Can Our Marriage Last? 👰🤵 Sally Jessy Raphael Full Episode

[@Dav3Campb3ll]

Ladies, Never trust a man who cries too much. Not a single tear was dropped. Cheers!

[@kelliecraft9176]

Now that you mention it, I also failed to see one single tear drop from the Sahara Desert that is his face.

[@HemiQueen]

SO true 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

[@josabenajean-pierre6069]

True

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

Or a women!! The women talking about she wanted to take her own life and her own babies life didn't have any tears eigther !! They both need help , who says that about their own child !!

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

​​@wnc817yeah so do men !!

[@marionjames4986]

Randy the drama Queen, woah is me, men have been in worse positions. Being kicked out at a young age etc, the same thing happened to my dad. He picked himself up, worked all his life, married my mum in 1967, had me in 69 and my sister in 72. They were married right up till my mum died of cancer in 2004 and I was his main carer when he got dementia and died last year. Difference is my dad matured and became a man and faced his responsibilities RIP Dad and mum❤️

[@momfromnj911]

What woman in their right mind would say she had thoughts of not only killing herself but her baby too. Baby should be taken away

[@ttintagel]

Woe.

[@Crichtonator1982]

Maybe he's actually sorry. Have you ever thought about that?

[@Mitch-Alex]

Yes, wayy tooo many emotions for a man . . . LITTLE DAMN BABY.

[@Redh3adTheRedFox]

Randy isn’t even crying, he’s just scrunching up his face.

[@MakeupMobster]

He’s play crying.

[@IndigoEnchantress]

Randy's ugly cry facials are killing me 😂😂

[@ashleyj7011]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@staceyromesburg]

So sad that Tom has so much power over her. Tracy feels she can't do any better than him. She is beautiful and when she finally realizes that she doesn't deserve to be treated like trash.. She'll finally take the real trash to the curb and let it go. He does NOT love her at all. He is very controlling and self centered. Just makes me sick the way he talks to her and about her. And it's sad that women fall for men like that.

[@Dav3Campb3ll]

100%

[@Amber-sv7ld]

Couldn't of said it better myself. She lacks self esteem and he loves that. He can use & abuse her knowing she'll take his shit. Remember ladies, men will only do to you what you allow!

[@StefanThomas-lifestyle]

Random note: Everytime I hear the name "Sally Jessy Raphael", my brain automatically says "Salad Dressing" Raphael 😂😂😂

[@annmariepardo6989]

This woman was spot on Randy, needs to stop running, when things goes wrong.

[@ashleecantu6470]

Randy was so afraid of having a baby that he knocked someone up two more times after the first in a matter of a year or two? Spare me.

[@MakeupMobster]

😂😂😂. Good point

[@suzannerobbins6293]

I got pregnant while taking the pill so it does happen! The drug company took the pill off the market not long after that! 1965…..it was an Eli Lilly drug, and brand new at the time. I am thankful it failed…my beautiful daughter turned out to be a blessing! She helped me through a hard year when my hubby went to Vietnam!

[@april7104]

I got pregnant with twins taking the pill so you definitely can get pregnant on them

[@traci12078]

My daughter is on pill too but she got pregnant. I now have a 5 month old grandson

[@suzannerobbins6293]

@@traci12078 Like you our daughter wasn’t planned, but I sure can’t imagine my life without her! She is 56, and truly a best friend! I know you feel glad you have a grandson!

[@traci12078]

@@suzannerobbins6293 absolutely! That little boy is my world

[@suzannerobbins6293]

@@traci12078 I am glad the pill failed in your case too! Little did I know a baby would help me get through that hard year of my hubby in Vietnam. She kept me busy! He left when she was three months, and returned at eighteen months. She has no memory of him being gone. He was still able to enjoy her toddler years! Good luck with that little boy! ❤️

[@amygonzales9146]

Randy cries but sheds no tears 🤣🤣🤣

[@MakeupMobster]

He’s dry crying. 😂😂

[@kallihuggins6964]

How is nobody talking about Tracy contemplating killing herself and her BABY?! Like, wtf?!

[@kendragreene5953]

No for real!!! That would NOT go in today's world!!!

[@sadiebrown8050]

People are way more compassionate towards depression, especially towards women with postpartum depression. She would definitely have gotten more sympathetic gasps and awws from the crowd in today’s world.

[@MakeupMobster]

I was thinking the same thing. This kind of stuff would not be overlooked nowadays. I feel like that would be more of the focus in this story. That is not good

[@Alexandria87]

Right!!! My sympathy ended for her the moment she talked about ending her baby along with herself.

[@staceyromesburg]

Randy seems very manipulative the way he puts everything on himself as if he wants pity for what he's done. And says i don't feel I've been punished for what I've done.. So I'm here to be punished. Like pity me.. Plus he had no tears in his eyes at all. I get it he was young.. But why run to another woman and get her pregnant when the reason he ran to begin with was because he was afraid of having a baby with the first girl??

[@liamhenrique7999]

Totally agree....and he lied about the other girls baby not being his....Doubt there was a paternity test done on a miscarriage.....

[@spleenforsoul]

​@@liamhenrique7999I went to the comment section looking for someone else who caught that. I highly doubt there was a paternity test on a miscarriage. He is extremely manipulative and a liar. That girl needs to run far away from him.

[@sweetbunny3334]

​@@spleenforsoulSo true, I hope miss girl separated from him and left him in the 90s 🤡🌺😊

[@bunnykinssmile]

Right away mins in. That fella really working hard to try get them tears out 😂

[@ashleecantu6470]

She didn't "have him arrested." HE had himself arrested when he got violent with her.

[@nunyabizniz1983]

Seeing relationships like this makes me glad I’m single lol

[@wendya.presley7316]

I just like seeing the damn hairstyles people walked around with 😱

[@donnyreiss1180]

i love it. now everyone flat irons their hair. looking dead & fried. boring.

[@ksmr9582]

- and the clothes. Everybody looked so damn old.

[@AndyChilton234]

Why is the guy crying for he is the 1 who messed it up if he really loved her he would never have cheated at all he should have been there supporting her and helping her with the kids and about to give birth not going out and cheat on her

[@evanmcclure67]

Yeah it's his own fault. You get what you give and what you deserve

[@sammnew]

Tom is a nasty controlling bully 😡

[@the_specialista6319]

The fact that he denied that the child was his exposing the other girl that he was with made my stomach churn Regarding the second girl, thank God things have changed,nowadays they wouldn't invite a man like that to a TV show, he hit her please!!! And she wants him back, she lives in his shadow and want to take not only her life but her daughter's... Unbelievable

[@antonglas7488]

The second couple, Tom and Tracy. What scared me is that she threatened to kill her baby. Tom was a deadbeat dad and it`s obvious that woman was mentally and emotionally unstable, she was obsessed with Tom and if he discards her she`d be capable of doing anything. That baby should have immediately been taking into care by child protective services.

[@princessb9998]

I didn’t like Tom’s behaviour in what he had done to his wife but when he picked up his child and said my baby like he was almost in tears that made me feel so happy

[@princessb9998]

@Tee Sratz I said I was happy about the way he acted with his child NOT the abusive behaviour toward his wife 😒😒 and for your information I would not accept that type of behaviour in a relationship I would have

[@kkbeazley9359]

All I see is crocodile tears on his face he's to dramatic with his facial expressions idk

[@Hexighost]

ah answering machine, the good old days

[@brookebailey4330]

I can relate to the first girl, Crystal, so much. The pain of being cheated on is devastating. And she is right, you wonder if he was saying those things to the other woman that he is saying to you and doing the same things. It's emotional torture.

[@staceyromesburg]

You said it all yourself Donnica and everything you've said is enough reason to get the hell out of that relationship. If he was putting his hands on you before marriage and didn't care about your feelings, that should have been enough to not get married. I've been through that for years and finally got out of it. Once it starts.. It doesn't get any better and it doesn't stop. That's pathetic if he's getting jealous over an old man that needs her care. Smh. And if she's making the damn money.. She has all the right to use it how she likes.

[@bunnykinssmile]

I’m annoyed at sally disagreeing with the girl about birth control. I mean granted there are those who lie about that. But it really does happen. I got prego on pill so did my sis and cousin on the same brand. They actually took it off the market in the late 00s so don’t guilt her and call her a liar without your facts straight

[@kkbeazley9359]

The 1st couple I feel nothing for this man with his bullshit crocodile tears I see him trying to cry but no tears what so ever gtfoh so dramatic I mean his faces and he is trying like hell to push them tears out and yet he still comes out and lies you can tell he is controlling and feels sorry for himself come on

[@sandrapowell4166]

Tom needs to take responsibility for his own actions that caused his arrest

[@annmariepardo6989]

This couple should stay together, I think that I understand this man, Randy.

[@eh-i1841]

Randy and Crystal were only 17 and 18,when he was having so many doubts.2 years later,they are married,with another child,and from her viewpoint,things are worse than ever.I hope they both matured and decided to be a happy family.I guess we’ll never know.

[@kkbeazley9359]

2nd couple RED FLAGS RED FLAGS RED FLAGS COME ON GIRL REALLY

[@alanalambert1178]

Thank you she was considering hurting her baby. I hope that child was removed from the home. Seeing her makes me feel bad all that manipulative behaviour and she is there begging him. I am.glad I am not I a toxic relationshipike that. I'd rather be single for the rest of my life than deal with a insecure little man

[@hannahrose266]

donnica, your night in shining armor is an angry 5th grader in a micky d's cap..hope you've upped your standards darlin

[@ttintagel]

Contraceptive failure happens more often than some people want to admit. My entire cohort of siblings and cousins was conceived while our parents were using at least one form of contraception and sometimes two. Two of them were born after tubal ligation.

[@annmariepardo6989]

Randy explained how he was scared, how he expressed himself have merit. He was kicked out of his home and had to fend for himself, he seems a lovely young man. He is definitely scared, he also wants to do the right thing, for his young family, his new wife loves him. She definitely should stay with him, I know that he have messed up, we need more shows like this one. Trying to bring families together, not destroying families, trying to get to the core of the problem and working it out. Helping families, people, to fix their lives.

[@liamhenrique7999]

Randy was wining and lying and trying to make people feel bad for him....Sure he was young but he was getting multiple girls pregnant before he was even 20 and sleeping with other people and his lie about how there were tests done that showed the other girls baby was not his was a lie....His gf heard him say it was his on a recording and what tests were done when the the other girl had a miscarriage....thats bs....he is a manipulator.....Hope that girl ran from him....he sucks.....

[@kristenowen5328]

Donnica's man wasn't just jealous of the old nursing home men, but tampons too.she needs to run!! Fast!! && at least she works,& she makes the money!!

[@merleneprice9201]

He looks like Hugh grant 😂

[@surfingalien8846]

Omfg that woman that wanted to kill herself and the baby unbelievable both of them poor child.

[@justme-qp8nz]

I was literally thinking the same thing. I can't believe how casual everyone's acting about this situation. That child needs protection 😔

[@Krzrrazrrokr]

That child would probably be removed from her custody today if she went on tv and said that

[@FourFoot11]

Something else is going on with Randy. There’s no way a 20 year old should look like that.

[@escarlit]

MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY

[@MtnSnowflake]

there's not a tear in that boys eyes

[@angelinat3330]

Lol he crying. Fake tears😂😂

[@Crichtonator1982]

Oh my God, Tracy and Tom's situation is so sad 😢

[@annmariepardo6989]

Tracy, is beautiful and could have done better.

[@sevenmoore9208]

That first couple. He look older than 20 she look older than 19. Damnnnnnnnnnn smh .PS CLEARLY HE LEFT HIS TEARS AT HOME.

[@escarlit]

i thought he was 40 😂

[@RayYoWTF]

I know that dry heaving left him PARCHED. 😂

[@annmariepardo6989]

I wish all these couples stay together They were all honest about their lives, the situations in their marriage.

[@worldtraveler9599]

You're insane.

[@ashleyj7011]

​@@worldtraveler9599💯💯💯

[@eltondias8433]

I wonder if they're still together nowadays

[@Ella7194]

Hopefully not.

[@justme-qp8nz]

Their all so toxic I hope not also

[@amygonzales9146]

Probably not 🤦🤷🤔

[@keringliege8523]

No relationship is perfect, but it is what you make it. Regardless of what kind, especially if it's a sexual relationship you and your partner need to put everything into it. And when times get tough, you work it out

[@MilitiaLys]

That girl was wayyy before her time. Sharp and smart.

[@bibbilagermand8397]

This is the first time i have ever heard he Gets mad over tampons

[@Crichtonator1982]

I had 5 boyfriends and all of them were disasters. Thankfully, I was never physically abused. Girls,you need to get out of those situations, defend yourselves and take control! Fight for yourselves girls! Don't let these guys hurt you or get at you in any way!

[@snoop3285]

Child should be taken into care

[@shannons8724]

Oh Sally Jessie your so wrong I got pregnant off of birth control and the morning after pill honey your dead WRONG 💕

[@acfirby]

Like Malcolm said in Jurassic Park "Life finds a way."

[@sandrapowell4166]

Take responsibility, use protection

[@joshuagoodrow]

Ladies and Gentlemen, Would You Please Welcome The Lady Of The Hour, Sally Jessy Raphael.

[@joshuagoodrow]

Today's Episode, "Can Our Marriage Last".

[@williamwoods5592]

What year was this show first aired?

[@worldtraveler9599]

96ish.

[@bernadetteharris3399]

I LOVE THAT LADIES BROWN HAT! SO CHIC!

[@taniaflip7543]

Junior and his wife look like they just fell off the turnip truck

[@brittneyhall4000]

I like your video make me smile 🎵

[@sandrapowell4166]

Tracy considered killing herself and her baby, she definitely needs counseling. Get away from that man!

[@Ginaartiglio]

20? I'm 49 they look older then me I think they put the wrong age😂😂

[@KerryJames-l6z]

Ladies i have been through a lot with men i believe being single is betta choice

[@bunnykinssmile]

Everyone that second women is saying is how I got. Not to harm my kids tho. But in sense your made to feel everything is your fault. Everything she’s saying is classic narcasistic behaviour on his part. I remember being a damn mess but loving him so much. Until I finally woke up after seeing that everything he accused me of was what he was actually doing. Narcs tell you what they are doing by deflecting it on you. They never take accountability and will blame everyone else for there shitty behaviour

[@nicolebartlein1854]

Randy is gross. Bad acting and fake crying.

[@annmariepardo6989]

This is a horrible, situation, he have two other wives, he must have some issues that he needs to resolve. He must have other wives that it is possible he did not work out those issues.

[@sandrapowell4166]

Don't let anyone drive you crazy

[@caisearbhan4738]

The first guy is clearly struggling with emotional distress. Given the challenges he faced as a teenager, it's understandable, but professional help would have been critical for him to heal and move forward. The second guy will be an abuser. She was right to have him arrested.

[@Hexighost]

same as it ever was, maury has stories like this all the time, still, so kids learn nothing, kids having kids

[@eh-i1841]

Damn,Randy looks 40.

[@RayYoWTF]

The first couple is stuck in high school love. Still children having children but both need to grow up. Randy is a manipulator. You’d think the cycle of pain and abandonment would cease when you started a family and want BETTER. He reminds me so much of my mom who is a massive narcissist and manipulator. I have this radar and those crocodile tears really sealed the deal. Tracy needs to leave Tom. He’s an abuser and you should not put yourself let alone the child in that environment but she herself shouldn’t be alone with her child. She is blinded and he doesn’t love her, you can see it. The last relationship.. Girl, I ain’t gonna say this is the cards that you were dealt but you left one marriage for an abuser WHICH you knew he was. My head hurts.

[@ofletcher6422]

One thing I hate is when someone says you got me pregnant as if they themselves had nothing to do with it. As far as I know it's 50/50

[@mariloislewis5513]

Were are they now and how the kid feels about mom thinking about killing her and herself ??? AND how they feel now about then?

[@sharimagnetti3257]

tom makes me so angry if a man loves you matter how angry or upset he is he should never call her names in public he should be saying what is good about her not publicly shaming her and calling her a bitch he deserved to go to jail under no circumstance should any man lay a finger on any woman (nor should any woman be violent towards a man) but she did the right thing for her own safety and the safety of the baby I think she is very emotionally abused and she doesn't realize what is ok and what isn't and will automatically try and minimize his actions which is so sad and so common I was in an abusive relationship very very violent actually and you can notice other women in the same situation by their actions and the way they carry themselves as for junior he is an awful piece of crap not letting a woman buy tampons is absolutely ridiculous!!!!! let alone getting angry at her because she pays the bills WTF

[@Prancer0210]

Never trust a man who calls you "Bugger" either.

[@spleenforsoul]

I thought she said, "booger".

[@shantra9870]

A mother talking about killing her baby? Wow. I doubt that would get on rhe air today. Shocking.

[@IndigoEnchantress]

I hope after this was filmed, Tracy's daughter was revoked from her. Not only is her self esteem is in the gutter, she's not in the right state of mind to be alone with or without her child. How Tom called her a B and she took it in stride, makes it so hard to feel sorry for her. She's ENABLING his disgusting attitude towards her, and he knows it. He has Tracy wrapped around his finger. Truly pathetic and sad.

[@sandrapowell4166]

The first time a man pulls my hair, is the last time

[@Crichtonator1982]

How can someone deprive other people of essential needs like pads and tampons?

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

If you wanna take your own life that's 1 thing but don't ever be so selfish as to take your child's life !! She's lucky someone hasn't taken that beautiful little girl away from her for saying something so horrible!! So what if he doesn't want anything to do with you or your daughter, move on and DONT EVER PUNISH THAT BABY FOR WHAT HE OR YOU DONT DO !! She cried without any tears also! NO one should ever be Hitting anyone !! She's way to young to be married 2x.already

[@shannons8724]

Tracy I really hope you left him. I'm sure Tom cheated on her in that 5month period

[@Sapphires1985]

Wow people looked older back in the day I thought they were at least 30

[@donnyreiss1180]

hey these woman chose their men. now they want u to feel sorry for them crying to everyone. c’mon. have some respect for yourself and pick out a better life partner & father for their children.

[@johnstoudt7476]

my impression of the second couple ,i think his name was tom has a very explosive anger management issue and can become irrate.i dont think he will kill her although i think she was right to call the police because i believe the cycle of violence will not end there so she has good reason to be petrified of him.

[@lillycvetovac2169]

OMG I just can't take that guy Randy !

[@hopemcintosh6998]

With the first couple im so confused why the wife is apologetic and careful on stage as if his issues are her fault.

[@MakeupMobster]

Man why do these people look so much older than their ages.

[@TheGroovyGerbil]

Randy by name, Randy by......... 🤔

[@TDog14126]

That 1st husband is cute!

[@sandrapowell4166]

Tom doesn't want her

[@Crichtonator1982]

Tom's not worth it, he needs help!

[@Crichtonator1982]

This is why it's best to stay single, guys are so unpredictable.

[@Crichtonator1982]

Is that all these guys can say is sorry?

[@angiemam2350]

OMG too easy to cheat several Times and to come, crying a river with a rose... And SHE apologies? Seriously....

[@rs3007]

Randy is gross lol

[@Onlymetonight]

Stop yelling at him. My goodness

[@Spiceluvj]

They talk about Tom getting arrested he was arrested for hitting her an abusing her he deserved it

[@msstern3056]

He looks creepy while pretending to cry on national tv. Good grief that’s weird.

[@godsprincess465]

She smacks to much to hear her words. Annoying. I have to quit listening.

[@szyl8595]

Randy is full of it, he's a bad actor. It's so sad that such a beautiful, young girl destroyed her life for that loser.

[@aprilknight9504]

Um... Tracy needs her child taken away from her.

[@shawnamunyer9680]

Tracy needs help. Run girl. He's an abuser.

[@karanaferreira]

Tracy is so dramatic 😂 get it together