if you can't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?

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[@DenesFernando]

Hi Guys I'm an independent writer. if you wish support my work, just buy my book and share, I need to sale them to pay the rest of the translation. I want my story get around the world. Death Shadow - Chapter 01 - Death Row www.amazon.ca/dp/B07MZKJPGS A Sombra da Morte (Death Shadow) - (Complete Portuguese Version) www.amazon.ca/Sombra-Morte-Po... Instagram instagram.com/denesfernando/ Twitter twitter.com/FernandoDenes

[@LilianaSilvaw06]

"WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS" sent me this via email 😂

[@sarahsplan3t]

LOL SAME

[@azaleadrace9585]

me too!!

[@MisterNyte]

Same here lol

[@rebecacristine6090]

Hahaha same bestie❤

[@alexagarcia3805]

SAME

[@pierreelhagee]

we’re not really strangers sent me here 🧍🏻‍♂️

[@danduffy3025]

Same

[@louiseschwidder]

We're Not Really Strangers🙏🙏

[@inayahcee3131]

My therapist showed me this 😂

[@whoamireally6422]

Hahaha love her/him

[@leuvenfra]

@@jenniferporte8187 ......what????

[@crimeyfruit5676]

@@jenniferporte8187 ……what???

[@TpFox]

@@crimeyfruit5676 rupaul is my therapist

[@corylee88]

My therapist said oh oof there's no hope you 😭😭

[@gross6735]

This needed the can i get an amen up in here. It’s irritating

[@PhreeSoul]

eric rodriguez It’s actually ”Can I get an A MAN up in here?” It’s a play on words, RuPaul loves wordplays. ’Cause they’re men, you understand... ;)

[@pjfunkk]

You just had to say it! Now I'm irritated. Can I get a A MAN up in here up in here

[@blognewb]

gay men up in here

[@jkerioustv2278]

@@pjfunkk Ong

[@meli1872]

seriously im so irritated from expecting it and not getting it

[@4stance.]

we're not really strangers.

[@izhaar_livin_life]

We’re not really stranger brought me here 🧍🏽‍♀️

[@nottocleverxx614]

As a young kid, this actually helped me. And as an adult it's something I reflect on when I find it hard to love anyone, including myself.

[@DenesFernando]

Now, you need to find a balance.

[@nelsongudiel3205]

@@DenesFernando Balance is key

[@Hing138]

Loving myself by staying away from manipulative and unkind ppl. Thanks We’re Not Really Strangers.

[@geoffreyphipps2542]

I just passed this on to my str8 best friend when he broke up with his girlfriend! He had to say amen.

[@DenesFernando]

Now I know that all the work I've had, paid off.

[@happinessisabutterfly..]

If you can't love yourself NAKED, how the hell you gonna love somebody else NAKED

[@tokethedude1103]

This makes sense as opposed to whatever he said

[@maritzaleon5854]

I’m here cause an email from we’re not really strangers send me lol ♥️♥️♥️

[@marz5678]

this reminds me of one of those "repeat after me: you are enough" videos

[@kofrixguia2019]

Nah cause like, she actually got a good point If you can’t love yourself, why in the hell you gonna love somebody else, she got a point😭

[@nickywu9476]

6:32 got me lol

[@happinessisabutterfly..]

6:16 ICONIC

[@faye4932]

I just watched this entire video nonstop...

[@user-ho3oe2qi6t]

how to love yourself when youre damaged, full of trauma, and have felt lonely u r whole life

[@aprilshowers1728]

Okay I love this quote but after hearing it so many times my mind went to the gutter and started interpreting it as if you can’t solo how you gonna please someone else lmao.

[@swnphjm]

lol

[@strawberrymilk4497]

Wait cause this sounds smart

[@professorquinsonsnib]

this works too HAHA

[@tylermoore8218]

I love how people started mouthing it because it became so iconic

[@PseudoValise]

if you can't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?

[@LightStrikeZ0]

2:55 is the one from 'I'm not here to make friends'

[@kerens8222]

CAN I GET AN AMEN UP IN HERE??

[@_Loan_]

From “We are not really strangers” 😊

[@creditbrunch]

Can I get a gay men up in hurrrr???

[@MaryWild]

1:31 my fave

[@jada6641]

well, thank you wnrs ❣

[@CalThePlantWitch92]

I needed this.

[@lrike2250]

Doctor: you have 9:25 minutes of life left Me:

[@itsmarijo]

Can I get an amen up in here?

[@PhreeSoul]

Actually what he says is ”Can I get an A MAN” It’s a word play...

[@itsmarijo]

PhreeSoul I get it. Thank you.

[@saiq4440]

Amen

[@AN-jf6fp]

Amen

[@monicatannehill9241]

I have a friend who needs to hear it this many times.... sharing

[@charlieraymarsh8096]

I love this! I needed this! He is my Oprah baby!

[@DenesFernando]

this is a mantra for life

[@LarryBanks85]

I love that quote.

[@effy1104]

I need to watch this every single days

[@saiq4440]

Can i get an amen? - amen

[@besseditz]

6:28 I LOVE THAT HAIR❤️😂😃 and this is the best edit i ever seen!

[@vanwagon]

I've heard this too many times. As true as it may be no one tells you how to actually do it.

[@barrydouglasbutler8794]

AMEN !

[@TheAayize]

awesome video bro 👏🏽🙏🏼

[@mangata.]

thanks wnrs

[@shahinaakthar2112]

I really needed that today, thank you x

[@amyjacquelineg.9541]

Waiting for the answer... how the hell you gonna love yourself?

[@DenesFernando]

Amem.

[@markusjc]

i cry every time i hear this

[@catarinamagalhaes3861]

i love this. so. so. so. much.

[@smonmon2430]

I C O N I C

[@Baldwin-iv445]

Not a fan of this show at all. But this phrase is so universally true that I think anybody can agree with it.

[@thatgirlvenus]

My tarot reader showed me this 😂😂

[@mimick_]

idk why this made me cry😭😭

[@rzo.99]

Amen!

[@brendadevries6087]

Preach.

[@Saysaytonin]

Where’s the WRNS people’s?

[@ang_puke_ko_na_kulay_rosas3732]

my head hurts

[@user-ud9lm3wr5u]

If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell somebody else gonna love you?

[@minaah4107]

Ahora esto será mi alarma

[@sarahyosef7146]

💯💯 right

[@zacks_wack]

amen

[@SOFIJA53]

PERIOD

[@majahaha9760]

everytime im waiting for the CAN I GET AN AMEN

[@arianator5432]

I loooved season 1 🥳

[@Jetstreamhustla]

Show every broken boy or girl this 😂

[@austenwhibley725]

Mood today

[@daveutube1231]

Why is this not a single yet?! Lol

[@samforshaw7964]

If you can't love yourself haintheheugonlasuel

[@ethanbwii7540]

came from Love Me 4 Me

[@bjwilliams]

I must love myself, cause I sure do love me some Ru Paul 😍!!!

[@maryelephant940]

Halleluuuh !

[@maryelephant940]

Should be running on repeat for everyone, forever. Thank you for cutting this.

[@albertogarcia8654]

press 6 repetitively

[@AleArango_]

CAN I GET AN AMEN UP IN HERE?

[@burtonkrichard8898]

This is actually damaging. Many people learn to love themselves watching the love they receive from the people around them.

[@dancingsocrates9491]

I feel like it depends on where you're at. A lot of people seem to find it empowering, which is all it's meant to be.

[@maryelephant940]

Mama R ain´t wrong.

[@Salsero12]

I have a headache now lol

[@frocklewocka981]

RuPaul Drag Race helped me through the darkest time of my life. I love y’all Drag Queens and Mama Ru

[@tokethedude1103]

I know it's probably just me but Wayne Brady and Marc Rebillet led me here..

[@user-bv7lg5wi5p]

Uh probably because I admire the qualities I don't have in them. Probably because I'm still capable of loving other people even if I hate myself. This quote doesn't make any sense to me tf. Ig it might be a self confidence booster for other people. But if someone said that to me I'd roll my eyes so hard-

[@jamjar1916]

100%

[@eternalposts680]

You cant truely love someone without acknowledging their negative qualities. EVERYONE has flaws, and if you cant embrace yours, how are you gonna deal with someone elses? Theres no way to accept and admire someones whole being without being hypocritical about those own features in you. You are going to love people who are similar to you. But it cant be real until you love those similarities in both of you.

[@godsuniqorn1043]

Can i use a clip of this for a documentary?

[@DenesFernando]

Of course, then if you want to send the documentary link here, I would like to watch

[@sava5599]

Why she stoped saying this :C ?

[@MoonPieCancer3754]

👏👏🥳👏👏🥳🥳🥳

[@Kenny2k08]

I honestly hate this fking cliche. On the days I do magically love myself, It still doesn’t change the fact no one wants to love me.

[@xloul5421]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@DeezNuts-es8mf]

0:53

[@joshuaserrato3495]

I love RuPaul. But I disagree with this 110%.

[@RNCHFND]

I'm Delta at 1:24

[@lotsolot]

I think this is RuPaul's best quote.

[@victorcorcos]

I can't believe on this video HAHA

[@ashcho5553]

man, I dont really love myself but I love my bf tho 😂

[@volgg]

I wish I can love myself.... im a pathetic loser who always give into my anxiety..... i hate it...

[@tyronezhang]

It's funny that this is also a Jesus quote

[@Crow-sj6sf]

Who is Sambarias?

[@pinkpenguin8290]

Bitch if u can't love urself How in the hell u gon love somebody else?! - RuPaul | Can we get an AMEN?!

[@ghulamilmawan6376]

If you can't blame Demi How in the hell you're gonna blame somebody else ? :v

[@charissas4436]

Can i get an amen?

[@DerekBrown6300]

No

[@erronmack2679]

Can i get a witness?

[@acap5699]

BIG MAN JENSEN TRUMP

[@blokepilled3104]

Can I get a gay man

[@pussygirl-]

4:42 HOLD THE PHONE

[@charmingmama6305]

While I can appreciate his intent, I fucking hate this quote. In real life its just not true. I mean that it's not true that you can't love others if you don't love yourself. I've loved others so hard and treated myself like dirt. You can claim I don't know love because I don't love myself, but that is also bs. Love may not always be perfect but it can still be love.

[@margaretmeehan9044]

Actually, for me it was very much true. So how about not trying to speak for everyone? 💁

[@jodishapiro9257]

If you can’t love yourself, it’s impossible to enter into a healthy relationship with someone else. To be able to accept the love you deserve from someone else you need to love yourself first. Love isn’t letting others walk all over you. Love has boundaries and those boundaries require you to respect and love yourself first.

[@DerekBrown6300]

This quote actually doesn’t make sense, here’s why: He’s telling us that, if someone hates themselft, they can’t love other people. So if i had accidentally killed someone while driving home while drunk, i can still hate myself for what i’ve done, and maybe even hate myself for the person i am, for making such a desicion But, lets say they said, “we forgive you” i would still be able to love, and show love to the family i’ve hurt, even though i hate myself for my stupidity that tragic day So NO, this quote does NOT MAKE SENSE

[@NotLochNessNessie]

But. It does. If you can't love and accept yourself for who you are you aren't ready to REALLY love and accept someone else. You may think you do but there will always be that little bit of doubt because how can someone love you if you don't? You will see faults where there are non - in yourself, your partner and the relationship.

[@maggiescarlet]

I'm not even a Christian but surely you've heard the phrase "love the sinner, hate the sin"? And sure you can love someone else if you don't love yourself, but it won't be a healthy love or a healthy relationship! I don't believe in true love, only healthy love and unhealthy love.

[@officialmichaelcarrasco]

@@NotLochNessNessie No...just...no.

[@margaretmeehan9044]

It made sense to me.

[@officialmichaelcarrasco]

"It is what is" is the worst saying ever, outside of "If you can't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love someone else." 🙄

[@margaretmeehan9044]

You don't speak for everyone. For me, "if you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else" is one of the truest statements I've ever had.

[@officialmichaelcarrasco]

@@margaretmeehan9044 I never claimed to speak for anyone tho.

[@SM-qu4gl]

Can I get an amen up in here?