If I Can’t Have You l 20/20 l PART 1

Single mom Paige Birgfield goes missing in a small Colorado town: Part 1
Paige Birgfeld disappeared on the evening of June 28, 2007. Friends said the beloved mom was working a number of jobs to pay her bills.
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[@alexm566]

Somebody PLEASE tell ABC KZbin removed the 10 minute video length limit literally ten years ago.

[@yinlu3610]

I think they just want more views?

[@Therezumee92]

@@yinlu3610 They still can do 10 parts and post it all. They want people to go on their shitty site. Jokes on them, I can't see anything there anyway from my country. So I'll give those views to someone who will post the entire thing here on youtube. Their greedy a$$es just playing themselves at this point.

[@edithugorji6398]

Clickbate

[@crystalguerra6795]

There on HULU everyone 😕

[@alexm566]

@@polo3944 Thanks, I'll download it before they delete it LOL

[@brandyb2931]

Her childs phone calls were heartbreaking.

[@aprilrae6551]

Yes, it was heartbreaking. I think we have to be careful how we live our lives so that we don't leave our children too soon.

[@kimandcaffeine5999]

I thought about it for days after seeing this.

[@Math-in4dd]

Yes it's too sad, it torments me as well.

[@s.e.f8160]

Hearing her kids cry just absolutely gutted me.

[@sarbear9726]

Those poor children. My heart breaks listening to their voicemails asking when is she coming home. I'm in tears 😭😭

[@mikewill9185]

I’m in tears too

[@user-jc8py7dw7r]

No matter what she did to make a living, she didn’t deserve to die this way.

[@TPRighteous]

Yeah that sounds really nice but it's that choice that doesn't have her with her kids. Just not worth it!

[@lovelyirish6624]

@@TPRighteous but that's the whole point of the comment....it shouldn't matter what she did....no one should....no one has the right to be hurting / murdering......taking someone's life.

[@haarshanhaarshan7553]

Exactly

[@dog3513]

But what if she made a living murdering people? Or even worse ?

[@meghanmisaliar]

​@@TPRighteous exactly

[@jenniferatwell9698]

My heart broke listening to her kids beg her to come home.. those poor babies.. that's just so sad..

[@LTAries88]

To hear that baby crying for her mom to come home..... breaks my heart

[@oregon32nursenurse43]

🥺🥺😩😩😩Absolutely heart wrenching to hear her child begging her to come home......

[@rayrayqbaby]

That poor child's voicemails have me in tears. I had to turn the volume down and read the words on the screen because it was just way too hard to listen to. Poor baby.

[@mmsmart1014]

The situation is heartbreaking especially when the child looking for her to come home.

[@tamorap1614]

Sometimes a mother must do what she has to do to provide for her children. No one has right to judge.

[@meghanmisaliar]

Giving an OPINION is not "judging". My OPINION is that her CHOICE was reckless, dangerous and not worth it.

[@meghanmisaliar]

She didn't HAVE to do that. She CHOSE to.

[@mariareese9381]

Her baby’s voicemail just broke my heart.

[@renpilak6048]

I must remind myself not to click on your videos. They’re always incomplete!

[@mabella3437]

She was gorgeous on the outside & inside as well. So sad she didnt have a roommate. there is strength in numbers. GOD bless Paige and her family & friends.

[@AshlieMaddox]

I heard those messages on my babies voice! Bless those poor babies! Not knowing what to think or how to feel Bc mommy is ALWAYS there! 😢😢

[@MygovernmentNameisLondon]

Hearing her kids voicemails made me so sad. When I was a kid I was so connected to my mom. One day I threw a fit because I wanted her to take me to school instead of me taking the bus. She was late to work but still took me to school, there was a major pile up on the highway she took to work at the exact time she was supposed to be on it. But instead she took me to school. They knew something happened.

[@natalie9884]

Sad that her friends reference her in past tense, yet her parents still reference her in the present.

[@mikewill9185]

It’s so sad right.

[@Itskcdiaries]

This breaks my heart this story was on Ice t crime show she was a great mom doesn't matter her job . She didn't deserve this . My thoughts will always be with her family and children

[@aparnarajesh]

She worked hard to support children for better life

[@andreweston2377]

gotta love our moms the Backbone of Civilization, sorry that we got ah society that the babies grow to hate the ladies who make the babies

[@juliesprik9479]

I agree 💯 percent.

[@dilanarellanes7847]

ok tupac

[@andreweston2377]

@@dilanarellanes7847 alright bitch

[@andreweston2377]

@Gray Franklin I know but I’m talking Civilization without women ain’t no reproduction going on

[@johndoe3788]

@@andreweston2377 Room temperature IQ

[@kylieevolved7400]

My heart broke for her friend who spoke of Paige in the present tense. 💔

[@ciara6279]

Ok but why does that moms club sound so fun😭

[@HectorHernandez-mk2no]

Lmfao 😂🤣i bet it was

[@meghanmisaliar]

Not at all. A bunch of Karens and Beckys.

[@julieb7785]

Oh jeeze, this woman was anything but a normal "soccer mom." High risk behavior for the sake of supporting a McMansion lifestyle? The privilege of telling her Mom's Group she had a nanny? Abject insanity of 21st c. American Society.

[@heatherkrug8401]

I. Really liked when he said about feeling special that you are there

[@phillipsmom6252]

A live in Nanny? She couldn’t have been struggling financially that much. Live in nanny’s are not cheap.

[@shavonstevens2260]

When you’re live in nanny you actually don’t make as much as you think bc they basically pay for your living expenses as in room and board so the money you make outside of that is barely enough to make it for you other general living expenses

[@phillipsmom6252]

@@shavonstevens2260 ... Oh OK, well she had a six thousand dollar a month house payment. How’s that? Knucklehead

[@shavonstevens2260]

You’re really ignorant I’ll let you bask in all of that Phillips mom ! Enjoy it hope it feels amazing !

[@lalagigigglez]

She was definitely living above her means or had poor spending habits

[@meghanmisaliar]

​@@lalagigigglez both

[@eddilovee]

0:52 I was heading East right there on I-70. Saw a man on a horse climbing those mountains of rock. I thought the horse would tip over. Beautiful places to see west of Denver. East of Denver there’s nothing to see, just flat lands.

[@angie917]

I’m crying, the kids voice mails 😕😢

[@oceanstaiga5928]

nice to link the whole video but it can't be watched outside the US in all countries ._.

[@ademarbenitezaranjo8299]

3:41 The lit up the room moment ! =(

[@bhuvaneshwarij1326]

Every murdered person gets described like this🤤 thank god im an introvert and no one would say i light up a room

[@BenWinder108]

Is this going to be one of those ones I watch get to the end and they don't finish it?

[@caytonhopson3200]

this is a promo so yes they only got to part six but i later found out the full episode is in the bio but if you watch the full episode on their website it will have a lot of ads so be ready

[@mylxiong08]

You know the answer already, Joshua! WE ALL DO! haha

[@GraveTender333]

It's been a emotional day. And this is the icing of the cake of caring emotions... G night

[@bokani79]

Someone tell me where I can find the full length episode not these incomplete short clips from one of the biggest networks.

[@meghanmisaliar]

It's on 48 Hrs. All seasons are on Paramount

[@roxannemoser]

Why does ABC NEVER add part 2, etc!

[@lovelymayhem9851]

There’s a link to the full episode in the description section. They put the link in every single video.

[@ninthefrog3911]

Heartbreaking

[@caleclayton1987]

Do 2020 not do any new stories anymore??

[@natashabury-wilder4337]

I live in grand junction. Poor soul.

[@SweetHomeGeorgia]

Like someone else pointed out, why does every murder victim or what not, light up the room?

[@meghanmisaliar]

I'm so sick of hearing that. Or they "never met a stranger" or "had an amazing personality" etc etc

[@floridagurl40]

I lost a friend in a car accident in Grand Junction and when I was in the Army. Car accident 💔 I wish I had a live in Nanny for my dogs 🐕

[@dovinmali227]

Hello

[@meghanmisaliar]

Your point?

[@meghanmisaliar]

Ft Carson?

[@BrownyBird]

The family and friends of the murdered person always say, "She/he was an amazing person" And I always wonder " Were they?" 😩 Maybe yes. Maybe good people, but not angels!

[@9188jenni]

whats your point

[@pinkpugginz]

Paige was an amazing mom and business woman. she was stuck with a 6k month mortgage with a worthless abusive ex husband. she had to survive. you need to stop being judgemental. like you're some Saint smh

[@BrownyBird]

@@pinkpugginz ...NO! You got me completely wrong. Sorry for not making myself clear. I didn't mean her. It was just a general comment. Because watching all these cases always make me wonders if all the deceased are good people as the family say. I didn't mean her 😒

[@aprilrae6551]

I think Paige was a good person. But I think she didn't realize the danger that she was in. A woman who meets strange men, alone at night opens herself up to brutal rape, kidnapping, or worse.

[@xtscarfacem8255]

Me too.... i always think that not just good people die... its like a taboo to talk bad about death people or something. Not that this may be the case here but i notice no one does after the person passes.

[@Nolanoyayo]

How could she afford a nanny

[@lisab1818]

She was doing 4 jobs? It was also a live in nanny, so maybe didnt get paid that much to live in exchange for living in the house for free?

[@meghanmisaliar]

​@@lisab1818 yeah right. 😂😂😂. If it's a LIVE IN that's very expensive!

[@meghanmisaliar]

Because she was making good money obviously.

[@jamesbach1827]

There should be a group just for women WITHOUT CHILDREN.

[@HectorHernandez-mk2no]

Yes i agree

[@meghanmisaliar]

There are PLENTY of groups for single women. Duh.

[@Tammissa]

Who has a live in nanny that’s supposed be struggling with $.?

[@meghanmisaliar]

Thank you

[@honestandfair1572]

Where is the end??!

[@Fadingroses19]

She led a double life. She was an escort was was killed by Lester Jones. Her body was found nine years later and after this case was tried a second time they convicted him. So sad

[@NinjaOutfitInTheWash]

That’s a bit of a spoiler.

[@sarahjustice526]

@@NinjaOutfitInTheWash spoiler alert

[@Fadingroses19]

@@NinjaOutfitInTheWash it's called google

[@NinjaOutfitInTheWash]

@@Fadingroses19 right. What’s the point in watching episodes anyway, when you can just google it.

[@Fadingroses19]

@@NinjaOutfitInTheWash when you don't have tv or are too lazy to watch it lmao 🤣

[@anglofrancaiseyvonne9349]

Just by the title we know how that's ending

[@hopemccubbin8661]

This is really annoying. The show is interruppted every few SECONDS!!!

[@franco7928]

3 mins in and we still no where.

[@akhiiii8012]

No one's judging her. But it's true that if you chooses a path, along comes the consequences.

[@dianabeurman364]

True

[@Math-in4dd]

Yeah well be careful which street you walk on that fateful night you might cross a murderer's path... along with that choice may come dire consequences... Idiotic much ?

[@meghanmisaliar]

Exactly. And I'm tired of that "no one has the right to judge" nonsense. Actually, if you're in a comment section on social media then you should expect to read other opinions.

[@meghanmisaliar]

Doing that just to make money is reckless and dumb. Especially when you have kids.

[@ShayonceEpperson90]

She was that jack of all trades , super mom.! Show me a thing or too

[@cherylmaclean4349]

I’ll save you lots of time. Before you invest your precious time watching this series don’t bother…ABC doesn’t bother to post the last part. I watched 5 parts and they don’t post part 6. If you don’t live in the US you can’t watch the link for the has the entire video. Ridiculous. 😒

[@williamgregg6339]

They do this all the time.

[@bokani79]

Why are so many murders in colorado and utah?

[@GM-pw9vr]

3:42 “Punch Line”

[@leoo5552]

A lot of lighters.

[@romant142]

Every time lol

[@Pebbz30530]

Ummmm where is part 6. I saw 1 through 5 and...wtf...smh.

[@williamgregg6339]

They always do this. So aggravating.

[@padmashreeramamurthy]

Paige looks a bit like Andrea Yates

[@ETphonehome123]

Colorado....a place I love to visit however never live there....such a troubled state...

[@shavonstevens2260]

It’s not any more troubled then any other state it just gets reported more bc it’s a much smaller populated state then California or Chicago or even Florida where the crime is much much worse. I have lived her all my life it’s a beautiful state with many good grounded people

[@IsraelWillBeFree]

I've heard there's so much meth there..and it's nasty

[@lovelymayhem9851]

Do you need an invitation to join the moms club 😬

[@ivyvanderwall]

Girl looks like Reese Witherspoon

[@womenfemale1849]

Don't watched because they not GOING to give you the end .in 6 part

[@tammieknuth6020]

Mom/grandma

[@dilanarellanes7847]

she was so fineee

[@monkeymonkey8526]

Sorry but I have no sympathy for a mom who decides to prostitute herself so she can keep her house. She loved that house more than her kids since putting herself in harm's way was more important than the love and safety of her children. Disgusting.

[@findingjoy2657]

Is this the updated 20/20 of this case? Anyways, you can watch the full episode here, someone uploaded it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/f36Wf6Kpmrqab6s

[@GatorGirl04]

Thanks. KZbin will now delete it in a few hours and probably get rid of the channel too. Thanks so much🙄🙄🙄

[@galaxyglitterlatte4664]

@@GatorGirl04 Just removed my comment. Sorry. I didn't know that would be an issue.

[@faykouri1162]

@@GatorGirl04 it’s been removed

[@diamondchaingarments4342]

Finally

[@blameTheDane]

There is no low ABC wont go, to make entertainment. Even to go play the kids voice messages of horror which add NO content to the STORY, it's just put in like an extra explosion in a James Cameron movie. Poor editor who force to edit that part, because an executive saw an opportunity to "catch" the viewers attention. And poor kids which when grown up, can see how their horrors and loss was used. How THEY were used. Utterly disgusting, from someone not from America, i hope this is not as heartless you all are.

[@tecsamsungid6737]

4. .

[@kathismith7441]

This is olddd.

[@CatBrash]

i will save you the hassle, there is no ending

[@dovinmali227]

Hello

[@misssweetpea6936]

Don’t watch these they kept you hanging wanting you to pay and subscribe.

[@baumeister5705]

Oh no she did MLMs

[@misticmeg1275]

Ahh

[@williampippig3573]

A.J. Fox

[@yuukinishimura9346]

Oh gosh…

[@tammieknuth6020]

Father too dna strictly

[@geraldbarreno535]

I still can't figure out how man can pay this woman so much money for sex ..she was no even attractive at all she was ok .but no beautiful ..girl u should have got real job and different place to live and u may be alive today for sure ..fiel bad for her kids

[@monkeymonkey8526]

Agreed! Very plain woman.

[@jessicapollan4039]

​@monkeymonkey8526 She was very average looking

[@DHt8307]

Where are the black moms

[@Areyoumadnott]

Oh my god there are tons of videos on that watch itn

[@DHt8307]

@@Areyoumadnott she has black moms in her mom club?

[@Nolanoyayo]

Probably at their mom's group

[@kelseyjay3733]

Maybe mostly Caucasian in the city lol

[@SilasWWE16]

🤣🤦‍♀️

[@enigmariddle8222]

WHTE TRAILER TRASH DRAMA SO SICK SAME DRAMA WITH PEOPLE

[@alexgalvan4744]

Why do people always say to the most mediocre white women are stunning. They all look the same to me.

[@beckstyles3467]

because you're gay

[@alexgalvan4744]

@@beckstyles3467 I’m sure if I were gay I’d find them attractive lmao