If a woman cancels the first date for any reason without an alternative date, DO NOT GIVE HER A CHANCE FOR A REDO. Period.
@numskulltheory71339 ай бұрын
This. If she actually cancels instead of ghosting, if she does not offer to amend the cancelation, like adults do, she done.
@traviswilliams13989 ай бұрын
If a woman cancels the first date for any reason at all, you delete her number and block her on everything.
@traviswilliams13989 ай бұрын
@@numskulltheory7133you just pretend she don't exist or you never met her.
@twinkitwinki8 ай бұрын
She said it best if she cancels without reason she chose someone else and will call you when her first choice can't buy dinner
@shirothefish96888 ай бұрын
@@traviswilliams1398 I'm gonna take this argument to the extreme If a girl calls me to say her mother got in a car accident and is currently in ICU, and she *doesn't* call off the date for that evening, then it's over.
@JuliaCusimano-b3i10 ай бұрын
Dear women, despite what you've been told, men are not stupid.
@Dani-it5sy4 ай бұрын
The problem is they do believe it and they will keep believing it and handle thereafter which makes them incapable of resolving the situation their are in. Reality will finally catch up with them.
@PriestessOfSlaanesh3 ай бұрын
Dear Women. Despite what you've been told. In fact. According to any empyrical research. Men are more intellectual than you. Having more IQ 100 is NOT a flex, that is NOT "intelligent". Having more IQ 130's+ is a flex. And men dominate there
@bengaljam4550Ай бұрын
A lot of men are stupid. An attractive women has no trouble finding men.
@yusufraage8554Ай бұрын
Most men are not stupid but they have no self esteem and will let women getaway with alot.
@LilXancheXАй бұрын
@Dani-it5sy why do women hate us so much lmao
@timopper54884 ай бұрын
“Thanks for letting me know” is a clever and brilliantly subtle shorthand way of saying the full thought, which is “Thanks for letting me know that you’re not interested.”
@johnholt42332 ай бұрын
This is exactly right. Unless she offers a real alternative, there will be no more chances. Saying anything more than "Thanks for letting me know" is a waste of time. Just move on
@jeremylacy9611 ай бұрын
It’s easier just to walk away. You won’t get the truth out of her anyway
@notoriousj_11 ай бұрын
She has a roster anyway
@counsela924011 ай бұрын
True.
@mikemullings310911 ай бұрын
💯
@JSmoothSoul11 ай бұрын
Cause the truth was she was banging Tyrone. Ok cool thanks for letting me know 😂
@bgrego8811 ай бұрын
Women NEVER tell the truth
@Kaprlaalis10 ай бұрын
Never date anyone who's not excited to date you.
@brainrich13588 ай бұрын
Or at least putting some effort as well. Cancels but reschedules for another time
@crazyoilfieldmechanic31957 ай бұрын
Don't even date them if you have to chase them hard until they give in.
@kodymartin38986 ай бұрын
Lol 😂 the point of communicating is to figure that out lol 🤣 women can't these days
@MetalSStar1966 ай бұрын
@@kodymartin3898 Can't be bothered to communicate and expect us to read their minds. "Okay, I've got the skull saw, let's see what your brain has to tell me!"
@ronque234 ай бұрын
This!!!! Save yourself a lot of time money and headaches with this simple gem.
@blackspider97804 ай бұрын
This is where the phrase “first impressions are VERY IMPORTANT” comes into play
@Patrick-Inc7 ай бұрын
If a girl cancels a date without a good reason, she's dismissed
@wej0w2 ай бұрын
Yess and wont get any of my time, not even a text back.
@DeadCat-42Ай бұрын
Send her a Text back saying it's ok, you had other plans anyway, but call her by a different girls name.
@Patrick-IncАй бұрын
@@DeadCat-42 😆😆
@maxlutz3674Ай бұрын
@@DeadCat-42 No need to do that. A simple thanks for the heads up and farewell is plenty. Don´t be a sore winner.
@San-lh8us22 күн бұрын
@@maxlutz3674 leave to each one their own way of dealing with this, for me i would read her text flaking and would not even bother giving her any text back
@Raymal10011 ай бұрын
Send her a text? She ain't hearing from me again.
@10_points11 ай бұрын
Same
@masterofpuppers796311 ай бұрын
Yeah, I just don't reply.
@counsela924011 ай бұрын
Exactly
@IaconDawnshire11 ай бұрын
304 gets blocked
@GritsNGravy5211 ай бұрын
Text? 🤣🤣🤣. I go radio silent.
@Bashbrother25 ай бұрын
Its even worst when they dont even show up after confirming the date and completely ghost you.
@MrBrachiatingApe2 ай бұрын
I got ghosted once with the last communication literally as I was pulling into the restaurant, and she said she was 5 minutes away. I knew the girl and she asked me out. I got pissed so I bottomed out her older sister and her bff. I had moments of scumfuckery as a younger man... Some of it was pretty goddamn satisfying though.
@gerogep366611 ай бұрын
I ask once, and only once. If I don't get the response I am looking for, I move on.
@ArcturusCOG11 ай бұрын
Yep
@blazikarbon11 ай бұрын
@@em7937 Some young girld do though. In high school, when i was 16, i flirted with a girl. That went well between us, except, when i proposed her a date, she would accept, and then give me some excuse to refuse 2 days before. She did that multiple times. Eventually, i gave up. But later i heard from a close friend of her that she loved me.
@vipsupermode282411 ай бұрын
@@em7937you must have high body count to think like that. The way you explain reminds me of a girl I knew with to much body count.
@RobertTaylor-gz2fu11 ай бұрын
She may want to rebook the date after spending some time on the Chad carousel.
@liIdecky11 ай бұрын
@em7937 the problem is there are too many game playing h*es like the one in the video, so too many men are accustomed to it...
@ThaAlecman11 ай бұрын
We got standards, we ain’t entertaining flaky women any more
@eydk55611 ай бұрын
We have to make every man stop doing that, even by law.
@iggypopisgod911 ай бұрын
We got standards, we ain’t entertaining flaky women any more.... unless she is super hot
@nextgengaming780317 күн бұрын
Correct. Don't chase. She's got 30 other men grafting her in her inbox. She likes you, but she likes others more.
@StanHasselback11 ай бұрын
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time” Maya Angelou
@undecidedmiddleground563310 ай бұрын
Maya came to my college in the extreme-late 90s. She was a wonderful woman in every way.
@traviswilliams13989 ай бұрын
Fool me one time shame on you. Fool me two times shame on me..
@zinta15 ай бұрын
This goes for race, religion, everyone.
@danedefense204610 ай бұрын
A woman, if she’s interested, will always make time.
@sailyui5 ай бұрын
That pretty much goes for anyone in life. No one's that busy to not be able to at least make some time to respond
@johnnylego8075 ай бұрын
This.
@kaijorgensen69403 ай бұрын
This is pretty damn accurate. If you cancel on me, especially day of/last minute, I’ll wish you well & make new plans
@jorqlip7 ай бұрын
I’ve learned that no matter how busy a woman’s life is if she’s interested she will find the time or something very close!
@spartanghost97133 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@humantacos98002 ай бұрын
If she liked you and she had to cancel, she’d make a new arrangement with you.
@EndTimeHeresy2 ай бұрын
True. A woman once cancelled a date and I thought "ok, well I heard that before". One day later she came up with a new one. All was fine
@sougotokiwa8439Ай бұрын
304 out of 💯
@JasonWeakley11 ай бұрын
If a girl ever took the initiative to plan the next date after canceling on the first one, I would know she had a damn good reason for canceling the first time.
@sykotika13thirteen11 ай бұрын
If there is a reason and they are interested they always tell you very apologetically, and usually suggest a make up date
@counsela924011 ай бұрын
They better pay for the date too.
@RobertTaylor-gz2fu11 ай бұрын
A woman plan or ask for a date?!
@gregwatruba454111 ай бұрын
@RobertTaylor-gz2fu that's a funny joke.
@RobertTaylor-gz2fu11 ай бұрын
@@counsela9240 That's also highly unlikely.
@Ordermiracle2 ай бұрын
Silence…silence is worth a thousand words. If she cancels, leave her on read.
@a7hazenКүн бұрын
This. Anything else communicates she can string you along, which makes you convenience, not priority.
@thetruthalwaysscary10 ай бұрын
If she cancel, she is cancelled.
@backupmusicaccount84888 ай бұрын
Sometimes women will cancel a first date just to see how pushy the man will be for sex. Now most men (and now red pilled women like emily here) will get mad and make some gaslighting defense of men on this part but I have to point out the glaring factor that women wouldn’t feel a need to “test” men in this way if most men weren’t inherently pushy for sex in the first place. Consider that before you just go dropping women left and right.
@thetruthalwaysscary8 ай бұрын
@@backupmusicaccount8488 I dont chase. I know where I am and games are for little kids / girls
@NeroPecore8 ай бұрын
NO, MEN DONT PLAY THIS GAMES ANYMORE, NO TESTING WHATSOEVER, If you wanna test a potential partner go in the lab and grow one. If a woman starts to test me in any way and i notice it, its over.@@backupmusicaccount8488
@thetruthalwaysscary8 ай бұрын
@@danielhalpert3887 makes absolute no sense what you wrote
@milicenty8 ай бұрын
@@backupmusicaccount8488 literally shut up
@Flashahol11 ай бұрын
I have never given a woman a second chance to cancel our first date.
@JackDesert11 ай бұрын
I have. But she had a really solid reason and a few minutes later said "Okay so I told you my dad's in the hospital... do you live near XX Hospital?" I responded I live very close there. "Good please just meet me here, I want Dad to meet you incase things go south" Long term didn't work out, but stayed close after breaking up that she wanted me to be at his funeral a few years later.
@CodeMonkey6611 ай бұрын
Well said.
@CodeMonkey6611 ай бұрын
@@JackDesert But this is a good reason. That's different.
@oscaraurelio886911 ай бұрын
Between what is said in the video and the real action that should be done, there are 2 unnecessary steps; going away, straight away, should be the right thing right off the bat
@HH-hd7nd10 ай бұрын
@@JackDesert That's a solid reason. That's different. That's not what this video was about, it's about cancelling to play games.
@Lguapoman23 күн бұрын
Never give a woman a second chance to stand you up!
@mspicer326211 ай бұрын
If they cancel WITHOUT rescheduling, they won't hear from me again. That's just how things are. If I cancel a doctor's appointment, I'm immediately making another doctor's appointment for another time, because I WANT to see the doctor. The same applies to dating, if they WANT to see you, they'll make it clear.
@stanboyd111 ай бұрын
for me that really depends on why they are cancelling, if they are cancelling because their grandmother just died, well i am not going to expect them to reschedule a date because who know how long they are gonna be grieving and i don't want to force her to meet me on a date where she is gonna be just miserable.
@jasonbodden881611 ай бұрын
@@stanboyd1 Then she should just say her grandmother died and won't be able to make it. The man will obviously understand. Not giving a reason isn't acceptable even in a case like this.
@stanboyd111 ай бұрын
@@jasonbodden8816 well not giving a reason and not rescheduling are two different things. I never said anything about not giving a reason, I am just saying I don't necessarily expect them to reschedule right away. If my son heaven forbid ever got a serious illness like cancer or something, yeah I would cancel my date, and if she asked me til when, I would say I have no clue, because my son comes before anyone else, maybe we can revisit the possibility of a date down the road, or if she has moved on she has moved on.
@codemiesterbeats11 ай бұрын
Dead on. No texting at all if they flaked. Give them the gift of never speaking or seeing you again. If they reach out they do 100% of contact and effort.
@drts695510 ай бұрын
This seems far too touchy and really quite needy. If she hasn't met you, she doesn't even know you so it's not anything strictly personal yet. One of my best relationships was when the girl followed up on me for dates while I was blowing her off. I hadn't met her and didn't know I'd like her that much. I try to keep that in mind
@jeromewesselman465311 ай бұрын
".. if she cancels twice .." lol good one
@nuribayram67409 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same, like how does that happen, if one of my friends ever gets cancelled twice on, even I will slap him in his face to slap the simping out of him for giving her a second chance
@Jonathan-akaREAPER19 күн бұрын
Right!!! I was thinking about that!!! No second date. Lol. Ur so intelligent. Badass!!!!
@SusieQ311 ай бұрын
I had to cancel a first date once. I really liked the guy, so I suggested a different date 2 days earlier. It wasn't anything fancy, just milkshakes on the pier at a nearby lake, but it was actually the best first date I've ever been on. He thought so, too. We've been married for 5 years.
@Texas7502310 ай бұрын
A counter offer is a sign of interest. I've talked to my wife about that, and that what help us through a few scheduling conflicts.
@icyatlasartworks10 ай бұрын
You just gave me the perfect date idea you genius
@user-gk9lg5sp4y10 ай бұрын
You didn't cancel. You changed the day. Yuge difference.
@mavrosnyktagenes661110 ай бұрын
What in the reddit story
@Seanscichlids10 ай бұрын
That's not canceling that's rescheduling. Which means you are interested.
@josephleoned11 ай бұрын
You cancel on the first date... I don't respond to your last text. End of story.
@DavidBaillie198611 ай бұрын
And delete all the messages you've sent as well as her number. No going back.
@ryanalt921911 ай бұрын
Yep
@randymcphink392411 ай бұрын
Exceptions to the rule. I recently asked a lady I've known since 15 out. She excepted but later declined. Last weekend we went out, I wasn't pushy or anything. I just wanted a nice night out with a friend. Her daughter is more than happy because I'm more than her mother has ever had. My rush is to enjoy life while taking care of my children ( no matter their age). BTW, she and I will be going out again. As much as I work, we are still in good contact.
@senrab9911 ай бұрын
Ditto
@Colton-wz5sh11 ай бұрын
@@randymcphink3924accepted*
@Nexadon9 күн бұрын
You are always 100% spot on. Keep up the great work.
@aninditabhaumik684410 ай бұрын
This is true not only for dating but in general.....anyone who cancels plans last minute without a proper reason......just don't waste ur time on them.....
@backupmusicaccount84888 ай бұрын
Sometimes women will cancel a first date just to see how pushy the man will be for sex. Now most men (and now red pilled women like emily here) will get mad and make some gaslighting defense of men on this part but I have to point out the glaring factor that women wouldn’t feel a need to “test” men in this way if most men weren’t inherently pushy for sex in the first place. Consider that before you just go dropping women left and right.
@edenromanov8 ай бұрын
I've cancelled on plans with friends before last minute sometimes with good reasons others I just don't feel like hanging out that day, I usually feel bad but I always make plans to hang out again later.
@charlitouso8 ай бұрын
@@backupmusicaccount8488nah y’all women want traditional men but won’t be traditional woman lol. They cancel the “first” date to test a man about sex? Lmao that’s what they all say while having sex with another side man that same day. And enough of this red pill/ blue pill bullshit! Let’s call it for what it is. Right is right and wrong is a lesbian man that can get pregnant 🤣🤣🤣
@TKDBoy18898 ай бұрын
@@backupmusicaccount8488 You say men are the pushy ones for sex but then why are women are the ones bragging about body counts while also saying "don't worry about my body count!" If someone cancels a first date without a good reason and/or doesn't offer an alternative date, they really aren't worth it. They are already showing zero interest or simply doing one of those insane "fight for me" tests.
@backupmusicaccount84888 ай бұрын
@@TKDBoy1889 Oh that’s funny, because men say that women lie about their body count and to add to it even if it’s actually low. If women brag about their body count, why would they lie down. And if men aren’t the ones who brag about their body count then why do men defend their hoeing around and idolize men with high body counts? This is not just statistically true but also willingly admitted by most men of the internet echo chamber. And for the “stupid fight for me tests”, what do you want her to do? Make it easy for you to sleep with her then discard her? You shame women for letting that happen also, again completely ignoring the men’s part in the team sport that is The Sex. Everything you say contradicts what modern men of your circle do, but why should I believe my lying eyes when you’re here to shut them for me?
@cassandrajanae609411 ай бұрын
Honestly if you don't plan for another day WHILE you're cancelling the current one, it's pretty obvious the goal is not to reschedule, it's to avoid the date.
@Alirion23 күн бұрын
Don´t answer at all, no reason for giving that woman any validation! Move on, brothers!
@watermelonhelmet685411 ай бұрын
Women forget that dating is a two way street. That guy you had plans with hasn't been patiently waiting his whole life to finally get his shot at impressing you. When you cancel that date, he's not at home devastated, agonizing about what he as to do to win your attention....he's already making other plans. The funniest part of that video is "If she cancels a second time..." If you cancel a first date without a good reason, you're not getting the opportunity to cancel a second time. That guy *knows* he's your backup plan which means, at best, you've just been demoted to 'hookup' territory, and only if hooking up requires little to no effort.
@garenthal963810 ай бұрын
Actually many men are the pathetic image you painted
@chuckiegravesfield317010 ай бұрын
if you got demoted to hookup you've already won
@namebrandkids255811 ай бұрын
When I first met my hubby he called and asked if I'd like to go on a date that day...I fan girled around the house for 20 minutes and canceled all my plans! We had the best more romantic date ever! Didn't wanna leave. 13 years later we are still happily married with 3 kids and im soooooo happy everything panned out the way we did
@dracowynd19699 ай бұрын
This had to do with the topic how exactly? Glad yer happy though.
@GlobalOutcast9 ай бұрын
@@dracowynd1969 Who tf asked you?
@Rfranklinz458 ай бұрын
@@dracowynd1969 the video is about how if a woman isn't seriously into you, she'll flake on your date. Clearly 13 years ago, and to this day, she was and is VERY into her man, so she dropped everything to go on a date the same day.
@dracowynd19698 ай бұрын
@@GlobalOutcast True jackass. I was concerned mostly with the comments that pertained to the video. SHE DIDN'T SKIP OUT ON HER DATE I added that I was happy for her though.
@dracowynd19698 ай бұрын
@@Rfranklinz45 Yeah, she KEPT her date and didn't flake out on him. This video was about FLAKING out on the date, which she CLEARLY didn't.
@SomeGuy-xf9bcАй бұрын
Best text.... "New phone. Who's this?"
@chessmatica82429 ай бұрын
Canceling without good reason is forever. No second chances.
@duncankennedy648811 ай бұрын
If she cancels or no shows.... she gets blocked and deleted.
@bigbob377211 ай бұрын
or late without a text or call and even then on thin ice and watched closely.
@hitandruncommentor11 ай бұрын
@bigbob3772 it depends. Traffic, actually emergency. Otherwise once and done it was fun.
@bigbob377211 ай бұрын
As stated, a text or call stating the reason-and watched closely after such- for if a second dats has the same issue traffic for example as the first- immediate block as she does not respect you at all.@@hitandruncommentor
@ryanalt921911 ай бұрын
@@hitandruncommentoron a first date the emergency shouldn’t matter. It’s a first date your better off taking that as a sign and move on.
@Ash_Wen-li11 ай бұрын
@@ryanalt9219What? So if her dog gets hit by a car and she has to cancel that's a sign it's not meant to be?
@user-bi4ko8jp5r24 күн бұрын
I like the fact that someone is addressing men and how we have emotions and how we think. I appreciate you .
@beefninja755511 ай бұрын
I don't even text back i just move onto the next one.
@Hadrian7711 ай бұрын
this is the way
@viperpit-lr2rp11 ай бұрын
Like a real man, forget trying to text. Walk the hell away as she is not interested anyways.
@zzanatos200111 ай бұрын
I don't bother looking for the next one. I go and do something fun on my own or with my friends.
@KC-tk3oi9 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with canceling a date, just communicate. If you're not gonna communicate on that, I can't trust that anything else will be different
@MonkeyJedi995 ай бұрын
There is a WIDE gulf between, "I need to cancel." and "Work stuff came up and Friday is no good, how about Saturday, same time and place?"
@masterhypnos67833 ай бұрын
@@MonkeyJedi99Which falls into the Good Reason category implied in the video.
@viviandaviss2 ай бұрын
Yea.. I don't see the big deal with this. A lot of people demonize those who reject others, everyone has their right to reject someone. You're not obligated to have feelings for someone. It doesn't make you a bad person for rejecting someone as long as you communicate and are respectful. Just move along, they are actually doing you a favor so you can find an even better match.
@KC-tk3oi2 ай бұрын
@@viviandaviss no one's even obligated to be nice about it. If you're in the dating realm, it's important to know that the only obligation is to respect your boundaries. Outside of that, no one owes you anything. Stuff like communicating or handling a rejection with tact aren't obligations, but it does reflect on the personality of the one who's doing it. People who demonize others for a simple rejection aren't even respecting the actual obligation, which is respecting boundaries. All that does is make the rejection the absolute right choice every time.
@richardwilliams864716 күн бұрын
@viviandaviss , wrong. I agree, people have a right to reject someone they are not interested in, but then have the maturity to decline gracefully when asked, not at the last minute before the date.
@davidthomas3859Ай бұрын
The worst is being stood up. It’s the highest form of disrespect.
@steevemachine1188 ай бұрын
I NEVER give a second chance. IF she tries, I'll simply say "I'm unavailable".
@kirkkohnen505011 ай бұрын
Once and it's OVER! Unless she has a REALLY good AND easily verifiable reason.
@roffel9912 күн бұрын
Been saving time and energy for 3 years now after my break up . That woman took a part of me and it still hurts .
@ThereBeGoldInThemTharHills12 күн бұрын
That's how we learn and grow. It can be tough. But use that pain to focus on you. Im at the gym 24/7 after a break up. It works wonders. It's like a pain eraser. Give it a try bro.
@davidcolon919511 ай бұрын
Exactly, in my teen years, a GF of my broke up with (using her friend to relay msg) me. Weeks later, she asked me (with her gf by her side) if we could get back together. My response; I am not a toy on your shelf to play and then discard until you want to play again.
@jonathanbair5239 ай бұрын
Good job dude!
@JB-4239 ай бұрын
hope you directed that towards he friend LOL
@mrmatt72109 ай бұрын
Correct reply: Let me think about this and I will give you a call later........possibly years later.
@tomjones533811 ай бұрын
If she cancels on first date don't text her move on
@TheVocalTune9 ай бұрын
I'm straight up ghosting her but if she offers a different day that is better than I'd consider. A friend offered me to have a drink and I unfortunately had to suggest a different week because I had unforeseen situation like needing to get a light portable jump starter which took a chunk of money I didn't plan to spend but I had no choice since I needed it to keep going to work.
@yugioh5ds209Ай бұрын
men know. No they don't. No they don't ALL know that. That is a good thing this women is teaching this to unaware men.
@meanolddog991211 ай бұрын
She cancels the first date without a good reason, she never hears from me again. Semper Fi!
@jaredhaas416810 ай бұрын
Being late to a date is another red flag. I had a woman who was 45 minutes late to our first date. She apologized, seemingly sincerely, and I enjoyed lots of good appetizers while waiting, so it wasn't a big deal to me. We've all been late, I'm reasonably forgiving if a person apologizes. But then she was half an hour late to our second date. Sorry but that's my limit. I didn't bother with a 3rd date. She showed a pattern of behavior. This was fairly early in my dating life, when I was still 'chasing' women and cutting them a lot of slack. Saying "no thanks" to an attractive woman who wanted a 3rd date did not come naturally to me at the time, but I simply refused to be treated that way. Men are conditioned to view women as the prize. They are not. There is no prize in human relationships, just a bunch of uniquely flawed people. Either someone's presence in your life improves it, or it doesn't. Never be afraid to walk away from anyone who isn't improving your life.
@matheuspimentel58289 ай бұрын
I prefer someone to cancel on me as long is before I start getting ready for the date that for someone to be 45 minutes late, I don't have a lot of social energy and waste it wondering if my date is actually gonna shown up is a no no for me
@SirDistic9 ай бұрын
15 minutes is all she gets. She's not there by minute 16 I'm either eating alone or going home. If she shows up after that I'm not entertaining her.
@nerored62359 ай бұрын
The "prize" is a healthy, loving, mutually beneficial relationship. You can't have that when one of them puts themselves above the relationship. And anymore most women do that.
@michaelangst60788 ай бұрын
Y'all expect too much from meeting random people. I always have made sure to have a real connection with the women I have gone on dates through video chat. I do it for safety reason too
@jaredhaas41688 ай бұрын
@@michaelangst6078 Easy/convenient video chat wasn't always a thing. Once upon a time, a gent saw a nice pair of legs leading to a pleasant caboose and asked her on a date, with no further information available. There are pros and cons to modern dating. Being able to learn about someone prior to taking them on a date is a pro, for sure. But there is something to be said for the old ways too.
Ай бұрын
I can understand a cancelled date, say there was a emergency or something.... But if it's for something stupid I don't have the heart to give a second chance
@dionfox609011 ай бұрын
1. Run away 2. don’t look back 3. DON’T GO BACK 4. Block block everywhere
@backupmusicaccount84888 ай бұрын
Sometimes women will cancel a first date just to see how pushy the man will be for sex. Now most men (and now red pilled women like emily here) will get mad and make some gaslighting defense of men on this part but I have to point out the glaring factor that women wouldn’t feel a need to “test” men in this way if most men weren’t inherently pushy for sex in the first place. Consider that before you just go dropping women left and right.
@dionfox60908 ай бұрын
@@backupmusicaccount8488 run as fast as you can away from me and never look back. That is the only advice I can give any man these days don’t trust no one
@subtletravelvideos9208 ай бұрын
@@backupmusicaccount8488I'm saving this. Thanks!
@kylemacdougall835511 ай бұрын
I will say it's refreshing to see a girl in the video (besides Emily) who isn't saying "YASSSSS QUEEN, SLAYYYY!" when women behave inconsiderately toward men.
@Levi-wk2hg11 ай бұрын
Don't be fooled, the women is a chameleon. She says the right things but i assure you she's bailed on men before.
@kylemacdougall835511 ай бұрын
@@Levi-wk2hg Some women are chameleons, some aren't. Assuming a person's character based on their gender is the same as when feminists assume all men are womanizers and sex-crazed maniacs. Some men are, some aren't.
@Richard-qz8up11 ай бұрын
But the other girl in the video is telling men to give these toxic women a 2nd chance which is even worse. If the 1st date doesn't happen for whatever reason, it's a sign. The correct advice to men is to walk away after the 1st date is canceled and block her number. If the guy happens to see her again, just tell her you've found an incredible woman and felt it was inappropriate to be chatting with her.
@user-ks6ch9rw2d3 ай бұрын
Perfectly true Emily - you are 100% right and most men know this almost instinctively without needing to be told. God only knows why this woman thought this "advice" was useful, because it isn't. Once again Emily makes sense out of internet nonsense. Bless you!
@StereoSpace11 ай бұрын
Agreed, if she cancels the first date without good reason, bye.
@tomb37829 ай бұрын
I hate how women have five thousand rules that you need to memorize in order to just go on a single date with them.
@TEAMSTERLOCAL282NYC3 ай бұрын
They have a set of rules that THEY follow. We don’t need to follow their rules. Live your life.
@tomb37823 ай бұрын
@@TEAMSTERLOCAL282NYC hmm, good point.
@swashfrogsailor5 ай бұрын
Anyone who disrespects my time, effort, or expense on their behalf, earns my cold shoulder. Could be a client, a business associate, a friend, or a romantic prospect. This is called self-respect.
@hitandruncommentor11 ай бұрын
Yeah she flakes or cancels the first date, she's blocked and I'm gone Life is too short and she's shown her worth.
@loki103311 ай бұрын
Lmfao, no. If she cancels on you last second, send her another text immediately after saying, "hey, my night just freed up. Wanna come over?" .......... And then text real quick, "sorry, wrong person!"🤣🤣🤣🤣
@NagromMit111 ай бұрын
If this happens to me again I gotta try that😂
@vr489211 ай бұрын
🤔 i gotta use this one
@garymoore765111 ай бұрын
Brilliant
@matthalo8911 ай бұрын
Genius.
@jaidee957011 ай бұрын
Really? You're resorting to playing games like a woman? Perhaps you gave off some of that mind game vibe, which is why she cancelled on you?
@Beeeazybones14 күн бұрын
Truth. A first date should be exciting. If it's not exciting for both parties enough for one to cancel, it's just not gonna happen dot
@OtisCluck11 ай бұрын
If she cancels the first date, just ghost her
@hipreference11 ай бұрын
Respect. Bring back ghosting. I used to have sympathy when I heard a chic got ghosted! Imagine ever feeling bad for this haha. In this dating market? Hard pass. Don’t care. Take it or leave it lady, I’m not gonna wait around and ask twice, I don’t know you and I don’t owe you. Know who you’re dealing with.
@natashad926111 ай бұрын
😂I’m pretty sure if she cancels she won’t notice you ghosting. And yet you same men ignore women actually interested in you already. I see it daily. I’m canceling on every man. I literally ask why they don’t date the nice girls that like them when I’m only interested in friendship
@HH-hd7nd10 ай бұрын
@@natashad9261 You're wrong. These cancellations are just to play games most of the time. And these women absolutely notice when they are ghosted. These are in fact the exact same women who then turn up on TikTok crying about men ghosting them and making "where are all the good men" videos. Besides - your "men ignore women actually interested in you" argument - did it ever cross your mind that men might not be interested in a specific women? We don't have to be interested in every woman just because she wants that. Here's an advice for free: If you ever meet a woman that wants to date a man who doesn't approach her then tell her to approach him instead. Women can take the first step as well.
@rixyz701310 ай бұрын
@@natashad9261piss poor reply from a whorman defending an ignorant cause.
@StillAwesome218 ай бұрын
@@natashad9261 Women who call themselves nice girls are not nice lol.
@collin915911 ай бұрын
story time. I tried to court a woman years ago, she had a kid btw. I'm not bad looking, got my own place, work hard. she went for the bad boy, which obviously is rarely the right choice. I really liked her a lot. fast forward 5 years, I'm working on my new car so I order parts. in our shop everyone knows to just walk in, it's a cool place with cool people. guess who was delivering the parts? I've rarely seen that look on a womans face. she learned a really hard lesson that day. she knew instantly, her decision back then had long term implications, and she could have had an exponentially better life with me. but like many women, they think with their p***** instead of their brain. so instead of making small talk or acting like a simp, I took my parts, politely said thank you and walked away like she was a stranger, exactly like she did to me after I so graciously allowed her in my home when she had nowhere to go. ladies, your karma implications in life are going to be seriously harsh if you make sh*t decisions. her life was shit after she turned me down, drugs, homelessness, drama. she could have had a great life to raise her son and maybe our kids, but nope, gotta give up all that so she can get f***** by some dirty drug addict. life's a beach.
@josephanthony39211 ай бұрын
Yep. Bad decisions then their life ends up in a mess. Then say there's no good guys out there. Duh...not for you ms. Dummy
@rachelar10 ай бұрын
I would've said "You look familiar. Did I know you?" "Anyway gotta go (far away). Thanks for your service"
@anabelsanchez460510 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Podster13310 ай бұрын
The "Bad Boy " thing is very, very common. Don't take it personally. I personally have seen that 'O I F****D up good style look once. It's a great feeling ( Karma ) 😂😂
@dudapgg10 ай бұрын
Damn, you’re that bad in bed?
@blasttwice5 ай бұрын
No response is the best response
@randytwidwell741811 ай бұрын
Most all of your advice is spot on but most women who know your stuff are married those who think their way are wondering why they are single
@derekcooley583211 ай бұрын
@@em7937Women that prefer to be single need to stop going on dates and wasting mens time and money.
@GritsNGravy5211 ай бұрын
@@em7937No, you're single because you're just not good enough and you know it, so you've resigned yourselves to bring single. Not so much of a "choice". Sleeping around is a good way to ensure you're staying single 😉
@Ash_Wen-li11 ай бұрын
@@em7937Then why are you watching a video about dating advice?
@bobroberts702911 ай бұрын
@@em7937enjoy your cats in lonly older age
@marcusmcgraw351911 ай бұрын
@@GritsNGravy52I’m single because I’m smarter. Why would I want to do a relationship when they’re a man made prison and you’re doing time
@Glockler9 ай бұрын
You send that message even more clearly by not texting her back at all.
@AdvntrWchester2 ай бұрын
No. You seem like a hurt little pup if you don't seem unbothered
@miff2272 ай бұрын
@@AdvntrWchester so it should matter to the guy that the fantasy a person he will never interact with again is that she thinks he is a hurt little pup? You missed the point, missed the message, missed the lesson and didn't recognise your own projection all at the same time. And we know all this, because you replied...
@AdvntrWchester2 ай бұрын
@@miff227 😂💀
@ThomasCizek7 сағат бұрын
If she gives an excuse, block her! It's as simple as that!
@michaelsalazar166511 ай бұрын
Oh hell no! No chance. People are on their best behavior on the first date. She bails, what would she be like later on? Pizza, a book and my dogs is a much better and happier evening.
@sykotika13thirteen11 ай бұрын
If there is an Emergancy and you have to bail out, should she then say no way and block and delete you?
@michaelsalazar166511 ай бұрын
@@sykotika13thirteen As the video said "For no good reason." A real emergency qualifies as a good reason.
@michaelsalazar166511 ай бұрын
@@Believeinyourself8 My sympathies on the loss of your friend! You sound like a great person, I am glad you were able to have fun.
@sykotika13thirteen11 ай бұрын
@@jsmith-u5i so other conversations and thoughts like in the other threads are taboo? Expand your mind beyond just what you can see in front of you.
@ghriszlybare254711 ай бұрын
I asked out a coworker once and she canceled 5 minutes before the date. I just said ok let me know when you're free. She never did so I didn't bother asking again. Then she got mad at me and started actually yelling at me at work over nothing. It's wild to me how entitled she felt to my attention after cancelling on me
@wesleyhoward559911 ай бұрын
How dare you leave that friend zone.
@Colton-wz5sh11 ай бұрын
@@wesleyhoward5599you simped with that text
@spartanpatriot316311 ай бұрын
Don't shit where you eat. That was your first mistake.
@simonilett99811 ай бұрын
1st lesson, don't date someone where you work.. 2nd lesson, you were lucky to get away....psycho biarch😂
@bobbylittle699610 ай бұрын
Also she was pissed because you didn't give chase. They need that attention. Besides she was never going to let you catch her, they just like the thrill of the chase.
@dragshotking77764 ай бұрын
Text?? LOL!!! Moving along.
@chitownnemesis218211 ай бұрын
There won't be a second chance.. I only give one chance, and if she screws that up, it's on her...
@chitownnemesis21824 ай бұрын
@AllUserNamesAreUsed ... Thus coming from a person with no picture. Yet, as a musician, I get asked out plenty of times. So, according to you, that should not be possible . Judging people without knowing nothing about them only gets the same results in return. Live with the fact that you could never accomplish what I have done and still do.
@justinbarhorst553111 ай бұрын
If she cancels on the first date with no good reason she really doesn't want to date you walk away.
@billybobb80807 күн бұрын
A cancelation without notification has serious romantic ramifications. If there is a 2nd date, it's on her.
@ThomasTheAlphaAndOmega850911 ай бұрын
I don't give second chances. If she cancels, then her number is blocked and muted in my social media accounts. I'm cruel about it, too. She'll see me having a great time but is unable to react to what I post.
@bobroberts702911 ай бұрын
So wat
@marcusmcgraw351911 ай бұрын
@@dreamsagaofficialthank you. This is why I do nothing but show up to validate myself with girls. How can I possibly care if she ghosts when I was using her to prop me up
@ThomasTheAlphaAndOmega850911 ай бұрын
@@frazieromondi9331 It's just me being petty. If I do manage to make my ex cry because of it, then it's a bonus.
@Dominicus1311 ай бұрын
How will she see you if you blocked her 😂
@ThomasTheAlphaAndOmega850911 ай бұрын
@daemonsadi4964 Her phone number was blocked, and her social media accounts were muted. You can't interact with posts of someone who muted you, but you can still see them
@TheDeerInn11 ай бұрын
I had been communicating with a woman online. After a while she invited me to her house for pizza and a movie. I got there and she said she already ate and her two boys were in bed. We didn't even watch the entire movie and a girlfriend called to rescue her. She said she had to go help this girl out and we both left together. I followed her for a ways and then turned to go home. I thought, she first of all was a horrible mother if she left her two boys home alone and second, what a liar for saying her friend needed help. Why does there have to be so much impostorism with women and won't just be honest.
@spartanpatriot316311 ай бұрын
That wasn't her girlfriend, you were just someone to kill time with till Chad got home
@TastyFarts511 ай бұрын
You were about to die dude.
@warblerblue11 ай бұрын
Don't date a mom with kids in the first place.
@domin8ss10 ай бұрын
@warblerblue I disagree. Kids are a guarantee she puts out. 😂😂😂
@RedPilled79210 ай бұрын
@@warblerblueagreed
@ZzzRoofus16 күн бұрын
If a girl approached me and asked me out, planned the date and paid for it, I'd make sure she felt like my #1 priority because that will NEVER happen.
@phillipchilders901211 ай бұрын
JUST DUMP HER . SHE IS NOT WORTH THE TIME.
@ryanalt921911 ай бұрын
Well it’s a first date so your not actually dumping her. But agree she is not worth your time even if the excuse is legit.
@arbhall757211 ай бұрын
Nope. If she cancels without setting up a new date. I'm not even responding to her again.
@user-dd2tw9ux9x7 ай бұрын
She's absolutely right at the beginning. Text her thanks for letting me know. Then block her on all social media and find someone worthy of your time.
@alanruhland248911 ай бұрын
A woman once cancelled a first date with me and said, "I've decided that I'm not interested." At a later point, I started spending my lunches at a coffee shop. She started turning up at the same coffee shop on a regular basis. I go with the hypothesis that she just...found a coffee shop she liked.There is a second possibility, however, which is that she regretted cancelling the date and hoped that if she regularly put herself in my line of sight, then I'd ask again and that particular coffee shop was the only place where she knew she could put herself in my line of sight on any reliable basis. The second possibility is almost certainly not what was happening, but even if she was doing that, it wasn't going to work. Say, "No," and that's it as far as I'm concerned.
@darkrain49110 ай бұрын
She was absolutely deliberately putting herself in your vicinity because she regretted it. But you made the right choice.
@boooster10110 ай бұрын
If your theory is correct it'd be really awful that her maximum is just to "be there". But considering current dating culture, we guys are to blame for it. Prancing around like peacocks during a mating dance to fight the competition while expecting nothing from the woman. The first step is to not do that.
@lolwtnick436210 ай бұрын
worse case, is she absolutely was doing that to stalk you to see if you always bring dates to the same shop. she wanted the opportunity to ruin your next date.
@cinibar11 ай бұрын
Thank God that He let you know about her before you wasted any more time on her!
@sykotika13thirteen11 ай бұрын
Did he call and tell you? 😂 (sorry but I really couldn’t resist)
@cinibar11 ай бұрын
@@sykotika13thirteen Well, in a manner of speaking. 😊😊 That ol' gut feeling is a great helper, plus experience. Cheers!
@SunriseSideIronworks4 ай бұрын
If someone cancels on the first date, don’t even give them a second chance. If you aren’t worthy of their time, they’re not worthy of your time.
@RonniePI9 ай бұрын
As a man, I've never understood these guys who won't give up after a girl breaks up with them. Why would a man ever want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with him.
@fuyt2169 ай бұрын
Me and my wifes first date was the emergency room. We where supposed to meet for dinner. I got a call saying she was in a car accident. I went to the hospital to see her. I ended up coming up to see her every day till she got released. Her mom said you should keep that one😂. That was 20 years ago.
@mikegmoney29 күн бұрын
Only a simp would accept disrespect.
@GH0ST3698 ай бұрын
Ghost girls that play games... I approve of this message.😂
@Baba_Yaga_1236 ай бұрын
You approve your own message? Good to know
@GH0ST3696 ай бұрын
Well I approve of the use of the franchise.😂
@Baba_Yaga_1236 ай бұрын
😂
@SkrzekuZenmasters11 ай бұрын
If she doesn't instantly propose another time for a meeting, ignore her because she already does ignore you :)
@richardcheeseman633011 ай бұрын
If she instantly proposes a second chance you know you the backup option on the roster.
@SkrzekuZenmasters11 ай бұрын
Not sure you mean but dude that's what you do if you care at all so if she doesn't fix a new date right away you know she never will.@@richardcheeseman6330
@tlfuller2 ай бұрын
When I first started dating, I was told by my mom. If a girl declines the date, but follows up with a future date and time, she’s serious about you.
@CodElevator9 ай бұрын
I was more lenient with my last ex since she was a single mother who worked a lot of OT (same workplace, different department). We'd make plans 2 weeks prior, secured a babysitter, set a time (because girls take 3 hours to get ready 🙄), everything you could think of for preparations. She ends up canceling the day of because she didn't want to get up. It didn't bother me the first time because we just had a 14hr shift before the weekend, so I tried to make more plans afterwards, but the same thing kept happening. I didn't take it personally because we both have busy lives, but when you keep seeing red flags pop up, take the hint. Within 2 months, after the 3rd time, even while i was still in love with her, I canceled her relationship subscription because she couldn't afford the payment. Gotta have enough self-respect to walk away, especially from someone you know is toxic; It's better to take a small L now and keep it pushin than finding out the hard way.
@slappy894111 ай бұрын
If she starts playing, just block her and move on.
@EchosTackyTikiАй бұрын
Had this happen once, her excuse was that she was sick. She said she knew neither one of us would have fun if she was coughing and miserable the whole time and she wanted to reschedule. We went out about a week later. Didn't go beyond that, but I do genuinely believe she was sick the first time though. This is the exception though, not the rule.
@tomgrams23339 ай бұрын
My wife is good at this... thats why I set boundaries now and its one n done. Im not stressing myself about those things anymore.
@lindsaypatchan696710 ай бұрын
I had to cancel on my and my husband's first date. I was super excited and we had planned a full week in advance and the... I got the flu. I lost 4 lbs in about 5 days, I had to take a week off work, it threw me for a terrible loop. He was very kind and offered to bring soup but i was not about to have him seeing me like death before he could see me done up first lol. We've been together for 5 years, happily married for 2.5.
@libertarianesque86459 ай бұрын
The flu qualifies as "good reason".
@dracowynd19699 ай бұрын
Once again, happy for your success story. This had to do with the topic HOW exactly. You DID have a reason. Topic is canceling w/out a reason.
@JACCO200820129 ай бұрын
Great story. When's the divorce?
@pathfinderlight9 ай бұрын
He showed you he's serious by offering to come over with soup. Had you accepted, he likely would have taken that as you being serious too. Bonus, he'll know what you have if YOU GIVE IT TO HIM!
@codybeckus26529 ай бұрын
@@JACCO20082012I call marriage a preorder for divorce.
@josephj652120 күн бұрын
Years ago a girl cancelled within 2 hours due to a hangover. I didn’t provide a 2nd opportunity. I told her that’s unacceptable and I moved on.
@DaDude99911 ай бұрын
I'm glad I was dating before texting was a thing. We actually talked to each other. From the comments, this all sounds terrible to me. And ghosting wasn't a word. If someone didn't reply AT ALL, it was the equivalent of acting like you have a mental illness. I mean who could be so inconsiderate?
@ryanlipinski432511 ай бұрын
If a man loves and respects himself, he'll drop any woman who flakes on him on the first date and never contact her at any point.
@garenthal963810 ай бұрын
It’s acceptable if the same conversation includes a reason and a reschedule
@chriswhinery2 ай бұрын
Remember guys... If a lady is really interested, nothing is more important to her than your date. Returning women's rejection drives them nuts. Ghosting is the best method.
@redflaginspector11 ай бұрын
I've had "I don't feel like it today" and "I'm tired" excuses before. In both cases I informed them "I'm going with someone else then" and then stopped communicating and just took my friend that happens to be a very attractive woman that lives nearby me and is generally available for last minute plans. On one of these occasions my original date turned up and acted all apologetic asking me to join her on another table. Me and my friend were having a nice time and I don't give 2nd chances so I said no and told her to leave. She didn't and her tone changed to being aggressive towards my friend who she accused of stealing me. My friend stood her ground and informed her I was a good man and she was stupid for wasting my time. After a while she gave up and left and I never heard from her again but the aggressive behaviour in the middle of a restaurant clearly showed that 2nd chances for time wasters are not a good idea. Most of the time they're just using you for free food/entertainment on dates or they treat dating like a game so are chatting with many men at the same time instead of actually getting to know people.
@chuckiegravesfield317010 ай бұрын
you get dates? lucky man.
@lolwtnick436210 ай бұрын
damn. every man needs a good wing-woman
@redflaginspector10 ай бұрын
@@chuckiegravesfield3170 Some but I'm quite picky because it seems like most women don't want to allow men to get to know them a bit before a formal date. Literally just a short conversation or phone call and I can figure out if they actually have potential for me or now. Sort of feels like they just want free food or entertainment or that their just too dumb to understand that men don't want to waste their time and money on dates with women that aren't actually interested.
@redflaginspector10 ай бұрын
@@lolwtnick4362 She's a rare find for sure since she's far more logical/unemotional than most women. Glad we're friends. I'm an advocate for men and women being friends if both people are mature and in control enough not to get sexual feelings for each other. Most people simply can't handle being close friends with the opposite sex.
@LouLouLion10 ай бұрын
You made that up 😂
@redroversk11 ай бұрын
"why aren't you excited to be my 10,000th customer!?" -woman
@forkmasterderp9197 ай бұрын
When she cancels it's just ghost mode engaged
@exothermal.sprocket11 ай бұрын
If a woman practiced dating games the same as she worked at a professional business, she'd be fired pretty quickly.
@LoveMyMagMoreThanYou11 ай бұрын
If she cancels the date "for no good reason", then I don't have a reason to text her.
@smithical10012 күн бұрын
Cancel without rescheduling is her "polite" way of saying she isnt interested anymore. So you know, found someone better.
@dat2ra11 ай бұрын
"I forgot" or "I fell asleep" is the worst reason. It's insulting.
@ryanalt921911 ай бұрын
Yes it is but at the same time if she said her mother was sick or died or something like that I am going to think she’s making something up to flake on the date. Which shows it’s probably not worth your time if they flake on the first date.
@ohkayveronika150311 ай бұрын
I did actually fall asleep once though and felt awful, but I made sure to reschedule. I think that’s what matters most, whether they ask to reschedule and actually show up then
@Colton-wz5sh11 ай бұрын
@@ohkayveronika1503bullshit. If it had been a guy you actually liked you wouldnt have fallen asleep
@ohkayveronika150311 ай бұрын
@@Colton-wz5sh we’re still together actually! 8 years, that was our second date. I was tired from a long day at work and school.
@LiberPater77711 ай бұрын
@@ohkayveronika1503This is about first dates hon. Pay attention now.