of music into readable words and for that I thank u.

[@PatrickBradshaw215]

🙌🏽

[@christinetrimm9905]

I feel so bad for him 😢

[@taezenwusstigsarme8832]

So beautifully worded

[@Asian-Hawaiian-Orian]

Dude. This man single handedly made American Idol relevant again. I know I personally didn't even know it was still around until Iam's audition vent viral instantly. Mahalo and congrats to this young man.

[@FootballPrincess49]

Same !!!

[@wholesomelad4699]

He honestly sang this better than the original

[@michaelrz742]

Bro same I used to watch American idol but it's been over like 5 years since I've watched it but I came up on his video and he made it relevant for me again

[@nvwcj22]

Me too! I tuned out years ago but someone told me to watch this & it's just undone me! Can't stop crying. His voice is incredible & he's so young & humble. Wishing him all the best! ❤🎉

[@shredbetty2188]

ABSOLUTELY 💯%

[@anime_weeb436]

"When you love so deeply, you feel so deeply." That's so definitely true Lionel ❤️

[@bryanfitch8839]

I feel this young man's emotions! I lost my father when I was 21. I'm 54 now, and I've missed him every day! This song and his delivery have me in tears every time I hear it.

[@wyattbreymeyer4033]

im 23, i lost my dad to colon cancer 3 years ago now, this song makes me bawl

[@ptahhotep2]

I feel sad for you

[@user-yy3iw4be8c]

😢😢😢😢😢

[@jesseg1233]

"People thought I cry because I miss him, but its because I hear him singing" what a beautiful statement shows his connection and spirit to the world. Makes you stop and think.

[@Jdo3210]

Damnit man this can’t be more true😔 Man I miss my dads singing 😔

[@joannajamerson35]

Beautiful ❤

[@gabe9740]

What a beautiful thing to say. Kid is full of heart.

[@jacobstinson7954]

26 year old dude here. Lost my dad to terminal cancer when I was 19. Everything about Iam's demeanor and performance reminds me of myself shorty after my dad left and I couldn't stop crying after watching this. Wish I could give him a hug and just talk to him about it all. Love and Gratitude will always win. shoutout to all the amazing fathers out there.

[@willwarner8225]

So sorry for your loss Jacob

[@paulorr9262]

God Bless Jacob. I completely relate.

[@sukahtonga310]

🙏🏼

[@feahoakitapopo3878]

I totally agree I cried felt him losing my father as well Iam Tongi did that this was my first time hearing this song and it was the perfect song for you you got this LETS GOO

[@scsclassics]

Sorry for your looose

[@NLushW]

This makes me cry every time.

[@jasongrondin3259]

I lost my dad last July after a torturous battle with ALS. Watching the strongest man I knew slowly lose control of all physical aspects in his life absolutely killed my soul. He did have have the final say in finally ending his suffering and while we will miss him so much forever, he was given one final bit of control back to his life. Miss you so much dad.

[@johnleombruno3133]

To any son who's lost a father. This hits hard.

[@Keys879]

Yeah, man.

[@shredbetty2188]

BIGTIME😓

[@scoobee4921]

I have my Father and it still hits hard.

[@rivas1903]

I missss him sooo damnnn much and iam the oldest in the family, have to be strong to keep everyone together but when im alone, i scream…like im trying to scream the pain away from my soul…

[@cliftonbrown0685]

Facts, i be damned if my eyes didn't well up when he said were just two grown men saying goodbye

[@loulouknox124]

Lets give James Blunt a round of applause for writing this amazing song. 👏

[@melissaarispe1551]

Love him❤️❤️

[@jaimecampos8615]

Fuck James blunt he never acknowledged him or even his existence

[@oliveAmira]

He sure did♥️

[@melissaarispe1551]

James Blunt was my dream man back in the day😁

[@Electricdreams21]

Underrated songwriter

[@yassinbenchekroun8368]

I hope I’m not the only one that sees IZ in this kid. The heart, the emotion, the genuineness.

[@wallypalmer4704]

You are so right! Iz lives again!

[@yoashmo]

Who's IZ?

[@Valix_G1]

@@yoashmo the guy who sang somewhere over the rainbow he passed away a few years ago it’s a beautiful song

[@leemorralley7172]

If makes it easier was on the film 50 first dates at the end.

[@wallypalmer4704]

@@yoashmo They referred to him as "The Voice of Hawaii". His name was Israel Kamakawiwoʻole, but most called him Bruddah Iz. He passed away in 1997. The man had an incredible voice.

[@Awetopsy1703]

after 57 years on this planet you see and hear everything till the point of no surprises but this guy with this song cut open those old cloths and damn it gave me chill bumps and opened my heart to the greatest gift of life - LOVE

[@rubenmartinez4876]

After watching this I ended up calling my dad to tell him I love him after months not talking. Thank you

[@lovedove2661]

❤

[@fictionallove_2416]

❤❤

[@wahyuolenk848]

So am i brother

[@DanielleAkauola]

❤️❤️

[@Redd.915]

ALREADY 💕💕💕

[@bza2356]

Man how can you not cry. This guy connected on so many levels. No crazy runs or showing off his voice. Just pure emotion, cant even imagine being in that room

[@txbassn7902]

You’re absolutely right!

[@dinosaurd7295]

And notice. The only (modern) woman on the panel did not shed a tear.

[@hydrostream76]

@@txbassn7902 i cried

[@rakiest]

great musicians can often do very much with very little. Be it through feel, beautiful melody work, or emotional connection.

[@ImNoTourist]

I didn't cry, after losing so many people I have learned to appreciate stuff more. I dont cry because its over, I laugh because it happened. Just remember how lucky we are to have the people we have, enjoy it while it lasts.

[@JuggernautX10]

This shit hits hard personally. Having a father who pretty much abandoned me at the age of 7 and now having a son of my own who is the same age as I was when my father left just brings up so many emotions. It just makes me grateful for having my son in my life because now I'm able to do everything that my dad didnt do for me.

[@aidangodkin2280]

Bless you king 💚

[@rhoxmontilla]

I hope you know that it's not ever your fault that he left...❤

[@Derpingtonshere]

Now this, THIS IS TALENT! You can literally feel the emotions in the song. When he dedicates it to his dad he means it. SUCH a beautiful song and sung beautifully by this young gentlemen.

[@jayaitch88]

“Priced outta paradise.” Gosh, that’s sad. God bless this man and his family! What a beautiful, touching voice he has.

[@aloha_oe311]

Sadly it’s true. Hawaii is like USA’s moneymaker out of greed.. Everything is up for the rich.

[@patrickdarling9553]

That's a song in itself and if the young man sees this? He should pen "Priced outa Paradise"

[@carolkamaile1967]

30,000 locals are moving from Hawaii each year. My 3 grand children moved to Vegas for a better life for them and their children. Local people that don't already have a house in Hawaii, can't afford to buy one now that starts at over half a million dollars on a zero lot(which means 10 feet between you and your neighbor with very little front and back yard. YES, priced out of paradise.

[@hannahmarie3223]

We are all getting priced out. I’m born and raised in Honolulu but my husband and I had to relocate to Arizona where we could actually afford to live

[@elkende]

About to be priced out. Lucky enough to be living with family, but that can only last for so long. PSA don’t move to Hawai’i and if you visit pick up your trash and tip well 🙏

[@crushingthevector5837]

As an older musician of 35 years myself, I rarely give anyone a chance these days. Iam, something about you made me pause for a moment and lend my attention to you. When you began telling your story, I listened even closer...and then you began singing this song. In my 51 years there have been maybe 4 artists to bring me to tears and only one who brought tears that I could not stop. That was you!! Regardless of the results of this competition, I have no doubt you will go far with your talent. Your rendition of this song is so very special and I will pray that God brings you success. You deliver a love that is so rare in music these days. My heart broke during this performance but I immediately became a fan. This song, whether yours or not, was written for you to sing at this special moment in your journey. I truly wish you all the best in your career and life. As a Veteran, I salute you and as a father I send you my respect. Your father would absolutely be proud and is definitely shining on you. Bravo good sir. God Bless.

[@aaronarreola5249]

Wow

[@rosaliekickett1157]

Beautiful words ❤️

[@joseluiscruzperez2524]

TRADUCCIÓN DEL COMENTARIO de @crushingthevector5837 Como músico mayor de 35 años, rara vez le doy una oportunidad a alguien en estos días. Pero, algo en ti me hizo detenerme por un momento y prestarte mi atención. Cuando comenzaste a contar tu historia, escuché aún más de cerca... y luego comenzaste a cantar esta canción. En mis 51 años ha habido tal vez 4 artistas que me hicieron llorar y solo uno que me hizo llorar y no pude parar. ¡¡Ese eras tú!! Independientemente de los resultados de esta competencia, no tengo dudas de que llegarás lejos con tu talento. Tu interpretación de esta canción es muy especial y rezaré para que Dios te traiga el éxito. Entregas un amor que es tan raro en la música en estos días. Mi corazón se rompió durante esta actuación, pero inmediatamente me convertí en fan. Esta canción, sea tuya o no, fue escrita para que la cantes en este momento especial de tu viaje. Realmente te deseo todo lo mejor en tu carrera y en tu vida. Como Veterano lo saludo y como padre le envío mis respetos. Tu padre estaría absolutamente orgulloso y definitivamente está brillando sobre ti. Bravo buen señor. Dios los bendiga.

[@Motown8]

Those were beautiful words. Thank you for your service sir.

[@iREK4Ni]

beautiful comment good sir. god bless

[@erosofthesea4724]

Even tho i am a sensitive person, its not often that something makes me cry. This one hit me straight in the heart and immediatly i wrote my dad that i will come for Dinner tomorrow, because i am lucky to still have my parents arround living just a few meters away. Thank you for reminding me what is really important in life. I am sure your Dad is proud of you just as he was when he still was alive. Wish you all the best young man. Your Voice and they way you delivered it is a gift to the world. Thank you

[@matsalvatore9074]

Lionel is soooo genuine of a person.

[@frankservin3463]

Ladies and Gentlemen, Your 2023 official American Idol winner, IAM TONGI. You did it bro. Love you ❤

[@nickname-9001]

WE‼️ love him ❣️ he definitely deserve it 🥲

[@mar6268]

I am so glad this young man won America idol, he had us in tears last night as he sang monsters. Love Iam’s voice he is going to go far. Congratulations Iam 🎉

[@nickname-9001]

@@mar6268 amen 🤞

[@rubren9683]

Amen.. Godbless him

[@angiecaywood3999]

Everyone knows Colin should have won.

[@marianne7180]

I instantly started sobbing uncontrollably as soon as he started singing. My husband who lost his father a year ago was standing in front of the tv in tears he couldn’t even sit down. The only sound that filled our living room was this man’s beautiful voice and our sniffles. Truly captivated us and the room we were in through the tv. That’s insanely powerful. The gift you have is indescribable.

[@johnmalone1189]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. My heart goes out to you & your husband. ❤️

[@imee8843]

Me too🙏💕

[@lindamin4340]

Truly❤

[@MISNM0]

Easy for me to envision this moment. He really did fracture souls with this audition. Best to you both as you try to navigate this season. I mean that. 💛🌈

[@MISNM0]

@@johnmalone1189 Very much agree

[@dougmcbride5897]

That young man only comes around once in a lifetime what a performance I'm honored to have listened to him the world is yours Iam Tongi

[@melp2468]

Im crying like a baby, when your love is so deep and the person who's raised you and supported your dreams no matter what passes away you have to somehow refocus your life without them. So proud of this young man and his future is bright and his dad will always be with him. Simply a beautiful song and tribute to his dad.

[@Graybeard_]

As a retired English teacher, I would just like to acknowledge the story telling quality. The definition of heartfelt and poignancy.

[@mariamagina8332]

Thank you you for your correction I appreciate. Learning the language in the country I lived, I guess I always get it wrong . Thank you very much

[@landongspirit]

How about the pronounciation? 😅

[@8ootyL1CK3R]

It's called 'editing' In terms of the post production with the director & Also in this udeoscase It's the Pacific way

[@MLGB0Yz]

Haha, being a teacher means nothing. I would love to challenge you to a competition to find the true language arts master.

[@Graybeard_]

@@MLGB0Yz A. So all of your knowledge got into your head without any teachers? No one taught you how to read and write? B. Why would you think that an English teacher shouldn't make a comment about storytelling? C. It is quite common for ignorant, uneducated people to try and put down people who are educated. Like here, they only succeed in exposing their insecurities, their lack of self-confidence, and their low self-esteem. I feel sorry for you.

[@TimeBucks]

His voice went straight to my heart

[@urvashikumari5187]

Nyc

[@Ahmedraza-wg8lm]

Brilliant

[@AliHamza-xf1ll]

Nicc

[@mukhtiarahmedsoomro1994]

Nice video

[@masum182]

Brilliant

[@haeleysundin386]

“The story is one thing, but the delivery of the story is what makes an artist great.” Couldn’t agree more. Enough said

[@derontucker7173]

I’ve listened to this EASILY… over 100 times…. I still have my father, and 1 of my Grandpa’s…. I sob like a baby each time and it doesn’t matter when or where…. I listen and replay it over and over and over. Honestly it’s a great release. As a man, we all need this release. It doesn’t matter if you’ve experienced it, or will experience this pain…. It lets you know we all have an expiration date, we will never know when it is. So, hug everyone, be the greatest person you can be. Find something in your day that will make you happy and appreciative.

[@prettytallpaul]

I’ve never seen a more genuine reaction on this show than Lionel‘s reaction to this song. You can tell he immediately thought of his father. Powerful stuff.

[@allygrottick3984]

So emotional 💔

[@charliedu]

You can see when it started too. Around 3:00 once that line drops, Lionel's left hand started shaking and he was like, "oohh" like he recognizes something is happening to his body and soul and it was because of this young man's song.

[@jmeyers88]

That’s my reaction when I eat chick fil a for the first time after a few months.

[@Ramza941]

Lionel's reaction was definitely one the highlights of this video. Watching him struggle to keep his composure because of this performance was really something else.

[@prettytallpaul]

@@jmeyers88 truer words have never been spoken 😂

[@LE-om1wg]

I am a 45 year old woman, sitting at my dining table in a little village in northern England... crying into my porridge. Every person who has lost their parent, anywhere in the world, will feel this song in their soul. The delivery was mastery.

[@marthannhicks5404]

This month in exactly 3 days will be 11 years since my dad passed away just 5 days shy of his 63rd birthday. I miss him every day.

[@lolitadouglas5736]

Growing up my dad died when I was only five and can’t remember him but a lot of people said he was a very kind loving policeman in town. Known by the whole town. I can still remember his picture with him in his uniform .This really makes me cry even I’m now 70 yrs.old

[@lindsaysvlogph]

I feel this too. Lost my dad 3 yrs ago. Still tough living w/o him and his love. This is soo touching

[@jmjm1920]

Watching from Auckland NZ both my parents passed away 13 years ago in Tonga thinking of going back first time to see family's 🙏

[@paulp4559]

Love the comment

[@albertosilva4588]

I’ve watched this 20 times and still can’t stop the chills and tears I get every time. Strong performance

[@queeneze6153]

I just lost my dad 2 weeks ago and I’m listening to this music and it hits differently

[@Jonesybabie]

I love that Katy Perry asked his father's name. That simple gesture honors our ancestors 🙌🏽 🕊

[@BoswellGary]

Unfortunately she seemed unaffected by the same song that had the other two men in tears.

[@itsAmynow]

@@BoswellGary he sang it again with James Blunt in the live show and she absolutely lost it... it's worth a watch! Very moving...

[@ninjafire3583]

​@BoswellGary some people can hide emotions well when infront of others

[@brianseng4029]

@@BoswellGary She was affected, trust me, what you were seeing was just the Botox lmao

[@fullyactivated]

@@brianseng4029 LOOOOOOOL, true, she was affected for sure

[@j0epark1]

Iam Tongi - If you ever get a chance to read this comment, I want to say thank you. For introducing me to probably the most powerful song I have ever heard. My father and I rarely see eye to eye, yet after hearing your performance, I have a new found love and respect for him. I take him for granted when he's always had my back even though we had many disagreements. Thanks to you and James Blunt for this a million times! Now I realize that my dad isn't "bitching" at me. He just wants the best for me. It took me too long to realize, but now I can only hope to be half the father he is to me. I'm going to thank my father everyday now. Cheers and I'm rooting for you, Iam Tongi! Your father, Rodney Tongi, would be so proud!

[@nszz916]

U said it all

[@nszz916]

U said it all

[@angeloaristondo2475]

Man…. Right in the chest because I had the same realization and want the same, you literally couldn’t have said it better. Word for word, thank you for this comment

[@kenvo2463]

@j0epark1 and I thank you for reminding me what to do with my parent. You are absolutely right, we take our parents for granted and never appreciate them enough. I have to change that. Thank you to Iam Tongi too for the great reminder to us all

[@j0epark1]

@@angeloaristondo2475 Thank you as well for taking it to heart! I genuinely felt a huge change in me after listening to the words in this song. I’m disappointed it took me this long to look at things through his lens, because I am not a father just yet, but I’m so glad I found this song to really think about things. My dad is going to get a better and better version of me from now on! Cheers to you and hope you do well too!

[@AFHndrsn0701]

My dad passed away on 03/06/24...I miss him so much😢

[@UziGotFame]

very sorry for your loss god bless you 🖤

[@AFHndrsn0701]

@@UziGotFame thank you

[@peterjeffery1854]

watch when he sings about a hand on your arm and he looks to his side like his dad is there listening to him that's the moment that got me to tears and still does every time i watch this video

[@soundmind7797]

I noticed that one as well. And booom! Tears were flowing like river

[@beenhip]

this!

[@mattdonahoe1361]

If you've lost your dad as a man, this is impossible not to make you cry

[@CuddyClipssEnt]

I haven’t lost my dad he’s just not in my life but I felt every part of this

[@jacoblopez6902]

Lost my dad September 21 2018. I cry like a baby listening to this. Next month will be 5 years since I lost him . Sorry for your loss

[@forgivenessshikwambani8664]

I still have my dad but this made me cry.what a song.what a performance

[@808bboarder]

Yup. Let’s stay strong and carry on the best of them within ourselves ❤

[@pennylersin2055]

Im crying my eyes out and my dad is still here

[@Mark_Vdm]

Not one single person in the history of American Idol thus far besides Iam Tongi has unified the world into crying ALL at the same time..This will never be repeated. He has a soul that speaks to every single person on this planet. Truly...Truly amazing. He is the next American Idol !!!!!

[@muffpoundah]

like this ?? 🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂

[@usattfan2836]

It was indeed repeated at the final as he sang it with James Blunt. What beautiful gift they gave us all. Life is a gift.

[@SpicyTofu808]

Agree, and I feel like that’s what this show needs to do the America and the world.

[@dixieshepherd4132]

You called it!! ❤❤ He sure did win it!!! ❤❤

[@bonniefeldman9444]

Yep, could see that weeks ago. What a beautiful voice

[@AliasHSW]

One year later - this still hits hard. Instant tears at first note.

[@jenniferreyes1874]

For everyone who has lost their dad this song hits different 😢 if your lucky enough to still have your dad, give him a hug and tell him how grateful you are, you never know what tomorrow brings 😢

[@Dukeofyork123]

The fact he could keep himself together and sing this, is showing how strong he is, I’m sure his dad is super proud!

[@jayargh1132]

I think it also shows his love for music and the importance of conveying the message through song in a beautiful way.

[@njdarudedovich6126]

I think he let the pain go while singing. He felt better as he sings

[@BLOXKAFELLARECORDS]

I know you love her.... but she has to experience me.... she has to... she loves me bro she won't tell you I will. Sorry. #johnnyx100

[@angryken]

“It’s my turn, to chase the monsters away.” Such a powerful lyric.

[@808bboarder]

As a young man who can relate it’s perfect to sum up the feeling to carry the torch and protect and provide for the family.

[@hutchonfire1]

James blunt is criminally underrated

[@melv3992]

@@808bboarder yes!!! 🥹😭

[@linlin4ken30]

The lyrics are great, but the delivery was amazing…

[@courtneycoley8487]

I agree

[@krismcgrath2816]

I don't even have that father-child bond, but my eyes are still melting.

[@user-js8ii8qe7r]

Same😢

[@dougmcbride5897]

I lost my dad almost 50 years ago but this young man really hit a nerve I haven't cried like this in a very long time thank you iam love you for you being you

[@bobbybobby3686]

I’m 35, my father was on his death bed when I watch this on tv. And I balled my eyes out. A couple weeks later he passed away. This song and rendition brings me to my knees. I love you dad. It’s my turn to chase the monsters away.

[@LL-cl9yc]

😭😭😭 I’m crying!!

[@JustInOutDoors78]

I'm sorry for your pain, Brother. My Dad died in 2001. I miss him with all of my heart and this song tears me to pieces, but I promise you it gets better. I love you, bro. Hang in there.

[@Skul42054]

😭😭😭

[@bentomlin7404]

He's with you even now partner, love cannot be broken and he is present in all your actions and all the ripples that move out from you in this world.

[@juantapia4932]

RIP to your father Bobby. 🙏

[@alikabiri2908]

This young man litrally won the show off of his first audition. What a legend.

[@Cla2-kt9md]

True an best part

[@erikjohansen7564]

only becouse his competiton sucked ICK!"

[@kwentuhantibi]

I fell him! Tear drops in my eye while watching him! God bless!

[@petertoth4987]

I`m a 36 year old man and any time when i`m hear this song i`m alwas cry :( I`m lost my dad too... Thanks for this song man!!

[@jejealbert]

As someone raised in Hawaii, I can tell y’all… Polynesians are blessed with the most beautiful voices ever, they’re just such musically talented folks and it makes me happy anytime any Pacific Islander gets recognition, especially for music! So heartfelt 😭

[@lifeofpri1]

I agree! Had a couple of Polynesian friends and they’re all amazing singers

[@i.loves.you.3000]

Yessss!!!

[@borjc9]

Islanders man, Filipinos are all good at singing too.

[@bruhjuststop7155]

RIGHTT

[@coreynowlan]

I’m aboriginal living in Australia obviously.. I went to high school where 80% of students were Sa and let me tell you.. there was not a lunch break where I wasn’t listening to beautiful music and creative music too. For me that’s a real blessing

[@HealingSounds1444]

Look at us, everyone in the comments, appreciating this talented voice.... Many of us from different backgrounds, nationalities, countries, but yet here we are feeling the same feelings im sure. How beautiful us humans are and how we can come together...

[@biffle000]

Beautiful well said

[@artigaps8091]

we need more experiences like this more than ever. You're 100% correct. I'm positive people at odds due to beliefs today would come together and empathize with each other. This performance is probably top 3 I've ever seen. I can't think of another time I was this impacted by a song. Beatiful

[@cliverupiya3066]

It reminded me of my late father

[@hermansuranto5353]

Agree

[@hollynelson2626]

Its so nice seeing all the positive!! No negative! Not that I could imagine what that could be

[@lmAIone]

Theres a special place in heaven for all of us that lost our parents to soon.

[@outlooksalon]

My dad is here m still crying this is the power of music has ability to feel what the artist feel its amazing as human being we so blessed to have feelings

[@camillenatural3711]

No runs and riffs, no belting. Just pure singing voice that captures the essence of the song and resonates with everyone's soul. You know it's a true musician when they are not even trying to impress the audience but just singing their hearts out. He's an authentic artist born in the language of music and I hope he could make it and create his own music because it's rare to find an artist nowadays that doesn't rely on techniques. This guy is a natural gem in music industry. Rooting for you big guy.👏

[@salwasamman1714]

he sang from his pure soul

[@cryptosashi7653]

I unliked it just to like it again Amazing ❤

[@diegosk8er1]

This comment is just pure gold. Perfect!

[@mongiejacobs578]

Wow what a comment...I agree 101%

[@creativepeople6335]

Angelic voice

[@jamiedonaldson9383]

Honestly one of the best and most heartfelt performances Idol has probably seen. The emotional connection he makes with his delivery makes me hope he wins this season.

[@nope9698]

EVER

[@tonnymatan0165]

Agree with u

[@1C5C5C1]

👍👍👍👍👍

[@queenmi274]

Yeah, I said the same thing

[@denekabudget]

Agree

[@xkangerlx]

I watch this video and I remember my dad, because he passed away in 2019 and this boy makes me remember him with his song, thank you very much. greatings from monterrey mexico

[@scyence]

My dad died 2 years ago as of a few days ago. Listening to this breaks my heart and heals it. Pure beauty.

[@malaetasitoilolo2940]

Win or lose, you’ve already won millions with this audition. You made your dad and culture proud. Ofas toko 🙏🏽

[@deirdremorris9234]

Agree. A healing word or song is worth more than gold.

[@kenetileilua5715]

Much love from your Samoan brothers. Tokouso

[@at3955]

@@kenetileilua5715 he actually half Samoan but we are all one

[@Traveler19491]

I'm 74. I lost my Dad nine years ago. I was 12,000 miles away and within 24 hours of learning he was dying I got on a plane heading home. He passed while I was in the air and to this day I regret not getting to say goodbye. This young man expressed in just a couple of minutes how anyone who has lost a parent feels. The roles change, father to son, mother to daughter, but the love lives on, and the memories are forever.

[@gambalombo]

my content vids are better than american idol

[@808bboarder]

@@gambalombo It’s really not

[@KarolisDanys]

I hope your dad rests in peace. You got this and your dad is proud of you

[@iiamfela]

Hugs 🥺

[@latenightguitaradventures3022]

Much love my friend.

[@MMMyeh]

I have no words. This is beautiful. I’ve watched the video at least 20 times. Well done, Iam- you’re still touching souls with your song.

[@stevelacklison1637]

James Blunt loved this version of his song

[@corporalbrig]

I’ve watched this numerous times and it still makes me cry . He is so deserving and humble. The love he shows for his Dad is touching. We love you Iam!

[@peterl1550]

Who else came back to hear this again just to hear it and tear up again and again dang it Iam! Go get’em!!! 🤙🏽🇬🇺

[@Jujumaddaz]

🙋‍♂️

[@agnescarbonilla4642]

Me😢

[@kitat7983]

🙋🏽‍♀️

[@chunkysnugmemezz]

Me

[@AlexisMunoz82]

Nice to see some people out there like me! Sadness sometimes brings joy... if it's a great memory.

[@Ibsmokin]

I’ve seen this multiple times and it cuts right through me every time. The love and respect a son has for his father is something only they understand.

[@niccolecarter1096]

Same idc how many times I watch this I cry every time

[@franz95223]

A lot of sons don't have respect for their fathers because their fathers are absent. Lots of black people don't have fathers. Their mothers had sperms donors. The women slept with men without protection and without any moral compass. The men came and went like they would do at the red light district.

[@shaun5047]

Man my wife and I plan on trying for a child soon and I always find my way back here. lol This video makes me cry like a damn baby.

[@arcmode]

Same here bro. This video pops in my feed every few months and it does it to me as well every time.

[@richiecolon3774]

Same

[@BeingBedlight]

Got the news my pops only has a few months left a week or two ago. I took the news pretty well at the time. I finally broke hearing this. I wasn't expecting it at all.

[@A_Wild_Dyzzy]

My father taught me everything he knew about music, I chose guitar because he played it, and he gave me the voice I have today. I lost him on July 3rd, 2021. I still played my gig at a local pub the next day, It was the best way I could think of to give him a send-off. I miss him dearly.

[@haziqcuman6373]

"Dont be afraid ..its my turn to chased the monster away" hit me to deep.for those who still lucky to have a father just appreciate them

[@theycallmecoop]

Listen to keep the wolves away - uncle lucious

[@rap_savy3331]

I will .

[@theycallmecoop]

@Rap_savy if you like that lyric you gonna love that song. Discovered it the day I drove to the hospital when I had to sign papers to take my pops off life support. Such a great song imo

[@ikarowalo4875]

i will

[@reggaetonero0407]

So true. I miss my dad so much.

[@LittleOfThat]

I lost my dad at nine. It’s so hard. But I’m on my way to the hospital to probably say goodbye to my mom and this song is just killing me. If you believe I’d welcome any prayers.

[@JBake330]

I hope your doing ok, I have watched this for like 4 hours straight and cried the whole time. I hope you find peace. Much love and rip to your dad

[@thediydaddy2649]

My prayers for you man

[@dibujosatodocolor]

Te deseo lo mejor y que ella pueda recuperarse

[@ginlv8]

My prayers are with you

[@OBeer1]

🤲🏼

[@n8vnoob523]

I was working 2 two jobs over a year ago just grinding away. I found this video and sent it to my wife that night while I was at my night job I was jamming out as a janitor and I sat down listening to this a few times over in tears and I told my wife that this guy is winning the whole competition! I knew it before seeing the rest of the contestants, this did indeed fracture some souls.

[@Neurod_vibes]

We lost dad 5 weeks ago and I think of my brothers grief journey when I hear this song. 😢

[@lazarusdouvos]

This might be the single greatest emotionally performance I've ever seen on IDOL

[@kymberlirobinson7013]

Me too. I'm not a crier but he got me.

[@simonvilla9584]

Thanks to American idol for giving this kid the stage.

[@ki55Gudby3]

Absolutely 💯👍🏼

[@carolkamaile1967]

The Samoan and Tongan people can sing like no others. Our church on Sunday had a second service held by Tongan people. Only about 25 people, but it sounded like 100. The harmony, just beautiful. Yes, I've lived in Hawaii since 1963, when he said Kahuku, I knew we were in for a treat. I'm still in tears.

[@MISNM0]

Hawaii and the Polynesian culture has knocked it out of the park with Iam Tongi here.

[@ajpal9618]

The can also wrestle. #Bloodline

[@donlightfoot9608]

It's an overlooked culture in America which is a shame. They bring so much talent and should be showcased more. I think you're starting to see that more lately, though. So that's good.

[@Jxando916]

@@Corina_June_Cunningham stolen land. It shouldn’t really be considered part of America. Especially since the people that created that culture and grew up there are being kicked out by billionaires, soon it’ll just be a bunch of islands owned by CEO’s

[@elouise5593]

​@@Corina_June_Cunningham Ah, but he can do it! I have heard him sing in person and he can sing even better!

[@RockyMurasing]

To all the sons who want to make their dad proud.

[@trippcobb1730]

Hell of a song … I’m a grown man sobbing my ass off!’ Kid has talent and a heart

[@drx696]

“Priced out of paradise” my respect grew further for this young man and how he represents us Hawaiians/polys !!. Way to show the world your voice/talent and the message about how our people are being priced out of our lands over the generations 🥲. Braddah deserves everything good comming to him, and I hope he makes it BIG so that he can return to his RIGHTFUL home: HAWAII NEI 🏝💯 dad must be smiling so proud up there

[@aaronelijahcolyer]

same, I cried when he mentioned having to leave his land for Seattle

[@johnerickp]

Yeah, aside from losing his dad, the financial struggles. I am praying for Iam's success.

[@gmjm123123]

His performance touched me.

[@wendikeanu6089]

Aloha & so true about the daily price we have to pay, job(s) we work to make ends meet, and he represented all people of Hawaii Nei

[@paulorr9262]

And what's even worse, is the education system in HI is NOT attached to property taxes. So the children get screwed over that way too.

[@josephlatino8313]

I’ve watched this ten times and cried every time. I lost my dad to leukemia in 2007. He passed with his wife and his five sons all by his bedside. I was holding his right hand as he left this world. This performance really hit home. ❤

[@fonua55]

❤️❤️

[@MISNM0]

🫂🤍🕊🌈

[@SuperVonny]

I love James Blunt singing this song, this version is a truly beautiful and touching performance ❤

[@atanuoptimus7855]

I cried every time

[@jaredknapp8886]

Sending mad love.

[@julianleone6787]

My dad Died yesterday and I cant finish this song

[@hugogonzalez6331]

My condolences my dad passed away two months before his dad passed away and this song just goes on repeat everyday

[@Trish-ql9kz]

God rest his soul

[@kittycatkat1587]

My dad passed away 12 years ago but his cover of this beautiful song always brings me to tears

[@daniel47896A]

As a 27 year old who recently lost my father to dementia and being his primary care giver, this song makes me cry like a baby!

[@breamartinez8115]

😢 I’m sorry

[@rayalejandre4920]

🙏stay strong man. My worst fear in life. Just preparing myself for it.

[@Southerngrl]

So sorry 🙏❤

[@Simple_peeps]

Condolences 😢

[@Allioop_1]

I just lost my Mom and best friend, cried buckets, because his song is truth. 💔

[@sherius48]

My dad passed away 10 years ago. Hearing him, I was again that 17 years old teenager having to go into the world without his guidance. I haven't cried that much since 10 years before today. It was a magnificent delivery.

[@mazetv6381]

youre not alone. my dad passed away when i was 17 too. it happened 9 years ago... we made it through a rough patch

[@arthurwallrath3613]

I don't know what I'll do when my dad passes. We are connected at the hip. He has been there through thick and thin. We supported each other when mom passed. I think losing mom brought us even closer together. Love you dad.❤️

[@kreizeeboi]

My dad passed away 7 yrs ago, i was 20 at that time. This song and iam delivering it hit deep, especially the part "I know your mistakes and you know mine". Me and my dad had a bit of falling out and made up near the end.

[@editafuentes4472]

My dad passed away 10 years ago as well and I miss him everyday. Totally felt the heartbreak this young man was feeling…before, during and after he sang this beautiful song. Praying he goes far in his American Idol journey…and beyond; one never knows what doors may open up for him ❤

[@salvhy2272]

Same feelings, I lost my grandmother who raised me 3 days old when I was born, Saturday November 17, 2019 she's waiting for me to come home, Sunday (November 18, 2019) she asked my Aunt what's the stautus of my travel, and November 19, she passess away waiting for me to come home. This is the biggest burden in my heart up to this day, I'm on the feelings to have just one day to hug her, to tell her how thankful I am she raised me. My grandmother is my number 1 fan. I miss her so much. THIS SONG BREAKS MY WHOLE ME My grandma once told me to see her greatgrand child with me, it's a long story to tell.

[@jasonboyd2479]

No flash, no glitz, no glamour, no over powering music. Simply a beautiful soul, voice, and a guitar. Nothing else needed. To quote a BGT judge, “We do these shows looking for people who can make records. That was a recording vocal.” Put him singing that song out as a single, and it’s instant gold. Bravo young man.

[@gihanerangahettiarachchi]

Iam Tongi, I'm a Sri Lankan and I lost my dad 9 years ago... Your song really touched my heart and thanks a lot for your performance.. I hv watched this clip for several times and still I can not hold my tears whe you sing it even it is not sang in my mother tongue... Hats off bro.... well done...❤

[@christinejordan5354]

I love Lionel Ritchie’s tenderness and compassion.

[@easygrin1127]

Yes he is a kind dude

[@erikjohansen7564]

@@easygrin1127 not compasion but emphathy he lost a father aswell .

[@drew7155]

He was wise in this video

[@northeastshooter5135]

Just an added note about Lionel Richie. I liked his music in the 80's but did not know anything about his personality. Watching the way he spoke to the performer before the presentation and the way he reacted to the performance, he showed me his deep connection to humanity and the world of emotions. Richie is the real deal and as such has been elevated in my book of performers with a soul.

[@igrojikku2212]

This holds some spot in his heart man…

[@westcoastray3139]

When he looked off to the side at the verge of tears at 3:34 I broke down. It was almost as if his dad was standing right next to him. So proud of you Toko, we’re rooting for you💙💙

[@apaiatatuihalamaka8934]

Damn right that one hurt real bad bc I knew ❤

[@soninamoa808]

Foreal😢

[@armandkoga4162]

So true that look back got me too

[@kendragreene5953]

😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@miapalu6565]

😢😢😢😢❤❤❤

[@ptahhotep2]

My dad passed away in April 2012 at 68! I still can't believe. I miss him daily. And I will miss him till I am gone!

[@user-py6sy1ss5e]

I'm sitting here crying to this man sing his heart out 😭😭😭 this was beautiful

[@masiutaufa6909]

The way he looks over his shoulder to feel his dad’s presence at 3:35 when he sings “I can feel my hand on your arm” 😭

[@Metanoia10]

Wow. Good catch. I got chills replaying that and I believe he was there by his side like always

[@Followyourdreams2012]

I noticed that too

[@WoolfHaaley]

I've watched that same apart about 100x glad I'm not the only person who noticed such a sad but beautiful moment 🙏❤️ God bless this kid .

[@velasquezapril9980]

And the judges noticed it and felt it too

[@sabrinacuadro2746]

The amount of times I’ve watched this I never realized that. I’m from hawaii and this will always stick with me because so many of us even at his age and younger have lost a parent so I know it hits all of us back home

[@Bm33333]

This hits hard. Making a 35 years old grown ass man sob like a three year old. Miss you Dad

[@mogrady555]

❤

[@joshhegewald3061]

❤

[@fennixbeltre2816]

Sorry, bro. You maked me cry again.

[@toucantango1453]

I feel you, man, shits hard..

[@Robby_Rob]

Same man, 38 lost him 3 years ago and I’d kill for a hug from the big guy again

[@billtroll4844]

I am 65 years old and thought I was incapable of crying my whole adult life…until now. I let my son down. I don’t know if I would be worthy of this song

[@elisem1912]

Kids just want love, not perfection.

[@Jhgj-dz9ds]

I am a grown man, 60 years old, I lost my father 20 years ago. Still makes me cry and will still until I die.