If you want your kids to listen to you, do this

[@livjowen]

My favorite piece of advice I’ve ever received is, Say what you mean and mean what you say. It’s so simple, yet SO effective. 🤯 If I give an instruction that I know I won’t or can’t follow through with, I’m basically teaching my kids that I don’t really mean it when I tell them to do something. Which means I will have to give the same instructions over and over, and they won’t listen to me. 😩 I don’t know about you, but I don’t have the time for that! Or the patience, like, let’s be real 😅 so I think before I speak! 🙂

[@RobertYoung-lt5ls]

Let your yes be yes and your no be no.

[@illybudapesti]

@livjowen You are a blessing to our family, thank you for everything. SUGGESTION: Would you please make a short on how you deal with night wakings? Especially if small children share a room and they wake each other up?

[@bernadetteduran528]

I’m sorry this is off topic but can I have that soup recipe?

[@kristinchappell6677]

Same with consequences! If you can't follow through with a consequence, it should not even be one that is presented to the child. For example, if your child is throwing a fit in a store, and you threaten to leave them there, you can't actually follow through with that, so it shouldn't even be something you say you will do. And if you ask a yes or no question of your kid, be prepared for either answer. You can't ask them if they want to get in the car to go wherever you're going, if it isn't an option to leave them. You have to state that it's time to get in the car.

[@bodyofhope]

That's a Biblical truth! "Let your yes be yes, and your no be no." -Jesus

[@oliviacastro408]

I'm not a parent, but I am the middle child. My oldest brother practically raised us since our parents were very neglectful. I am an autistic kid with adhd and dyslexia which made it hard for me to be in loud or beight places, it also made school unbearable, and so when we'd go out to places my brother made sure to bring everything I'd need with him in his bag. My parents would get angry with me, try to order me around or say I was embarrassing them, especially if it was in front of their friends or family members we didn't see often. My brother would place me down on a seat that was out of the way, put my soundproof headphones on, give me my sunglasses that cover my glasses, and then hand me something to fidget with whether that be some type of textured toy/puzzle, or a device to play on. My oldest brother was the best growing up, he sacrificed a lot for me and my younger brother, and the thing that really gets me was the my siblings and I are all 3 years apart. He did the best he could with little to no help, and when I get older I want to be able to thank him in any way I can.

[@katrina3560]

I am sorry your parents weren't up to par, but the way you speak of your older brother is precious. I am glad that you had each other to navigate your neglectful childhood. ❤

[@rabiyatahir4851]

I am glad that you have your older brother to help you out in difficult situations. Cherish him forever.

[@frytiawesterbeek6322]

What an amazing brother. THANK YOU sir for looking out for your siblings in this loving and caring way.❤

[@priskruger314]

It's amazing how he figured out all the things to help you with! I for sure am taking notes here as they can help out w neurotypical kids as well!

[@charmc4152]

Show him the comment you wrote here. It is a wonderful tribute. I'm glad he was able to understand what you needed and be there for you.

[@bugg_bytes]

As a person raised with the mantra "stop crying before i give you something to cry about" i am so very very happy you give your child the space to feel through their emotions

[@kara5046]

Well that is an instruction you can follow through with so it’ll work too

[@bugg_bytes]

@@kara5046 true but now i have ✨trauma✨

[@-nellie-m3711]

@@bugg_bytesOh Please, what do you call trauma, were you abused as a child or did you just get a smack on the bum for being naughty, my children weren’t traumatised from a tap on the bum when they were naughty growing up and now they’re Respectful Adults and it never traumatised me either growing up in the 60’s, not that myself or my children often needed to be smacked, I just had to give them the Look and they knew they’d done wrong…This generation have no idea of parenting skills other than posting their children on social media for strangers to watch…and don’t come back telling me she’s making memories for her children because I have a million memories of my children growing up without having to exploit them to the internet..

[@valeriea9779]

Yep I get that, what to do go to your room and cry a long in private can't get mad at you if they don't see you doing it quite lee.

[@CharleyA73]

@@-nellie-m3711Hi there. I’ve been researching trauma for several years now. Trauma is actually defined as an experience or event that is a) frightening, upsetting, stressful, and b) out of our control, where we feel helpless to stop it. When kids - especially very young kids - are upset, they are incapable of just figuring it out or sucking it up. They don’t yet have the ability to regulate their emotions, which is why they require a parent or guardian to teach them how to regulate. Once they’ve learned this, they can grow into an emotionally functional adult. If a distressed child instead sees that their distress makes their parent angry, exasperated, cold etc., they learn that expressing negative emotion is a bad thing. Whether they’re explicitly told so or not, the child learns to repress their sadness and anger, and this will follow them for the rest of their life (or at least until they realise and get therapy). Trauma doesn’t need to be physical violence. Trauma can be neglect, even emotional neglect. By dismissing these experiences, you are recreating the exact same scenario that caused the trauma in the first place.

[@amy010276]

That is good advice. It's like that old saying you can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink.

[@phoenixturtle9736]

This is so strange lol, I just saw someone say this exact saying in the comments of the last video I just watched

[@bethedoG...gohome]

​@@phoenixturtle9736You might want to pray about that ... ask Jesus what He's trying to tell you. He might be calling you to learn something about yourself or others.

[@annabelmiller8]

"you can lead a tot to potty but you can't make him pee". That's my version of the saying now as a mom of 4.

[@JeromeGardiner]

Years ago, my grandson (about 6 in age) was brought to my home to keep him over night. He was so attached to his dad, my son, so he cried and cried. I made my son leave while reassuring him that his son would be OK. After the dad left, I took my grandson to a bed room and acknowledge how sad it was that his dad had to leave. I told him to go ahead and cry all he wanted, and when he was finished crying, we would take him for a Pizza. I walked to the living room and about 3 minutes later he told us he was finished crying, and he was ready to go. To reinforce what I did, I later told him that he would probably forget all about being sad after he had a chance to play the video games at the Pizza Parlor.

[@considerthebirds]

A hug and holding them while they cry isn’t easier and creates actual connection?

[@jenifernadeau]

It's likely that there's some sort of trauma or neglect happening, if a child needs to clingso intensely I've observed, through all my own healing from covert parental behaviors, and all my training as a speech therapist, Working with 0 to three year olds, studying psychology and neurology,as well as connecting with Medical intuitives.. ... that parents often want to make sure the child cannot live without them..infantilize them( because of their own inner child wounding and neglect that they haven't healed from) and subconsciously wants their child to be dependent on them and they do all sorts of unconscious covert stuff behind the scenes To create that Trauma bond😢 I've also noticed that one parent will attract into their life, another person that appears "worse than them "so that makes them look like the good parent, because of their own insecurities and lack of self-worth... However the worst issues are the ones that are not seen.. the emotional wounding from childhood that manifest in unhealthy ways that get passed on to the children.

[@am3thysts]

@@jenifernadeau I’m not arguing against you about the trauma or neglect thing… but it definitely doesn’t have to be that way. My cousin would cry every time his mom wasn’t in the room and go look for her, yet we know there wasn’t any neglect or trauma, he was just afraid of being with other people without her. Scary people he doesn’t know!! If mom takes care of me and she isn’t here, how will I be taken cared of?! 😅 He did this for a couple years when he was around 3-5, but he got over it with some healthy separation.

[@Katie-hr8xw]

As someone who had severe separation anxiety with my mom growing up I appreciate this so much. When I was taken places to stay I often would be too scared to cry and would wait until bedtime to cry. I appreciate you.

[@sylvanafow1340]

​@@Katie-hr8xwit's so heartbreaking to read this. I hope all those wounds are healed now.

[@rosie20098]

This is great! To build off of this, know when something is/isnt an option. If a child doesnt actually have a choice to say no do not present it as a question. Example:can you put on your shoes? Will you sit down? Present these as an instruction: its time to leave, put on your shoes. We're at the dinner table, please sit down

[@abigail.sullivan]

My dad used to do this all the time. He’d always say things like “hey do you want to do the dishes?” then get mad at me when I’d say no. If there is no choice don’t treat it like there is, it just confuses and frustrates kids.

[@ryanmackenzie6109]

Even better if you _can_ make them an option!! "Which pair of shoes would you like to wear?" "Which chair do you want to sit in for dinner?" Giving autonomy to kids where you can is really, really good fr their development. But absolutely, it needs to be an actual choice, not just polite phrasing. That'll get them all mixed up

[@fairygrl999]

@@ryanmackenzie6109yesss or even something like "which sock do you want to put on first", there are tons of ways to still give kids choices and autonomy without it being a yes/no thing

[@tshegofatsothegreat]

That makes a lot of sense, I am going to use that.

[@gariden]

@@abigail.sullivanmy dad has never stopped doing this. i can’t think of any examples off the top of my head but it transcends house chores now my brother and i are adults. it’s so frustrating. if you want something, actually ask for that thing. please.

[@allyenderman1502]

As someone who has become an officially-unofficial step-dad to three autistic young'uns (16, 14, and 5 years old) who just got out of an incredibly abusive situation involving their birth dad, this advice means a hell of a lot. I wasn't technically ready for three kids, but I guess that's changing and I gotta learn.

[@electricbop]

Parenting autistic children is a whole other horse. Look into learning more about autism and sensory issues. Follow autistic adults for advice. A good channel here on KZbin is one called I’m Autistic, Now What?

[@allyenderman1502]

@@electricbop here's the thing: I'm also autistic and very versed in that part at least. The problem is the fact that I never thought I would be in this situation and am WOEFULLY unprepared for it.

[@tsuki3752]

it’s great that even though you’re unprepared it sounds like you’re still doing it lol. i wouldn’t necessarily blame you for stepping out of that situation (bc it’s reasonable to not want kids) but i think it’s great you’re following through with it.

[@allyenderman1502]

@@tsuki3752 I had never wanted kids to begin with, and I won't lie and say it's not stressful as hell and that I haven't had a few mental breaks over it in the past month or so, but I'm definitely not going to dip on them, or take my stress out on them. They deserve better than that. Plus the five year old called me "dad" for the first time the other day and I almost started crying, so there's that.

[@aprilmayfit]

@@allyenderman1502I’m rooting for you and believe in you! Cheers to being a wonderful person and fantastic father figure.

[@NehaYadav-lr5ul]

Dang. Mom of 7, you look so young and well in shape! Good for you, mama!❤

[@oldpathshomeschool]

Amen! Mom of six here. Been applying (and sharing) this advice for over 20 yrs. It absolutely prevents so many problems. And the best part? Your kids learn that they can trust you.

[@Awntry]

My dad was having a rough time when I was growing up and it affected the way he communicated with me. When I couldn't stop crying, he kept pushing me to. I ended up dissociating and didn't realize it's a bad thing until I'm an adult . I thought it's a neat trick I can randomly trigger to have control when I'm overwhelmed I love my dad. He wasn't perfect but he was there for me a lot and he gave the best hugs. I'm glad you're trying to do your part to help good parents who are struggling a little to do what they want to, be good parents

[@XOChristianaNicole]

That is EXACTLY how I felt, also. Nice to read someone relating to that, specific, kind of trigger. Turns out, I am autistic, and borderline, with DID/maladaptive daydreams. Though, I was raised in a family with both diagnosed and (very obvious, yet) undiagnosed narcissistic personality disorder. Ironically, the person diagnosed treated me better than the undiagnosed. Though, I have no clue what it feels like to hug my mother, and not feel sick. Or have her support me - without trying to sabotage me (allegedly, imo and whatever). I’ve even watched parents lovingly hug their children and think “I wonder what that feels like?” That’s wonderful you have that memory to cherish, of your dad. I really like these tricks, in the video. Though, more than anything - I appreciate the effort in learning how to be a better parent.

[@petals111]

​@@XOChristianaNicole I really relate to this a lot. I'm so sorry that you've had narcs in your family too.. it's hell living with them. Regarding the part about undiagnosed vs diagnosed narcs - the narcissist who is willing to get diagnosed is actually okay with them having a personality disorder (though they may never change), while the one who's unwilling to do so doesn't want to admit that there is a problem in the first place.

[@Honeybadgerrs]

As a child of 7, I’d like to mention, “is this beneficial for the child or is it just to make things easier for me?” Be aware that children lack a lot of “downtime” per se when school comes around. Routine, chores, and helping out is great but requiring a lot mentally and physically of your child is unfair and can cause a ton of anxiety and overwhelm. They are people too. adults are there to guide not control. Kids have autonomy. And it’s okay to apologize when you’re wrong. They need to know we also don’t know a lot at the end of the day. We’re all in this together. Never underestimate what you can learn from kids no matter the age. None of us are perfect and we’re all learning forever lol

[@kaliknakmuhs]

as a preschool teacher, this is such good advice! with a class full of three year olds it can be hard... but I will keep this in mind! great advice!!!

[@viktoriavak4117]

Working at a preschool is where you’ll become a pro in this area Everybody will be wondering what you’re doing Because you’ll have listening ears amazing kids ❤

[@buntzy2]

Remember they need choices....example: it's time to put on your shoes. Child doesn't want to do it. So the 2 choices are: either Emma puts them on or mommy/ teacher puts them on. 2 choices, works like magic. A bit of autonomy, but the same result in the end.

[@KouzyFox]

I feel this as a project manager for adults as well. Great advice 🎉

[@ross8036]

Thank you Thank you Thank you I’m a single dad and I’ve really been struggling lately. I needed to be reminded this

[@theTrend7]

I wish you all the best,sorry that you have to go it alone. Hope that you find ways of taking care of yourself also while raising your family.

[@Micaela-io1if]

I don't have a child, I'm just going to use this with myself when I'm being stubborn lol

[@Ness-nq2mo]

😂

[@luisxvgenovese1736]

Just like Pipi-Longstockings 😂

[@ASMRSimpli]

😂

[@madelinesummers5471]

That goes for saying no as well. I worked with kids who would always ask me multiple times the same question and if they didn’t like the answer, they would keep asking. It’s a hard lesson for a child to learn good boundaries if other adults have to teach your children, the meaning of the word no then you are not gonna make life easier for your child when they work with other kids, people, or as adults

[@juchwingelbroilo]

I've been experimenting some of this channel pieces of adive with my students (2 and 4 y old kids), and every time it works I feel thankful that this great woman is making this spread over internet. It makes me feel so hopeful about education somehow!

[@collettewalker2923]

I’m normally annoyed by people giving parenting tips.. not because I can’t accept advice but because their delivery is wack making it seem like they know all the right ways and everything else is wrong, but this, love the delivery AND this is how we run our house and is so accurate. Consistency is key with kids

[@ZenzeraBellaAnna]

This is healing my inner child. It’s literally the first time I ever heard this.

[@cherrylebee4229]

This is such good advise. My mom told me the same thing. I have a 3 year old and a 20 month old.At one point I was so tired that I found myself doing exactly the opposite of this. I was to exhausted physically and emotionally to follow through. I was just telling my 3 year old to do things without the follow through snd she wasn't listening.😢So now I am just very careful with what I say and things have changed a lot. Thank you for sharing your advice and experience. Being a mom is so much harder than I ever expected but I wouldn't trade it for anything!❤

[@jodiwolf4944]

Great Advice!! I have no Littles, BUT I was a teacher and I used this daily!!

[@museobettywhatley8705]

You are glowing. 7 kids! Wow, you remind me of my mom😊

[@thepracticalchristianhealed]

This is so BASIC and yet many of us haven’t realized the differences in practice, either with our parents or us being parents 🙏 God bless us all

[@lauraletkeman6303]

That sounds like Growing Kids God’s Way series!! 👌🏼 Love that saying.

[@joannestark3023]

I can get behind this. Listen and obey are two different things. Some kids take a little longer to process what’s being asked of them so I’ve always hated that listen has been ingrained in our brain to mean obey when they don’t mean the same thing. And yes to not giving them an instruction that we can't follow through with ourselves when we’re in a similar situation. Correct you can't make a child sleep.

[@NailsBySue]

Totally agree. Also , Think before you say No , so you can stick to it.

[@blessedbookworm]

I have been struggling to get my 4 and 2 year olds to listen to me… I needed to hear this, thank you so much!

[@azhotmom]

I only have four kids, but this IS TRUTH 💯%

[@pentairscookbook2427]

You are a blessing to all new mom’s out there. Thank you so much for helping me understand and learn parenting in true sense. ❤

[@Sewcial_Mayhem]

My grandparents raised my brothers and me. My Granny would have loved you! She always said what she meant and if she promised a consequence you can bet she would follow through.

[@ToriE1073]

I am a mom with two amazing grown children, a nanny and I taught preschool and this was my golden rule. Cannot stress the importance of this enough.

[@shel8106]

You are a great Mom! Thank you for sharing your wisdom! 😊

[@nanastrippin2006]

Following through is the best advice. Also don't throw around empty threats, yell or raise your voice, ya gotta stay calm. Love your videos 👍

[@shel8106]

That is ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!

[@Musharraf_Bazarova]

I wish I could speak English like you. I love, love this language. ❤❤

[@Joyann1523]

Did not know I needed to hear this! Really needed it! God bless you.

[@wendy8561]

This is the best advice I've ever received for my grandchildren

[@darleneevans1664]

We just became empty nesters and I must say I enjoy your videos!!! I thought I was a really good & patient mom….. but you get that 🥇from me. Your house is always so organized and the kids be being kids and I 💙 it!!!

[@lisaaexander]

I just love this lady keep up the good work God bless you

[@alicemcpherson7961]

Perfect!!! You are an amazing Mom ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Little ones need simple clarity and consistency and love ❤️

[@AmaranthineIntrigue]

How can you be a mom of 7 at no more than 25 years old? You look amazing! This is the best advice, I learned this very quickly after comparing my own experience in childcare and my childhood.

[@kefayathussain8955]

You are the amazing mom that’s why you understand what’s best for kid.🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲,

[@concernedkid3262]

thanks for the simple and practical wisdom!❤

[@stajia4694]

As a 21 year old new mom here thanks for this tip!! And the comments too, this makes so much sense. It’s important not to confuse our kids:)

[@isabellalockwood5858]

YESSXSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! always FOLLOW THROUGH. I always say this to people with unruely kids cause they say something a million times but don't follow through and make them stop if words aren't working.

[@laurenturner3578]

I was given that exact same piece of advice that helps me every day with my seven!!!!

[@tamaramcmullen2506]

This is exactly what the world needs, not just kids. Yes you are without a doubt right. That gose for promises to.

[@Squishmallowfan-ky8pl]

You’re such a good mom

[@leahv.2537]

This is the most genius advice I've ever heard! I'll remember that for if I ever become a parent 😊❤

[@JadeHostetler]

This is so right .your kids are so lucky to have an amazing mom like you ❤

[@joyfulhomemaker8053]

THIS! Yes! Absolutely! As well as say what you mean w discipline! Never give your child an “empty threat”. If you give them warning about a behavior, tell them the consequence and then follow thru w it… even if you decide halfway thru that it isn’t worth the hassle. Follow thru this time and you will continue learning how to pick your battles

[@bellbottomblues131]

AAAAAMAZING!!! GREAT ADVICE!!!!

[@JennyLouRN]

That’s the best advice I ever got from my 80 year old mother-in-law too! My children are grown now (it happened all the sudden!), but I always tell people about this great advice I received! You are SUCH a smart mom!!!

[@aishajalilansari]

I don’t know how but all the things that you do and advise, I already do it with my toddler (minus CIO). I guess my parents raised me like you are raising your kids. And every time someone praises you, I feel good about myself and my parents. 😊

[@ChSasifras]

I'm going to remember this. Even as a kid, I hated naps because I couldn't fall asleep. And I remember my mom coming in to check if I was asleep fifteen minutes after she got me into bed by turning the light on. I can sleep with a light on because of this but the problem has always been falling asleep.

[@sonjakrsmanovic4470]

Lovely courageous beautiful soul I ADMIRE you soooooo much I had trouble raising two because both were wanting my attention at the same time and that was difficult you are doing a remarkable job they will be kind caring loving people just like you are ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@The_Azrah_Shah]

You are absolutely amazing… you are so patient and great at being a mom your graceful.… I wish I could be atleast 20% of you in my life ❤

[@viktoriavak4117]

This way your words are meaningful, valuable, and we know Mama means business Nothing is going to happen until we do what she’s asking lol The respect you have from them children is beautiful Also, worked very well working at a preschool . The kids didn’t struggle with listening ears with me.

[@ruthkinney8525]

This makes so much sense! It is sensible cognitively, psychologically and emotionally. Growing up in a family where there was some... dissonance, I need this advise! Thank you!!

[@mayssamhadhbi8897]

I was just watching that video its so heartwarming

[@nisargjoshi4816]

Excellent advice!

[@sheryl7638]

Very wise counsel . And I hope the place they can cry is in your loving comforting arms ❤

[@jgibbs6159]

Mom of 7 - that says it all, and.... you look so young, smart, and balanced - lucky family to have you.

[@cheridamico9211]

Thanks for sharing this video. As a mother of 3 (who followed this same parenting advice) and a retired special education teacher, I wish all parents could honor their little humans with this advice. They have feelings and emotions just like adults but their brains are still developing and they don’t yet have the emotional capacity to deal with all their emotions. Parents are their children’s first teachers. Teach them with love, guidance, and respect. Again, great advice and thanks for sharing!

[@TriggerTrue]

Yeah but can I have a soup recipe, that looks amazing!

[@AimeeMarsh-m5y]

Words matter. Very wise!

[@ruthiemuqatach5942]

YES! I am a Sunday school teacher, this applies to teachers as well.

[@ostclanadventures]

This is Parenting with Love and logic 🙌🙌🙌🔥

[@BrooklynNOTfromNY]

Shout-out to the daughter helping in the kitchen AND doing a good job it. You go girl! 💪🏾 Also, thank you for the advice. You've gained a subscriber of me 😊.

[@PiousLinguist]

God bless you. You look and are doing amazing mama!

[@jessIe76468]

A supermum ❤ admire you!!!

[@alytsao9476]

I love this ❤

[@oogg2914]

❤Mom, if i may say, you are really tough. I'm proud of you, mom to 💚💙💜🩵🩷🧡💛, strong and beautiful, with self-confidence and uncompromising educational ability. Go mom, go 😊 Bless u all 🙏💕🙏

[@JulianaAndersson]

Brilliant! Thank you!

[@JimFortune]

Sounds like something I heard in Marine Corps boot camp.

[@louisababe4078]

Thanks for this...I heard you loud & clear. I'm definitely going to start using this

[@nicowood7831]

Hello. Thank you for this. I have 2yr old & currently in my first trimester for the next... and I am strugglinggg trying to like communicate and follow through. I literally needed this. ❤

[@cookiesryummeh]

I am an elementary school teacher and this advice is helpful for giving instructions to young students! Thank you!

[@josephcook7026]

Thank you for doing this

[@nuria4052]

Olivia, don't pay attention to what others tell you, you are doing very well and I think I am not the only person who admires you deeply, I had children too young and I didn't know how to do it better, but I assure you that your methods of throwing tantrums , laziness and other natural things of children, you know how to handle them very well, and that is why you are the best for me. Love from Spain to you and your wonderful family, Congratulations ❤❤

[@rachel3682]

CPS would definitely pay attention when it comes to her not watching her child with a knife😂

[@sarwatzahid5935]

Lovely Lovely piece of advice and it is a 💯 percent fact.

[@MistressBella1533]

On the same vein, I don't threaten punishments that I'm not going to follow through with. It's a common thing to say- put on your shoes or we're not going anywhere. It's meant to scare the kid but in reality you'd never follow through with that. Also, whe you say you're going to give a consequence, actually do it. If you keep saying "if you do that onie more time..." the kid is just going to get more agitated. Instead tell them not to do something once, tell them what the consequence for not listening is, and immediately follow through when they brake that rule. Of course if you have a toddler/preschooler this will have to be repeated

[@DianaHawkins-rz8nd]

A mom of seven… OMG, you look amazing. I thought you were a teenager yourself. Keep up the good work. Seven looks good on you. 🥰

[@djaxx587]

Oh man I hope to find a wife like you someday. A good mom, dedicated to your goals and beautiful.

[@gabriellahsdancingheart8808]

Makes a lot of sense! How we phrase things really does matter.

[@TrashBunBun]

Healthy parenting I wish I had growing up, instead of threats of "Being given something to cry about."

[@aprildawn82]

Great advice! It has to be something that they're actually capable of doing and something that you're capable of punishing if not followed through with.

[@jacobgibson9814]

Excellent advice. Ill take that to heart

[@loralou4]

Love this! Also, that soup looks amazing 😍

[@genahill4548]

Love this!

[@oOIIIMIIIOo]

When my children cry/cried I hug/ged them. They still can come crying as adults. 🙂

[@nevarah2133]

girl u look so good after 7 kids!!

[@sonjakrsmanovic4470]

I am sending you the biggest hug ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@heathermoler2918]

I hope you know you are the best I just love your videos.

[@laurarivera3512]

A good mom ❤

[@zaineamir1108]

Dear you are perfect 👍 mother in the world i thing ❤you done great job... I have 4kids some time I fell 😢..

[@evangelinemcdermott2053]

I love your way ❤❤❤

[@Cassiopaeia]

The second one. "I cannot physically stop my child from crying." is something my parents should learn. Like of course the child is crying because of pain. What do you want them to do? Suddenly stop crying?

[@Doesch]

Thank you!

[@maxxyymax]

Me watching this and remembering the time my mom actually made me stop crying,oh the chronicles of having strict parents, wouldn't change it for the world though 😂❤

[@namaste_charlei]

Back then they even gave us choices... Stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about. 😅