IF YOU Want To FIND TRUE LOVE, Don't Lie About Your RELATIONSHIP... | Jay Shetty

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[@AartiSharma-dh8lg]

"You don't have a future with someone who doesn't treat you right in the present" - Jay Shetty

[@amreensaini329]

Seems true I never got a good treatment I was so stupid used to lie to myself all will be fine 😢

[@chandradev5593]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/hmOxeGOobtimjKc beautiful speech

[@jojkavargova6704]

Completely agree 🥰

[@jojkavargova6704]

@@amreensaini329 i am the same and ending up with those who dont appreciate me but its long journey have faith❤

[@vickydaza]

That part made me cry

[@LulaS]

"You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear." Oscar Wilde

[@Unicorns]

They have to be able to sing, why?

[@Unicorns]

@c1981 I can take it as I like don't be negative be positive

[@starz6327]

Omg that's beautiful

[@LulaS]

@@starz6327 I also love that quote 👍🏽

[@Unicorns]

@@starz6327 Thanks

[@himal_pillay]

*You deserve to be treated right! Don't settle for less.*

[@Unicorns]

Cheers matey

[@jojkavargova6704]

Pray you those who treat you better

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@@jojkavargova6704 😊❤️

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[@jamiesamuel1602]

Exactly

[@chaitanyareyansh6538]

Absolutely true...."It's better to be Alone than to be with a WRONG Person"

[@rachelalicia6884]

True

[@nisanthmukundhan1604]

Trueeee

[@JacquiCuff]

Being single is bloody fantastic. Best time for self discovery and growth. That's why it's SUPER IMPORTANT to be with someone who absolutely continues to treasure you for you. Never be treated like something less than you are and remember how amazing you are and so too will they 😊👍

[@jillmariaplatteaux6083]

Pfff i do not agree. Single since ages, 40 no kids no brothers or sisters and very few friends..

[@karimamoor2037]

Exactly

[@VerenaSatriani]

Respect yourself enough, value yourself enough, because you deserve the best.

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[@Unicorns]

Thank you I do

[@mahimasingh240]

THE ACTORESS IN THE VIDEO DID A PHENOMINAL JOB...HER ACTING WAS SUPERB...

[@neyha_kofficial3606]

If love make you feel lonely than it is not right one. If your love gives you anxiety then it is not the right one for you. Get out of it and just move on.

[@sarahjacks3326]

Do you need help

[@nisanthmukundhan1604]

Perfect word

[@rabinraj15]

Thank you. God Bless.🙏🏽♥️

[@divyajindal3419]

Now days everything is fake.. it's all about just u n u.. not even blood relations r true now days💔 Work hard for yourself.. remember their is no one else without u yourself.. try be happy in yourself

[@pujap5483]

True.. I have realised. Do your duty without being attached.don't bother about others.

[@nashaadnuux7050]

Why are you talking the truth 🥺

[@Blissful503]

True

[@IqbalKhan-dn5lx]

Boom!!!!! U just nailed it

[@star-ig8hd]

True

[@je39981]

Such a strong woman. I know moments where I would have to cry and swallow my tears and keep moving.

[@maureenkiri7918]

Even faint,take a glass of water n move on,am in that situation right now,I feel like the world would just open up n swallow me alive

[@tamartamunanemsadze7750]

It is actually disgusting that people pretend and lie like that, because they close themselves in a fake relationships and don’t let also partners to find the true relationships.

[@filipina5919]

This message hits me. I've been lying to myself, but reality can't lie

[@gangavi3]

That's the mistake I did earlier... And suffered. Now I am out of it and so happy now! I could relate to every word of this video👍🎉

[@guddichoudhary9321]

🥺🥺 What i do bro .. my partner and i have different thinking. We do fight almost 2_3, times in a month . He take granted small small talks and things and in every fight blame me ... I got exhausted and my mind is not working properly that what i do .....what want god from me ....i am scared to my future life....really scared....

[@gangavi3]

@@guddichoudhary9321 I know it's hard. But 2-3 times in a month is actually very normal.. happens in every relationship. If it happens around 2-3 times/week, then it's a matter of concern! For now, Try to stay calm and trust your partner, but don't lie- neither to yourself or him. All the best 👍

[@guddichoudhary9321]

@@gangavi3 bro you said it normal ,i also agree with it...but main thing is that fights are happening to little things and talks that shouldn't 😔 Kuch baate smjhne ki bhi hoti but kya mzaal koi baat idhr se udher ho jay ...... every time i handle things and have to bend in front of him

[@guddichoudhary9321]

At the last i have to acclaim mistake (meri glti na hote huy bhi) coz i want to keep our relationship lifetime 😔

[@manaraibrahim2384]

Hi man,it's same to me

[@spicyx2754]

Poor lady. I would be so crushed if I was her. Her looking at Instagram and other couples makes it worse. They only show the good parts remember that.

[@Dragon81205]

I would never understand why girl stay with guy who mistreated them.

[@MissTopDJ007]

Always listen to your gut if the person is treating you like this and think if things were flipped how would you treat the person.

[@thechildofgodpodcast116]

i really like when he said comparing your love life with others, doesn't improve yours, best thing he said in this video

[@attractive5107]

I think their is no such thing like finding true love Now a days people focus on finding true love instead of loving their self truly it's that simple and truth of the life is that their is only one person who will be with you till the last breath and that's you yourself no one else, it's not about being self obsessed but don't expect from any one else to love you in the way you want it's you who should do it for yourself .

[@praveensawant5171]

I believe true love is build/ created by staying with person you love the most and not believe in finding true love.☺️

[@raniyuna2930]

Yes It's true. But if you love only yourself so this is unhealthy extreme too. We are social beings. We need company but no bad company. ❤

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

🔥🔥

[@chandradev5593]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/hmOxeGOobtimjKc beautiful speech

[@lavitanuova8538]

True there is no true love ..

[@SY-sp8uo]

“You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”

[@zarkanswiftkey918]

What do you mean excuse me can you explain more

[@sanchezmp8896]

🔥🔥🔥

[@polysaccha_rice]

@@zarkanswiftkey918 i think they meant that you usually sleep because your dreams is better than reality, but when you fall in love you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better then your dreams :)

[@sunshine-ue3nw]

And than you wakeup 🤣

[@zarkanswiftkey918]

@Marsapinky thank you

[@rajkittur1998]

It requires a great commitment, sacrifice, trust and understanding to maintain long lasting relationships.

[@Unicorns]

And money

[@rajkittur1998]

@@Unicorns Then, money based relation is only for society, there is no worth in living that kind of relationship.

[@Unicorns]

@@rajkittur1998 But you need money or equivalent for one as well as two

[@rajkittur1998]

@@Unicorns Yes!! Financial Independence is must in this period of time. But, not depend completely on it, every aspect must be considered.

[@bobate6030]

Yup, The way a person treats you day to day is how they truly feel about you. If that's the case do yourself a favor and stop investing in the person knowing there's no Refund.

[@lawrencebunnyswag20]

Women like that don't deserve that kind of attitude Behind every smile there's an untold truth

[@svruhestestveno]

Can we talk about how beautiful the main actress is 😍Wow, I love her acting and her nose! Who is she?🤍

[@happydays9613]

Wow liking someone for their nose. 🙄

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Yes, she's absolutely gorgeous 😍💖! Stating with much halarious humour,you can be invited to our wedding,then you can see her nose up close and personal 💖😆💖! I hope that made you smile,as much as it did me ✨😆✨

[@ferarchila9073]

@@happydays9613 everybody has their own likes dude

[@josleenlisakhanya3504]

I was this girl last year until I found the strength to walk away not becos i wanted it but becos he really didn't care but at the end of the day i made the best choice ever

[@MataAirDanMatahari]

More couples (or more people) needs to listen to this. Thank you Jay.

[@Rima27ify]

Should never hide your feelings about your relationship

[@Rima27ify]

@@Aventurine.f2p i understand its hard to trust someone and tell them what you're feeling but you can't hide it in ive been there but it made me a lot stronger and if it helped me im sure it will help you

[@Rima27ify]

@@Aventurine.f2p talk to someone who you really really trust

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Secrets nd lies kill relationships no matter how careful u are u will get caught

[@missindie4199]

Always

[@casneharamesh5887]

Mantra for long lasting relationship : Forget & forgive __ Forget the good done by you and forgive the harm done by your partner. If you don't forgive your loved one than who will???! Love each other more and experience divinity through it♥️ Love is life♥️

[@shanibochumcc]

After watching this video it clearly shows me where I went wrong with my behavior towards the girl I have loved the most. The stress at my corporate job, making her wait for me for weeks in a remote relationship and then the financial pressure my family brought me unwantedly into, conspired my neglecting behavior towards my girl. Good women never plan to leave their love overnight but when things don't change for more than 3 years, the inevitable is bound to happen. She forgave me so many times but I just couldn't change my situation and when I indeed succeeded, she had given up. Sometimes all these external stress factors take a huge toll on you and we succumb under the pressure not knowing what we're doing. My advice to everyone is to open your eyes and calmly work through your problems collectively before you loose the person you love the most.

[@arianamaritza]

Right in the feels... just finished a 3 year relationship for this. I felt alone the past 3 years like a bird in a golden cage, I fell into the "only one in a lifetime relationship" thinking and stuck with him with because of the "I will change, please dont leave me" and the "I dont know if I can go on if you leave me" (my first relationship). Jay, i have learned so much with your videos during my reflection time after a month of me ending the relationship. Unfortunately for me I did feel in love with this man but was not truly happy, only content.

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Stay strong!

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two three four

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[@sanchezmp8896]

8 years single by choice dawg. GOD is my witness man.

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He is mine, too

[@Unicorns]

Cliffs are for jumping off

[@NOVAKAIN-wb1cs]

Amen💚💙❤💛

[@mebatsionsahle1763]

It's okay not to be okay admit it and move on. Thanks for sharing Jay. Live Longer!

[@Enchanteralle]

So true, so many too afraid to walk away because of fear of being alone or judged that they're not in a happy relationship like those around them.

[@xelaeeg]

Totally agree to this video. Came across this video after a peaceful break up few days ago. It speaks directly to what happened to two of us.

[@rebecca7207]

This should be titled "man is addicted to his phone"...the only thing this dude is compatible with is..his phone

[@jojkavargova6704]

Its many like that and they tell you they will speak to you as well but its all promises

[@laremi3577]

I had a guy like this.... Geez that was so painful, I runned away and God gifted me with a wonderful loving genuine guy and even more handsome. But it hurt soooo bad to see how the phone was more important than our (real) life.

[@jojkavargova6704]

@@laremi3577 you are lucky girl 🙂

[@medalatsbha6896]

@@laremi3577 I am currently going through this 😔 whenever I wanna leave he won’t Let me. promises after promises I’m tired of not getting emotional support 😞

[@laremi3577]

@@medalatsbha6896 honey, when the guy is not changing, because nobody changes except by his/hers own will and determination, then you must LEAVE the story and go live YOUR LIFE, start dating other guys until one of them will respect you and make you feel loved, happy and alive. If you cannot get rid of the previous one, be smart , use the opposite strategy from attraction, use the REJECTION strategy: give him a thousands messages a day, ask him to marry you, complain non-stop for not loving you, tell him to never leave you, cry , be jealous and possesive, make a drama from any reason and he will soon run by himself. I used rejection strategy about 5 times in my life , it is soooo much fun and it works everytime :)))) It helps you to stay în controll over your own life, YOURS. Don't let anyone vampirize your life !!!

[@rafiaalexa8989]

After seeing the thumnail and title the first thing came to my mind was"OMAGO!TURU LOVE"

[@BeyondResist]

“I try to avoid looking forward or backward, and try to keep looking upward.” ― Charlotte Bronte

[@Unicorns]

She believed the earth was flat

[@keshanidesilva1728]

All I needed to hear now Jay. Thanks a ton for the edifying content

[@POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE]

“The advice I like to give young artists, or really anybody who'll listen to me, is not to wait around for inspiration

[@Unicorns]

Why?

[@subscriber4280]

I don't have anyone, Watching this video I am crying like hell,

[@juvanahkidwai2742]

So beautifully told. Thank you so much for putting out this message, really needed to hear it :)

[@nocapfacts9330]

If my ex is watching this im sorry for dumping you. I was at a dark place in my life and now i really regret . i was wrong that the problem was you but it was me myself .so sorry ily😌

[@elenaprodan871]

Why don't you just tell them that?

[@nocapfacts9330]

@@elenaprodan871 its nearly a year and they already move on. But i didn't move on i was lost in my dark place😌

[@elenaprodan871]

I believe you i guess, i'm sorry. You a guy or a girl?

[@nocapfacts9330]

@@elenaprodan871 a guy 😌 thanks for believing

[@elenaprodan871]

@@nocapfacts9330 i'm sorry dude, you should still tell her though, life's too short to miss out on oportunities🤷‍♀️

[@JoseFlores-kl6jm]

I'm still single and I'm looking for a girlfriend, but I don't want to settle for less nor compromise my values.

[@saidarashid8493]

My husband is exactly like him

[@raniyuna2930]

Ouu...god...I had feeling that I watch my present situation now. I solved it...went out of it...🤔❤ Not wasting time anymore.🙏🏻

[@sarahjacks3326]

Do you need help

[@raniyuna2930]

@@sarahjacks3326 Thank you so much for offer, I gave break up. I couldn´t find better solution than this. I need time to build my own things now including work on traumas. But it was big surprise for me this video today. It´s very very similar to my situation. :)

[@rajviraulakh7765]

Exactly same here . It seems like my current situation and i m grappling to leave everything behind . Yes i was lying myself about our relationship which has never been in good terms. Thus i decided to break up after 7 years and it is really hard to forget all things really hard trust me but people do not care about feelings . It is very easy for them to leave a crying person 😒

[@sarahjacks3326]

@@rajviraulakh7765 no need to worry

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@@rajviraulakh7765 I know of a man who can help you

[@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489]

True love always gives happiness till the end. Never feels negative thoughts in heart.

[@flowerbomb188]

This was really good. It's usually written all over someone's face if there not happy.

[@attractive5107]

No one is going to love you in the way you think they should ,so you should love your own self that way .

[@chaitanyajain3127]

Brutal truth

[@amethystluna2999]

Omg this is so relating to me....!! I just watched myself

[@lovleenkaur865]

Thanks...I really needed this reality check

[@irenemakoni1151]

Thank you so much Mr Jay. We have to be true to ourselves

[@tiffanyalshref1548]

We can hardly find true love in this world. Why can't we maintain our intimate relationships

[@allenross2650]

Become true love, Then when true love has equally found you,it will never mutually let go✨💞✨ Yes it's hard to find,that's why it will be even more amazing once it found 💖🙏💖

[@wealthlibrary]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqbIdnR-ZbSkbdk ,,loving others ,,,strating from loving u as u

[@MiSSKBG88]

Become friends with someone first before jumping into a relationship.

[@gayathrimalode8862]

Thanks , it was really needed an hour before I realised it ❤

[@Shreyasingh619]

Connected so well, thankyou.

[@sheilagallegos8784]

Yes you don’t have to be treated this way you don’t have to settle your worth more then that ok..You deserve more then what you were getting from that relationship..Don’t lie to family or friends ok ..Don’t lie to yourself ok or others God Bless you

[@POMETKARMOGIS]

Jay I ❤️ u for this video,stay blessed.

[@tracynewton3083]

The first red flag im on it. I know ive got baggage, so i prefer to keep it mi ne, and not ruin someone elses life. Great vlog.

[@therapystyle_]

To be veryyyy honest ...I have had a relationship of which I always lied to myself...n at last he just could give up n showed how much I actually deserve ! Can't settle for less, no regrets , no fear for who I m ....I am just someone who give enough n I deserve better❤️

[@iiatargetanalyst3046]

Encourage each other to exercise individual preference as it's what brought you together in the first place. Difference is good. Embrace differences

[@rucha_s]

I learnt this the hard way but this is so true 💛🥺

[@thelakhandamani]

Thank you Sir for these types of video, relates the relationship

[@ishikaahirwar9947]

Jay thank you so much for this

[@quasirot7575]

I have literally been in the same situation, we just talked about it and he seemed understanding...now we are trying to work on it. I hope it works out, but honestly I'm not sure, at least not yet

[@CountryFriedZen]

Love your videos. You and your wife should play the actors. I thought that was you for a moment. Appreciate you and all you do.

[@denniswestby9243]

This really hits me, so true,

[@nabiazam6258]

It's so meaningful thank you

[@libraempress2069]

Nowadays people don’t know the meaning of love, it’s all about money what you got how you look the devil is running this world right now.

[@princesakabarose5455]

Hummm....very interesting and educative! Exactly, you've said the right thing. You speaks my mind! Thank you!

[@vikcontractor8148]

Very well executed!

[@jeane.17]

Love this!💯

[@TenzDenz]

Truth will set you free.

[@rehmanbaba1442]

Jay you are a gru for me you change my life thank you

[@og9639]

🚨🚨I really like how this videos are show all over social media. How man are more distant, rude, aggressive, chose to work n been on the phone. This is my experience im on cancer treatment and now I been treated disrespected. Distant. She’s in the phone. Etc. Etc. Etc. This doesn’t mean she’s a bad person what im trying to say is this. WE HAVE PUT WOMEN ON THE SIDE OR NEEN NICE N DONT DO WRONG TO THE MEN. Yes they do. As man when we mature enough we choose to grow from our mistakes. WOMEN ARE DOING IT THE PART And that’s thanks for society showing just like this video don’t do anything that hurt the relationship. I hope some day we see more of how man hold a lot due to what society is going to think. NO im not hurt or in pain I just think is time for women to see their mistakes n own it. It takes 2 to tango n relation start with 2 usually ends because 1 isn’t available emotionally anymore. 🚨🚨

[@thechildofgodpodcast116]

denying your love while telling others is what i would call it, but that's not that different to lying to others either, so i get that bit

[@tygagerman8659]

Thank you so much jay

[@Rache-sx7lc]

Thank you Jay shetty

[@ayushibandyopadhyay1766]

Insightful ❣️

[@keystohappiness497]

it was so nice, thanks🌹

[@mavismerv5677]

True love is when you love her/his flaws and grow together to fix or accept those flaws.

[@Love-Runs-Blind]

Amazing video Just loved it

[@yellowmint5]

Beautiful words jay

[@MariaFlores-tk9ji]

Thank you 🙏🏼 I really needed to hear at. My faith is in God.

[@Unicorns]

If he was real but he's not

[@tjongejongeman8153]

These kind of video's only convince me to stay single.

[@brooklynzoo2810]

@Tjongejonge Man • Yessss for real it's better to stay Single

[@johnlloydtribunal1955]

Focus on things that only matter for you. Someday there is someone who will appreciate you for being you. Trust in God's perfect timing. 😇🙏

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Heloo do you need instant help

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[@theorangekindle4565]

It is simple. This never happens in a relationship with true love. Maybe the other has true love, and the other just don't. And remember this, never embrace evil, never to killing, stealing and destroying. For true love is freedom. And God is love.

[@wealthlibrary]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqbIdnR-ZbSkbdk ,,loving others ,,,strating from loving u as u

[@theorangekindle4565]

@@wealthlibrary Never embrace evil, never to killing, stealing and destroying. 🙏

[@iam_govindkendre]

Always perfect 🔥

[@missjrr5680]

THATS WHY I'M SINGLE CAUSE I DON'T LIKE BEING LIKE THAT IN RELATIONSHIP,NOT HEALTHY AND TOXIC,LIVE YOUR LIFE BE HAPPY L,YOU WILL BE BLESS WITH THE BEST.

[@liamodonnell6465]

So much in todays world is fake, it's hard to sort the real from the fake.

[@FeelGoodWithin]

Person who don't care what you are saying is not the one lol Right person will do anything to be with you. Yeah Be with some one who is grateful to have you 😍 M Single & m very Happy lol

[@quickmaz]

Some people tend to live for others, and take the crap life. People tend to worry about what others would say, and they make believe that the relationship is perfect in other people's eyes.... But yours. They're afraid to fail, and doesn't give life or in this case love a chance. Give your faith to God, and he'll see to it that your life will be better, and that there's someone out there that gonna deserve you, and you deserve them. God bless everyone 💯💯💯

[@carolinesposto2946]

Excellent!

[@hariomsiddharth2712]

You're an amazing personality Jay Shetty Sir..❤️🙌

[@beatricefernandez7409]

Wow Jay! This was AMAZING and very well said 😃 I Love it 🥰 and all said is totally true. I Love all of your videos ❤️ you are definitely the best of the best. Thank you 🙏🏼 so much for sharing with us. This has helped me a lot. It’s good to hear it from someone an expert like you 😃 “GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS” 🙏🏼🙏🏼 sending you lots of Love ❤️❤️ hugs 🤗🤗 and kisses 😘😘

[@friedaneal5533]

More couples (or more people) needs to listen to this. Thank you Jay.

[@stephyy2272]

This Is the best!

[@SS-su3rn]

Best video out there.

[@Pogo16]

Soo soo very true.

[@annann-dp8ud]

I was in the same situation. In the end my bf cheated on me. We broked up and actually feel much happier now😂I can now surround myself with people who cares about me and be able to find new partner that will treat me well.

[@cybeledalmas-lewis2120]

Great info

[@jennifercox1935]

Yep I know this very well....sad too

[@sandramusi7222]

I can relate to all this

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Thank you so much Jay Sir... I needed this so much ✨

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