If you have ABANDONMENT Issues, WATCH THIS (cure instantly)

[@AaronDoughty44]

Hey! the inner child meditation is here inside my free community called High Vibe Tribe! I go live and do free workshops and meditations in there, join here! aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe

[@natureskylover]

How can i manifest very obsessive intense loving possessive person in my life?. Please tell I'm longing for that type of love.

[@HeatherJohnson1111]

Pending! 🎉

[@mayhtoo3576]

😂🎉❤

[@kimberlyshanks1914]

@@natureskylover you want to be controlled by someone?

[@mayhtoo3576]

Tenqsssss

[@SheDay444]

I healed when I realised I abandoned myself and learned self love. I met my tribe who inspired me with support.❤

[@h1ph0p10]

Fantastic ❤

[@natureskylover]

How can i manifest very obsessive intense loving possessive person in my life?. Please tell I'm longing for that type of love

[@h1ph0p10]

@@natureskylover ask yourself why you’re longing so much for it. Is it because you want to feel whole, than you’re not going to get it. You are already whole and filled with love, you just need to realize that❤️ if you’re in a state of “wanting”, you’re not going to manifest anything. Bashar talks a lot about manifesting ;)

[@natureskylover]

@@h1ph0p10 I'm asking we attract anything with LOA. Isn't it?. I have seen some person are obsessive lovers in this world. As same as I'm asking how can i manifest very obsessive intense loving possessive person in my life who never leave me no matter how hard the situation is and crazy about me.

[@janicetelfer6211]

I'm there❤ 😊

[@Quaziw99d]

This dude casually saving the world everyday 🙏❤️

[@smokingcrab2290]

Ffr bro

[@queenofspeed9788]

​@@smokingcrab2290literally

[@melisalandeteduran8990]

Hahaha that's true!!!❤

[@whitewolf9547]

God man as soon as you said “have a relationship with your inner child” I started balling. I still feel like that child sometimes who just wants to be recognized and seen. I keep ruining relationships and become alone. I need to work on myself for sure. I am going to stay single for a while until i feel confident and love who i am ❤ pray for me people

[@olgar6055]

You got this✨ Sending you love 💜

[@whitewolf9547]

@@olgar6055 I appreciate that ❤️ sending the love back to you as well

[@GooseTheFlick]

Bro already said the key thing at the start: projection of those unmet needs onto other people.

[@bah-bah29hinks7]

I realise I am surrounded by people I work for who have serious self esteem issues which makes them needy and if I don’t feed them what they need they attack. Thank you.

[@kristidaniel3164]

I appreciate the movement of men sharing where they came from and their experiences to overcome their present life issues. We all have issues and it’s not fair that men aren’t able to be vulnerable more mainstream.

[@CMackenzie-e5u]

I wholeheartedly agree with you. Well said.

[@zlatkajupe]

Same. It is so important and appreciated considering how society tells men to bottle up their emotions.

[@lvciddd.]

Saving children is never easy that is the real problem in the world we need to help our children lvciddd

[@J80199]

This is what healed me from my Anxious attachment style. Reprogramming the subconscious mind. Detaching from my insecure attachment. The great thing is that not only will it help you flourish within yourself and relationships. But it also helped me with my career. Remember the subconscious needs 3 things to reprogram it. Visualization, Feelings, and Emotions. Somatic awareness and combining it with an inner child meditation gives you what you need to reprogram and heal those core wounds!

[@user-hq3ym6mx4r]

Can you give more information about how you did it? Iam struggling with it

[@DdotBeeee]

I swear these videos are helping me understand my life as a whole now. Every last one of them! Thank you Aaron!

[@englishforcanada]

I love seeing men embracing their vulnerability ❤ It’s beautiful and healing for everyone.

[@MilenaMcBain-cv1qz]

I experienced the onset of healing through Psychodramatic Body Work back in 98. Its a combo of the Psychodrama with Cathartic Release Work - it was what kick started my transformation fro being an unwanted, neglected, abandoned child of my mother. I'm the eldest of 5, the other 4 came through a step father to me who did adopt me by age 6 and changed my entire name. I was in grade 1, and the onus was upon me to "make" my world recognize me with a new name, to correct others who used my birth name. - I bonded and was nurtured, seen, heard and soothed by my only grandparents (moms parents). My first sibling came when I was 2years 4 months old. We were pitted against one another all growing up to compete, to be adversaries. Its taken us 5 decades to become close sisters and friends. We each understand now that we're here to heal and break these cycles.

[@jennacallahan1]

I just posted an hour ago in the FTP FB group that I’ve been reparenting my younger self with patience, acceptance and love. This is such a cool synchronicity. It’s good to know I’m on the right track. ❤

[@bethanyschaudies4042]

You are always exactly how you need to be!! Hope to see you 'round the high vibe tribe!

[@TheVioletWolf]

I've been doing inner child work with abandonment stuff, difficult childhood, too, but a lot of what you said, emotionally unavailable caregivers, or neglectful, verbally abusive. My dad was always emotionally available, but he would have to work offshore for a week or two at a time, and that was hard. Every time he would leave, we'd get obliterated. I do revisions and take my inner child out to do fun stuff in visualizations... It's pretty cool.

[@DP-wk9qs]

My biggest struggle yet, thanks for covering this topic Aaron

[@davidgarcia1633]

I believe this is such an important podcast to invoke looking within, come face to face and start working on but most probably won't. People born to young parents (teens and in their 20's) are more than likely to feel this type of emotionally distant up-bringing hence finding long lasting love these days is becoming more rare by the day.

[@brandylee6030]

That’s me David- I totally get your comment!! 🙏🏽

[@davidgarcia1633]

​@brandylee6030 You are Love, Brandy. Go out there with your head held up high and bask in that self love... these high frequencies out there bombarding the earth these days will amplify, expand and support what it is you are feeling, what you are being!! Yes, you are Light and Love. Own it now. ❤

[@DoctorSoulHere]

Aaron I love how your authenticity shows up through your videos. You never fail to surprise..

[@andrewtricco3379]

So happy for you to have been given that opportunity to heal your mother wound. I know that feeling and I hope one day I will be able to open this heart of mine. ❤

[@iamruth4113]

During my working life, i worked and supported my mom constantly seeking validation n love from her...a love i never felt growing up in a large family of 8, my dad was emotionally n physically unavailable. He passed away 12 years ago, now Im 55, mom is 78 n i no longer seek that validation,instead im beginning to resent her, the physical n verbal abuses that i hv endured, she never protect me from bullies i received at school, she favored my older sister and my eldest brother. I tried to be closer to her now that she is old but the thoughts of all that my growing up time made me resent her so much. But i still visit her sometimes and buy her gifts,taking her out for dinner etc but deep down i knew... i hate her

[@jerrodmc360]

Thank you. This is divine timing for me to process some more layers. There’s been a lot of friends and family dying the last 3 years, and it’s brought up some deeper feelings that require healing.

[@stephenstalin3876]

Aaron, all of your videos resonate with me. At first, while watching this one, I thought, I had a pretty good childhood. Then, while listening to you talk about your childhood, I was transported through mine. It was like a time warp all the way back to the beginning. I was able to scan everything like a video file and was able to stop and watch different events. Wow, I have been lying to myself and repressing so much! THANK YOU ARRON!! I'm in the CBA right now, and my ideal self is to help people, just as you have helped me. - Namaste

[@robinalexander3032]

Wow! Red is your color!

[@AngelaEstesangiece]

I think my ex husband attracted me to be disappointed in him. 🤔. Near the end he told me I was his father. He had a drivers training incident with his dad where he got so upset he drove over a neighbor’s lawn. And, we divorced because I was disappointed. I’ve had a few relationships since then, though; and my ex sadly passed from early onset Alzheimer’s. One of the last things he said about our marriage was that he didn’t want to change. I said I wasn’t asking him to. For me, I was an only child who grew up thinking more of artistic careers than boyfriends. Until I had a few and got really confused. I’m good now, though. Keep up the good work. 💯❤️

[@TornadoOfSouls777]

I am sorry Please forgive me Thank you I love you ❤

[@bethanyschaudies4042]

Thank you for this vulnerable video! I have been aware of nurturing my relationship with my Mom for 25 years, when it was pointed out to me that I have such an opportunity to try, at 19. I began to tell her about how my then-current interactions correlated with feelings of lack from childhood. I've had a knack for drawing parallels that are overlooked by many, for as long as I can remember. Her and I have shared much dialogue on this, and she is want to fall into her old patterns of, 'well, I guess I'm just a crappy person,' and then I switch it around and nurture her. We work on it. There is much more for me to reflect on, and with direct clarity now, thanks to you. Moving forward with gratitude, grace, light, and love. Thank you, again.

[@mariamonikaaaaa]

Every time my mimd is collapsing, I am playing your videos. Thank you so much for supporting me! You helped more than you know.❤

[@kpmicreightp3550]

Omg thank you foster care to adoption to a family who drugged and abused me thank you so much

[@ourdan14]

Family constellations are probably most powerful therapeutic technique.

[@natureskylover]

How can i manifest very obsessive intense loving possessive person in my life?. Please tell I'm longing for that type of love

[@jaynedenny7759]

I watched new videos years ago and I'm back. I want to do the meditation but I have to sign up. That is a little frustrating I am ready to do the meditation now and you said it's free. I already gave all my personal information for something else you were offering and another video. So yes, definitely frustrated but still very grateful. Keep doing the good work ❤

[@izzyc3141]

THEO in the thumbnail LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO

[@PrimalCarnivoreFallon]

Crazy that you mentioned that book. It was my favorite childhood book. Im constantly looking for validation and crave affection. I realize now it's because that it wasn't given to me as a child 😢

[@johannakunze3300]

Which book?

[@natureskylover]

How can i manifest very obsessive intense loving possessive person in my life?. Please tell I'm longing for that type of love

[@dawnmaestascowell6930]

Thank you love from Portland Oregon

[@HarmonyMusk-m1i]

That is a very interesting Family Constellation. Thank you for sharing this information with all of us. Lovely content. Good day Mr. Doughty :)

[@dianeadams9533]

I struggled with this a lot. My father abandoned me at 9, my mother died when I was 11. I struggled most of my life with seeking love and validation. I got this by giving sex to men. Took me many years to feel loveable for who I am.

[@sahelmoon]

Family constellations is amazing and a powerful therapy. Beautiful video about an important topic that we need to heal. ❤ from Portugal.

[@kristidaniel3164]

I love those studies. So interesting to watch children’s natural development and the importance of nurture.

[@IlseTalman]

Heavy, but very good. Thank you ☀️

[@mayhtoo3576]

Divine child,innocence❤

[@JenniferDWilson721]

Thank you. I have such a hard time imagining myself being in a healthy relationship, it’s like a wall. I can imagine having money and all these other things, but when it comes to love, it’s blank. So I wonder if I start working on my inner child, maybe that block will finally lift.

[@martinpereziii9507]

Wow, today is the day of emotional awareness not just from you this must be the fifth wow today. Thank you. I regret leaving the tribe i honestly projected you and everyone wrong.

[@viviantejada]

excellent video. i love the fact that you're bringing light to this especially because its men speaking about this. at a human level, we can all experience abandonment wounds

[@TheGiaAllenDC]

Thank you for allowing me to ascend. To get to this process you and everyone here will have to face through every battle from the very beginning in order to learn, grow and improve. You must face every adversity and poverty. Every emotional pain in order to be able to heal others or others to heal. You’re unprepared. You lack experience and emotional strength. You have not experienced any type of loss. Zero open relationships or marriages. God did not approve of my brother’s lifestyle. Best of luck.

[@lvciddd.]

Helping children is always looked at as a narcissist but actually it's the narcissist that is trying to 🛑 me from saving children I sea it all the time I'm grateful I have you Aaron helping us survivors lvciddd

[@notesc821]

Thank you for sharing this!

[@nella111]

Your channel has helped me so much !! Thank you beautiful soul ❤

[@Bandybear]

This is probably not a very popular video topic however I very much appreciate your input on this subject. Literally every aspect of the abandoned child traits I could identify and really want to thank you for your help in finding our way through the awareness of old patterns but so stuck. I’m totally stuck and can’t figure it out. Like anything and everything I try to do I sabotage or I’m such a freak I can’t even relate to anyone. It’s strange and frustrating that I’m still here. However I don’t feel anything like I was a few years ago before my mom died. Now I’m still doing the same things all wrong but I don’t feel anything like the person I thought I was. And was fine with.

[@charger2dagame]

This inner child healing process has been eye opening and very emotional 😭. I swear I cry during every meditation. At 36 I realize my parents simply were not emotionally available and when I look at their parent they weren’t either. Combine that with alcohol abuse , verbal and physical abuse mhmm. I craved attention / praise so much that now I noticed I don’t trust myself enough. This year will be a new me. Trust! Praying for everyone’s healing ❤️‍🩹

[@exlenyparra8829]

Today I had a family constelation Therapy and as you said it's powerful tool to heal, I ve been throught different practices to heal as well but this way it is amazing to hnderstand and get free of a lot things you never imagine they were there. Thank you very much for sharing this information Aaron.

[@mayhtoo3576]

Yesss!!inner child is genuine innocent..self................❤

[@mayhtoo3576]

Interesting combo

[@MiriamEspada-q5d]

I've been watching ur vids. Your videos are therapy, I'm a self healer, i can't afford psychotherapist.. I can understand myself now and getting better, be patient and kind to myself.. Thank you Aaron

[@InannasDescent]

This information was divine timing for me this morning. I’m going to look for the meditation in HVT. I ❤ Kauai!!!

[@nirmalaaradhya4416]

Super 👌 hear every one is frad. Pls help 🙏 me mum.

[@BeStillandKnow0000]

I think this is your most important video to date. It has helped me understand how to connect and stay there with my inner child as i give her the nurturance she never got.

[@Opheliaandco]

Wow. I just have to say I’m so happy I found you in the season I did and also thank you for being vulnerable and sharing with all of us. I’m thankful to be here and be apart of CBA at this time in my life. Much love 🤗

[@marinabloom]

loving that kinda format of external video snippets and your explanations around it 💕🦄 looking forward to more 🙏🏻

[@Helene_experience]

Thank you. You’ve just helped me

[@setarehashkboos2019]

Your smile is lovely aaron ❤

[@joanae8189]

This video is power!!! Thanks, you are changing lifes.

[@savannathesiren]

we are wearing the same shirt as I watch this video. hahahha. that was trippy.

[@ValerieHT]

Thank you, Aaron. I’m almost 60 and find myself leaving a career path because of the people I work with. I had a loving supportive family and both parents. I never felt unloved or not cherished. However, I was a victim of brutal unrelenting bullying in school from kindergarten to 6th grade. Every day was torture. Back in the 70s, teachers took the “let kids be kids” stance and my parents had no recourse. I’m thinking my inner child needs healing due to this? Or am I overthinking?

[@alisonf6478]

Trust yourself. I’d say “yes” to some inner child work ❤

[@rozen9596]

Very nice video !!!! you doing an amazing job to break things down....😢

[@mathswithasma]

Really nice t - shirt and thanks a lot, a lot for this sharing brother, and my life was so full of abandonments ... 😪 Heart full of prayers for you. ❣❤❤❤❤❤❣

[@Cheryn77]

I need you my parents died when I was 9 so I crave acceptance..not validated no matter how sexy how pretty there is something off I do not trust anyone they all leave

[@J80199]

Fear of abandonment wound ❤️‍🩹. Deep at your core, you want love and closeness but you have walls up because you feel they will let you down and leave. The pain would be too much which is why those walls are high. No matter how much external compliments you receive, will never be enough because deep down you feel a void, emptiness and a low self worth within yourself. All your feelings are valid, and what you been through must’ve been very hard as a child. But everything you are missing can be replenish by addressing those core wounds. You have the power to go back and give your little self all that she was missing during those times with somatic awareness and inner child meditation. Our brain has neuroplasticity. That’s factual. You can program your subconscious mind with the secure attachment style. It takes courage but your inner child is NEEDING to be heard. Every trigger/emotion you feel presently is her asking you to be seen and heard. ❤️‍🩹

[@mayhtoo3576]

Very interesting sharing JJ😊❤

[@mayhtoo3576]

This is very interesting family const... Therapy,energy pattern😮

[@mayhtoo3576]

A.....lrightttt,now I ve discovered Camara 😮😮😮😮❤I love this😅

[@aa3186]

Wow Aaron thank you so much

[@lauracook2116]

Hey Aaron, the O in oedipus is silent :) love so much that you are so into psychology and spirituality as someone who loves how they’ve started coming together in the mental health field as a resident therapist ✌️

[@LunaEmpress777]

Verry eye opening thank you

[@helloworld188]

Very informative... thank you!!!

[@thea3765]

I've been binging all of your videos and though I know you're right I'm struggling to implement it into my real life, my roomate/best friend might be moving across the country and they just told me, my anxious attachment is really struggling with this and I don't know how to unattach myself to the outcome of if they actually decide to move or not. I struggle with this in almost all my relationships but this one specifically is very painful. Like I'm losing a part of myself. I know I should let go but I don't know how to.

[@Kcali111]

Resonated Thank you ❤️

[@Virvepaulina]

Omg I feel so crazy, I relate 😂🙈

[@FzaraCool]

Thank you so much Aaron 😢❤

[@1997Milan]

Thanks Aaron. I feel I have these issues and I'm trying to work on getting better, your videos help a lot. ❤

[@Florianpimpf]

watch julienhimself insane value like aaron

[@DistortedIlusion]

Aaron Doughty is super yeel

[@kimberlyshanks1914]

My Dad wanted a boy and did not acknowledge me for 18 months. My mom told me this.😢

[@kimberlyshanks1914]

@cosmiccosplaygirl yes. I grew up in the country riding horses, and other athletic activities

[@WhiteWolfBlackStar]

Ok now after this go watch NIRVANA - SLIVER from Incesticide. My Grandma was where I felt safe! ✨🥰✨. Miss her so much!

[@heartliss]

Yes we are saying this out loud

[@Manhattan_Heretic]

I was doing inner child meditations last year and connected with myself from ages 0-19 as these were the years where it was tough. I realized that my 17 year old self wasn’t healed yet. I’ll talk with him. Never heard of family constellation therapy until now. Another therapy to consider is Emotion Code Technique to process emotions.

[@WanderinLove369]

This was meant for me when I watched this video the Lile count was numerically the same as my childhood address 😮soooo yea ❤🎉synchronicity

[@tammyhilts610]

Thank you so much for this ❤❤❤

[@vishuvishnu1537]

Thanks brother u changed my life ❤ love u

[@rackyella]

This is what I was looking last 7 years and living for 37 years. What the hell I am trying to get a woman stay with me and I change myself towards how they would wanted to see me and be me.

[@XZ858XZ]

This is such a quality video! I’ve been following your content for a while now and it keeps getting better Cool to see you stitching in relevant examples from pop culture (Theo Von) and elaborating on the topics. Also, now I need to find out more about Neville Goddard for this revision technique

[@redpat8832]

So fantastic! 👏🔥👏❤️‍🔥🔥👏

[@lvciddd.]

I'm glad you talk about your past lvciddd

[@magsmccombe6863]

Thanks Aaron ❤️

[@sonoGolaSS]

you are talking about hellingers therapy, very powerful. nowadays pretty popular in europe.

[@escueladeexpansion]

You can also do self constellations. Just read Bert Hellinger or Hammer. Your cycles are of 7 they start when you’re in your mothers womb. But thank you Aaron

[@evathuning78]

Thank you so, so much! ❤

[@heartliss]

Yeah he’s cute when he fills up

[@dorothymontgomery3882]

This is an excellent video!

[@dawnmaestascowell6930]

I watch ur videos over

[@MisSaLiMaRi3]

So wild. I watched this show of Theo’s WITH the person I’m currently here to watch this video about. So crazy how the universe works.

[@cassiestevens8382]

Thanks❣️

[@liadsalomon1196]

as a baby I had the "small brother role" as the hospital childhood took all the attentions from my siblings. at the same time I have abandonment behaviors for not being there when they needed sometimes. (if any of it makes sense)

[@marialaska4613]

thank you so much Aaron

[@mayhtoo3576]

This vid very sharing vulnerable talk,felt empathy for inner child we were already, now we embrace with consciousness &compassion,so highly appreciated this unique vidA4!!💜🌹💦💦💯😇

[@smritykashyap8856]

Brilliant

[@claraandriessen8423]

0-7 is the tender age period of being in the theta waves. It may vary a little bit, but five I would say is a bit too soon to say we've lost that impressionability already.

[@Phoenix.006]

I could feel your pain, honestly its so hard to even listen to this video, i feel that i already hurt my son that just turned 2 years on the 30 of May... i feel so bad about it, is there anything i can do for him and my step daughter of 5 years to give them all the nurture, love, attention and affection they deserve? Can i do anything to heal the mistaked ive already done? I was not the greatest mother and i feel bad about this... and i feel its so hard for sometimes to be present and give my son attention, and even when i get hugs from my partner i feel that i want them and desire them, but sometimes i feel uncomfortable, like wanting to run away and sometimes i hate this feeling because i love him so much and i just want to be a normal healthy person... thanks for this video.