Divorce her now!

The Problem is „feminism“ and i dont Talk about the real one degraded women to spoiled brats. Im happy to found the women of my life but it Took me almost 15 years.

Mentis Wave is the kind of person intellectuals think they are.

Ya know, its funny. I think about this a lot, about women wanting to walk into a perfect life that a man has already built instead of building that perfect life with him. I'm at the point that if the whole meeting a life partner doesnt happen by the time I enter my 30s, I'm going to categorically reject any woman's advances because they didnt give me the time of day 10 years ago. Why would I give them the time of day now?

oh no, its by choice lol. i see more women crying about being alone online than men

I'm all most 50 . I stopped dating at about 22 because I got tired of being used to pay for women's good times and treated like 💩 . Women have gotten worse in that time when people ask why I don't have a girlfriend. I say when you had nothing but lies , cheating, stealing from women why should I keep trying ?

At least say something, you just pirated his video.

This dude was thinking “damn, this is my life?” And she proved his thoughts were correct.

She is completely ridiculous

As a Man, I too, need Men lol

Accountability 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

Women hate when I take myself out of their friend zone.

Typical, she wants the bad boy. Which is absolutely fine. But then 2 weeks, 2 months later, do not make a video asking where all the good men have gone.

I relate to that guy, and he offers great advice. Forgive yourself. A lot of women these days that Ive dated take men for granted and abuse the kind nature of a man who embraces his compassion. The expectations are so unreasonable that Ive stopped dating all together. When dating stopped being fun and started being unhealthy I stopped interacting with women. Its not worth the constant stress. It does feel like there is no limit to the expectations woman have now. No thanks.

Keep the spool of wire, ditch the wife.

And how about the guy who marries a great woman, both totally in love, and after a few years of family planning and her seeing career skyrocket, she suddenly decides to never have children in favour of having a career. He then has to divorce a woman he absolutely love, because he wants children even more.

Why are you so good at explaining our side, I swear you were a guy in another life, you just put what I’m thinking into such good words

Today is my birthday, I'm 44 today and never married or had kids. I have alot to celebrate today.

Tried explaining that to my ex. I said that I loved her but hated how she was treating me. She said you either love me or hate me, it can't be both. Yeah, she is unable to differentiate between the two. After spending 11 years with this person my radar for underhandedness and manipulative behavior is 20/20.

The irony is the people she's making these videos about don't have accountability in almost every video and that's the whole point. So of course they're not gonna have accountability in the response

I personally believe, regardless of gender, that if you are going to make a drastic change like shaving a long beard or cutting off long hair, it should be discussed with your spouse first. I could never cut off my long locks without having a discussion with my husband first. It would feel weird doing so, especially knowing my long hair is one of the things that attracted him to me. His long hair is something that attracted me to him, and even during the dating stage he discussed cutting his locks off before actually doing so. It’s a small, but very respectful, gesture to discuss it with your spouse first.

Dogs are more empathetic with the average man than the average woman. They're highly empathetic creatures able to understand human emotions. Cats are also attuned to human emotions

Does this mirror her financial contribution as well?

The pancake level makeup most women think of as dolled up just can't compete with natural beauty. ever.

Chads don’t open doors

The underlying problem in today's dating market is a profound disconnect in women of their value in mating competition and selection. No progress will be made until corrections are introduced in the processes of how women determine their value in the dating market. This value is expressed in womens' 'expectations'. Expectations are an outcome of goal setting, which is a necessary function for every human action. However, where this seems to go amiss is in the evaluation of their resources - their sexual market value - which is part of the problem-solving algorithms the brain is programmed to utilize to achieve goals. There are three elements to successful long-term coupling - one physical and two behavioral. The physical element is your genetic attributes compared to DNA-programmed ideals consistent across all cultures. The other two behavioral factors have two different roots. One behavioral root is fitness in child-rearing, called pair bonding, where behaviors are compared, again to DNA-programmed ideals, to sex-determined roles for child-rearing. Men are provisioning-ers, this is why all women consider income and income potential in mate selection; for women, men evaluate their femininity, which is the ability to care for others broadly, and specifically children. The last behavioral element is companionability, known broadly as friendship. This, like all behavioral elements, follows a DNA-programmed algorithm of emotions that evaluate specific attributes necessary for the formation of friendships. When you set the wrong goals, all the above mentioned processes are set in the wrong directions which leads to the failure of goal achievement and why women are so misaligned with their DNA-dictated problem-solving behaviors in coupling.

A woman that truly loves you? 😂 oh look, a unicorn, AND a flying pig.

...they find out yrs later you got step children littered all over the country.

A former lady friend of mine confirmed this fact by several years of direct invitations that made in her 20s and 30s. She came to me saying: I lost trust in men altogether. I said: why? She answered: because every man I invited for a one-night stand, immediately went along. Married, single didn’t matter. They all did it and expressed remorse after for betraying their partner. So, yeah! Too many are like wildlife males willing to bang any female that comes along.

But also Emily you are also making the same behavior you are judging at the end: people not apologizing for something they may have done wrong. You may not attack personally anybody but you draw and support your content from other people content; wether they are in the right or wrong to take that as an attack is one thing, but you should empathize with the fact that they may take it personally and then you are also a partial cause of that so you also may show a bit of understanding and maybe apologize, not stand from a moral altitude and preach others, specialize when you monetize from doing that.

This isn’t dramatic. This is problem-solving at its finest. I salute this man.

Facts

She has "THE TONE" listen for it guys.

Depends on how she voices the gift. But she's already on a rocky start.

I'm very worried for this woman if she finds herself in so many situations where these facial expressions are common

I had a date cancel, but not tell me. So I sat at the restaurant for about 30 minutes before I caught on.

"I like you without a beard" gets shaved "I liked you with a beard, why did you do that?"

There's no behavior that's exclusive to one gender. I'm single because I have standards. I get women that are interested in me all the time but they just don't up to my standards. That a Sigma ale for you. This woman is damaged and has a horrible attitude.

It does because all she knows is drama and manipulation so that’s what she thinks real love is.

But if she says “I have these holes, can you fill them?” that’s somehow different?

The world is full of crazy people with no moral compass.

Back in the good ol' days, her daughter would get whooped so bad that she would forever forget how to disrespect people. No wonder we have so many stupid people!

Run, dude! RUN

All you ladies out there, this 10 second video contains one of the most vital pieces of information you can ever hear...as long as you understand what it it means to actually talk with us. It isn't just vomiting word salad at us in the hope that stuff sticks. That will get you nowhere. It isn't dancing around a subject vaguely hinting at stuff. That will get you nowhere. It isn't screaming at us about every perceived wrong we have ever done. That will get you nowhere. Talking is being civil, honest and direct. Talking is also listening to the other person talk and taking their viewpoint into account. Please understand that we aren't psychic. If you don't directly say it, we aren't going to get it. Make one point at a time and give us a bit of time to process and respond. If we don't understand the first time, don't just repeat exactly what you said before. Come at it from a different direction. This might mean thinking more about it and coming back to it. Be prepared for the possibility that we won't be able to process something right away. It might take an hour, a day or even a bit more to process a meatier subject. Be prepared to negotiate or compromise if necessary. We have opinions about how things can and should be done, too. There are other things, but those will be discovered organically through respectfully talking with your partner.

As an "older men" I think (35), win for me? Speaking as the generator of a reliable income that could support a household easily, a guy ten years my junior is almost never gonna compete with that. I actually have a chance at buying land, and building a home. Gen Z maybe not so much? The win feels hollow, though, because the women in the dating pool today 25-40 is...heh, call it "my ick," and it comes at the cost of my younger bros? ..yaaaaay 😢

Stupid people have kids with Stupid people

I just want to know HOW, when this appears to be a private & emotional argument HOW & WHY is it being recorded. Have both these people thrown their privacy completely AWAY? Or are they actors anyway?

You are totally right thanks

Yes! This is advice that has been around for a long time. It’s bad for today’s women, who have peers that have demonized men.

And i bet her tinder account is full of Guy: how are you Her: good Guy: what have you been up to Her: Nothing Guy: what dk you like doing Her: not much