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@JohnDudley-l7x5 ай бұрын
Get a motorcycle !
@MattCool0076 ай бұрын
She does this, then ghosts you and then she starts talking to other guys and acts like you were never special to her at all.
@sublimeister96306 ай бұрын
A womanly tactic to induce jealousy and territorial possessiveness and to force your action on winning her heart from the competition. Ha-ha! 😂 It might have worked when I was younger…. To possess and to be possessed is past me. 🙏🏼😊
@winfriedmaus6 ай бұрын
Date a mature woman instead of an immature girl and you will have a very different experience.
@yomomshouse1006 ай бұрын
Walk away and respect her choice not to choose you. If she loves you she will choose you after you walk away. You just gotta find a way to not be a baby about it in the meantime.
@adamfindlay70916 ай бұрын
Go for an adult. Children in fox clothes...
@yomomshouse1006 ай бұрын
@@MattCool007 ay if you dont have the faith that you will find a wife for rest of your life you probably wont get it. Thats why u freak out when they walk away. Trust god all i got to say.
@Scorned4056 ай бұрын
“ She’s not yours it’s just your turn”
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
You are not hers either - it's just her turn. Why don't you guys just grow up and take responsibility and accountability?
@DougDeYoung-gt4id3 ай бұрын
You seem to have a comment for everyone so I'll give you one. Have you ever heard about a thing called self sacrifice? Its rate these days and doesn't only mean death. The problem in relationships these days is the fact that nobody will sacrifice their "life" for someone else. This was the purpose of marriage and the divinity within it. You sacrifice to her and she sacrifices to you. You are supposed to then be one or whats called in union.
@SteveGoen2 ай бұрын
Could be
@sad_red_panda5 ай бұрын
This is exactly how one gets into friend zone. Nothing wrong about it, just be aware about your real position.
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
The old "I am the victim" trope. Dude, try becoming an actual man. Develop authentic confidence. Work on yourself. Stop blaming everybody else for your own shortcomings. Once you've done that - in around 40 years from now - we talk again.
@isaacmaurice2276 ай бұрын
Don't be fooled guys. Your not special. Most of these women got multiple sources of validation and multiple men they share things with. Don't be a fool and think you're the only one. One false move and you can get dropped like you was never important.
@haver77fax6 ай бұрын
*you're
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
No, you are not special. Why is that so? Because you do NOTHING that makes you special. That's why.
@Dman4256 ай бұрын
A man can be special to a woman. That doesn’t mean she is interested in you romantically
@adamfindlay70916 ай бұрын
Say what.
@misterrigsby84915 ай бұрын
Yes you can be 'special' because your handy and can do most things because there's a lot of blokes out there who can't knock a nail up a cats arse and the hole's already there! 🤭😆🤣
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
A woman can be special to a man. That does not mean the man is interested in her romantically. Do you recognize a pattern that you chose to ignore?
@Dman4253 ай бұрын
@@winfriedmaus I think you know exactly what i meant
@peterk.m586 ай бұрын
All I heard from this whole video is “how to be her therapist while she’s looking for Mr. Right”.
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
No. All you've heard is: "I am perfect the way I was born, the world is the problem, I do not need to work on myself or improve myself, I am just a victim". It's time you wake up from your illusion.
@Joyanima6 ай бұрын
Hope everyone is having an awesome day! What are your plans for the weekend, anything nice?
@douglongard36996 ай бұрын
there is a girl who asked me what my plans where 3 times over 6 months , talked with her maybe 10 times . she doesn't know my name
@Martin_Priesthood6 ай бұрын
@@douglongard3699😳😳😲😲😢. After asking you what happened?
@patrickdaigle52396 ай бұрын
I wish you a wonderful day as well🌞🎉 as for plans; very exciting, cleaning, shoveling the snow we had and grocery shopping. Tomorrow, if the weather is good, I'll go for a walk; otherwise I'll stay in soft clothes watching movies/series. And you, what's your plans for the weekend?
@jeffreyg6076 ай бұрын
You're amazing and with your communication skills, your partner is very lucky to have you ❤💯 Lovely woman with a fantastic British accent!
@arunavbarua16386 ай бұрын
Yup enjoying a fun filled and tiring day. Hope you are having a blast too awesome one. ❤❤❤❤ My plans for the weekend is as usual. Waiting for the Japanese F1 race after a few hours and preparing to engage in a petty fun filled war of words online with the rival fans of other drivers.😂😂😂😂
@Dj.D256 ай бұрын
I’ve known a few women who have told me very personal problems or views on different issues, just to get angry with me for something petty later or they lie or play mind games. Some of these were women who I did have feelings for and I wanted to show I could be the man they were looking for and show I was different from the others, just to be rejected or betrayed later on. Now I am tempted to just listen, say minimal answers or hardly care. And not open up about myself much. Most women in the USA seem to prefer these kinds of men anyways.
@haver77fax6 ай бұрын
ah, what is new york?
@haver77fax6 ай бұрын
flavor of love new york is bipolar
@haver77fax6 ай бұрын
you and jonathan met at mental health
@BrickInMind6 ай бұрын
That shit relates to every woman around the world. No difference in Europe. I dealt with the exact shit. People in general like to have someone to talk to about their issues and fears. Someone who listens to it is not usual so they open up for it. But it never means they want more from you. The truth is the only way to get woman, you need to create romantic or sexual environment for her and it only works when she wants it. Otherwise you will be just a friend.
@WendingWayfarer6 ай бұрын
Not caring is vital.
@ejscorp6 ай бұрын
There was a girl I liked who would tell me very personal stuff. There were some other signs I noticed that she might like me, so I went ahead and gave it a shot and told her. I got shot down as just a friend. So no, just because she tells you personal things doesn't mean there's a romantic interest. If anything, if she gets really personal with all the subjects listed in this video, it's a dead giveaway you're in the friendzone. You'll feel like her brother or gay best friend. That's the crap she should share with her girl friends.
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
What I read is this: You did not manage to handle being her friend, YOU are responsible for NOT becoming the MAN in her life that she wants to be with, trusts and wants to have offspring with. YOU failed. It's not on her. Grow up.
@ejscorp3 ай бұрын
@@winfriedmaus What are you on about? I was attracted to her and took a chance and it didn't work out. What you don't know is that I suggested to still be friends but she completely shut me out and ignored me. So I went my own way. My whole point anyway was that the sharing of personal things doesn't mean there's any romantic interest. I'm not going to cry about one missed connection or try to become who I think she wanted.
@SV-wb8kh6 ай бұрын
Never believe what comes out of a womans mouth only her actions.
@NewDawnFadesX6 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@danh95034 ай бұрын
Works both ways
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
And never believe what comes out of your own mouth, only believe in your own actions. Do you see the pattern?
@marcob55496 ай бұрын
Thanks, this is very useful! Ancient greeks called that kind of relationship "Philia" and it is one of the purest and kindest.
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
Not really. It's just about you, as a man, being MATURE and CONFIDENT - and accepting of the actual facts and odds that you're facing
@Grass19816 ай бұрын
Sounds like the friend zone
@danh95034 ай бұрын
So what? Friend zones aren't a bad thing unless you're a desperate guy pretty much gagging for female attention lmao. Big turn off to women and viewed as pathetic from other men tbh
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
No. It sounds like a place that REAL men are comfortable with and accept.
@shockmarkets7384Ай бұрын
A man puts himself in the friend zone. The friend vibe comes from the man, not her.
@dr.options6 ай бұрын
LOL...this just confirmed how truly irrelevant I am to her. Thanks!
@thetravelexperience16956 ай бұрын
Great advice for platonic friendship 😅
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
Real men are fine with platonic friendships - they accept their place and do not let their genitals take over their lives.
@ArnoldsDesign6 ай бұрын
The last point is important. Don't go blabbing any of the things she told you all over town. The only problem is, if she told several people the same thing, and it comes back to her, you might get blamed even if you kept silent. I don't know the solution to that one.
@zerolbcool6 ай бұрын
Perfects excellent points directed to her special male friends. I SAID FRIENDS! Make of it as you like! My Clueless thoughts might be worth a read? I think these can be indicators of: 1 Great boyfriend for Friendzone. 2 Great boyfriend she Wants in Every possible Way. If she wants you in Every Way (#2) Things said in the video, she will/may do, Plus ALSO she will initially Always Dress Hot, always have banter with you, be generally smiley/nervous/nice/quiet/demure or bit@hy(to get a reaction) around you. She IS also figuring What qualities you like. She may also ask for some stupid help lol on something you're good at, whenever she knows you more imo. If you notice these then just maybe you got something :))
@winfriedmaus3 ай бұрын
I'm really not getting the problem that so-called "men" seem to have with all of this. If you're an ACTUAL man, you're confident enough about yourself, about HER, about YOUR place in HER life. If you're an insecure kid, not even the Gods of Olympos would ever be able to help you. You want to be a real man? GROW. Become authentically (!) confident (!) about yourself. Once you've reached that point in your life (read: you're probably over 50 years old by then!) everything starts "magically" (of course it's not magically - you've invested half a century into that growth!) falling into place for you. It's an enormous amount of work, guys. Just fucking own it.
@RickWander-jm1ko3 ай бұрын
You're right. I have done all this. It's hard when she is 26 and I 64. I know that I know that I know. It's there It's great. It's difficult
@mcmann2016 ай бұрын
Hi Anna ! Not much to say here. Your secrets are safe. Pushing forward when it's nearly impossible. I'll stay the course, nothing has changed !! 😊
@TracyNewcomb-rq8nq3 ай бұрын
I do appreciate your understanding and love 💕
@SummitMan1652 ай бұрын
Very good episode !! 👌👌👌😎😎😎
@jacqueslee25926 ай бұрын
Joyanima: "Women show these signs because they like you". Reality: "Ugh, he texted me back within one minute I texted him. He is desperate so I am ghosting him."
@LoveandWellness20246 ай бұрын
Very lovely! I am going to practice it on my side hick 🎉❤❤❤
@July41776DedicatedtoTheProposi6 ай бұрын
Walking in the warm sun after one week of rain “and earthquakes!”
@nathanhayward3194 ай бұрын
Bro, my crush hasn’t replied to me in a few days 😬😬. But I’ve talked to her in real life once or twice. But she only opens the text doesn’t answer anymore 😢
@MrThedr19756 ай бұрын
i must be special to a ton of people temporarily. people have told me their deepest stuff most of my life. it didn't matter if it was men or women they always come to me. even people that are much older than me talk to me about things. they must think i am dr phil or something.
@winfriedmaus6 ай бұрын
Are working as a barkeeper or a barber...? ;-)
@MrThedr19756 ай бұрын
@@winfriedmaus i don't do either one of those jobs. for some reason i could be out and about and people just start talking to me. i've had times where i was just sitting at a bar minding my own business and then people would come to me and just start talking about deep stuff.
@russelllevers95136 ай бұрын
I really love love love your advice!!! Keep up the great work you are doing
@sublimeister96306 ай бұрын
I’m sorry I don’t like people venting their problems without being open to resolve their problems by hearing the other’s experience and wisdom. I’m no Sponge Bob… 😂
@Kickpanda1326 ай бұрын
This is great guidebook, how to be in friendzone.
@winfriedmaus6 ай бұрын
Not when you're dating a woman with actual life experience.
@tonyc87524 ай бұрын
Life experience? You mean, she’s slept with dozens of men minimum
@Plotinuz6 ай бұрын
If you wish to catch fish, ask a fisherman and not the fish. If a woman starts treating you like an emotional support animal, that is a sign that she does not find you attractive as a potential mate.
@Ben-eu4il6 ай бұрын
Love your channel and am a subscriber! Always give LIKES and appreciate your insights! You have helped me with others! Blessings to your day!
@guyblew17336 ай бұрын
Good advice.
@thetimeshadow67696 ай бұрын
Hi Anna. Thanks for the helpful video. I was wondering if there was a way I could get in touch with you abt a personal, specific girl situation I have? Is that possible?
@Joyanima6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the support. Unfortunately unable to offer specific advice for individual circumstances sorry
@thetimeshadow67696 ай бұрын
@@Joyanima Ah, shame. Nevertheless, thanks for all the helpful content you create. It never goes unappreciated 😊
@chrisarchibeque85846 ай бұрын
🤔 how’s your love life with all your wisdom anna?
@Dman4256 ай бұрын
Does that matter? You can have knowledge about something without having any first hand knowledge on a subject
@chrisarchibeque85846 ай бұрын
Wouldn’t trust a bald barber or a skinny chef….
@Dman4256 ай бұрын
@@chrisarchibeque8584 that is ridiculous
@thestealth2936 ай бұрын
@@chrisarchibeque8584 Wth 😂😂..so you wouldn't believe a not so good looking dermatologist ?
@rymic726 ай бұрын
@@thestealth293. Would you trust a dermatologist with really bad skin?
@EspressoDave4116 ай бұрын
Thanks Anna!! Good info, as usual.
@russelllevers95136 ай бұрын
Thank you for these things you teach us
@johnporopat63666 ай бұрын
What if she's dead?
@Martin_Priesthood6 ай бұрын
👍 points noted and very true. . have a nice weekend..🥰❤️.
@Joyanima6 ай бұрын
Thank you! You too!
@Martin_Priesthood6 ай бұрын
@@Joyanima 👌🙏🤸
@mutungiedmund23556 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing 😮
@Joyanima6 ай бұрын
My pleasure 😊
@EricMoore7906 ай бұрын
My crush asked me if my friend was single.
@alexakosspartiaths94616 ай бұрын
Use condom,u gonna pay for another mans kid.
@RI-yz8do6 ай бұрын
@EricMoore790 😂
@FabianDialer-vw1zk6 ай бұрын
Chances are that she is more interested if your friend isn't Single. If you say he never had a GF she would probably lose interest in an instant.
@luisalphahernandezomega17046 ай бұрын
*ALEXA MY LOVE, YOU SHARED WITH ME THAT YOUR GRANDPARENTS PICK YOU UP FROM WORK AND THAT YOU LIVE WITH YOUR GRANDPARENTS AND I DON'T WANT TO SHARE THE REST HERE BUT I WANT TO SAY THAT I TRULY CHERISH YOU THAT YOU SHARED THAT PERSONAL FAMILY MATTER WITH ME WITHOUT ME ASKING. I TRULY REALLY DO LOVE YOU ALEXA AND WE REALLY ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER FOREVER.😚👧🏻🥰🥰💖💖*
@Julio_Bravo6 ай бұрын
Did you say "Soccer"?!.....OOF!
@You686886 ай бұрын
Jesus christ a lot of resentment from guys in the comments
@XMehrooz6 ай бұрын
true... much of it is justified though, given the current social climate of the world.
@jacqueslee25926 ай бұрын
This video assumes that all women think and want the same thing and show same behaviors and assumes that there is a woman for every man and that woman are only showing these behaviors to one single man, to the prince. Women have a list of men and she is doing the same to all men, going through who will be the one and testing all of them before settling with one. That is reality. Not Disney princess and prince romanticism.
@SamuelServant76 ай бұрын
Will you marry me?
@erikvonerik6 ай бұрын
I think I’ve figured it out - you are from N Eastern Australia or New Zealand
@Joyanima6 ай бұрын
I'm not sure if you could technically be more wrong 😅
@MisterGames6 ай бұрын
Lol, as an Aussie i can say, she is not from Australia or New Zealand and thus judge that your inability to distinguish these accents marks you as a person from the USA, assuming English is your native tongue. Cause "Americans" are really quite bad at picking accents.
@erikvonerik6 ай бұрын
I was judging from my girlfriends accent who is a native Kiwi but raised on the Sunshine Coast My first guess then - S Africa !
@BWater-yq3jx6 ай бұрын
No way. England for sure.
@shootingbricks85546 ай бұрын
I lean British as I worked with British troops overseas
@geethamadhuri4.0336 ай бұрын
😶🌫️😶🌫️😶🌫️😶🌫️
@tbadidos223 ай бұрын
What a bunch of bullshit!!
@hillusherrod21636 ай бұрын
Booger
@mrindependent63826 ай бұрын
I know someone who shares sexual things with me what i didn't expect her to say only to One of her girl friends, should I take this as a "green light" so to speak
@winfriedmaus6 ай бұрын
That sounds like the oldest story in the book. Either she doesn't see you in a sexual way AT ALL and feels comfortable to treat you like she'd treat a girl friend or a gay friend -- or -- she's intentionally cruel to you and just wants to tease you for her own amusement because she's not remotely interested in you as a man but knows that you have a thing for her -- or -- she's really trying to wake you out of your coma and to seduce you. In any case, you're at a crossroads: Either pursue and see where that leads -- or -- move on and step out of that person's life for good.
@rymic726 ай бұрын
I’ve never heard of a redder red light in my life 😳. It’s as though it’s the very form of the colour red
@adamfindlay70916 ай бұрын
Dont attempt to be perfect or overly manly . Try being yourself.