If I Called Somebody Out...

[@nancybee77]

Mary, when you helped the 2 angel tree sisters last year, I was so touched by how much time and thought you put into their gifts. I often thought about those girls and how excited I imagine they were. This year, when you first announced you were sponsoring 4 angels (FOUR!!!), I about burst into tears at your generosity and kindness. And now there's even a 5th bonus angel! Just incredible. Christmas is for the kids. And you just cannot stretch $100 very far anymore, you're doing the right thing.

[@twiggystardust9573]

You're right, $100 doesn't go far. It's a half decent coat, some half decent shoes, and a cheap-ish toy. I suppose that's "better than nothing," but that's not the kind of Christmas you want to give these kids. A Christmas that "beats nothing, I guess."

[@catherinehesse25]

No matter what you do in this life there will always be someone who thinks you could have done better. Do it anyway.♡

[@ellec8224]

Such a beautiful thing you do for these kids. It's sad that folks feel that it's ok to critique HOW you do it. I wish you blessings this Holiday season, Mary. You give these kids the true spirit of the season.

[@tamz4127]

The ZIPPER was to heavy 😂😂😂 Oh Mary I cried. Lol. 😅

[@jessicalbell]

One really great Christmas is not going to "spoil" a child. As a child that grew up with sparse Christmases, I knew that one good holiday did not mean that next year would be the same. That's ridiculous and all the people who love to run their mouths when you're doing something so thoughtful should mind their own business and put their $$ where their mouth is. Thank you for being you.

[@stikkinixx]

Yes, exactly. I was an Angel Tree kid one year, and I knew how lucky I was, and I didn't expect it to happen again. I didn't get anything the next year, or the one after that, and I hadn't been spoiled. I knew who I lived with and what our situation was. Not all kids do, but I bet most of them do. One really good Christmas isn't going to make an entitled child 🙄

[@ASMRTingledPink]

I can't understand how anyone can take such a kind and generous thing someone does, and turn it into something negative. I think you did everything right. You did what your heart said to do. Trust your heart. 💝

[@lifeofone1]

I hereby volunteer to be your Head Elf next year and help you fundraise, shop, track, wrap and deliver. And I'm serious! This offer includes a Biscuitville Pepsi for extra energy. This world is lucky to have you, Mary!

[@tanmanasmr]

You are awesome, Mary! I have family members that act like the person that commented on your video. God help them. You will give these children hope! What you’ve done reminds me that there are still good people in this crazy world. Thank you, Mary!

[@abbywebster8343]

It is mind-blowingly kind what you have done - so special - you are amazing.

[@maddawg13]

Hello Mary, maybe next yr you could open a gofundme so your subscribers could also be a part of helping the angel tree children. Regardless though don’t let someone make you feel bad for doing something good for others. Thank you for all you did for these kids 🤍

[@mooniemoons]

I grew up in a family that didn't have much and I never got many presents. When I did one Christmas, I didn't feel "spoiled" and I didn't expect the same again. I was grateful and I cherished what I had got. In fact, I'm 28 now and I still hang on to some of those gifts. They bring nice memories.

[@Hlady99]

Urgh that makes me so mad. Mary, you are so incredibly kind and I would like to ask that person how much she has donated or how many kids she has sponsored this year. You’re amazing!!! ❤

[@zedskidoodle]

Mary, your generosity inspires me. I'm doing more to support local charities this Christmas because of you putting it into my head, you've reminded me of the difference one person can make. I really hope those silly comments didn't bother you.

[@39efilon]

Mary, thank you for being such a kind and generous person to these kiddos. I live by the philosophy that you can't save the world. If you focus on the need that still exists, you will drive yourself crazy. I try to give generously but have to limit my focus to my sphere of influence or I would just be left feeling defeated looking at how much more there is to be done. We have to have hope that there are other kind and generous people who will come along and join us. I am reminded of the starfish story by Loren Eisley: "An old man was doing his daily walk along the beach one morning, it was a beautiful day to be by the sea. The man was enjoying his alone time, enjoying nature and reflecting. Then he spotted a young boy crouched by the ocean, picking something up from the sand and throwing it into the sea. It was not a busy day at the beach at all. In-fact, the man noticed it was just him and the boy. Fascinated by the boy’s actions, the man stopped to watch the boy for a while. He noticed the boy kept scooping something up, running to the ocean and throwing it in. The man watched the boy repeat these actions again and again - stop, pick up, throw, move. Over and over. The man was indeed intrigued by the strange actions of the boy at the beach. “What could he possibly be doing?” The man asked himself. And so he walked closer to the boy and asked him. “What are you doing there boy? “I am saving these stranded starfish” answered the boy. “If they stay on the beach any longer, they will dry up and die. I am putting them back into the ocean so they can live.” Then he picked one more starfish and threw it in, then another, and another. The old man was silent for a while, watching the boy labor away. He didn’t understand the young lad’s enthusiasm and drive; it just didn’t make sense to him at all. Because life had taught him that if he was to spend time doing anything at all, it was better to spend it aiming for the stars, doing big things that made a difference with a bang. “Young man” he said, “on this stretch of beach alone, there must be more than one hundred stranded starfish. Around the next corner, there must be at least one thousand more. This goes on for miles and miles and miles - I’ve done this walk every day for 10 years, and it’s always the same. There must be millions of stranded starfish! I hate to say it, but you’ll never make a difference.” In response, and without missing a beat, the boy picked up a starfish and threw it into the water, saying, “well I just made a difference to that one.” Then he picked another and threw it, “and that one.” And so one after another, the boy picked and threw starfish into the lifesaving waters, each time repeating himself to the man, “it made a difference to that one, and that one, and now this one…” And on and on the boy went, making a difference one starfish at a time."

[@ericajane5465]

Mary, you yourself are an angel ❤ Your generosity inspires me, and the time and thought you put into everything is incredible. Sometimes, a moment can change a person’s life, and the memory of one happy Christmas can last a lifetime. That is what you are giving these children, a moment of happiness, and that is priceless 🎉 People like you make the world a better place ❤ Thank you!

[@graciemiranda465]

Mary just the fact that you got 5 kids to sponsor is a blessing. There will always be people with negative comments. How many kids has that person sponsored this year, is the question? Because of your generosity and big heart, 5 kids are going to have a wonderful blessed Christmas.The smile on their faces is priceless. You keep doing what your doing Mary and let negative vibes float through the universe. In case no one has told you lately, you are amazing. Take care friend and have a blessed day. ☃️❄️☕🦌🌲🎁

[@ellengarbsch3174]

You should do what YOU feel you can do. Not what other people think you should do. It is a huge undertaking what you are doing, both in time but also in expense and organization. Bless you, Mary, for what you are doing. Which is a lot. I just don't understand why some people feel the need to comment on what you are doing.

[@SelinaShaw]

In the nonprofit sector where I work, we define "criticism" as "Volunteering to do it yourself." Mary, you are the greatest. You do what you can when you can. 🥰My kids were on the receiving end of this program when they were small, and they have grown up into very compassionate and generous adults.

[@languageadvisor6435]

I'm so glad that paradise video is coming out soon! I'm ready to have a major catharsis through it. Soooo many unprofessional people out there. Thanks for the online therapy in advance. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@StarshineH20]

You rock and roll Mary! These people must be super bored to try busting balls on someone who is helping other peoples children to have an amazing Christmas! Much love Mary

[@jadel.1360]

The church I work for does this and the older kids always have their angel left. Luckily any left behind we make sure to get their angels, but it breaks my heart to see their angels skipped over. Thank you for doing this because I know some of the kids that receive them and it always brings them such joy. ❤

[@johnsparkman2007]

Spoil the kids Mary! God bless you.

[@tayax4937]

You weren’t calling her out….but honestly if she’s gonna give an unasked for opinion then she shouldn’t be surprised or offended that she’d get called out! If she feels so comfortable commenting on how someone else spends their money, ESPECIALLY when it’s for something selfless, then get comfortable getting commented on back. EXPECT it

[@tayax4937]

Thank you for giving these kids a good Christmas, Mary

[@gwenshack]

People are terrible. You aren’t. You’re amazing. ❤

[@twiggystardust9573]

Seems like Ebay's just not worth the stress. 🙁 Honestly, Mary, you're doing the work of a 15-20 person church group just by buying for five kids. The sports teams at the school where I work adopt angels every year, and they can only get two. My girls' XC team has 11 girls, and they collected a hair over $300 this year. We're shopping for two with around $320, and I'm kind of nervous we won't get to get them enough. I'm in awe of you, really. You're one damn person!

[@temogarza8360]

I think next year you should make a go fund me and we can all pitch in 😀 it would be absolutely amazing especially since people like I don’t necessarily have the time to shop for gifts during the week. We could help so many kids!

[@everydaymary]

I think it would be great if people just help folks in their own community. I do appreciate the thought, but it's just me doing this, by myself, and I just don't have enough time to shop for any more kids. I wish I could.

[@karenkaur64]

Hi Mary, I have recently split from a three year relationship and I don’t have many friends around me for support. I feel like you’re my friend, talking to me about your day. You are the only person getting me through this, thank you

[@keziawrenmakes1088]

Mary you do a wonderful job and you have been a true blessing for these lovely Angel Tree children, even just doing one child os amazing and thoughtful xx I've watched all your videos and it makes me so happy that theres someone who wants to help and is able to, please dont let people bring you down, your doing something truly special and Wonderful xx 😊 Sending love and support xx 💕

[@amyburge6630]

Mary you are an amazing person. Some people are just jealous of others. What you are doing for them children is a blessing to them and yourself. Some people just need to shut up. Keep being great sweet Mary

[@bluize567]

About 8 years ago my husband and I adopted a family with 3 little ones, under 10. I remember my hubby was as excited just shopping as a child is opening the gifts would be on Christmas morning. We live in a small town; one Walmart, one Macdonald's - small. Anyway, after Christmas we had to exchange a couple things we ourselves received as gifts. A lady a couple folks in line was returning a ton of stuff; we recognized her returns because we bought many of them for her children, couple of the kids were with her. Man, that broke our hearts, not for us but for the kids. I left the tags on IN CASE something didn't fit, wrong color, etc. I still adopt a family with kids each year, not nearly as much as back then simply because I'm a retired widow now, still, a kid's joy on Christmas - every kid deserves that. Every parent isn't like that lady from all those years ago. Guess I'm trying to say, you do what you feel in your heart, Mary. Gonna be 5 kids with big smiles on Christmas morning because if your giving heart. Sorry for the novel. God bless you, Mary.❤️🙏

[@brookeMomof5]

That’s heartbreaking

[@cianatancrelleart]

This happens so often. One of my first years teaching HS, we noticed a kid needed new clothes. His were too tight and had holes. So a bunch of teachers got together and bought him new sneakers and a new wardrobe. He was so happy. After Christmas break he came in, with his old stuff on. Someone checked to make sure his new stuff was the right size. His parents returned everything that didn’t fit themselves. We were crushed. He ended up with almost nothing of what we gave him. It hasn’t stopped us from trying again when we see another kid in need. Most of the time thing work out the way we hope it does. Don’t give up.

[@sarahcline9585]

Mary you done amazing with the children they are gonna absolutely love the gifts and have a wonderful Christmas because of your kindness I think it’s so so sad that people have anything negative at all to say about anyone doing a good deed it’s crazy sending you hugs ❤️

[@gillianwray9051]

What you do for the Angel Tree children is generous, kind, selfless. Nobody needs to be challenging how a person decides to be philanthropic, it's not their business. You do it your way!

[@thesewildflowersblooming3974]

Your Angel Tree videos have inspired me so much that I totally plan on doing the same when I have more means in the future to do so.

[@sweettexast2894]

I don’t understand why people care so much what you do. It brings a joy to so many people including you Mary. You light up when you talk about it. I will never understand these people. Also, as someone who has several friends who grew up very poor and only had gifts as children that came from charities/churches or the angel tree, I can tell you that they still talk about it today and many of them are in their 40s and 50s and even 60s. What does it matter if they are spoiled? This is a memory that will stick with them forever. And if you can do that for anybody, anywhere, anyhow, then do it. People need to get them over themselves. Bless you Mary! ❤️🎁

[@MK-Hogan]

I can’t believe sellers haven’t bombarded eBay with emails and calls and whatever they can to kick up a fuss. Those policies are absolutely ridiculous. People aren’t going to want to sell. - Also, spoiling those 5 kids is the entire point! Anyone saying you should worry about spoiling a kid who’s poor enough to need their name on a tree that relies on random strangers to give them anything for Christmas, is missing the entire point. 🙄

[@MK-Hogan]

@Terry L. Cooper if ya set up the system in a way that makes it easy for people to scam sellers for free stuff, they’re obviously going to do that. I can’t believe there aren’t safeguards in place for that. It sounds like there were and eBay took them away, which is even more ridiculous.

[@angelabyrd4895]

You made 5 kids so happy that is the best thing ever 😀

[@esmusc1]

Mary, I believe you are amazing and selfless to help these children have a happy Christmas 🎄. People are going to talk and put in their 2 cent Even though it isn't needed or wanted. You follow your heart ❤️ and that's enough!! I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and holiday season!!

[@C.h.l.o.e]

Your heart is pure and you do more than most DO NOT let these Karen’s that probably won’t even give change to charity make you feel any sort of way about what you do! You are AMAZING and didn’t have to explain this. Shit instead of you taking 10 maybe this person and every one else with an opinion can do one each. Every kid would get something!

[@alwyzgrly76]

1 child or 10. You are their guardian Angel. You are amazing. They are going to be some happy kiddos on Xmas morning. 🥰

[@katie8325]

Sorry you have to deal with this Mary, everyone’s an expert online 🙄

[@melissam5249]

Thank you, Mary for spending the time and money on those angels.

[@MrBibi86]

*I can't believe someone is complaining about you doing charity! how about they find out which celebrities or wealthy known people that live in your town and tweet them a picture of the remaining 60 Angels on that tree. rather than attacking or questioning a single mother or 2 boys who works why she isn't doing more Angels! people will pick at and complain about anything. I'm so sorry Mary, you are doing a great job*

[@twiggystardust9573]

One last thing: I see a lot of people in your comments say they were Angel Tree kids when they were little, and their family was struggling. They have never, not once, said the Christmas after was a dud because they were "spoiled" the year before. They talk about how wonderful their Christmas was, and say they'll never forget it.

[@claireclairdeluna]

"customer is always right" shit makes my eye twitch...

[@oest2029]

Some people have no sense of moral decency anymore. To ask for/demand a refund from a small seller who has clearly stated prior that they're not able to accept refunds is just gross. I feel bad enough if I send a question to a seller for more details on an item, but then decide against it. I think people have been spoilt by big corporate consumerism where you can be lazy and entitled and get your cheap goods with free shipping/free return etc etc

[@ambam90]

I hope one day I am in the financial position to do the angel tree thing or something like it. I'm 100% sure I would go all out and spoil them like you do. Because you really never know what those kids are going through.

[@virginiamccoy5897]

I don't think it matters what you spent, you picked items with your heart. You treated them like they were yours. Why do people have to nit pick everything?

[@WW-qz7nt]

I think it’s so bizarre. That people criticize people for not helping others… then when people do help others… people still find a way to criticize. Whoever told you to help more kids.. should go out & do that themselves. They shouldn’t be telling you or anyone how to spend their money. You have a family of your own. & went out of your way to make 5 children feel extremely happy & appreciated this Christmas. You are more generous than most. & I think putting more money into less kids In many ways is actually more impactful. They are getting nice stuff. Not cheap stuff because the budget was spread so thin. It is not on you to help every single kid who is less fortunate. You did a great thing. & it’s a shame someone so ungrateful had the audacity to make you question your own good doing.

[@emilywayer2676]

Hi Mary, you don’t need to explain anything to anyone. You’re doing more than a lot of us do. You are amazing and these kids are going to have a wonderful Christmas because of YOU!!! ❤

[@josepharcher8389]

You are amazing Mary for all the good you do!

[@LoriBeth428]

Yup I was a long time ebay seller with 100% perfect feedback back when ebay was amazing and this is why I stopped selling on ebay. I always wanted to say to the buyer..."I am not Macys! there is no return policy"

[@travelswithjd]

Hi Mary, I have watched your other channel faithfully since before Covid lockdowns. I would be in a store and the sound and action of the person stocking would make me sleepy. I wondered what is up with this? So I searched "stocking store shelves" one day and found you! I live in Texas now but grew up in WV, so your whole upbringing and culture resonates with me. Your channel has brought me through some very tough times. I definitely agree with you next year on choosing a teenager or two from the group. For some reason, people tend to shy away from choosing them. I went through the adoption process of two teenage boys in the foster care system and saw them the first year at the foster care Christmas party getting their gifts. Thank you for all that you do and thanks for keeping it real!

[@everydaymary]

You are so welcome! :)

[@djtrishm]

and how many kids is this person whos critiquing you helping? People need to look in the mirror and say and what are you doing to make the world a better place! Trish

[@thecabinwitch6689]

kids deserve to have a good Christmas period… ❤🎄❄️

[@louhendon4274]

People are awful. 😢 Merry Christmas Mary. You deserve it.🎄

[@emptynestasmr5599]

Imagine living such a blessed life that you find the need to criticize or critique someone who's gone above and beyond for others. Imagine thinking a child shouldn't get xyz for Christmas because (insert reason here). You owe NO ONE an explanation of what you spend your $ on.

[@rosem362]

Just do what feels right to you you are very sweet and thoughtful sweet and god bless you

[@cathyblock6197]

Oh Mary, that eBay s*** has happened to me too a couple of times. I just hate how eBay treats sellers now. I have given up on them as a seller altho I still buy stuff. BTW, I started selling on eBay in 1997!! Hugs

[@everydaymary]

It was MUCH better back in the early 2000s. It's just gone downhill since then. :(

[@hopium9963]

It might sound callous of me to say but you aren't under any obligation to help anyone! You've chosen to spend your time, energy, and money to brighten up some kids lives. You really do a lot and it's a hell of a lot more than what most people do. I'm in a low-income household and I have spent Christmas in a refuge before, I'm telling you right now if someone spent that much on my family I'd never forget it. Thriving not surviving!

[@EmilyLeanne]

I resell clothes online as well and I agree shipping is crazy! Anything above 3 lbs I can never make profit on because of the dang shipping.

[@dustithomas4242]

You are amazing! You know those people DID NOT buy anything for other children. I know you want to say that so we will say it for you. My kids refer you to you as Mary Poppins lol they say you're perfect in every way😊❤️

[@missyb2931]

Mary, I LOVE that nail color. Would you share what kind that is? I must have it. 😊

[@mommamorris3]

I can’t believe that you’re doing something so good and people complain about! What the hell is wrong with people!

[@DebbiesWorld]

I guess if you are carrying the weight of the parents on Christmas a good showing of gifts for the child makes sense and is commendable on your part.

[@barbaracook4735]

As expensive as everything is you couldn’t get much for $100. You did good. I adopted an angel from our church tree.

[@ACGNikki]

I'd have a BALL being on that staff for free! Lol... I love this kind of stuff!! 🥰

[@dianenerud300]

Hi Mary I really love ❤️ your video . I also love how you care for others . ❤ keep up the good work 🌈🌈Diane

[@kris1012]

It’s the mentality that somethin is better than nothin…if that person has ever donated before (which seems doubtful), they are the type that would ignore the list completely and just buy one random toy on the end cap at Dollar General and call it a day. Which, yes, is better than nothin, but…where’s the fun in that?

[@roxanatheresa]

You are doing an amazing thing by buying these kids gifts and I think it’s RIDICULOUS to even suggest that you’re spoiling these kids! Well if that’s the case then spoil away Mary!

[@spencerallegra]

Something I’ve really started to notice the last couple of weeks is that people freaking *LOVE* to tell others how they should be charitable. You’re doing something incredible for these kids! But people gotta bitch.

[@spencerallegra]

I truly can’t believe the way people complain about you doing this. It’s amazing that people can be so shitty as to bitch about you buying toys for kids in need. I’m honestly shocked at the comments you’ve gotten.. sending you internet hugs, Mary! You’re doing a really great thing!

[@ashleysiebler1764]

I remember the polo shirt guy!!! People like them are just so ridiculous. Complaining just to complain!

[@kimberlyferguson4460]

Zippers aren't heavy...WTH!! It's a lame excuse. I bet this person does this all the time to get Free crap. BTW.. I love how kind-hearted you are with the Angel presents. So awesome 😎👍

[@mariewahlberg9958]

💗 💗

[@susanp.4781]

Frustrating eBay situation and I believe you ran into a scammer or who knows how to play eBay as a buyer.

[@mjasmrtingles]

Hey Mary!!! Happy Sunday

[@everydaymary]

You too!!

[@funduedplays6952]

this is why i stoped doing free shiping

[@jasminevillanueva6628]

I appreciate you so much 🤍

[@xhu9675]

💗💗💗

[@clsyldy00]

What’s the name of the nail color ?

[@Thiccems69]

you can legit never please people f em!

[@elainegill2619]

Mary, I cannot believe you are having to explain,what you've done.You do exactly what you want to do? You are amazing for buying 1 child presents. But no youre buying for 5..& some mean spirited person asks why not buy for more?? Arethey kidding ?. I HOPE that they're doing what you're doing! And someone actually said you could be spoiling them.. Well yes I Hope hatt fyey do get Spoilt even for that one day!

[@deborahdrobnak5860]

Hi Mary!😊❤

[@AbigailArwen]

The words 'gentle reminder' are in itself a call out. So who started it? 😬🤣

[@usmcwife30]

😂🤣😂 7:48

[@FlorieFlowers43]

Hello Mary 👋

[@yellowsubmarine1321]

Hi Mary 💋💖

[@MrBibi86]

*Maybe next year if you decide to do it again you could get your kids to help. I used to help out in a charity shop when I was young and it was fulfilling to give back. as you would know. it's never too early to teach charity xx*