If Gender Dysphoria Were Human

[@P5238c]

I love that the dysphoria came out of random places

[@adeleandabiane]

KaleBoy Just like it does

[@n.8537]

Okay, but like, I wish my dysphoria was this adorable😭😂

[@P5238c]

Naimah Vahed if only

[@moviehaus3492]

KaleKid the chair one was hilarious

[@jakthesac5175]

KaleKid wow! It’s really hot today! Dysohoria: *jumps off ceiling fan* I can see your binder strap under your shirt. May I suggest the one sweatshirt you own that is too big and also black?

[@gh0stcup]

Getting Dressed Dysphoria is the very definition of "...with those shoes!?"

[@creativeprodigies1322]

Summer Manning “That neckline will not hide t h o s e” or “Those jeans hug your hips like a stocking.” *shudder*

[@Jake-kt7ws]

@@EmilySantos-kt6fy I tore the tag off of my shoes because I was in school and looked down to see women's and was like "we are reading about Anne Frank this is not a good time to get dysphoric over your shoes"

[@peepsdraws]

So there was never a monster in my closet, it was just my gender dysphoria all along! Great video btw, can really relate to this :)

[@aresjones4761]

"Skeletons come to life in my closetttt..." God dammit

[@crockboy5435]

It's also the lock of keeping the secret from ur family. Living in the closet is urself. And gender dysphoria stays with u until u tell ur family or find people to accept u and socially transition.

[@optforthyname3800]

Exactly, a monster.

[@DinosaurNick]

Yours was in the closet? Mine was under my bed.... and in my closet ... and in the dark...

[@jackjarvis957]

Yo my boyfriend is trans and this has been such an eye opener so thank you

[@justmart4455]

Awh mate cute

[@stanstan4907]

It makes me happy when people know (or date) someone who's trans i try to learn more about it

[@slimeyvampire5399]

me too

[@deviltown7060]

glad a cis person took the time of day to learn about dysphoria for their partner

[@TristanFox_Art]

:) very cool

[@char2.047]

The getting dressed bit omg "Really?" "...no."

[@foreverwantingpie]

The last one "I recommend you sit there for an hour" Ive never heard anyone relate with me on that specifically 😭 GD is hell

[@DoofenshmirtzsInators]

IKR! I thought I was just over paranoid with periods and this just smacked me in the face

[@i3ignorantidelweb43]

REALLLL

[@SomeGuyOnTheInterweb]

ohh gender dysphoria i thought you meant geometry dash 💀💀💀💀

[@alexamerrill5352]

Was expecting this video to just be a person straight up following you and screaming in your ear lmao

[@BookBird2963]

Same.

[@emersonkinnally8211]

Same that’s dysphoria is for me

[@mo0nflowersart]

@@emersonkinnally8211 same.

[@dreamanimation54]

Ahhh I wish the skit was longer

[@gimygaming8655]

Same

[@TheElisabethMaria]

I thought you said ‘when i was pretty’ instead of ‘pre-T’ 😂

[@apersonwhomayormaynotexist9868]

Wait he said pre-t could've sworn it was pretty

[@yobtch7895]

I didn’t know what he achually said until this comment

[@lukainthebuilding4719]

Samee haha

[@Finn_sisjon]

When I didn’t have wrinkles 😂 (this is a joke he doesn’t have wrinkles)

[@Subtle_Oddity]

I thought he said “pre-teen”

[@shimmerwolfarts]

My little dysphoria human often just tells me "really? You aren't binding AGAIN? all because of your silly back? And c'mon do those vocal exercises so you don't have to go on T. You know you can deepen your voice so just do it!" Also you gotta love blooper reels... I know i do!!

[@mikuenjoyerXD]

Did you get to go on t yet?

[@lostspirits5787]

This is alltime pre-T mood :,) If dysphoria was a person i'd like to kill it

[@coccinella0_]

Spirit Pawz I'd join you

[@Paradoxum177]

Grab your pitchforks and torches children! We’re going dysphoria hunting!

[@A-_-A.]

I HAVE NEVER WANTED TO KILL SOMEONE MORE IN MY LIFE THAN THE EMBODIMENT OF DYSPHORIA

[@lostspirits5787]

Anissa Lingley yea, there are a few others but dysphoria is definitely the number one on the list.

[@A-_-A.]

Spirit Pawz same here ×) I got a big kill list but dysphoria is very high up there

[@dragonfly2577]

My dysphoria just comes out at random times. For example, I’m walking around a store, and my brain goes: your chest is showing. So I stop, fix my shirt and hunch over and keep going. It’s so weird and annoying. Thx for making this video!

[@mightbeavampire]

yeah, that's me

[@mrjon4884]

I saw the title and I was like OH this is gonna be GOOD! Watching your videos helps me a lot anv they're always really entertaining, thank you!

[@mrjon4884]

Ha, I was correct! I absolutely loved this video. Thank you for making this

[@unintelligentintellectual8508]

Alien Tragedies me too hahaha

[@julien8606]

sooooooo true omg. thats way to accurate

[@georgiasimpson4127]

READ TILL THE END! : I'm a trans girl, but just over all, being part of the trans community, not all of this really relates to me because I don't think my gender dymorphia is as bad as this. In my mind I am a girl so I act like one to a certain extent but way not enough to actually be myself fully. So for me it's just not being able to have the length of hair that I want and not being able to wear makeup and female clothes and being seen as a girl because my parents don't accept me.

[@birflurnstun1346]

George Simpson I'm glad us trans ppl can relate as a community. Really sucks that your parents don't accept you though, hopefully they'll eventually come around

[@celebrityguest.9530]

Sending love your way!

[@michellelouise4498]

Even those dysphoria's horrible you still made this video so entertaining and funny. Plus I think it can be so helpful to look back at not so great experiences and make light of them. Or it is for me anyway.

[@c.a.1506]

This made me so sad, thank you for opening my eyes to how pervasive this can be for people in the trans community. On a lighter note, I misheard you say "this was me pre-t" as "this was me pretty", and I thought to myself "don't be silly Jamie, you're still pretty! Just a masculine/male pretty" 😂

[@nekoites]

Immediate bright smile as soon as I clicked on the video aaa thank you! I've recently come out as trans and progress is slow (especially with my parents, but we'll get there eventually). If only this wasn't so relatable heh, good luck to everyone out there! ^^

[@marissa8347]

Congrats on coming out!!

[@g1ngerjohnson]

Loving the baths robe

[@g1ngerjohnson]

*bath

[@alexandraw909]

1) LOVED THIS! 2) Bahahaha Jamie came out of the wardrobe - closet again :P 3) I WANT THAT MUPPETS ROBE!!!

[@Eddie_is_god]

Why do I relate to this so much?? Dysphoria is horrible.

[@Mion11c]

Too damn accurate.

[@mr.bluesky6632]

"Oh that looks good." "Really??" "No." That was the biggest fucking mood, I had to laugh 😂😂

[@profviral]

2:08 I remember I hid mine with duct tape for as long as I possibly could so my mother wouldn't give me the whole celebratory "you're becoming a young lady now" lecture and bother me constantly with things like how I was feeling like she did my sister. It was a blessing she stopped asking after a few months, seeing how upset it made me. Having to finally wear a pad was mortifying though.

[@ya_fbr]

this gotta be the most relatable thing i’ve ever seen

[@Maerahn]

I'm so glad you don't have to go through that any more. And my heart goes out to anyone who's still going through stuff like this. I know I hated being fat as a teenager, but gender dysphoria must be ten times worse, because it feels so much more out of your control.

[@MatthewArangatta]

Lol this was really creative way to show gender dysphoria Jamie! This was pretty relatable too for anyone who has dysphoria

[@FemG33k2008]

This is the first time I've ever watched any of your videos, and I'm glad I did. I'm Agender, born female, and i feel all these things. The good days are great, but the bad days are absolutely horrible. I even take special birth control to stop my period due to the period issue. Thank you for making this video. I have a lot of trans and non-binary friends, but these are things i feel that i can't talk to them about.

[@CacophonyOfMeaninglessNoise]

This is one of the most relatable videos I've seen

[@ashfkjhjsdaahlhkjhfgdsfds]

Too accurate 😭 Hearing you say you don’t struggle with any of this pre everything makes me feel so hopeful about the future though, thank you!

[@katsucandy]

This. Is deeply relatable. Even wearing a binder (I can't wear tight ones for long stretches bc I uuuhhhh fucked up. Wearing one for too long and with terrible posture. And now my ribs will start complaining if I wear one for half a hour. So it's only my loosest and (sometimes) second loosest binders for me) I'm always going through a long series of "nope. The boobs will be obvious. Oh god no. Hips tho" when trying to get dressed. Like jfc this video sums it up pretty well.

[@g1ngerjohnson]

I m a g i n a t i o n

[@ariana9314]

This is soooo good! (also i love how the dysphoria popped out of random places :))

[@mouldylungs]

*My dysphoria:* Idk man those freckles look pretty feminine to me *Me:* What? But- *Dysphoria:* I don't make the rules son

[@fruityautism9110]

I need to show this to my friends so they can have a bit of an understanding of my dysphoria

[@normalblogtm8038]

This video is painfully accurate

[@Nhouah]

Getting dressed is exactly that ! I laughed, because sometimes we need to have a good laugh about things that sucks. Thanks for this video.

[@Shadow.wolf9592]

I feel that and love how dysphoria acted. Good job man! Keep up the good work bro! Wish you and Shaaba the best, Jamie!

[@TheManyThings]

Even though I’m a cis female, this felt weirdly relatable especially with the first line, “You can try to ignore it, but we both know what you look like.” I’ve had a lot of weight problems in the past and picking an outfit never felt good, and even the binder bit reminds me of the relief of taking off shape-wear just to immediately want it back on. The self loathing and discomfort in my own skin were so bad sometimes I felt like I was literally insane. I’m sure it’s nothing compared with gender dysphoria, but still videos like this seem to hit home for me.

[@pixtronpe2578]

I get dysphoric about the colour pink, like colours don't have gender but the gender monster just wants to take that too.

[@transformations4684]

The "Go Away" written across the chest of the jumper in the binder scene is fantastic.

[@sorenaxelchatterbox1129]

This is almost EXACTLY how it is.

[@DinosaurNick]

I seen so many people do these type videos and I love it. It puts it into perspective for cis people.

[@bravodevdas]

I love these videos! This was as funny as the period one 🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@emppuv6083]

The getting dressed part😭😭 I wear like 2 swearshirts atm but I's getting warmer and I’m panicking :-))) I’m getting my first binder in 2 days tho🥰🥰🥰

[@pigeon-052]

Did you get it??

[@xfobeverx]

this is so accurate on so many levels!!! being a nonbinary potato, most days i just want to curl up in a ball and hide from the world when my dysphoria is really bad.

[@witchypoo7353]

Omg this totally helped me understand my boyfriend better thank you so much for making this!

[@mightbeavampire]

supportive partner yessssssssssssssssss

[@witchypoo7353]

@mai max Awww, thank you hun

[@abracadabra2395]

I'm so happy to hear you don't feel this way anymore! That sounds so painful and like it would limit your ability to go about your day and do things you want to do sometimes. Thanks for sharing and for showing folks that it can get better!

[@edgebeverage3245]

OH MY GOD THIS IS LITERALLY ME EVERY SINGLE DAY

[@pmbluemoon]

I can so relate, and can also agree about the voice thing, I had to have a hysto/double oophorectomy because of PCOS that I had no choice there. I finally did my double mastectomy and had a very bad result so have had to accept that I will need revision surgery, but sleeping on my back for weeks at a time hurts my back and my cat's heart for cuddling the way we used to! I am in pain all the time and the T-Rex thing is in full force right now... OUCH!!! But is really worth the pain because I wanted the chesticles gone for so long that I'm in the purgatory of love and hate with my body right now. Thank you Jaimie and Shaaba! You have helped me feel like I'm not a freak of nature and there will be someone out there who will love me for who I am down the road if my partner now can't accept who I am right now. Thank you both for helping someone like me feel that it's going to be alright someday

[@kittif3r]

Not me playing ‘put a finger down’ to how many of these things I relate to- (I got 4 out of 5 for the simple reason that I don’t have a binder)

[@acventz7378]

the phone call thing is so true! answering the phone makes me so aware of how high my voice is, i'm glad it's not just me

[@jasminehetherington158]

Well done. I like the way how you manage to treat such a serious subject with a sense of humour. You are a genius!

[@RoachyChameleon]

Huh, this explains some of the things I felt before I realised I'm trans. And the things I'm starting to notice now. Thanks for the video, Jamie!

[@adamlee1653]

Always a great job at making fun of a heavy but relatable subject. Especially the clothes and phone call parts; those had me in stitches because of how much I know my dysphoria can hit me since I have hard to hide chesticles and sound like my mom on the phone lol

[@NotFeelingBlauw]

he said "when I was Pre-T" but my mind heard it as " when I was pretty" and all I could think was "what is this man on about? he's pretty now what is he saying??"

[@emptyhead2777]

Jamie: When I was pre T Subtitles: Ah yes "When I was pretty"

[@lovekai88]

I Loved this video! I really liked seeing the personification of your dysphoria because it made it much easier to understand rather than just trying to explain it with words. I think you’re a brilliant guy. And btw, I know this is an older video, but it just showed up in my recommended today 😁

[@batzy206]

The shower scene and closet scene is my life😭😭😭😭😭😭😭and the binding.... all of it really 😭😭 thank you for the humor❤️

[@LadyAneh]

Ugh...me too. Used to wear my binder in the shower before getting surgery. Still wear swim trunks in though. 😓

[@ThatAlexBall]

This is so me right now. I've just started binding but still at the very early stages. Thank you for making this!

[@imatiredpotato]

This is so relatable and so accurate!

[@sewmicah]

That freaking voice one though!!!!!! Ugh that’s me so much!!! Like I can’t even go on T because I’m nb and if I have any bottom growth I’d hate myself so much more.

[@OiElloKatty]

This was so good~. AND TWO! AAAAHHHHH-! It's like you made an accurate movie representation of my daily struggle, lol. Thanks for this video. :) I'm going to send it to my dad, someone who doesn't understand anything that's not a fully left-brain thing. He does all he can to support me, but he needs a ton of guidance, and things in this style are particularly effective. (I mean, he still thinks my anxiety is just "over-worrying" after 12-14 years, but he's much better at accommodating for me now. BUT I digress, omg.)

[@asteroidspace7844]

Jamie, I've only just recently found your videos, But i love your content, I'm a closeted Transgender Boy, and I can relate to these alot, You've helped me a lot to understand like, why I felt so icky in my own body, So, Thank you so Much Jamie!

[@Missscarlet1973]

I feel like the weirdest thing mine makes me do is being unable to change clothing with a mirror,if I'm ever in a situation where I need to get changed and there's a mirror in the same room, I'll most likely attempt to cover the mirror with a towel until I'm "covered enough" so I don't get uncomfy because of my "feminine body"

[@meowforcats6694]

I guess the amount of Dysphoria I feel is about average.

[@finnbeall2879]

Brilliant idea, Jamie! Thank you for making it tangible to show my family what it's like!

[@sandralantau7395]

Thank you very much for creating and posting this video, Jamie. And the one about your lesbian relationship. I know these are topics that are difficult for you but I greatly appreciate how you pushed through and made them. I'm a 50+ year old cis woman and I am educating myself about LGBTQ+ people. It is not easy for me to understand how people in this community are so diverse and different. Your videos make it so much easier for me to relate and, therefore, understand. Thank you

[@BoliVic96]

I totally can see my dysphoria coming out from my shower c:

[@colesonhumphries5825]

This is so true! Thanks for making me smile and pretty much turn around my day ! ❤️ you’re awesome and have been a huge inspiration in my transition and while I was pre-t

[@axelangel5144]

Me: *crying cause dysphoria* Jamie: Me: *cries of laughter and relatablity*

[@burgergarden]

wow the accuracy of this hurts. also when you popped up out of the tub i lost it 😂

[@Eli_the_fiend]

I relate to your dysphoria. I'm like "Ew, No." 😁 I'm still in the closet and living with my birth body and very depressed. But this made me feel a little better, seen. Thank you. 😘😊

[@Olivereliocorcordium1983]

this definitely the way i feel and some of the things i go through being pre t and this was very very accurate i was literally like "oh my god! thats literally the way i feel." well done Jamie your videos help me through my horrible times thank you so much for putting this into words.

[@futurigaricia4398]

Very accurate. it also pisses my mom off when I'm so picky about shirts.

[@rizwanaqaiserqaiser7281]

I also really want to be a boy but I can't coz the environment in which m living it can't happen M really happy that u got to be a boy what do u think when is life more easier being a boy or girl M from Pakistan

[@palacsintacsatornaja6103]

Rizwanaqaiser Qaiser you can be, why not? Fuck those who don't agree you. You still can be a boy!! DON'T GIVE UP! YOU CAN!!!

[@lemonlad5919]

Palacsinta Csatornája It's Pakistan - the guy can get put to death :v

[@Scintillate9]

Congratulations! If you want to be a boy, I have good news for you: you ARE a boy! :)

[@palacsintacsatornaja6103]

damn dallon yeah..but You rather live a life what you don't love? But I understand you, it's true ,but I cannot accept that..:/

[@lemonlad5919]

Palacsinta Csatornája I mean it's a sad reality, but tbh I'd rather. Ya know. Live than not transition.

[@jakescar2404]

2:09 as much as i hate dysphoria im more scared of the thought of dealing with a period without toilet paper

[@mysticbanks5130]

Thank you for bringing attention to this subject. I feel like this every single day if my life. I'm so glad someone else feels the same way I do.

[@AdenXin]

I'm M → F, and while it's likely just due to the eccentricity of my personality, but rather than continuously feeling a whole bunch of anxieties everywhere the only anxiety I really feel is whenever my facial hair begins to grow,. Mainly, rather than feeling anxieties I feel strong desires longing to look cute and wishing I could have breasts.

[@randomdepression1499]

(I'm nonbinary) I got dysphoria in the middle of maths because my long hair fell out And I'm not allowed get it cut Oof

[@TheOhhlookamonkey]

Dude i can relate ... I've been contemplating transitioning for well over a decade ... it's just not in the cards for me .... but i relate soooooo much to this.... well done

[@kaiwalter9093]

I really know what you mean! I'm pre- everything and sometimes its just .... awful. Also the binder thing! My binder is one size to big and my parents won't let me buy a size smaller. So you can sometimes see... that it is not flat.... and..... i'm really struggling with that ... You are a big help for me and my transition! And for that i really just want to thank you! You're the best! ❤

[@dino-nq4kh]

the voice thing!! i never thought about that? i always just thought i shouldn’t be upset about it but it makes so much sense

[@Ann0y1n9]

WAIT FOR IT WAIT FOR IT I’M THE ONE THING I CAN CONTROOOOOL

[@ryanisboringlol6047]

"ooh that's good" "really" "no" why is this me @ myself every day

[@parkerxd9422]

Dude this is a whole mood fr and I love it

[@kauradam]

yeah can relate to all of these,, but it's really inspiring (if that's the right word,,) to hear that you don't deal with this anymore ❤️ really looking forward to the days when i won't have to either

[@kayb5399]

Honestly it sucks that there’s all this great clothes and then dysphoria is like “hey,,,those pants? EVERYONE will call you a girl”

[@emmettfatcheric9798]

Thankyou so much for making me feel not so alone :) Is this the most accurate thing I've ever watched? Yes.

[@Oliver-yc5fi]

I am out to someone. She hugged me and our chests touched and I started feeling dysphoric. It was really ironic.

[@shadowfluff2255]

I live with my parents and they won't allow me to buy a binder.

[@garymarshall2196]

I am a cis gay man but that made something I have not experienced seem so real. And it was entertaining. Great video

[@ashtraycereal2343]

i love the way you showed this real and relatably

[@ashtraycereal2343]

especially how dysphoria was just a casual dude constantly showing up and not some monster of doom (i feel like that's all trans people get in representation, just, ohhhh nooo dysphoriaaaaa and it's dramatized in unrealistic ways)

[@IWantToRideMyBike]

The freakishly long bathroom breaks where you have to wrap your mind around the period being back.... People knocking to find out if you are ok....

[@lanfanji7784]

You actually look so good I’m not even joking

[@batdrac1554]

Hey,i saw you on a advert for a tv show bride and ...something. I cant wait till the show comes out properly

[@MadelineBrigit]

That was actually really funny and also helped me understand it a bit!

[@DinosaurNick]

I love how pre-t Jamie has a shirt that says "Go away" and Jamie's Dysphoria has a shirt with a cat that says "Woof" XD the legit example of identity crisis

[@puppidejong2789]

The end was priceless!! I'm nuts about you two!!

[@davidandrew7012]

This video really is relatable.My everyday life is like that. Wish you could do part two or something. Really Nice Work of Acting .👍🏼👍🏼