I agree with you 200% about no fight/argue in Christmas time. I'm a Japanese man married to an American woman for 45 years. Christmas doesn't mean much to me all these years, but I go flow with her side of tradition. I even fix "turkey dinner" with all that jazz. It costs a bit more, but what a heck, it's once in a year thing. I do enjoy new years' day my way...all Japanese way, and my wife doesn't understand me a thing about that. Oh, well, we still have peace in our marriage for 45 years!