Why This “ONE” Masculine Habit Drives Women WILD! (Spoiler: Emotional Control & How To Get It)

[@marnikinrys]

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[@northerncaliking1772]

It would be incredible if what she was saying is true but we can't even make a move on a woman or in a respectful way without being looked at like creeps you can't talk to a random woman's who's walking down the street or should call you a creep it's weird like back in a day people could walk up and get a girl's phone number you try that now that you get shamed disrespected gotta treat it like you're some kind of dumb ass and you don't make 6 figures you're a scrub everything that she's saying is not true here in California

[@endometriosisexplained1799]

Great work coach - that one took a bit of putting together ? Some great phrases “just a rush of chemicals”. “raw, attractive power” etc I would expect nothing less from an emotion-laden “talk and be” Well done !

[@weichun4168]

We failed the Scatman. Evil human females rejected him because of his life. We are sorry Scatman John.

[@ZacharyHuff585]

Honestly, I want to out and have the ability to go and find a women that I can settle down with and show her that I can fulfill her dreams.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Hell no

[@cellis5111]

women will press your buttons all day long and try to "knock you out of your calm frame" and when they do, they win. my toxic narcissist sister does this as well. You ignore=you win. you take the bait=they win.

[@vidjames6748]

You used on key word when describing your sister's toxic behavior - "narcissistic". But you suggest that all women try to push your buttons. No, narcissistic women do that, healthy women in healthy relationships do not. Either you are too frightened by witnessing toxic relationships to even attempt to get into a healthy one, or you have had a series of toxic relationships because you grew up with narcissists and do not know any better. I don't mean that in a bad way. I sincerely think you could be a happier person if you examine why you feel this way about women, because you are bringing your baggage and chasing good women away. I wish you the best.

[@cellis5111]

@@vidjames6748 simp

[@thetamage]

Yeah, I don’t want to be around a woman that does that all the time.

[@chriswilson7211]

So who the hell wants that?

[@Duet163]

​@@vidjames6748😂u obviously a Woman I can Put My whole money on it

[@drewmorgan2050]

Bull. Shit. This only drives women “wild” if the guy doing it looks like he could be on Love Island. If you’re short and unattractive, this will NEVER drive women wild (unless you pay them).

[@MasculineMindsetCoach]

Emotions are temporary. They just visit. Allow it to visit. Accept it. That’s how I see it

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Hell yeah it is

[@BerserkerX]

I think you mean women have more of an issue with emotional control but for men emotional control is more important and men are more looked down on if they lack emotional control.

[@PD-we8vf]

Yes. Women loose emotional control all the time.

[@BerserkerX]

@PD-we8vf yea, in the video "I think" she said losing emotional control is an issue men have especially but that's not true. It's just that people notice more when a man loses emotional control. When a woman does its not that big of a deal, depending on circumstances.

[@xMckingwill]

@@BerserkerX i wanna say this that she is right as men tend bottle up our emotions and bottle them up untill we explode or game end our selves. We dont properly express them in a natural healthy way. Anger is NOT the only emotion we have. Thats not emotional controll She literally explains that 3 minutes in lol

[@BerserkerX]

@xMckingwill no, there are healthy ways and unhealthy ways to control emotions. What you explained is an unhealthy way but your emotions are still under control. Letting out your emotions can be done in a healthy or unhealthy way. That's how women tend to express themselves. Whether it's good or bad. So if a man loses control over his bottled up emotions, that's him losing control over all those emotions he's held down for however long. While women tend to not bottle up their emotions. So thanks for proving my point

[@xMckingwill]

@@BerserkerX i disagree, the mere fact that what i described is "unhealthy" means YOU DONT HAVE CONTROLL. If you did have controll over them they would not explode nor cause harm to ones self. Not sure why its hard for us men to simply admit we do not have control over our emotions just like womem bottling them away and ignoring them doesnt mean controll. Caging a wild animal doesnt mean you tammed it. Ironically you proved my point you stated that women have less controll over their emotions tgen proceeded to explain how men dont have controll over them either in a different yet still just as negative way. Pick a struggle lol

[@oif3vetk9]

Doesn't drive my wife wild, she doesn't even notice. Why? Because I don't just go off like she does. (About anything) Funny part is though if I do show the slightest sign off being upset (In any sense of the word) then I'm wrong. It's ok for her but not me. That's ok. This is all setting me up to be able to live alone and not miss being in a relationship of any kind when/if I end up single again.

[@anthonyiannozzi6777]

The way you describe her I think we are married to the same woman (or her long lost twin sister).

[@ArtIrwin]

This was exactly how I felt this time last year… stayed married too long because my ex needed me (medical issues). I finally got divorced 7 months ago. 😁 But now I’m dating someone who is very confident and busy, and I’m trying to get a handle on my anxiety as I learn to date a woman that doesn’t “need” me.

[@bigbopper143]

I'm convinced the biggest 2 turnon's for any woman are Power and Money 😊

[@mikhailabdurrachman2443]

If YOU handsome and famous like Jeremy Meeks then girls WILL automatically wanna take you to pound town 😎

[@bigbopper143]

@@mikhailabdurrachman2443 If someone is famous then they have power and money. A slapper will burn any looker for a fat wallet 👈

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

Hell just be good looking, in a good band and money doesn't even matter.. shit man y'all will be slaying asses

[@bigbopper143]

@@johnpaulmcinvaille303 That's 0 from 2 for me 😎👈

[@mindfuldrone]

Are you troubled by the fact that the three men you have specifically mentioned as being touchstones of confidence for men to copy (Andrew Tate, Conor McGregor, Russell Brand) have ALL had serious rape charges levelled at them?

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

Ooooff boom...

[@ddc163264]

Yep, believe this nonsense if you want guys, and watch 99% of all the females dry up at the first time you cry in front of them! Oh they'll SAY they won't but soon after they'll be running with another man or straight out leave because you no longer "excite" her or you've "grown apart" or some other phrase these females like to use after they lose all respect for the male who cried in front of them. I know, my ex did because, I had a very traumatic experience as a young boy and something triggered a response later that I couldn't totally control. Things were never the same after. I've now seen it dozens of times in other couples. Plus, see it on all these posts and shows.

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

Yes. He gets it. You know what girls, life is boring sometimes ok it just is . We refuse to bow to your every thought. Most women are not smart like you Marni. They are self centered , way Iisecure and they don't care about our heart or anything like it. I love my girls but alot of them need major help. And last but the best. I'm a rockstar and I've been one for 30 years. I've been there for by brothers that were hurt and done wrong. So keep up chicks because if you won't do it you sister or cousin will. Quit treating us like our hearts are expendible that will be mine. JPM

[@markpreheim]

I accidentally did what my wife asked me to do. I stupidity told her the truth about my emotions and feelings AND INSTANTLY LOST RESPECT FROM HER ! Our relationship drastically changed that very day ! I never regained the lost respect from her. There are emotions and feelings we men must take to the grave with us !

[@RobC1999]

That’s repairable. Women know you have feelings and she probably already suspected what was going on and you just confirmed it. Fix it by getting control of yourself. Talk less. Do more. I’ve been there…

[@markpreheim]

I'm former Emergency Services, Civil Defense, Search and Rescue, then I became a Firefighter. I'm told by both of my Doctors (Psychiatrists) that I have PTSD and have had it for decades. There were many things I wanted her to know and understand however, I couldn't find words to explain them. I guess this was why we Responders didn't talk about thease things amongst ourselves. Back then there were no Counselors to 'Debrief' us or to 'Talk us down'. So many times I've thought that a high percentage of women would rather see us die on our White Horses than to see us fall off of them. Just my thoughts and opinions.....

[@RobC1999]

I was wrong, I haven’t been there. My life has been tame compared to what you must have been through and the things I’m guessing you have seen. On behalf of those you’ve helped, thank you for the sacrifices and effort you’ve put into our community. Sounds like you’re doing the best thing you can by talking, researching, and reflecting.

[@markpreheim]

Thank you. Yes, there are many things you wish you could 'un-see', 'un-remember, ' un-smell', 'un-hear', and un-feel' but you just can't. I'm told that. One of our greatest problems came to us because both with the public and amongst ourselves silence was our native language. "You just didn't talk about " IT ". The Doctors are trying to draw thease memories, visions, and feelings out, albeit very slowly. After suppressing, burying, and botteling up thease things for so, so long it's very difficult, uncomfortable, and very unsettling, taxing even, to revisit those things ! I have no grounds to complain though because I decided long ago to take "The Oath" of my own free will..... ....... "Thease things we do, that others may live.".......

[@travdaddy11]

@@markpreheim I totally feel you. I told someone long ago what happened to me, and my fellow Marines, in Iraq and how it affected me. While not the same as you, she still dropped me like a clumsy juggler with buttered hands. Never again. Big respect to you and your work as a Firefighter.

[@Suspect333]

Also never cry in front of women no matter what they say

[@visaman]

What would prompt a man to cry in front of a woman?

[@Suspect333]

it happens @@visaman

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

I dont cry infront of a women

[@markpaolino5908]

You are correct about the breathing. I the military when we are in a stressful situation, such as a firefight, we use a technique called "Box Breathing". very simple; 4-second inhale, 4-second hold, 4-second exhale, then 4-second hold. The power of breath is huge.

[@scottshields1965]

Andrew Huberman, Huberman Labs podcast, on KZbin, has a couple of good episodes just on breathing.

[@sbphillips177]

Thanks ! Will use this! The Box!

[@nishadsawant4402]

Man I smoke cigarettes does the same for me 😂 I know it's a bad addiction.... but when I smoke ....it relieves my anxiety ,got used to it can't quit

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Yes breathing is the power

[@WilliamMurphy-tj7il]

​@nishadsawant4402 just tell everyone its just crack....even hospitals chill then....

[@DannySaurusRex7]

I was one of the men who wanted a deep dive on the subject. Thank you so much for this video. Now it makes sense, I will definitely be putting these tips into practice. Great video, like always, Marni.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

So would i!.

[@evanmccue736]

Dear Men. Never show women you're angry and always do your best to keep your composure. Showing emotion gives them power, especially narcassistic females who instigate things. It's nothing about being embarrased. It saves us from future anguish. Stand by what you believe in, do you, and find someone with similiar values.

[@mycarlosseverino6438]

This is so random, but your voice, and tone, melts my soul

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Okay

[@thejediway]

No wonder women like me. I'm a introvert and am friendly, but that's all. I'm in the friend zone with most women, because I don't want to put up with all the crap getting closer to most of them would require. Even the few I am close with prove that even of those few, many are a crazy, manipulative, selfish waste of time and money. It's hard to find a decent woman who appreciates a decent man.

[@Jimminityjabooboo]

Never let a woman see you sweat, never let a woman get an emotional rise out of you.

[@mikhailabdurrachman2443]

That's like NEVER showing your true self / feelings to Them Girls 🙄

[@D.M.S.]

Toxic bullshit. That is the easiest way of getting droped

[@johnnyxmusic]

Because you’re not with another person… Or a life partner… You’re with the enemy. It’s a wonderful way to live.😢

[@abdul.arif2000]

@@mikhailabdurrachman2443on god fuck that toxic shit

[@jasonvela1912]

I'm so high right now I don't know this is supposed to be a video or a promotional add😂

[@TYLER-jz6uv]

😂😂😂

[@tod3msn]

As usual you are “dead on” right. My mistake was that I failed to see how important those one or two or three dates with a woman here and there could help me gain experience and confidence. I was on some vicious circle of starting and stopping connections but learning nothing from the experiences and always trying to get serious which was not helpful. Confidence comes from experience and experience is gained from not being overly serious and bring open to meeting new people and so what if it is a few dates? Marni does a great job and advisors like her are very helpful and this is the good part of the internet.

[@scottshields1965]

Well said!

[@stevenkinscherf6642]

Awesome video Marni! You hit the nail on the head explaining how to not surpress emotions, but still maintain proper control of them. And loved the 4 tips! Gonna start putting these to use!

[@Jackgritty28]

Ignore the way you feel,are your ashamed to talk to women❓

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

That is a fact

[@bindesh101]

Maarni Make A Video On How To Make A Girl Emotionally Addicted To Me ❤

[@jodyozmckay1265]

Thank you for explaining why i always take deep breaths to relax, your explanation makes more sense. Just controlling my emotion.

[@scottshields1965]

Lèt Don't, Spammer

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Yes marni thank you for explaining

[@johndougherty1232]

Hi Marni i took the test n was accepted for person training. But i couldnt get website to lock in a date n time for

[@SANJ0288]

Emotional control is what men look in a woman also btw

[@heitor27mb]

In summary, just be an ancient stoic man

[@mikhailabdurrachman2443]

Translation ; NEVER show YOUR feelings / thoughts to the FEEmale

[@DaTrillion]

That's all this is basically, you're on point.

[@samcotten2416]

*Have* emotions? Sure - no one can avoid it. Show them to you ladies, ever? You all know damn well that you’ll never respect us again if we do that.

[@karlpilkington3669]

Breathing exercises is a great tip. Defo works for me to calm myself down. Emotional control with a woman - very important.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Breathing is a good exerciess

[@rn7171]

Crying is for the weak man.

[@MasterPredator93]

Isn't it strange that men are afraid to talk to women if that is very natural? I guess it's just fear of rejection or something like that but some of us simply doesn't have that or are not so much taken down by it. However your video is superb as always!

[@mack_titan]

It's no secret that stopping to listen to a women will drive them WILD!

[@thomassweeney4494]

Marni, I would love a deeper dive on emotional control. I do what you suggest, but there are times when I can feel the emotions coming to the top.

[@SolReaver]

Hey guys, Marni breathing deeply like she just did… I was like… ummmm… did it do something to you too or am I the only one?😁😁😁

[@BFG-Based]

Fantastic video, I've learned about this through various psychology and philosophy videos, choosing how to react on your emotions makes life a lot more peaceful

[@jamesritchie8170]

You may not see this comment, but what I have learned from 35 years of martial arts, and 15 years as an EMT, FEAR is your body telling you have a lesson to learn. Do not panic, accept the lesson and learn from it. Breathing is a powerful technique that gets you through and gives you enough oxygen to handle the task. 3 to 4 seconds to inhale through your nose, and 5 seconds to exhale through your mouth.

[@tonusarkar2974]

As a inspiring talk morny, Love you couch ❤

[@horkade]

I hadn't the emotional control to avoid watching your video.

[@RedShipsofSpainAgain]

Content starts at 2:49

[@joelalvarez2090]

Men, do not pretend it's okay to let you son cry in public. No man should let the world see his tears. The younger a boy learns this, the better.

[@mikhailabdurrachman2443]

Meaning a guy can't cry at his parents / kids funeral huh?? Got it

[@joelalvarez2090]

@mikhailabdurrachman2443 meaning he shouldn't ball his eyes out when he's eight and skins his kmee on the playground, or when other kids say mean things.

[@joelalvarez2090]

@christopherrowe6585 In return, I'll assume your son gets bullied and gets no respect.

[@joelalvarez2090]

@christopherrowe6585 Give it time. The world always punishes emotionally weak men.

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

All this is nothing more but ego tripping at the gates of hell.. marni watch your back girl . I'd hate to hear about a lot of ladies wanting to hurt you by spilling like you do. I do respect you and you are so real. Stay solid dolly

[@randytaylor2747]

Thanks,for the informative,video,Marni.I always,learn a lot from,You.👍👍🥇

[@SkemmiesGaming]

The thing is these videos don't work with me. Personally because i'm 100% submissive. These guides are more for dominant men who want submissive girls & not the other way around. Because why would they? There's more marketing for dominant men because the majority of men are dominant & the majority of girls are submissive. I don't think this will work mainly because of that reason. I also i'm not searching for a girl to be in bed with me & searching for a deep emotional connection rather than having any girl at my fingertips. going to therapy actually has taught me one thing. It's to stay yourself no matter what. Don't excuse yourself for being whom you are. Because that's a turn off for everyone. If a girl came up to you and constantly was excusing herself to you she'd also be rejected because of how you felt. Generally having a good time means, being good to yourself. So don't apologize for something that isn't your fault just be who you are and the right girl will accept that more than you who are playing them. Oh and one more thing, girls,men we're all human. We have different bodies but we feel the same. Just when you're talking to a girl/woman treat her as if they were your gaming buddy or your male friends for that matter. Y'know a true friend basically without pushing her boundaries like spending money because she's a girl. because that's what most girls find actually annoying/creepy just always rephrase the question to yourself; If i was her and i was going to pay money to pay off her education would i even accept this guys money based on that? No you wouldn't. Or yes you would but you'd try and break contact. Because it's just a super awkward moment.

[@aceshigh235]

That’s BS. There are “bad emotions”. A “Bad emotion” is every single emotion you feel that is BS, wrong or not appropriate. An emotion of love that is inappropriate is not good and is actually bad - regardless of the reaction. Stop trying to hedge. All people feel emotions, some of these like those acted on by a pedophile are just wrong. A spouse that opts to gut a marriage because the Life they live is not the fantasy they covet is actually wrong. NO wrong in every sense of the meaning and as much as you will resist you will pay. Deny as you wish, you pay. Sad part is as you selfishly advance through your blatantly obvious-to-anyone-else learning curve you devastate your children. Yeah, I know you don’t see it. If your beaten, go. If your ACTUALLY abused then yes leave. If your bored or find it hard or want the best life you see on the internet - then sit and shut.

[@ArsonHQ]

Some people can be both helpful and vunerable over at the same time, some aren't and are not scared to Socialize and Communicate not just Speak, Chat, and Talk plus Discussingly Conversate amongst eachother in the community and/or-elsewhere...But they still feel Hestitate because they don't have much in common with eachother except for only up to a certain extent and point, so they struggle to ask if they could actually get a picture together during a party occassion of any kind of type of sort of sorts...Or they sometimes even feel that there's a risk of getting turned down and disapproved of such as Rejected in some shape or form of way by maybe even one of his or her best friends or biological family members colleagues at an occassion...Yeah, all really very common things that people can actually and strongly Relate too but there's also a lot and tons of other different actual ways and ideas and not to also mention personal thoughts too on how to actually openly Express Ourselves even as Humans and People but more than most likely individuals.!!!! In general of course that is, I mean isn't always neccessarily that easy for me I usually generally tend to listen to music songs of certain general specifics.!!!!!! A lot of of us have had bad and good experiences at the same time in recent years and months not just weeks but based up from the feeling and emotions plus even thoughts and memories, well we can prepare up for the next time and think of ways and ideas on how to find ways to convince people to make us feel included rather than actually turning them down fully completely inconsiderately.!!!!!!!! Although nowadays there's with ways and ideas and also a very well improved based mindset, this will also help to improve relationships and friendships plus help us to find more legitimate and good rather than alright, fine, and okay reasons to get what we want since other humans deserve to be treated like everybody and everyone else around them equally...Sometimes there's nothing wrong with being different, but it doesn't have to be like that each and every single time, people should all be treated the same although there's a lot of people who don't and they're usually the onesided jackasses and jerks that everybody hates...I have Autism and is an only child, but the Thoughtful and Right People will come around.!!!!! I've actually been coming across lots of friendly ones lately which is thoughtful.

[@ZacharyHuff585]

Do beards count as a turn on?

[@SebastianBeresniewicz]

I think emotional stability is really important but is this video, 4:09, a cop-out for woman? Allowing them to avoid emotional control? Its hard work but I have a hard time believing that women in general cannot do it.

[@marnikinrys]

Never a cop out for women. Women should be held to the same standards. We can't be nutso and expect men to just take it.

[@oif3vetk9]

@@marnikinrys you mind telling my wife that? She's nuts.

[@RedRoyce]

I was at a dance club and this girl was having guy after guy going up to her and she didn't go with anyone of them. She was hot and I am just an avg guy. I told my friend watch this. I walked over to her and told her I was watching you and seen no one was coming over to talk to you so felt sorry for you and thought I would come and give you a little attention as I'm sure you could use it. she jumped out of her seat and danced with me and we had a few more dances then got her number. She was into the girls night out but didn't want guys to bug her. This one is a little harder because of that plus you got to get through her friends to get to her. Play it right and your golden. I've been turned down more times then I remember but you have to understand 7 to 8 girls out of 10 you go up to don't want get with a man for many reasons. Just say ok I get it that's fine thanks and move on or say fine maybe another time if I ever see you again have a good night with your friends. You could add something cocky but funny teasing her with a little smile and walk away. It's a numbers thing and they really aren't turning you down most of the time they just not ready for you. Cool next; not oh no I'm rejected NEVER feel that way. You don't know she may have just came out of a bad relationship. It's never personal for you never. Good luck guys it's hard at first but in just a few weeks you will be really good at meeting amazing women you thought was never in your league but they are if you can cause attraction for them to you. 99% of the guys walk up and say your so pretty or something like that. Don't do that you have to stand out from all those other guys. I haven't taken her course but I'm sure she has some really good information so it may be a good investment in yourself. Just saying I've watched a few of her videos and she is spot on.

[@iveritnet]

Married 28-years and she can say whatever nasty sarcasm she wants….. and I choose to NOT just live with it and tell her so !!!! And a mess ensues… Men can be just as emotionally wired as women.

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

Truth.. you girls need some help. And all this is supposed to be more for us to untangle? What's next how to slip the proper Micky when she doesn't put out?

[@hyphydan]

Not in my experience. Women told me they like passionate Men, the passionate Men who get angry , controlling, abusive, etc... Marni, you are selling lies.

[@KeroZimerman]

Being nervous and not trying to suppress it while approaching women with confidence sounds like a contradiction. Desensitization seems like a proper solution; i. e. approach many attractive women and receive rejections until you just get used to it and stop being nervous.

[@robbybobby4253]

This was impressive and helpful advice. Thank you!

[@chrisloy1736]

I'm sorry but your emotions make "you" as you and "if" the lady in question didn't like you because of who you are naturally then move on, NEVER EVER change yourself for Anyone.

[@HunkyMan777]

You will stay single a long time

[@DirtnapJack]

The ladies love a man with emotional control…. When he is 6’3”, has abs and money.

[@JeffFox-j8d]

If u want to change even one thing... About someone... Then find someone else... U can't tell someone that they love you...

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

Anyone know what a grudgefuck is? Yeah...we can pound out all the emotions and fly..

[@tapthevein2000]

Very good advice, Marni!❤🎉

[@Dracolich001]

Thanks for covering this topic!

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Defenley thank you covering this topic

[@martinquinn6257]

Think & DO & Talk & Do likely to have innate emotional control in a complementary relationship. Think & Be, Talk & Be likely to be “all over the place !.?

[@JeffFox-j8d]

So.. if he's an ass... Or if he makes you feel something ur all in.. Maybe... Start looking at the guy that lets u be u... And like it...

[@ikawpipa]

Should men wear dress and spaghetti straps and avoid being labeled as toxic masculinity?

[@josetrevino4975]

Great keep rocking, good e

[@mikhailabdurrachman2443]

Even If YOU got masculine behavior / personality, girls STILL gonna sees you ONLY as a third round draft pick If YOU short and dirt poor -taylor the fiend

[@sleepinglionarchives]

Will you marry me? Thanks for the tips

[@mikhailabdurrachman2443]

IF you a short and broke dude, then forget about it 😁✌️

[@JeffFox-j8d]

I can be the the man... But I need to know that she wants me... If she's not happy or in to it.. then I don't want her... Hot not whatever... Her wanting me an enjoying it is what makes me nuts...

[@TonytheCat9]

just be yourself. If she doesn't appreciate you, she's not worth it.

[@yardknight4953]

Great uploader. I still gotta stay I never imagined a day would come when I'd add one of your videos to my favourites and here it is.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Yes it is

[@TheBuldog2000]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍💐😃

[@Ezilla82]

Huh, so that's what emotional control is....groovy. Thanks Marni for those tidbits of information.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

WhyThis one Masculine habit drives a women wild ?

[@SANJ0288]

We need more channels like this teaching women what men want taught by a man and have many successes men that woman desire conveying the information.

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

I have no idea what you are trying to convey? Teaching women what men want to be taught by a man? I didn't hear anything about a woman being schooled at all. They get the bitchoves award for life

[@jethrotull2142]

"Action NOT reaction is what should impel you........." So true in fact the few unspoken words that make more sense than anything else.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Okay

[@micahthompson3762]

It's not only women who appreciate and respect a man for being logical and steady in all situations.

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

Its not ... oh then who? Cause I am lost

[@lesliedsouza4077]

Aw yair. Listen to Marni. Become a Winner :) Hey Marni. Next show, teach 'em How to Get Her to Sign a Pre-Nup :)'

[@onlinepole]

Accept your emotions just don’t be captive to them

[@light____]

oh yeahhhh

[@marcob5549]

Stoic philosophers would agree. Thanks.

[@cashhumphrey3014]

Well I am a type 1 one bipolar....... Shame. Guess I ugly forever.

[@greenshield1]

This is why opening up to your woman is a horrible idea.

[@rainzoomm]

If you’re tall, and in shape, women can careless about emotional maturity, you already got one foot in her door!

[@tbryant024]

Right, but in the end, that guy that you describe can't keep a quality woman. And if somehow manages to, the chances of an unhappy marriage is very high, and you know the rest.

[@mikhailabdurrachman2443]

IF You handsome and Rich then it WILL be easy for you to Snatch the baddies 😎

[@pepepez6335]

Emotional control is for when you are in a relationship. Being tall and good looking is not going to keep a woman. It may attract her at first but it's not enough to keep her long term.

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

Just become a rockstar. You knock em dead always 😂😂😂😂

[@rmelnyk3986]

❤

[@ALFORDACRESFARM]

If you cry , your wife will be with a new guy

[@leeerickson1713]

How do you get a younger woman to get interested in you

[@aminemaravalo31]

So pretty ❤❤

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

She alright..

[@allensams1773]

It's Kill Spiders, right?

[@backyardrailroader]

Not sure this is emotional control or not. An answer from anyone would be welcome: I was at this Tango dance class learning this supposedly simple 8 step dance move. At first, I was doing it, but as the hour long lesson continued, I lost it and was doing it in reverse. The instructor came up and said so. I was not happy, for it is something I do all too frequently. I went back and was doing the dance move the right way, but just could not get it at all. Got frustrated. I totally lost it. After the lesson, I told that instructor that I lost it and could not get it at the end. She offered to dance a song doing it....basically a free lesson. I backed off, saying no, I am too frustrated at me messing up. She took a step back with a REALLY? look on her face. Afterwards there was a 3 hour dance after the class. It took me an hour of dancing to get over me screwing up the lesson. The second hour I felt better before I left.

[@philwestmoreland8127]

The biggest take away for me is to let it flow, embrace the suck, and take a deep breath. It works for me in every, and I do mean every, situation.

[@scottshields1965]

Lèt Don't, Spammer!

[@rmelnyk3986]

You can always tell a narcissistic person, everything is all about them.

[@davidmckenzie3398]

Marni I'll be your saviour, Steadfast and true. I'll come to your emotional rescue....🙃🙂😉

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

😂😂😂😂.. uh.....yeh bruh

[@TwistedLiquid]

Whether she is correct or not, this is boring af.

[@Doodlefisher]

Shamed 🤔 your onto something

[@trebledc]

In short just relax she just a human too.

[@Mattygarciaxl]

I mean I was kinda lost on the whole vid lol . I kinda get the gist of it

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

My uncle told me when i was 10. He said boy you cant trust something that will bleed a week straight and not die on you .. i have no idea what he referring to 😅😊❤😂😂🎉

[@TonytheCat9]

surprise, doesn't work.

[@howarddodge772]

you can be my wing girl

[@johnpaulmcinvaille303]

I agree. But I'm not going to be mr calm while she can just be the emotional actor. I will walk away

[@gigantor56]

Meditation focuses on the breath. I've found I cry much easier as I've gotten older.

[@joo1311]

For those who need a biological explanation for why breathing helps (I know I did!), and maybe someone who studied in biology can confirm this, but I've been told that it all has to do with the adrenal glands on top of our kidneys. When we are stressed, we have a tendency to take shorter breaths in our upper chest while when we are relaxed, we tend to take longer breaths lower into our bellies. A deeper, lower breath pushes our internal organs down, which in turn press on the adrenal glands, giving them a kind of "massage". When the adrenal glands stop getting this massage (ie, when we breathe through our upper torso because we're stressed), they start producing adrenaline. By forcing ourselves to take deeper and longer breaths, we massage the adrenal glands, tricking them into "thinking" that nothing's wrong, so they stop producing adrenaline, helping us become calmer in the process. As I've said, this is what I've been told (by my psychiatrist at the time), so maybe someone with a background in anatomy can confirm or correct this.

[@funkyboodah]

none of these helped at all

[@jeffgustafson4552]

The breathing tips are great. As a wedding officiant that simple breathing skill has really helped with my nerves.

[@howarddodge772]

your pretty marni

[@שמעון-ק2ח]

Presence or presents? What you said near the end.