If You Love Me … Stop Humiliating Me 🛑 Sally Jessy Raphael Full Episode

[@sylviakitchener-phillips3809]

I love Sally professional, caring , intelligent and well spoken plus a strong advocate for women. Truly a awesome classic

[@ttintagel]

A lot of these men deliberately destroy their partners' self-esteem so they will think they can't do any better and stay with them.

[@acfirby]

I birthed 3 living babies and have a thyroid disease. Thankfully my husband of 20 years loves my body despite being 50 pounds heavier. These men suck.

[@gaylesmith8677]

These men don’t have any control in their lives so they take it out on their wives. I bet their in lowly paid jobs and feel like their low achievers. I hope none of these women stayed one more day with these poor excuses of men.

[@Sharon422LC]

I swear Larry is a secret closet dweller...😆

[@sigge773]

Lmao was just about to say that

[@chloemarsh612]

That's what I'm thinking

[@Spice99857]

He sure as hell is.

[@brookebailey4330]

No doubt about it!

[@sarahh2072]

In the 90s it still wasn't accepted so they would stay in fake relationships to hide it

[@rosearellanes5648]

My ex was verbally abusive just like these men. Verbal abuse IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. These women need to leave before they are getting hit

[@AmberTurdsShittyBedsheet]

Yes. 100% They'll hit you if given enough time to!

[@charell31]

Good ole 90s Talk Shows. Sally was good back in the day.

[@chancelewis9297]

How dare these despicable men humiliate these beautiful women. They should be ashamed of themselves.

[@RainRemnant]

These are not men...

[@Gumpmachine1]

If he wants her to drop a dress size then he better get ripped. Fair is fair.

[@cymbolichuman433]

I didn't gain much weight after I had the children, back in the 80's and 90's. He still ridiculed me and called me a pervert for breast feeding a baby. It doesn't matter how hard you try to fulfill their wishes, they will belittle you because they have rotten personalities.

[@eh-i1841]

You hit the nail on the head,there.They have rotten personalities,and it’s got nothing to do with the wives.They are just handy kicking-posts.

[@AC-qo2lr]

Sorry to hear and I hope you are no longer with him

[@solerodemanga]

😮😮😮

[@MetalThrashingMad]

You picked a piece of crap like these women did unfortunately not all men are like this.

[@missy7492]

I love their 90s hair styles:)

[@black4pienus]

That female mullet though. lmao

[@fredzzkid]

LMAO Ikr? Let's have a moment of silence for all those cans of Aqua Net that gave their all to get us through the 80s and 90s XD

[@nicolecummings4597]

😂brings back memories!

[@carly1799]

@@fredzzkid FRRR. there is no telling how many hairsprays and gels they went through

[@nananiya.]

me too !!!!

[@caligirlmarti]

1st dude is a narcissistic bully!

[@yhasmanknight1908]

I agree and then Sally asked her how does his name calling make you feel? How do you think that makes her feel Sally? That's degrading and insulting. Like duh.

[@EvansSt83]

He's also a racist.

[@roguenorcross9982]

I sincerely hope Beatrice didn't end up dead, because she just kept making excuses, even when the update said he'd gotten physical. I spent 8 years in this same kind of relationship. It rarely changes. My ex maintains to this day that he wasn't abusive, "but did I hit you?!" By the time I left, he was punching holes in Wales, breaking and throwing furniture at me, among other vile things. Beating me was always a day away.

[@OdachiRain]

these men KNOW what they are doing. they dont go after super thin women because its not their goal. they enjoy belittling and bullying their partners they dont want the women to lose weight at all because then it means they cant yell and verbally abuse their spouse

[@Suzanne-t8y]

Ladies, self confidence comes from SELF. do what you can to present yourself in a way you are always proud of and nobody can take your self confidence.

[@natalieharris8602]

I miss Sally ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@garyshack3511]

Some guys are creeps, don't know how to treat a lady, they ain't no good, leave them

[@garyshack3511]

Tell him, He ought to learn to cook his own food even clean up your own stuff, being totally dependent on a female don't work no more

[@garyshack3511]

So damn appalling and disgusting, How dare you, you punks, humiliating and degrading these young attractive ladies, oh hell no, that's no way to treat a lady, what's wrong with you?

[@RainRemnant]

What's wrong? They're full blown narcissists. And there are millions of them out there, including women

[@suzannerobbins6293]

Been married 57 years, and my husband still wants me for sex! I feel bad for women like this…I hope these women found happiness after the show!

[@candicehoneycutt4318]

Larry was straight up gaslighting that poor girl on national television omg

[@sonyafox3271]

Men that abuse women are narcissists 💯%!

[@alexweiss388]

I find it funny how some of these beaten-down wives/girlfriends have no problem telling the husbands/boyfriends of these other girls what they're doing wrong, but can't do that with their own.

[@malindaaddicott4940]

Girls!… Love is not supposed to hurt!

[@VERYSILLYMARTTIAN]

I absolutely love the sally show! she's intelligent, caring ,understanding and more. this episode was truly hard to watch I hope these women found men that respected and cared for them .

[@yootoob1001001]

This is probably one of the most realistic episodes including the exchanges and advice given by the psychologist.

[@nananiya.]

how did they have so much hair volume!!! ??? what a classic style 😂😭❤️

[@milly_lily1395]

I like how a man will sit there with his wife through all 9 months, seeing her body change and obvious some weight gain. And then expect the weight to be gone over night. For some women, they don't gain much weight and can breast feed (that helps shrink the uterus) BUT NOT EVERY WOMAN CAN AND SHOULD NOT BE UPHELD TO THE STANDARDS OF OTHERS TO THOSE WHO CAN. Every body is different. Weight loss for men and women are different. Our hormones work differently. Fat distribution is different. No one should be compared to another. If anyone is unhappy with a partner because their body changed over time, then they are delusional and need therapy.

[@princessb9998]

Why stay with these worthless men, your self esteem and mental health should be more important than any man or someone you “love” 34:40 if this doesn’t open his eyes and see that his actions doesn’t just affect his wife but his child too then I don’t know what will make him change. RUN GIRL RUN and take your child before it’s too late for her!!!

[@trace9227]

She is so far down because he destroyed her self-esteem and it's hard to stand up for yourself when all you see is disrespect from someone you love and she is so young 😢😢

[@sonyafox3271]

I have learned a lot of this stuff, is staged. Half of this doesn’t even begin to cover what women go through in real life. And, more people go through it than one realizes! There needs to be more domestic violence shelters and, extended length of time. I will say this because, there are some women, that don’t have the support of other family members. I was so, glad that, at the time, I had friends that helped me back home, and, also talking to staff for me at the one, I stayed at, at the time and, came to see me. But, it was over 2 hrs away and, disabled. The area only had 2 shelters and, if you needed to be in a shelter longer they would only put the woman in her children in the other shelter, only if the woman is working.The Domestic Violence Shelter twisted that to my friends. I had to explain to them they wouldn’t and, my friends were able to get me a place with no problem back home. Course, yah, I had some issues when, I got back home, not easy but, with time it gets resolved so, it’s still a tough haul. But, I will tell you my mom never believed me and wouldn’t help me, and,the things a parent will say to their daughters. But, finally when, other people spoke to her, it was then, she realized the extent of what was going on. But, seriously more even till this day more needs to be done with the laws and, community support!

[@gaylesmith8677]

Randy a skinny unattractive man. He’s like a skinny boy he’s jealous coz she’s got muscles and he’s scrawny

[@soniagraham9588]

Hi sally watching u from 🇯🇲🇯🇲🙏ur my favertite talk show person 🥰🥰

[@jbiddle9235]

Tina and Larry- did nobody realize he's gay?

[@kellyelrington5663]

Absolutely, from the first second he was on camera. Then the voice..... he's fooling himself.

[@StrawberryJam806]

Larry doesn’t play on your team, girl

[@black4pienus]

Larry might be gay....

[@Kryptongurl84]

Yes!! He gives off the vibes.

[@kendragreene5953]

That's what I was thinking too!!!!!!!!!

[@fredzzkid]

I thought my gaydar was going off....

[@terraleanna4637]

Might be? He IS gay 😂😮

[@secemoiraharrell1035]

The first girl was so pretty.i hope she left his disrespectful behind. I wish I could’ve gave her a hug.None of the women deserved the way they were treated.that’s abuse and narcissistic men don’t change they only get worse.

[@ericaaubie860]

These men are clowns 🤡 🤡!

[@Michelle77Va]

Larry looks like Zach Morris!!😂🤣🤣🤣

[@marionm5311]

These boys are jerks ,seriously ,love is patient ,love is kind ect,The problem is these Girls have become women and the boys are still boys.

[@MrsOrtiz-m9y]

Beatriz mother should have never told her that! She would never forgive herself if something happened to her daughter and grandchild at the hands of her abusive husband!! And that goes for all mothers

[@garyshack3511]

Leave Him, He ain't no good for you, You deserve better

[@9852323]

Both Jennifer and Randy have mullets 😂

[@angelacleveland3860]

I'm glad they put James on there to talk to them they seemed to be listening.

[@Carolina_Panthers145]

I believe they all doing better today

[@ttintagel]

If you can't handle the idea of your wife's body changing over the years, especially after childbirth, then you have no business getting married and having children. Because that's just life in a human body.

[@aimbertlovesherbabies8278]

Im like al bundy. I dont express myself very well. I almost fell over laughing.

[@dylanseb1090]

You can't change a narcisisst! You can only run from them!!

[@ashleecantu6470]

These women CHOOSE to be treated this way. If you don't like it, LEAVE. It's not always that easy, but it is that simple. If you have your hand on a hot stove and are getting burned, you don't stand there and cry ab how bad it hurts. You take your hand off the damn stove. These types of shows are so frustrating to watch bc it feels like a bunch of women with their hands very deliberately placed on a hot stove crying that it burns. We all feel sorry for them. We all hate that they're in pain. The whole audience is begging them to take their hands off the stove, but they refuse to do it. At some point, that's on you. There's no point in everyone joining in your misery if you're just going to keep touching the stove anyway.

[@desertgirl30]

Unfortunately I have to agree with you. I was in a couple of abusive relationships, one was for 2 years. In both situations, I finally reached my breaking point and I ended things. It was not easy by any means but it had to be done!!

[@sonyafox3271]

No, not really, because, usually a lot of men unfortunately don’t show their true colors till after they get their prize/ the woman! But, all while their dating a lot of men don’t show themselves until then, they act like when, they are just dating, they will make it look like everything is full of sunshine and rainbows!

[@ashleecantu6470]

@@sonyafox3271 I absolutely agree with you. That's almost always the case. It doesn't change the fact that they still have to CHOOSE to get themselves out of the situation.

[@jitkadonnelly7844]

🤦🏼‍♀️

[@AmberTurdsShittyBedsheet]

@@sonyafox3271 The point is though if there is an opening to leave in an abusive relationship, you take it and run with it. Yes, it's true a lot of men won't show their colors, but when my abusive ex did I got out of it before it got physical. There are organizations and crisis centers that will help you escape and plan a way to escape.

[@tinahochstetler2189]

What the therapist said about the little girl back stage described me perfectly as a child. I would go to any adult woman and enjoyed their company, even as a small child. but ran and hid when there was a man around. Had to control myself better than that, obviously, as I grew up. But even in my old age, the feeling has never changed. Grew up seeing my mom abused.

[@ericaaubie860]

Any man that was that abusive to me I would be gone!

[@sharimagnetti3257]

The women now have realized how beautiful the way are

[@faeriefire78]

Attacking their weight/appearance. Classic assholery from the Abusive Partner Playbook. They're so original!🙄

[@michaelobrien267]

Larry came out as gay years after the show was broadcast. This was the main reason their relationship had ‘issues’. I have no idea what happened with the rest of them though.

[@tracismith4518]

I was just thinking Larry is gay then I read your comment

[@Spice99857]

Larry came out gay where and how? On Sally Jesse?

[@ambermaree5316]

Imprint little boys no men but boys go back to mommy

[@sarahh2072]

Poor Larry's so far in the closet he's in Narnia

[@Carolina_Panthers145]

I believe they doing better now

[@jessiisenhower3916]

Now we get put down for not having husbands and children. No wonder 😔 This brings back lots of bad memories for me and being called fat bitch and seeing it happen to other women. It was very common at this time and probably still is.

[@TCKIDD]

I hope Larry is out of the closet by now

[@TammyFofah]

Nothing worse than being in a abusive relationship i have survived 2 until i realized the problem was me i did'nt love me enough to know i. deserved better❤❤

[@Carolina_Panthers145]

Hopefully their marriage is healthy now

[@Krisnelson1969]

Calling anyone names, using racist or other demeaning insults, or using physical harm, is wrong, and should never be tolerated.

[@ayoitsritz]

I wonder what happened to Beatriz

[@shawnaburns5158]

What these abusers don't realize is that one day they could possibly loose their partner,,,they need to respect them

[@Carolina_Panthers145]

Hopefully all is well now with their marriage

[@jodiloree3691]

All those boys are secretly gay. My daughters ex gave her a puppy after he blackened her eye. Punks!

[@RayYoWTF]

A spik??? I’ve never heard that ‘slur’ before and I’m Mexican. 😂 How is that hurtful? It sounds funny but like if you don’t know what it is you’re just like, ok? Thanks. 💀

[@Spice99857]

You must be young, that is a well-known racial slur for Hispanics. It's not funny, by the way.

[@MickeyGee73]

I wonder if Larry came out of the closet yet?

[@RainRemnant]

So many ads for shows that aren't even yours...

[@evgeniaboubouli1235]

When someone deliberately hurts you, you walk away and not cry your life away, ladies.

[@Carolina_Panthers145]

Fact's!!! But hey they might be doing much better now

[@gloricelserrano5200]

She couldn’t tell about Larry?

[@garyshack3511]

Hopefully, These Ladies would start to leave their tired a*, they got to go, they deserve better

[@millenecruzeirolourenco8831]

the 3 Woman is just speaking fact’s

[@jasonhuntley4203]

can you perhaps label the years these came out Mos Def 90's if you call someone that "certain word today" the sho gets cancelled, the person gets their ass beat in the parking lot and it makes the news see dudes did/still do that because their Insecure about themselves thats the whole point while insted they should be supportive and kind i wondr if any of them are still togethr aftr all these yrs and hve grown old togethr? i def love the nostalgia ty.. God Bless..

[@joshuagoodrow]

The voiceover announcer of The Sally Jessy Raphael Show Is Chuck Conners.

[@garyshack3511]

I wouldn't be the most surprised if she leave his ignorant a*, he ain't no good

[@Onlymetonight]

I don’t understand why these women are siting here crying The first time he says those things leave. Then get a job and keep busy

[@Onlymetonight]

Taking care of your daughter is great but how do you talk to your man? Have you ever called him names?

[@coralcoral4710]

I hate HYMANITY...

[@OppoOppo-qg6wr]

it's all about weight.. they will create stories.. call us names they will always make us feel guilty but they don't to leave us.. I wonder why...

[@joshuagoodrow]

Ladies and Gentlemen, Would You Please Welcome The Lady Of The Hour, Sally Jessy Raphael.

[@Juggalowitch]

Larry seems a little fruity

[@KerryJames-l6z]

Disrespecting yelling is so dibilitatying the other person

[@AC-qo2lr]

Holy mullet

[@katefevre6222]

So divorce them !

[@joshuagoodrow]

Today's Episode, "If You Love Me, Stop Humiliating Me".

[@melissahaletky2356]

Love yourself and get out of that real.

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

Beatrice what is my grandma's name It's a beautiful name, She needs to leave him and take Her baby girl far away from that jacka*s he isn't worth it !! If yall won't leave for yourselves Leave for your babies that y'all love cuz if he treats you that way claiming to love you he'll do it to his kids also !!

[@katefevre6222]

They're just like my father, and I have nothing to do with him.

[@Carolina_Panthers145]

They could be doing better now

[@bibbilagermand8397]

You men should be ashamed of your selves.poor women

[@Ashley-kb8pi]

They couldn’t find a straight actor to play “Gary”?

[@crystallotzer5400]

Larry's gay 😂

[@Plus_P_Plus]

I forgot how cringy these shows were!OMG

[@nicolecummings4597]

Larry is in the closet… 😳

[@jitkadonnelly7844]

These poor girls. Poor Beatrice 😢

[@kellyelrington5663]

Larry's not interested in ladies, just sayin'. What a bunch of douchebags. I do know it can be very hard to leave, I have been there but there comes a time your sanity and your life depends on it.

[@Carolina_Panthers145]

I'm praying they doing better now days

[@vijo461]

Hope Beatrice made it out.

[@garyshack3511]

Give me a break, You got to be kidding me, Who do you think you're fooling, you twerps, you got to put in your own work around here

[@cocohow9195]

Larry is gay! 😄

[@karanaferreira]

Tina is a whiner

[@samial-suwaidi]

I feel sorry for James. He's being chewed out for not being attracted to someone who has changed physically. It was cool for women to beat up men in the 90s. Thank goodness there have been changes.

[@Bee-qo2en]

Think these guys are in the closet tbh

[@jimmyo1123]

Too bad james is a jerk cuz hes cute

[@Hereforthetea12]

Seems like Larry maybe a decent guy. Tina is the jerk

[@mavisbarnes7010]

He's not going to change and your not ugly leave him you can do better

[@mavisbarnes7010]

Let him cook is own food

[@mavisbarnes7010]

Leav him

[@sugerfreecandy4874]

Tina is a real one!!!! MVP