Identifying Outdated Beliefs

[@xFrenzi]

Great teaching thank you for sharing, I really had so many difficulties In life I was homeless. But my family are happy once again and I can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement after so much struggles.

[@xFrenzi]

I had a lot of financial crisis then, I can recall when I was homeless and faced with many things in life until $54,000 biweekly began rolling in and my Life went from A homeless nobody to a different person with good things to offer.

[@xFrenzi]

@@babytruca02Maria Angelina Alexander I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.

[@xFrenzi]

Giving her my initial savings of $8,500 to invest in a brokerage account was a turning point in my life. It's been an incredibly rewarding experience.

[@xFrenzi]

God has used her to save so many families. I remember when I met her at the bank, she was indeed a good woman.

[@xFrenzi]

After I raised up to 360k trading with her l own a House, a car and a big farm house here in the state. Myself and my family we are extremely happy…❤

[@debbaczewski1520]

This share mirrored exactly the belief I identified with. Growing up with 14 siblings, 7 older 7 younger I just recalled the exact moment when I gave belief to the message, "there's no room for me" and Rupert in connection to this open and trusting woman somehow erased this belief from my mind. Gracious Gratitude.

[@LianaMarvel]

Rupert is so funny and intelligent and knows when the right time is to tell a joke. What a gift to the world he is in this difficult time in human history.

[@nsbd90now]

It is so wild... Mr. Rupert just seems to have hit upon such a clear and contemporary way of talking about these topics and aspects of the human experience of reality. Very freeing, validating and motivating as we grow and mature...

[@ZenDJRen]

Rupert's piercing perception and patience is amazing! 🙏🏼

[@BlondeManNoName]

Most people are this way, we carry around our old programmings that no longer serve us, but they feel familiar to us as they are all we have ever known.

[@jimmyjamz197]

I absolutely agree with this. I've been on the spiritual path for the past 5 /6 years. I've come across so many teachings and then about a year ago Rupert's. On one level I understand all these things but find it difficult to break free of the programming. Or maybe alchemizing. I'm not where I was, but not where I'd like to be. I've been by myself now for almost 4 years and I don't say I'm lonely just alone. But I have so much love to express and I do feel I want to be with someone so maybe I am lonely. Everybody always says the love is right here but why do I want so bad to share it with someone?? I'm so much better at giving love than feeling the love that's right here

[@herminagrbac3443]

My story is the same one...

[@alisonsalter8352]

@@jimmyjamz197see my post above…😊 it’s normal and you’re right. It’s sacred loneliness. Not lack.

[@alisonsalter8352]

@@herminagrbac3443see my post above. It’s normal and it’s ok, you’re not wrong. It’s sacred loneliness. Not lack. Don’t go looking for lack again. It’s NORMAL to want to share it.

[@llsspp]

Love Rupert! Been a fan since 5k followers; not that it matters in the slightest! The flowers must grow 🌺

[@Shane7492]

We are not our past. We are not emotions. We are not our beliefs. We are a perfect, eternal, infinite being of awareness, here and now! We are Love and Oneness! Be that now.

[@riabombia909]

Gosh … L❤️VED this message … a key aspect to my all my connections … 😢💙🙏

[@debbaczewski1520]

This communication obviously opened a space in me because more is unraveling. I just remembered the last two books I was hesitant to share, ooh too vulnerable. . . getting the love you want and from aloneness to oneness 😂. Somehow now looking within to the beliefs that block love does seem much quicker.

[@VeronicaBrent]

I Love Rupert… he’s the father and mother I never had ❤️ Thank you for being ❤️

[@justagirl5593]

❤

[@ANJUSHARMA-xd1is]

Thank you I know myself better now

[@kkrenken895]

It’s perfectly human to want to walk through life with another person.

[@nsbd90now]

Yeah, we are, after all, social creatures. Though I suspect many of us drawn to Rupert Spira and so on have always been inclined towards monastic/hermetic types of solitude, or were forced to by family dynamics.

[@alisonsalter8352]

@@kkrenken895 see my post above - I completely agree with you and the questioner also. There’s so often nothing more to fix or become aware of in the WOMAN.

[@luismoref]

"don't believe what your mind tells you about yourself" That it's something all the spiritual teachers say, and we need to hear it a lot till we believe it.

[@MegaTen-ts5xf]

that's called brainwashing

[@luismoref]

@@MegaTen-ts5xf 😂

[@mulen-x8u]

Thank you! We are living in psychanalytical paradigm and beleiving that if we can articulate our feeling, unconscious condintions the articulation can liberate us from our inner anxiety. The art of articulation is a temporary calm, but not liberation. We have to say the art of articulation of our feelings is a part of our struggling against our inner unsatisfactionity, negative habits, inferno.

[@marieweiss1634]

Yes, psychoanalytic work should be experiential and ideally happens in a profound therapeutic relationship, potentially clearing the ground for direct experience of being. That's a lot more than being able to articulate something! I found this out to my delight years after my deep therapeutic work and now I can see this in my work with others as a psychologist. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@stevej.7926]

Well said

[@krisfisher5404]

"I can't walk away froom that" "Sometimes this leaves very little room for me." Maybe the experiences she is having with others sharing their vulnerability and her not feeling any room left for her is showing her that she needs to set some boundaries with how much of herself she gives to others. How much love is she giving to herself? Sometimes the vulnerability is in just saying, no, not today and taking time to fill up her own cup so to speak. To add to that, I'm not sure if the work she is referreing to is an actual job, or the work she is doing. Maybe she just needs some time out.

[@alisonsalter8352]

May I suggest that this lady is expressing what MANY women express to Rupert…the Feeling of Sacred Loneliness. And this cry for assistance is always misunderstood. And women are put round the washing machine again to go look for their lack. It’s not Loneliness from lack. It’s not even a sense of Aloneness. It is, the fact that many women are Alone with the Alone and there’s no men of their generation who are there to the same degree EMBODYING it to match them! This is not wrong, or lacking in the woman’s part. She actually explicitly made reference to IF there is anyone there to listen and IF they are open enough. She also explicitly means a partner because she says she can be open with friends. *The problem is not that HER heart is guarded and closed, it’s that the MALE’S heart is guarded and closed due to his unresolved trauma or conditioning. !* For women in their 30s and 40s, there are generally not men on women’s wavelength with this understanding who are LIVING EMBODYING it, unless we look for men 20-25 years older than ourselves, in their 60s or 70s?! And even then it is touch and go whether they embody it or just merely intellectualise it. They may THINK they are embodying it, but I have found there is still a sense of hierarchy there operating behind the scenes. And the women have to do all the leg work. All the growth is thrown back to the women to do. No. For women in our 30s and 40s there tends to be no men for us, because men are generally speaking, slower at returning from their conditioning as males, or rather that there is MUCH greater conditioning of males in our society still today (the limitation of the male mind begins as babies and toddlers in every aspect of life and so is felt as ‘the norm’ before even the memory develops - I have a young son and have battled hard against this) and so it takes longer for them first to even RECOGNISE and then later, to peel back the layers. No judgement of males intended; just an observation at the relative level. There are SO many women crying this same cry. Rupert does not hear this cry from Sacred Loneliness. Why? I would guess because as a male, he simply has not experienced it? Not his fault UNTIL he becomes aware of it…There are ample females around with this understanding so males would never get this sentiment! Many aspects of suffering in this life as a woman puts women right there beyond the sense of separate self. A perverse but Divine gift… Suffering as a woman = easier access to Freedom. Every woman certainly who has given birth has absolutely gone beyond the sense of separation EMBODIED IT AND I can assure you, remembers it!! That is not the only exclusive way of course, but it’s a common way to many women. There are aspects of our cultural female and male conditioning which EVEN AS spiritual teachers STILL colour our Understanding. Women questioners today need a female guru to balance out this conditioning and simply go beyond the areas which men do not experience, but most of what is on offer out there in the spiritual teaching world is the still male conditioned mind. *Women crave ‘male equals’ to live their life with, embodying and living this Understanding. I mean those who can actually walk their talk beyond the intellectualism. Those who can meet us in the middle. And I mean bang down the middle. Not a wee shuffle to the left or right…I mean absolutely down the Middle Way. In compromise. In Oneness. And this takes COURAGE.* I do however, agree with what Rupert says about letting go of outdated limiting beliefs and chanting limiting mantras. But he usually misses this growing number of women crying out saying ‘no hang on, there’s nothing wrong with me, the woman here. It is normal to want human connection in this life. It is not the woman’s fault that she is Alone. But rather men, who need to step up and walk their talk’. This is the message coming thick and fast from women in our era. I repeat again: not women’s problem fundamentally. And not women who have to do the work. God is turning up the volume… Many men have intellectually become aware of the nature of true self. But are still far away from embodying it. Rupert, if you’re looking for a new project to transform the world, how about a Non Duality Dating App? In all absolute seriousness, us women NEED a place where we can find men who LIVE this understanding on our embodied level. Women are ahead. Sent with all well meaning and Love to both women and men, and anyone ‘in between’!! Amen. ❤🙏🏽❤️

[@belight44]

Very eloquently said! YES…thank you so much🤗❤😊

[@AlisonSalter-o9m]

@@belight44 Thank you...been sitting on that one for far too long listening to women being put round the spiritual washing machine and being told to 'look again and go and do more work' again by a male spiritual teacher. No offence to Rupert directly - "None of us can know what we don't know", even spiritual teachers, and nobody will ever learn if no one shines a light on it! Women swallow this guidance, because most of us are sadly also conditioned that 'men always know better'. Lifelong conditioning. That, in itself, is rarely true (in any area of life PURELY because of this very aspect of Embodiment being predominantly lacking in males - mostly men are only a 50% baked cookie with only the logic in place). I say all of this ABSOLUTELY to help ALL MEN TOO. I do not take sides. I merely raise Awareness of conditioned behaviour FOR ALL. Om shanti . . .

[@jazzfan1830]

Non duality dating app sounds a million percent cursed

[@alisonsalter8352]

@@jazzfan1830do explain…why exactly would it be cursed do you think…?

[@jazzfan1830]

@@alisonsalter8352 I can’t exactly explain why just a feeling. Seems like it would just be a bunch of people claiming “non dual wisdom” or people who think they are better than others. But some people may be into that so maybe it’s a good idea.

[@peacenlove6502]

ahhahhaha.... not all my answers are going back to being......that was so funny ....!!!

[@AKA_SIMPLYHUMAN]

Centeredness is your natural state. It’s how the brain is “ supposed” to function. Too much left, and you get too much detail, analysis, separation. Too much right, and you get too much oneness, love, peace, bliss. Either way, too much left or too much right and you miss the complete picture which is true wholeness. True non judgement. Correct vision and action. It’s really that simple. Look at humans socially overall. Completely divided left from right. Centered vision and thought as rare as Jesus. You cannot deny this reality for we live it in every moment. It’s why you are here watching this channel. “Center Yourself” the voiceless voice once told me. It then all made sense.

[@clan1993]

She is clearly feeling lonelyness, if she has needs to share her thoughts. she should go deeper in that feeling of need and where it stems from.

[@nsbd90now]

Yeah, as someone very similar I'd guess that what most people call "feeling lonely" is kind of normal for her because of family dynamics back to her childhood. She clearly is describing loneliness, but not identifying it as such.

[@robertallen6710]

@@nsbd90now It's just another version of feeling seperated from others or the ego's craving of 'other'...imho

[@milenapjeranovic]

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[@movahedmosavi1596]

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[@Ribsi62]

🌻🌵🌞🍀

[@macbally2026]

THANK YOU RUPERT!!! F YEAH

[@riabombia909]

😂

[@carlavela7106]

🦋🕊🙏

[@mick6812]

Beliefs are not factual and the self is created by thought.

[@devanshudesperado]

I believe in the same thought that I may not be able to find a perfect match for myself to share my vulnerability with. For people like her and myself it is true, until we make an effort to change our old beliefs. It's like the law of attraction.

[@alisonsalter8352]

Yes I agree it is a fine line between recognising it and creating more of it. But until Awareness in humanity ‘happens’, nothing can move. So first, the point needs to be made. And acknowledged.

[@ultrablue7477]

You’d be watching videos for the rest of your life, feeling that you’re getting something, when in fact you’re getting nothing. Pseudo spiritual candy, that’s what you get.

[@mrmurphy895]

This woman needs to practice active listening. Why pay to go there if you’re going to interrupt the teaching.

[@AlisonSalter-o9m]

Because the teacher in this instance ISN'T listening, ands she, this woman, is trying to tell the man that... Actually let me expand on that: he IS listening to the best his male conditioning is allowing him - just like any of us. See my post above...

[@ultrablue7477]

This guy is not the real thing. He mixes non duality with pop psychology. You can spend your whole life chasing these approaches.

[@fernandofigueirinhas7110]

who is the real thing?

[@ultrablue7477]

Who’s the real thing? That’s another topic. For starters, someone who is consistent. This guy is not. If you endorse non duality and then start talking about changing beliefs, changing postures, adapting to circumstances… that reflects a duality view. It’s like the student saying “in my dream I had a headache…” and the master responding “here, take an aspirin”

[@fernandofigueirinhas7110]

@@ultrablue7477 how do you know so much about non-duality? You must be non-dualistic. But in your non-dualism, you seem incredibly frustrated with the way things are. Maybe I will stick to dualism for now :)

[@ultrablue7477]

How do I know so much about non- duality? I read about it on a box of Kellogg’s cereal. Great stuff. Do I seem frustrated to you? That’s your perception, ergo it’s your frustration. Are you going to stick to duality now? As a result of my comment? Congratulations! You’re doing an excellent job!!!

[@fernandofigueirinhas7110]

@@ultrablue7477 hahahahaaha ur so mad. also the kellogg's bit was brilliant. nah ur frustrated just admit it.

[@nsbd90now]

Oh! I seem to share what she is experiencing... and it may come from some childhood emotional neglect because a parent was ill, or absent.

[@oselkhandro4416]

Rupert, please listen to her and stop interrupting her and telling her. It lacks skillfulness especially when she was on the verge of breaking through. If you would have met her and just remained in presence she would have come through. Instead your mind reinforced her defense.

[@AlisonSalter-o9m]

...and projected his own male positionally onto her. THere's nothing wrong with this lady! She just lacks a male counterpart on the same wavelength LIVING this Understanding...not just talking it.

[@Spiritjunkie-k5i]

I disagree. I think she has a way to go, she’s new to this journey imo. I’m about her age. I’m a widow and live alone and I’d love a companion too. But the way she expresses herself indicates to Rupert, I believe, that there is no point in wasting time listening to her when she clearly has so much to learn from the teacher. So do I….I have so much to learn.

[@pilargarcia6724]

🙏🤍💛🧡❤️🩷💜💙🩵💚🤎🩶

[@chiptowers1]

He who opens up first will be taken advantage of. I cant see a problem with the subject not opening up because she has just opened up there at the congregation. Basically the lady is dumping all her emotions on someone. Basically the lady is just using vulnerable people who come to her, by using her work, she is dumping her load. How? by seeing if someones problems are worse than hers. Not a very good person, quite selfish. Who is really using who.

[@AlisonSalter-o9m]

SHE doesn't have a problem opening up. The men she meets, do. And that's why she feels lonely. *People can have a difficulty in life without it being their 'fault'! There are societal immaturity norms and problems! Many times, Rupert has a go at nailing 'her problem'. He doesn't nail the first one about opening up, because she corrects him on every attempt. "No I'm not this what you're trying to say I am", "No I'm not that either...". VULNERABILITY and HONESTY is what is being shown *to the teacher* here...

[@chiptowers1]

@@AlisonSalter-o9m But she claims that she has a problem opening up with her feelings. And I say she doesn't have a problem opening up at all because she is there at the congregation discussing it all and opening up. Of course nothing is anyone's fault because someone doesn't know any better until they do and when they do, they should not be the ones saying there is societal immaturity. All she is doing there is trying to create a reaction and power play. In fact she and the so called teacher are in a power play. If she thinks the men she meets have a problem opening up, well that means she wants something from them that they are not prepared to give. The norm situation is we all have a few problems that we can live with but she has the abnormal many problems that requires knowing what peoples problems are as a solution for at least one of her many problems. Basically, she cant find a solution for herself without knowing what your problem is. In my view.

[@AKA_SIMPLYHUMAN]

Don’t believe anything. Know you are not in control and live life as it comes. For better or worse. It’s all inclusive. Only God knows why…KR

[@Axito2]

How you're doing so far with this belief ? 😊

[@AKA_SIMPLYHUMAN]

@@Axito2 How do you relate belief to living life day to day, moment to moment reacting with a centered quiet mind? Life goes on just like from the time I became conscious of it all. There was a long period of beliefs, yes of course. But maturity had replaced all of that with open, raw reality. I don’t believe in a God. I go along with the power, wisdom, and all pervasive presence that appears to make it all possible. Belief is not necessary. It’s obsolete. Reality does not need our help to find it. If you are breathing, reality is what you are experiencing.

[@AKA_SIMPLYHUMAN]

@@Axito2 God is simply how I acknowledge it.

[@jennifercleland4852]

Wow for people claiming to be infinite but cannot control anything. I suggest Lester Levenson and Neville Goddard who were god realized beings able to control the dream

[@AKA_SIMPLYHUMAN]

@@jennifercleland4852 New Age nonsense.