If You’re an Introverted Man Who Wants to Pursue a Woman, the Bible Says . . .

[@BrianSalazar-kn5ng]

“ you will always lack the skills you never practice “ 🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@SIEGFRIED349]

Finally! I'll be honest, my introversion has been a source of insecurity for a while. Seeing more extroverted people light up a room always reminds me of how bad I have it in forming relationships. It also has me doubt my ability to ever be in a relationship as communication is key to it, and rarely get the energy to have and sustain vibrant conversations.

[@talonthorn]

Realize that introversion and insecurity are not bound together. Work on feeling secure in God. See yourself in how He sees you--after all, what are we saying when we doubt we are the person God created and values greatly?! Don't measure yourself by the world's standards. Be willing to fail to the world, knowing God will catch you and bring you to the success He has planned for you. Run and jump into His arms; He will always catch you. He will never let you fall.

[@Baileypatt97]

I’m an introverted man pursuing an introverted woman and the dynamic is much different than my previous dating relationships. I end up talking more in our conversations and feel kind of bad sometimes because I want to make sure she can share too. As far as I know I give her enough space to share and ask her questions. I would consider myself an extroverted introvert and enjoy talking but we both like to listen. She’s definitely more introverted than I am and she’s a great listener. We’ll see where it goes. I hope and pray I honor the Lord with my pursuit of this woman.

[@sed.aba01]

More power to you

[@talonthorn]

See what happens if you wait for her to talk. A woman love to share with a man who takes a genuine interest in her.

[@ghrvjdev]

God answered my prayers 🙏🏻

[@martinjohnson4796]

That's wonderful to hear. I am so hoping God will answer my prayers too

[@SethFennell-qj1mx]

Amen!

[@heroickyle7572]

This is very timely for me as an introvert

[@prod_by_walker808]

6:32 This clip is too funny mark why you do this lol😂

[@zhongwa]

Very wise, thank you. In my situation, I find I have to deal with extroverted guys at church who are jealous of me and try to embarrass me in front of others. I know I need to forgive them (and I do), on the other hand, I have to find a way to deal with them.

[@dotk_50]

I definitely get tired after socialising and I need to recharge

[@ModernTraveler]

Oh look, the question I’ve been asking all week.

[@gabrielaj2066]

As an introvert and a Christian guy myself: so in other words I have to go talk to more people and then later on stop being afraid to talk to her okay 😂😂!!

[@billmmckelvie5188]

Always go for a woman who compliments your ministry and is slightly lighthearted and encourages you! The biggest failure in modern society is that a woman speaks French and a Man speaks German! Schools don't teach that each of you should learn each others' language and culture. Society then wonders why marriages fail. Dr Jordan Peterson gives great insight into learning the two languages.

[@Universal_exports87]

Introverted adhder. Lovley.

[@joeb7325]

Part of my introvertedness is that I screwed my life up badly and I don't view myself in a positive light. Also, I don't want to make the mistake of starting to talk to someone who's in a dating relationship or someone who's not in the mood to have a guy talk to them.

[@HereIam-rg3vy]

What if you’re a guy and desires another guy?

[@red_phoenix0570]

well the issue is that it's not biblical. no gay marriage is condoned by god.

[@Jeff-xy7fv]

5:36 - You lost me at "You have strengths that other men don't have". I definitely do NOT have any such strengths. I am a complete loser and would not be a good match for any woman. I probably should not pursue a woman, since I really have no business doing so.

[@itachir8290]

God gave us all gifts that we can excel in for His kingdom. I disagree with Mark that other guys are not good at the same things we are as He gives some of the same gifts to other people. But your good at something that God can use you for. If you feel useless and maybe if you are useless, you can change that. Sulking isn't going to get you anywhere. Look which direction God is blowing the wind in your life. Look at the trades and see where you can apply yourself. Becoming useful like that increases your fortitude. Aim to eat healthier and go to the gym to better yourself. Or get into boxing, jujutsu, or karate. It's practically impossible to be depressed when your working out. Read the Bible consistently. Go out and do something. Move. Not later, make a plan and act now within the next week. Or at least use that time to discover what your going to become.

[@fugitivemoses7515]

Find yourself an introverted woman. Problem solved. Ofcourse, some people aren't attracted to their kind, so there's that.

[@photographyenthusiast9941]

Don’t forget about the ambivert…the perfect middle ground.

[@kuyanatnatdkrx7]

For a long time I agreed with most of your videos, this one not so much. isn't being Christ like super extraverted. crowds flocking to the Lord, sermon of the mount, feeding the 5000 etc. Staying in a corner or staying introverted isn't really Biblical. Is there a command to - go out to the world and preach the Gospel? would the power of the Holy Spirit provide these strengths? If you can talk to random strangers to preach the Gospel , approaching women at church should get easier.

[@PrettyIndependent1]

Jesus would often withdraw from the crowds and go off to be alone to recharge. Being introverted doesn’t mean you never socialize, it just means you recharge with less people around. As a Christian we can recharge with God and go into the secret place.

[@AlastairChin]

It sounds like you’re confusing passivity/slothfulness with introversion. The introvert to extrovert spectrum gives different strengths to the way God has made us. While a deep extrovert may be more effective to evangelise with your examples, they may not be as effective as an introverts relational evangelism

[@ironmatto3]

Are we Christ? Are we God? What kind of comment is this.

[@martinjohnson4796]

Next week Wednesday, I as an introvert will be confessing to my boss. In the miraculous event by the grace of god that she accepts me or is even willing to go out with me, I worry that I as an introvert might not have things to talk about. Thank you for the video, and I pray God will give me strength, wisdom and courage for the confession.

[@RealFredbaby]

I think if you look at it as "confessing your love to her", it's not going to go well at all

[@rachelsharp7495]

Maybe you should just try asking her if she’d like to grab some dinner? Instead of a full on confession that may be a little overwhelming for her but if you can take her out to dinner that’s a really good start :)

[@Vincent-yp1gj]

You can do what you want. But I'd recommend not dating your supervisor. Not a wise idea.

[@jons1992]

Don't confess your obsession with her. A lot of times that will disgust a woman if she doesn't find you attractive. It's never a good idea to do that with someone you want to be in a romantic relationship with. It's also a very bad idea to date coworkers, especially your boss. If the relationship goes bad usually one or both of you will be fired or without a job. That's a huge risk to take and it almost never goes well.

[@KevvoLightswift]

NO. DON'T CONFESS TO YOUR BOSS. THAT'S A BAD MOVE! If it was a coworker, you could. But DO NOT CONFESS to your boss! That's such a weak move! Women can only love men they respect, and she won't respect you if you do that. It makes you look weak and needy, and women aren't attracted to weak and needy men. Women are hypergamous, meaning they want men who are higher in social status than they are. You are below her in status, and the fact she's your boss makes this a lose-lose situation for you. Your mindset is also all wrong. "In the miraculous event by the grace of God that she accepts me..." WHAT? You have such a low opinion of yourself that you view any woman you ask as a miracle if she says yes? You know what that indicates? That you are not confident in who you are as a man. And she sees that, I guarantee you. And like others have said, this repulses her. Women have a sixth sense for sensing insecurity. I don't know how, but they do. Do you have any evidence at all that she likes you romantically? Does she treat you differently than the others, playfully touching your arm and laughing at things you say, even if they're not funny? Does she hold extra eye contact with you, or smile a lot with her eyes when you're around? Does she seek you out over other employees, spending extra time with you and making excuses to come talk with you? Does she have open body language, with arms uncrossed and leaning in toward you? If the answer to any of these is no (or worse, all no's), then you better let it go. You're projecting your feelings of attraction onto her. Please brother, I beg of you, DO NOT DO THIS!