If You're 55-75 Years Old: 9 Things Never Share With Anyone

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@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
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@eseegrist
@eseegrist 3 ай бұрын
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@suzannemarie7125
@suzannemarie7125 4 ай бұрын
50 years ago when I was a teen, an older person told me, “the less people know about you, the better off you are “. I have lived by that and tried to teach my kids that. This is important at any age.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind wishes
@davidhoye6863
@davidhoye6863 3 ай бұрын
It's hard when a spouse shares way to much on FB
@purplesocks9745
@purplesocks9745 3 ай бұрын
@@davidhoye6863no kidding
@davidlamotta1994
@davidlamotta1994 3 ай бұрын
There's another saying, "The less people know about you, the more they want to know " Or how about this from the writer Herman Wouk, "No adult is without problems except a happy imbecile " 14:16
@dannymeyer3256
@dannymeyer3256 3 ай бұрын
Truth social media has truly been a downside for many. Ageism is more prevalent in U.S. wise advice.
@sassylady2001
@sassylady2001 3 ай бұрын
1. age 2. money 3. family secrets 4. medications/health 5. sexuality 6. charitable giving 7. honor - protecting your reputation (no bragging about accomplishments) 8. insults - letting go of past hurts 9. montra - personal beliefs
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@georgevavoulis4758
@georgevavoulis4758 3 ай бұрын
Never let anybody know about your future plans as they may sabatoge them and never tell anybody your views on things
@daisyle1203
@daisyle1203 3 ай бұрын
Agree fully, especially money, and especially includes someone your seeing. 10.-refrain from pillow talk
@jeffmittag6681
@jeffmittag6681 3 ай бұрын
​@@daisyle1203 I am on lock down at the moment , { My daughter doesn't want me talking to any of my siblings } I heard about that Covid thing , what's that about ? It seems to be mentioned a lot ?
@simeonadams6065
@simeonadams6065 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for summary, I can’t listen to the AI voice and repeatative word padding.
@wwebb5665
@wwebb5665 4 ай бұрын
"Even at the age of 76, I am continuously learning. I appreciate you sharing your thoughtful insights."
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@williamrice4608
@williamrice4608 4 ай бұрын
I am too brother and at 76 also.
@garyolsen6299
@garyolsen6299 3 ай бұрын
I hear ya
@BlackOak-q9c
@BlackOak-q9c 3 ай бұрын
H of blarney
@BlackOak-q9c
@BlackOak-q9c 3 ай бұрын
What a bunch of blarney
@OWLHOLLYWOOD-USA
@OWLHOLLYWOOD-USA 3 ай бұрын
I made the mistake of sharing too much about my finances with a distant relative a few years ago. Before I knew it, they were asking for loans and even trying to give me advice on how to manage my money. It caused a lot of stress and tension. Now, I keep those details private, and I’ve learned the hard way that some things are better left unsaid, even with family.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@Anjelica-th1xb
@Anjelica-th1xb 3 ай бұрын
I've made the same mistake with my boyfriend, now he's always asking for money loans he never pays back! Huge mistake! Learned not to flaunt, be modest & keep ur privacy. Thx for the video...
@OWLHOLLYWOOD-USA
@OWLHOLLYWOOD-USA 3 ай бұрын
@@Anjelica-th1xb Absolutely, that's one of the key ways to prevent losing a relationship.
@carlosanzola2938
@carlosanzola2938 2 ай бұрын
In my experience, family are the worst offenders.
@brianrapson9
@brianrapson9 2 ай бұрын
​@@carlosanzola2938I completely agree!
@WiseElderly
@WiseElderly 3 ай бұрын
To everyone here, may your life be filled with love, laughter, and success. Sending you blessings of peace and fulfillment.
@frankplaayer8221
@frankplaayer8221 4 ай бұрын
I'm 71. Know this: familiarity breeds contempt. Period.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@pauldeanda4985
@pauldeanda4985 3 ай бұрын
True, which tells you who,to stay distant from!
@trpwireless
@trpwireless 3 ай бұрын
Facts!!!
@alonzosmithpowergog4946
@alonzosmithpowergog4946 3 ай бұрын
Bingo
@dianehayes8385
@dianehayes8385 3 ай бұрын
My Dad always said that
@robertgibson1036
@robertgibson1036 3 ай бұрын
The more people know about you the more they can control you
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@thomasriley4963
@thomasriley4963 3 ай бұрын
Not unless you allow it to happen
@pauldeanda4985
@pauldeanda4985 3 ай бұрын
@@robertgibson1036 Perhaps, but any conversation should go both ways! Not one person divulging personal info while the other does not, unless one person is an attention hound and prefer to only talk about themselves.
@DoreenWeed
@DoreenWeed 2 ай бұрын
You are so right! I learned that the hard way.
@NurturingTheSoul-e1c
@NurturingTheSoul-e1c 8 күн бұрын
I disagree with that perspective. While privacy is important, sharing certain aspects of yourself can foster trust and genuine connections. Transparency can empower you, not just expose vulnerabilities. The key lies in balance-knowing when to share and when to keep boundaries, rather than isolating yourself completely.
@suzannemarie7125
@suzannemarie7125 4 ай бұрын
I only tell my age if it gives me a discount! 😊
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind wishes
@timvala7577
@timvala7577 3 ай бұрын
It’s too bad this only applies to 55 to 75 years of age. I wish I did this when I was 20!!! I would have saved much grief!
@NickSampurdanis-mi6qz
@NickSampurdanis-mi6qz 3 ай бұрын
This was a very good Video for me to watch . Out of the 9 things to share. Still share 6 or 7 of these principles. Iam going to be 70 & this video was great for to sink in these beliefs . One thing that’s true . Is I have a lot to learn . & even though I shared a lot of this about myself Relationships were very difficult because women always told me that I didn’t share enough about myself . Iam still learning. & will be until the day I die .
@adamknight4087
@adamknight4087 3 ай бұрын
😂😂❤
@edwardkim2511
@edwardkim2511 3 ай бұрын
Me too !
@jamescraft8979
@jamescraft8979 3 ай бұрын
Everyone over 60 should see this excellent presentation! It’s ironic that you can be hugely successful financially in your business, but you can’t really share it with friends and family. They WILL look at you differently and EXPECT you to spread some of that money around esp to older and younger members who may not have as much.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@arrowrod
@arrowrod 2 ай бұрын
Hilarious. My experience with sharing money. It's promptly pissed away.
@DanielSmith-ez9ox
@DanielSmith-ez9ox Ай бұрын
But then again, it's not a comforting thought to be viewed as a selfish cheapskate.
@thomasbruner854
@thomasbruner854 3 ай бұрын
Wow, what a complicated life we must navigate through! I mean my nieces and nephews,(in their 40s), all talk openly about their salaries and financial situations and don't understand why I keep my finances so private. But that just wasn't done when I grew up, being born 70+ years ago.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@stoicepictetus3875
@stoicepictetus3875 4 ай бұрын
For Dignity, autonomy and peace of mind do not share: 1. Age 2. Money 3. Family matters 4. Medication 5. Sexuality 6. Charity 7. Honor: be humble 8. Insults 9. Personal beliefs
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@frankorta5158
@frankorta5158 4 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!
@Banksia-Blue000
@Banksia-Blue000 4 ай бұрын
🙏🏻❤️
@ElizzzaB
@ElizzzaB 4 ай бұрын
When you keep your information they call you snobby unfriendly....just can't win. NARCISSISTS use it against you meanwhile tell no one their information.
@jillybe1873
@jillybe1873 4 ай бұрын
Thank you
@NurturingTheSoul-e1c
@NurturingTheSoul-e1c 8 күн бұрын
Love how this emphasizes the importance of keeping family matters, health, and personal beliefs to yourself. It's all about protecting your peace of mind.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 8 күн бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful! Thank you very much ❤❤❤
@capt.davebertrand9296
@capt.davebertrand9296 3 ай бұрын
I tell everyone I'm 72. Proud of it, proud of my accomplishments, and proud to say...."I don't give a shit what anyone thinks."
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
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@dennispacelli1007
@dennispacelli1007 3 ай бұрын
DAY-UM Captain!
@legendaryangel1991
@legendaryangel1991 3 ай бұрын
As I age i realized how many FAKE friends I had who only called me when they had needs but when I needed their help they were NO where to be found! Wouldn’t even return my phone calls with friends like that who needs enemies I currently have NO friends!
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
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@dennispacelli1007
@dennispacelli1007 3 ай бұрын
Awww write to me! I'm single
@ilsavv
@ilsavv 2 ай бұрын
No friends is better than false ones.
@jeanmccallum-xs8rk
@jeanmccallum-xs8rk 2 ай бұрын
I understand
@esterwyman
@esterwyman 17 күн бұрын
That is why as we age , we have less friends, we no longer put up with fake people.
@Bubamara-b3z
@Bubamara-b3z 3 ай бұрын
I feel the foundation of these points is simplicity. It’s less about what you think and more about the impact of the thoughts and opinions of others about your personal matters. Life is simpler if one maintains discretion Personally, while I’m not focused on anyone’s perceptions about me, I want to determine with whom I want things shared. When you tell people things it’s easy to become a topic of their conversations with others. People don’t have boundaries anymore. They think nothing of passing along your information. I will tell my story if/when I want - it’s mine to share. You focus on yours.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@astoriakid41
@astoriakid41 3 ай бұрын
Basically keep your mouth shut even about your private life.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
@joeb5578
@joeb5578 3 ай бұрын
So true. Agreed.
@gold707786
@gold707786 3 ай бұрын
Except when you go to the dentist. Open wide....
@DanielMix-cy8ei
@DanielMix-cy8ei 3 ай бұрын
Thats why its called a private life.
@Hooper1212
@Hooper1212 3 ай бұрын
I’m one of those who shared my life story, and now it’s affecting my life. I’m in my 60’s and people are just taking advantage or just jealous. Hope I have not opened my life to other people
@johngreen1776
@johngreen1776 3 ай бұрын
My father always told me to keep matters of sex, religion and politics private. This advice is especially true with the hostility over different opinions today.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@bajuszpal172
@bajuszpal172 3 ай бұрын
Yes, striking a balance between what you share and what you keep to yourself is a great thing to learn and apply. Paul,69, retired teacher.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@klausroethel5961
@klausroethel5961 4 ай бұрын
Truer words have never been spoken. Thank you for this summary.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for listening
@billbrennan8405
@billbrennan8405 3 ай бұрын
Great advise to people like me who a little too open
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@RockerProf
@RockerProf 3 ай бұрын
I agree with you 100%. I get really annoyed when people ask me my age. When I was growing up, we were told that was a rude question.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@ilsavv
@ilsavv 2 ай бұрын
Age is personal after 16 years old.
@tdgdbs1
@tdgdbs1 3 ай бұрын
10: Stay clear of narcissists, and that includes your mother.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@Bluntobject
@Bluntobject 3 ай бұрын
That works for every age
@kentmccoy592
@kentmccoy592 3 ай бұрын
There are few things worse than having a narcissist mother I had one and I know how you feel it's a lot to overcome and a lot to accept forgive and let go
@jeanmccallum-xs8rk
@jeanmccallum-xs8rk 2 ай бұрын
Stay clear of toxic people, especially family and people you thought were friends.
@TheRaspberry82
@TheRaspberry82 2 ай бұрын
Or your son’s wife !!!!!!!
@superdave1964
@superdave1964 3 ай бұрын
Love the life you live Live the life you love.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@YOWValley
@YOWValley 2 ай бұрын
Possibly (probably) one of the nicest 15 minutes I have spent on YT, not to mention the affirmation of feelings and beliefs so well elucidated they seem like news rather than reminders. Thanks.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! It’s amazing to hear it resonated with you. 😊
@Essexkiwi
@Essexkiwi 2 ай бұрын
Excellent advice: it is something that I have finally come to understand. I used to share a lot of my thoughts with family and friends, only to have people mock or criticise me as I didn’t measure up to their standards.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@glorious_conqueror2021
@glorious_conqueror2021 2 ай бұрын
I’m the same way, I was an open book but not anymore. I just stopped chatting about everything. Sometimes when you share information with others they use it against you. I recently shared a conversation about loaning someone money and my friend not only decided to chastise me but made terrible insulting comments about the person who I loaned the money to. Now I know. 🤷🏽‍♀️
@tipsterbl
@tipsterbl 3 ай бұрын
Those were all helpful reminders and I can see where I need to improve and be more diligent.
@kokolanza7543
@kokolanza7543 3 ай бұрын
What great advice, tactfully and positively shared!
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! Please subscribe to the channel and turn on the bell to watch the next video.
@dorothyrobinson6353
@dorothyrobinson6353 Ай бұрын
Thank you! Very informative.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 Ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@JamesSullivan-p9m
@JamesSullivan-p9m 3 ай бұрын
I say don't worry about it. Just remember the Lord when you rise up and when you lie down, and when you walk by the way at noon day.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@bobjames6622
@bobjames6622 3 ай бұрын
At the age of....here is what I have learnt.....ALWAYS keep your OWN counsel. Nuff said.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@michaeldalsky1209
@michaeldalsky1209 3 ай бұрын
Proud of my age,most people say how young I look for my age
@michaeldalsky1209
@michaeldalsky1209 3 ай бұрын
I have neighbors and friends that know I’m in the stock market and we have good discussions about it without giving out exact amounts,I share my sports teams and people know I go to the games and I don’t mind sharing information about it.Dont need to live in a bubble and I’m not scared of living life
@bobjames6622
@bobjames6622 3 ай бұрын
@@michaeldalsky1209 Translation: you're a blabbermouth and nobody actually gives a shit what you have to say. LMFAO!
@ilsavv
@ilsavv 2 ай бұрын
@@michaeldalsky1209 Unlike many other people, you are unusually lucky to have such good neighbors and friends.
@richardmosher8334
@richardmosher8334 3 ай бұрын
A Wonderful video. I am struggling to accept my aging, now 81 years, and trying to care for a disabled wife. This message is a blessed way to arrange our lives . Thank you
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@Tasceline
@Tasceline 4 ай бұрын
Thank you. Great principles to follow.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@UFO642
@UFO642 Ай бұрын
Excellent Presentation. I'm nearly 72, and I'm in agreement with these 9 principles for guidance. Well Done! Former LCDR John Sullivan, USNR
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your perspective and for your service, LCDR Sullivan. Your agreement with these principles speaks volumes. Wishing you continued wisdom and happiness. 🙏
@sisizenwishdom
@sisizenwishdom 4 ай бұрын
I am 78, i learn a lot from this video. thank you so much
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
That's great!
@Rob9mm
@Rob9mm 4 ай бұрын
Excellent reply!!!!
@elhombresfbay
@elhombresfbay 4 ай бұрын
If young people live long enough that old saying what Goes around comes around Will be visited upon them. The best thing is don’t care what others think! And don’t take it personally.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@BaldandInsecure187
@BaldandInsecure187 3 ай бұрын
You are missing something, try being more open minded than negative. Not giving certain information will make it harder for someone to scam or defraud you and health insurance is a huge scam. Wake up
@gusgrizzel8397
@gusgrizzel8397 2 ай бұрын
All young people are not bad people. There are plenty of bad old people, so it's not age that makes the person.
@nareshlathia5334
@nareshlathia5334 Ай бұрын
As a 75 years old Hindu the part about charity is so good. I have been made to feel guilty about giving money. My own family members have made me feel guilty. So never ever reveal any charitable acts. I have found this to be a valuable Hindu teaching about Charity. Never reveal details to anyone else.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 Ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful! Thank you very much ❤❤❤
@mariodeazevedo2940
@mariodeazevedo2940 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for these wise tips!!
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@lordbyron3603
@lordbyron3603 4 ай бұрын
Revealing my true age isn’t a problem. I don’t really care what others will think! So , there’s the 1st rule about me: I don’t give a flying f ….k what you think ! Good or bad , it makes no difference. Why is that ? Because I don’t want or need anything from you or anyone.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, have a blessed day. Thank you very much
@robertparisi8016
@robertparisi8016 4 ай бұрын
Well said, I love the attitude, same here
@dickcaruthers1977
@dickcaruthers1977 4 ай бұрын
My exact feelings about those topics !! Widowed & had a great life w her for 58’yrs On to the next chapter 😊
@Davido50
@Davido50 3 ай бұрын
Yeaaaa ok sure whatever!
@davidgreenwood7387
@davidgreenwood7387 3 ай бұрын
So true. 👍
@sophiema1225
@sophiema1225 4 ай бұрын
Reasonable and helpful! Thank you so much!
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@JodyDube
@JodyDube 4 ай бұрын
Excellent advice. Thank you
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
My pleasure!
@tomklar14
@tomklar14 3 ай бұрын
Great wisdom for us aging
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@ilanapeled209
@ilanapeled209 2 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right. Unfortunately, some things should NOT be shared. I taught my children (now in their forties) not to reveal their financial situation even to their closest friends (we have no relatives, alas). When they were very young they sometimes bristled at my advice but they soon realized that I have taught them well.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@bookworm2926
@bookworm2926 4 ай бұрын
In Thailand, the aged people are more revered than they were young. The retirees by age have been treated with honor and respect, and people are likely to render a hepling hand in public need, such as public bus. However, as Thailand is not a rich country, most of the the aged are still financially struggling.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
@mariaavery1212
@mariaavery1212 4 ай бұрын
I agree, wisdom is a special gift. I miss my grand parents. They used to tell me stories about where I was born. I miss that very much today ❤❤
@mariaavery1212
@mariaavery1212 4 ай бұрын
Very true.
@andrewdean7917
@andrewdean7917 3 ай бұрын
Well, if the KING shared some of the wealth the aged would have no struggle at all! Thailand is a very wealthy country, it a problem when you have so many corrupt and greedy turds in power. But yes, the elder do get a lot of respect.
@מרהריבליס
@מרהריבליס 3 ай бұрын
Your advice tells so much about your picture of the world. What a lone, distrustful, world! Not to share with other people these most important aspects of your life - who wants such life?! In case you think i don't understand - I'm in my mid sixties
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@segurosincero4057
@segurosincero4057 3 ай бұрын
Lots of wisdom here. Thanks for sharing.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much ❤️
@williamdavis7432
@williamdavis7432 3 ай бұрын
Excellent - thank you!
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@Margaret-z9h
@Margaret-z9h 2 ай бұрын
I'm 68. Great suggestions. Very reaffirming. Thanks.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@robmadera9757
@robmadera9757 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for the message God bless you and your family 💖💙🕊️🙏
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@ninoellison7793
@ninoellison7793 3 ай бұрын
So brilliant. How to live a life of integrity in our later years…
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@razorsharplifestyle101hard9
@razorsharplifestyle101hard9 2 ай бұрын
Who is the author of this book?
@ELLI-vi8wm
@ELLI-vi8wm 4 ай бұрын
We can avoid many problems by sharing as little important information about ourselves as possible. It is also a huge mistake to share pictures and confidential information on the Internet.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@davidarcher7478
@davidarcher7478 3 ай бұрын
So complete!! Thank you for such a calm, wise, advice. It ALL makes so much sense. I encourage all persons of age 55 and older to embrace this information.
@hs5hdrtv
@hs5hdrtv 2 ай бұрын
Much obliged for these excellent advice!❤❤❤❤❤
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@DavidM2002
@DavidM2002 3 ай бұрын
One surprising omission : seldom, and preferably never, tell anyone that you have or have not left them a bequest in your will. I purposely left out spouses because they are generally treated far differently than others for a variety of reasons.
@LovemyGod7
@LovemyGod7 Ай бұрын
Good advice ❤❤
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 Ай бұрын
Thank you very much ❤❤❤
@WearyBear
@WearyBear 3 ай бұрын
I am torn between absolutely hating this advice, and agreeing with it. In a perfect community, we help each other. You can do things that I cannot, and I can do things that you cannot. So, we work together. But, how can I help you if I don't even know you. Unfortunately, we don't live in a perfect community. It is a land filled with very selfish people who will step on your back to elevate themselves. In the recent past, I have tried being more open with people, offering them what I have in exchange for what they can offer. But, it did not work at all. My needs were of no interest to them, and they would walk away after bleeding me dry. That isn't the way it's supposed to be. Now, I live with the absolute belief that nobody will ever know the real me again.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@ilsavv
@ilsavv 2 ай бұрын
Far not everyone deserves you sharing personal information. It should take years to know a person and decide on what to share with them.
@notagain779
@notagain779 2 ай бұрын
@WearyBear, I'm sorry that happened to you. I also agree and disagree with the advice on this video. I guess it comes down to taking the time to know who can be trusted with your sensitive information. If a person would follow this advice completely, any time spent with another would be so stilted as to prevent a friendship from starting. I knew such a completely shut down person, about 40 years old. I liked her, but......no chance of a friendship ever happening there. Too bad; she seemed like a good person, but very isolated and alone. She told me it was SO hard for her to make friends. For you, WearyBear, I hope that you'll know the difference if a truly good and trustworthy person crosses your path. Maybe in time you'll feel comfortable again to let another person know the real you.🙂 Also, some people are selfish because they think everybody is that way, and they've never been taught any differently. With these types, we have to have side stepping methods in place ahead of time. Sashay away!
@DorindaKepler
@DorindaKepler 3 ай бұрын
Terrific advice at any age. Please, keep sharing.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@rodtokubo8248
@rodtokubo8248 4 ай бұрын
Inspirational advice; thank you
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@jamesfinch7311
@jamesfinch7311 2 ай бұрын
Good advice thank you !
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@leonardgibney2997
@leonardgibney2997 3 ай бұрын
Dead right. In old age I've realised a few things. Youth is wasted on the young.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@999manman
@999manman 3 ай бұрын
Why didn't my elders tell me all this when i was younger? Oh, wait,,,they did! LOL! Serves me right for ignoring them.
@DanielMix-cy8ei
@DanielMix-cy8ei 3 ай бұрын
If i only knew then what i know now so many things i would change but there are no do overs.
@JasonS-j4j
@JasonS-j4j 3 ай бұрын
Your wrong youth is our future
@jennylee3114
@jennylee3114 3 ай бұрын
Excellent video! Very helpful! Thanks for sharing!
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@GreenStreetPlayer1
@GreenStreetPlayer1 4 ай бұрын
Thank you. It is a balance. I think you have to show some of the cards life has dealt you as these probably define you in later years. Too much silence and secrecy on everything, people will end up not really knowing you. Also, sometimes a trouble shared is a trouble halved, the receiver can actually help you rather than bottling things up by getting concerns off your chest. There’s weight that lifts from the shoulders sometimes when you hear a voice that agrees with you. We are all wired differently. Yes, I also dislike “braggers”, certain things don’t become relevant in later years as we are all back to equal.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
our sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@daisyle1203
@daisyle1203 3 ай бұрын
I am now 68 and have learned, one thing you never discuss regardless with relatives, sometimes spouse or partner and close friends, is your financial situation. In other words, keep your mouth shut about things mentioned here and you will be happier. If someone asks or pries, change the subject or leave. Anyone that wants to pry into your business is up to no good, remove them from your life.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@gusgrizzel8397
@gusgrizzel8397 2 ай бұрын
Maybe family members ask, because they care if you are doing alright.
@michaelcolby6236
@michaelcolby6236 2 ай бұрын
Great advice, all valid and truthful
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@LordCipherSon
@LordCipherSon 4 ай бұрын
God bless you for this wisdom
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@JohnMcCormack-qs2qx
@JohnMcCormack-qs2qx 2 ай бұрын
Very good, I have screwed up on a few issues, but now I have a chance to change those areas
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Thank you very much ❤❤❤
@hoanganhngo-u6x
@hoanganhngo-u6x 4 ай бұрын
This was so much fun to watch! Keep up the great work. 😊
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@Carl-x8y3c
@Carl-x8y3c 4 ай бұрын
Personally im not worried about telling people my age. So what !. We all age and can't stop the aging process.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
@Rob9mm
@Rob9mm 4 ай бұрын
Same. Any who knew me 40 years ago would be utterly shocked to learn that I am still alive. In the spirit of not sharing I will not elaborate :)
@jamestyrrell5315
@jamestyrrell5315 4 ай бұрын
Young ladies I meet when I honestly share my age, say age is just a number. I say that age may just be a number, aging is not. They don’t get it!
@Carl-x8y3c
@Carl-x8y3c 4 ай бұрын
@@jamestyrrell5315 Yes
@kathleenredick275
@kathleenredick275 3 ай бұрын
If I tell people my age, they're shocked. They think I'm 10 to 15 years younger than I actually am. A neighbor is 10 years older than I am, you would never guess that if you saw her. We both have had horses since we were children and are both in great shape.
@josephbailey435
@josephbailey435 3 ай бұрын
Enjoyed your video and insight, makes sense. Thank you.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@mohansinhjhala9754
@mohansinhjhala9754 3 ай бұрын
1. Very nice. I go to a garden for excercises in the morning and when people know that I'm 85 they appreciate my efforts. I don't say on my own but if someone asks me the age I give it. Financial matters I keep private. In India there are many cases found where children after taking advantage of parents' money kick them out.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@rexarrowsmith8217
@rexarrowsmith8217 3 ай бұрын
I live in the Philippines. Your video holds no water here.
@TruthSpeaker1001
@TruthSpeaker1001 3 ай бұрын
A few good rules: 1) never lend money. Ever. 2) stay away from envious, jealous and any other people who give you a bad vibe. 3) friends can choose to unfriend at anytime. Confide in your spouse and children only.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@michaelsihm245
@michaelsihm245 3 ай бұрын
So true! ❤
@bettymermaid8346
@bettymermaid8346 3 ай бұрын
What if you have no family and your best friends passed early? This is not a life.
@KemaStokes
@KemaStokes 2 ай бұрын
⁠@@bettymermaid8346I was facing something similar. When my BFF of 40+ years was diagnosed with a terminal illness, I realized that someday I would be going on without her. While spending as much time with my BFF as possible, I made a conscious decision to seek out new friends. I took continuing education classes and at a high school reunion I reconnected with folks I’d lost touch with. I don’t have my BFF anymore, but I’m working on being a trusted companion to the people in my life now. I still “talk” to my BFF and miss her every day. My “new” friends understand my grief and have given me comfort and support. I’m truly blessed. But none of this would have happened if I hadn’t pushed myself to get out and make an effort. That first step is the hardest.
@jeanclarke9106
@jeanclarke9106 3 ай бұрын
Thank You. Wise words.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@CandleOfWisdom
@CandleOfWisdom 3 ай бұрын
Great. And in my opinion, important future intent should not be shared either. Because revealing plans prematurely can expose you to unnecessary risks, manipulation, or interference from others.
@jeanmccallum-xs8rk
@jeanmccallum-xs8rk 2 ай бұрын
Shocking how many creeps are out there.
@juhaposo5742
@juhaposo5742 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for Your advice. I'm 64yo. I recognized myself done in some aspects - doing wrong assumptions of outside world and not so well for me - and it has irritated myself. You learned me why and that's OK. In my opinion it's never too late take a good lesson every time and time, to think about things over. If there's some wisdom in it, it may become to be a habit to look and find a new look of the surrounding world and persons You meet everyday.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@Sten111
@Sten111 4 ай бұрын
Unlike North America in UK and Europe it is just not done...actually rude... to inquire about someones age or financial position unless you are really close buddies/confidents.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
@ElizzzaB
@ElizzzaB 4 ай бұрын
Financial always causes problems.
@julieeppleston5783
@julieeppleston5783 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely I was always taught it was extremely rude to ask someone their age
@frednorman1
@frednorman1 2 ай бұрын
Just found this channel a couple of days ago and I've already watched about four videos. I thank the creator for his wisdom and for sharing it
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Welcome aboard!
@ivangpavlovic5721
@ivangpavlovic5721 3 ай бұрын
I've noticed over the years that some people want to know Everything about you! But those same people will disclose virtually Nothing about themselves!
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@carlthornton3076
@carlthornton3076 2 ай бұрын
Very Good!
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@ElizzzaB
@ElizzzaB 4 ай бұрын
A young person in store wanted all kinds of information....for a rewards card. Called the manager at a latter date. He said no thats for a store credit card. I said No it was for a rewards card. Had to repeat a few times and told him he better check because she may br collecting customers info and selling it.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@edwindacara3581
@edwindacara3581 2 ай бұрын
Thanks
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@eastwestunity
@eastwestunity 3 ай бұрын
Never share: 1) Age 2) Money 3) Family secrets 4) Medications 5) Sexuality 6) Charity 7) Honor 8) Insults 9) Mantra
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@HelenODonnell-b9u
@HelenODonnell-b9u Ай бұрын
I agree ith keeping quiet about 1) age, 2) finances and 3) whether you've ever had a child out of wedlock. Even if everyone else was doing it and worrying along with you monthly, you'll be loved for 5 minutes until you give up your child and then hated for the rest of your life. No one will ever think they would do the same. I don't agree with not sharing about your family dynamics. I never shared about my abusive, neglectful parents, even though no one evr asked me to cover it up. I just did because I was ashamed of my parents and knew something wasn't right. I'll never do that agin. Now I tell everyone if someone is a gossip, or or is abusive. I'll never keep that secret again. If you're nasty I'll tell on you. I won't protect you.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 Ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful! Thank you very much ❤❤❤
@sas-lt4qv
@sas-lt4qv 4 ай бұрын
I would add to your list: keep your political beliefs secret.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@bdflatlander
@bdflatlander 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely true, especially in the current divisive climate. Whenever someone tries to steer a conversation to politics I have on a couple of occasions had to be very firm and say that I am not interested in getting into a political discussion. Sadly, it has ended a few friendships.
@Laura-cx7jj
@Laura-cx7jj 3 ай бұрын
SO TRUE. There's no advantage to talking politics. Only brings trouble. Most people will not listen. There's no use in trying to appeal to others that they're candidate is a boob.😅
@whatsit2ya247
@whatsit2ya247 3 ай бұрын
I disagree, I need to know right off the get go if you're a dumb ass Democrat so I can nip it in the bud.
@ilsavv
@ilsavv 2 ай бұрын
@@bdflatlander These were not true friendships, do not regret them.
@Hummingbirds2023
@Hummingbirds2023 2 ай бұрын
All very important points to remember.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@CultivatingTheMind
@CultivatingTheMind 3 ай бұрын
I wish everyone who reads the comments after watching this meaningful video always peace, happiness and success! 🙏🙏🙏
@LeNeyaRoss
@LeNeyaRoss 2 ай бұрын
1 this video I won't be keeping to myself. Thank you
@GeorgeChildress-p5c
@GeorgeChildress-p5c 3 ай бұрын
These comments are so true old school hard times Mississippi truth be told
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@tomk2005
@tomk2005 3 ай бұрын
#10, Never reveal what preps you have stored away, for that can get you many unwanted visitors when a crisis happens, thus your personal safety can be at risk also...
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@mariloudalisay2157
@mariloudalisay2157 3 ай бұрын
Thank you 💖🙏💐
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@lindahoang506
@lindahoang506 4 ай бұрын
When you aged people think you are hopeless confusing person. They don’t know you are very smart and intelligent person. I keep my age for myself.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@bobbyshafer5208
@bobbyshafer5208 3 ай бұрын
And beliefs. Prayers and hugs
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@AAA-k8f5e
@AAA-k8f5e 4 ай бұрын
Unfortunately betrayal will be an awful surprise
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 4 ай бұрын
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
@alonzosmithpowergog4946
@alonzosmithpowergog4946 3 ай бұрын
Only if your deceived first
@AdviceFuture1
@AdviceFuture1 3 ай бұрын
thank you for for sharing
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@marylivingstone9815
@marylivingstone9815 3 ай бұрын
Here’s my mantra: now that I’m old, I have zero f@@ks to give. It might not work for you, but it sure works for me!
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@carllarouche7314
@carllarouche7314 2 ай бұрын
Perfect advice wish l learned way earlier
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Glad to hear it!
@tonypanzarella9387
@tonypanzarella9387 3 ай бұрын
When anyone asks my age, I reply, "I am old enough to remember when there were patriotic Democrats, and young enough to wear cloth underwear". When asked about my sexuality, I respond with, "You aren't my type." When asked about family secrets, I say, "You are looking at it." When asked if I take any medications, my response is, "I take a special substance that makes my nostrils immune to your breath." People leave me alone.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@dalejablonski436
@dalejablonski436 2 ай бұрын
Well done
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 2 ай бұрын
Love that!
@Ridesmule
@Ridesmule 3 ай бұрын
A lot of good advice but I have to say that now I am older the opinions of others has less and less meaning, I simply no longer care. I’m friendly but I let very few in. My circle of friends is quite small since they have an apparently incurable habit of passing on. I instinctively keep my personal information private, period. I mostly want to be left alone to live my life out in a quiet peaceful way, which seems to be an increasingly difficult reality to attain.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@zohan1999
@zohan1999 3 ай бұрын
Thank you Sir
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
So nice of you
@timothystacks7284
@timothystacks7284 3 ай бұрын
I'm 58 years old still walk alot to take city bus and lightrail to work and back home and my job is 23 miles away from were I live I can't drive because I'm Leagley blind and a single father with kids 2 of them still raising at home teens.
@WiseAdvice93
@WiseAdvice93 3 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@jonboy435
@jonboy435 3 ай бұрын
You are a hero. You inspire me
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