If He Wants a Serious Relationship With YOU, He'll Do These 4 Things

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@angelaeverett8461]

I would like to ask questions about online dating

[@lorrinekaai7489]

I wanted companionship and he had enough of that with other women ,and I wanted for us to get too know each other and all that but he wouldn't tell me anything) for five years we been together we hardly ever spent time together he tells me his busy working and he would call me) until I saw him with someone else_ and that was the end of that relationship I never pressured him into anything what so ever and since we weren't going no where I broked up with him)

[@lisaproustresearch]

He leans in 1) check your feelings & wants to be helpful if needed 2) doesn’t need to be right - conflict resolution abilities 3) operates from teamwork perspective (wants to help) 4) progresses the relationship forward

[@lilianasalcedo9954]

Thank you.

[@littleblackbabycat]

I finally got a good one at 49..... worth the wait.

[@ceticwitch9466]

You're 49!? 😍 Wow

[@Pacifica74]

That's great. Happy for you. You've given me hope!

[@daniellechivers5917]

Me too at 39!! he does all these things hurrah 🥰🥰🥰! And after an abusive narcissistic ex left me pretty broken and fearful of relationships with men, it took me 5 years of healing to get to this point!

[@dialmstyle]

That’s awesome Cadi! 💕

[@monicam9060]

Me too, at age 43☺️☺️

[@kellysunshine2814]

I agree. As a 55 year old single, I loathe what feels like psychological manipulative games. Nobody appreciates that. Be real, lean in and commit to the process. At my age we're not worried about creating a family but blending in adult children, life experiences and going forth in a new partnership. Many men will close up when hurt, even worse than women do because we have different coping mechanisms and may need women to lead and create that safe space. Many are willing to have a "companion" rather than a real partnership which most women prefer. I'm looking for a man that I can enjoy the next 40 years with, or however long we can.

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Kelly Lamastus,you deserve a better man 🙏🙏🙏

[@kellysunshine2814]

@@oscarwilliamson1264 thank you. I was speaking in general terms. I'm laying the foundation with a good but hurt man right now. We'll see.😊

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

@@kellysunshine2814 you are welcome my dearest 🌹🌷🌷🥀🥀🥀.I'm Oscar Williamson from the States.You?

[@Scorpio12348]

Me too

[@Scorpio12348]

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[@rhainematipid1117]

I agree when you said "most men haven't learned the skills to be in a healthy happy relationship,"in which they tend to overlook some valuable women whom might stay, love, care and accept them for the rest of their lives.

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks for sharing...

[@vhayashi7369]

Yep!

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

It's Good.. Serves them losers right🙄🤷‍♀️ Because Losers don't Deserve ❤😘Queens 👑they deserve Absolute Trash! 💯✌🏻😁

[@NatashaBailey]

@@PriyankaGupta-ew1li Everyone deserves love, it's just some of us are not very good at giving and receiving it, because we have learned dysfunctional patterns of behaviour from parents and society. Let see the bigger picture here - our world is developing into the kind of place where we will be able to be more in relationship with one another, authentically! Don't bust someone's balls because he was dealt a bad hand/deal in life! ;-) If you wish someone happiness, you receive that back yourself. Everyone wins that way.

[@SimbaAliaye]

Exactly what I just went through with the ex-boyfriend. He just shot his foot. I couldn’t stand his avoidant behavior anymore. To be fair though, he told me in the beginning, since we were both just coming out of a divorce, that he thought this might be a good distraction for both of us. Unfortunately, I’ve been living under a rock for 30 years and didn’t know what that meant. I do now! Next…

[@lf1666]

I stayed in a relationship that was not progressing forward for 3 years. It’s very painful. The words were there but not the actions My mistake. Healing from that one

[@surlyrabitt1253]

I just let one go - freeing to be the one too see and too act and put my foot down quickly. I'm learning boundaries! He came back about four times - so universe gave me a chance to be the one - to know I could act in my own self interest. I'm sixty - been around the block, ALWAYS felt guilty if I protected myself out of all my relationships w/ such issue's - I'm fat (not actually true), (daddy said no one would ever love me - must prove dad right - wtf right?), mom treats me like shit (so must burden shame and guilt - Not anymore lady) Not this time! It's a hoot to think betterer of me!

[@marthasoto5617]

Never had a true loving relationship. Coming from a dysfunctional family, I lived what I learn and saw in my family dynamics, of course. Married for 25 years to a man that never stopped dating. Ignorant and defeated, I finally served him papers, much to his surprise. He didn't know that I still had a seed of a backbone to do this. A friend saw me in the store one day a month after the divorce. Her words, " good lord you look great, he, (my ex), must have sucked the life out of you when you were with him!" .A pretty good observation of how much stress can change you in many areas, not just in the appearance. It took 5 years to get back to a, "me", that I could recognize. A couple of men told me I look 45, when I am actually 66 in a couple of months. That little/big statement gave me a sort of new life. Yeah!, what a compliment. Ok, so why am I writing? Talk about the silent ones, insecure body building gym rats, the narcissistic lifestyle, the constant affirmations from other women by having affairs, not involved with their child except when he has time, controlling the finances, this was 25 years of this jerk. The resources available to me were there, thank goodness, I read many books. Your spots on relationships has been helpful in a big way also. I am happy, single, doing what I like. I'm ready for a good man ......... and a dog. Hehehe

[@esperanzasingleton3707]

I m so amaze at your decision, i am also going thru the same thing and reading your lines has brought me light to the situation. i am happy for you that you were strong enough to walk away and is going after your happy ever after

[@angelaphilip7935]

Hi Jonathan, I’ve been dating a guy for 7 weeks and right from the start he is doing all those 4 things. We are both on the same page. I love his attentiveness towards me. We have both been in difficult previous relationships. We both want the same things, a serious relationship. He’s definitely not clueless like some guys! Last. Night he said to me “ I think I’m falling for you” He said I’m a breath of fresh air. I feel exactly the same. An alpha male too. Looking forward to the future

[@KimberleeMelissa]

So, is it still happening after 7 months?

[@vickieporter822]

I have a great guy. That's been doing everything right since he reached out to me...

[@Marialena-vw7ju]

"I Think" I'm falling in love with you? I dislike the I think part. "I am falling for you...." shows he knows what he wants and feels!!!

[@jaana944]

@@Marialena-vw7ju Have to agree with you on that part.

[@teresatilley1324]

Yes! It sucks to be in a relationship that is going nowhere! I came from an extremely dysfunctional family with an alcoholic father and I believe that I subconsciously chose men that were emotionally unavailable. I am determined not to settle again! Don't wait so long to end it if it isn't working for you! Thank you for the wonderful advice and encouragement.

[@leefindlay3026]

This is what I often say too, I have the same story. Although as my friend asked "are you emotionally available for yourself"

[@SimbaAliaye]

Sister from another mother. Ended a 30 year marriage with a psychopath. Fell into a rebound with a wonderful man who is so fearful dismissive avoidant that I had to end it after nine months. So we didn’t take me as long this time! Not settling!

[@sheilas6547]

Thank you for confirming I made the right decision to break up with a man I loved. He was always right, froze me out if I brought up an issue and the relationship never progressed past 2 dates a week. So I'm grateful to you for confirming I didn't make a mistake in letting him go. 🌺💚

[@JonathonAslay]

You are so welcome

[@angelsandocean2853]

Thank you very helpful. Similar situation here. Have to make a decision soon

[@time4peace726]

Awhh.. me too;( was is love for 4-5 months and when I questioned him about our relationship status, he said “ I don’t know “.. it was right then I knew, no choice but to let that go. No more words were said. Believe it, when they say it, you can never show them what they can’t see. LDR. CA/WA

[@jillpeacock4540]

No you definitely didn't make a mistake.

[@pattygirl9718]

I totally understand what u say I should be watching for now. Settling is not what I’m going to do. I’m not seeing any of these happening. But I do hear burping and yawning way to much. I’m not going to listen to that forever. It’s a deal breaker for sure!! Time to go 💃

[@monicaLynn7]

OMG I settled for a 2 1/2 year on and off relationship that was going NO WHERE! I ended it a year ago and have been focused on forgiving myself for settling... 🤗

[@monicaLynn7]

@@petsforlife4581 the good thing about life is that you don’t have to spend it alone in a corner… 🤗

[@Marialena-vw7ju]

It's not a relationship if it's not going anywhere. It's a connection.

[@s.p642]

I think we've all been there! I was in a relationship like that for a year and a 1/2. When I finally said something to him and felt like I was being used he got angry! We haven't spoken since that day.

[@coolqh]

Never even had a guy who check in with my feelings.

[@gretchenburton7184]

I have but he was gay...

[@jeancooper7953]

Thanks to videos like yours, I recently recognized I was dating a “very nice“ man who was doing just that...not progressing the relationship. So I politely ended it and he was a bit shocked but it wasn’t going anywhere and I let him know that. Felt good to let go, even of a nice guy who wasn’t ready for more then just casual. Thanks

[@surlyrabitt1253]

I just let one go - freeing to be the one too see and too act and put my foot down quickly. He came back about four times - so universe gave me a chance to be the one to know I could act in my own self interest. I'm sixty - been around the block, ALWAYS felt guilty if I protected myself out of all my relationships I'm fat (not actually true), (daddy said no one would ever love me - must prove dad right - wtf right?) Not this time!

[@pamelakelley5535]

Yes, I was stuck in this for 5 years. Never moved it forward. Finally released this to love myself more! ♥️

[@leefindlay3026]

I did the same

[@nayanacouture3523]

Me too

[@janiex740]

Yes I wasted 2 years in relationship that was going no where w narcissist. And yes it sucked! Didn't know how bad I was feeling till I broke it off.

[@majdami1649]

Iam sorry Jonathon for the loss of your son, RIP. I really like your videos so informative

[@JonathonAslay]

Much appreciated... 🙏

[@fezziwig99]

Yes, I was in a relationship that never moved along. I was so miserable, but had to hold onto my home and animals. Thank God, I finally got away from that covert narcissist, who had another woman for 16 years behind my back and had multiple personality disorder.

[@annehaviland658]

I stayed in a “relationship” that wasn’t progressing for 3 & 1/2 years it was EXCRUCIATING 😖 💔😭

[@17thUnicorn]

I hear you.

[@genxx2724]

That’s a “ situationship.”

[@camilleizzo2811]

It fucking sucks to settle! I did it for almost 30 years! All it did was suck the life out of me while he cheated, lied, and lived the life he wanted I will never settle, I’m worth more Thanks Jonathon ❤️

[@GODISMYSTERIOUS]

If the relationship doesn’t move forward, it means the two have no strong feelings for each other. So be it. Don’t kill your self.

[@westcoastbred7745]

I have settled in a 3 yr relationship that really sucked and always questioned its status. I recently let him go. hugs 🤗 🥰

[@JonathonAslay]

Never settle is my mission...

[@vhayashi7369]

Good for you!

[@brandibunn9395]

Me too! He always had to be right. Still as he tries “to get me back” he wants me to kno that I was wrong and we broke up bc of me lol he is 50 and still doesn’t get it. He never will n it took 2.5 yrs of me trying to help him understand, until I finally got it. And it took a lot for me to fall out of love but after to breakups and me moving out by myself for a year and going back for a couple mos until August. I finally saw the light and the sad part is it took my 15 yr old son and 16 yr old daughter to tell me, “Mom! He’s toxic. U need to leave n not go back.” I swear the have more wisdom than I do at times. I can’t be more proud of them & thankful. At least when it comes to them I’ve taught and talked to them about enough life and relationship experiences so that they get it. They are my biggest accomplishments! And John so sorry about ur son, I almost lost mine Nov 7, 2013 when he was 7 & had a seizure that lasted 4 hrs & then went into a coma for 2.5 days.

[@bellakim9404]

'Most Men Have No Clue How to Be in a Relationship'... i also think most women don't know how to be in a relationship 😊 I agree with you Jonathon everybody could use a kick in the ass. Buy the book! Never forget to Continue your Awesomeness. Listen, Learn & Grow IN life and love! ❤

[@nancyclaypool292]

I lost my oldest son in 97 & I understand & feel that unique pain only a parent will feel in a case like that.

[@missmary8878]

Yes it did suck but I am out of that relationship now and I am stepping into my own power and enjoying life. God Bless from Ireland.

[@OriginalR69]

The suckiest 'relationships' also have the potential to become a powerful catalyst for profound personal transformation. We learn. We grow. We mature. And we begin to walk the path of wisdom. So, happy days 😊

[@sezza271]

YES so true!💯👍

[@user-lt7zh4lv3b]

100%

[@radicalhonesty3628]

42 years old. Never ever have I been in a relationship. I die of the shame and the grief of this... I don't know what's wrong with me? I can't figure it out. Am I not good looking enough? But I observe couples all around me, and they are most certainly NOT together for each other's looks... So what the fuck is it then? Why? Why not me? I absolutely die of the shame and the grief and the confusion...

[@prabha34]

Yes I have settled In 20 yrs of marriage but hated it. And left him

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

S S, you deserve a good man🙏🙏🙏

[@melany.muraour]

I love the idea of leaning in.. . I honestly think that everyone is so busy leaning back and playing hard to get that relationships go freaking nowhere 😅

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly!

[@totallychillgirl8072]

Not with a player.

[@melany.muraour]

@@totallychillgirl8072 why bother with a player???

[@totallychillgirl8072]

@@melany.muraour I don’t, but too many women unfortunately do.

[@lorrinekaai7489]

@@melany.muraour that's all they are is players my relationship with this Italian guy wasn't going anywhere) he was also an Elvis impersonator too and I finally broked up with him he was only using me and taking advantage of me when we go out to eat I end up paying the bill and tip) so I kicked him to the curb)

[@TheTropics4]

I was in a 23 year marriage (to a narcissist)that didn't progress along and it freaking sucked! I've been divorced over 13 years and I have yet to find a man who wants to make my life easier! I think I would fall over and faint if that ever happened. Like you said, most men don't know how to have a healthy relationship and they are clueless of what they want besides an easy non-committed sexual relationship. It sucks.

[@trishataylor2488]

I have been on and off with a man that has all these qualities it's always me that pulls back every time he wants to take the relationship forward. I have abandonment issues and trust issues that I've been working on for years. This man has been so patient for many many years it's me

[@juliegoforth9224]

"Settling" what a HUGE WORD and can take up days/months/years of our time when we do!! Self love is definitely helping me to raise my standards, create boundries, say when I'm hurt, and then NOT Settle. Loved your video and will be getting your book. Yip..self love is the foundation and wanting to keep building..thank you!

[@JonathonAslay]

Love that!

[@marykarle9592]

I realize by your vid that neither of my two deceased husbands were not really for me in the first place, only I never realized this in the beginning ...thank you for the valuable insight!

[@mareehutchin2702]

I’ve been the one to push a relationship forward... and it fucking sucks too... the boat gets no where if both people are rowing in different directions... or one is doing all the rowing and the other is putting the anchor down.

[@lindatallon9217]

Love the analogy!

[@uminamisolelove]

one of the reason why i ended up my last 5 years relationship with this man, he has no plans in life... now im very happy coz i can do all the things i want all my dreams i want to achieve...

[@StandupGirl-ym3ey]

I've only experienced this once in my life! Didn't last long but I still experienced it! It makes realize that it's what I've wanted and needed from a relationship!

[@curiousgirl.4134]

Hugs to you Jonathan! Connor lives on in your heart and his spirit will always surround you...better than a picture because now he has become your guide. 💘

[@JonathonAslay]

awe... thank you very much, appreciate your kind words.

[@staywellandstrong4199]

Thank you for sharing your tiles, delivered with a loving heart, as powerful part and parcel of who you are.

[@lauragodines8939]

Wow.. my guy do all this things...i feel like the Cinderella...

[@JonathonAslay]

YAY!

[@aviancag8716]

Yess 🌟🌟🌟🌟 all the best hun.

[@LucyACPA]

Why are you here Cinderella? Why are you still here? Seal the deal!

[@mechellemcbride]

@@LucyACPA These videos are like check ins to make sure we're seeing clearly and on the right track :)

[@lizzabbott]

I am so sorry for your loss ! No one should ever have to lose a child ! Hugs !!

[@aviancag8716]

I love this videos I agree with all your points. If a man isn’t trying to make my life easier , check in one me, work together from a place of team work and actually what to progress things . I move on. Definitely as a young lady , I know I want all of the above in my relationship, I’m oh gonna waste my prime and child bearing years on men that just want to settle.

[@JonathonAslay]

Happy to hear this resonates with you...

[@blissreframed1681]

You are Very Smart!

[@paulaparkman5127]

I didn't go looking for love, love found me... it's the greatest feeling in the world....

[@heatherlott1342]

Yes he checks in constantly, invests his time and efforts in my needs/projects, progresses forward and I am following his pace (I tried to rush it), so far the best relationship of my life. Me 43 him 54.

[@maidenmarian1]

I am sorry your son passed away. I am very impressed by your channel. Leaning in is a good thing. You are funny too! Thank you for lots of clarity!!!! Thanks for sharing the way you think!!!

[@Molly-eq1ix]

Thanks for sharing...especially about Conner. I love the "If you're in a good relationship you don't need this video." Happy New Year!

[@JonathonAslay]

Happy new year!!

[@GoldenAthena311]

Jonathan I have slightly tears in my eyes when I hear you mentioned about your parents and son, they're so adorable. I will call my parents more often using Facetime.... thank you! You're such a strong man, keep going.

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you so much!

[@AmieSinger]

Thank you!! I absolutely love you’re videos!! 9 years in relationship that didn’t progress and he refused to lean in or progress!! Found your videos AFTER I walked away!! I’m convinced it’s to help me in my next relationship!!

[@dawnurbina176]

You can’t upgrade Connor’s pictures but you can upgrade your memories for him that you still hold and elevate your love 💕

[@vondabyers9425]

I lost my young son yrs ago...I have never been the same

[@dawnurbina176]

I can imagine that you never get over it. I’ve never lost a child. I did lose my fiancée who was also my gunner on our units last gun truck mission a week before we were scheduled to return home. I too have never been the same. You don’t know the strength and physical life force energy someone brings into your life until they are gone. May you be blessed. May you be held with love and support from all around you! I am sending you a huge hug and I thank you for sharing your vulnerability and truth 💕❤️💝

[@JP-ll8iy]

“If you are watching this video.” Enough Said. 🙏🏼♥️

[@milicamarshastefanovich3312]

Yes, I’ve definitely been in a relationship that didn’t progress, and yes, it fucking sucked which is why I finally left. I’m flabbergasted that I stayed for 8 year’s. Glad I found your channel, I’m enjoying your content.

[@ajm3821]

Well I stayed for 10 years. And it’s still not over. Still being sucked in because I have convinced myself I can fix it. It’s like the Stockholm syndrome. I can’t break away.

[@milicamarshastefanovich3312]

@@ajm3821 I’m sorry to hear that.. you should look into codependencies. Much of that stems from childhood. Working on yourself is the best thing you could do. We all deserve a life that is happy and fulfilling. Why be in a relationship that doesn’t fulfill you? Melody Beatie wrote an amazing book called Codependent No More: How to stop controlling others and start caring for yourself. Excellent book and almost all therapists recommend it. Good luck 🍀

[@devonslife7970]

His photo caught my attention immediately 🥰 I'm so very sorry for your broken heart 💞

[@carolberkebile3542]

So sorry about the loss of your Son. He’s so good looking!! God bless you and your family ❤️🌹❤️💕🌟

[@nb7748]

So sorry about your sons passing, i have lost a child also and i try to be happy and positive as it appears that you do also. and you also look just like your dad!!

[@ParisianStreets]

I'm really sorry for your loss & Hes in a better place now. I dont know what else to say. Tears unlimited.

[@VintageJeni61]

OMG, I want to share with you I brought the book THE FOUR AGREEMENT love love love it. ❤️ Thank you Jonathan❤️❤️❤️

[@Nehahahhahahaha]

I ❤️ you! RIP, I feel your hurt in your eyes. Thankyou for doing this for us! :)

[@debee08]

Thinking of you as you notice your tiles and feel the feels for your son. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. Thanks also for reminding us what it would be like to be in a serious and loving relationship 🙏❤

[@jenniferworth6156]

I have been in a relationship for almost two months now. He seems to fit in this category. I have one concern with this relationship. He was married for 35 years ( was very happy) He and his wife did a lot of traveling and he stated he would like to do the same with me. What concerns me is he is constantly mentioning "MY wife and I" at least 29 times in our conversations. MY concern is that I am going to live in her shadow and that those memories will over shadow ours. I understand that those memories are important but I want my mate to be present when creating our memories and to reflect on those moments when he tells others about our trips.

[@nataliesmith4446]

Cuss and yell Johnathan! I love your authenticity😄🤩You're a great coach...Thank you.

[@JonathonAslay]

I appreciate that!

[@oneofakind9784]

I’m married and love Jonathan! When I was single I have read many of those books. Why men love Bitches is great !

[@onlybosslion9267]

Sorry to hear you lost your son. Condolences to you. Yes it does! I Especially. He seems to know or recognize me but he hides and stalks me and hides, never laid eyes on him! Also you guys need to know a proposal is not in the form of a song and not over the internet! Unreal what goes on I relationship s Now days! Not for me! They are out of their friggin minds! Thank You

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you... 🙏

[@christina3325]

I'm so sorry about the loss of your son. I can only imagine the pain.

[@sheeladas8897]

I am in a toxic relationship since a decade. There is no progress , it's a real pain being with him. He is full of lies, deception and false promises.Always I am giving & sacrificing. I have tried to let go but couldn't find a way to get healed from this painful situation. I am deeply hurt ,feel deceived & Brocken in fragments. God please help me 🙏

[@montanacrone8984]

I’m sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I’ll look for your book. A book that helped me a lot was by Harold Bloomberg, I think. “When Bad Things Happen to Good People”. Thank you. Hugging my cat now.

[@Nancy-ym5ex]

So sorry for the loss of your son Conner🙏❤️🙏

[@darlawarmann8623]

A healthy relationship isn't hard,when you both are working towards the same thing there isn't anything that can't be worked on. Being in a relationship where your either doing all the work or feeling like you're pulling teeth to communicate is one sided.

[@suecole5543]

Yes we all need hugs , so hugs back to you jonathon.

[@daniellamena522]

I love your videos! I started watching you about 2 months ago. I've been trying to love myself more, and the videos help me understand self-love/ self-care. Lately, I feel that I'm talking like you. Now all these men wanna chase me around. I could date but I rather date myself for right now.

[@JonathonAslay]

I'm so glad!

[@lorib5398]

I'm sorry you lost your son. My parents lost my twin sister. I lost a twin. My brothers all lost a sister. We siblings lost our parents. Because our parents hung onto what they lost so much and for so long. My lesson learned is to value and to love better what we have here.

[@ozzyoz5210]

Truly sorry for your loss of your son. Have a great day!

[@sandralambotte5742]

Sending you much love and compassion. I can't imagine how hard this must be. ❤❤❤

[@jennipreuss6978]

You really are SUCH a honeybun, Jonothan!! Thank you for sharing so much from your own heart and for being so real and down to earth...I curse too, kinda cleansing!! I was JUST looking at those framed photos behind you and wondering about them when you began explaining.....im really so sorry about your precious Connor....that makes me so sad.....I really luuuurve your videos and your hugs!!!! big loves from Durban SA!!

[@NatashaBailey]

I love this video so much! When you're with a committed guy, you're not watching this video! LOL! All the points are spot on! I was in a situation with a man who was NOT doing these 4 things and guess what? After 4 months of dating I realised he wasn't ready, willing or able to be in a relationship! NEXT!

[@shayshayc3609]

I'm sorry for the lose of you son. May he continues to sleep well. My dear

[@thinkforyourselfjohn3167]

I'm so sorry about Connor Jonathon. I know this is an older video nonetheless. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. God Bless you. 🙏❤️

[@tarawiselove]

This is valuable information because so many of us women see contact as more significant than it really is. I'm just realizing this myself. I'm grateful for these 'the relationship is a two-lane street' relationship videos to create accountability and perspective in the relationship journey.

[@normarodriguez5535]

I'm so sorry for your loss...Your sons life was not in vain though...You are making him sooo proud from above! Big hugs to U buddy and thanku for sharing all your wisdom with us we sooo appreciate you!!😘😘💖💖👑😇

[@tammyjennings2263]

So sorry to hear of the loss of your son. 😥💔🙏🙏🙏

[@josephineburke1962]

My guy is doing all these things. I just like watch your videos for heck of it. It is still informative and entertainment. ☺️

[@JonathonAslay]

I appreciate that

[@Cekatu]

@@JonathonAslay I agree with Josephine Burke. I will add..... Some of us are happy. Some are happy in a relationship. Some are happy and single. Yet we watch relationship videos to gain insight, to always be prepared and armed; to help others; to learn; to confirm our thoughts and beliefs.......and of course to be entertained by a really funny guy!🙂 Excellent content and mesmerising passion.

[@vixter28]

Yessssss I dated a guy off & on for 3 years & it never went anywhere because it was off & on I was so sick of it and really felt like i was being used ( another video of yours ) he never even wanted to spend the night because of his mental illness & then in desperation he asked to move in with me ( Bc he was being forced to move from his apartment) and I said NO ! Why would I let a man move in my house that can’t even spend the night ! SMH 🤦‍♀️ well like I said in my other comments on other videos that he ended up taking his own life, so that ended that. Been working hard on myself for the past 2 1/2 years NOT putting up with any BS going forward!

[@millscm2949]

Hi Jonathon! I recently started following you. Just wanted to say, Im very sorry for your lost. I had no idea. God bless you , you are making a positive difference in many souls , mine included. 🙏🏼🤗

[@JonathonAslay]

I appreciate that

[@fezziwig99]

I just love your channel. The fact that you are so honest and genuine, and your integrity attracted me with the very first video. I'm so glad that you found your perfect mate, too. I'm working on mine now, and your advice matches everything that I did on my own, So, you confirmed my actions and now, it's a whole lot more serious. The power and ability to "walk away" is a deal maker. A person's confidence in knowing who "they" are, is pure freedom and so attractive to others. Thank you so much!

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you so much!

[@juliaarndt8290]

Have same thing with eldest son. He passed 4 years ago. And today I was asked about family portraits and I was thinking about how to bring him into that although he's not here.

[@aleksandrakora]

Yes Jonathon, all the previous relationships really sucked because they were not progressing. Oh, that was painful, felt like pulling the teeth, so I totally get your message. Getting wiser! 🙏🥰

[@lisapayne2352]

So sorry. 😢. My heart goes out to you.

[@dialmstyle]

Yep. Settled on one going no where. Thank God I’m out!

[@brendagalluzzo5959]

Thank you for this video. I have been in a relationship for 16 mo. We are commited howerer the realatioship is not going anywhere and everthing is about him. This video has giving me a whole new prospective.

[@jstudiokip5503]

you re a sweet man, Johnathan! give you hug.

[@Ezeanaprom]

You're so right, I just turned 52 and single, well tbh, I'm in a long distance relationship for 6+ months, but, at the same level 🙄, And there are days that I don't hear anything ‼️‼️, So, this guy, man, isn't serious 😭, I'm moving on

[@KarenGarcia-wg8fo]

So sorry to hear about your son’s passing🙏🏻praise God you had the opportunity to enjoy the presence of one of God’s angels before God needed him back🥰I have 3 sons, and I always look at them like their God’s angels he sent to make life more fulfilling 💚They are priceless blessings that I have the honor of their presence for as long as God allows me 😇Blessings, Jon! Xo

[@dottiemorris6976]

You are a breath of “FRESH AIR!” Thank you!

[@francinebowman990]

Im still praying for the right divine relationship, im 54😥

[@andrebotha3176]

This is so true words. I am busy finding myself and learn quite alot. Yes it suck!!!!! You are an awesome man way you not married sucks for me.

[@trinijoyl1720]

I only just started to listen to u. Love it! Boy u are so right!!! Yr hansome. Funny. Caring. Blunt!!!

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe... thank you 😊

[@katesun2957]

Perfect, right!

[@lotussellers747]

Hugs Jonathon. Im sorry to hear about the loss of your son.

[@rosellasantilli7938]

I can't imagine losing you're child....Such horrible pain I'm so sorry....I believe you're son Conor is with you always!🌷

[@barbaratolen5102]

My condolences I am so sorry to hear about Connor

[@sheilaanntoland271]

Love your insight ❤ blessings to you and your son 🙏 he is always with you

[@moongoddess1978]

You are so warm and wise and I always smile and go check out the books. Thank you for your wonderful content 😊❤

[@JonathonAslay]

I'm so glad!

[@kimyahnig753]

Yes I was in a relationship that went nowhere long distance I never saw him not once ,it was always when we meet ,but he never created a time to meet , I let go , and learned my lessons,

[@staywellandstrong4199]

I Love these shorter, yet Extremely Powerful encouraging, guiding and empowering words of sourcing and building strong foundations. What a great way to start the day❣👏

[@claudiapurcell8687]

You're Brilliant!!! Thank you for thinking about us...,❤️❤️❤️

[@darlenejackson8499]

So sorry for your loss 😓...I cannot imagine losing a child...I have two kids, a daughter and a son...and three grandbabies...I am so BLESSED!!! If you could give your view on a relationship with a Narcissist...I was in one for little over a year, I finally left him over two months ago, due to I saw a text message on his phone from another woman...I am now in the healing process of being with that person...Thanks in advance for your response...