If this video shows up for you, this is your sign to ask them out...

[@patrickjanssen2681]

Another great one Léon love how you do your videos outside ❤😊

[@priceybugle0175]

Being gay and having a straight crush is the worst! I think it's better to tell someone how you really feel about them rather than live with regrets.

[@aiaceoileo5342]

Agree. Otherwise you ll keep living with remorses!better a letdown than a wasted opportunity

[@boiyonetta]

I fell hard for my best friend which we will call "A" in middle-school, but I never told him. We stayed friends even after college and university. Then we lost contact after I moved, and I didn't use social media at the time. A few years later another friend "B" revealed to me that "A" had always liked me but neither of us had the courage to tell each other. I came from a conservative and homophobic household and we both feared what others would have thought of us. He's now married. It hurts me when I recall this incredibly personal story. But I am also happy that he found happiness. I still go through scenarios in my head. What if I had told him? Would things have been different. Maybe in an alternate universe we might have been happy together. All that's left that I feel is this emptiness and soul crushing guilt at being a coward. Even to this day I'm hiding in the closet. But I guess "That's just the way the world works. It isn't funny, pretty, nor sweet" Well if you made it this far. Thanks for reading. ❤

[@paulmoreno6279]

It's awesome when you feel the spark!

[@michelemmerechts5596]

Lovely Unbreakable Stud...! Very recognizable and familiar story. Often had it myself. Regrettable indeed. Life finally is too short to waste or lose these rare opportunities. The only positive aspect here maybe is that it shows or reveals the inner spiritual depth, complexity and richness of the author or person in question who is hesitating and retreating or pulling back.. Shyness because of a pure and profound soul that doesn't dare enough out of a pure and refined and perhaps too delicate longing/ desire....It probably also happened the way around with others in regard to us...

[@nathanielsizemore3946]

A good lesson. I believe that it was Mark Twain who said when you are on your deathbed, it is not the things that we have done that we regret, it is the things we left undone. Or words to that effect.

[@ilovetotri23]

Wow! Thanks for sharing this experience. I hope that in days, years to come people will comment on how this message helped them move out of their comfort zone. Your generation is awesome! Some just need a nudge to understand interacting IRL. Peace always!

[@youngan2]

Simply introducing yourself to her is a far less daring approach than asking for her phone number, as it's a much safer option for you (to see her response) and for her (to respond to), and being far more subtle (for both of you) will be easier to do, and you will come across as gentle and friendly rather than upfront and direct.

[@johnconway4161]

great video Leon

[@UnbreakableStud]

Thanks for the donation! It means quite a lot ❤

[@johnconway4161]

@@UnbreakableStud you're welcome Leon

[@KaiShepherd-n6z]

Wise words indeed. Seize the moment but at the same time don't become an 'if only' person if the moment passes. New ones will come along and you might well seize that one! Life is always a learning experience that never ends! Take care Leon and make more thoughtful vídeos. 🤗

[@youngan2]

Leon, you did exceptionally well in conversing with this girl on your first meet, as it would have been extremely daring of anyone to ask her out after an interaction that lasted only seconds. You are doing the right thing by going back to the shop every day or so. Please don't give up on seeing her again, as it's only been 2 weeks and she may be on vacation or something. We all want to know how this eventuates with this girl. Hope you see her again really soon.

[@GregoryVincent-d9u]

You have a very good message. For all of us, life is full of missed opportunities! I think asking her out would have been "too forward" of you, and it wouldn't have worked. In fact, it would have had the reverse effect! What you could have done was to ask her if she has had a long day - and if she seems friendly asks her what shifts she works. That would have been enough for your first meeting with her - and, knowing her shifts, you could have planned your next visit. Then, when that happens, you might be able to get her name.

[@alishacarolan9934]

I’m currently single and I want a girlfriend but the only thing that is really holding me back is the fact I’m introverted and it’s hard for me to put myself out there. I thought that I was going to be single forever until I saw your video which made me feel hopeful that there is someone out there so thank you 😀

[@lewisdowns4181]

Im a young grown man but i still would do the same lol, way too shy and worried theyll turn me down Gotta get a grip someday lol i guess

[@jamiehawker7345]

I would just like to reiterate in the comments that this is really good advice. I never dated until nearly a month ago where I decided to ask out this lovely girl who I've been amazing friends with and had felt chemistry with for a while. I was scared to do it but I also just decided to take the chance. We've been dating for nearly a month now and it's going very well! I would have never even considered doing this a few months ago but, as you say, sometimes you should just take chances so you don't live with regrets later down the line. Whether it's with a boy or girl! Edit: Don't beat yourself up about THAT experience though. I would've definitely been too scared to ask for that girls number because I would've still seen us as strangers even still. I knew my girlfriend as a friend months beforehand and I was still scared to ask her even then.

[@VieiraNtwali]

This is the best video I have ever seen on youtube.

[@TheTransportHub17]

Another great one Leon. Love how you do your videos outside.

[@SedatedByLife]

As a gay guy here in the USA, I hope I find a man like you and hopefully as attractive lol. You are mature beyond your years in some respects yet in other areas I'm sure you have some more growing to do. Your openness, humbleness and self reflection is a huge selling point. Your parents did good.

[@jpwphoenix1701]

This is so true, sadly! I gave up on relationships years ago. However, there have still been many times when I REALLY liked a guy. I kept being so close to making a move on them and I know I certainly wanted to. But, I’ve always had such bad anxiety, it always stopped me and made me think, “What if they don’t feel the same way about me? What if they’re straight? What if they’ve already got someone?” There’s always that chance of making things awkward if it’s someone you regularly see, like at work or school. But, at least with the girl you like, if things didn’t work out, you could stop going to that shop or something. Anyway, I hope you manage to find a special someone someday, if you haven’t already. Good luck and I hope YOU enjoy the rest of your day.😀

[@jpwphoenix1701]

@@johnryan3913 Thanks very much! There are a lot of other factors, like the social anxiety that comes with Autism, as well as having been stabbed in the back by a lot of people I either worked with or considered friends through the years. But, I still appreciate the advice and hope I will someday find a way to make it work.😀🤝💜

[@tituscaesar]

why don't you make inquiries at this shop? give a full physical description of this girl and see if they can come up with a name. if you get a name, you might want to ... write her a card or ... buy her a bouquet of flowers. let us know how you get on!

[@ronyinparis]

Having a crush is the worst thing ever, you comtemplate whether to tell the person abt ur feelings or not. But if you take the chance it works out in the end. Another great vid

[@McLovin_2007]

I often thought of something similar. At this point in my life, I'm not afraid to ask for a date. If she says no, I'll just move on. But everyday I think about wanting a woman who looks like Mackenzie Rosman or Selena Gomez.

[@Beamer750Li]

Good sound advice ❤

[@PhilipWeisman-dl4ik]

Great lesson learned young. Many more chances will come your way.

[@Tom-_-Hanks]

Thanks, thumbs up, have a great day.

[@youngan2]

After introducing yourself, hopefully she will do the same. If she doesn't, then gently ask her for her name (such as, "May I ask your name?" Note the use of the words "May I ask" as it is friendly). And when ending the conversation, offer her your phone number rather than asking for hers, as it's much safer for both of you, and if she accepts it hopefully she will do the same and offer you hers. If she doesn't accept your number, then the question of whether or not she likes you is resolved, and you never have to dwell on it again. If she accepts your number, but doesn't offer you hers, then you can gently ask her for it if she seems friendly enough (such as, "May I ask for your number?" Again, note the use of the words "May I ask"). If she refuses, then don't despair, as she may be cautious with all guys, so give her a week or so to phone you before returning to the store to try again. If she does give you her number then you know she likes you !!!

[@youngan2]

Here's a few dollars to spend, so visit your local shop again ASAP and see if she's there !!!

[@UnbreakableStud]

Thank you! I appreciate that

[@youngan2]

@@UnbreakableStud My pleasure. Anything to encourage young love.

[@youngan2]

Sorry, I honestly thought I was sending American dollars, not Australian, so here's a few more.

[@UnbreakableStud]

You're too kind, thank you ❤

[@youngan2]

@@UnbreakableStud A pleasure.

[@derekaldrich4887]

You are doing awesome Leon i support you

[@OCCA]

Be willing to risk rejection, no one can say yes if you do not ask.

[@Skip-b4j]

Leon,.... you did OK Bro,.... That's how i learned in life,.... some times, it takes a few tries to get it right.... AND by sharing, you are HELPING others.... You are a very cool guy, Our Love to You from Qc, Canada Qc stands for Province of French Québec, .... the only in Canada Cheers

[@Louise-18969]

I’ve made that mistake before cos I have low confidence but I’m gonna try and be more brave. Amazing vid again Leon ur an inspiration 🥰♥️🫡

[@UnbreakableStud]

Thanks!

[@Louise-18969]

@@UnbreakableStud you’re welcome anyone would be lucky to have you 😊

[@UnbreakableStud]

Awwww, thank you ☺

[@Louise-18969]

@@UnbreakableStud np 😉

[@grahamboyd100]

There is a guy I did gymnastics with who like me is also gay. I regret asking him out then but saying that I might still have my chance with him. Your message gives me hope

[@joepadilla8802]

It's awsome that they are thinking about me thank you

[@HECTORMONTALVO-le9cn]

Don't worry even I still make that mistake at my age. When awhile later I say to myself:why didn't I continue the conversation? Or why didn't ask for her phone number? And of course like it happened to you I never see her again and I regret it. It has also happened a couple of times with guys! 🏳️‍🌈

[@boydjensen3161]

It is a bit unnerving when we see the chance, and don't take it. How many time have we seen random people jump into a scene to collaboratively rescue a child or someone in dire straits. You have but seconds sometimes to make a life-changing choice.

[@adlad75]

🤔 Maybe she's working a different shift? Hopefully they didn't give her the sack ir or anything like that! 😲 As for Prime, bet you could make it at home for cheaper and healthier! 👍

[@JM-fs4jj]

Thank you 🙂

[@Catsandstuff23]

This video motivated me to ask out my crush at least try to get to know him better so that I can ask him another time

[@jayusa879]

In those circumstances I always say go for it what have you got to lose. Life is too short to have regrets. Hey Leon!

[@kewldude90]

I think she was just said that as customer service, and given she is very attractive I am sure she gets hit on a lot. Maybe instead of asking for number just introduce yourself.

[@youngan2]

Yes, great idea. Simply introducing yourself to her is a far less daring approach than asking for her phone number, as it's a much safer option for you (to see her response) and for her (to respond to), and being far more subtle (for both of you) will be easier to do, and you will come across as gentle and friendly rather than upfront and direct.

[@ffoster477]

Wow, your creative skills are fantastic, your videos are different than when you were wearing the Beanie. Good advice again.👍

[@philhoward4466]

there will be many times in your life to make great decisions, like visiting that same store again tomorrow. maybe she likes your eyes.

[@wpgrogue]

I liked this 1 person, and I often asked if it would ever happen. It did, and it didn't end great, but I took that chance, and several years later, we wanted to try it again, but I said no, sometimes we have to thank God for unanswered prayers. Don't miss the opportunity that comes up, and you never know what will happen

[@derekaldrich4887]

I support you

[@JamesEdwards860]

Bro, keep going back until you see her!

[@KevinO-xq1ns]

King Leon. Don't beat yourself up. You were caught off guard. She should of written her phone number down on your receipt. She's probably kicking herself now, too. Maybe she's a YouToober also??? Probably made the same video you did😂 Anyway.....like you said.....plenty of fish in the sea 🌊

[@davidhanson1849]

I made this mistake in school a absolutely beautiful girl asked me out I said no and it's my biggest regret but I had my reason which makes it more difficult to stop thinking what if

[@mariaazzan8625]

They say patience is a virtue if you are ment to see her , you will🎉

[@SRM_NZ]

The caption for my channel, has been..ever since I first saw SKAM season 3 in 2017...."Because life is now"......Never put off from to today until later.....

[@bartkuipers]

super nice axallent great amezing video

[@GregoryVincent-d9u]

Having said all of that, I will admit that I am much older than you and (Oh, God! LOL!) STILL ANYTHING BUT AN EXPERT!!

[@darbalmira]

So the really important question is where you will take your life?

[@kevinhewston5621]

Or boyfriend…..

[@billyinwaves]

I get the point of the video, but just watch out when someone is behind a counter - and on service delivery - they are in a position of needing to please or to charm the customer. And so it's often inappropriate to chat up shop staff or a waiter in a restaurant etc. - because they are in a powerless position. But, for sure, we regret those obvious moments of social contact which, later, we realise we should have followed up. PS. I'm still missing your hat.

[@youngan2]

@@johnryan3913 lol

[@ThePiersirac]

Take the chance in real life:)

[@chhanaboytlung5310]

👍👍👍❤️❤️

[@Pimporly]

Yes take it chance what worse that can happen that she say no. It OK Move to the next Girl that are many Fishes in the Oceans like you Said and it is plenty of Fishes in the Oceans

[@thirdaccount2213]

Is it okay to wear y fronts as a 13 year old trying to get a gf?

[@Tasboy2]

Wear what’s comfortable! It’s not like it will be the first thing she sees or even ask you about.

[@olafb4826]

wieder dahin zurück gehen,du weisst doch wo sie arbeitet

[@shawnme6023]

Are you blind in one eye? Your eyes are different.

[@UnbreakableStud]

No, I have Heterochromia which is a mutation where you're born with two different colored eyes :)

[@kevinhewston5621]

@@UnbreakableStudniiiiice. You’re unique!

[@McLovin_2007]

@@UnbreakableStud You're only the second person I've seen with Heterochromia. It makes you unique. I've also seen a young woman in the US Army who had 2 different eye colors.

[@philhoward4466]

@@UnbreakableStud back when i was in college i had a friend who had 2 colors in one eye.

[@thehystericalgamer1468]

second!