7 things women do when they genuinely love you

[@JessicaOS]

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[@CarlMCole]

My wife did every one of these seven things (and I did for her, as best I could too), then she tragically passed away from a medical procedure at only 51 years old, but thank you for reminding me how much she really loved me ( it makes me happy and sad at the same time).

[@JessicaOS]

May her sould RIP. Thanks for sharing.

[@tumimokgosi9102]

I'm sorry bou yo wife but I'm glad u appreciate her evn in her absence. Some ppl like me feel like such ppl don't exist,u r lucky to hv experienced that. I always love and try my best but I hv neva in my life met my match,at 38yrs now I hv decided to jus give up on love and focus on my 2 kids. To us,hvn such a person wl always b a dream

[@benugo151]

Sorry about your lost

[@juliusjohn9453]

Pole sana

[@angatuedward6580]

MHSRIP. By doing her best faithfully, she completed her mission on earth. Stay strong cause she went in peace after showing you genuine love

[@howtoimpresagirl]

When a woman genuinely loves you, her actions speak louder than words-pure care and loyalty.

[@IkhamateSolomon]

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[@letusreason3554]

A lot of people dont love you... they only love what you can do for them.

[@wildcheekymonkey]

waaaa?

[@akson3342]

False

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Women can't love men and only understand attraction. They can only love what you do for them and how you make them feel about themselves. It shifts. They try to impress you then over time the roles reverse.

[@letusreason3554]

@@bobbyscalchi4013 ... you are correct. And men can be in relationships with women, but they need to understand female psychology. A lot of men are crushed when they realize that most women never TRULY love you... well at lease they dont love men the way that men love them.

[@letusreason3554]

@@akson3342 ... do you want to expand on that with reasons or logic. You know, it is not that hard to debate with logic... you should try it-- if you can.

[@Blue_eye554]

7 things to know when a woman loves you 1) she wants to know your family and friends (inner circle) 2) love requires compromise or bend over to accommodate to make you happy(things you said in the beginning not to do but you end up doing because you love the person) 3) she cares about your siblings,what bothers you bothers her..how your family or extended family makes you feel 4) finding rhythm where you both can strive 5)she's proud of your accomplishments,she encourages you to be better and what you to be better 6) she fights for you to couple 7) she listens to you with attention, every thing you complain about or just there to give you a listening ear.

[@danielward5468]

Hi, Jessica? Wow! What a Professional you in this my sister👍. I am from South Africa and am an ex Professional Boxer. My wife and me met in 1980, we are now 44 years together and married for 38 years. We have 3 kids and 4 grandchildren. We still love each other but I am sometimes worried when my wife agrees with other guys when I don't agree with them. But we have these differences when the two of us are alone together most of the time?

[@MihaiMihaescu-n1c]

If compromise then will ever be real relation just material way

[@VlogsNiKuyang]

My wife really doesnt do this things for me, especialy that getting proud of my accompishments..lol😂😂😂

[@DoricaTungande]

I want to join am interested

[@websterilderis2554]

This video made me realize that there's not a single woman that genuinely liked me in my 28 years of life. I think I'm going to focus on my dreams instead.

[@tgmmicky]

Same here. I was once engaged to one that absolutely didn't love me. I just focus on work and keep moving. I've been stress free.

[@followme3035]

55ys and 3 children later (and a pleathora of "casual encounters" that were just women that needed $$$) FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS and enjoy life

[@colinpatterson728]

Webster Ideris - You say LIKE rather than LOVE

[@deji1818]

Damn, you made me laugh so hard

[@augustinequoi294]

hhahahah

[@NorthernMouse52]

A Woman who speaks and makes Absolute sense, the world needs more Women like Jessica 👍

[@brettbarager9101]

I really appreciate how people noted that your points were spot on . . . But that love goes both ways!

[@user-ii8em7hb4d]

Ain’t that the truth.

[@briannewton9369]

When people compromise, no one gets what they want. When they cooperate, everyone gets what they want. I know that message would resonate with me. Giving up too much of what makes you, you, destroys people. Acceptance and contribution will build people up.

[@ijeomasworld7225]

This is so accurate Jessica. If a woman really loves you; she won't be too demanding, that is, she won't let you spend your money extravagantly. She helps you save and manage your money.

[@zukozuko9690]

Strongly agrer

[@AwakenedAvocado]

Hmm sounds like a way for women to control income and mens money.

[@AnthonyWhitworth-z8r]

i’ve just listen to this and realised my GF does every one of these things but i fall short on a few myself.. i really needed this to see that i’m a very very lucky man and step my game up a whole lot more because she deserves better that what i am giving her at the moment.. appreciate the video and THANK YOU

[@donRoberts79]

Jessica: I was married for 28 years to my wife whom I lost her to breast cancer. You brought me to an uncontrollable tears when you listed the 7 things to prove that a woman genuinely loves you. It’s over six years now that I’m still a widower. I don’t think I can find any other woman like her. I have decided to stay a widower. I always watch your show, because of your high level of intelligence and reasoning. I live in US. Thank you so much.

[@sulpicioloaiza6017]

💧

[@patkinder6632]

Much the same for me , Donald . Married for 36 yrs , Together for 38 yrs cancer took her . She was the love of my live , staying single now .

[@h8troodoh]

@@patkinder6632 she's waiting patiently for you up in heaven, my friend.. trust me on that..

[@lelandchurch9974]

Waste of air time blah blah blah!!!.

[@patricktipton4209]

Love your advice

[@seekingmystory]

Women don't love us, they love the way we make them feel. There's a difference. The thing is, it doesn't matter if they love us, what matters is if they respect you. If she doesn't respect you no amount of love will keep her. As soon as she loses respect your days are numbered with her. On the other hand, if she loses love but still respects you then you have a better chance than the other way around. At the end of the day all we men really want is peace. Respect for that breeds the peace we need. Love can cause toxicity if she feels you're not meeting her needs. We don't need them to love us they need to respect us or we have nothing.

[@waskyhenry6306]

Great 👍 point. Respect is paramount for compatibility. Without respect, everything else is hugwatch. I cannot tolerate disrespect 😔.

[@Mzansi74]

You are right brother, respect is not negotiable!

[@sophiagilkes4216]

@@seekingmystory respect is a two way street

[@eastATL-2-east_L.B.C]

Thats all they remember how we make em.feel..lolol..

[@luvabysiniya6767]

A man who meets such a genuine woman is really lucky in life coz I've been dealing with a woman who didn't even show up any of these clues almost for a couple of years

[@BeUnique94-v1i]

Bro, 2 years and she doesn't show any signs of love? She ain't worth you. I have had horrible relationships and they still showed SOME of these signs, if she ain't showing any, you gotta really consider moving on

[@chiomaigwemadu3094]

My dear but men will never value you because there was this guy I was in relationship with am always available for him displease my self to please him without knowing that he is in another mission but I thank God for today

[@jibson6118]

And you are still in the relationship?

[@user-AllenE]

@@BeUnique94-v1iI agree check to see if she is a narcissist. Marry you for financial security?

[@rw8990]

I am truly Blessed my wife has done these 7 things and more,26 years and going strong ❤

[@iamflashin]

WOOW ! FKN BEYOND BEAUTIFUL

[@georgefulton2717]

I’ve been happily married to the same woman for 47 years. Your points are spot on and it goes both ways.

[@captainkeyboard1007]

Right on! 👍

[@thompsonstephen5581]

And how old are u??

[@georgefulton7012]

@@thompsonstephen5581 we are both 70. Met in high school.

[@donstarlancer]

@@georgefulton7012 That's so awesome. Thanks for sharing

[@deanel-sid7555]

@George Fulton you're very fortunate, the girl I loved most was a girl I was head over heels for in high school, and I found out her feelings were mutual but I'm 28 now, well done to you on 70, you lived in a very great moment and time.

[@FrancisOwusu-o6m]

Things that kills love is attitude, suspicion and mistrust that leads to unnecessary jealousy and bickering. Pride and temperament

[@marcusrobinson9291]

WELL NO ONE SHOULD LOVE WE AS HUMANS HAVE ALL THE THINGS AND EMOTIONS YOU JUST LISTED

[@edgardl.mourino9782]

You’ve described the woman I’m married to now in my third marriage, the best one. I respond to her in the same manner, never been happier.

[@sakuraesther6309]

Do you have mistresses????

[@MireilleBernheimer]

You abandoned your first wife who struggle with you when you reach your goals to marry something New and shiny ... You thought that things will always be Nice, no arguments, then when the shit started you jump and marry the third one. Lol by the way you are getting old so you take things how they come. But the bitter truth is that you are paying what you did to your first wife cause karma is a bi**tch.... Someone need to tell you this. 👌

[@MireilleBernheimer]

@@sakuraesther6309 you Want to be his mistress. Ashawo

[@stn7172]

What happen to your first two?

[@natureloverbangladesh]

pls guide us how you have found gold

[@alexidornigie4599]

Be friends first, every other thing will flow in naturally. This relationship thing is like starting a business, you have to start small then grow.

[@favournwabueze8328]

Exactly ❤️

[@naijafinanceacademy]

At the beginning of every year, many of us create New Year’s resolutions. We think about what we did or didn’t accomplish last year, and create new hopes and dreams for the coming year. Unfortunately, not everyone knows the difference between a resolution and a goal, and few people understand how to set goals and achieve them successfully.

[@Demarcussykeshwh]

What if it’s been like 5 years

[@joeblack1490]

When a woman wants to be with you she makes it extremely clear that she doesn't want to be friends with you. Once a woman tries to friend zone you best believe you getting played and will be kept around as a contingency plan when her original plans blow in her face.

[@alexidornigie4599]

@Bluehaven right...

[@emmanueluche9258]

Jessica, You are the Most intelligent, Constructive and articulated relationship expert I've ever Met On Social media.

[@femiomolere4137]

I agree with you

[@ishmaeldarjean2757]

Yep...she knows what she is doing and it shows in her delivery and conviction.

[@SunshineState-ou7pr]

You can always tell when someone loves you or a person, they simply show it. Love is an action word. We are human and can only fill up so much fulfillment to make others happy, but love will try its best to be there for you and will go deep, to the point where they will not intentionally hurt you, nor hide stuff from you. The care will show. Everything will be done sincere

[@iamflashin]

PREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!

[@uchennaanthony2944]

Jessica you among the people who have made KZbin a conducive place to learn. Keep doing what you know how to do. I love you dear.

[@michaelyoung5839]

C zzx

[@ibrahimprimsjalloh3771]

Hi!

[@JessicaOS]

I've started vlogging everyone! and i'm pretty excited about it! Check out my Vlog channel (Jessica OS Vlogs). If you want to watch my very first video, Check it out here. kzbin.info/www/bejne/pauYc6ipjNOMg6M

[@kudakwashehwapunga7629]

I really like your accent

[@Khalilra]

Thank you!

[@mrvictorymaker5599]

You have a phenomenal space. I believe your a phenomenal women. You’re eyes tell a story of life and love. Perfect wife

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[@JB-wb1yn]

Jessica Os if you dont mind me asking are you single?

[@karabrooks9091]

I'm a woman and...I approve this message! Each point was accurate.

[@wisdombook2417]

Thanks for confirming....,

[@kevinrono466]

Good

[@furtherjoyhills1215]

Seriously

[@natureloverbangladesh]

thanks for approving

[@kadeemsealy2304]

This is so true. I have a woman in my life now that does all of these things and for me I think you know when somebody really loves you because you feel it.

[@iamflashin]

THANK U BEYOND BROTHER

[@Trollbot007]

You hit the mark Jess. Your earnestness and care for the topic comes through

[@tiktokadmin4373]

Beautiful, all these are qualities of the girl I'm seeing right now. I was watching other videos talking about what they do when they don't love you. But this video stopped me from second guessing and now i can focus more on having fun with the lady rather than questioning her loyalty and trust. Thanks, I really appreciate this!

[@Walkercolt1]

Jessica, you are wise beyond your years, dear lady! You obviously grew up in a home full of love and are a loving person with fine values. I'm nearly 68 and haven't found the right woman, and maybe God didn't intend marriage for me. Everything you said about what a woman does for a man she loves, a man should do and much more. Most people today don't want that much responsibility for another person. One thing you didn't mention. If someone loves you, when you try and fail, they never throw it up to you, they give you their support and sympathy, and will work to make things better. Peace and love.

[@alecglisson]

Wow Rick Earp. That's dope....rt. I figure now matter what's going you work through everything with the leading and guiding of the holyspirit

[@sylvesterchidi7572]

Thanks very much

[@kahepuumatundu3693]

I broke up with my girlfriend since I start listened to your advice. I was so blind.

[@tiisetsorodney4880]

🤣🤣🤣

[@eliakimbenishchayil]

This lovely women is talking about the virtues of love, and how a woman should behave when she loves you. However there are many women who love a man but do not know how to love.

[@abdulrahimlee4969]

You're absolutely right ✅

[@andrahayes6136]

I agree

[@vetb882]

Hmmm. I think I know exactly how you feel. 🙏🏽🙌🏼🤗

[@AlanRobb1]

Well put... though my Indonesian lover in '89 said money is love, and she was a lovely, loving woman.

[@eliakimbenishchayil]

@@AlanRobb1 she understood the art of how to love, this can exist exclusive from the emotion.

[@kobbyattafuah2029]

Your videos are becoming better. The intros, picture quality, content, editing etc. We appreciate the growth. And we're also learning.

[@impressiveiq]

Very true. We noticed too. The growth is impressive

[@JessicaOS]

Thanks for the feedback Kobby

[@apostleofthepositivemsg]

A very kind feedback, this is! Thank you. 🤝🤝🤝

[@madmanstress3470]

Looking very good y

[@kenrickbarrett1829]

Hi Kenrick Jamaica

[@jabulanimaphosa1025]

Thanks Jessica. Great tool to check up the health of a relationship. Some people don't really love you but love you for what you can provide for them or what your relationship can afford afford them.

[@andrewtan2404]

THANK YOU. you have dispelled the little doubts that were creeping up. she's every positive that you mentioned. It's reopened my eyes n will appreciate her more. Lucky husband

[@johnoduor1809]

Just love it how she clarify her points and makes you fall in love with them ❤️

[@irondwane1746]

..while you were speaking i started creating this ideal woman in my mind,then i realised i had to be the ideal man first,she will only reflect what she sees in me....thanks

[@JessicaOS]

Apt!

[@donatkerson7394]

My Precious wife of 30yrs was exactly all of these! I lost her to breast cancer in 2018, thank you for reminding me of just how great she was I miss her dearly God bless you Teresa may you live long and happy with Jesus Christ I hope to be home soon

[@JessicaOS]

Thanks for sharing. May her soul RIP

[@GetrudeHNcube]

KJV 1 Thessalonians 4 16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: 17 Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. 18 Wherefore comfort one another with these words.

[@captainkeyboard1007]

Your loss is the most regrettable thing that has happened. Also, I regret to read that your wife caught [breast] cancer. I wish it did not happen. All I can do is to pray that may Gracious Great God take well care of you more than you could ever imagine. I hope that she and you will see [sweet] Jesus Christ and meet Him in the first resurrection. As far as I am concerned, your wife was the sweetest lady you ever had.

[@stoicismphilosophy178]

"When you know you are enough, you no longer depend on anything external."

[@KennyChensey]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

[@markallen3920]

Time will heal your wounds. Spoken from experience.

[@mixtapemini3242]

Wow all the things you discuss are things I was going through in my 21 year marriage . I should have left years ago. I’m single now and learning to love me better.

[@mariesafaite-antoine20]

Well said! Men and women have to avoid at all costs the “me, myself, and I” types of personality when they are looking for a mate. In a good relationship, one must be loving and caring… but not self-seeking, and neglecting.

[@sakuraesther6309]

What if yoh leave when he cheats isnt that selfish????

[@mariesafaite-antoine20]

@@sakuraesther6309 leaving when he cheats is self- protecting not selfishness… when a third person is involved in a marriage relationship, anything bad can happen to the people involved.

[@mikefriedman593]

Hi Jessica. I am a new subscriber and just entered into a new relationship in November of 2023 after getting out of a toxic marriage. My new partner does do all that you say in this video and she is genuinely a keeper!!! I tell her every day how much I love her and I can not wait for the relationship to grow even more!! Thank you for being so spot on!!!

[@terryd7278]

She really speaking facts here… it’s hard to find a genuine woman that does all that. Glad that my girl is one of them and really fit into this category🙏🏽

[@roshandawalton8]

But you've got to be an amazing man yourself to acknowledge that you have a woman like that in your life. Most guys wont acknowledge

[@ujangr.4672]

Don't leave her what ever cause

[@terryd7278]

@@ujangr.4672Thank you 🙏🏽

[@JessicaOS]

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[@LloydFrank-r1v]

I've watched the video and I think it's on point, it's my first time and you nailed it.

[@brianmarsh2349]

100 percent correct God bless👍

[@orumeemmans8289]

This video deserves 1 billion likes. U are just the best KZbinr on earth. U said it all, I saw all this 7 signs on the toxic relationship I once witness, she will always tell me i shouldn't be in hurry to meet her family. Thanks so much for this, 🙌🙌

[@GregLauture516]

I wish they were more woman like you in this world you are truly one in a million

[@burtonlee22]

Delighted to see Ghana stepping out here on YT. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us here in California.

[@edwardchandler9373]

My 1st time here. By accident actually . However You caught my attention. I listened, and I believe you are absolutely correct. The man must also make those same commitments. If he does ,his life will be so much sweeter. I am such a lucky man. I know my wife loves me and I know she knows I love her above all else. I swore before God & witnesses that I would put no one before her. I have lived up to that oath. We have been together 39 yrs. Married 36 of those yrs. 2015 I had a massive Coronary. I technically died. She would not give up on me. 33 min. Later they got my heart started again and the rest is history. She was honored by US Congress and recoeved an award. My life insurance would've paid her 800 grand. She told me she wanted me, not my money. Incredible. When someone really loves you , you are fortunate. Reciprocate the sacrifices and the rewards will be more than you can imagine Thanks for letting me tell you about her & her sacrifices. I know I found a winner..

[@JessicaOS]

Wow! What a great message. Thanks for sharing Edward

[@dwilliams96]

Lovely , thank you for sharing.

[@mwalesundano9526]

I'm a lady and let me tell youuu.. Every word she spoke was the absolute TRUTH. Don't ignore the signs

[@captainkeyboard1007]

That is a lesson to be learned.

[@davidtate9870]

My wife did every one of this seven things and I did the best for her to... Lastly thank you so much Jessica Os, love to hear more from your channel....thanks...

[@Lionheart_Cowboy]

This was a good reminder on some things, and few I never thought about at all. especially number 5. Number 6 is why i pushed a woman away about 7 years ago when life got well complicated and i saw what was coming. and she just kinda let it go, which now reflecting and seeing this. makes sense even more now. I've been single and alone about 97% of my life and handful of these things are why, too many woman looking for a better guy and situation. so they'd just jump ship before actually breaking up and taking time to reflect, before next relationship. I'm clueless when it comes to a good woman flirting especially in subtle and respectful manner. I'll have to check out your other videos out.

[@merrionjackson6870]

Jessica, you are he best at what you do. I was dating a woman and ended it with her but felt badly because she tried to make me feel guilty of breaking her spirit. But after hearing the seven thing that a woman does if she genuinely loves you, I was convinced that I did the right thing. There were more red flags than I realized on my own, and even her pluses now look self serving. I appreciate your calm and direct instructions that are more instructional, less entertaining.

[@ekaterinab6064]

good for you. definitely sounds like you did the right thing.

[@MansaQueen]

I needed to double like this video 👍🏾👍🏾… I like the background of this video sis! Overall bomb presentation. She’s definitely a keeper if she does these especially paying any attention to you and the people you care about🥰! Thanks again Jess.

[@justjay1458]

She is absolutely correct when it comes to #2. I noticed it when I was married she didn’t make the important sacrifices for the good of the relationship

[@alfredbanda5462]

Wow!! Am loving this. It gives me hope there's a genuine lady out there for me. Thanks Jess.🙏

[@erickf.1887]

Thank you so much for your teachings. Even though I gave her all the things you describe on this video, I never saw a two way street. I was patient and did not want to give up because of the hope of love. But I guess, and as painful as it may be, you have to let some time pass before you are certain that you gave it your best. Her loss,not mine.

[@bigjs967]

Thank you. After years of being alone I have met the love of my life. We have only known each other for a few months and there is a slight language barrier but she has done all 7. I will continue to work on myself for our relationship to grow.

[@anthonyburke5656]

What a refreshing woman. Thoughtful, intelligent, articulate and on point. I couldn’t pick the accent, “Standard Southern” but with some “Midlands”? I was amazed to hear someone actually suggested/proposed a “secret” relationship! The “sacrifices” bit was interesting to me, it threw a harsher light on the dynamics of relationships.

[@victorstephen3883]

Nice one Jessica. I believe every reasonable man should also do same (this 7 things you talked about) for the woman they genuinely love to have a balance and good relationship. Thank you for putting this together.

[@Bluztaken]

It is 9-5-2021 ...4 A.M. ...I watched your video and you brought back very wonderful memories of my late wife. She showed me all 7 signs and I will add an 8th ...I awoke each day with a real desire to be a better at being a man-husband-dad. Thank you for memory

[@mbubbles7158]

Wow. This vid really touched my heard. I'm in a relationship for the past 4 months. I put up so much blocks to puch him away because I was afraid to love again. But he kept coming stronger n harder. Something happen in the 4 weeks I pushed him away but we are closer than ever. Will share this with him later. Thanks

[@dannyceillingpartition9461]

This is what iwant in the woman iwant to spend the rest of my life with....thank you so much for this channel jessica im so greatfull

[@edmylnychuck6708]

as someone who watches a lot of these types of vids, this is by far one of the best i have watched, it is soooooooo refreshing that there are women like you putting out the truth regarding how not only women should act but how both parties should act with one another, it is like the ying and yang, both must be in balance or things go crazy, i will definetely be watching more of your vids.

[@francisromeo8285]

I've been watching this since morning, it's very lovely i can't get enough of your knowledge. May the good lord continue blessing you with more knowledge and wisdom

[@Celebritytributes2024]

I did all of this and my boyfriend did even more, sadly he passed away days ago. I hope he knows how much I love him and wanted to see him grow. May your soul rest well Hun.

[@ibrahimprimsjalloh3771]

Hi!

[@1.8.7.4HUSTLE]

Sorry for your loss

[@godfreyduffus6567]

True Jessica, she would tell me that she loves me but I don’t know if it’s genuine. Please keep up the great videos

[@firstwaysegun5892]

This is very impactful. One of the best, and short message I have ever listen to on relationship. You're doing a great job. Keep giving your best.

[@ANiang-uw4ex]

Genuine love is not about words, it's about acts !!!

[@forwardpaunganwa4135]

100%. I've always said love is more actionable than just feelings!!!

[@jonasabanda9835]

Words do matters in love it is from words that actions follow

[@forwardpaunganwa4135]

@@jonasabanda9835 The saying action speaks louder than words holds

[@knyyghtrydaa2084]

"Love is what love does", love is action personified.

[@BeautekeLoentje2]

This video brings joyfull and comfortable mindset, thanks Jessica, genuine, the way this was presented is warm and supportive for many of us i guess and a lesson to many wich struggle in relationships or even those who ignore the right way of being together works in both ways, respectfull and loyal. Greetings, België

[@robertoN2024]

Jessica Completely true and right 100%, love is blind in terms of unconditional, not in terms to get something in exchange or trade off between sex and financial security .. that will come naturally but shouldn't be the goal. Nowadays people are worried on validation, social media and fake friends with shallow feelings of false friendship and love. True love will come when we do whatever it takes for that special person ...

[@johnrichardmcphail8922]

Absolutely on the money I’ve been married 39 years and everything you say is true,well done for someone so young.

[@risingeagle6332]

What is shared in this video is all true. I was married for many years to a woman who claimed to love me as her husband. Instead she constantly made our relationship a challenge, pulled the rug out from under my feet, constantly opposed me in every way, worked in ways to counter everything I did. I was a worthwhile and dedicated husband, yet she kept me “Walking on Eggshells”. I should have walked away long ago; turns out that “I was married to a Covert Narcissist”.☹️ When she left, she turned everything upside down. Watch out for such people like this….they are destructive.

[@yusufnasiru1709]

May be u were too lenient with her sometimes you have to be hard on your woman especially when she is already married with you. You have to put her in her place sometimes hit her lightly she will change for the better unless she is a narcissist as you have said. Wish you well

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At the beginning of every year, many of us create New Year’s resolutions. We think about what we did or didn’t accomplish last year, and create new hopes and dreams for the coming year. Unfortunately, not everyone knows the difference between a resolution and a goal, and few people understand how to set goals and achieve them successfully.

[@ketrelandrade4153]

Im glad u got away from tht toxic a** relationship

[@francisjohn7839]

Just love her points❤❤

[@eugenerice9228]

I am very convinced that I am in a marriage that is the same as what you went through

[@haritkumar5107]

Absolutely true what you said... I recently got played by a woman, of my age, and she did each and every thing you spoke about. I could make out certain discrepancies and irregularities once in a while and when I had the 'final' discussion about these, yup, I was right, she was playing me all along. So now what??

[@randyvanvliet226]

Time to part ways, sir. The charade is over, she's shown her true colors. Women can put this up for 3, 4, 5 maybe 6 months. But beyond that, they are unable to act "in love" much longer... then you see her talons emerge. The wounds go deep, if you escape.

[@LatoyaColon-m1s]

I wake up hoping it was just a bad dream. but reality always hits he's gone. no matter how much I tell myself to move forward, my heart refuses to let go. I just want to turn back time and hold onto him a little tighter.

[@stormyahu9790]

My ex wife did everything opposite to your 7 points. I never want that type of person in my life ever again. Thank you for the video. L&S

[@marcusknoll9500]

I hear you Someone I was with It's not that she didn't know much about love ......it's that she's unwilling to learn........ O well Fuck me

[@naijafinanceacademy]

At the beginning of every year, many of us create New Year’s resolutions. We think about what we did or didn’t accomplish last year, and create new hopes and dreams for the coming year. Unfortunately, not everyone knows the difference between a resolution and a goal, and few people understand how to set goals and achieve them successfully.

[@michaeltaylor520]

These 7 traits apply to the both the females and the males. I believe that if only one follow these traits the relationship will not grow. Well done Jessica !

[@geoffreymurithi6424]

Jessica, you are so talented. Your man must be so proud of you. Your content reflects real life scenarios. I love almost everything you express/explain to we the audience.

[@hassanjr5318]

1. Try to meet you with her family , friends (open her inner circle to you ) 2. Ready for many sacrifices to ensure your happiness 3. cares about your loved ones like your family 4. Accept the reasons of your life 5. Proud of your accomplishments 6. Fights for you as a couple , 7. Listens to you with attention

[@richardcollins2622]

Slight correction…”rhythm” not “reason” for #4.

[@Automattie]

Women can do this while virtue signaling. Ain’t no guarantees.

[@Spydaman107]

​@@Automattie very true. however, I don't think what you're saying applies to number 6.

[@AverageGenericN.O-Resident]

My girl is the opposite of this whole list, pray for my strength to develop a non-chaotic exit plan.

[@jamescole294]

Thanks so much for the short version

[@phillipitepu9194]

I've watched this twice already. It's so pleasing, real and lovely to watch a black woman talk about relationships. I feel a certain kind of connection tbh and your contents hits the mark! Thank you. Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤️

[@JessicaOS]

Awww thanks.

[@phillipitepu9194]

@@JessicaOS 💕💕💕

[@jameswadley5778]

I really and totally agree with you. You are truly beautiful to me. You are very knowledgeable about woman. Please keep in touch with me.

[@bettyburris1565]

I really enjoyed that really enjoyed that that's awesome keep doing what you doing and I have a friend you know and everything that you said that's how he feels about me his name is Frederick and his wife passed away years ago like my husband and we really got to connection going there thank you God bless you continue your good work

[@HudsonHornet47]

As I watched this I kept two checklists in my mind. The first one was my parents to see how they do. And the second one was me and my girlfriend to see how we do. Both of my parents are phenomenal at all seven of these points and they laid out a good example for me. Me and my girlfriend still need a little work but I can tell that most of the signs are there. I just hope that we can keep progressing and eventually work it out.

[@michaelfraser2244]

W access FF CC s c

[@AYB171]

World class J,you brought the subject and you touchd everyone soul,there is power on truth

[@kingjah4001]

You are 101% correct...A fantastically brilliant analysis and synopsis. When you are fortunate enough to meet someone that special while travelling through the journey called Life...then you become "A Success"!!! You have found True LOVE!!!

[@suntanglory]

I think you're going to make someone's life a very happy and proud one indeed Jessica. Stay blessed.

[@reggiesanders1284]

First of all, after a long career in television news and production, I really appreciate the positive images of black couples depicted during your segments! Keep going! ❤

[@vampir335]

to be honest i hardly see black couples depicted in a positive light in any media be it tv or internet.

[@TheHalusis]

girl im dating has all these, and others on other check lists. I trusted her, nothing quite like her. This feeling i have when we talk, she feels like a gift from God. I will never let her down, has my heart

[@unapologetic2863]

She is so Beautiful, and her voice is very soothing. Could listen to this Queen talk all day, gotta luv the Blackwoman!!! Peace & luv ase...

[@marcosheadley5247]

, a zzz's

[@malachimmordechaibanyamyan6565]

Y’all gat games🤣😂😅🇧🇸🇧🇸

[@felixaihie1861]

@@malachimmordechaibanyamyan6565 lol abi ooooo

[@jivonstephen6677]

She will accommodate every aspect in her life to suit yours genuinely. Thanks Jess and have a wonderful day ok .🦋

[@philippians3142]

Also she forces sex(love) on you everyday physically with ease and without thinking for a life time. Just adding!

[@themondalorian9844]

@@philippians3142 My last ex did that and we even started having sex in our sleep which seemed exciting, I still get thoughts of her now and again even tho relationship ended in February

[@renereynaldo8399]

Your content are always so rich, resourceful and accurate. Keep up the good work. With love from 237 🇨🇲

[@dhan1010]

You are absolutely correct sis What all you mentioned are facts and tested. Perfectly true. Great

[@omarsheriffkaptan]

We’ve been married for 17 years without any major conflict or quarrel apart from the usual minor ones that are present in almost every relationship. The first major one occurred when my wife’s brother disrespected me and continue to do so. I expected total support from her and to stop being an avenue through which such disrespect continues but she didn’t demonstrate this. At the beginning of our marriage, I always made her know that the surest way to incur my displeasure and reaction is if ANYONE disrespects her but it seems this isn’t mutual. I have spoken to her and poured my heart out but she either doesn’t understand her role through this or is just simply nonchalant. Her reaction or attitude was always different when such disrespect was shown by people who are not her family. I finally just decided to go at it all alone. Due to her approach, I now say NO when I could say yes to anything we must do that involves her brother.

[@Kitiwake]

Great comment. She married you She joined herself to you and left her family behind to do. This is the first order of marriage... Husband/wife first. When anyone disrespects you in her presence and she allows that? You're a patient man

[@omarsheriffkaptan]

@@Kitiwake She is by nature a very calm, respectful, submissive, and reserved woman who isn’t confrontational. I do see it as being partly the reason she didn’t support me in a way I’d have hoped for. I think it’s also part of the reason I’ve remained patient.

[@icysnow57cold64]

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.

[@omarsheriffkaptan]

@@icysnow57cold64 There’s a saying and science proves it, that opposites attract. When it comes to friendship and bonding you don’t have to be temperamentally similar or same to bone. When two people are both talkative they are likely to not bond well because one must be a listener. Don’t conflate having similar principles, understandings or viewpoints with being the same kind of people. When a woman and a man are both crying, who comforts who? When both like spending money, how will you save? When it comes to the issue you are trying to drive at or understand, similarity is rather problematic. Men can also build incredible relationships, remain faithful and committed. There isn’t a single credible scientific source that will claim women can romantically bond together than they will with a man. Also, it’s very debatable claiming women are more social than men. The fact of women openly grieving and speaking to their friends does not mean men don’t grieve. Men are emotionally stable and stronger than women and men do grieve but in a different way. A woman can get very emotional while a man will rationalize. These difference is what makes bonding a unique experience. I could go on and on but time won’t permit.

[@icysnow57cold64]

@@omarsheriffkaptan I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships. So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other.

[@paulongunza4005]

The way she teaches, is the way the social media should be. Thank you Jessica Os to make me value my Wife.

[@sammykamau4575]

Every time i listen to her, i always get a genuine reason to remain single. Kudos Sweetheart!

[@Elemental_Buttahfly_II]

EyE agree with you and EyE'm married. Should EyE unfortunately become a widow, EyE will never commit to another living soul.

[@jamesndungu5427]

Could it be you have never known genuine love?

[@bennywright9515]

You just opened my eyes she never cared at all! Thank you for opening my eyes

[@abimanadavid6959]

We're learning a lot from your videos Jess. Thank you. The most of all the seven is "She listens you with full attention". This means a lot in a mutual relationship.

[@brightagyakwah6339]

Wow, u are doing a good job madam

[@marcusknoll9500]

It sure as fuck does It's like the main thing The whole basis.......

[@FawadZakai]

I'm a self made man but lack in knowledge when it comes to relationships. I really appreciate all of your videos. This has helped me boost my confidence and becoming more aware of what real relationships are opposed to fake ones.

[@donwaters6575]

Am looking forward to meet up with you one day Jessica.

[@ceidbee9718]

@Ceidbee

[@larrybrinley8222]

You made yourself ? Ok, sure you did.

[@emmanueloseiafriyiemensah6289]

Thank you Jessica. I have learned a great deal here although married for more than 15 years. Now this speaks and reveal a lot to me now. Thanks so much.

[@sergekasendakasenda7039]

My late wife had done all these points raised. Thank you very true! Great conversation

[@vincehennessee401]

This is advice that was not just truthful, but also explained very well with great practical insight as to what to look for in terms of the qualities that would be expressed. This was my first time listening and I could tell that in order to express something so well, that there's got to be experience which supports what was stated. I enjoyed listening to the insight because I find it very informative and useful.

[@vincehennessee401]

I pray 🙏 for God to bless you with continued practical insight, wisdom and a lifestyle that represents a true reflection of His heart and nature.

[@vicmobolaji2207]

Very educative

[@sb6489]

I am sure this applies to all genuine loving 1-to-1 relationships, e.g., signs that a guy truly loves a girl.

[@rogergood4394]

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[@rogergood4394]

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[@joelkoonce8559]

Thank you Jessica . My darling wife and I have always known the importance of Unselfishness, there is more happiness in giving than receiving, and truly understanding each other. Our Marriage has flourished.