When You Grow Old: 3 Types of Neighbors to Avoid, 3 Types of Relatives to Keep Your Distance From

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@lobodo988]

This video is R A C I S T for only showing Whites as it discusses problem people.

[@carolalmeida6492]

One thing I learned was not allowing others to take advantage of my availability. Just because I'm retired and have free time doesn't mean I'm available 24 7. Some of my relatives try to manipulate me with that tactic. I'm 70 years old and want to live a peaceful life.Thank You so much for sharing this information.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@RoyalPurpleStar]

Wow, sorry to hear that you’ve had to deal with sneaky manipulators to try and get you to do things just because you’re retired. It’s absolutely disgusting that some people have the gall to think that they have some kind of claim and right to someone else’s time, energy, and resources just because they feel like it. I’m glad you recognize their tactics and aren’t falling for their tricks.

[@alesiabradley5399]

My uncle once said good fences make for good neighbors how true!

[@jackielaurin8692]

He forgot to mention good fences for family sets boundaries for your well being

[@gohajourney]

That's a wise saying! Boundaries really do help maintain healthy and respectful relationships.

[@larrnew]

I was surrounded by inconsiderate rude neighbors… I prayed to God and now those people are gone! Praise the Lord!

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@JoeMeyers-u5z]

Wish I thought of that long ago ..because there are rude souls all over the nearby blocks by me .

[@larrnew]

@ prayer is a powerful tool… The prayers of a righteous person has much power!

[@dennisstucke5430]

Praise the Lord indeed

[@aloksrivastava7938]

Same here. I too wish the same. But, I suppose if you can't change others, you have to change yourself. Maybe, people like us need to consider relocating. Too bad relocating is unaffordable.

[@AnneTraynor-n6s]

I don't have anyone knocking on my door. I am cautious now. *A fence between neighbors is a good thing.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@robert-zg8or]

@@AnneTraynor-n6s tall and electric is a great fence 😆

[@Marthawendy-sz2mk]

@@robert-zg8or😂👍🏼🤣

[@avanellehansen4525]

Amazon sells a doormat that reads "Did you call first?"

[@nadinefay1560]

I don’t even answer a door knock! They have to give me a few days warning, announce themselves loudly before they are allowed in.

[@Inventio13]

I’ve encountered these neighbours and relatives. Life is calmer without them!

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@CarolLeslie-x5n]

My neighbour has even asked me who the people were at my house!! She’s commented on the fact I went food shopping 6 days after had been before. It feels very stressful knowing she’s watching everything I do, mind it’s all the neighbours because she gossips about everyone. I got my garden fence 6ft and double panelled so she can’t see through (that’s a U.K. garden). I hate nosy neighbours with nothing better to do.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@Cecelia-n7d]

The intrusive gossip, I just simply don't answer the door. Im too old to care about some one who doesn't really care about me, but, just wants to gather information. If I happen to see her outside of my apartment, I do talk nice, and, instead of answering any question that I don't want to answer, I smile and say, Sorry, gotta run. See you later.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@babsgrigg3552]

A most positive straight forward video, I’m 82 years and I have deleted an obnoxious neighbor out of my life as when she retired she thought I was going to be her best friend shopping as I have a regular size car and shop for plants and groceries in abundance as she has to drive a small sports car as thinks brings her the attention she desires. I had to tell her that I would not be shopping with her. Thank you so much, I feel like a good person……my wants and needs come first!!! You are the greatest!!! Good advice for relatives as well. 0:15 0:15

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@CarolLeslie-x5n]

Good for you Babs I’m going to try to be stronger and ignore my nosey neighbour. I got the email about cutting out family members who bring nothing but gloom and nasty behaviour not respecting me at all. You keep on keeping on ❤️

[@AnnaParada-x3y]

GREETINGS FROM KENTUCKY SALISBURY SELF-CENTERED IN NARCISSISTIC THAT'S VERY STRANGE AND NOT WANT TO HELP OTHERS VERY SELFISH AND BEING RUDE TO FAMILY MEMBERS LIKE THAT THIS IS REALLY NOT VERY NICE LOOK UP THE CAJUN MENNONITES AND AMISH CULTURES AND JEWISH CULTURES WERE NOT THAT WAY WE'RE NOT SELF-CENTERED EGOTISTICAL PEOPLE WE HELP OUR NEIGHBORS HELP EVERYBODY FIRST HANDS DOWN

[@ritabengermino317]

I managed to just use social media to communicate with people unless I have to see them in person. Happy to have this as I get older.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@elizabethengquist4185]

This goes for most coworkers too. They are not your friends, neither is HR.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@marywilbourne200]

Especially HR! Enemy number one!

[@gelvinlane6097]

Homeowners are held hostage by the neighbors they have.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@DavidWilliams-qr5yj]

Thru prayer my horrible neighbors, moved away 😊

[@carolkristian1146]

So are renters. I'm surrounded by nosy, inconsiderate homeowners who think they own the neighborhood.

[@annsaunders5768]

Unfortunately too true.

[@ganymeade5151]

Sometimes it is best not to know your neighbors.

[@acajudi100]

Have hours of visiting, and they must call a day ahead. Heavily block your doors, windows and bedroom at night, with protection around your home, entering or exiting. Do not loan money!

[@Kelly-oe8kr]

Don't give people a ride either, before you know it they're acting like you're their personal taxi service

[@Cecelia-n7d]

Sure do agree with this.

[@bonniebell2050]

​@@Kelly-oe8krOH wow I so agree.

[@octaviod9379]

I do loan out. Then they owe, then they Avoid you, as opposed to me trying to avoid them. Just loan to them, they sneakily disappear on you. Not knowing you flipped the tables on them 😉

[@JoyMartin-rk4pm]

What prison did you say you were in?

[@abj99861]

Here it is, a firm and simple solution, “people are assholes until they prove otherwise” it’s the “innocent till proven guilty” in reverse. This is ESPECIALLY TRUE WITH FAMILY MEMBERS

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@bud5084]

If your neighbors think you are crazy they will leave you alone. And never live in a HOA neighborhood

[@Victor-q9]

I feel normal till i see family😮

[@Jipjip-m6f]

Be careful with family members. They don't like you to Excel in life.They will ruin you to the fullest.

[@Jipjip-m6f]

😂

[@JoWyrick]

THE BEST ADVICE I HAVE EVER HEARD IN A LONG TIME, I HAVE TRIED TO MAKE IT CLEAR THAT MY PEACE IS VERY IMPORTANT TO ME! AT MY AGE MY NEIGHBORHOOD IS KEY TO WHERE I LIVE! THANK YOU FOR THIS ARTICLE ❤👍🏼🙏🏾

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@CandleOfWisdom]

Such valuable insights! As we get older, preserving our peace becomes increasingly important, and this video does a fantastic job breaking down the types of relationships that can impact that balance. The tips on setting boundaries and maintaining a respectful distance really resonate-sometimes it's the small steps that make the biggest difference in our well-being. Thank you for sharing this wisdom!

[@WomanofGod08]

Everything you have said it’s true. I wish I had this information sooner; the neighbor,not my immediate next door neighbor, but one house away and is nosy; became friends to gather information and we have now become like enemies; and her behavior now is also very strange.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@annsaunders5768]

Praying for you

[@ladyree7575]

@@WomanofGod08 People have become so evil today I believe they are hijacked by demons. And they are hyper focused on the people of God, so The can do evil to them.

[@SarahMCamp-i7k]

I’ve learned that I must distance myself from these types of people around me. Furthermore, my Lord has shown me how to act around them. You have listed the actions to be learned against them. I praise the Lord and you. Thank you 😊

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@rosammitchell6313]

I needed to hear this because you nailed what I have been dealing with with three neighbors and three siblings!! WOW 😮😢

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@butterbean3676]

I am surrounded! Thank goodness I learned from the best. My mother was a good woman with a good heart and a LOW-TOLERANCE for any of these types. I have sense to keep my distance and let these types know that my life and time are my business I let those in that while I want peace I will not be bothered with unnecessary behaviors.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@butterbean3676]

This is a great guide you have provided. Many out there feel they are being less than neighborly or familial if they set needed boundaries. Inner piece regardless of age is something we all deserve Thank you!@@WiseAdvice93

[@cathum]

Excellent topic, thanks. Nowadays, not too much interaction among neighbours, but true it can be stressful if things go wrong.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@jolenetwomey8280]

As a fiercely independent person (perhaps to a fault), it sets my teeth on edge when someone, whether it is a neighbor, friend, or a romantic partner asks for too many favors. One lady I knew used to try to soften my guard by saying "Could you do me a flavor?" But of course it had the opposite effect.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@merlinfajutagana4936]

Timely and healthy reminders. Thank you.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@marywhite3970]

Unfortunately not all relatives are mentally or emotionally balanced. Some have been alcoholics for years...and other things. Many are just plain NOT FIT enough to have a relationship with and some need professional help but never get it. All of which makes it impossible to have any kind of healthy interaction. It's just how the cookie crumbles but if you don't see and recognize that after several failed attempts, you are setting yourself up for years of heartache and disappointment. Access the reality of your relatives accurately and don't live your life hoping for something with them that will never come. And lastly, don't blame yourself, you are only one half. And remember that their emotional issues are not your burden. They have to get healthy first in order to function in a normal, rational, adult exchange.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@yoyoky6426]

No.2 happens all the time.i used to have many neighbours that thought that we are obligated to help them, no appreciation, some even treated us like a free babysitter, expecting us included my kids to tolerate their kid's bad behaviour, I've learnt to set up boundaries, its either you respect my boundaries, or you leave. That's simple. Now I'm filtering my social circle everyday.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@TheDowntownHermit-xj6rq]

My social circle looks more like a dot.😁

[@yoyoky6426]

@@TheDowntownHermit-xj6rq good for u!

[@eileenwatt8283]

My dad brought up all the properties around our house to keep neighbors at bay. One guy didn't want to sell. We never spoke to him. It's not just neighbors but the people you allowed into your home. Be choosy whom you let into your house. People carry energy. You don't want people with negative energy into your space. Make sure you have a garage to drive into. It prevents neighbors from monitoring what your purchases are.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@RaymondSell]

👍

[@JoyMartin-rk4pm]

Bit mean not to speak to someone just because he would'nt sell you his property. Perhaps he should have kept you at bay! You can be choosy without having to buy everyone out.

[@gohajourney]

My grandmother always used to say that a little kindness goes a long way, and it's so true!

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much ❤❤❤

[@jackielaurin8692]

Thank you for a great , awesome video I’ve made some huge advancements in my life in the last near 2-3 years with family / relatives .. after listening to this video well presented 😊 I’m happy I did , it was the right choices to keep myself well.. Self serving , lazy borrowers, Jealous family etc etc too bad I didn’t act on this 50 years ago Removing yourself is self preservation . God bless you for sharing wisdom to seniors abd others .

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@StandingforHisName]

My neighbor of 40 yrs has always been very nosy. When I first met her, she told me that my neighbor on the other side was a gossip and used selling Avon as a means to go house to house collecting info to gossip to the others about. But in the 25 yrs the other woman lived next door to me, not once did she ever knock on my door, though she was friendly when I would see her outside, but she kept to herself. Turns out the one accusing her of being a gossip was actually the one doing the very thing she would accuse the other woman of. This woman is nosey, prying, and will come right on in if the door is not locked. She wanted to see the new baby once and was told the baby was napping and now was not a good time. She pushed her way on thru and went to the bedroom anyway, promising to be quiet, and of course was not. She is 84 yrs old now and hasn't changed much. She will come over and sit for hours telling me every single detail of her medical procedures, even when I tell her to please stop because that kind of thing makes me feel ill. She even insisted on telling me every detail of how she inserts her enemas 🤦 She simply will not stop even when asked. I sometimes feel guilty that I don't offer to help her more. I've taken her to the grocery and so forth. But I drew the line when she asked that I carry a chair up her steep basement stairs. It has wheels and she wanted it to get around in when she had foot surgery. I told her I could not do it. Her stairs are steep, and tho I am almost 20 yrs younger than her, I'm still no spring chicken. I have arthritis all throughout my spine and I was afraid of hurting myself. So instead I gave her a walker on wheels that had a folding seat that belonged to my husband before he passed away. She said thanks, but I could tell she was not happy about it. Recently, I was feeling guilty, thinking I should try to help her more, then the next day she sent me a nasty text message because she didn't like something I posted on FB, saying she wonders about me sometimes. Then when she was going to have someone remove some branches from my tree, I went next door to tell her not to, as I was concerned that it would make the tree lopsided and possibly fall on my house. She used that opportunity to tear into me again about my FB post, and even accused me of having grand daughter's car towed, which I did not do. And then she claimed that she's always been a good neighbor to me. So I took that as my cue to just leave her be, as that all happened right around the time I was feeling guilty for not doing more for her. I unfriended her on FB, and I will no longer allow her in my home if she comes over again, since she has chosen to be quite hostile toward me lately. The hostility began right around the time that I was thinking I should help her more. So I'm taking that as a sign that I should not concern myself with her. She has a granddaughter in her twenties who can help, and also plenty of community help, having phone numbers she can call for help around the house, a ride when she needs it, and so forth, due to her health conditions and her age. So I think she'll be fine. Am I wrong to feel that way?

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@sheripietro8388]

You are absolutely right to feel that way!

[@charlotteavery4040]

Never let anyone use or abuse you. You deserve peace and tranquillity and you will never have those things with this intrusive person in your life. Peace be with you.😊🙏

[@Cherrysmith2809]

No, you are right to recognize that you need to have boundaries to deal with someone who does not recognize boundaries. Set them.

[@elizabethlarson-gn4ds]

not wrong at all, she sounds like a person to avoid at all costs.

[@rosieleb32]

Boundaries include what you say. I don’t share more than pleasantries with neighbours and family has been treated like neighbours as well. I have some oddly jealous sisters, I can’t really read them or get what their motivation is so pleasantries is my limit these days.

[@WiseElderly]

I love how this video emphasizes simple yet effective changes for winter wellness. It's a great reminder to prioritize our health in the colder months!

[@ToniWilson-c4q]

My siblings are just as bad as mother was toward me , they all distant & cold

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@KirstenLambert-nt8iy]

I broke ties with my family because of toxicity. My mother was narcissistic and unfortunately my sisters follow suit. Mom is gone now since 2016. My sisters, like mom, and now Dad's new wife are all self centered. Very dramatic. Won't deal with "flying monkeys" in the family

[@lindahenry6168]

I tried being friendly with my neighbors and it got to the point where I felt like I was walking thru hell with gasoline soaked clothes on. Now they only see me when I go to my mailbox. You decribed them perfectly.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@sunnyboy4553]

I live in a apartment rental senior residence . When I first moved here I was overly friendly with everyone, hoping to make friends. What a mistake !!!! When I realized that some of them were using power plays to see how they could manipulate me, or mocked me in subtle ways, it caused hard feelings when I had to extricate myself from them. I know I bordered on rudeness saying things like "I'm not much of a chit-chatter. Please don't speak to me."or even "The universe is telling me our energies are not harmonious, please don't speak to me." I know these responses sound harsh, but for my own self-respect I felt I had to break off any contact with them. That's the only way to deal with some people who mistake openness and friendliness for weakness and gullibility. Their disrespect was causing me so much emtional anguish I didn't care if they thought I was crazy or rude. Things changed over time and getting used to seeing each other. Now one maintains a respectful distance and we say hello to each other. The other one occassionally says "Hi" and I answer, but it never goes beyond that. I'm a woman, 75 years old, most of the women here are in their 70's, low 80's on average. The nasty ones (in a minority) gossip and do things to see how their target will respond, like 4 or 5 standing in a doorway into the building from the garden to see how the person they are focused on will react when passing them, which they did to me once. I regard them as "mean gitl grannies" When mean girls get old, their character remains the same. Don't be too friendly when first moving into a senior residence. In time, you will have the discernment about who you want to get to know better. And who you don't. Don't rush it..... Older but Wiser.

[@ganymeade5151]

True. It is difficult to find good neighbors you can trust.

[@AnnaParada-x3y]

GREETINGS FROM KENTUCKY BLAH BLAH BLAH TRY BEING LESS A NARCISSISTIC AND MORE GIVING YOU PEOPLE SEEM VERY STINGY THIS IS HORRIBLE TO NOT HELP OTHERS THAT'S THE PROBLEM WE HAVE IN THIS CULTURE IN THE UNITED STATES WITH A LOT OF PEOPLE TRY LOOKING UP THE AMISH MEN AND NIGHTS AND THE JEWISH PEOPLE THEY'RE THERE FOR ONE ANOTHER NO MATTER WHAT BLAH BLAH BLAH BOUNDARIES YEAH YEAH CAUCASIANS ARE VERY STINGY

[@christinehow3595]

Sorry too hear the hell your going through. I know how you feel ,same is happening to me .

[@annbow4064]

I stay away from all neighbours,i live in a corner with a gate i can use that is away from all of them and i do,ihave watched too many neigbours get to cosy with each other to then fall out,i saw this in my 20s now in my 60s i keep my self to my self always have.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@nannyi6166]

Peace to all AMEN✝️🙏

[@tomtroy3792]

I had horrible neighbors for about 12 years even now when they're gone it's still haunts me and I can't enjoy my home

[@JoeMeyers-u5z]

Feel for you . I once lived in apartments that turned to selling drugs to people ..then knifings increased and assaults ..after they were before that decent . Moved out almost 30 years ago.

[@Kharkovkid]

Then sell, take the loss and move on.

[@redjulmar7391]

It's so sad what people do. My neighbor bullies me every day.. I feel so very anxious and not myself at all. 😢

[@Victor-q9]

​@@redjulmar7391pray... move but God has to lead otherwise u end up same circumstances with different address

[@shobhaiyer79]

Pray for peace

[@cne5003]

Thank you so much for the lesson. I learnt quite a lot. Relations take undue advantage of my kindness and this drains my peace. I need to form boundaries now that I am retired.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@StoicQuotes6161]

very meaningful and practical! thanks.

[@WiseAdvice93]

You're very welcome!

[@ladyree7575]

I have a property manager/ neighbor that addressed himself as Daddy in the office in a text message to myself. I found this to be very creepy and disturbing. He also began to park directly in front of my front door even though I asked him not to. He lives across the street.He is married. The police are even aware of this but he's still parked there.😠 I'm 71 yrs old

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@RaymondSell]

His unfortunate wife!

[@ladyree7575]

@@RaymondSell yes that's what I've been thinking.

[@onetuliptree]

The daddy thing and parking at your door instead of his own are dominance moves. This guy is playing games and you are in his trap by living there. It's scary because you don't know how far he will go. The wife will support whatever he says. I hope you can afford to move. Contact a women's shelter if you need help or advice, and they can probably give you better advice on dealing with this guy than the police can.

[@ladyree7575]

@onetuliptree so true it is very scary.

[@Kharkovkid]

My spouse has always been extremely financially blessed. She makes about as much as an NBA player in her sleep. When ever she would have a tiff with a neighbor or realize they were jerks, we would just pack up and move. Years ago, I thought it was foolish and wasteful, but now with more money than time left, I think it is a smart prudent play...

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@minxella12]

If she made a decent sale on the property if sold not bad. Then again I agree moving can be a pain.

[@Trac82]

​@@minxella12You know what else is a pain? Living uncomfortable in your own home.

[@minxella12]

@@Trac82 My parents years ago moved to a different part of the country. They did not immediately buy a house they rented first and got to know the area.

[@Ilona-o3f]

Thank you 🙏 so much, good advise 👍 Humans are the most complicated beings mainly driven by profit & power, some could be very direct & some indirect 😊

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@heloisepoye8891]

Thanks!

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much ❤️

[@georgevavoulis4758]

I only have one neighbor I don't trust andnever liked sonce I was a kid . However as for relatives I do NOT trust ANY of them .

[@ToniWilson-c4q]

Amen , they never right , they too are the same as others

[@katblehm2119]

I kicked two siblings to the curb who wanted nothing to do with me and my husband… until my husband died. Then they wanted in to see what they could grift from his estate. 😅 …I’ve had peace since they’ve been out of my life 🙏🏼

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@amaliaarauz2240]

very true 💯 about neighbors and family 👪 members to 😢

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@Jipjip-m6f]

We all will need each other in time of trouble. A phone call will not help. Keep your neighbors and be polite to them. They are our first responders . Especially the one who is gossiping .

[@minxella12]

I like the good fences make good neighbors advice, be polite but distant.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@RoyalPurpleStar]

I’m not a senior citizen but was curious about this video, so here I am. Honestly, I don’t think the suggestions are only for older folks, it’s for people of all ages. Nobody wants to be used by anyone, period, and no one wants to be around nosy and gossipy people no matter what age they are. I mean, who doesn’t want peace? Life is inherently stressful and difficult, no one wants added troubles from inconsiderate, manipulative, and self-serving people, whether they’re neighbors, family, friends, or relatives. I had to cut off contact with my entire family just to live a better life. I was too caring and loving and I was taken for granted and I just got tired and quit being a people-pleaser. I feel like a huge weight had been lifted off of me.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful! Thank you very much ❤❤❤

[@AngelaZsiga]

Great topict. My Mom has awsome neighbors. They share food and invite each other over. I live in a older apartment so neighbors are all around. Im lucky to have quiet ones. Sometimes, there is that one obnoxious one that is toxic. I agree set boundaries. 💯👍

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@maureenlee9118]

Good video. I like your advice. Thanks.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Glad it was helpful!

[@geraldinemcguire1698]

Well.the redheaded harlot, the husband stealer, the ultra inquisitive one, one competent normal neighbor, the talented drummer pimp for the harlot. the nurse gone most of the time. the family on corner lot, the dangerous loose dog owner. And the one who sits up cameras on trees pointed at your house to monitor all your life. In this situation I find a double fenced yard invaluable, also a quiet demeanor while tending to my yard and my own business. Never ever react. Always be calm with nerves of steel. Pray for my neighbors. Realise I may be the only happy person they know and it is why they act the way they do. Ear mufflers for noise, conversations, etc are also a cheap fix. Daily enjoyment is a must. Sometimes leaving a table of ripe fruits from yard helps.😊

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@heloisepoye8891]

Thank you for your work. I learned a lot.

[@mirandagaga9221]

Thank you for posting this important info. I have had to DC a "sister" that just wanted me to be a giver and her a constant taker. I finally 🙌 happier without her! In life u stick with the winners and you will be a winner 🏆 🥇 !

[@WiseAdvice93]

You are so welcome!

[@robyngibbs595]

I have found this to be VERY helpful. Thankyou.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Glad it was helpful!

[@billcarter4670]

good video, that should be shared - Kentucky

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@simonlangmead7]

This is where living in a condo is an advantage. Once you close the door they can’t see anything. In a house, if you’re enjoying your street side balcony anyone can walk by, see you and start a conversation that may not have the best future intentions.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@BettyJ155]

Good advice.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for watching!

[@kuchenavhe0028]

i find the content of this video appropriate even in my mid-age. thank you so very much.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@CrimsonRaven51]

Good advice. Especially about needy relatives. I’m 74, retired from U.S. government job of almost 30 years not counting active military service. Living comfortably with my wife who still works and the benefits and investments I’ve set up. But, I have a brother that’s 2 years younger than me who I’ve had to hand hold since grammar school who still can’t get his life in order and I’ve had to send him money several times to get him out of financial trouble. He won’t take advice on how to reduce his expenses but calls on me just like ever since 1959! Can’t keep it up. Impacting my own expenses. Need space without Catholic guilt I was brought up on by our mother.😞

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@carolakrong1295]

Just lovely information very true too 👍🏾

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@irenemorley75]

I have always kept away from neighbors, too nosy and when they see you have more than them they get jealous and turn on you.....who needs neighbors when you have a loving family and friends that you have had for most of you're life, I can see that some of my neighbors looking at me pissed off when I just say morning and carry on walking.

[@JoeMeyers-u5z]

Sometimes when I wish I had a friend at a certain time I do not get that ...then on my own . Suffer by myself ..

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@georgevavoulis4758]

​@@JoeMeyers-u5zsame here ,I do NOT trust any relatives at all

[@beverly8396]

Me either!

[@venetiakelley]

Thank you for the sound advice. Blessings

[@WiseAdvice93]

You are so welcome

[@jacquelineglitter4328]

I don't let very many people in my life. I get tired of the negativity and I don't like people that gossip about me either. They will literally tell me I told so and so about that. I like spending time with my son and cats. I see why elderly lady's love their cats. They are cute and have these fun personalities 🐈.

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@lorraineamico42]

Love this video thanks

[@WiseAdvice93]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@jayruffin3895]

A simple wave of your strong dominant hand into the air and keep stepping in the opposite direction ❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@judywright4241]

Funny, that hubby and I had a talk about a ‘nosy neighbor’ and I told him to stop saying ‘hi’ with a smile. He said ‘I can’t help she seeks me out.’ I disagreed, that she is taking his ‘hi’ with a wave and a big smile as welcoming her to approach. I nod, And say ‘hello’, and keep moving with little eye contact and she doesn’t come over to me.

[@annsaunders5768]

​@@judywright4241Had to "not notice" when my neighbor comes running up to my car every durn time I drive by her home which is served by MY driveway. She holds a "maintenance meeting" once a year that isn't necessary. I pay taxes on the road, I pay fees and other charges but they don't offer to pay for it or any of the atty expenses, ins. Expenses etc that I incur for this property. I just want to live my life without them wasting my time or money. They want to set a "dust speed limit" on my driveway and only enforce it when I am in a hurry. I just get out my phone or dashcam and drive on by!

[@georgevavoulis4758]

We had neighbor #3 she AirBnB her house so sick of and so happy she moved out of the country and now we have a wonderful neighbors

[@CatherineHaynes-q5i]

My soon to be 34 year son is very complacent. I'm 58 and ready for my life. I will talk with him about boundaries and deadline.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@Justbu45]

Great info

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for watching!

[@larrychrisentery6671]

Good advice

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@JIm-w1b]

I'm 70 years old, and my next door neighbor had me arrested and sent to jail, what cost me $30,000 in bond and lawyer fees, my life savings as an electrician. I spent 5 days in the county jail, when I had done nothing wrong. All I did was try to be friendly and nice to them, but when I sent them a $60 gift card to a restaurant, they misunderstood my intentions. If you are nice to people nowadays, they don't know what this means. It scares them. They assume the worst, that you're out to get them. There was also a naive woman police detective who was part of this.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@minxella12]

For sending a gift card? What did they accuse you of?

[@JAB-bc9uv]

There is more to this story.....

[@tina8796]

We had a neighbor like that. Roam from one house to another gossiping, tattling, lying, bullying, stirring up trouble. She was also No. 2. Self-serving. Constantly asking for this, that or the other and it was a one way street. We threatened to call the police and lawyer's office and we've not heard from her since. Glad to be rid of that demon devil

[@WiseAdvice93]

I agree with your opinion, thank you very much

[@philgee7249]

Got one like that two doors from me.

[@gv1967]

I had one of these types as a tenant recently. Can't mind their own business. Gave them notice and now they've moved out. I felt I was restricted in the property while they were around. A huge burden seemingly lifted away from me when they vacated the place. I'd say, good riddance too!

[@WiseAdvice93]

Sounds like a tough situation! It’s good you addressed it and can now enjoy your space in peace.

[@ToosdhiBerry]

1 thanks I Learnt another of advice to use God bless 🙌 you so much

[@WiseAdvice93]

Glad it was helpful!

[@CultivatingTheMind]

I wish everyone who reads the comments after watching this meaningful video always peace, happiness and success!❤❤❤

[@Debra-k1f]

Thank you 😊 And to you also ❤

[@ganymeade5151]

Some people are best kept at a distance. Some people have become selfish and inconsiderate. Some are haters.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@carolkristian1146]

I have several neighbors who allow their dogs to bark continuously. Most seminars to ignore it, mainly because they have dogs who are amongst the worst barkers. I love dogs, but I have never allowed my dogs to bark recreational. There is no excuse for this. I can't call the police about every one of them, there are too many.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@jacquelineglitter4328]

My neighbor would let his dogs bark and growl at me when I'm getting in my car. I called the police on him a couple of times. He used to leave them out all night but stopped doing that at least.

[@cynthiaracicot6502]

Terrible to have that happen. A dog left to bark is neglected.

[@julieponce3345]

Wonderful channel. Thank you

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@IvanCrowie]

Thks all that was said is so true thks i have had many experiences ❤

[@fifthavenuegirl]

my neighbors are bizarre. they have helped me but then controlling afterwards. the husband is a loon. i think he is a borderline, but very immature for a 65 year old. i am independent had horses had stroke and he plays games w my trash can. she is beyond nosey, even prior owner was spied on by her. i told her and we r the same age - that i am not ur child when she was controlling. she got pissed off but too bad. i leave people alone. i never asked them for anything and have asked to repay 9 not a money thing) in various ways but they wont accept because they want control. i knew he was a loon the minute i met him over 12 years ago. after her husband's last game he played on me i am no longer talking to them. he tried to goad me but i ignore. i want to move out of state frankly. other neighbors are a nightmare too all rude, dumb, in one case a liar

[@JoeMeyers-u5z]

I know controlling people are very aggravating folks indeed ..my town that is half the population seriously ..

[@JoeMeyers-u5z]

Is why I want to leave California though even I'm in a rural desert town ..people started buying up homes ..several homes to one person talk about greed .

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@stevejorgensen5274]

When someone is at my house( I lost my wife to cancer four years ago.) and someone ssk who they were I just tell them they are a hooker. This has stopped questions. I am a disabled vet and I tell them I can't help move snything. The only relative that I have any thing to do with are my three kids and seven grand kids. I think my life is good. I like to be alone. I don't invite people to my house. A few months ago there was a bad tornado went through a town next to the ine I live in. 150 houses destroyed and four people killed. I have five unused bedtooms in my house. I offered them to several young families. They had already found a place to live with family.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@lesliekloer8544]

Have cut friendship with a rude neighbor!😅

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@eddiemiller5578]

Amen. Amen. All. This. Informants. Or. True. Thanks

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for listening

[@michaelharrison3602]

Im 74 only two friends who know where i live. U know that neof them would come and visit me without calling first or a really good reason i dont order anything on line so if my doorbell rings i ignore it😅

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your peace and privacy are priceless! You’ve created a space where you feel secure, and that’s so important. 😊

[@lisawells9905]

I have a neighbor who volunteers to do things thèn demands payment! She comes across like she care and is concerned about you then presents a bill or goes around bragging about what she did telling how unappreciative you are.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@JoeMeyers-u5z]

0:19 I have a kind of boring neughbors like a restriced cemetery property.. they make it deadly or deathly quiet and expect no activity as even hobbies by oneself . My town hates the tiniest noises or anything new on the sidewalk any given day ..planting trees is despised around the streets . Putting in new shops avoided . More fastfood places are pushed away ..so the most exciting thing is McDonalds to sit in !!! That is the town Mall ..

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@katblehm2119]

Quiet? Boring? Consider yourself lucky! No noisy neighbors, constant barking dogs, loud engines of cars or motorcycles? Wow, I envy you. 😅

[@edwinlopez8559]

Sounds heavenly! Give it up; what city is this?!

[@DayTwo-w8n]

A strong "1". Thank you.

[@MargeRobyns]

We used to have neighbors who had two dogs who used to go to the bathroom in our yard, both before we sold our house and when we were selling our house. Sometimes they would come over and clean up after their dogs. However, we were still able to sell our house and move.😟😟

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@MargeRobyns]

@WiseAdvice93 This REALLY IS true.

[@TexasNightRider]

This video is wonderful. Thank you very much.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you too!

[@lightitup33333]

Will I ever see KZbin videos focusing on ways to STOP alienating each other, how to meaningfully connect, serve each other, be available to each other?

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@navinebaskerville2350]

Yes, if we knew how to communicate respectively and lovingly, neighbors would be a blessing to each other. Knowing how to respect boundaries, yet available in emergencies is a good neighbor.

[@michaelharrison3602]

As ive got older i no longer feel that it's important to have lots of friends. I've got a few close friends who I've known most of my life and know i can trust 😅

[@WiseAdvice93]

Quality over quantity-it’s wonderful to have those close, trusted friends. They’re the ones who truly matter! ❤️

[@JohnGalt1960]

I dont associate with neighbors.

[@angeelee9277]

Smart man

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@annbow4064]

I dont know any of my neighbour and I'm keeping it that way.

[@User_g2j4b]

Facts lol

[@georgevavoulis4758]

One of my high school teachrs told the class NEVER borrow money from relatives for hhst very reason if they don't pay back it leavrs bad feelings

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@Kharkovkid]

My buddy told me, "If you want to get rid of someone, loan them money."

[@joniangelsrreal6262]

Interesting video…🫶🏼

[@WiseAdvice93]

Glad you think so!

[@titanicsyncing4215]

Great Advice 🤗 don't limit add this advice to more then - neighbors expand this to the circle of people you deal with everyday protect yourself with a full armor of God

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@Gary-bc5id]

Thanks for this video... My problems is that i have excessive family love that has ruined my life to live any independent life. 😢

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@Benignheart]

Thank you for a great adviced.

[@lisadelfava9293]

I tried being civil with noisy neighbors and it was 5 years before the war was over. Now we have come to an agreement. Let's hope it lasts. I've learned that people who do this don't give a damn and are basically narcissistic and evil. My lesson is trying to.get along with as many neighbors as possible and pick your battles and be ready for years of hell until they grow up.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

[@briantadlock4356]

i avoid all my neighbors.i live in the daily chronicles printing and editing room.older ladies who sit home watching neighbors out windows.i don't help it goes unappreciated.got the disruptive neighbor single mother who hates men and always pissed off

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@bser3973]

If you have a self serving neighbor, start to charge them for your services, that will soon STOP. Learn to say NO.

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@JamesKonzek-xr5zy]

Done.

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@myrnasantico679]

Agree. I have that kind of neighbor. I was even thinking that her work is an author or broadcaster 😅😅😅

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@normaburris3207]

Don't engage....