If introverts had a translator on a date...

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Frank James

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Introvert Translator on a Date
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@FrankJames
@FrankJames 3 жыл бұрын
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@bobamsd5559
@bobamsd5559 3 жыл бұрын
I randomly started watching this channel a week ago and now cant stop watching your videos :) thank you, these videos make my day better
@MarissaCarterArtist
@MarissaCarterArtist 3 жыл бұрын
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@emmaransford
@emmaransford 3 жыл бұрын
Hi ok Frank Your brilliant value.
@shrimpsquad3956
@shrimpsquad3956 3 жыл бұрын
Yo Frank, you're getting closer and closer to 1M subs! Keep it up bro
@MrJ777666
@MrJ777666 3 жыл бұрын
🥲👍😂👌
@angelinaoliver1587
@angelinaoliver1587 3 жыл бұрын
Her: Can you tell me a little about yourself? Me: *heart rate quickens, rapid breathing, dark inner thoughts, second hand anxiety*
@soap5648
@soap5648 3 жыл бұрын
Me when the teacher does “ice-breakers”
@ursomrano542
@ursomrano542 3 жыл бұрын
I always hate that question because it’s so vague!! Do you want to know what I’m into, what my hobbies are or what my job is. Or maybe even how many times a day I sit and wonder if my life will ever get into motion only for me to realize that it’s already in motion.
@thearchangel8372
@thearchangel8372 3 жыл бұрын
*Always*
@UacnDinoo
@UacnDinoo 3 жыл бұрын
My ex used to ask this kind of questions all the time and most of the time I couldn't answer. Then we argue over it yaaay.
@slayre1408
@slayre1408 3 жыл бұрын
“Dark inner thoughts” Why is that the most relatable out of all of them
@benjaminmorris4962
@benjaminmorris4962 3 жыл бұрын
"Well, that didn't go well" - says the guy who caused 90% of the problems lmao
@zandrajohansson942
@zandrajohansson942 3 жыл бұрын
Ahh.. but you're looking at it all wrong.. Hank just potentially saved his client and whatever-her-name-was years worth of time and suffering. Awkward and embarrassing, sure, but that's it. Clearly a win as far as I'm concerned.
@ONFIREYO
@ONFIREYO 3 жыл бұрын
@@zandrajohansson942 this guy gets it
@alanamontero4743
@alanamontero4743 3 жыл бұрын
Nah, the problems were on both sides. She didn't exactly do a great job either.
@sariahsue
@sariahsue 3 жыл бұрын
I'm reminded of Mushu from the animated Mulan movie. "We have to work on your people skills."
@ladyducatnip
@ladyducatnip 3 жыл бұрын
Introversion: so much inner dialogue, so little time to let it shine in social interactions. We all need a Hank. 👽✌️😏
@soap5648
@soap5648 3 жыл бұрын
*this*
@adrianpamintuan5876
@adrianpamintuan5876 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha too true
@ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882
@ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882 3 жыл бұрын
Hank literaly will kill our romantic date/dinner .🙄
@Gokulkumar142
@Gokulkumar142 3 жыл бұрын
Yeeeesssss I nneeeeeeddddd him soooooo much
@ritaruggerone4434
@ritaruggerone4434 3 жыл бұрын
The alien face...too relatable tho 😆
@miriamw.
@miriamw. 3 жыл бұрын
I now have an idea of how two introverts with translators on a date would go. 😂
@lojanta
@lojanta 3 жыл бұрын
Or any conversation xD
@leah8894
@leah8894 3 жыл бұрын
Video idea👀
@thatinfjgirl
@thatinfjgirl 3 жыл бұрын
Apparently, it wouldn't go well 😅😔
@GameplayzOfficial
@GameplayzOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
It would be so good, it's like having an personal event planner.
@iwannacry8218
@iwannacry8218 3 жыл бұрын
@Leah :3 yep 👀
@ry8880
@ry8880 3 жыл бұрын
"Why don't you tell me a little bit about yourself?" Me as Introvert: "Wait, let me think. I need more minutes, please. Please give me more minutes. Ok, I give up! Nothing I can say" 😂
@skf2658
@skf2658 3 жыл бұрын
Ah, you just need to say...what do you want to know. I hate this question as well, but because I have so many things I could say and can't decide what to say...so I just say, 'What do you want to know?'
@helgaioannidis9365
@helgaioannidis9365 3 жыл бұрын
When I was younger I usually would start talking about my very extrovert brother,when asked about myself 😂😂😂
@sirphil13
@sirphil13 3 жыл бұрын
Really? I like hitting the ball back into their court, and to remain mysterious, which is far sexier than showing all your cards on the first date....make her work for that privilege, besides women love to talk, and letting them... feminizes them...win/win.
@sirphil13
@sirphil13 3 жыл бұрын
@@skf2658 agree...hit the ball back into their court
@helgaioannidis9365
@helgaioannidis9365 3 жыл бұрын
@@sirphil13 do introvert women exist in your universe? 🤔
@EllenJuni
@EllenJuni 3 жыл бұрын
Frank: “I’m gonna marry that girl” Frank 2 seconds later: “what was her name again?”😂😂
@StarryNights750
@StarryNights750 3 жыл бұрын
That's literally me! 😂
@jesskealyart
@jesskealyart 3 жыл бұрын
The ironic thing is...I don’t remember her name and this convo was only 3 minutes long! 😭
@karenjahn9600
@karenjahn9600 3 жыл бұрын
@Issac Bueno Same, I suck at remembering names...
@karenjahn9600
@karenjahn9600 3 жыл бұрын
@@jesskealyart Same...
@tonikc8465
@tonikc8465 3 жыл бұрын
@@jesskealyart i had to go back to the beginning of the video
@blackoceancreativeuniverse
@blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 жыл бұрын
I really admire that girl for showing up as her most authentic self, beard and all.
@hejmRage
@hejmRage 3 жыл бұрын
🤣👏
@blackoceancreativeuniverse
@blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 жыл бұрын
@@hejmRage I know, right?
@PickleFox
@PickleFox 3 жыл бұрын
@@blackoceancreativeuniverse yea!
@annipsy2185
@annipsy2185 3 жыл бұрын
‌heyyy.what beard?
@tinaperez7393
@tinaperez7393 3 жыл бұрын
Our Frank didn't shave on purpose, especially for the occasion / video. 😆
@therealtrissmerigold
@therealtrissmerigold 3 жыл бұрын
"My social memory has a very limited capacity." Spot on.😂
@10_Roads
@10_Roads 3 жыл бұрын
I felt that XD
@PierreLucSex
@PierreLucSex 3 жыл бұрын
Too
@nehadeora253
@nehadeora253 3 жыл бұрын
Yes😂😂
@courtneystuart9265
@courtneystuart9265 3 жыл бұрын
For real, I didn’t even realize this is how I was until he said that
@Gaze73
@Gaze73 3 жыл бұрын
I don't remember the birthday of anyone but me, does that count as limited capacity?
@mustafabashir2002
@mustafabashir2002 3 жыл бұрын
Frank Be Out There being more Accurate than Psychologists.
@ananya2611
@ananya2611 3 жыл бұрын
Exactlyyy!😂
@TheAzynder
@TheAzynder 3 жыл бұрын
Yet he portrayed what ever this is as being an introvert when it means nothing of a sort.
@varshinikumaravel3946
@varshinikumaravel3946 3 жыл бұрын
Yes , convince me otherwise
@secretsunshine2072
@secretsunshine2072 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a psychologist. So I've subscribe to Franck's channel to be more accurate with people. 😁 Sorry for my approximate english, I'm french.
@johndavid2004
@johndavid2004 3 жыл бұрын
@@secretsunshine2072 I'mma help you , subscribe to " pursuit of wonders ". Kinda full of wonders right there. 🙃😅
@simplysaifskits3847
@simplysaifskits3847 3 жыл бұрын
And we wouldn't talk to the translator directly, we'd only TEXT him.
@alexachipman
@alexachipman 3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@tiredcaffeine
@tiredcaffeine 3 жыл бұрын
Actually, if we say that this translator will know what we meant to say even if it sounds like completely irrevelant, then I think it would not be that hard to talk to him/her.
@mounikasampangi3589
@mounikasampangi3589 3 жыл бұрын
Selahattin Koçak 🤯😅
@Anny-me9ny
@Anny-me9ny 3 жыл бұрын
“So can you tell me a bit about yourself?” Introverts: and *we* took that personally
@ferzinhaN
@ferzinhaN 3 жыл бұрын
It feels like an invasion of my privacy.
@emilydesrosiers9034
@emilydesrosiers9034 3 жыл бұрын
This is where i fail in interviews.
@igothisoncamera7205
@igothisoncamera7205 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@toadssugar
@toadssugar 3 жыл бұрын
Ussr
@Mia-pc7sp
@Mia-pc7sp 3 жыл бұрын
R I G H T . . . . . .
@ArtistIntuiting
@ArtistIntuiting 3 жыл бұрын
''Drift off into a self conscious spiral'' …I do that waaay too often lol 😆
@hollyvincentart
@hollyvincentart 3 жыл бұрын
Did Hank even ask if he could join you on this date or did he just invite himself? As if he doesn't trust you or something 😂😂
@boyfai1ure.
@boyfai1ure. 3 жыл бұрын
So... The introvert Translator is technically a creepy guy who stalks you, follows you where you go, explains your thoughts which means he must be some kind of dark empath thing who haunts you and ruins your life and tells your dates, friends, family your actual thoughts on them and ruins you life and prevents you from getting a job and you'll be lonely and need the relaxing meditation session.
@yazajag
@yazajag 3 жыл бұрын
Lol but you qsk him to translate for you. I think he returns to q box when you don't need him.
@boyfai1ure.
@boyfai1ure. 3 жыл бұрын
@@yazajag But he's always watching you~
@scarratata
@scarratata 3 жыл бұрын
And that's why the introvert translator is amazing ahahaha
@leah_nebula
@leah_nebula 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine if *insert upper post* BuT itS okAY
@akifnorzaimi
@akifnorzaimi 3 жыл бұрын
Remember don't overthink
@isacubes
@isacubes 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone: Haha yeah that's true introverts haha funny. Me: Frank got a new wig.
@boyfai1ure.
@boyfai1ure. 3 жыл бұрын
Y e p
@ThePriestess1949
@ThePriestess1949 3 жыл бұрын
YES!!!🤪
@danielabenitez1264
@danielabenitez1264 3 жыл бұрын
Nope, I am pretty sure that wig is the one he used in a 16 Personalities sketch, 16 Personalities as Sisters
@oxymoronic717
@oxymoronic717 3 жыл бұрын
@@danielabenitez1264 And 16 personalities as moms in quarantine, I believe
@ceilinh6004
@ceilinh6004 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah. That wig isn't new. It does suit him better than the blonde wig though. LOL
@vannghitran8217
@vannghitran8217 3 жыл бұрын
the introvert proceed to send weird texts and regret his life forever
@TsukiNaito1
@TsukiNaito1 3 жыл бұрын
"Tell me a little about yourself." I stay in my room as much as possible, write stories I'm too embarrassed to talk about, watch the same tv shows over and over, and slip slowly into existential panic.
@TsukiNaito1
@TsukiNaito1 3 жыл бұрын
@travis Rm You are Me, and I am You.
@agnesco00
@agnesco00 3 жыл бұрын
There are millions like you. It just means you're a teenager
@TsukiNaito1
@TsukiNaito1 3 жыл бұрын
@@agnesco00 I'm nearly 27. 😂
@kvi7524
@kvi7524 3 жыл бұрын
@@TsukiNaito1 lmao
@olafgurke4699
@olafgurke4699 3 жыл бұрын
Damn, that sounds familiar.
@liamhenderson7367
@liamhenderson7367 3 жыл бұрын
I love how there is absolutely 0 voice acting beyond the different personalities. I mean this as a compliment. Despite the lack of voices, it's still very clear that they are separate characters. I honestly think more people should do skits like this.
@williamoforangedidnothingwrong
@williamoforangedidnothingwrong 3 жыл бұрын
"and then im gonna marry that girl! what was her name again..." get out of my head Frank James, that was to accurate
@ditchranemanable
@ditchranemanable 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't even remember she had said her name... so...
@alexachipman
@alexachipman 3 жыл бұрын
10 dates later, I'd still be like "what was her name" I am seriously bad at remembering any names.
@laviniasnow4494
@laviniasnow4494 3 жыл бұрын
She said her name?! 🤨
@mshaqed2538
@mshaqed2538 3 жыл бұрын
Loved your username
@moneyguy2008
@moneyguy2008 3 жыл бұрын
* too accurate
@aviralsinghal1274
@aviralsinghal1274 3 жыл бұрын
Very bold of you to assume we introvert go on real dates. Imaginary dates is what we do. Sed lyfe.
@breeeeeaaathofthewild
@breeeeeaaathofthewild 3 жыл бұрын
Oof, yes. Imaginary dates✌️ Haha... -INFJ
@thatinfjgirl
@thatinfjgirl 3 жыл бұрын
Don't need a Hank on imaginary dates! 😉
@louisejoel
@louisejoel 3 жыл бұрын
@@thatinfjgirl I have never once fantasised about going on an imaginary date, just like I never fantasise about going to job interviews
@cdiessner711
@cdiessner711 3 жыл бұрын
"First date in 7 years" soooo relatable 😂
@dbisht13
@dbisht13 3 жыл бұрын
Haha.....I was going to write the same 😂
@mirowhzo5750
@mirowhzo5750 3 жыл бұрын
Wait- Y’all go on dates?
@dbisht13
@dbisht13 3 жыл бұрын
@@mirowhzo5750 more like "taken" .... and if that once in seven years date turns out to be like the one in this video, does it really count 😝
@scarratata
@scarratata 3 жыл бұрын
The worst question ever : "Why don't you tell me a little bit about yourself?" Me : ..... Also me 5 min. later : Well... I'm a person...I can breathe and I do a lot of things... I guess "Do you want to ask me any questions?" Me: Do you believe in Aliens?
@nospecialmeaning2
@nospecialmeaning2 3 жыл бұрын
Infj in response: oh, why don't you take a seat and why don't we order something (politely pulls the chair and smiles to win some time to think)
@tsbio
@tsbio 3 жыл бұрын
This is often the first question in an job interview as well. I am always thinking, "did you not read the Resume and Cover Letter that I spend hours working on to tell you everything you need to know about me and how I qualify for the position, according to the job description".
@mftcuaresma
@mftcuaresma 3 жыл бұрын
You had me at ALIENS 👽👽👽
@scarratata
@scarratata 3 жыл бұрын
@@mftcuaresma ahahaha
@TheFren
@TheFren 3 жыл бұрын
I never ever would ask anyone then question. Wouldn't even cross my mind. Guess that's why introverts like talking to me.
@erezsolomon3838
@erezsolomon3838 3 жыл бұрын
Frank should probably start with remembering her name...
@TheFren
@TheFren 3 жыл бұрын
My second boyfriend told me he knew I was something special when he was able to remember my name. 😅
@raysmith6731
@raysmith6731 3 жыл бұрын
I had a Zoom interview last year and when the interviewer asked me to tell her about myself, I instantly shut down my computer without even thinking ☠️
@ferzinhaN
@ferzinhaN 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣😭 You have it bad!
@gayvodka1849
@gayvodka1849 3 жыл бұрын
I prepared my interview answers for like 2 weeks before the actual interview so that this wouldn't happen 😭
@philippebarbosafiorin6601
@philippebarbosafiorin6601 3 жыл бұрын
"Tell me a bit about yourself" Me: *first job interview flashbacks*
@thatinfjgirl
@thatinfjgirl 3 жыл бұрын
😭
@sab-ali
@sab-ali 3 жыл бұрын
@@thatinfjgirl hahahaha
@SingingMusicals92
@SingingMusicals92 3 жыл бұрын
I feel that 😂
@KaykyG018
@KaykyG018 3 жыл бұрын
Oh shi-
@Gaze73
@Gaze73 3 жыл бұрын
"Sure, what exactly would you like to know?" And then you're back to easy specific questions.
@meghnadeepak4283
@meghnadeepak4283 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes introverts need a translator just to process and make sense of their own emotions
@ConnanTheCivilized
@ConnanTheCivilized 3 жыл бұрын
Understanding yourself half the battle. You just need to cut out the translator’s tongue so they won’t tell everyone else what you think.
@meghnadeepak4283
@meghnadeepak4283 3 жыл бұрын
@@ConnanTheCivilized you are soooo right
@haleighcooper2479
@haleighcooper2479 3 жыл бұрын
"Tell me a bit about yourself" Me: *internal panic* *Pterodactyl screech*
@ConnanTheCivilized
@ConnanTheCivilized 3 жыл бұрын
You have a pterodactyl in tour head to?
@Galiaverse
@Galiaverse 3 жыл бұрын
Mine is Ridley from the Metroid series. He's awesome. :D
@Snowowl64
@Snowowl64 3 жыл бұрын
Me Too!!!!
@katannep7798
@katannep7798 3 жыл бұрын
“I’m going to marry that girl”... Such a romantic at heart! reminds me of Frank’s story about the girl in the airport.
@katiearnesen2881
@katiearnesen2881 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVED THAT STORY!!! Thank you Frank. You and me are heart pals
@omdam9
@omdam9 3 жыл бұрын
Stop asking vague questions to introverts, be specific.
@fiorellalescano
@fiorellalescano 3 жыл бұрын
Haha, I had to rewatch the video just to know her name. :P
@ponderer04
@ponderer04 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@daisythomas7567
@daisythomas7567 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@riswanaartbook6400
@riswanaartbook6400 3 жыл бұрын
Haha same. I just forgot her name by the end of the video. But did not re watch it. I'm too lazy and i don't care what the name is. Istp😂
@ajeeteppakayala6788
@ajeeteppakayala6788 3 жыл бұрын
This guy has the least dislike ratio I've ever seen, like on his every video. Introverts too reluctant to openly dislike things or it's just great content?
@codyw1
@codyw1 3 жыл бұрын
I think it speaks to us a little too much. :p
@horstdraper4551
@horstdraper4551 3 жыл бұрын
Actually, I've never hit like or dislike on any video ever, and rarely comment. Because who am I to judge? But I will say he missed on one aspect: I expect most introverts remember the names of people they bother to interact with one-on-one. And I also expect they'll remember the answers to any questions they ask, since if I don't care about the answer, I won't ask. For starters, would never ask a first date what she does for a living just for a socially acceptable open, which is also why I don't date much. Well, one of many, many reasons.
@ST-yc7uj
@ST-yc7uj 3 жыл бұрын
@@horstdraper4551 the nervousness can make you forgetful
@TheFuture36520
@TheFuture36520 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣👏
@CeceliaS69
@CeceliaS69 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine two introverts going on a date with each other and they both bring along their translators 🤣🤣🤣
@sab-ali
@sab-ali 3 жыл бұрын
Perfect couple right there!
@anciennelegende
@anciennelegende 3 жыл бұрын
Yes... I did it with my introvert boyfriend. Now we are the four in couple ( :
@contingenc3548
@contingenc3548 3 жыл бұрын
“Think of me as a third wheel that keeps the bike from crashing into a ditch” 🤣👏🏽🙌🏽
@tikaardhany7568
@tikaardhany7568 3 жыл бұрын
So on upcoming date, don't bring Hank, just you and Jamie, but don't talk to each other. You two better sit side by side and texting instead of talking. 🤭
@ConnanTheCivilized
@ConnanTheCivilized 3 жыл бұрын
Perfection
@sab-ali
@sab-ali 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@helenwood8482
@helenwood8482 3 жыл бұрын
Closest I ever came to love was a friendship with a sweet, introverted poet penfriend. In letters, we could both be ourselves. But when he got romantic, I had to let him go. I knew he could do better than me.
@noo343
@noo343 3 жыл бұрын
@@helenwood8482 well you're in luck I cannot do better than anyone I'm an introvert what's up
@SamElle
@SamElle 3 жыл бұрын
the date itself is bad but like I would say the moment before the date is also as bad. Like when you get there early and you're just waiting for the person to arrive and you have no clue where they're coming from and whether you'll be able to see them and you're just there standing there and AGH
@Opuskrokus
@Opuskrokus 3 жыл бұрын
The moments after the date are also bad. Or rather the reoccurring memories of the date for the rest of your life are bad.
@joelcruz5326
@joelcruz5326 3 жыл бұрын
So true 😂😭😭
@SamElle
@SamElle 3 жыл бұрын
@@Opuskrokus omg i get flashbacks all the time...
@SamElle
@SamElle 3 жыл бұрын
@@joelcruz5326 now I try to be the late one all the time so theyre the one looking for me and I dont have to look for them LOL
@Starbits7
@Starbits7 3 жыл бұрын
Or if they deviate. "We'll meet out front" Then they're INSIDE and you've been standing out front for 10 mins and they come out & look at you like you're mental because you didn't go in. Like, why would you GO IN if you said wait outside?!! Happened twice to me and I just waited like an idiot...thinking "Well if I go in and they show up outside and wait..." UGH
@aptthedoctor2703
@aptthedoctor2703 3 жыл бұрын
"I noticed a star trek bumper sticker on your car which is something he could talk about for a disturbing number of hours" That felt directed at me as a introvert and a trekkie XD
@merytsitmaat9308
@merytsitmaat9308 2 жыл бұрын
Been there. Done that.
@NihilistEmier
@NihilistEmier 3 жыл бұрын
Are we not gonna talk about his beautiful girlfriend
@LeandraMaphorisa
@LeandraMaphorisa 3 жыл бұрын
"Mostly because I have the fear that telling you about myself at any length will bore you to tears" That right there is the highest truth for me😅😅😅😅People usually get bored at the mention of my hobbies so now I just keep quiet😅
@sab-ali
@sab-ali 3 жыл бұрын
So right. I wonder why they even bother to ask when they are not rven gonna pay attention.
@LeandraMaphorisa
@LeandraMaphorisa 3 жыл бұрын
@@sab-ali It sucks.
@tuluppampam
@tuluppampam 3 жыл бұрын
"sometimes I just sit there, stare into the void and lose myself in thoughts"
@LeandraMaphorisa
@LeandraMaphorisa 3 жыл бұрын
@@tuluppampam I do this too many times to count😂😂😂
@Priya-qj6xn
@Priya-qj6xn 3 жыл бұрын
Me: This is soooo exaggerated. I can make a small talk The hank inside me: oh can you?(with an evil smile) Me: quits small talk for the rest of my life
@micaelag487
@micaelag487 3 жыл бұрын
Hank reminds me of what my extrovert sister would do if she came on a date with me... but then I realize that would never happen because - hello - I can’t get a date 😅 That would require going outside and *gulp* talking to people. Spooky.
@olafgurke4699
@olafgurke4699 3 жыл бұрын
Very relatable. And even more outlandish: people actually being interested in you.
@micaelag487
@micaelag487 3 жыл бұрын
Haha good one. So true! 😂😭
@enlumineresse
@enlumineresse 3 жыл бұрын
Frank you're reaching new levels of awesomeness... 🤣 too good!
@skf2658
@skf2658 3 жыл бұрын
I actually think the worst question is..."What are you thinking about?" I always want to say, 'if I wanted you to know, I'd tell you.'
@Snowowl64
@Snowowl64 3 жыл бұрын
ABS0LUTLY!!!!
@Mr3kiwis
@Mr3kiwis Жыл бұрын
Not every introvert is like that, though. Sometimes, it just doesn't occur to them to speak until they're spoken to. It often goes back to the not thinking something is interesting enough to other people to voluntarily share.
@christinejorwen9069
@christinejorwen9069 3 жыл бұрын
But why leave the date, he was so cute... It's Jamie's loss.
@Caitlin_Mitchell
@Caitlin_Mitchell 3 жыл бұрын
Duuude thank you, I couldn't remember her name lol
@mariblue72
@mariblue72 3 жыл бұрын
Wait was that here name? I was thinking it was Sarah or Sally. 🤦🏼‍♀️
@AnnikaJoy
@AnnikaJoy 3 жыл бұрын
His confidence when he said he’d marry that girl, but he didn’t remember her name 😂 is this supposed to be an ISFP??
@lindsaymorrison7519
@lindsaymorrison7519 3 жыл бұрын
Here's a very specific idea: Introvert who actually has done very interesting things before on a date still uncomfortable talking about themself because they still feel deeply boring (or just braggy) despite speaking multiple languages, publishing a novel, and having traveled extensively and still having no idea what to say after that summary.
@Christina-cf9ot
@Christina-cf9ot 3 жыл бұрын
"my social memory has a very limited capacity" I asked the sister of a co-worker what she did for a living.... Three times.... In under two hours. 😭
@read_to_me_a_book_with_samira
@read_to_me_a_book_with_samira 3 жыл бұрын
has a lot of internal conversations with himself...🗣️👤
@jess8618
@jess8618 3 жыл бұрын
If I had a dollar for every time I had social anxiety in basically any such conversation, I would be a millionaire by now
@StephanieJeanne
@StephanieJeanne 3 жыл бұрын
Hank and Frank! 😂 I guess I missed that previously. I love the look on your face while the translator talks. And the introvert glasses. 😆 Better luck next time! 😉👏👏✌️
@wackywolf6871
@wackywolf6871 3 жыл бұрын
"what was her name again?" Best line in the entire video!
@aliisy9194
@aliisy9194 3 жыл бұрын
Plot twist : Frank’s girlfriend is also an introvert, although a little bit more sociable than Frank himself. And she also has her introvert translator... and that is Hank’s sister
@HackersSun
@HackersSun 3 жыл бұрын
This is a joke But this is my worst nightmare Its why I'm scared to date at all
@christellen3077
@christellen3077 3 жыл бұрын
Make 'no' 's your energizer. Erm not in a way that'll turn you into an abuser. Lol . Just in a way that makes you know deep down that if you have the desire for a spouse God made you one. And without forgetting that you are complete in Christ no other human being can make you whole cause we all flawed. Aye be blessed in Jesus name. The Prince of Peace.
@KaigaiCocoBeer
@KaigaiCocoBeer 3 жыл бұрын
@@christellen3077 not sure how did you find this as an opportunity to spread the Christianity, but anyways thanks for the advise. After I broke up months earlier I realized how difficult it is to find a crush that could understand introverts(like me). But thanks for reminding there is a person already prepared for both of us(future crush), I just need the paitience from now on.
@christellen3077
@christellen3077 3 жыл бұрын
@@KaigaiCocoBeer Yep and I pray it is more than a crush, a spouse, meant and prepared to be with the prepared version of you to achieve with you Your God given purposed. Be blessed !!!
@mlorpf
@mlorpf 3 жыл бұрын
@@christellen3077 Religion should be something personal imo, and I think it's kind of creepy (or at least presumptuous) how much you talk about God and Jesus when you're talking about someone else's life. I personally don't like the idea that dating has to be such a big deal, with marriage in mind and everything. It's cool if it is that way for you, but maybe don't push that kind of mindset onto strangers on the internet. Especially introverts, we have enough anxiety when it comes to dating as it is...
@astoldbynickgerr
@astoldbynickgerr 3 жыл бұрын
If I’m ever rich, I’m getting a translator like one of these.
@ilener1698
@ilener1698 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I love introverts. That inner language is HILARIOUS! I flock to them just to open them up and hear that hysterical internal dialogue. I can listen for hours and laugh so much. I am not an introvert at all but I was raised with a parent who was and now I feel like a introvert whisperer. Lol
@boyka235
@boyka235 3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I have to talk about myself, every negative thing about me comes to mind
@thatinfjgirl
@thatinfjgirl 3 жыл бұрын
Or I think of all the negative complaints of my life at the moment.
@Snowowl64
@Snowowl64 3 жыл бұрын
Yep.... Me Too!!!!
@Pandorash8
@Pandorash8 3 жыл бұрын
As an extrovert I find this fascinating. My late husband was an introvert and after finding out that his friends had, in the distant past, tried to set him up with another very introverted friend I joked that the relationship would entail them sitting together, not talking for hours. He said, “sounds fantastic.” 🤣 Cheeky bugger. I miss him so much 😭 Love to all introverts 💞
@paulryan9818
@paulryan9818 Жыл бұрын
That actually does sound fantastic to any introvert, believe me. :D
@aestheticpotato2349
@aestheticpotato2349 3 жыл бұрын
Introvert & Translator deserve 4 seasons and a movie!
@DiamanteDea
@DiamanteDea 3 жыл бұрын
introvert does not equal shy or reclusive... Im an introvert but am outgoing with strangers and friends and love going out at least once a week😊😊😊😊
@slavicmontana4780
@slavicmontana4780 3 жыл бұрын
Tell me about yourself: Me: I was born at a very young age
@DiamanteDea
@DiamanteDea 3 жыл бұрын
😅😂😂😂😂stealing
@51stcenturygirl
@51stcenturygirl 3 жыл бұрын
😆🤣🤣 Brilliant, thanks! I finally know how to answer that question. Humour for the win!
@COHM2
@COHM2 3 жыл бұрын
"What was her name again?"" Me: "wait, there was a name?"
@helenwood8482
@helenwood8482 3 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@AmokRazer7331
@AmokRazer7331 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot for your Videos FJ ... I hope it doesnt sounds to weird ... but you're actually helping me understand myself better ... i always thought im just a creepy weirdo with no energy ... but im actually just an introvert i guess... Thank you alot for your awesome work! Stay Healthy everyone!
@athmabhashana8844
@athmabhashana8844 3 жыл бұрын
This man’s female acting is so underrated 😂
@naiaddore1797
@naiaddore1797 3 жыл бұрын
The "social memory" part is so relatable. In my case it's not just being a bit socially awkward, I also have adhd. Talk about the mental olympics! 😅😂🤣
@dialiann
@dialiann 3 жыл бұрын
I've gotten better at the "Tell me about yourself" question for job interviews. For dating, my brain just goes blank. I try to get the other person to talk more so they could remind me what I like to do lol
@hollywwooddoll
@hollywwooddoll 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@theghost449
@theghost449 3 жыл бұрын
"Perhaps you'd like to go on a date with my dad instead of me" *nods in agreement*
@katiearnesen2881
@katiearnesen2881 3 жыл бұрын
Heheh I couldn't tell if he was so caught up in his thoughts that he didn't catch it, or if he was pragmatically thinking, "yeah he sounds fun to talk to!"
@theghost449
@theghost449 3 жыл бұрын
@@katiearnesen2881 I mean.. He does sound cool lmao
@valentinamihalciuc
@valentinamihalciuc 3 жыл бұрын
Translator for an introvert on a date. Me: Are you guys going on dates?
@shrek3081
@shrek3081 3 жыл бұрын
lol the worst is when the teacher asks each of you to share something about yourself- like idk I'm really good at breathing-
@tuluppampam
@tuluppampam 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not even good at breathing
@mmabellee
@mmabellee 3 жыл бұрын
I think we all need a hank in our lifetime😂
@victorsrur134
@victorsrur134 2 жыл бұрын
0:47 "first date in seven years" as a INTJ I must say, this hits right home LOL
@zoeallen6734
@zoeallen6734 3 жыл бұрын
1:16- why is this so true?? like I really don't know an interesting fact about me or tell them and then they have something to talk about to make the conversation laster.
@catlleyasuico163
@catlleyasuico163 2 жыл бұрын
you are hilarious and it is informative at the same time for people who isn’t familiar with introverts. a lot of this content is so true too.
@dracsharp
@dracsharp 3 жыл бұрын
Them: Tell me who you are. You: Who am i?
@thatinfjgirl
@thatinfjgirl 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😭
@louisejoel
@louisejoel 3 жыл бұрын
Very zen
@redroselace9545
@redroselace9545 3 жыл бұрын
Hank is such a reliable name. 1:58 look 😫🤣🤣🤣
@nicoleonfeels
@nicoleonfeels 3 жыл бұрын
It should be a standard for introverts to bring translators to dates 🙃
@thatinfjgirl
@thatinfjgirl 3 жыл бұрын
Or at least someone who can do the small talk for us.
@moizaazar
@moizaazar 3 жыл бұрын
Whenever some asks me to tell them about myself I instantly forget just who I am
@joyvincent4375
@joyvincent4375 2 жыл бұрын
Even as an extrovert, these are still funny 😄 😆 🤣
@dandeliondesigns
@dandeliondesigns 3 жыл бұрын
So glad I’m not the only one to forget names... even when I really like them!
@christineherrmann205
@christineherrmann205 3 жыл бұрын
I sort of really wanted to hear the Star Trek banter.
@ConnanTheCivilized
@ConnanTheCivilized 3 жыл бұрын
My inner “Alphys” knows no chill though. That conversation could last till my date cuts their own throat, if I even notice.
@christineherrmann205
@christineherrmann205 3 жыл бұрын
@@ConnanTheCivilized 😂!
@dominusvolpus8031
@dominusvolpus8031 3 жыл бұрын
This is as golden as the melted gold the Parthians poured down the Roman General Crassius
@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau
@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau 3 жыл бұрын
1:47 If I'm making enough eye contact. xD
@bob-vf8mw
@bob-vf8mw 3 жыл бұрын
"which is something this guy could talk about easily for a disturbing number of hours" i can relate
@shynshynee5212
@shynshynee5212 3 жыл бұрын
So related! I'm an ambivert and i want to be an "introvert translator" if there is any job like that out there
@ConnanTheCivilized
@ConnanTheCivilized 3 жыл бұрын
Being a salesman or a politician? I know hardly flattering, sorry. 🤷
@MT-vw3le
@MT-vw3le 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that Frank’s videos are the only reminder that I have to start the week and work and stuff makes very anxious
@shanmahoshada2926
@shanmahoshada2926 3 жыл бұрын
Introverts don't post saying that they were introverts...because they always think why should other care about my stuff. It's freaking weard man
@MelanieButera
@MelanieButera Жыл бұрын
Omg the social memory line and the “I’m going to be constantly thinking about if I’m making enough eye contact.” Line is so true. Even with people I know, I overthink everything and because I’m so busy with that I miss what actually happens in our conversations.
@peachiemana9688
@peachiemana9688 3 жыл бұрын
"Tell me a little bit about yourself" Me: Yeah so....I'm a homo sapien.
@TheQwuilleran
@TheQwuilleran 3 жыл бұрын
Two introverts go on a date. Their interpreters really hit it off.
@charmi839
@charmi839 3 жыл бұрын
Someone: "So, Tell me about yourself?" Me: Forgets her name and who she is 🤡.
@rinwesley3092
@rinwesley3092 3 жыл бұрын
Introverts are terribly cute to me. My husband was the same way when we first met, only he didn't have a translator. Now I've become his translator.
@Alex-pm4tq
@Alex-pm4tq 3 жыл бұрын
INTP : yes this has happened to me. I saw a cute girl with star trek sticker on her binder though. so it was easy to work up the courage to talk to her because I can in fact discuss star trek for a disturbing amount of time. Her: oh.. this is my brothers binder . Me:......fake laughs so things aren't awkward making things more awkward . Then apologies to for talking to her. Yeah...
@ConnanTheCivilized
@ConnanTheCivilized 3 жыл бұрын
Worse. Pretty much the same thing happened to me and it turned out she was my overprotective “friend’s” cousin.
@alexachipman
@alexachipman 3 жыл бұрын
I was in college and the guy next to me had a Star Trek sticker on his binder. It was the first class so I thought hey I can do this, I can initiate a conversation. Nope. He proceeded to explain why girls cannot like Star Trek, they are only fake fans. I got so angry that I silently pulled out every piece of Star Trek gear I happened to have on me (it was a lot right down to my keychain). "Fake fan? Then why do I randomly carry all this around?" He got really flustered and got up and went to the other side of the classroom. Needless to say that was the last time I ever tried to start a conversation at school.
@Alex-pm4tq
@Alex-pm4tq 3 жыл бұрын
@@alexachipman that doesn't even sound real honestly. He's the fake fan taking away a piece of someone's Identity based on the opposite of what star trek principles teach.
@Melanie-jy2nw
@Melanie-jy2nw 3 жыл бұрын
the social memory part!!! I relate so much!
@ellybean7354
@ellybean7354 3 жыл бұрын
The glorious wig has returned
@Sam_Antha74
@Sam_Antha74 3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your videos, Frank. Thanks! -INFP ☘️
@ellybean7354
@ellybean7354 3 жыл бұрын
The return of the Hank
@stacyowl1658
@stacyowl1658 3 жыл бұрын
for some reason I always find the “tell me about yourself” questions the hardest to answer
@DiamanteDea
@DiamanteDea 3 жыл бұрын
Its really vague and not very personal
@madibis8144
@madibis8144 3 жыл бұрын
Wait, other people are like this? I don't secretly have autism but everyone pretends I don't for being like this?
@harshavi7063
@harshavi7063 3 жыл бұрын
Well, nothing can be more accurate than this ,you nailed it. This is how we struggle with our own minds!!
@shoyeb_ali_010
@shoyeb_ali_010 3 жыл бұрын
we are lucky that,we don't have a translator. if we had a translator, that was the end for us introvert
@marci4538
@marci4538 3 жыл бұрын
" wait whats her name again " I CANT BE MORE RELATED !!!
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