Totally agree, Vivekji, we have become so materialistic that everything is for show, status and nothing else!
@ss-ib8gm6 ай бұрын
My marriage in kerala was done in temple we have wedding hall attached to temple we have veg food …on banana leaf we can’t have non veg in Hindu wedding easy mostly when we do near temple . But now days there meat shop near temple
@AA134943 ай бұрын
i believed u keralites are very progressive and most progressive leftist follow a vegan diet and fight for animal rights and animal testing. Do u guys have to kill animals to celebrate or show solidarity wth muslims.
@lalithamurthy73256 ай бұрын
Excellent analysis. We just have to hope and pray that people realize this
@karanverma62686 ай бұрын
❤it's 8:00 clock in the morning raining here in meerut, free from all morning duties now I am listening to one of my favourite person Vivek agnihotri ji❤
@sanjivpatil5826 ай бұрын
Excellent detailed realistic explanation. Thank you Vivek ji
@ErNikhilKu6 ай бұрын
मन्दिर में शादी सबसे उत्तम
@swatidas34676 ай бұрын
Yes… unke saad garib o ko annadanam.. or ved patha jo shadi kar raha hain unke liye or saare samaj ke liye…
@RupaM-b9jАй бұрын
Ha ab covid k baad toh it's proven more.
@Vandanavishwas6 ай бұрын
Bahut achchhe topic par aap charcha kar rahe hain Vivek ji! Hum to apne janmdin par diya jalaate hain aur apni Bhaarteey mithaaiyaan khaate hain.
@SaurabhTawlare6 ай бұрын
बहुत अच्छा सर राजीव दीक्षित जी भी इसी तरह की बाते करते थे 🙏 बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद आपका
@aishakatayysha6 ай бұрын
very relevant topic, well articulated
@niranjanshendurnikar75016 ай бұрын
Superbly Presented. Its totally true.. Rightly Said that a higher Conscious is the right way..
@rajnidhar10266 ай бұрын
It's become a big show off n people get carried away by movies n try to live their life like that . Marriage itself has lost its meaning
@padmaoruganti91796 ай бұрын
Engagement , Pre-wedding , Haldi , Wedding , Post wedding reception, seriously guests must have patience to attend so many events of their families or friends wedding!!
@bapparawal24576 ай бұрын
A lot of people don't want to spend on weddings but to social pressure they are spending a lot. Lots of people only care about show off in weddings not even about weddings itself.
@nirjharrajawat22226 ай бұрын
Vivek ji you are a true thinker and brilliant communicator, very well made video 👏👏
@DeekshaN-vd6xn6 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯% correct
@tomhardy88346 ай бұрын
Amazing interpretation of marriage as envisioned by Sanatan Dharma. Truly great thoughts.
@gojoflexunlimited6 ай бұрын
Absolutely right 👍 Vivek Sir
@Mahadev_ki_Bhakt236 ай бұрын
Totally agreed
@ss-ib8gm6 ай бұрын
I am in US most of the malls are closing I think most people do online shopping ,or outlet malls , rich go to special boutique, or high end shops , I always find 99 % stuff in malls are useless now most of the things don’t last they want you to buy again and again same thing . Please buy cotton , natural fabric india is blessed with natural resources take care of it ……don’t buy synthetic, toxic dye , embllishment …it causes pollution of our river , soil …..Use cotton , natural fabric , wool, jute recycle it ….i remember earlier real wool lasted so long i had worn my sister friend child hood wool vest it was 20 yr old and was still good ….
@AA134943 ай бұрын
cotton production causes a ton to water waste. it takes 300 buckets of water to make one shirt. therefore synthetic is better
@radhikasodha81846 ай бұрын
Thankyou Sir❤🎉
@Trendytribe776 ай бұрын
Great video…so much to learn. Totally agree with everything you said.
@sarakumari31796 ай бұрын
हर बात इतनी सरल और सहज नहीं है जितना आप समझा रहें हैं, briefly सनातन अर्थात, वैभव, संपन्नता और हर्षोल्लास भी है और सादगी और समर्पण भी है।
@grsint6 ай бұрын
totally agree
@ss-ib8gm6 ай бұрын
Yes earlier Marwari family women would be wearing jwellery but wearing relaxo rubber chap pal which is Convineint and comfortable for her. Most of our saints were poor living in forest ….kings would visit them there
@rchilpuri6 ай бұрын
A wedding is a major priority for family heads.Yes.It is an occasion for near and dear coming together and turning it into a memorable one.But as you said it shouldn’t become a show off one wasting money etc.Now unfortunately any party for any occasion had become meaningless and lost sanctity for reasons you stated.
@smitkadu55046 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@suchetanaik6 ай бұрын
So true 😢
@binaymishra2226 ай бұрын
Great Thought Sir
@Abdulkhan-n1p1t6 ай бұрын
सटीक विश्लेषण
@souldigger91365 ай бұрын
The higher the consiousness level of Uploader , the lesser the crowd/views. Not surprised.
@prashantrdgmc6 ай бұрын
Very well said Vivek Ji
@bintubarman78066 ай бұрын
You are right 👍 sir
@Radientsleeper6 ай бұрын
प्रिय विवेकजीं, मैं १९९० में भारत छोड़ गया एक घोरना उम्मीदी के आलम में। मोदीजी की निःस्वार्थ सेवा देख जो उम्मीद जगनी शुरू हुई, वह फिर डूबने लगी है। झूठी उम्मीदों में जीना तो कोई जीना है लल्लू ? आप की persistence, courage, dedication, और निष्काम युद्ध की भावना को मेरा प्रणाम। may there be another 1000 like you, I know Vivekanand asked for 100 only, but the intensity and speed of the social rot has multiplied many time since.
@swatidas34676 ай бұрын
Living country is not the solution. Who are working for Bharat are the solution.
@shyamalasubramanian43456 ай бұрын
Absolutely right.
@adarshkar370115 күн бұрын
I totally agree with each sentence of Vivek sir❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
@AlokKumar-dy9sm6 ай бұрын
Thank you, Vivek ji. Cannot say this but you are a superhuman in this modern age (brainy yet heartfelt). Never saw Mahapurush but my eyes can see someone in this era. pls be healthy, I need you, we need you. while reading if you are thinking I'm too old but I'm 27 :) mnn to bahot hota h apse milne ka magar, I don't have way to meet you and ma'am. khair, Thank you :D
@AT-ty7tm6 ай бұрын
विवेक सर आपने तो दिल की बात कह दी।मेरे मन मै भी यही विचार आते रहते है । हमारे पूर्वजों ने एक महान सभ्यता को बनाया था और आज हम किस कचरे से धिर गए है। ऐश लगता है आज हमारे जीवन के मात्र दो उद्देश है सेक्स और भोजन।और हम इस मै ही पागल है।ये एक मुर्ख सामाज की निशानी है।
@juileeshinde89336 ай бұрын
Weddings are becoming more important than marriages.
@ajaytripathi7896 ай бұрын
Because , whole marriage process is bounded by rituals, the whole process, one by one its already scheduled and planned, where as wedding is a western concept, is totally ritual free, you have enough time to do what ever you can , moreover no one is busy....
@juileeshinde89336 ай бұрын
@@ajaytripathi789 I would like to take a diffferent approach. Not all western weddings are ritual free. My point was people are giving more preferences to the glitz and glamour of the wedding and celebration only, but the bond, love and relationship between two people in marriages are quite neglected. No matter if bride and groom are mental and emotionally connected, but the show off and undue spending become priority just for the social validations.
@Mahadev_ki_Bhakt236 ай бұрын
@@ajaytripathi789 rituals are important if one is really interested to marry but honestly I don’t think marriage is important in life
@a.bhaskara38336 ай бұрын
Lack of understanding of good taste makes people copy what the uppermost class is doing. This is true of dining, language, fashion, decor, entertainment, celebrations, etc.
@rajeshgowda47486 ай бұрын
It’s really great sir amazing
@Rohit-19986 ай бұрын
Sir very good video
@priyeshdesai92186 ай бұрын
Nice 👍 work sir.... Jay Shri Ram, 🙏
@kittycatty3355 ай бұрын
surprised to see this video on this channel. 👍
@debashreeshaw95864 ай бұрын
Bhot hi sahi bat bola .....hat's off
@SpongeBob-xh8ir6 ай бұрын
Marriage the biggest waste of money for show-off.
@ajaytripathi7896 ай бұрын
May be for you ....everyone has their own perspective...
@Mahadev_ki_Bhakt236 ай бұрын
@@ajaytripathi789shame on you
@juileeshinde89336 ай бұрын
@@SpongeBob-xh8ir Not marriage..but wedding
@Mahadev_ki_Bhakt236 ай бұрын
@@juileeshinde8933marriage is a scam
@SpongeBob-xh8ir6 ай бұрын
@@juileeshinde8933 what's the difference
@rajamukherjee60186 ай бұрын
We are all in the web of aahar (to consume),nidra ( sleep mode or unconscious stage),maithun (sex),bhoy (fear)with a limited cerebral capacity
@nabanita263 ай бұрын
Agreed.
@LOGINOFsrinath6 ай бұрын
🙏🏼👍Jai Hind Jai Bharath
@aek126 ай бұрын
Also people dont do jobs as a service to community, but to get married and show status.
@adityahandu10086 ай бұрын
Govt should now make a cap on expenditure for marriage
@royenlawyer60456 ай бұрын
Any external limit imposed is counter productive. Reform can be brought only by awareness - not by law.
@letsmakechangetogether6 ай бұрын
I always thought about this
@ranendradwivedi89136 ай бұрын
सर जी सादर प्रणाम, मैने बेटे विवाह संस्कार बहुत सादगी एवं द्वारचार गोधुलिबेला में किया तथा दहेजविहीन किया
@prachethire8126 ай бұрын
Once I saw a picture of sexy lady on a packaging of electrical switch. I asked my friend (who is a graphic designer) that "what ! is this? , what is the connection between sexy lady and electrical switch, why they have done this". He said " that's because sex sells" . Later , as days went , I stumbled upon one of sadhguru's video, In which he said "Sex must be in the body, not in the mind". That made me realize that my friend was wrong, It works because sex is in our mind and not in body. I want you to discuss the role of sex in film industry, why it's putting sex in minds of youth?.
@samwienska17036 ай бұрын
Your friend was right. Only you misinterpreted it. The whole (easiest way of doing) Business in the world is all around the 1) S€x, 2) Drugs or alcohol or Cigarettes or junk foods, and 3) Violence or war or hate speech,
@rublegill53926 ай бұрын
👍✌
@TtTt-bv6oq6 ай бұрын
bridezilla.
@Abdulkhan-n1p1t6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@ranjanak9276 ай бұрын
So true...agreed with you.Because of all these reason I didn't marry.
@santoshsapkal58166 ай бұрын
👍👌🙏💖
@ss-ib8gm6 ай бұрын
Media and movies also does it …..tanu s wedding , kangana raut movie was good
@mangotango41345 ай бұрын
❤
@swatidas34676 ай бұрын
In Bengal we never encourage this kind of marriages. It reflects proper education and how to do social justice.
@RupaM-b9jАй бұрын
10:58 So true why baraatis drink & come? So beautiful podcast. Never knew a bwood movie producer be so deep thinker🥹
@champipania96694 ай бұрын
Hum sab nase mei hain... Jab tak nasaa utregaa tab tak hum aa re paas samaya hi nehi hogaa...
@vetriveeranperumal76216 ай бұрын
True explained Youth are being expolitation these corporate house marriage marketing Best example ambani family marriage.
@kumawatvirendra6 ай бұрын
I did my marriage in just 4500 rupee. Four thousands 5 hundreds 😁
@Anon123756 ай бұрын
In which year did you marry?
@kumawatvirendra6 ай бұрын
@@Anon12375 2017
@kumawatvirendra6 ай бұрын
2017
@कृति-प2फ6 ай бұрын
@@kumawatvirendrahow
@kumawatvirendra6 ай бұрын
@@कृति-प2फ 2100 pujan samagri, 2100 pundit fee, 200 car rent, 20 marriage registration, rest misc
@hemalnaik79095 ай бұрын
सभी का कारण एक ही है गलत शिक्षा। सही शिक्षा ही एकमात्र उपाय है देश को प्रगति के पथ पर अग्रसर होने का और सही शिक्षा क्या हो सकती है यह देशका एक प्रतिशत नागरिक भी नहीं जान पा रहा। ये जो माफिया, नेता, गुंडे में सब कहां से आ रहे हैं तो पहले घरेलू गलत शिक्षा और बाद में स्कूल में।
@nabanita263 ай бұрын
In India, Gruhastha Ashram is highlighted exponentially more than Brahmacharya (education and career-building period), Vanaprastha (noving towards bigger roles in society), and Sanyasa (renunciation of worldly life for spiritual growth). India mein sab ko ghar-ghar khelna hota hain. Everything else like scientific achievement, Olympic medals, education, law and order maintenance, controlling corruption, etc. are too difficult! Isse achcha hain bas sex karo aur population badhao.
@me-teched33476 ай бұрын
Iss kalyug me kisi ko samjhana bahut bahut muskil hai.
@mukulsaha47613 ай бұрын
Hindu marriage is like Hindu festival. Iconomic rolled, I think sir. Namaste 🙏
@reveen19796 ай бұрын
Vivek bhai..this is my opinion. Hindu weddings started getting crazy from the 90's. Bollywood started with this. Showing grand weddings with flowers and what not. Gifting alcohol comes from Punjab and Haryana. People are copying the bollywood weddings and creating financial problems for themselves. Extremely sad.
@Pasdpawn5 ай бұрын
16:06 cant be possible. Thats like 1.5 million USD. Did you mean to say 10-15 lac
@sangitaganjawalla23876 ай бұрын
Jaru apko sunne v samzne ki echa haircut achalga jese hamare vicharo se milti bat ho rhi hai
@ErNikhilKu6 ай бұрын
खाने में; पुड़ी, Mix सब्जी, दाल, मटर पनीर, पुलाव, रायता, मीठा, पापड़, सलाद. इतना काफ़ी है Item
@niranjanshendurnikar75016 ай бұрын
Ek dum Sahi !
@swatisharmauthor3 ай бұрын
The Secret Sauce Is YOU!!
@obiwankenobi17846 ай бұрын
average middle class family will probably not even have 1 cr savings. You're talking about rich families. Everyone pretends to be middle class these days
@Lolhahahaqwrry6 ай бұрын
Upper middle class easily has 5-10 crores of real estate atleasr in Mumbai.
@trinrity63566 ай бұрын
Vivek jee, admire your work and standing up for your values🙏 I’m all for simplicity and conduct my life without pomp and show. But discussing in relation to Ambanis is not fair. If at all we should be appreciative of them spreading India’s soft power its culture. Even people in my neighborhood (California) are talking about it. Noticing the grandeur of customs we have. They can afford it so why not who else will? However pretending to afford and demanding is not right.
@rooposhreeganguly42906 ай бұрын
I am in complete agreement with you on the waste on ostentatious weddings where money needs to be borrowed or in conditions leading to bankruptcy . Otherwise , in most marriages in India the rituals are followed pretty strictly . Different regions in Bharat have different wedding rituals , and a few of these rituals , namely Mehendi and Sangeet have become universal . Waste of food is much of a shame , which can easily corrected .
@aprilblossoms46 ай бұрын
Mehendi and Sangeet are universal? I don’t think so. Please don’t assume Northern Indian versions as being the norm everywhere.
@drodro76726 ай бұрын
@@aprilblossoms4He said they have become, and it's true ! A few years or a decade ago, it was a matter of debate among people in Tamil Nadu (conservative people were reluctant to these). Now, in most grand (they are all trends following events now) Hindu Tamil weddings, these celebrations are well included.
@PiadasEyer6 ай бұрын
FIR THO LOG YAHI BOLENGE... KE THUM KARA K DHIKAAO SADHARAN SI SHAADI....??? THUM KITHNA KADAR KARTHE HO... THUMARE HEYSIAT KI... HUM BHI DHEKEEY...... !!! SHURUAD KISI KO KARNA NAHI AATA..
@arunmisra59636 ай бұрын
Dear VRA although you are so correct please concentrate on Bharat Sanatan culture this is my humble opinion
@rktubemusic4 ай бұрын
Don't blame the one who exploits you. Blame yourself if you are being exploited. I married very sucessful woman and spent almost zero amount.
@priyabratasinha14786 ай бұрын
If you are rich and use a wedding as a soft power for the country. I don’t mind you spending millions or billions of dollars. Actually you should spend such money. Please don’t whine about poor people and hungry people. You will infact bring more money and jobs to make their life better.
@royenlawyer60456 ай бұрын
May god grant you the wisdom to understand what is said as it is said.
@Pasdpawn5 ай бұрын
Capitalism for me but not for thee
@plum26006 ай бұрын
This man has jumped side😅
@ranjanak9276 ай бұрын
I wonder why you have such less subscribers compared to Rubbish kumar , Germany cockroach etc etc.You speak truth so does another Rizwan Ahmed on his vlog Face to face
@vprakash24336 ай бұрын
Weddings are becoming fatter and marriages fragile.
@Healthy-social6 ай бұрын
Sir i admire your other videos....but seems you didn't get invite from Ambani....and hence your tone in video is more whining than facts. There are plenty of your points are wrongly presented. The ony point in your whole video is true that person should remain in own limit and do wedding accordingly. Other than that all points you presented can be argued. In nutshell you tried pitch anti woke culture, but you whole video will sounds promotion of wokeism. Please do not make video just whining...try to bring facts for which you are known
@Radientsleeper6 ай бұрын
वाह श्रीमान Canada, धन्य हो ! कितनी सीधी समझ है आप की, आप ने तो बिलकुल गऊ सी बुद्धि पाई है। Did you ever bother to learn what wokeism stands for ? वाह साहब आपकी अंग्रेज़ी देखकर तो अंग्रेज आत्महत्या कर लेंगे, और शशि थरूर आजन्म हिन्दी बोलने की क़सम खा लेंगे। धन्य हो गुरुदेव!
@jayatemihir53906 ай бұрын
@@Radientsleepertum hi bata do fir
@Gary-wp1wt6 ай бұрын
STOP YOUR NONSENSICAL THINKING
@Radientsleeper6 ай бұрын
@@jayatemihir5390 Google se kaama lein bhai
@addmad996 ай бұрын
@canada-social2629: exactly my thoughts. Faltu ka randi rouna.
@aek126 ай бұрын
Indian priorities are wrong.
@Mahadev_ki_Bhakt236 ай бұрын
Sir itna bhi sach nahi bolna tha . Ap ke ek ek baat se agree karti hu