If You Want Women To Chase You, Do This

[@marnikinrys]

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[@bryanneal5402]

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[@hokiedevil]

I find myself skipping watching Marni's videos now because the product pushing is too intense. Minimize that and you'll be more effective, I think

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[@elizarjerez8177]

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[@wesleytravis5651]

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[@8788bb]

One. Never give her the attention she gets from all guys. Two. Stare at her only for a few seconds and then look away. Three. Say something she doesn’t expect to hear. Four. Let her see you talking with other women and making them laugh. Five. Rejection is part of the game. The goal is to never give up. Six. Do something different from what others do.

[@himanshupawar5530]

What we say to her that she doesn't expect to hear?? Example

[@ericatlas]

🤗

[@asiandude8361]

And number 7 is that your advice really sucks.

[@8788bb]

Sure you do

[@shalonsmith1337]

​​@@himanshupawar5530making jokes is one example. Humor usually comes from diverting expectations. But, a better example of saying something that she doesn't expect is to pay attention to very minor things during your conversation or her conversations with others. And don't through it out there in a creep way, ex: you hear how she doesn't like strawberry milk. Hang on to that little bit, and drop it in later. Like, "I'm gonna grab us a drink out the store, didn't't you say you loooove strawberry milk, I'll grab you that" then and smile. Lol. Say you were joking and don't spend any more time on it. Joke stoped, she laughs move on from it like it came casually. She will not expect that you hung on to such a minor detail. She will question to herself why you are paying such close attention to her, but if it's not done in a simpy way she won't be completely sure and want to do more little things to get your attention some more. Or she will do flirty things to test if you do really like her. Which is great, because now you are the one occupying her mind. She's now the one coming up a casual way to get to you. And the game goes on back and forth between you two. Lol. Good luck.

[@tod3msn]

The most important thing you said was basically to live in the moment. My mind goes to a time when I was with this woman on a date enjoying her company at a lakeside pizza place outside on a patio on a warm summer evening. I think if I just lived in that moment I would have enjoyed it more instead of worrying about more dates or trying to impress her. Most women you’ll go out for a limited time do why not just enjoy that moment and not focus on what is to come? You absolutely right to just have fun in that time you share and not think beyond it. It took me too long to learn this lesson.

[@areagh13]

This doesn't just apply to dating, stop looking for approval from others and start seeking approval of yourself

[@volkerw.]

Actually a stoic principle, known for thousands of years.

[@chrism6764]

As a guy, I've been on both sides of the situation you described. Being on the wrong side a few times really made me reconsider my game plan with women. It's still unpleasant when a woman who I like chooses someone else but I've gotten better at hiding the disappointment. Honestly even with options, you still want the girl and it sucks if you don't get her.

[@OrlandoholidayExplorer]

Of course, when we like someone we want the feelings reciprocated. But when you tryto "pick up" a strange woman & she rejects every play we cannot take it personally because she doesn't know you personally. What she is rejecting is her perception of you based on a short encounter and every bit of baggage she brings to it. We don't know who or what has colored her way of looking at the world, no less us. Don't be hurt when someone who doesn't know you seems disinterested. Save feelings of hurt for times family or close friends treat you in a manner you would not treat them. Even then, and when hitting on a new woman and you fail to succeed, try to succeed at dealing with rejection. It'll make your game all that fearless. Remember like men, no woman is the same so no one rule is true across the board.

[@My2centsfuturestrader]

Very well put, sir....👍

[@Fubar-Fido]

Sucks more to get hitched to the wrong girl.

[@tommissouri4871]

Being happily married helps. I have nothing to gain or lose, so I can hold a conversation in anyway I want, because at the end of the night, I am still going home with the best lady there is. At my class reunion last year, I had four ladies hanging onto me much of the night. And at the end of the night, I went home without any of them. At my previous job, no one could understand why these interns, coops, and single ladies all flocked to me. It was simple. They were all people, we could talk, and I wasn't out to get in anyone's pants. Most of the other guys there would only interact with them if they thought there was something in it for themselves. So all those women knew they were a target, an object, a goal, or a conquest. With me, they were just people.

[@danl4222]

Sure.. but you didn't have sex either. I'm 50 and have had sex with maybe 6 girls In my life. I achieved such a low count ... by not being. Threat to any of them.... how stupid was I.

[@brianlane9534]

Nailed it.

[@brentchaney6154]

It’s so easy- you treat a woman how you want to be treated, and don’t seem desperate, and if there is a rejection, there are at least a dozen more out there that are apprehensive about asking you out…. So you have to be ok with rejection, and be ok with being yourself- no matter what another person says…. It works - every. Single. Time. 😊

[@williamblakehall5566]

"I'm George. I'm unemployed, and I live with my parents."

[@danpeterson8040]

Too Funny!!!

[@Thanosgals]

Lmaoooo!! YES!!!!!

[@Li0n61]

😂

[@Li0n61]

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[@kylewilkinson6975]

Damn, it sucks to be named George.

[@johnrariden1586]

I have met someone using your method by intriguing her. I did not ask her for her number. I told her that if she wanted my number she had five minutes to hand her phone over to me if she wanted my number in under that five minutes her phone was in my hand. This is the same night I met her for 3 1/half hours her, and I danced. up to, including one slow song, I was there with one of my good friends. Her friend and herself are not usually the bar kind of people, but they just happen to be there about an hour after we got there that’s when she cut my eye. Ultimately they needed a ride home. My friend had his car outside. They were going to order an and we offered them a ride and we took them to their house and we were going to leave. They offered us to to come inside and stay for a while, So Marni. Thank you.

[@randallp.8313]

"about an hour after we got there that’s when she cut my eye." She cut your eye yet you drove her home? You sure are the forgiving type. 🤕😉

[@nigelyorkshiremanwadeley6263]

I have always wondered why the women I'm not attracted to seem to go for me. We may be good friends but I don't see anything in it while they do. This explains it beautifully. I'm naturally doing what you said but at the same time I'm turning off the girls I actually want and it's so bloody frustrating. Something to work with now...

[@charles2241]

I'll almost guarantee what will change it. Adopt the attitude you have with the friends, towards the ones you want too. IOW, play the same game. It is your thoughts for romance that are getting in the way. Romance is NOT stage one, rather, friendship is. They reject you because of this, because they see nothing but perv coming out of NOT wanting to know them before romance comes on. The ones you don't want, want you, because they have seen that side of you, so the ones you want need to see it too. Save romance for when you KNOW them. They don't want to be thought of as cheap, that is if they're any good. Treat them like a friend and then you blend in some romance here and there, but certainly not towards the start.

[@TheBillaro]

Thanks. this is really well said, both of you. This is EXACTLY why i keep chasing the ones I really really like away. I get nervous and want to lock it up quickly. I'll try this way. i will say, do you find sometimes that with some women you can just do the caveman thing and say i'm taking you home, and they come? are they 'bad' women, or is it instinctual? @@charles2241

[@folthorn]

Just like Mike Dumone from "Fast Times at Ridgemont High". You don't care if she comes, stays ,lays, or prays. It's "The attitude".

[@kabbub]

Thanks for minimizing the product pitches.

[@ericnicolaisen7284]

Marni, you truly are amazing! My issue i have is ive been married for 5 years. Shes not a "bad person" some of the things she says just breaks my spirit. Ive tried to share my life and she seems to simply not give a damn. Ive tried to connect, tried to help get her someone to talk to but it feels like she settles for so little. Asked her why se married me, " you treat me better than anyone else has" i didn't know what to think

[@billusher2265]

The problem with a lot of modern dating advice like Marni’s is it hinges on asking you to show interest in some way asap, either by directly stating intent, flirting, or something similar. The problem with that is it invites rejection, and the sooner you do it the more likely you are to get rejected because she is going off of less information. You are automatically limiting yourself only to someone who likes you right away. A truly efficient dating system would be finding a way to demonstrate attractive qualities to someone for an extended period of time or until they show interest first, before you show interest, thereby logically having much more chance of success.

[@tbryant024]

Marni's advices are outdated. Her videos used to be good when women don't have insanely high standards yet.

[@asiandude8361]

You don't know anything

[@queasyweasel]

Attractiveness on a longer timeframe seems to come from social proof imo, build up your social circles with friends that know you for a while and know you aren't a douche 😛 Work on your career/side hustle/hobbies/etc. not because it'll attract women, but because YOU find passion in doing those things... Be "that guy" that provides some sort of value to a social circle, whether it's the high school "friend with a car," the college "friend with a fake ID," the work "guy that knows great afterwork bars/hangouts," the "guy that cooks great BBQ," the "guy that throws awesome parties," the "guy that makes banger playlists," etc. The more useful that you can be to more people, the more social proof you'll have, and the more women in those social circles will notice and value you in turn

[@ThomasVossen-t1h]

Marni is the turn on of this millennnium. And I'm not full of Polluted Baloneyum (the half life of).....praise to everyone's effort as we learn and relearn to be loving and affectionate in the present moment honestly engaging in flirtatious communication that is actually practical when you consider how stabilizing our lives can be when she knows she can depend on a guy-man to help satisfy her yearning for happiness and contentment and of course orgasm in a convincing manner as a manner of speaking.

[@lesedishametja7005]

Nah bro... my boy James got done dirty💀.

[@MasabaQuinlan]

Only tip you need is self love. You dont need outside approval. Once you have approve of you and nkt be bothered by outside factors, that will be your biggest attraction towards you

[@indianahoosier5794]

A friend pointed out that another term for this is "radical acceptance". I always considered it more about radically accepting God but in psychology it refers to much the same "being confident in who you are"...

[@timbarnett3898]

Is biggest turn on for women necessary when i don't want anything to do with women? I lost house in city; 16.8 acres, house, 42ft barn in country; 6 acreas, 3 story house 42ft barn 3 garages private community next to San Juan Islands, writing check for just under $70,000 loses due to divorce. I can't lose like this again over a woman. Women have proved to me, they are not worth the losses?

[@BillBixby-t2q]

So it is just little old you against roughly a third of the humans on the planet? I hope you can at least feel some connection with your fleshlight.

[@Ainttrippin]

Nobody is forcing you to get married again. Just keep some nice fwb or casual girlfriend bruh

[@nobodysbusiness4828]

A hooker is way cheaper than a wife , plus a hooker will pretend she likes you and wives are allergic to showing any affection.

[@davekarson8048]

I enjoy your videos. One question I have is what is the difference between bantering and flirting? Arent you flirting when you are bantering and vice a versa? Also, you say to have options--which makes sense (BATNA). In that light, do you recommend dating more than one girl at a time? And can you make a video on the best way to break up with a girl so you can have those options. I think "nice guys" (like me) have a hard time breaking up. Which means are options are limited. Thanks again for the videos.

[@BL-N3xus]

Easy... Be 1. TALL 2. ATTRACTIVE 3. IN SHAPE AND DRESS WELL 4. GREAT SENSE OF HUMOUR

[@acedia4453]

At 5'5, I am more than happy with 5'8 and over.

[@BL-N3xus]

@acedia4453 Have you ever felt or always have this particular standard?

[@Ainttrippin]

Stop telling yourself the sob story that you have to be tall and attractive to get women

[@moorshound3243]

= fucked then

[@LeviUtah]

@@acedia4453 What's the height of your current boyfriend?

[@redlineshawn1700]

James dodged a bullet. Tonya made out without even knowing the guy. Raise the ho flag

[@balancer182]

Other dating coaches have also said something similar. Thanks for confirmation and tips Marni!

[@alfredbenedek3398]

Thanks for the tips Marni. Appreciate them, - My dillema is, I behaved as a sensible good guy, - occasional gifth & inviting them to events / shows etc. I went along with what they ahd hobbys etc. Yet - yet, they went out later on with guys, that I never ever concider to talk to?? Nicely put. No offense to any one? What the devil do girls see in such guys, when I always thought, they / girls want ; safety - gentleness - fairness - and, yes, in the future, financial support? I neverever lifted my hand art no girl women. Some of those guys did. - I was gentle / kind to thrm, unlike the other guys. - I was fair to them & they seemed to notice that, but other guys were unfair & - oh his just being crazy . . . well, should AA - EEY act like crazy - not my style. I made a sall/reasonable income, the other guys once a while income - than not even working?! Am I doing something wrong? Or girls women don't like honest to goodness, old fasioned guys any more. - I'm still am dissappointed in some of them! - Please help me MARNI??!

[@balancer182]

@@alfredbenedek3398 What kind of girls are you going for? The instagram model types? Or the traditional types?

[@My2centsfuturestrader]

​@@alfredbenedek3398due to soc media...looks count alot more now..things have changed...Also, some of the guys you describe that you compete w are genuine bad boys and rogue loners that come across as mysterious and sexy, and not creepy like a guy w out a wingman..just giving my 2¢

[@matgaming79]

Dear Marni, thank you so much for your videos. You are the best! I love how straight to the essential you are, a great communicator who understands both sides very well! Your own relationship must be quite functional :) Thanks for the tips. Having options make all the difference in guys attitude towards women, you will not be hooked and annoying when you have a few flirts going at once!

[@drewmorgan2050]

WRONG!!! The biggest female turn on of all time really is: a man who owns a yacht

[@jasoncaine2600]

Moron 🤦🏼

[@Greg-il3lq]

"MONEY" talks and........

[@davidpalmer7175]

Women think they're "DEEP."

[@geoeconomics5629]

Man with social status No. 1 He has money yacht real estate No. 2 he has a lot of women No. 3 married guy

[@geoeconomics5629]

​@@davidpalmer7175 Women have no clue what they are talking about

[@KingoftheJuice18]

Obviously, someone who shows you that they really don't care much one way or the other whether you like them is going to send the powerful message that they will be devoted to you alone for a lifetime, and will protect and provide for you and your family's needs through every circumstance. Just makes sense.

[@ericatlas]

I dunno if this is a sarcastic statement but i like it lol

[@robdunham7398]

😆😂🤣

[@KingoftheJuice18]

@@ericatlas In your heart you probably know 😉

[@dazle191]

Yeah, this is definitely sarcasm as sending the message u dont care is also telling them u will be devoted to yourself, not them. I think why it turns them on is because they always want what they cant have!

[@KingoftheJuice18]

@@dazle191 Why would you want someone who is only going to be devoted to themself?

[@tedschmitt178]

I will say that this is true (outcome independence) IMO. I unintentionally did this with my (now) fiancé. Outcome independence takes time and practice and works great when you KNOW there are options out there, which was true in my case.

[@montedreams1]

If your friend is as pretty as you are...Brad just knows the game .

[@tod3msn]

I like your advice because it is true. Why? Because I made this mistake trying too hard to win a woman over. This is clearly on point advice. Your additional point of nothing changes if you get rejected should be written on billboards all over America because if people turn you down life always goes on. Indeed nothing changes.

[@danmarquez3971]

Just a tiny footnote: never say you had bacon and eggs to a vegan! It's ok to be boring but not suicidal! LOL! (Then again, her desire to change you could have its compensations.)

[@moorshound3243]

Why would you want to even go near a vegan?

[@jasonhurst8599]

This is all well and good if you just want to add random women as more notches to your bedpost while not giving two craps about them as individuals, or caring anything whatsoever about them as an individual person; but what if you actually want a SPECIFIC WOMAN because you actually CARE ABOUT - and FOR - and even love HER specifically? Or want any ONE specific or particular woman for whatever reason?

[@darkhorse2121]

This advice is good. Just so damn hard to get it right 😅 I mostly meet girls on dating apps, and if you try to talk to them by opening with a flirtatious comment they would soft reject you.

[@Citizen-by9vw]

I'm a long-time subscriber of yours and a long-time viewer of men's help videos, and this is one of the best ones I've ever seen. Although I'm subscribed to multiple female men's dating coaches, I'm a little skeptical when it comes to dating coaches who are women, since per some male dating coaches, y'all may not give advice that gives the best results or let us know what women actually respond to and actually crave. But, I still love your videos, especially this one, and still value women's feedback since I still like to get the female perspective. Thank you

[@tommac21]

You poor naive person. Didn't anyone ever tell you there's no such thing as dating or relationship coaches. Unless you plan on dating or having a relationship with them. Because this who they're talking about when they say this is what women or men want or like. It's a total scam

[@nobodyknows3180]

Plus, consider, all dating coaches are in the game to sell you additional product - their courses and books - and so each of their videos is designed to dangle a carrot under the noses of these young cats who think that all dating is essentially about being a pickup artist - so buying books and enrolling in courses is a no-brainer. Also, in order to monetize their videos on You Tube, the video has to be a minimum length - which means a LOT of time to fill with not so much information per video. If I had to, I could boil down each one of Marni's videos into 2 minutes or less each, there is literally so little info in each one.

[@jhold951]

It works, also being a good listener with sincere eye contact takes the bar up another notch.

[@danielcobbins8861]

The boring approach reminds me of a Cheech and Chong skit from many years ago. It is in a school setting, and everyone has to write that classic essay, "What I Did on My Summer Vacation" (yep, we all had to write those). Chong's went something like; "On the first day of my summer vacation, I woke up, got dressed, went downtown, to look for a job. The second day of my summer vacation, I woke up, got dressed, went downtown, to look for a job." On and on, until the class was snoring.

[@robtankbuster5215]

What if your married and your wife moved out? I can't have options and can't hide the fact she moved out and am heart broken 💔.

[@Imran-Lalani]

What do you mean nothing changed? A rejection does hurt because you lose confidence. Women never have to go through rejection in life. They have it given to them.

[@rlh125]

That’s ridiculous. Most women are rejected. Most women are mediocre looking, at best, and find it hard to find the kind of man they want. Some can’t find any man at all. If you had said “BEAUTIFUL women never have to go through rejection…” you would have been on firmer ground…but even beautiful women face rejection when it comes to long term relationships with the alpha chads they want. It boils down to this: People get rejected when they pursue people who are higher on the Dating Matketplace Value Scale (or who perceive themselves as higher on that scale). A guy who is a 6 won’t be rejected by a woman who is a 3. 🤷‍♂️

[@noahstanley5891]

I truly believe this is simply a story to create content. Nothing more.

[@G360LIVE]

She's definitely leaving something out of her story (I'm going to assume it's a true story). My guess is that Brad was much better-looking than James. In her story, she tried to play him down, but even an average-dressed guy can look good and be more attractive than a well-dressed guy. The fact is that women don't just suddenly become attracted to the person who's not paying a lot of attention to them. As Marni, herself, has stated in other videos, a woman has to be attracted to you, or you're just not going to get anywhere with her. So, her friend wasn't attracted to James but was attracted to Brad, and for the sake of the subject in this video, Marni is leaving out that fact.

[@nobodysperfect06]

I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. Guys, men, have to know or learn all of these skills, behaviors, talk a certain way, behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk and stand a certain way, breathe a certain way, have a certain lifestyle, because leading or taking the lead is something that is behavior based, skill based, think a certain way, and many more things, that i either don't know or forgot. Women just have to exist and breathe and they are guaranteed attention, options, that doesn't require any learning or skill development, it mind boggles me and makes me annoyed when people say women need skills to succeed in dating. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game. And I don't get or understand why a guy or a human male or just a person in general has no right to feel depressed or feel bitter and forever resentful if they manage to get their first relationship late-in-life. For example, if a person doesn't have their first relationship until their 30s or 40s and older. People say that a person like that should still be happy, but I feel a person like that has to have a right to feel forever depressed and bitter and resentful because they feel that their youth went to waste or their youth was stolen from them. I feel men have a right to be angry about something like that more than women do because for all-time men have always been dealt with the burden of having to accept or take responsibility for their lives while women can simply rely on others to do it for them. For all-time relationships and dates are basically handed or given to women on a silver platter but not for men

[@aetherpaul]

I think you're just stressed from fear and isolation. An incell is not a real term, because it doesn't have a useful function.its certainly no beneficiary , and is merely a metaphor for a type of shame that may stem from years of uncertainty and anxiety and stress we've had to encounter for whatever reason. I think people online just vent a lot, and you'll only ever hear negative stories in high resolution instead of positive growth stories in high resolution, this is why it's difficult for most people to make high capacity changes in character growth quickly, and in many ways I think with what is being offered as resolve isn't good advice. I think good advice is something like, try to find a person that is like you in spirit, and avoid similarities in soul, and what this means is that personality + mindfulness or intelligence is the plane of connection, while the soul of ourselves are supposed to be different since that is the plane of creativity and muse. Only the judge of ourselves should meet eachother and passions are accessory and merely accentuate freedom through novelty. A lot of people from my perspective who have used the term intel seem to be dreaming perpetually about some life that fits the ideal of belonging to heal some epoch of life, maybe teenage years or mid twenties in times past. But the way to fill this gap is to just firmament or make new, old relational engagements with friends, and bring familial tradition back into theatre. We have to be the parents and the teachers and not the students and the kids. It's a perspectival shift but it's no worry because to be a good parent is to understand the nature of ourselves as children and revisit the toys and the theatre of it all. Touch base with your roots, don't sacrifice all your treasures.

[@chrisclubb2019]

Sounds to me like you’re not confident in yourself at all and yes, the pussy between the legs controls everything for a woman but you need to believe in yourself. Be confident you gotta be funny be able to hold a good conversation and you can get women sound like you have some deeper issues than you think

[@bobbutler8340]

That was 10 minutes I'll never get back.

[@BuckTravis]

Works. Really works. The bonus for men is feeling you will never be hurt or disappointed. Freedom. Great advice!!

[@hammerfist8763]

Big difference between making out with a guy on a date or a one-night stand and choosing a mate for life.

[@G360LIVE]

Yeah, plenty of drunk women are attracted to me. When they sober up is when they realize their mistake.

[@georgeblackley6028]

Just watched this video and there's already 15 women knocking on my door and windows.

[@mikelandryjr7310]

Don't act desperate,got it

[@randytaylor2747]

Thanks,Marna,for your,professional,advice.Very,informative👍.Now,for a personal,compliment,Your'e a Very,attractive,&pretty,brunette!😊👍

[@elijahpuot3948]

I need this product. How can I get it?

[@christal-clear4505]

Doesn’t work, tried it on you and you never came chasing me! Nothing to do with the fact I tried it through the monitor! 🤣🤣🤣 thanks as always Marni 😊👍🏽xx

[@douglaspearson4853]

Take this for what its worth. I knew what you were going to say about Brad over James before you said it. In my early years of dating I would see women at at table at dance clubs. I would wlak up and ask the one I was most attracted to for a dance. What I realized was after she saw me headed for the table she had her no ready before I got there. On nights when I asked female friends to dance first other women would see us up dancing and having a good time. I could do no wrong when I asked a woman to dance. Also it was easier when I was at the Bar and they came to get a drink. I could say something and see how they reacted. I like to say something so stupid that we both can laugh at. If she does not even crack a smile I am not interested. If she comes back with a witty reply she has me.

[@garfieldmudcat]

i learned this when i was 14....i went up to all of the girls who were beautiful and if they said no i didnt care...dated a ton of women just because i asked

[@LRS11B]

Marni, tell men how to act in a masculine manner, but gentlemen like. That certainly would help. Basically, how to be the James Bond type without forcing it

[@johnnykovakasmakavich6834]

You have any specific advice for married men

[@KennWorth-ke3bm]

That's so awesome....sounds crazy but I've always known this Thanks for all your efforts

[@parasitarelebensform7824]

Marni , I've been following your channel for two weeks or so and I'm absolutely thankful for your great advice. In two videos I found, you explained how women are stimulated by touching , massaging or even sucking their feet. Could you please make a video on that topic? I mean is there a specific technique you like then please let us know.

[@noahstanley5891]

If ever there was a planted comment, here. It. Is!

[@alfredbenedek3398]

I'm definetaly not an egoist, not at all. But vry often, girls / women, don't mirror my kindness / good intentions, yetthey want to let me be like that forever? I'm lost?! Or should I discontinue the relationship?!

[@queasyweasel]

@@alfredbenedek3398 Every (good) relationship is a two-way street

[@rickyfast4415]

Makes a lot of sense. I thought the secret was going to be purpose at first.

[@TheLilli08]

My wife is open to what you bring to the situation. Marni, bring it

[@JohnCorbett-t6l]

Ice breaker:when she is super beautiful with the attitude to go with it , say " omg you know what i like about you?" When they "what?" You say "it was just a question"

[@Citizen-by9vw]

Love it, Marni. Great video. Thank you

[@tommac21]

Why do you plan on dating her. Because this is who she's talking about when she says women want or like such and such. 1 woman can't speak for them all. I'm sure you and I dont like the same things. So what if I went on here and said this is what men like

[@Spectacular-Spider-Dan]

My brother is a great conversationalist, so I look forward to having him be my partner for your first exercise and having him insult me. 😅

[@jayayyyyy]

Best of luck! May you be very happy together! 😁

[@iconicheight1188]

That's pretty much how I used to get paid where I was younger. It helped that I was a bouncer who was able to walk around and check out who's in the bar that night. It was a large 5 way interconnected club, all with a different theme. So my hook was to walk around the whole place and see whoever have eye contact. After the second and third time I knew she was interested in one way or another. So after knowing they've been checking me out, I knew my next line was (as this site states as well) was something like, oh boy you're trouble. She would have to respond, no matter good or bad. Or comment on what's she's drinking and get the convo going off of that. If tell her mine, I'd make fun of hers- again for ing her to reapond

[@Fanatisicm]

Thanks Marni. So basically women just want players who have a go with every girl and don’t settle for one. Fine I’ll do that

[@Mikesrunningpage44466]

Joymode is only available in the USA so can't get it in the UK

[@indelibledotink]

But what if you're my dream girl? Nah, but I really love your simple to more advanced presentations and techniques for guys like me. You da bomb!

[@ecosov1]

hello marni this is your fan matthew glad to see you here as well as facebook love your videos and products always great value

[@kevinlewis5194]

Admit it Marni. Brad is your husband and you are Tonya. Its obvious. haha JK

[@heitor27mb]

You cannot lose what you don’t have

[@PatrickDuffy-u3s]

I have been 'outcome independent' my entire life, and women never behaved any differently toward me. I suppose this only works for the top percentage of men. When a woman sees he's not interested she gets her ego damaged if she can't have him, but if he's already in the friend zone, she doesn't care.

[@kenschauer3781]

Your Awesome Marni!!!

[@Jubee12]

Great advice as always Marni. I can see how something like this would work Question. From time to time I hear make dating coaches say how you already have to be a man of high status and making 6-7 figures to attract high quality women In your opinion, can the how to become a man women want program help a guy like me who isn’t high status and not making 6-7 figures but am working my way up to it? Because they make it sound you have to sacrifice your dating life for a few years and focus on those things first Do you believe this to be the case?

[@bigveganal]

I don’t know about Marni’s program(s) because I’ve only recently discovered the channel. But I can say this. I’m an average looking guy, overweight, going bald on top, on a pretty average salary at a pretty average job. And I’ve done alright for myself dude 🤷‍♂️ Just from watching the channel, I’m actually learning why I do ok, rather than learning much new. You’ll be fine 👍

[@mattpatrick3536]

I know that I am not Marni, but I will try to answer this as best I can. I will assume that you are a guy who is in his mid-twenties to maybe early 30s. If that is the case then any womanWho is not a gold digger, will understand That you don't make 100k As long as you can show that you are working towards a goal & not a bum who sits at home playing video games all day. If you show yourself to be a quality man that is working towards being able to provide for a future family then she will be fine with coming along for the ride. How can a woman who is building her own career, expect a man her age to be already fully established. That is unreasonable

[@marnikinrys]

Of course. High status does not mean High $$'s. That's only 1 kind of status. You can be high status in many other ways. How to become a man women want teaches you how to become high status without $$'s. But know that high $$'s is AN indicator of high status not the ONLY indicator.

[@billusher2265]

It’s more about behavior indicating high status than being high status yourself.

[@KentBuchla]

What you've describe is a signature of confidence, thereby high status, and make the woman pursue the man. It negates the earliest part of your video wherein you state it isn't these things. Women want a high status leader that is calm in a storm. Women like stoics.

[@TheLilli08]

So what if i take sildenafil. I get that if you recognize that you know where I am going. I am self sufficent. I have expectations. how do we go from here.

[@alfredyost7972]

Hello Marni, I used to have a guy friend who was player. He could read women like a book. He was a jock, but not super muscular, he was good looking and dressed well. I used to go with him to the clubs and watch him get women. In fact, I used to watch the women rejecting guy after guy at the club. I would tell him go and get her. I bet you can not. He would watch her for a few minutes and tell me if he thinks he can get her. Just after watching her he would tell me if he can get her. He would always try and he was right if he could get her or not. He almost always got the girl in the club. He would dance with her a few times and start making out with her. He of course took her home and had sex with her. He would even show me her panties the next day. He was incredibly successful at taking women home from the club. What I would do is the women that rejected him because they thought he was a player and go talk to them about. How did I figure this out? I would ask my player friend. Somehow he knew and he was right. Some people would say I am just picking up his scraps, maybe but this helped to become more successful at the clubs. Going to clubs to find a women is not a very good idea. Thoughts?

[@bigveganal]

What happened at 7:32? Was that a fart? 😂

[@marnikinrys]

No idea. Ha. i'll have to go back and watch but I dont' remember that. I do remember construction outside my house when filming that was very annoying

[@davederoux3361]

@@marnikinrys comparing that fart to construction noise would be like comparing a tsunami to flies fucking.

[@yuewenb]

But very ripe Marni, I do not want to become a man many women want, could care less. Only certain rare women attract me in that way as I am no longer a teenager. LOL. But your video's have many great suggestions and being the wing woman for many males is awesome, some need it and even I have learned a thing or two.

[@marnikinrys]

I hear that and it's great that you know what you want ;).

[@CornelNorocea]

Awesome advice 🙏

[@fredrickroll06]

I was always unhappily in love until I turned 40. Then, suddenly, the worm turned: over a period of several years, four women in succession fell in love with me with whom I was unable to fall in love. Number 3 was the closest approach to reciprosity. I spent seven and a half years with number 4, until, at 63, the only mutual love of my life broke over me like a tidal wave! After half a year, she slowly ceased being attracted to me - after a year, it was all over, except for a friendship which has lasted. I think that now, at almost 80, I have started to feel comfortable with being alone.

[@keithbarnhart6952]

Disagree: the downside IS being in the same place. After all, the "same place" is what you are trying to escape.

[@NorthGeorgiaSurvival]

How to Get Women to Want You Desperately 101 1. Already have a woman. 2. Are so heartbroken over the last woman because she cheated on you that you have absolutely no desire to get cheated on again, ever. 3. Start dating men. Class dismissed.

[@waynemcdaniel6550]

Lmao 🤣. Sounds a little extreme. But also probably 💯 percent accurate.

[@vidjames6748]

Men aren't attracted to desperate whiny incels, either. Step 3 will only show you that it's not just women who find you unattractive. The whole point of these videos is that people are attracted to other people who show confidence. You are too intimidated by women, and that's why you can't get laid.

[@kiethosmon792]

Hey that no:3 means you gayyyy

[@lesedishametja7005]

Source: Trust me bro 💀

[@martinbebow9190]

Great advice. Makes total sense

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

I am fine with rejection and non-reciprocation !!! Been through this many times before and tell them that and I will and get through it and 💔 heal again !!! It's just a woman thing !!! So I then just stay more focused on my life and the Ministries that I am involved with and no distractions needed or wanted !!!

[@jasonisjasondoes]

If true, sounds like they just got along better and they both had the advantage of being a friend of a friend which makes things easier.

[@stevenhanson6057]

“You won’t need Viagra.” “Not after you see Alice!”

[@timjensen6968]

I would argue that this is confidence related.

[@mikhailabdurrachman2443]

Looks is the first step to get inside a girls heart (and pants). If YOU short and ugly then you already failed to begin with -darius m

[@ampm9771]

My friend, I have seen many extremely ugly and short guys with beautiful blonde girls that would turn the likes of the young brad pitt down. How? it is amystery to me, what do they have or do is a mystery to me.

[@markchartrand9376]

I just be Me. No playing games. If she doesn't like or love me for who i am, then she ain't The One! I'm so tired of mind games!

[@andrewnorrey1541]

No women i've ever met has ever been able to stand the sight of me..And i can tell you this no way in this world will i ever put myself in a position to be humiliated again.. Capitol offence isn't it these days being interested in a woman!!!

[@vidjames6748]

Judging from the fact that you came here to announce to the world that you are a pathetic loser, I'd say that this is the exact vibe that you give off when you are in proximity to a woman. Women are not attracted to pathetic losers. If you can pretend for 5 minutes that you are not as pathetic as you advertise yourself to be, you might actually not get shot down in the first 5 minutes.

[@vdggmouse9512]

It seems that many of your strategies don't apply to we in our 60's or older - am I right?

[@thejediway]

So that's what works for me. I had know idea. Now I should stop being suspicious of what they want.

[@llessurrellefekcor5047]

How to attract shallow , narcissistic, hypergamous and disloyal problem women 101 with these tips. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.

[@andrewjackson7255]

shame Joymode isn't sold to the UK

[@ohhello1809]

im a girl idk why i find these videos entertaining lmao

[@giulianozambonin3931]

Be a man in demand! This is what I think is the best tip

[@kettlekett13]

Hello Marni Your Personal Wing Girl no I'm not scared I am just watching some of your videos and stuff you put up bit by bit okay 👍👍

[@kettlekett13]

🤔 I am not commenting or writing anything and just 🤔and keeping my mouth shut okay 👍👍

[@ShareGibson-cg5cj]

I'm not sure what I want but I'm just saying that I have already been a long term survivor of HIV and I have to be able to do it with a good

[@jakemarlow8998]

Here's what I've learned. On a scale of 0 to 100, where 0 is totally ignoring her and 100 is totally fawning over her, you want to be at 5 and no more than 10. Anything more than 10 and you will be friend-zoned. Trust me, I learned this the hard way after 20 years of failure.

[@areagh13]

As a male, this goes the other way too

[@jimbrown5552]

Thanks again for sharing

[@bufferzone3247]

Ladies. As a man, most men dont want multiple woman. They want.. the one. How does a woman be.. the one? Do this. Be the best part of his life. If he feels it, the man will become his best self in return. Its a win win.

[@FRZELION]

THANK YOU MARNI!!!

[@Nick_From_Jersey]

Clean the house without being told. You’re chances of getting some action goes from 0 to 20%

[@CallsItLikeISeizeIts]

Gents, act like you don’t want it, no expectations, if meant to be it will, if not, you had fun😊

[@DG-zv4bl]

Here's a question I bet no one ever asks you: Why don't women also approach men?

[@gabrielkoncowski1403]

Hi i thought my cucumber was the most important

[@davidcanter2376]

it does not take long to know if you click with someone or not

[@YOUNGPAC705]

Plz make joy mode available in africa