If You're 55-75 Years Old: Slow Life | Spend Less, Be Happy kzbin.info/www/bejne/q3fYnmasmKZ1apo
@eseegrist3 ай бұрын
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@suzannemarie71254 ай бұрын
50 years ago when I was a teen, an older person told me, “the less people know about you, the better off you are “. I have lived by that and tried to teach my kids that. This is important at any age.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind wishes
@davidhoye68633 ай бұрын
It's hard when a spouse shares way to much on FB
@purplesocks97453 ай бұрын
@@davidhoye6863no kidding
@davidlamotta19943 ай бұрын
There's another saying, "The less people know about you, the more they want to know " Or how about this from the writer Herman Wouk, "No adult is without problems except a happy imbecile " 14:16
@dannymeyer32563 ай бұрын
Truth social media has truly been a downside for many. Ageism is more prevalent in U.S. wise advice.
@sassylady20013 ай бұрын
1. age 2. money 3. family secrets 4. medications/health 5. sexuality 6. charitable giving 7. honor - protecting your reputation (no bragging about accomplishments) 8. insults - letting go of past hurts 9. montra - personal beliefs
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@georgevavoulis47583 ай бұрын
Never let anybody know about your future plans as they may sabatoge them and never tell anybody your views on things
@daisyle12033 ай бұрын
Agree fully, especially money, and especially includes someone your seeing. 10.-refrain from pillow talk
@jeffmittag66813 ай бұрын
@@daisyle1203 I am on lock down at the moment , { My daughter doesn't want me talking to any of my siblings } I heard about that Covid thing , what's that about ? It seems to be mentioned a lot ?
@simeonadams60653 ай бұрын
Thank you for summary, I can’t listen to the AI voice and repeatative word padding.
@wwebb56654 ай бұрын
"Even at the age of 76, I am continuously learning. I appreciate you sharing your thoughtful insights."
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@williamrice46084 ай бұрын
I am too brother and at 76 also.
@garyolsen62993 ай бұрын
I hear ya
@BlackOak-q9c3 ай бұрын
H of blarney
@BlackOak-q9c3 ай бұрын
What a bunch of blarney
@OWLHOLLYWOOD-USA3 ай бұрын
I made the mistake of sharing too much about my finances with a distant relative a few years ago. Before I knew it, they were asking for loans and even trying to give me advice on how to manage my money. It caused a lot of stress and tension. Now, I keep those details private, and I’ve learned the hard way that some things are better left unsaid, even with family.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@Anjelica-th1xb3 ай бұрын
I've made the same mistake with my boyfriend, now he's always asking for money loans he never pays back! Huge mistake! Learned not to flaunt, be modest & keep ur privacy. Thx for the video...
@OWLHOLLYWOOD-USA3 ай бұрын
@@Anjelica-th1xb Absolutely, that's one of the key ways to prevent losing a relationship.
@carlosanzola29382 ай бұрын
In my experience, family are the worst offenders.
@brianrapson92 ай бұрын
@@carlosanzola2938I completely agree!
@WiseElderly3 ай бұрын
To everyone here, may your life be filled with love, laughter, and success. Sending you blessings of peace and fulfillment.
The more people know about you the more they can control you
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@thomasriley49633 ай бұрын
Not unless you allow it to happen
@pauldeanda49853 ай бұрын
@@robertgibson1036 Perhaps, but any conversation should go both ways! Not one person divulging personal info while the other does not, unless one person is an attention hound and prefer to only talk about themselves.
@DoreenWeed2 ай бұрын
You are so right! I learned that the hard way.
@NurturingTheSoul-e1c8 күн бұрын
I disagree with that perspective. While privacy is important, sharing certain aspects of yourself can foster trust and genuine connections. Transparency can empower you, not just expose vulnerabilities. The key lies in balance-knowing when to share and when to keep boundaries, rather than isolating yourself completely.
@suzannemarie71254 ай бұрын
I only tell my age if it gives me a discount! 😊
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind wishes
@timvala75773 ай бұрын
It’s too bad this only applies to 55 to 75 years of age. I wish I did this when I was 20!!! I would have saved much grief!
@NickSampurdanis-mi6qz3 ай бұрын
This was a very good Video for me to watch . Out of the 9 things to share. Still share 6 or 7 of these principles. Iam going to be 70 & this video was great for to sink in these beliefs . One thing that’s true . Is I have a lot to learn . & even though I shared a lot of this about myself Relationships were very difficult because women always told me that I didn’t share enough about myself . Iam still learning. & will be until the day I die .
@adamknight40873 ай бұрын
😂😂❤
@edwardkim25113 ай бұрын
Me too !
@jamescraft89793 ай бұрын
Everyone over 60 should see this excellent presentation! It’s ironic that you can be hugely successful financially in your business, but you can’t really share it with friends and family. They WILL look at you differently and EXPECT you to spread some of that money around esp to older and younger members who may not have as much.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@arrowrod2 ай бұрын
Hilarious. My experience with sharing money. It's promptly pissed away.
@DanielSmith-ez9oxАй бұрын
But then again, it's not a comforting thought to be viewed as a selfish cheapskate.
@thomasbruner8543 ай бұрын
Wow, what a complicated life we must navigate through! I mean my nieces and nephews,(in their 40s), all talk openly about their salaries and financial situations and don't understand why I keep my finances so private. But that just wasn't done when I grew up, being born 70+ years ago.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@stoicepictetus38754 ай бұрын
For Dignity, autonomy and peace of mind do not share: 1. Age 2. Money 3. Family matters 4. Medication 5. Sexuality 6. Charity 7. Honor: be humble 8. Insults 9. Personal beliefs
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@frankorta51584 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!
@Banksia-Blue0004 ай бұрын
🙏🏻❤️
@ElizzzaB4 ай бұрын
When you keep your information they call you snobby unfriendly....just can't win. NARCISSISTS use it against you meanwhile tell no one their information.
@jillybe18734 ай бұрын
Thank you
@NurturingTheSoul-e1c8 күн бұрын
Love how this emphasizes the importance of keeping family matters, health, and personal beliefs to yourself. It's all about protecting your peace of mind.
@WiseAdvice938 күн бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful! Thank you very much ❤❤❤
@capt.davebertrand92963 ай бұрын
I tell everyone I'm 72. Proud of it, proud of my accomplishments, and proud to say...."I don't give a shit what anyone thinks."
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
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@dennispacelli10073 ай бұрын
DAY-UM Captain!
@legendaryangel19913 ай бұрын
As I age i realized how many FAKE friends I had who only called me when they had needs but when I needed their help they were NO where to be found! Wouldn’t even return my phone calls with friends like that who needs enemies I currently have NO friends!
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
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@dennispacelli10073 ай бұрын
Awww write to me! I'm single
@ilsavv2 ай бұрын
No friends is better than false ones.
@jeanmccallum-xs8rk2 ай бұрын
I understand
@esterwyman17 күн бұрын
That is why as we age , we have less friends, we no longer put up with fake people.
@Bubamara-b3z3 ай бұрын
I feel the foundation of these points is simplicity. It’s less about what you think and more about the impact of the thoughts and opinions of others about your personal matters. Life is simpler if one maintains discretion Personally, while I’m not focused on anyone’s perceptions about me, I want to determine with whom I want things shared. When you tell people things it’s easy to become a topic of their conversations with others. People don’t have boundaries anymore. They think nothing of passing along your information. I will tell my story if/when I want - it’s mine to share. You focus on yours.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@astoriakid413 ай бұрын
Basically keep your mouth shut even about your private life.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
@joeb55783 ай бұрын
So true. Agreed.
@gold7077863 ай бұрын
Except when you go to the dentist. Open wide....
@DanielMix-cy8ei3 ай бұрын
Thats why its called a private life.
@Hooper12123 ай бұрын
I’m one of those who shared my life story, and now it’s affecting my life. I’m in my 60’s and people are just taking advantage or just jealous. Hope I have not opened my life to other people
@johngreen17763 ай бұрын
My father always told me to keep matters of sex, religion and politics private. This advice is especially true with the hostility over different opinions today.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@bajuszpal1723 ай бұрын
Yes, striking a balance between what you share and what you keep to yourself is a great thing to learn and apply. Paul,69, retired teacher.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@klausroethel59614 ай бұрын
Truer words have never been spoken. Thank you for this summary.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Thanks for listening
@billbrennan84053 ай бұрын
Great advise to people like me who a little too open
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@RockerProf3 ай бұрын
I agree with you 100%. I get really annoyed when people ask me my age. When I was growing up, we were told that was a rude question.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@ilsavv2 ай бұрын
Age is personal after 16 years old.
@tdgdbs13 ай бұрын
10: Stay clear of narcissists, and that includes your mother.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@Bluntobject3 ай бұрын
That works for every age
@kentmccoy5923 ай бұрын
There are few things worse than having a narcissist mother I had one and I know how you feel it's a lot to overcome and a lot to accept forgive and let go
@jeanmccallum-xs8rk2 ай бұрын
Stay clear of toxic people, especially family and people you thought were friends.
@TheRaspberry822 ай бұрын
Or your son’s wife !!!!!!!
@superdave19643 ай бұрын
Love the life you live Live the life you love.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@YOWValley2 ай бұрын
Possibly (probably) one of the nicest 15 minutes I have spent on YT, not to mention the affirmation of feelings and beliefs so well elucidated they seem like news rather than reminders. Thanks.
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! It’s amazing to hear it resonated with you. 😊
@Essexkiwi2 ай бұрын
Excellent advice: it is something that I have finally come to understand. I used to share a lot of my thoughts with family and friends, only to have people mock or criticise me as I didn’t measure up to their standards.
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@glorious_conqueror20212 ай бұрын
I’m the same way, I was an open book but not anymore. I just stopped chatting about everything. Sometimes when you share information with others they use it against you. I recently shared a conversation about loaning someone money and my friend not only decided to chastise me but made terrible insulting comments about the person who I loaned the money to. Now I know. 🤷🏽♀️
@tipsterbl3 ай бұрын
Those were all helpful reminders and I can see where I need to improve and be more diligent.
@kokolanza75433 ай бұрын
What great advice, tactfully and positively shared!
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
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@dorothyrobinson6353Ай бұрын
Thank you! Very informative.
@WiseAdvice93Ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@JamesSullivan-p9m3 ай бұрын
I say don't worry about it. Just remember the Lord when you rise up and when you lie down, and when you walk by the way at noon day.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@bobjames66223 ай бұрын
At the age of....here is what I have learnt.....ALWAYS keep your OWN counsel. Nuff said.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@michaeldalsky12093 ай бұрын
Proud of my age,most people say how young I look for my age
@michaeldalsky12093 ай бұрын
I have neighbors and friends that know I’m in the stock market and we have good discussions about it without giving out exact amounts,I share my sports teams and people know I go to the games and I don’t mind sharing information about it.Dont need to live in a bubble and I’m not scared of living life
@bobjames66223 ай бұрын
@@michaeldalsky1209 Translation: you're a blabbermouth and nobody actually gives a shit what you have to say. LMFAO!
@ilsavv2 ай бұрын
@@michaeldalsky1209 Unlike many other people, you are unusually lucky to have such good neighbors and friends.
@richardmosher83343 ай бұрын
A Wonderful video. I am struggling to accept my aging, now 81 years, and trying to care for a disabled wife. This message is a blessed way to arrange our lives . Thank you
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@Tasceline4 ай бұрын
Thank you. Great principles to follow.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@UFO642Ай бұрын
Excellent Presentation. I'm nearly 72, and I'm in agreement with these 9 principles for guidance. Well Done! Former LCDR John Sullivan, USNR
@WiseAdvice93Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your perspective and for your service, LCDR Sullivan. Your agreement with these principles speaks volumes. Wishing you continued wisdom and happiness. 🙏
@sisizenwishdom4 ай бұрын
I am 78, i learn a lot from this video. thank you so much
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
That's great!
@Rob9mm4 ай бұрын
Excellent reply!!!!
@elhombresfbay4 ай бұрын
If young people live long enough that old saying what Goes around comes around Will be visited upon them. The best thing is don’t care what others think! And don’t take it personally.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@BaldandInsecure1873 ай бұрын
You are missing something, try being more open minded than negative. Not giving certain information will make it harder for someone to scam or defraud you and health insurance is a huge scam. Wake up
@gusgrizzel83972 ай бұрын
All young people are not bad people. There are plenty of bad old people, so it's not age that makes the person.
@nareshlathia5334Ай бұрын
As a 75 years old Hindu the part about charity is so good. I have been made to feel guilty about giving money. My own family members have made me feel guilty. So never ever reveal any charitable acts. I have found this to be a valuable Hindu teaching about Charity. Never reveal details to anyone else.
@WiseAdvice93Ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful! Thank you very much ❤❤❤
@mariodeazevedo29403 ай бұрын
Thank you for these wise tips!!
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@lordbyron36034 ай бұрын
Revealing my true age isn’t a problem. I don’t really care what others will think! So , there’s the 1st rule about me: I don’t give a flying f ….k what you think ! Good or bad , it makes no difference. Why is that ? Because I don’t want or need anything from you or anyone.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, have a blessed day. Thank you very much
@robertparisi80164 ай бұрын
Well said, I love the attitude, same here
@dickcaruthers19774 ай бұрын
My exact feelings about those topics !! Widowed & had a great life w her for 58’yrs On to the next chapter 😊
@Davido503 ай бұрын
Yeaaaa ok sure whatever!
@davidgreenwood73873 ай бұрын
So true. 👍
@sophiema12254 ай бұрын
Reasonable and helpful! Thank you so much!
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@JodyDube4 ай бұрын
Excellent advice. Thank you
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
My pleasure!
@tomklar143 ай бұрын
Great wisdom for us aging
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@ilanapeled2092 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right. Unfortunately, some things should NOT be shared. I taught my children (now in their forties) not to reveal their financial situation even to their closest friends (we have no relatives, alas). When they were very young they sometimes bristled at my advice but they soon realized that I have taught them well.
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@bookworm29264 ай бұрын
In Thailand, the aged people are more revered than they were young. The retirees by age have been treated with honor and respect, and people are likely to render a hepling hand in public need, such as public bus. However, as Thailand is not a rich country, most of the the aged are still financially struggling.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
@mariaavery12124 ай бұрын
I agree, wisdom is a special gift. I miss my grand parents. They used to tell me stories about where I was born. I miss that very much today ❤❤
@mariaavery12124 ай бұрын
Very true.
@andrewdean79173 ай бұрын
Well, if the KING shared some of the wealth the aged would have no struggle at all! Thailand is a very wealthy country, it a problem when you have so many corrupt and greedy turds in power. But yes, the elder do get a lot of respect.
@מרהריבליס3 ай бұрын
Your advice tells so much about your picture of the world. What a lone, distrustful, world! Not to share with other people these most important aspects of your life - who wants such life?! In case you think i don't understand - I'm in my mid sixties
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@segurosincero40573 ай бұрын
Lots of wisdom here. Thanks for sharing.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Thank you very much ❤️
@williamdavis74323 ай бұрын
Excellent - thank you!
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@Margaret-z9h2 ай бұрын
I'm 68. Great suggestions. Very reaffirming. Thanks.
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@robmadera97573 ай бұрын
Thank you for the message God bless you and your family 💖💙🕊️🙏
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@ninoellison77933 ай бұрын
So brilliant. How to live a life of integrity in our later years…
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@razorsharplifestyle101hard92 ай бұрын
Who is the author of this book?
@ELLI-vi8wm4 ай бұрын
We can avoid many problems by sharing as little important information about ourselves as possible. It is also a huge mistake to share pictures and confidential information on the Internet.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@davidarcher74783 ай бұрын
So complete!! Thank you for such a calm, wise, advice. It ALL makes so much sense. I encourage all persons of age 55 and older to embrace this information.
@hs5hdrtv2 ай бұрын
Much obliged for these excellent advice!❤❤❤❤❤
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@DavidM20023 ай бұрын
One surprising omission : seldom, and preferably never, tell anyone that you have or have not left them a bequest in your will. I purposely left out spouses because they are generally treated far differently than others for a variety of reasons.
@LovemyGod7Ай бұрын
Good advice ❤❤
@WiseAdvice93Ай бұрын
Thank you very much ❤❤❤
@WearyBear3 ай бұрын
I am torn between absolutely hating this advice, and agreeing with it. In a perfect community, we help each other. You can do things that I cannot, and I can do things that you cannot. So, we work together. But, how can I help you if I don't even know you. Unfortunately, we don't live in a perfect community. It is a land filled with very selfish people who will step on your back to elevate themselves. In the recent past, I have tried being more open with people, offering them what I have in exchange for what they can offer. But, it did not work at all. My needs were of no interest to them, and they would walk away after bleeding me dry. That isn't the way it's supposed to be. Now, I live with the absolute belief that nobody will ever know the real me again.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@ilsavv2 ай бұрын
Far not everyone deserves you sharing personal information. It should take years to know a person and decide on what to share with them.
@notagain7792 ай бұрын
@WearyBear, I'm sorry that happened to you. I also agree and disagree with the advice on this video. I guess it comes down to taking the time to know who can be trusted with your sensitive information. If a person would follow this advice completely, any time spent with another would be so stilted as to prevent a friendship from starting. I knew such a completely shut down person, about 40 years old. I liked her, but......no chance of a friendship ever happening there. Too bad; she seemed like a good person, but very isolated and alone. She told me it was SO hard for her to make friends. For you, WearyBear, I hope that you'll know the difference if a truly good and trustworthy person crosses your path. Maybe in time you'll feel comfortable again to let another person know the real you.🙂 Also, some people are selfish because they think everybody is that way, and they've never been taught any differently. With these types, we have to have side stepping methods in place ahead of time. Sashay away!
@DorindaKepler3 ай бұрын
Terrific advice at any age. Please, keep sharing.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@rodtokubo82484 ай бұрын
Inspirational advice; thank you
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@jamesfinch73112 ай бұрын
Good advice thank you !
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@leonardgibney29973 ай бұрын
Dead right. In old age I've realised a few things. Youth is wasted on the young.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@999manman3 ай бұрын
Why didn't my elders tell me all this when i was younger? Oh, wait,,,they did! LOL! Serves me right for ignoring them.
@DanielMix-cy8ei3 ай бұрын
If i only knew then what i know now so many things i would change but there are no do overs.
@JasonS-j4j3 ай бұрын
Your wrong youth is our future
@jennylee31143 ай бұрын
Excellent video! Very helpful! Thanks for sharing!
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@GreenStreetPlayer14 ай бұрын
Thank you. It is a balance. I think you have to show some of the cards life has dealt you as these probably define you in later years. Too much silence and secrecy on everything, people will end up not really knowing you. Also, sometimes a trouble shared is a trouble halved, the receiver can actually help you rather than bottling things up by getting concerns off your chest. There’s weight that lifts from the shoulders sometimes when you hear a voice that agrees with you. We are all wired differently. Yes, I also dislike “braggers”, certain things don’t become relevant in later years as we are all back to equal.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
our sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@daisyle12033 ай бұрын
I am now 68 and have learned, one thing you never discuss regardless with relatives, sometimes spouse or partner and close friends, is your financial situation. In other words, keep your mouth shut about things mentioned here and you will be happier. If someone asks or pries, change the subject or leave. Anyone that wants to pry into your business is up to no good, remove them from your life.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@gusgrizzel83972 ай бұрын
Maybe family members ask, because they care if you are doing alright.
@michaelcolby62362 ай бұрын
Great advice, all valid and truthful
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Thank you
@LordCipherSon4 ай бұрын
God bless you for this wisdom
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@JohnMcCormack-qs2qx2 ай бұрын
Very good, I have screwed up on a few issues, but now I have a chance to change those areas
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Thank you very much ❤❤❤
@hoanganhngo-u6x4 ай бұрын
This was so much fun to watch! Keep up the great work. 😊
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@Carl-x8y3c4 ай бұрын
Personally im not worried about telling people my age. So what !. We all age and can't stop the aging process.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
@Rob9mm4 ай бұрын
Same. Any who knew me 40 years ago would be utterly shocked to learn that I am still alive. In the spirit of not sharing I will not elaborate :)
@jamestyrrell53154 ай бұрын
Young ladies I meet when I honestly share my age, say age is just a number. I say that age may just be a number, aging is not. They don’t get it!
@Carl-x8y3c4 ай бұрын
@@jamestyrrell5315 Yes
@kathleenredick2753 ай бұрын
If I tell people my age, they're shocked. They think I'm 10 to 15 years younger than I actually am. A neighbor is 10 years older than I am, you would never guess that if you saw her. We both have had horses since we were children and are both in great shape.
@josephbailey4353 ай бұрын
Enjoyed your video and insight, makes sense. Thank you.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@mohansinhjhala97543 ай бұрын
1. Very nice. I go to a garden for excercises in the morning and when people know that I'm 85 they appreciate my efforts. I don't say on my own but if someone asks me the age I give it. Financial matters I keep private. In India there are many cases found where children after taking advantage of parents' money kick them out.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@rexarrowsmith82173 ай бұрын
I live in the Philippines. Your video holds no water here.
@TruthSpeaker10013 ай бұрын
A few good rules: 1) never lend money. Ever. 2) stay away from envious, jealous and any other people who give you a bad vibe. 3) friends can choose to unfriend at anytime. Confide in your spouse and children only.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@michaelsihm2453 ай бұрын
So true! ❤
@bettymermaid83463 ай бұрын
What if you have no family and your best friends passed early? This is not a life.
@KemaStokes2 ай бұрын
@@bettymermaid8346I was facing something similar. When my BFF of 40+ years was diagnosed with a terminal illness, I realized that someday I would be going on without her. While spending as much time with my BFF as possible, I made a conscious decision to seek out new friends. I took continuing education classes and at a high school reunion I reconnected with folks I’d lost touch with. I don’t have my BFF anymore, but I’m working on being a trusted companion to the people in my life now. I still “talk” to my BFF and miss her every day. My “new” friends understand my grief and have given me comfort and support. I’m truly blessed. But none of this would have happened if I hadn’t pushed myself to get out and make an effort. That first step is the hardest.
@jeanclarke91063 ай бұрын
Thank You. Wise words.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@CandleOfWisdom3 ай бұрын
Great. And in my opinion, important future intent should not be shared either. Because revealing plans prematurely can expose you to unnecessary risks, manipulation, or interference from others.
@jeanmccallum-xs8rk2 ай бұрын
Shocking how many creeps are out there.
@juhaposo57422 ай бұрын
Thanks for Your advice. I'm 64yo. I recognized myself done in some aspects - doing wrong assumptions of outside world and not so well for me - and it has irritated myself. You learned me why and that's OK. In my opinion it's never too late take a good lesson every time and time, to think about things over. If there's some wisdom in it, it may become to be a habit to look and find a new look of the surrounding world and persons You meet everyday.
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@Sten1114 ай бұрын
Unlike North America in UK and Europe it is just not done...actually rude... to inquire about someones age or financial position unless you are really close buddies/confidents.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
@ElizzzaB4 ай бұрын
Financial always causes problems.
@julieeppleston57833 ай бұрын
Absolutely I was always taught it was extremely rude to ask someone their age
@frednorman12 ай бұрын
Just found this channel a couple of days ago and I've already watched about four videos. I thank the creator for his wisdom and for sharing it
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Welcome aboard!
@ivangpavlovic57213 ай бұрын
I've noticed over the years that some people want to know Everything about you! But those same people will disclose virtually Nothing about themselves!
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@carlthornton30762 ай бұрын
Very Good!
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@ElizzzaB4 ай бұрын
A young person in store wanted all kinds of information....for a rewards card. Called the manager at a latter date. He said no thats for a store credit card. I said No it was for a rewards card. Had to repeat a few times and told him he better check because she may br collecting customers info and selling it.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@edwindacara35812 ай бұрын
Thanks
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@eastwestunity3 ай бұрын
Never share: 1) Age 2) Money 3) Family secrets 4) Medications 5) Sexuality 6) Charity 7) Honor 8) Insults 9) Mantra
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@HelenODonnell-b9uАй бұрын
I agree ith keeping quiet about 1) age, 2) finances and 3) whether you've ever had a child out of wedlock. Even if everyone else was doing it and worrying along with you monthly, you'll be loved for 5 minutes until you give up your child and then hated for the rest of your life. No one will ever think they would do the same. I don't agree with not sharing about your family dynamics. I never shared about my abusive, neglectful parents, even though no one evr asked me to cover it up. I just did because I was ashamed of my parents and knew something wasn't right. I'll never do that agin. Now I tell everyone if someone is a gossip, or or is abusive. I'll never keep that secret again. If you're nasty I'll tell on you. I won't protect you.
@WiseAdvice93Ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful! Thank you very much ❤❤❤
@sas-lt4qv4 ай бұрын
I would add to your list: keep your political beliefs secret.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@bdflatlander3 ай бұрын
Absolutely true, especially in the current divisive climate. Whenever someone tries to steer a conversation to politics I have on a couple of occasions had to be very firm and say that I am not interested in getting into a political discussion. Sadly, it has ended a few friendships.
@Laura-cx7jj3 ай бұрын
SO TRUE. There's no advantage to talking politics. Only brings trouble. Most people will not listen. There's no use in trying to appeal to others that they're candidate is a boob.😅
@whatsit2ya2473 ай бұрын
I disagree, I need to know right off the get go if you're a dumb ass Democrat so I can nip it in the bud.
@ilsavv2 ай бұрын
@@bdflatlander These were not true friendships, do not regret them.
@Hummingbirds20232 ай бұрын
All very important points to remember.
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@CultivatingTheMind3 ай бұрын
I wish everyone who reads the comments after watching this meaningful video always peace, happiness and success! 🙏🙏🙏
@LeNeyaRoss2 ай бұрын
1 this video I won't be keeping to myself. Thank you
@GeorgeChildress-p5c3 ай бұрын
These comments are so true old school hard times Mississippi truth be told
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@tomk20053 ай бұрын
#10, Never reveal what preps you have stored away, for that can get you many unwanted visitors when a crisis happens, thus your personal safety can be at risk also...
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@mariloudalisay21573 ай бұрын
Thank you 💖🙏💐
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@lindahoang5064 ай бұрын
When you aged people think you are hopeless confusing person. They don’t know you are very smart and intelligent person. I keep my age for myself.
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@bobbyshafer52083 ай бұрын
And beliefs. Prayers and hugs
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@AAA-k8f5e4 ай бұрын
Unfortunately betrayal will be an awful surprise
@WiseAdvice934 ай бұрын
I agree with your opinion, thank you very much
@alonzosmithpowergog49463 ай бұрын
Only if your deceived first
@AdviceFuture13 ай бұрын
thank you for for sharing
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@marylivingstone98153 ай бұрын
Here’s my mantra: now that I’m old, I have zero f@@ks to give. It might not work for you, but it sure works for me!
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@carllarouche73142 ай бұрын
Perfect advice wish l learned way earlier
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Glad to hear it!
@tonypanzarella93873 ай бұрын
When anyone asks my age, I reply, "I am old enough to remember when there were patriotic Democrats, and young enough to wear cloth underwear". When asked about my sexuality, I respond with, "You aren't my type." When asked about family secrets, I say, "You are looking at it." When asked if I take any medications, my response is, "I take a special substance that makes my nostrils immune to your breath." People leave me alone.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@dalejablonski4362 ай бұрын
Well done
@WiseAdvice932 ай бұрын
Love that!
@Ridesmule3 ай бұрын
A lot of good advice but I have to say that now I am older the opinions of others has less and less meaning, I simply no longer care. I’m friendly but I let very few in. My circle of friends is quite small since they have an apparently incurable habit of passing on. I instinctively keep my personal information private, period. I mostly want to be left alone to live my life out in a quiet peaceful way, which seems to be an increasingly difficult reality to attain.
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@zohan19993 ай бұрын
Thank you Sir
@WiseAdvice933 ай бұрын
So nice of you
@timothystacks72843 ай бұрын
I'm 58 years old still walk alot to take city bus and lightrail to work and back home and my job is 23 miles away from were I live I can't drive because I'm Leagley blind and a single father with kids 2 of them still raising at home teens.