If She Initiates THIS, You're All She Thinks About

[@Joyanima]

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[@HivisoftheScale]

Do you like Power Ballads? Try the Soundtrack to Transformers the Movie from 1986

[@Omar_Zazzle]

[@fmills1583]

When she gets that restraining order against you that means she's hooked and can't get enough of you. It's true love!

[@gerardoflores5183]

😂

[@janibizjak9966]

[@racin11ry]

😂 I literally have this exact situation currently. All I said was leave my kids alone and bam… restraining order

[@joshuaafcutler7348]

You forgot the most important sign...when she randomly blocks you and you haven't done anything wrong. That's when her feelings are so strong that she can't contain herself!

[@nerovox3875]

Alrighty then....................

[@louiss3409]

Huh, well I got it all wrong then, I figured divorce, besides being the real life version of your wife blocking you, meant she didn't want to be together anymore. MAN do I look stupid now...

[@joshuaafcutler7348]

@@louiss3409 Taking what I said that far out of context is beyond even what a woman would do!

[@jasonmccannon235]

😂​@@joshuaafcutler7348

[@leoMC4384]

I talked a couple of times and exchanged a couple of messages maybe once a week, with this girl from my workplace. But after I personally asked her out, she told me she had a boyfriend and blocked me. Why the f*ck did she block me?? She thought I wouldn't take a "no" and ask her out again with a message or a shitload of them?? I don't even say "Hi" to her now, she's doesn't worth it.

[@gman9108]

1. Unespected texts at odd hours. 2. Sending songs or playlists. 3. Reaching out when something reminds her of you. 4. Frequent use of inside jokes: Bringing up or referencing inside jokes in conversation. 5. Sending you pictures or selfies. 6. Making you part of her routine.

[@bdel80]

God's work to save time

[@marcelrenes2435]

Sorry, I'm too old for this sh*t. I used to get to know a woman and after it 'clicked' I asked her our for a date. That's why i'be been happily married for 24 years now. Connectiing via internet is not the way to go.

[@Kurbante]

😎

[@tpsam]

​@@marcelrenes2435 I totally agree but girls nowadays I don't even know how or who or where to start in real life lol

[@taliongaming4340]

@@tpsam Some good tipp I got would be dancing classes. Usually more women than men, dancing is fun and good to build a connection and you already have a topic. If you are good at it, even more chances to just casually meet up and practice and see where things are going

[@Sickentist]

The girl I been talking to for months does all of these. However, when I dissected some of the lyrics in songs she was sending me, she became annoyed and said she’s not using music to send me cryptic messages… that she just loves the songs and wanted to share them. So idk about that one.

[@Iceman99DennisAustin]

I seen this girl today at work and she decided not to wear makeup she seen me looking because I could not take my eyes off her and looked at her alot she looks better without makeup !!

[@blairthandi7058]

Any update? Do you two have feelings for each other? I have a very similar story to yours, but telling you all of it would be way too much to type. To make it short, we work together, she will stare at me and just freeze, her body language is great around me, she will drop her phone near me ahahaaha, she will purposely try to be in my proximity, we mimic each others movements, it is absolutely insane. Because of her, I have so much more confidence in myself, and look after my body and health. She is an introvert, very shy, hates to talk to people, but when I initiate conversation, she opens and lights up. I make her blush like crazy, and I can see her face sparkle. One of these days I seriously need to say something. Would you say she likes me based off of what I said?

[@Iceman99DennisAustin]

Sounds like she is waiting for your next move

[@Iceman99DennisAustin]

No updates yet I just made her look at me I needed to know if I had a shot with her so one morning I went for broke I seen her walking and stopped to let her go first as she did she said don't worry I won't run you over she was wearing tight jeans so I say I know but the view is better back here she turned back and smiled.

[@yagguba67]

@@blairthandi7058I have the same situation happening right now, but she’s married so that’s that.

[@lockonstratos7787]

It's crazy how stupid women are when it comes to make up. They all say they need it to look good yet iv seen more women that look good without it then look good with it

[@z4xarhis]

I had a girl text good night and good morning.. it was just love bombing to get me to chase her, while she already had a boyfriend. She was a weirdo!

[@tensevo]

true news

[@DeltaVe]

Oh snap, you dodged a bullet, my friend.

[@GyvonJante]

Love bombing,… stop trying to trend false words

[@Real-Name..Maqavoy]

You sure 'bout that Hombrė? *Sexting* and *Love bombin* (Aint the same) Had a wierdo in Public School to; But at least she wasn't Shy of Talking IRL nor on Phone.

[@Real-Name..Maqavoy]

@@DeltaVe Not really. That's just being a Dick.

[@Synndershadow]

i woke up a couple weeks ago to a really nice text about her loving that i like her favorite band that she shared with me. i responded with hearts and that i was glad she shared them with me. anyways, she started ghosting me the next day and i still havent heard from her in weeks after that soooo color me confused.

[@hangtran7700]

Why not sending her a message ? She's already make the fist move that is hard for girls, now it's your turn to do the move to show your effort from your side. You cannot just expect someone else to do all the effort. It's like playing tennis, need both side if not... game over !

[@Synndershadow]

@@hangtran7700 yea its the other way around though, i was putting in 90% of the effort and wanted her to reach out

[@oystercatcher695]

@@Synndershadow i'd move on.

[@randomaccount1-b2b]

She's testing you just ignore her and don't get all excited when she reaches out again just act casual with women always until u know for sure she loves you. In general just act casual and dont text back quick let them do the work. Thats how women work

[@bxmully]

Never text emojis. You're a grown man I assume. Try not to text. Call or leave a voice note. Human biology isn't designed for text communication. You came off as WEAK when you responded with that. I don't make the rules that's just how it is. Learn or perish. And good luck!

[@jamesg1974a]

Now flip the roles and the women receiving such things will quickly no longer be interested

[@SuzukiHalwende]

Men and women are different

[@MEGAMAN-vh8gn]

Now you’re catching on! That should tell you something

[@StevoStaple]

yes cus that is needy and desperate so dont show too much emotion gotta act like you dont care now a days

[@joaom7444]

when you realize that never it happened to you... well in Brazil we have a phrase "Onde há vida, há esperança" - "if you are alive, there's hope"

[@janibizjak9966]

I like this quote

[@83cable]

Oh… oh… oh no… I’m off the market and I didn’t even know it. Thanks for the heads up.

[@mr.kreeg8742]

This is a very interesting video which definitely points out real life key points. Amazing video here!

[@Nubbley]

women texting me? i haven't unlocked that dlc yet

[@johnhanson4795]

whats sad is so many good guys have been hurt from this new age jumping around culture and that sucks it can suck the soul out of a guy.noones ever mentioned that!

[@MysteryProductsLtd]

A lot of people mention that - it's called "The Manosphere" or "Red Pill" or "MGTOW - men going their own way". Yes, there's been an epidemic of men just giving up on the whole thing. Flirting is cool but any ki8nd of going further than that is just asking for all kinds of trouble. So (hetero) men are learning how to be self sufficient and not need a female partner to get on with their life. Yeah, it is kind of sad in a general sense... it seems romance is truly dead.

[@markpack1111]

She's just bored or just running through her list fishing for a response

[@tbull1663]

Fucking facts

[@StevoStaple]

yep going through her rotation

[@rigidrebelrose84]

I'm here for the comments

[@brianbrino4310]

Thank you for your lovely message and video Anna!❤

[@wayofthekodiak3118]

They used to do that back in the day. It used to be called a mixtape 😂😂😂. Nothing's changed the amount of access.

[@BlueMinionIW]

She randomly called me and texted “Hey” but left me on ‘seen’ after I replied back with “Hey” after 3 MONTHS without talking online.

[@randomaccount1-b2b]

Send her the middle finger bro and if she asks whats up dont answer just act like ur joking.

[@kebman]

This has happened to me from time-to-time. Nowadays it seems only married women do this to me... But either way, it could sure happen a little more often, and from women I actually like myself lol.

[@nerovox3875]

Oh boy! Musician here and over the years I’ve received many playlists or songs, usually ends up with me dissecting the songs, calling them garbage and expressing my displeasure and disappointment in their artistic capacity. Hmm I guess that’s why they stopped talking to me, but honestly I was kind of over them when I hear these cheap pedestrian trope songs that are embarrassing just to listen to them. This is the problem, cause I’m busy and I don’t care about getting into their world, it’s my life and my world, if you want to play little cat and mouse games I don’t respect that, I’m not cold or anything I just don’t care that much, it takes me a long time to get my clothes wet if you’re drowning, meaning that really know who you are and we have been through things together and there is a history, 90% of women are afraid to be alone and will probably monkey branch or just outright cheat because they’re not getting their way or enough leverage over you. Like I said it takes a long time for me to give one ounce of a shit.

[@MothlingLXIX]

I hope you're doing better 😅

[@justinbarhorst5531]

Now if she sends you songs or a play list it could mean many things it could mean she is being polite. It could mean you are going somewhere and it might be good songs for your trip. It could mean many things you might not be very good picking out music and you ask for some ideas.

[@rickreibold7331]

If a woman is texting you at 2 am it is because she is trying to find out if you Are alone or not. Nothing to do with are you up! ("BULLSHIT") SHE WANT TO KNOW WHO ANSWERS are you alone or not?

[@mladendjuric9104]

Be careful. This only applies to women chasing. If a man does this, he is instantly disqualified.

[@MrNewman7336]

This explains why I am not getting any traction with the ladies. I'm clearly not on their minds.

[@steveloafe]

Had the texting at crazy hours, some kissing, a few reminder texts then... cold. Nothing happened to change things. No over pursuing. Hard to say what is going on. Last texts were saying how she "really doesn't want to fall in love right now 'with anyone' because her life is going so well."

[@ragingskeptic9753]

She's testing you to see if you'll pursue her. Back away, and she'll text you within a couple of days. Don't reply right away. Don't give her the impression that you're waiting on her texts.

[@gatorssbm]

Might be fearful avoidant attached, they tend to be very hot and cold especially if things get heated.

[@justinbarhorst5531]

If she gives you a thinking of you text she just might being polite. Women send out thinking of you cards so they will send out thinking of you text.

[@Jbutler63]

I met an amazing female recently she really ask some provocative questions during the weekend we will text all night long,during the weekdays she will send a cute emoji and I do like wise.Thanks for sharing your insight 😅😅

[@carlosgomes3655]

If a woman wakes me up at 2:00am with a random text, I guarantee she'll lose her "special" status pretty quickly....

[@MEGAMAN-vh8gn]

You must be fun at parties

[@dakotapeters5654]

Only ever had 1 girl do this type of stuff with me... the rest didn't actually care about me.

[@vst9266]

Or when she shows u the knife and say :do you see it? That is love. My colleague from work.

[@zerolbcool]

Ok My dude/ettes, lovely list, here's some coexisting plans though, having inside jokes are Hilarious, but you got to add More mystery and depth, humor, perks and idocracy to it, as time passes. The mixtape/playlist (My royalty ARE checks still processing :), can be cool, romantic, nice, but to Really step it up, The Lyrics of the songs should have some Direct impact and head scratching meaning associated for you both. Just my thoughts and maybe worth a shot, if you got nothing to lose but your brain cells and sanity :)

[@rickreibold7331]

How about when you're job hunting you have something call you for an interview and before you can get All the info your phone beeps from where she has called you to find out how the interview went eating up more of your minutes but your in the middle of the Interview and your phone goes dead because she ate up almost ALL YOUR PHONE MINUTES but three, the three your using to answer their call.

[@Martin_Priesthood]

Very useful hints. .👍🥰❤️

[@blairpittams9380]

Tend to find as sunsets, love is quite repulsive.

[@Real-Name..Maqavoy]

If your a Virgin..

[@thomasedwardking7286]

If she texts me at 2am, then she's definitely getting blocked 😅😅

[@brandonb7496]

Obsession, no thanks,

[@truthbetold6496]

my co worker is dating a married women apparently its going very well

[@rickreibold7331]

Men if get a woman doing this to your phone block her number and RUN you have a STOCKER ON YOUR TALE!!!

[@guyblew1733]

Very good information.❤❤

[@robertlorenzo5166]

Thank you so much, I’m learning.

[@quitwastinmytime]

Well, it's obviously not sex because that means all she is thinking about is her ex, So... asking you to play Scrabble?

[@DouglasLowry]

Start with God, family, Wife, children

[@JS-yj4rb]

This would only work if you exchanged numbers or even social media. Usually if I have her number I’m more than likely dating her other than that if I don’t hear from her I move on. I’ve dated a lot of girls never had one out of the blue do this unless we’re dating. Girls are usually shy and it takes a guy to usually keep the conversation going unless she the type of girl that knows what she wants and goes for it. These types of girls are rare unless those types of girls are sorta weird or just flirt a lot then move on. Head game girls. Most people try to find those hidden signals that you would expect more in a work place or out in public. You may see these girls on a day to day or week to week basis then wonder if she’s into you or just being nice. Like I said moving onto text or social media is a big step and if you chat periodically it’s more likely being in the friend zone. If she text you out of the blue she maybe reconsidering that friend zone. Most women I encounter are out and about or at her work. Many of these signs Anna talks about I see differently in many girls.

[@TheDestineyAngel]

Congratulations, you’ve entered the FRIENDZONE. Something that happens when she’s thinking of you but doesn’t send noods.

[@Dakota-ts2zr]

I make @Joyanima part of my daily routine. 😅

[@RichardMorin]

Thanks for insides

[@jzwalz51robin45]

Those emotions are temporary...

[@ceeKay007]

So is life…

[@jzwalz51robin45]

@@ceeKay007 so true, that is why it is important to focus on what is more meaningful and genuine

[@briangriffin69]

This

[@StevoStaple]

yep focus on yourself kings and just enjoy your turn if you get one

[@supertoyota5]

Thanks Anna. Outside of your consistent dating advice and content, you are extremely beautiful !!

[@j.p.5716]

I guess you like them THICK.

[@RoeRogan231]

This is how unhappily married woman behave towards their side games 😂

[@mantrahus]

Happened with Ex-Gf's 😅

[@marksnow923]

Soooo, if she contacts you, she likes you. Brilliant! (Duh)

[@StevoStaple]

if you think she's into you she's not true story

[@declanpowrr4754]

I'm glad I don't drink coffee and don't have a phone and I don't take anyone at the here word

[@rascal211]

I've never experienced this from a woman.

[@Just_Shephard]

Well, i have this with a girl i like, the issue is that we live 2000km away from each other and live in different country's. She told me that she's not sure to try something more with me because of this distance. But she still text's and videocalls with me every day. I'm not sure how to make her realize that I'm not going to wait for her forever if she doesn't make up her mind, since i do feel scared that some day she will just forget about me and just break away from each other.

[@pmilitary047]

Make plans to Go over there for a weekend or 2.

[@nikkalvarez5303]

Beta male activities 😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gatorssbm]

Well god knows if youre still in this situation but you just have to confront it sooner than later. Sure it stings that you may potentially lose them but its better to be honest with yourself if you truly just want to stay friends or you want it to escalate and its hurting you waiting or chasing after hope. Better to not self abandon your needs because low key it fuels loneliness even if at the moment you might be getting some needs met. Better to rip off the band aid at some point.

[@louiss3409]

Yeah you really know she cares about you when she emails a picture of herself without a shirt, what isn't a good sign is if it is someone else's email address on the "to:" blank and your on carbon copy.

[@kevins5498]

If a girl sends a custom playlist she made for you, she's a stalker. Time to disappear, before she offs you.

[@StephenShanahan-hi5uj]

I think it would depend on what kind of songs were on the playlist imo. Like for example, I would wonder if I'm about to be devoured if Another Level's Let Me Lick You Up And Down was on the playlist.😆

[@Real-Name..Maqavoy]

Oh god.. another clueless person. If you consider that (As stalking) Your the F@$%ing Problem. Not her. Dealt with far worse Situations..

[@youngtripp5184]

Good information beautiful

[@mcmann201]

I'm thankful and so much in love with her ! Any interesting thoughts and motivation towards the future I'm listening. Even the simple things. ❤ 😊

[@Scorned405]

If a girl texts me at 2 am she better be coming over to give me some play or she’s getting blocked. Who texts someone at 2 am??

[@SnailBeast]

Nobody thinks of me...

[@rascal211]

Why look at this if a woman is into you and you know it there is no problem.

[@t.d.5457]

Ignore those booty call texts or pics. Only simps respond. Just wants attention and validation. Nice Disney story and approaches though.

[@EricMoore790]

Eye contact.

[@rauljimenez7301]

Really Anna Banana !!!!!!!!!

[@Tore-q6s]

These comments are hilarious

[@johnhanson4795]

if your over 45 head to the phillipines she meant for long time love

[@marcob5549]

Sum of this video: ''I was walking along, minding my business When out of an orange-colored sky Flash, bam, alakazam Wonderful you came by....'' :) great content as always, very useful!

[@Real-Name..Maqavoy]

Not really. *KISS* Keep-it-Smple-Stupid

[@IaconDawnshire]

And no such woman exists for me

[@IgneelS11]

Great, now I know that no female human being ever thought about me at all :)

[@webbfast]

Your mother?

[@StevoStaple]

so what focus on your mission

[@natehamt]

Something that has never happened to me lol

[@marklane61]

Its all head games

[@imperialsaint3639]

All of this sounds...just like her

[@visual7150]

Why do you seem like a really good AI? lmao

[@justinbarhorst5531]

Songs unless she wants my top 10 chrismas songs, my favorite Octoberfest songs, Disney songs, or Ohio State songs or some of the old school songs she's going to be board. So I doubt she will be looking for a play list.

[@squaresided]

Once she gets these "validations" then she's on to the next sucker and she ghosts you. Then a year later she'll text you outta the blue yet again. Either way you're cooked. lol

[@hsamzsd]

way exaggerated. these should be the minimum indicators of interest.

[@matthewwakeling4978]

Oh hey, you pronounced "grand" correctly! That's new.

[@Littletime839]

Oh shit I have a stalker

[@MattCool007]

Nope.

[@rickreibold7331]

Then you don't know what is it's all a game for her, l just called 4 times /texted yohu ten times it's - 1:15 pm I was just talking to you at 12:30 am I wanted to know what you wanted for (" DINNER ") CHICKEN OR BEEF REALLY”)

[@RemoveNegativity466]

May Mother Radha Bless you Sister 😊🙏

[@a.b.tapatio5713]

Women don’t do none of this anymore lol

[@championz1184]

True , it's like the matrix simulation changes things up

[@xaiphonphianhavong2936]

I don’t mean to be a jackas* but most of these are common sense 😂

[@TommyRyddler]

Joy animas putting on the hog weight. On that ice cream diet. Face so thick it jiggles.. thanks for the video

[@akshaykumar-fg6xp]

I love you

[@xDemon666x]

remember gamers: if you met her online all those rules don't apply. 1. the memes she shares with you will get shared with other 20 dudes prob in the next 7 minutes. 2. you are "always on her mind" because you play together and prob spend all day together atm. untill you are usefull or a good spending of her free time for now. 3. once she got the thing she wanted from you, she'll block you or you'll start message each other less and less untill nothing comes anymore. 4. she prob already have a bf in real life and is not even telling you about him because for her it is just fun and games and you are nothing serious. maybe he even plays the same game and knows about you making it 2 people sitting in the same room making fun of you and your feelings for free stuff or any other interrest. 5. if it feels like "to good to be true and happening to you." for no reason you could logicaly explain. then it is. specialy when you 2 just met and everything is overly perfect. 6. if she is extremely hot on pics and stuff and she looks like a absolute 9 or 10 and is weirdly interrested in you by knowing you look like a troll. it's fake. if she have a insta model body but plays videogames 24/7 never hitting the gym and stuff to mantain that form.. it's fake. if she never wanna video chat or post pics about what she doing right now with her on it. (not just her tv on or stuff she is not visible on.) it's fake. if she always comes up with excuses that her headset is broken or she can not afford a new one. (even worst she wants money from you to get one.) it's not just fake it's a dude. those are scammers. give up finding love online. the probability of finding someone realy interrested into a (most of the time even long distance) relation what will work out, will not getting bored because you rarely or never see each other, will not find someone in real life letting you hanging for them or anything else is under 5%. playing online since i was 14 for now almost 17 years seeing this stuff happening over and over and over to way to many people (younger me included) should be a lesson to avoid learning. of course there are examples of people who met online and even get married but those are the rare cases that happen once every 70.000 attempts in online games. you wanna find someone, then go for a hobby with mixed genders. if you meet someone interresting there then you already have a thing you probably like in common to talk about. the hobby. otherwise get so annoyed by people online that you start hating everyone and get consumed by the toxic world of the internet and then maybe write an half hour article like this to help someone random for no reason at all, what is reading all of this crap. (just maybe.) sounds fun as well. also if you are ugly and like pretty girls then well.. you choose life in hardmode. good luck. you gonna need it.

[@MrTechysal]

Again, avoid all advise from women about women. She said it herself. Might, could, maybe, possibly. These are all words that have gotten men in trouble. Avoid advise like this from women if you like your freedom and happiness. Men need peace

[@luisalphahernandezomega1704]

*ALEXA LOVES ME FOREVER TOO!🥰🥰*

[@Real-Name..Maqavoy]

SURE SHE DOES..!

[@Real-Name..Maqavoy]

2:00-2:25 And that is why; 1) I don't text with A Love-interest. At. All. & 2) That's already *5-7 IT-law's* being Committed *in* Real Time. Over Here. ____________ Other Note; There's a lot of *Simps* in 'Comment-Section' for Anna Alright.

[@georgemorlock1581]

Fkg right… simp city Texting , ❤️ emojis, sweetness.. Man up , or she will find a man to be with. wtf

[@davethebrahman9870]

Or…she has no one else to talk to.

[@incbluesail3080]

Okay were is such a lady??? Connect me😊

[@georgesparks7833]

Great presentation.😊 But here's a joke. My son John brought home his report card and it was all wet. I said, John, why is your report card all wet? He said dad. I'm afraid it's below sea (C) level.

[@nikkalvarez5303]

This is dumb if she does just ognore her more let her work for it cuz the minute u buy in she gots you chasing her 😂 have some self worth my brothas

[@akshaykumar-fg6xp]

I love

[@claudetremblay3892]

For the play list ( Run Forrest run) dont ever do this to a men.

[@bruceolga3644]

Ewe do not have long left ewe tube...👁️

[@flyincosmo9356]

🤍

[@ThePhilosophyOfNature]

Please Anna, can You be less cute? ''cause it distracting visitor from the video topic.