IF YOU Want To Find TRUE LOVE - WATCH THIS | Jay Shetty

[@gymrats6633]

"Don't treat people like celebrity coz they'll treat you like a fan".

[@sanchitamandal3174]

👌👌👌

[@tejaswiniroychiguluri7819]

So true

[@ThuyThanh-io7nl]

Yes

[@keiron.4612]

I am a celebrity tho lol

[@kbpanchal22]

Yess

[@dona1219]

"If you are chasing them, it means they are running from you. Don't CHASE anymore. get ACCEPTED for being you, from the right person. " anyone reading this, stay blessed 😇

[@1kmilez]

Dona Biswas thank u

[@shahinagori228]

thank you so much dona

[@navneetkaur2679]

😇😇

[@paulsaha2242]

If you get chosen, one has to chase you. Not a solution.

[@karenmurray4608]

The funny thing is that we have been told that men should pursue women when it comes to dating.

[@mohanasvm9096]

Don't chase people; Do chase ur dreams .. 😊💫

[@saraandstuartshannon2160]

So true! When I first met my husband, we both equally chased each other, did crazy things... and we still do, after decade of marriage 🥰

[@roseesor9451]

Please pray i find some to love ❤️

[@user-mb2ct8nu1e]

@@roseesor9451 guess we should pray for each other, because am completely sick and tired of being lonely with my kids 🥺

[@roseesor9451]

@@user-mb2ct8nu1e my prayers with you

[@user-mb2ct8nu1e]

@@roseesor9451 same here Rose.. hopefully all is well with you?

[@roseesor9451]

@@user-mb2ct8nu1e me and mine safe so far, hope you and yours are safe too?👍

[@sandeshperera1416]

It's so amazing how much this comment section is filled with ppl going thru this kinda pain, personally I'm also going thru this. But we are all blessed aren't we? God takes the bad away from us cz its gonna ruin us anyways if we stay close. If all u guys are in my position then trust me he or she isn't the one for you, your person is still out there and you will find em at the right time. God bless you guys ❤❤

[@priyanka3640]

Me too going through this

[@Cascade.]

Thanks alot for making me think positive

[@paulacrowder7701]

I'm still waiting 48 years later

[@sachinmeghumishra]

I hope so.. I have ghosted 🙃💫✌️. Indeed ✨

[@umayadav1897]

Thank u 😊

[@KatjaNX]

"Never chase love, affection or attention. If it isn't given freely by another person, it isn't worth having."

[@isabelaguzei8745]

So true👍

[@1kmilez]

thank u

[@muhammadshaheer7161]

your absolutely right well almost because it is worth it always the way of doing so may be wrong or right

[@poppycalliope6793]

Excellent advise and don't let it bother you!! This is a massive lesson, how not to let people get to you

[@bitterthread6794]

Thanks

[@tejaswiniroychiguluri7819]

The girl in the video..Jane is a true reflection of where I stand in life today. And I want to change that.

[@veer5714]

It's hard phase ... Stop chasing other start living for yourself... You deserve peace and happiness... God bless

[@idiopathic_x]

Me too and i desperately need to change that :'(

[@drba77]

If you are as gorgeous as her, I assure you that many will fall in love with you

[@veer5714]

@@idiopathic_x change it then... Do anything it demands to be moved on from that shit

[@aftrdrk7263]

drba77 I know you mean well, I think that beauty is subjective and not the ultimate prize. I’ve been told many times that I find the most average woman to be beautiful and you know what...I’m perfectly fine with that.

[@sowmiakolanjinathan5347]

Trust me, no matter how good you look you can always be replaced....

[@roses4me451]

HELLO!!!! "We don't chase, we replace". kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZCXf3mwrs2nrc0 "Irreplaceable" by Beyonce.

[@basicbase749]

Wow, so true😐❤️

[@saravanakumars756]

Are u a Tamil girl?

[@sowmiakolanjinathan5347]

@@saravanakumars756 amanga☺🙏

[@saravanakumars756]

@@sowmiakolanjinathan5347 saringa

[@superadders19]

"Its amazing how we're not scared about attracting someone to someone we're not". Amen to that!

[@kumzuklongs4629]

Pause, reflect, take a moment and don't deny yourself some tears if you must but remember a rainbow shows up after the rain.

[@anupadesilva6089]

Everyone who is scrolling down, remember that anyone else's attention or love have no worth if you love yourself.Never underestimate yourself depending on them for you know your worth and value. Be blessed.❤

[@gamingsisters2316]

[@zazam5883]

I needed this 💗

[@TheMarvelousBeautyChannel1]

Thank you 😊

[@ankitakawale5135]

Thank you ❤️

[@nvesk]

a lot of people think they are better than they actually are ...dont say you are awesome if u are too lazy to go to work, too tired all day and dont work on yourself. Its a major problem here in germany at least. Dont tell those people love yourself the way you are, they wont change anything in their life and live in depression.

[@TanvirAhmed24]

The person who makes you feel invisible and insignificant with indifference does not deserve you. Love must be shown, but should never ever be begged for. You deserve someone who takes you in and makes you feel important in your life without expecting anything in return.

[@luciahelenan.teruel301]

Brilliantly put!!! I agree 100%!

[@nuttmare9438]

Amen to that! 👐

[@TanvirAhmed24]

@@luciahelenan.teruel301 Thank you!

[@TanvirAhmed24]

@@nuttmare9438 Thank you!

[@drparth287]

What if the other person thinks the same ...no capable of understanding

[@strng7754]

"Be the person whom YOU want to love and the WORLD will love you."

[@christinemott2878]

Noones ever loved me .so Bs

[@grounded7362]

Talha Shaikh Your statement is Bullshit. I have lived the first part of your statement all my 54 years of life and not one person shows me love ever! The world will love me you say! I say: WHAT WORLD????

[@grounded7362]

@@christinemott2878 My heart goes out to you! As I know exactly how you feel. Is a pinch to the back of the arm while being screamed at love? Being screamed at and asked why I was so stupid when I got hurt, is this being love? ETC. I know you have been there as well. No one makes a statement about never being loved that has not experienced these things. My hope and wish for you is that true love and friendship will find you very quickly and never ever leave you. That you may know true love and friendship all the rest of the days of your life.

[@nisaayua]

Thanks for the reminder Jay, I’m literally crying since I’ve been in this relationship. I feel like I’m being rejected and used when he needs me only. I can’t even see the value of myself. I know it takes time to let what you said to sink in and see the result, but still, thank you.

[@princewillchisom3196]

Hi

[@princewillchisom3196]

Hello beautiful

[@blacklyfe5543]

Stay strong

[@dmfreelancertech3071]

there is no true love

[@anjuukhan76]

Same dia. Single sided relationship is too bad 😔

[@harshraval8740]

Whenever i feel stressed or obsessed i watch this and it makes me happier everytime.

[@osse1n]

*Pleading* - you are not whole yourself and people's natural reaction is that they don't want to be with a person who lacks something

[@poojank1066]

The same thing was happened with me last month but now I'm totally free from everything and moving forward in my life. Don't know how but I forget it as if it was just a nightmare. Now I'm free, happy and more over confident being happy with myself... There are many people around me who loves me unconditionally (my grandparents) don't want anything just to make them happy... Love my grandparents 💝

[@urmisaha365]

Can you help me , I am suffering for the same problem ....plz help me

[@yosefkelbi5052]

Don't chase people, be your self, Do your own things and work hard.

[@finneire2081]

Now days true love can be right in front of you getting on a bus or train or passing someone on the street the problem is we are all to busy to even notice we need to learn to slow down and admire the beauty of the person in front of us. People today are to materialistic and want people for what they have or the job they have rather than who they are

[@amirahmoosa4183]

Couldn't have said it better

[@preetijiragyale5371]

Can we friend I am searching true friend

[@merncat3384]

But you actually brought up a good point. I'm the opposite of that.. I'm NOT materialistic, I do like to be in the moment and talk to people, etc.. however, it seems people assume that I am into material things and they try to impress me with those things, even if I say it doesn't matter but what I noticed is, since that's what people rely on these days, they haven't had a chance to develop an actual personality.. so without those material things, they have nothing.. they don't even know how to act or what to do.

[@dakshinadanidu6987]

You know it is bad when you are in a relationship and you are still finding this relatable l....

[@TheAreckaw]

This just brought tears to my eyes. It hit right on point because I’m going through this now 😞

[@prathmeshupadhye2804]

Same here almost everyone one left me when i needed them the most

[@TheAreckaw]

Prathmesh Upadhye I know that feeling all to well also. We just have to keep pushing and never give up the right person will come our way 💪🏾 you got this

[@AdhyayanClassesByDY]

Me too..but I m getting over of my madness with the help of people around me...so go out and meet new people..right people will make you feel always worthy and wrong people will make you feel your no more worthy with the passage of time...ever since I have started meeting new people I have been thinking less about him ..when I say meeting it only means simple casual meeting but not dates.So good luck and you are worthy if you love someone so intensely..right person will come soon

[@TheAreckaw]

Deepali Yadav Ambedkar thank you 😊

[@AdhyayanClassesByDY]

@@TheAreckaw all the best😊

[@tipansejounenan]

"It is better to prepare yourself, be on your own before waiting for someone in your life.

[@christinemott2878]

But dont wait too long u will.grow old and then there is a,0 chance.

[@ehjayingal4356]

This video couldn't come at a better time.. I really needed to hear this.

[@Usernet1]

Were you chasing someone? I was too!☺

[@masechabamohlomi1451]

I agree with you...

[@aamenasopara2539]

Seriously me too

[@harshlobin4989]

Me too am trying hard to date my crush 😭

[@piyalechakrabor4149]

Yes me too...

[@simsitzer4578]

I agree with a lot of this video but sometimes you have to go out of your way and out of your comfort zone to make good friends, they don't necessarily just pop into your life

[@blacklyfe5543]

Friends are a waste of time

[@simsitzer4578]

@@blacklyfe5543 I disagree, it's lonely having no friends

[@blacklyfe5543]

@@simsitzer4578 yeah but you can't speak for me and having friends are useless if they not influencing you to be better or be there for you when you're at your worst times.

[@blacklyfe5543]

@@simsitzer4578 that's the best part

[@Healthnutpb]

@@simsitzer4578 that's why you go out of your way, you're lonely and that energy makes you chase. I don't go out of my way and I'm not lonely so I attract the right people, right places. It's all synchronized with how you think and feel.

[@owenemreayofficial3779]

Just be yourself,its something that i struggle with but i try my best to stay as i am .

[@its_bahar.k4152]

I chased someone tht didnt want me but watching this video made me think twice....thanks to jay shetty💜

[@sindhujalincykumar9351]

I don't want true love I want a True friend first 😭😭😭

[@bijinbj1803]

Yes 😣😣

[@vidhyasamalamr2863]

Same feeling😢

[@pricillajeyapaul]

Yes😔.

[@sindhujalincykumar9351]

@@pricillajeyapaul let's have a group hug ❤

[@pricillajeyapaul]

@@sindhujalincykumar9351 ❤️❤️✨️🙂

[@markin_mask5592]

What are the odds I've known this guy for 3 years and we were extremely opposite and had awesome bonding ...idk maybe everything was fake.... He left I've been trying to talk but he doesn't want to hes like just move on like it was nothing all these years I really loved him and this video is like the right thing at right moment thank you Jay ❤️

[@shalvinsunnassee1428]

Relatable

[@ankitajamwal4630]

I've been there, where you are right now . It's been 11 months now ....I'm better now . He's seeing someone else . That's heartbreaking but I still hold myself up . This breakup gave me the love I always wanted ,,,, mine .

[@markin_mask5592]

@@ankitajamwal4630 ❤️❤️❤️

[@markin_mask5592]

@@shalvinsunnassee1428 ❤️❤️❤️

[@mayphoenix4725]

I don't understand why they act this way.

[@aakupsp]

Have been there, done it, regretted it, learned from it and made peace with it. Thank you for this video! It helped validate my thoughts and never going back into this trap again.

[@aymenkhouja]

This hits too close to home, I have been rejected today by my crush, and this video is a perfect representation of how our relationship is. The video really is an eye opener.

[@ishanbansal4099]

"Focus on yourself and be yourself"

[@ErikaK]

You don't ever need to pretend to be someone that you're not, you don't need to try hard to get his or her attention... you just need to be yourself freely, you don't need to seek for their approval, the only approval that matters is yours and when they love you for who you are... that's true love, true friendship... isn't it more meaningful? ♡

[@krishnachaitanya6049]

Well said Erika...

[@ErikaK]

@@krishnachaitanya6049 have a beautiful day !

[@keshavswami6618]

the most inportant thing youth nees to know is: DONT CHASE PEOPLE,be yourself,, do your own thing and work hard the RIGHT PEOPLE come to your life and stay

[@namazziaisha2987]

True dia, me I had that habit of check checking on people every time. But I stopped wasting my time .

[@hyacinth5559]

When will they come?

[@keshavswami6618]

@@hyacinth5559 at the right time

[@keshavswami6618]

@@hyacinth5559 see if they are RIGHT people , they will surely come. and if they are not, they are wrong people. may be god is trying to find someone better . so instead of chasing the piece of shit , just wait for the perfect time, something big and better thing is going to happen with you STAY BLESSED STAY HAPPY

[@charusharma9650]

Your strong and meaningful messages have changed my perception towards life.. I have stopped chasing love, started meditating, journalling and being mindful.. I now know the importance of silence and affirmations, the importance of loving my ownself.. You have helped me come closer to myself and find my inner peace..It is great how you combine timeless wisdom with modern science..God has given me answers to my questions through your voice.. Thank you for being his messenger to me and for many others who are looking for hope and answers.. Through you, flows the love of our creator and reaches millions.. May you be blessed by him now and forever.

[@allaboutlife2837]

So true, every person has their own value, so we should not chase after a person who does not give value to us.

[@zhenleymacale5221]

“The right people, the ones that really belong in your life, will come to you and stay.” Damn i felt that 😭 That hit me really hard 💔

[@umera211]

Same here. So l stopped chasing him bcz he is not belonging me n did not stay..

[@AchilleSonga]

This is right! When you're trying hard to get something, most of times you fail. But when you don't chase but be yourself, things you want come to you voluntarily. Thanks Jay.

[@jeffreyelliott622]

I do find that hard to believe at this point now at 58 and fell in love with a much younger woman when I was 44 and she knows i'm in love with her because I told her she was 19 at the time and now she's around 33 so don't tell me she'll eventually come into my life and the sad part is I know she is in love with me !!! Maybe I scared her back then when I told her my true feelings for her and maybe she just didn't won't to accept her true feelings for me who knows what a woman wants in life when they don't even know what or who they want in life !!! You damned if you do and you're damned if you don't as the old saying goes so yes i'm an old school boomer with a lot wisdom behind my 58 years !!! And all I do is separate myself from people that tell me to just move on and find love elsewhere but no I don't roll like that plain and simple because we in life KNOW who we want an NONE other !!!

[@TheNatashapande]

Someone who wants to be with you will be with u with no excuse or treating u like an option that can be removed from life when not needed.

[@briannatreloar8271]

This helps alot, I suffer from significant health issues and no one wants to be around me. Except the guy I like, even though I have episodes and freak out hes right there instantly to help me

[@pradhyumankawal3423]

Thanks for reminding me, most of us know this already but all we want is to get reminded every little while, I needed to hear that today💞

[@tiffanymalloyd5550]

Can you do a part 2 where she focuses on herself and suddenly life gets really good.

[@christinemott2878]

Awww Amen

[@kumargourav6637]

awww that really so sweet and shows how people dont want to listen to their intution.

[@link418]

I can relate to this video. Since I was in that position for many years. Now Iam realising I have to stop chasing the one who doesn’t feel the same for me. 🙃🙂

[@anamariedavila4574]

I’ve been waiting so long for someone and I see what I was doing wrong. I admit I did the things in this video. I chased and chased and chased until I finally gave up.. but then 3 months later someone came to me and we’ve been together for 5 and a half months now ❤️

[@trxphywaifalt]

Fuck you. There is no right person for everyone you just got lucky

[@indefa]

@@trxphywaifalt yes, perhaps u r right!!!!

[@princealharthy6674]

@@trxphywaifalt Shut up u stupid little girl

[@vikascool411]

Trust me u will going to chase again

[@Julianmlx]

tera b ktega

[@JatinderSingh-cs1kh]

" The right people the one's who really belongs to you will come to your life and stay" this is it we sometimes are decieved by our desires and took compromise but the one who really belongs to you will come and stay.

[@artpaper2920]

You can't own love. You can only bask in it, rest in it, be graced and blessed in it. And in it people will come and go.

[@r.i.t.i.k.a]

I know people say that you copy quotes and covet them.. But I still like your videos.. You potray those quotes.. You explain us what it means.. Your videos actually make us feel good about ourselves without drowning in narcissism.. You make me feel calm.. you taught me that it's okay to be vulnerable in love.

[@Centrinario]

"The right people, the ones who really belong in your life, will come to you and stay." It's an awesome sounding sentence, but the reality is the world is too complex and has too many variables for things to always work out like that.

[@djaimini]

I agrea it sounds so easy on you tube and every human life has its own way. We think this the way everybody gots his own way. Also it's important to let people go through there own experience. If would listen to Jay I would be walking his way not mine

[@sherrikaramautar8576]

I agree, it’s easier said than done. Been waiting for years for the right person to come along. Starting to wonder if it is really true that the right one will come along and stay.

[@SuperHarvad]

True to that

[@stephaniemela9975]

When

[@merncat3384]

Thank you!! What a bunch of malarkey, Lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@nikhitarao]

This message was exactly needed to me at the moment.. Thanks a lot for the wonderful videos that you make..Jay🙏🙏😇

[@kanaboon3388]

The right people will come and stay 💕

[@Vexstriker13]

Absolutely true, Just be yourself, keep doing your things, Keep moving forward and eventually somehow, one day, the right one will appears.

[@piuskelvin6627]

Finding the right person isn't as important as being the best version of yourself

[@lawrence5841]

This is so accurate to the modern world we are living in😩

[@Healthtipsinkannadaa]

Thank you for making this video the best video that I ever watched in my life......Dont chase... be yourself... everything come's to you what belongs to you

[@TheSharath4321]

Well said. Right one will come and stay.. Wrong people comes to teach right lessons.. Life is all about learning to choose what is right for us..

[@gbislive]

I would like to thank @Jay for helping masses, specially youth. Please keep going.

[@PracticalInspiration]

Great video. If we try to be who we're not to impress others, it's often us who suffer. Be true to yourself and attract those who like you for who you are, because the bond you build will be all the more powerful and make you much happier

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

*Love can be found within. First fall in love with that person, only then will you be ready to fall in love with another.*

[@lisagardner640]

True and well said.

[@ag.vlogs.official]

Easier said than done.

[@keiron.4612]

What do you mean fall in love with another I won't need another if I'm already in love

[@luciahelenan.teruel301]

Thank you for this important reminder!!! It touched my heart!! ❣

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

Lisa Gardner 😌

[@ronaksaxena8913]

Indians all around the world are like the best motivators .

[@laviniahauwanga4093]

This is so true .....i thought it's only me who can see that 😥😥❤

[@randomrandom5316]

And the best C++ tutorials

[@himahenry]

There will not be other person better than yourself to love yourself truly

[@ssrakeshsharma]

This video changed my life. Thanks from bottom of my heart to post this beautiful content.

[@timidelle1127]

I really needed to hear that today. Thank you.

[@tiashepherd2379]

Brand tear to my eye because of what I’m going through rn and you said all the truth on how it really is and how I feel

[@candacethompson2668]

I don’t know why. But this made me cry.

[@pastorovina3775]

Why am here for you beautiful God will bless you and grant you your heart desires

[@mounikau3469]

I always get tears remembering someone who used to be my best friend,she was spilling out everything i shared with her though I always stayed loyal to her.When i finally admitted that i felt hurt with her disloyal things, She didnt take any chance to convince me no msg from her till today, not only that she made some of my other friends also against me as if am avoiding her for no reason.Even now typing this, my eyes are rolling down with tears.I am only praying to get some strength to get over these people

[@shaethenerd3571]

You can do this!! ❤️ You deserve friends who put in as much effort as you do. I have been in similar situations before and you have the power to reconnect with people that make you feel happier

[@the_life_hacks]

I have no words to explain how i feel after watching it, i really needed this now. Have been chasing a girl n all i get is hurt. This surely will get me out of my foolishness.

[@np7227]

Seriously i cried hard after watching this and this is what i exactly gone through recently and make me always feel like why i was chasing wrong one.... this is not i wanted ever in my life as i believed all things must be happened naturally without any intensional efforts.

[@66upomamollik55]

Nirali Patel how are you now?

[@raghuraghava5156]

U r right Nirali

[@jellight08]

Thanks jay. This video genuinely helped me in ways even i couldn't imagine a month ago, when i got into a similar situation. Thanks again.

[@blueblue7047]

Really wish I could sit down and have a talk with jay shetty.

[@mohammedbabji]

I wish that too

[@redonthebeatboi]

Nobody can be replaced but they can be overtaken by someone.

[@SantiIndahLestari]

I cried watching this. Thank you for this video. I've started seeing things differently 😭

[@wirakusuma8745]

Why KZbin recommend me this when i'm in that kind of situation? But i'm glad KZbin recommend this for me. Thank you very much. 😃

[@fen1x343]

Me too😁

[@mohandev7385]

Don't chase people, be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - - the ones who really belong in your life - - will come to you and stay. It really feels.....

[@jamesbreeden2669]

Here's how I run my life. I try to always be kind and understanding to all people. But I am never a rug to be walked upon by anyone. If you would like to hang out with me thats cool. If not thats cool also. I keep myself attached to no one. That leaves me open to love and be a true friend to those that need it. Blessings!

[@jackiewanza7401]

This how i want to be....attached to no one!!

[@shreyaspeaking2455]

Jane makes me remind of my current situation but after listening to this I will be striving everything else rather than that chase.♥️

[@lisac.2438]

So concise and on point, why is it that we talk ourselves out of what we already know? Thank you.

[@anuraghole9830]

Thanks you so much jay This video helps me a lot because I can relate this thing to things happening in my life right now thank you so much.

[@bazil.k5384]

when jay is speaking ,its hard for me to look somewhere else

[@thegloriousworldofrihanna6922]

True, he is like a leader!!!

[@roses4me451]

I thought it was just me! He is so handsome, and those piercing hazel eyes!

[@bazil.k5384]

@@roses4me451 absolutely

[@smitashanishchara8099]

yes,he is great man.

[@Chinaglo24]

Yes how an you turn away from his wisdom.

[@QueenQueenly]

The ones we want don’t want us and those we don’t want they want us.

[@Aubatron]

It's even more simple than that even. You want what you can't have. The grass is always greener on the other side.

[@mariakay3784]

True

[@francoisclarke7713]

Facts

[@shamylove3667]

True dear

[@princewillchisom3196]

I want you

[@salmabaroudi3973]

-'' she has no idea if she's gonna like him or not, but she's trying to predict what he will and won't like'' -"we do it because we feel rejection means a lack of worth in us, and the only way to proove our worth is by receiving love from that person. It' s messed up. '' -'' Don't chase people, be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard, '' W.S. -''The right people, the ones who really belong to your life, will come to you and stay''. Much needed, thank you so much.

[@Marysedits]

*It's amazing how we're not scared about attracting someone to someone we're not*

[@janeying5955]

My name is Jane too so I felt this whole video was for me😢

[@janeying5955]

Devesh Gupta awwww thanks means a lot to me❤️

[@thegloriousworldofrihanna6922]

😂😂😂😂Lol

[@smitashanishchara8099]

😂😂

[@henoch5625]

Nice to meet you Im Tarzan🙃

[@Angel-01207]

This is just what I needed. Thank you♥️

[@trxphywaifalt]

This is easy for someone to say when someone already loves them enough to stay.

[@jayendralisolanki8427]

I have no the words to say more.fabulous speech.

[@kafcenkawaialgaitadubstudi8738]

Am try to start my love story but up to now am searching for that true person to love but I couldn't find. Thanks Gods for giving truth Friend.

[@BeyondResist]

"I write to discover what I know." -Flannery O'Connor Being a motivator and educator I myself give you many congratulations for great content for other motivational videos #beyondresist

[@princegupta8320]

Broken hearts 💔💔 everywhere.

[@melanie9670]

This video helped me a lot. The guy I like found out (idk how) that I had a crush on him and now he avoid me and I feel like he's digusted by me. We used to be friend and I didn't want more than that because I knew I had no chance. But it still hurts. So thanks to this video, I feel a lot better. Thank you so much !!

[@silentgrove7670]

Yes this is all so accurate. It's taken me decades to figure it out. It is still a challenge during the years of friendlessness though. In the last few years when I meet someone I like the next step is too let them go. If they want friendship with me they will step up.

[@resistancefighter888]

I really want to believe this message yet at the same time I find it hard to believe that doing nothing and just hoping things that things work out will actually work. I've been approaching girls for about 3 years now(I'm 25) and about two months ago was the first time I went on a date with a girl I approached to. I felt so proud of myself for overcoming my fear and we had such an awesome chemistry. About two weeks ago, she decided that she doesn't want to continue dating me and that devastated me, it still does. I don't think you should just wait for these kinds of things to happen, yes work on yourself and better yourself everyday but at the same time, if you see an opportunity to approach someone you find attractive go for it, because doing nothing won't get you anywhere

[@sharongeorge1538]

Great message Jay!!! Always inspiring and motivating!!!

[@karo.linaaaa]

Needed to hear this, thank you 🙏🙏

[@HK-nd9fe]

I never had problem walking away from any relationship I had because the moment I felt it doesn't seem to be working I choose to walk first before other start to ignore you. Nothing is permanent in life but you will have some good moments and different experience at different stages of your life. My rule is very simply that be into any relationship as long as it's cheering both of you else let both of to move on and enjoy their life. Literally I never had fights with anyone but I silently take my way and move forward and I never had problem dealing my love life.

[@jmzaid8651]

Thank you for creating this video. This is right. I chase love because it challenges me without knowing I was loosing myself, without knowing that me chasing him is making him happy and making me miserable. And at the end I can't still let him go while he instantly did so. And that is really nothing similar to love, and it was just a sad 2 years of my life, chasing something that I should have let go earlier.

[@brianrizzo3301]

Well I sitting in my house everday how will I meet anyone

[@theresasangma5271]

even me can't go anywhere... thats y m single....... m fed up of waiting for true love.... i don't know when will i get...

[@naveendilshan7329]

@@theresasangma5271 you will get it someday. Every meeting every situation almost everything happen for a reason. The reason might be visible or invisible but the results will be visible. Be patient do good things which make you happy. Best thing is love yourself first! GBU!

[@theresasangma5271]

@@naveendilshan7329 thanks

[@kalpeshrawal1170]

Thanks jay, i need to hear this.👏

[@logicalman1241]

😭😭😭😭 even I have changed myself for that person . He don't have time for me I have to ask him for his time . He abuses me without any of my mistake . When ever i ask him about his prb he abuses me 😭😭... Now I can feel that he is not the ri8 one I am in love with someone who don't even deserve my true love & care . 💔😭

[@queenqueen9671]

My lover also like this when I too much scolder for begging to speake with him after that he doesn't talk with me one day he said we should separate each other for good he leave me he doesn't know my life without him is true he doesn't understand my heart speaking wrds and my true love with him true love never leaves at any situation but he leaves is it true love?

[@santhiyak1818]

100% correct... Don't chase people, if you are chasing for someone then that person is not right for you!!!!

[@Ashishkumar-mc7pi]

you are absolutely right now i am gonna focus on my goal there are lots of people out there we spend lot of time with them but what we got is fakeness fake people fake friends but there are also some people who help us in the critical situation so love those who care you respect you

[@nasreensayyed7990]

If u r depressed in love... Plz read 💞Even at ur best... U r not right for the wrong person and 💞even at ur worst... The right person will show you ur worth... Very true 🙁🙁 experiencing