If You Chase Women, They Will Run

[@SkillofAttraction]

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[@oppahadventures114]

You deserve more than 300 thousand subscribers, every word of yours is a red pill 💊. Keep going man. God bless

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks man! I appreciate that!

[@skullkid692]

Once I stopped looking for a relationship, chasing women, got in the gym and got a good physique I've gotten more female attention than I have over my entire past on this earth. The funniest thing is im a short guy but have gotten attention from women much taller than me. Wouldn't date them but its very nice to get the validation as a man.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Perfect! Looking & feeling good, & not caring about the outcome is key...because that all communicates confidence & that you have options.

[@azucenakennedy149]

Hello, thank you for making these videos for men who are clueless about dating. I am a single woman off course and I enjoy learning the terms and concepts that you share here. I got your videos in my feed because I recently broke up with my ex bf, well he broke up with me. Anyway, for the most part what you explain is true about women but a few things are not very precise or it varies depending on what type of woman you are talking about. Yes, women prefer to be wanted and desired. Also the comparison with the cat is kind of true. But sometimes you describe women as evil witches or cruella devil, or with a plan, and testing men, and manopulative, not all women do those things. I would say, through our experience dealing with jerks, women learn to be defensive and smart. But once long time ago we were adorable innocent pure creatures. Thank you! Bye

[@justin5033]

Its definitely a balance. You will intuitively sense it the more you socialize with women You need to initiate or nothing happens. But once you initiate the power game and who cares more game begins. As long as you hold your power and dont give it away you should be good to go You still need to make moves usually if the girl is okay with it. Go for it. But sometimes the girl will just chase you and make things happen. Ive had both Youll sense what the specific woman responds to. Some want you to dominate, some are repelled by that and youll come off too strong Anyways at the end of the day its all just a big game dont take it too serious

[@SkillofAttraction]

Yes, on point! I do have a video on how men need 'chase' a bit in the beginning in order to initiate the courtship in most cases: kzbin.info/www/bejne/roaqmmaPm7mfgZo

[@Giovanni-01]

Talking about power, it's like Ryu Vs Ken ,lol

[@johnjohn5137]

actually us men doing things directly. we are just simple... talk directly. be direct. but women are completely different to us. they are complicated, so they make it so hard for us to understand them and make them happy. so please woman just be direct to men and you'll everyone will be happy. and to be clear and direct for men is something so attractive.

[@SkillofAttraction]

It would be so much easier if they were just direct & to the point, wouldn't it?

[@johnjohn5137]

Skill of Attraction yes. exactly. they will make it easy for us to understand them and how to deal with everyday's life situations. thank you😉

[@SkillofAttraction]

There's a good book that will help you understand how women communicate called, "Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man": amzn.to/2YDy4Ve

[@stefanross8129]

..... I really like your video Erik! Very clear and concise, and I like your cat analogy! BRAVO

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks man!

[@santinogoring1477]

Been watching this chanel for over a year,a shame it'snot bigger than it is, great content.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks, man! I appreciate it!

[@stevendoesnt663]

If only I had seen these videos months back !!! damn ! would still be with her !

[@SkillofAttraction]

Then start now. Don't contact her & let her come to you...

[@jimbothompson6540]

Instead of chasing in the very early stages i try to watch these videos

[@SkillofAttraction]

Good idea! The only thing a man has to do at this stage is; get her out on dates, have fun together, & gently lead her into the bedroom. If you stay on this path, & you don't try to push for a commitment, the chances are high that she'll want a commitment with you...that she'll chase you!

[@jay-syhugs5798]

How i wish i have watched this before she leave

[@SkillofAttraction]

Yes, we all wish we would have known these sort of things sooner. I learned the hard way myself. But, now that you know it will begin to make your dating/relationships much easier & more successful.

[@jay-syhugs5798]

Tnx bro

[@10314347]

100% truth!!

[@matrixband12]

Good to see a new Video, thanks Erik!!

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks! I've been under the weather...getting back into the groove.

[@matrixband12]

You look good in Video.... Ive been down under now for 184 days as of today... :(

[@walterbass290]

changed my number so no hangup calls now.

[@SkillofAttraction]

That's definitely one way to get her out of your life...

[@IntlStudentStorytime]

Thank You So Much :) :) It really worked

[@SkillofAttraction]

Absolutely! That's great!

[@Leveluplivin]

He's doing it sound like Corey Wayne

[@miguelfloriano9039]

Erik you sound a little like Coach Corey wayne..but good info.

[@billyking5618]

That's because this shit works!! It's basically the guidelines all across board!

[@Giannis_Sotolidis]

Ι like a woman really much and we used to go to date,she was enthusiastic with the idea but she flaked.If i see her and she show me interest again,i think i'll tell her that i like her but something is missing and ask her to leave me alone.

[@SkillofAttraction]

You don't want to tell her that you like her but, show her with your actions. Ask her out one more time. If she flakes this time, tell her to contact you when she has her schedule figured out.

[@leslieellis5679]

Think it depends what you chase them with ?

[@SkillofAttraction]

I mean chasing their love & validation. Though, men do have to chase in order to initiate the courtship: kzbin.info/www/bejne/roaqmmaPm7mfgZo

[@bman8824]

What do you mean with? Lol probly a bad idea to come at them with a lasso or net

[@naveensehdev9973]

Great video!!

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thank you!

[@MeesNaguMuiste]

great content as always!

[@SkillofAttraction]

Why thank you, sir!

[@GnosticCushite]

Question Erik. Will hollering at my ex's acquaintance/some what friend through Instagram ruin my chances of ever getting back with my ex, if my ex finds out? If I didn't care about getting back with my ex I would holler at all her friends/acquaintances and not give a fuck about rejection

[@SkillofAttraction]

That's pretty risky if you care about re-attracting your ex. She may take that personally, as an act of revenge by you. It's best to date women she doesn't know.

[@GnosticCushite]

Skill of Attraction But damn her friend is sooo hot and I think she was asking about who I was when I met her at my ex's cousin birthday. Even my ex got mad at me because she caught me staring at her ass, lol. Like the song says, "If your bitch starts acting up, then you fuck her friend"!

[@SkillofAttraction]

It's up to you, but it may damage your chances of getting your ex back. It's a bit different, but years ago I was very interested in a girl, but she wasn't showing any interest in return. So, I nailed her sister. Needless to say, I never had a chance with the original girl I was interested in again. lol

[@cza79]

Title says it all !!

[@SkillofAttraction]

Pretty much. Just be sure that you understand this as well: kzbin.info/www/bejne/roaqmmaPm7mfgZo

[@michaeldonley7741]

Nice channel.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks, man!

[@nnamudifrank3608]

Please I want to ask you something. When doing no contact rules, can I still be posting my pictures on social media? And should I unfollow her on Instagram?

[@SkillofAttraction]

I answered this question elsewhere. You do not have leave multiple comments on multiple posts. I answer when i get to around to it. if you need an immediate response you can find a link to my coaching options in the description of all my videos.

[@nnamudifrank3608]

@@SkillofAttraction yes, I've seen your reply. Please i want to ask you, what if I'm in a long distance relationship, and she stop talking to me, but she always view my status, what will I do? Please answer

[@SkillofAttraction]

@@nnamudifrank3608 Don't do anything until she initiates contact. I don't know why she's not talking to you, but whatever the reason, it means that she has lost or has a much lower attraction for you. You will not get her attracted again buy chasing her. However, if you let her come to you, then the chances of her attraction raising again increases significantly. She's viewing your status just to keep an eye on you & probably because she misses you. Let her miss you until she takes action to get you back. She will if she cares.

[@nnamudifrank3608]

@@SkillofAttraction thanks so much for this reply. I so much appreciate it. Please this last one, I don't know if i should stop posting my picture on social media so she will miss me or should I be posting once in a day? Please I will be glad if I'm answered

[@SkillofAttraction]

@@nnamudifrank3608 It's best to post like you normally would, just do not post any sad memes or songs. You want to come across like you are unaffected by this. Women like emotionally strong & confident men. It's not that you don't care about her, it's that you're a strong & confident man who women adore. That's the attitude that you want to have. Think of her absence & not speaking to you as her loss.

[@ralfj.1740]

Never chase buses or women. You'll always get left behind

[@SkillofAttraction]

Yup! Pretty much!

[@marcmason282]

But you still need your own personal boundaries

[@SkillofAttraction]

Always. Setting healthy boundaries is a must for any successful relationship.

[@mlggaming838]

Is it weird that my ex would only like pictures of me on other peoples social media? For example, my gym has posted a few pictures of me. I realized that those are the only pictures she's liking. My friends told me the same when they posted pictures of me on their social media.

[@SkillofAttraction]

That does sound a little strange, but I don't feel it has anything to do with her attraction or feelings for you. To me it sounds more like she's trying to come across as a little aloof with you...

[@mudupgyalson7165]

Really

[@najib7025]

What up to know i want to know from you is ,yet you don't tell me In case i ask date and she says no it's cool What about if i tell her the signals i use to se becouse it's she who tell me gave me space and i gave her. And after i see her signals i talk to her so she is gonna think like ,since she told me leave me and stiil iam the one who start talking no good So how is if i tell her what makes me to talk to her and i do want her since she says no date but just make sure she knows

[@SkillofAttraction]

I did tell you. I said that you shouldn't tell her the signals she gave you, because it will come across like you're trying to convince her to have feelings for you. Plus, you d not owe her an explanation, not do you need to feel guilty for desiring her. You're a man who wants a beautiful woman. there is nothing wrong with that.

[@najib7025]

@@SkillofAttraction thanks i understand that even if she left there is no day am gonna shere with her the signals alright cool.

[@rohanbull1230]

Real talk

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks man!

[@COOLS32401]

Tq kind sir

[@kyleharr10]

GOLD

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thank you!

[@capricrone3537]

this is the exact opposite of what should happen

[@SkillofAttraction]

I do say that it's a man's job to initiate the courtship, so there is a little chasing going on in the beginning.

[@santoshchavan7838]

Sir nice video

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thank you!

[@88mrriss]

You are great

[@SkillofAttraction]

Thanks man!

[@TP-gx8qs]

I'm tired if this games and bullshits. I'm done with women.

[@SkillofAttraction]

It's not really games, though. This is just how they're wired. Being mad with them because of their nature is like being mad at the sun for being bright.

[@TP-gx8qs]

@@SkillofAttraction I understand that's in their nature. And I'm not mad, I'm just tired of dealing with their irrationallity. Thank you for your answer.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Irrationality & women pretty much go hand in hand. They're ruled by their emotions, which are always in flux...

[@suzimanipur2983]

😍

[@marcusfossa6695]

LOL this guy is misinformed. If you see a beautiful woman on the street and you don't chase her, you have zero chance of getting her. She isn't going to chase you.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Watch the video...I talk about that.

[@marcusfossa6695]

Based on my own experience, every single time I was too afraid to chase a woman, she would just keep walking and I would never see her again. You are wrong. Period.

[@SkillofAttraction]

I can tell you still didn't watch the video as I clearly state it is the masculine role to initiate the courtship.

[@marcusfossa6695]

Skill of Attraction - Okay so the title of your video does not match the content of your video then. Title of video: If you chase women, they will run. What you say in the video: It is the man's job to chase women.

[@SkillofAttraction]

Watch the video & it will all makes sense.