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[@daveh9803]

The red flags you ignore at the beginning will almost always be the reason it ends, later on.

[@Speshulsawce]

This is very true. Going through it now

[@polarantidote]

spot on

[@user-tu7rr1zg4b]

​@Jacob Bassett how? I just started dating a girl that has male friends Details please

[@Speshulsawce]

@@user-tu7rr1zg4b you better tell her that if she wants you to take her seriously, then she needs to drop the male friends completely. Otherwise you will not commit. They are not her friends, they would smash at any opportunity

[@user-tu7rr1zg4b]

@@Speshulsawce thank you for the advise ill her ass when I see her

[@dedricklane4899]

I’ve had female friends drop me because they didn’t want to disrespect their man and I could only respect it.

[@brokenbutterfly3178]

Lol

[@JJ-vp3bd]

You that ugly

[@thiven]

how pathetic to even be friends with women 🙃

[@Captaintech219]

Where they at!!

[@siddharth_0771]

W Women

[@jodo7814]

I’m that “guy friend” Trust me, it’s what you think. Just give it time.

[@user-je3sk8cj6g]

Yeah, I've been "friends with benefits" with some chicks. And when they would present me to one of their bf they would say that I was "just a friend". Meanwhile, they would call me to have you-know-what, and if I asked "what about your bf?", they would just say that it was just a fleeting thing that didn't matter at all. Never suffer a woman you're with to have male friends my brothers. If you do, it is entirely your own fault.

[@musothreads9069]

You dont even need to know them to be "that guy" In as little as 45 min from messaging via an app ive be balls deep in some slut whos boyfriend was at work. These guys who say theyre secure are just arrogant and stupid. You cant trust women because they hardly ever tell the truth.

[@mikesmith9972]

No you're not. You're just another dude crushing on something you cannot "but wish" you could have. You like being the second fiddle? You know you don't.

[@commentatorefautitivo]

if that's what you are, you are not a man. you don't deserve shit.

[@Noir0rioN]

ahh, life as the man on the side... WOW, I fkng MISS that ish, man.

[@chrispewkreme]

“Friends” getting in line for their turn. I’ve seen it waaaay too often to know.

[@SamuelSchehrer]

“Friends” aka the next guys in rotation

[@khuramnasar1905]

The waiting room lol

[@lightx9xlight236]

Waiting room is wild 😭

[@Josh-fp2qn]

Aka beta orbiter

[@amerkovacic1459]

@@khuramnasar1905💀💀😂😂

[@m_jay5]

@SamuelSchehrer BINGO! And any self repsecting boyfriend/husband knows this!

[@Simouno]

A male friend is just a future boyfriend waiting in line

[@m_jay5]

BINGO! Any self respecting boyfriend/husband knows this and won't put up with it!

[@um52]

🙏

[@user-dv2hc8zt3o]

Her male "friend" is just her beta orbiter waiting for his turn.

[@m_jay5]

@@user-dv2hc8zt3o Precisely! And I wish I had the self respect to know that in my 20s and NOT tolerate it!

[@rogernegrete4680]

Thank you why are we in denial

[@JingKai]

Especially when they keep their exes around

[@boostedb18b14]

Lol those are my favorite. Women think they're being sneaky when they sleep around. Meanwhile I know this and plow em a few times n move on. It literally lasts a week or 2. MAX. Stay frosty gents

[@AV-kr6gc]

@@boostedb18b14lol so you get into relationships for 2 weeks and then ghost them or what? That’s savage

[@gabrieldipietro6096]

Bruv get over yourself. I’m friends with one of my exes and neither of us want to get back together. It’s best to meet them and get a vibe off them then go from there

[@Karl-wx8zx]

Bruh my ex literally tried to pull this one when she got a new bf I was like nah I’m not sticking around, I know exactly what its gonna look like to her new guy. She already has exes on the back burner I’m not gonna be another one

[@KTKaute]

I agree with this, except for when you have to co parent. I would never be friends with an ex, that's weird. But I have a child with someone and we are good friends, we view each other like siblings though. The thought of having been intimate with him in the past makes me wanna puke and I'm sure he feels the same 😂😂

[@edenromanov]

At this point I admit I might be insecure and I am controlling, but I know guys, and I know my worth, and no woman no matter how attractive she is is worth me bending my standards and rules for a relationship, I suggest other men start doing the same as well, don't let these women step all over you, you're worth more than that, if you continuously find that thebwomen around you just can't match your energy just know this is a big ass planet and your horizons extend further than just thebcity, state kr even country you live in.

[@walkingcorpse1224]

I mean if she isn't willing to drop her guy friends then I would never take her seriously. This was something women hated about me. I remember dating a girl and she had this guy best friend. She kept wanting me to be her boyfriend but I don't care for women who continue to hang with guy friends, then I started seeing other women openly and she gets upset and I told her if I'm gonna date then I better be the only man in her life. Luckily I found that, it doesn't make me controlling cus I never asked or required anybody to date me like women always had the door open to walk in and out but I just did not accept their chains. Does it make me insecure? Nope, quite the opposite because I'm confident in my value and in the idea that I'll get what I want eventually and I did, I now have a woman who only has me as her man, no guy friends and I am her best friend, and I have no female friends and she is my best friend, and that's the thing we make eachother happy. I'm sorry but I'm not committing to anybody whose life makes me uncomfortable, they can find somebody else to deal with that.

[@3.6bviews19]

Going through this situation right now, most of her friends are guys and she swears they are just friends but there is this one guy that she talks to before and after school everyday and she says she could not see herself liking him and would never cheat on me. But that nigga ain’t gay and she isn’t lesbian. Also I told her to walk with me instead of him after school and she said “but we’ve been doing that everyday since I’ve moved here” like do you think I care bitch lmao. She dosent have a dad so this all makes since why she dosent understand. I have feelings for her and want to get back with her and she wants to get back with me but I can’t do it I will go mental

[@robertweaver9058]

You made the right decision bro! You get out of life what you tolerate! Great job in standing up what you beleive in and not settling for trashy insecure women that need constant validation by screwing their male friends. You found someone that matched you and respect your beliefs and boundaries! Way to go!

[@XchickennuggetsX]

Gg you made it in life!

[@clementmckenzie7041]

I have read a lot of dumb stuff on the manosphere but this has got to be among the top four

[@SSjSkrilla]

@@clementmckenzie7041your just jealous bc he’s in a healthy relationship and you’re notlol

[@lawlessx9]

All girls have afew guys as back ups when in relationships. Always assume you're not the only one she's entertaining

[@sarcodonblue2876]

Jadded much or is this a projection?

[@CarlosAMC96]

That's right. It's just your turn

[@zoeysiddiqi1532]

who hurt you

[@chrispewkreme]

@@sarcodonblue2876it’s been my experience with nearly every woman I’ve talked to or dated.

[@BIanka0200]

@@zoeysiddiqi1532probably your promiscuous mother

[@camels9654]

If she has 'male friends' that is fine. Consequently, I do not enter into monogamous relationships with women who spend time with other men. I will not allow her the benefits of my exclusivity while she acts like she is single.

[@christiandavis5332]

I wholeheartedly agree

[@ABHI_is_afk]

Good point man.. gotta do this from now on 🤭💀👍🏻

[@mikepawlikguitar]

Amen. Looking forward to Sunday service preacher 🫡

[@musothreads9069]

This is my belief also.

[@SamuelSchehrer]

Made this mistake this past summer, cut that shit off before the new year, gotta focus on 2023, this video is so accurate, I went to the gym and saw my ex who is now dating one of her “friends” she had when we were together

[@drleo6409]

He will probably go through the same thing you did. Some women need validation from other MEN no stop. Day after day. Good thing you got rid of a self centered woman that has no feelings for anyone else. Except her self. Move on and don’t repeat, it can happen.

[@johnAcDaniels]

So much for "Don't worry about him, he's just a friend"😂

[@mathewstevens4526]

jesus. forget her and him you made the right decision 100%

[@leoscarpoli1nonly]

Eventually she likely would have made you one of her friends as a worst case scenario, stringing you along and acting like she would make you a better person by browbeating you and giving you whiffs of attention here and there if you're a good little boy and keep your hands to yourself.

[@psychoandfbi]

In short don’t commit to any girl regardless unless she’s committed to u 100% first

[@natoslayer2907]

Don't even commit then. If she's 100% committed it's only because you deserve more than her.

[@bikeybubu9667]

​@@natoslayer2907 agree

[@moheganson]

@@natoslayer2907what about marriage and kids?

[@natoslayer2907]

@@moheganson up to you if you wanan try. God never said marriage is a legally binding government contact that's all i know.

[@cielopacheco4315]

Wtf with the comments

[@charlessoto1792]

That's why I don't get jealous. I just lose interest. Toot it and boot it, gents.

[@lawofliberty3517]

What ever happens. Do NOT let them get your soul. Stay strong and focus. God be with you.

[@CapCrazy37]

THIS

[@j_s552]

I’m a girl and it’s the opposite senecio for me. I had to let someone go because of all his female friends. The disrespect when trying to be respectful is just a slap in the face

[@StruggleEndure]

Men and women can't be friends. Smart girl

[@s.g.5318]

They don't know how to just be friends, always crossing boundaries... Heck they don't have any boundaries. Those females had almost equal amount of access to him as me.. idk if I'm wrong but that doesn't sit right with me

[@j_s552]

@@s.g.5318 I completely agree. I tried but now after a few experiences, I rather not

[@WildCatKuro]

@j_s552 You did the right thing. To let him go...

[@mario-k.]

So true. Had the same happen to me. Turns out there was a time she wanted her "friend".

[@JWATTS28]

I've had women suddenly want to be exclusive when I either say we should stop seeing each other or when I show interest in other women.

[@millersfloorcoatings]

The hypergamy psychological effect kicking in

[@eindride1268]

Here's the funny thing about relationships, it can and does go both ways. If you don't like it, find someone who's clingy and dependent (nothing wrong with that), otherwise you just gotta accept that you're part of the possible rotation, and it's your duty to secure your spot

[@robocop5543]

Lol can't agree more...

[@lennynichols3421]

Insecure is the woman that needs all those guys giving her that free attention.

[@KTKaute]

As a woman I agree with this. Its the same with men with "female friends". I get it if you had a female friend before the relationship but you don't need to be making new female friends when you're in a relationship. I wouldnt start making male friends if I was in a relationship, why would I need to...

[@KennyTC63]

That's a very good point. I'm friends with a female and have been since Primary school and that's a lot of years. We've never been intimate. She has a husband of 25 years and I have a wife of 26 years. We're both happy and we both are as close now as we were in school, but now our families are in that circle also.There are 'friends' and there are 'friends'!

[@leonpalmer9146]

So you are cool with him smashing dat one female friend he had before the relationship is dat wat you're saying. Tell me

[@CaseyBowman7]

I am a woman who was raised without any female figures in my life. My dad and brothers were all I had, and all my friends from elementary school up were guys, im just more comfortable around them and vibe with them. I get where hes coming from, but if you clearly set boundaries and intentions to begin with to your bf and for your friends, that prevents a lot of issues. If a guy friend disrespects boundaries, I dont want them as a friend, but most my friends are guys who are very chill and funny and weve known eachother for years with no issues. Plus most my friends are in commited relationships so im not worried about it that much

[@Kidrifts]

Good atleast you had people who cared just don't date me please I'm against that

[@CaseyBowman7]

@@Kidrifts don't flatter yourself, I am not interested.

[@lyrictheblood3247]

I totally agree with this I’m a female who had issues with girls growing up was bullied a lot lost many girl friends but with the few guy friends I had they always stuck around and were chill and nice never flirted just were down to earth people who I considered as good friends gave me advice and everything I don’t see the problem in it whatsoever

[@lyrictheblood3247]

If you state your boundaries they are respected there isn’t anything wrong with it but a lot of people are just to immature to handle guy and girl friendships it’s all about maturity nothing wrong with it just learn to control your hormones and most of my friends are very mature have there shit straight they ain’t trying to do nothing for we are just friends and that is completely fine😂

[@shakespear90]

​​@@lyrictheblood3247 do a test sometimes with some of them. Call them and ask them you want to fuck tonight with them . You ll be surprised by their réaction. 90% will tell you its up to you. And once the test ends you will be in denial (they were just joking with me etc.)

[@willbauermeister7931]

Just mirror her dialogue/narrative. If she says “most of my friends are guys “ you say “most of my friends are girls “ she will cancel those guy friends post haste.

[@AdamMoore-fq8qn]

I've committed to relationships and months later figured out how goddamn evil they were and were extremely good at sneaking around and being with their "guy friend".

[@Mr_Goodall_CD]

The only way to get rid of her male friends is to get her emotionally attached then break up with her until she gets rid of them. Works every fukn time

[@MariyanEftimov-sq7ib]

Having that many male friends and close exs who are just friends is a major red flag and if you choose to ignore it its gonna bite you later for sure

[@soulsurfer639]

This is bloody spot on! New fan 🙂

[@HOTSHTMAN53]

My dating with her literally just ended. She ‘broke up’ with me cuz i told her flat out i dont want to date chicks with guy friends. I told her “im sorry it has come down to this, there is so much about you i will miss”. She’s now panicking😁

[@davidbarrozo6621]

You’ve inspired me to start working on a similar idea that you posit with your videos but from my own perspective as a guy who has been on both sides of the coin but from a used perspective. ❤ Love what you do Zander, may Source bless you and your endeavors forever and always. 🎉🥳🎊🍾

[@elijahgodsservant2906]

In my experience watch out when girls that say I’m going to hangout with one of my girlfriends. A lot of the times it’s really another guy but she used girlfriend to lower your guard.

[@mr.j822]

hows you pp? i want to say d but ill get renoved

[@elijahgodsservant2906]

That’s such a random question. He’s doing fine by the way. Standing tall and strong as ever lol

[@jeremychannel333]

Casey Zander, I'm truly amazed at your wisdom for such a young man! I'm 48 pushing close to 50 but you always have great advice & this is a great message & up with the times & the old ways of commitment just don't work like it used to over 25+ years ago

[@erickfernando18]

you are right, things are upside down now

[@jeremychannel333]

@@erickfernando18 yes

[@ace7821]

It’s the girls today and Casey has been dating these chicks so is simply describing how the girls in the dating scene really are. They were never like this years ago. Social media changed the game. So guys like you who are older are cucking on social media people like Casey thinking they are geniuses when they are literally simply describing the game today. In older generations, this just didn’t happen and women did seek out one and only man and did respect boundaries better. Today’s women have d’s and today’s men have or are p’s. There are no geniuses in the dating circle. Casey is straight forward and just literally describing what the game is today and the great thing is he is honest and straight about it. I’m a psychiatrist and know shit from women and men that most people will never ever know. The psychology of love is super complex. As a man, there’s ways to beat it for your favor but you can never simplify a person into one paradigm and before you blow it for yourself or your partner or before you put yourself down like this, seek more help. Casey is a great because he literally says what he has experienced and doesn’t best around the bush. You also don’t realize there is more complexities like race, wealth, age, looks and bravado, machismo, swagger, personality types and your own and her upbringing at play. The game is totally different today so stop beating yourself up and go out and get a great woman for yourself

[@phetogomoteane3967]

I always say this, you don’t have to cut all ties with her, just don’t commit. A red flag is actually a get out of jail free card. Keep smashing her and keep looking for someone better or more deserving of your commitment.

[@pawel3241]

Or just leave that stinky ho, or do you want to get some nasty crap?

[@NoName718.]

That’s you guys’ problem. You think there’s some perfect girl out there. If she’s perfect and checks all the boxes most likely she’s with the guy who took her virginity or been locked down since hs ages. You mfs are hoping and praying for a 21 year old good girl that respects her man 100%. Even at 21 it’s too late. If she’s single and atttactive it’s already a red flag. If she was honestly what we all desire someone would have her already. My point is you mfs are looking for something that doesn’t exist. Your girl goes to work and she finds any of them attractive it’s all bad if they pursuit her.

[@MoneyOverHoezz]

Im cutting all ties, why would i keep smashin her

[@MoneyOverHoezz]

@@NoName718. Thats a you problem

[@NoName718.]

@@MoneyOverHoezz What’s a you problem? Nugga you never had a loyal b*tch in your life. Where’s your 10-15 yr relationship as proof it’s a me problem? Oh ok…..

[@Blondiee777]

Works both ways. I've just finished dating a guy because he was simping over his female bff 😂😂 No matter man or woman, if they have a bff of the opposite sex...RUN!

[@Mary-o7i]

The biggest male myth buster, a smart and a really good listener, guys don't want to be just friends it's a matter of time. When a guy states we aren't serious usually means it's a terrible idea to change their mind. It's a good idea to keep looking.

[@porcupinethree]

Great idea,,so if she was commitment she knows what to do,,don't let her dictate the relationship

[@بوجوهانسون]

Wasn't it much better back in the days? No phone, no distractions and no drama. Now it's all at your fingertips, i cant handle it anymore. 😔

[@kagisoratshefola3433]

Thank you bro, I had the same Idea with the girl I am dating now. You are high value

[@marklowe5939]

My wife decided she should be able to have a male friend and communicate via hidden messages. I told her him or me she “removed” him from her social media… except she didn’t. I told her if she didn’t we were over… long story short we’re getting divorced… So she’s telling everyone I’m insecure and controlling. Nahhh just not naive and fool.She may or may not have done him but if I’m that low of a priority, she’s gone for good. 😊

[@leoscarpoli1nonly]

Either you're insecure or a narcissist when they've been caught red handed. Trust your instincts.

[@dreambeliever3652]

Beautiful. Unhitch the commitment right three. Done! No more worries about who she’s out with cuz who cares

[@fayekalantzis4523]

You don't sleep with friends .that's why they're friends

[@peewee3030]

🤔👀😳🤥🤥🤥🤥

[@baki577]

Friends with benefits 💀

[@kyleemeg2171]

@@baki577 friends with benefits isn’t just being friends….

[@doctordoggo6949]

Fr

[@kamaldeep9267]

But you get attention you crave for.

[@solitarylullaby]

If this is the case just walk away before she tries claiming some other dudes kid Is yours

[@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS]

Facts ! Don't commit to a girl with a bunch of guy friends If she really likes you, she will cut them off. You gotta ask them, you'd be okay with me hanging out with my girl friends ?

[@kyleemeg2171]

Nah because you shouldn’t have to cut off the ppl in your life just because your partner can’t trust you. That’s wrong

[@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS]

@@kyleemeg2171 well, why would I be okay with my girl giving her time and attention to a "friend" when she should be prioritizing our committed relationship. Let me ask you this, does your mom have guy friends and is your father okay with that ? You cuck

[@dank-man6510]

You've already lost the game with that logic. She knows your female friends are ACTUALLY just friends . Otherwise you'd be dating them. In fact they probably all friend zoned you. The key to stopping this behavior when she hangs out with HER male friends is for you to hang out with HER female friends. Watch what I say.

[@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS]

@@dank-man6510 haha no idiot, I don’t just give my commitment to any girl. They are part of the roster but they ain’t main chick. You always have to have some side candidates to fill in the job in case the main girl leaves. It is what it is. I don’t allow my girl to hangout with any guy friend. The moment she does, she gets kicked to the curb

[@Nevamore277]

As a girl, no a person with opinions and feelings, I'm not going to cut any guy friends out of my life to make someone else happy? yeah no thank you and if you ask me that then we obviously need to have a discussion about how you're telling me to cut someone that I like and respect out of my life to make you happy, because there is obviously a rife in the relationship if you have to ask that in the first place, don't blame the girlfriend for having male friends, blame the lack of communication Ya'll have for Ya'll to even consider that topic of discussion.

[@gurpsclare11]

Don't give 100 percent to a women whos gona give 100 percent to another guy who only needs to give her 10 percent

[@Xinkgs]

Yup, she is not the one for long-term commitment

[@ch4rliegaming]

theres this thing called "everyone is different"

[@michellehoward2123]

If you are in a committed relationship and either a party refuses to release old relationships & Friends of the opposite sex to protect the current relationship then they are not ready for a committed relationship. Their subconscious is still searching for options. If that person loves you and wants to be with you and is going to be loyal to you then they will do what it takes to make you feel secure in that relationship to build a strong foundation and they won't be afraid to hurt another person's feelings to prove their loyalty to you. There is no testing there is only doing. Actions/behaviors speak louder than words.🙏

[@dunn1375]

This! Now the ex is just a plate to spin in rotation when I want it because that’s the only value a 304 can offer is box

[@danieln3181]

Perfectly said.

[@sosososomusic]

Absolutely right with the “losing celebrity” status when she’s seeing you to often

[@AtotheA25]

These" friends" are also called "brothers"

[@m_jay5]

And then the woman accuses you of being insecure, controlling or emotionally abusive because you don't trust her "male friends"

[@Paivren]

so dump her ass then. let her me with her male friends instead.

[@foxtrotsierraproductions8626]

I will never ever trust male friends anymore. They circle like Vultures and if the time has come they manipulate your girl so hard that she will break up or cheat.

[@tjitjo]

Such a scarce mindset. What you shouldve said is that, if she says this, SHE'S insecure. And you DON'T want that!

[@AmazingChinaToday]

All these tricks and tips required to simply interact with a woman as a normal human being, means it's time to look at women in other countries.

[@Daddyvader7]

People confuse insecurity with boundaries and self respect. Sad.

[@jimpolk7931]

Male “friends” are no less than “options.” Don’t fall for it guys. She’s trying to see how much she can disrespect you to your face and get away with it. Been there, done that more times than I like to admit. Oh and one more thing. She’s not yours. It’s just your turn.

[@blur3253]

Whoever is reading this and is in this situation, LEAVE. SHE IS WORTHLESS. Don't cuck yourself.

[@PlebiteBaller]

Of course. And there will be gaslighting to delude you into thinking those guys are not like that bla bla bla... "we where friends since this and that, we don't see eachother like that." Just do the test to all her male friends "Hey John I'm starting to really like you and not just like a friend, can you come over tonight it would be nice if we could watch netflix and cuddle" And you will see how many "friends" she really had ;-D (stole this test from R.Cooper)

[@kipp1231]

If you got plan b, c & d on speed dial you ain't getting a date out of me.

[@LgbtqrstuvWTF]

If she’s serious about you she’ll be serious about losing the roster

[@hunterfrancis16]

Fall ya'll men out there go look for a girl that's loyal cuz it's hard to find one and that loves cares about you and will do anything for you cook clean or anything that she wants to do for you anything to make you happy go look 4 girl like that

[@cazimim3375]

Only I have the virtue of friendship

[@boxerusx5530]

This is what I was looking for

[@TruthTriumphs777]

Commitment is required on both ends so that the guy is sure about his kids with the woman he loves

[@DiZZoLabs]

No male friends in a relationship.

[@m_jay5]

And vice versa men don't have female friends either once you're in a relationship

[@narxarflank]

@@m_jay5absolutely

[@MoneyOverHoezz]

@@m_jay5 Not how that works bro

[@12Messenger]

@ jay_em Yep. Hold men accountable too. You gotta be what youre looking for

[@goolegsekjgas3118]

​@@MoneyOverHoezzit is how it works.

[@patrickstogsdill74]

I do agree with him...I'm thinking about not committing to a woman unless I want to marry them and they want to marry me THEN finally committ but not until then probbly...just be friends a while and they will know if they develop those feeling for each other or not

[@Rudebwoy64]

Idk I feel like it depends on a person. I got plenty of female friends i haven’t stepped over no boundaries or no flirtatious text because i didn’t want to reunion my friendship And also they help with advices with the girls I dated

[@thrasher2753]

Same here. It's kinda 50/50 in that every woman has a past. Friends can be okay, just so long as she's not choosing or hanging out with them instead of you.

[@brianfreland9065]

While my wife and I were just starting to date, she cut off all contact with all other men from the past on her own. If she truly wants you you won't have to tell her to

[@lancelima9786]

I used to feel pissed off with this but since I have so much women on rotation I don't bother anymore at all.i just put them on rotation as well those women are not to be taken seriously.

[@ft.rishav]

Exactly, women are never meant to be taken seriously unless she is married and 100% committed to u

[@aleshyadarling5274]

There seems to be a lot of consensus around this topic. I just want to put out a gentle reminder to be careful making generalizations about women with guy friends. As an example, I myself have friendships with men. Yes, I know most of them have or have had romantic interest in me. No, I do not entertain it by taking advantage of them. They are friends because I made it CRYSTAL clear that I am not romantically interested in them, and do not want to date them. That's why they are my friends. If they are "orbiting" me, it's because they think I'm going to change my mind and come around if they do x,y, and z and I just give it a chance. I already gave them every opportunity to say that they don't want a friendship. Some women actually do mean it when we say "he's my friend", and I'm really sorry that some women are out here being sneaky so you have no choice but to play it safe.

[@jamesself-cj2of]

Freaking solid!!

[@rosemarietolentino3218]

🚩 Red Flag. Unless you are a stoic.

[@deaths_enigma]

There's having friends and then there's stringing people along- sleeping with people calling them backup options is the latter

[@randomperson360]

And vice versa. Protect your heart yall

[@raymondpeter4827]

My girlfriend can't reject invitations from other guys, like I already told her, If a guy invited you somewhere ,just refuse them, ignore them, She just telling me im jealous, Then One time the guy message her something like, ill take care of you, then i saw her reply like enjoying that message, I broke up with her but she cried and say sorry It mean nothing, We are still together now, but honestly I should never see her again and walk away. Im still regreting that we stay together.

[@jpro747]

Go if shes still doing it

[@sionbeatz4085]

Men hold the power over a committed relationship. If you don’t claim her she can’t harm you simple as that

[@michaelgallegos8811]

Yup don't commit to a woman who has 1 foot out the door on the first date..lol 🤔😂😂

[@tacotequill32]

Your "girl" talking to 5 guys: "I'll call you later, I'm just catching up with the guys a bit."😏 You: "Yeah, sure."🙄 When you talk to 'one' girl after she gives you a coffee doing her job as a barista and your 'girl' sees you: " WHOSTHISB**CH?! BACKTHEF**KOFF!!HESMINE!!!"

[@DonnaS-q9s]

That’s why us girls rather be single because we like our guy friends they treat us way better

[@ELMAAMohammadAdeebSultan]

Woman chooses one man a time, if you see her having male best friends and see her justifying that or something similar even if she doesn't have feelings for her best friend, then back up immediately without saying a word and move on, leave her.

[@YallStoleFromPagans]

That's where alot of relationships fail. You don't trust your girlfriend ( or the other way around). The only red flag here is you.

[@ELMAAMohammadAdeebSultan]

@@YallStoleFromPagans give a viagra and leave them in the room then we'll see whether they are friends or not🙂

[@erickfernando18]

@@YallStoleFromPagans You dont bring any solid argument, only personal attacks, funny

[@aleshyadarling5274]

But if she doesn't have feelings for him, like you said, then why would you walk away? The friend is not a threat if that's the case.

[@jackmorris1068]

Walk away because she has friends some real weak men up in here 😂😂

[@StayStoicAustralia]

I only enjoy watching whatever podcast when andrew is present due to having logical arguments that majority of us having but he knows how explain it a lot better then us. LIKES FOR ANDREW BEING A PERM RESIDENT OF WHATEVER.

[@ihavenotruninvain]

...red flag...SAVE YOURSELF TIME, ONEY AND PEACE OF MIND!

[@t4t806]

Lol that's a but immature in thinking brother but immature actions aren't the way to go nor will lead to a healthy happy outcome for the guys or the girls. Commit when it is a mutual agreement and remain faithful, karma is real and you don't want karma. Date 1 person at a time to give a fair chance and don't do to girls or guys what you don't want done to you in return, keep it mature, if you got female friends then she can have the same male friends, if you're willing to give up your female friends for her (and honestly) then see if she's willing to do the same and y'all kick things off legitimately. Keep it grown, honest with good intentions and you got this ⭐ 💪🏽

[@jonormika5030]

Thats the kind of girl that most guys cant keep. Unless you are the best of the best and you are okay with the same behavior and treat her the same or can say the same to her

[@skummaidiot5685]

and that's what i call an advice

[@PhantomTrpe]

Yup, happened more than once, with different women I was that guy "friend" knowing damn well we did nuff shit. Goes to show the women nature Lol.

[@jameslunsford4168]

So so true man I wish I knew in high school! I was dating the hottest baddest B in the school but I worshipped her and paid for it hard!

[@BigPharma-pe3mr]

what happened

[@jameslunsford4168]

We had a great relationship for about a year and after that she was giving me all the tests and signs that women do. Pulling away just doing things to see how I react. I can specifically remember her and her friend started walking in front of me in Walmart one night and I followed them around like a lost puppy! I was in love with her beauty and I did like her a lot but I knew better! This was a tough lessen for me but I’m glad it happened

[@Md.Ridwanulkarim-hl3po]

you can reply its not like youre my girlfriend or something special trust me it will tear her apart. this guy is godsend

[@victorrosales7565]

Put it this way let her do what she wants No tests required It’s just your turn

[@JasonLee-wp4no]

I fucked up that’s all right. I think I can write my wrongs.

[@yoohoo952]

it is advice for women too

[@raijingaming9608]

If they do something like that, don’t even say anything just leave

[@smarternow]

My ex husband did that to me and cheated in the marriage. Just friends????

[@whattheshrek9046]

Agree 👏🏻well said my friend

[@78.BANDIT]

Yep. I let my ex do that to me. Took a divorce to wake up and learn.

[@blur3253]

At least you admit you fell into that trap, some of these people blame it all on the hoe they chose to cuck themselves with.

[@67sdd]

Agree, I made that mistake...once

[@humanbeing8557]

Dont cheat if someone cheat on u just leave them😑

[@zeke21dude30]

It's not toxic and controlling if she makes it toxic and controlling

[@pilapila183]

I'll be honest I've been that guy. I did sleep with my best friend who had a boyfriend at the time. He still doesn't know and they're still together. We don't do it anymore but it definitely happens

[@illhaqu777]

You were pretty disgusting then, mate

[@siddharth_0771]

Such a loser

[@MoneyOverHoezz]

Crazy, hope he found out cus she for the streets

[@hectormejia5090]

Dude just tell him. Allow that fool to grow the fuck up

[@Josh-fp2qn]

Beta orbiter

[@m_jay5]

Men and women can't be just friends. I know from experience because almost every girl that came into my life I grew feelings towards. One of them (the man or woman) will always inevitably fall for the other. The world viewpoint says a person is abusive, controlling, jealous, insecure, manipulative for not wanting their significant other having any friends of the opposite sex. I CALL IT PROTECTING AND HAVING RESPECT FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP! This scenario alone (having friends of the opposite sex when you're in a relationship) is responsible for causing more infidelity or affairs (emotional or physical) than any other circumstance! And don't even get me started on how destructive social media, private direct messaging services, etc. are to relationships too - Adam and Eve weren't made to be "just friends"

[@angelina8276]

I have had experience tho , where men and women are totally friends, and not all of them fall for each other.

[@peterdanyliw9506]

@@angelina8276same here

[@pabowieful]

I think this is more of a you thing. You may not be able to be friends with women without falling for them and not guarding your heart. As a man that's bi, I've had male & female friends that are completely platonic. It's all about boundaries you set with yourself & your friend.

[@expex3230]

So Just because YOU experienced that it must be the same for all 8 billion people on the planet huh? Make sense.

[@raugust3376]

I have seen this with my ex girl when she started chatting alot with her male friend things in our relationship changed she became more disrespectful and emotionally distant to me when i made small mistakes but she kept saying there is nothing happening between the two of them but i told her the guy is falling for her and she is for him but she couldn’t see it

[@NG-qo7nu]

Sheeeeesh!!!! 🔥🤍👑

[@trulsheimholt1991]

Thank you for teaching dudes this🙌

[@DonnaS-q9s]

That’s true they are insecure and controlling absolutely

[@christinagracewhite]

The first part of this was fine, but the second part about being Exclusive lowering your value to the woman only happens with people who are insecure who don’t believe their own worth or understand how you could possibly like them in that way so they think there’s something wrong with you because there’s something wrong with them.

[@rdeez5974]

My girl and I agreed to be exclusive, she has one male friend that has a gf. If she was wanting multiple male friends then would've handled it different.

[@Amazinglilflowers]

It depends on the girl whether or not she will cheat. It doesn’t matter what the friend wants

[@anominousanonymous9344]

It matters because the type of woman that would drag those guys along (whether consciously or unconsciously) is an immoral woman and not worthy of our time. Women are socially adept, and i believe they're typically aware of the fact that they're leading men on. If you're an attractive woman, most likely the men will have an underlying sexual attraction and interest in you... even if they're claiming to be friends. Just biology.