Impacts of Joint Family System On Children by Iram Bint Safia | Hafiz Ahmed Podcast

[@ChHadi-x9g]

Btain krna bhot asan hota ha k joint family system bhot acha hota ha ..lakin jb insan joint family system ma rehta ha pta tb chalta ha hr kisi ke rok tok bacha ke zara c ghalti ko barha k kya say kya bana diya jata ha bacho ma fark kiya jata ha insan pal pal jalta ha

[@MmusabMoez-y3x]

Yes right

[@ArhumKhuram]

Billkul ye such h

[@m.u.k2967]

Bilkul thk kha.

[@shamskhattak2848]

good

[@rajafm3691]

Theek kaha

[@cookwithsam007]

Mrea beta 2 yeras ka ha bhout weak h chalta b nh jab wo paida hoa tha to weight just 1.6 tha growth nh hui thi ab tak uthaty bethaty sirf batiean hi sunti hon tany hi sunti hon jab k ye koi nh sochta k growth ruki hi ap sub ki wjha sy thi because alottttt of work pressure or ye channel b apny bety k liye bania usy achi talim or bhtar zindagi dyny k liye i just believe my Allah..

[@saadyousuf1110]

Allah Khush kry Amin......But ...aap kyun pressure lyti hn...ager itna toxic mahol Hy baaji to chor den twakkul kren

[@aimanfatima309]

It's true...hmari family m aesa hi hota h Maa k ilawa baqi sb log Bchy ki trbeat kr rhy hoty hyn...Buri hrkt ho to Maa shrminda Bcha MOTA na ho to Maa ka qasoor Bcha bdtmeezi kry to Maa ki achi trbeat nh h... Ye Stigma srf Maa k liey hi q h??

[@ehsan560]

Sahi kaha mje khud smjh ni ati ۔kis trha krn tbiyat ksi k b samne sharminda ho jati m urdo sikhati ghar se kuch or sikhty m kya krn

[@saadyousuf1110]

K Kaan sy suno doosray sy udao

[@justawesome7716]

Same my family

[@Zaingamerz68]

You are absolutely right 👍

[@Littlecharm909]

M bhi joint Family main Rehti hun Mri 5 saal ki beti hai Pehli Ulaad hai ghar ki Lekin Bus Mri saas Uske sath khelti hai Bazar leke Jati hain Uski ziddi pori krti hai Lekin Baki Khayal maij rakhti hun Uska Khana Pena Solana Poty wash nehalana Jo Maa Ko Krna chahiye Mra Devar kehta hai Tum Maa nhi ho asal m Ami hain Uski 😢😢aur mujheis bat pe Bhot Ghussa Ata hai K M khel leti hun uske sath baki kam ami krlen sub 😢

[@abeerarehan6503]

In joint family, the worst thing is wastage of time in gossiping 😢😢 commentaries from other family members on your way of tarbiyah, which are mostly negative 24hrs fear of other people judging you😢😢

[@rajafm3691]

Same here😢

[@nayabsiddiqi3459]

100% True

[@creatievehub]

Exactly yar... Allah sabko alag ghar day jahan maaa apni marzi sy bachy ki tarbiat kar saky

[@YusraTalks]

Qabr ka haal murda janta hai... Hum kisi ek rule ya strategy ko sab par impose nahi kar sakte, different children different psychologies, parents know them best.. Walden ka apna ek status hona chahye , Allah ne unhe sabse buland rakha hai to tarbiyat aur shafqat k maidan main kisi ko bich main 'kabab main haddi nahi Banna chahye'...

[@muhammadabdullah5983]

Exactly 💯

[@mariyazeherah6263]

Yes

[@karamelahi6596]

Very true when ur child is crying or being stubborn and ur saas said chup kerwao isey ,shor q ker reha he ye ,is pressure me ap bachey ko 2 aur lga dete ho bila waja

[@Hadeed602]

Yes of course she is right

[@aminasyed5051]

Main aur mery siblings even meri nand hamesha parenting k barey mein baat karty hain. Kiya sahih hai kiya ghalat hai, apni weakness, bachy ka behavior aur uski cause usko tackle karny ka tareeqa.... Sub kuch communicate hota hai... Kyoon k hum samjhty hain k hmara core role after being aprent ye hi hai k hum bachon ki behtareen tarbiyat kareyn.

[@sobiarazzaq8451]

Even joint family mein apko yeh b feel krwaya jta maa kam sagi h bachu ki dadu aur phupo zyda hein ....

[@YusraTalks]

Exactly 💯 yahi hai behen,yahi baat hai..

[@khuzaimaarsalan7034]

100%

[@Ksfoodhub]

Very right

[@jibraeela4988]

معذرت کے ساتھ اسلام میں کہیں جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم نہیں ہے حدیث دیور تو موت ہے یہ سسٹم ہم نے ہندوؤں سے حاصل کیا ہے ہمارے نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی کسی بھی تاریخ کو اٹھا کے دیکھ لو جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم کہیں پہ بھی نہیں ہے جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم دین کا گلا گھونٹ دیتی ہے یہ بات جان بوجھ کے چھپائی جاتی ہے مسلمانوں سے جب تک جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم رہے گا اسلام کبھی غالب نہیں ا سکتا یہ بات کڑوی ہے ان ماں باپ کے لیے جن کے بیٹے ہیں مگر یہی بات سچی ہے اور حق ہے 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

[@mahrunnisashaikh2362]

You are right, ham sab k bachaao ko ne saleha banaye ameen

[@naveedbajwa360]

Apko lowermiddle familys k joint problems ka pata ni to ap is k barey mn bat ni krsaktin ......asi familys mn bachey k sath sath mother b victom hoti hy dosron ki baton or behaviours ki

[@MuhammadAbdullah-oh4bs]

True

[@mdtanweeralam1736]

Hamaare yahan Sabse badi bimari ye h ki har insaan muslek banne pe tule... Jab unse Kisi bat pe etraj karo yahi jawaab dega ye tumhari prblm h

[@sultanatfatima2905]

Wo yehi keh rhi h take a stand for your child

[@mdtanweeralam1736]

Sahab waqai ap social worker ho to kabhi kabhi un family se mil bhi liya karo Ac room me baithe rahne se batain achhi hi nikalti h Khair mohatarma sahi kah rahi h Lekin ek dam se ye kahna ki ye tumhari problem h ye achha nahi h Ap unhein samjha dain aasaani paida karein Is tarah to bechare bachche ke parents aur mayus ho jaenge

[@farfrom945]

I agree with u

[@rizwanawan7690]

واہ واہ واہ زبردست

[@accabeebee8296]

We have talked alot about parenting style with our family. And we do stand for our kids. But we do let the kids stay quiet and forgivable to grandparents

[@AliHassan-tf9ru]

Kkjjjjh

[@Iqrahab]

Really main b joint family main rehti yeh mere sursral b bhut pyar krty bacho sy har bat manty hai lekin jaha main kisi ghalt bat sy bat sy man krti hun bachy ko maa hi ghalat nazar aye gi.....isi wja meny khus stand lena shoro bacho kiya bacho k liye

[@ShahidaSabir-vn6bg]

She is saying truth

[@uzmanabeel313]

MashAllah, bht kam khawateen hain Pakistan main esi jesi aap hain

[@burhan_jutt_01]

Absolutely right 👍

[@MdRaji-y6x]

Mashallah ❣️🤲🥀

[@umarbilal210]

BB agr baho ko bolny sy talaq tc bat jati ho to kya kry

[@happyfamilyinuk]

I agree with you sister

[@Littlecharm909]

Main Joint Family M Rehti hun Mri Beti Jo Kahen Mri saas Uski har bat Manti hai Bahar jaana ho Koi cheez mangna Ho Main Unko kehti hun Ap Asra na diya kro saaf Kaha kro Beta Abhi nhi bad main Ya Abhi Nhi jayegy bad Main Jayegy Wo Foran zid pori krdeti hai Usko School Jana hai Par wo Dadi se Rat k 1 2 bje tak Beth k btain krti rehti hai Uske sone ki fikr main krun K bhae ajao sojao Subha school Jana hai Beti k sub kam m krti hun khana pena solana Har kam Saas ghomati hai Khelti hai btain krti hain mra devar kehta hai Tum Maa nhi ho uski Ami asal k hain uski Mujhe Ghussa ata hai is Bat se K Maa ki hun Beti Bhooki hai Uski Fikar ma kr sakti hai aur koi nhi

[@sarangsoomro6689]

Right medam mery sath esy hi hota hai

[@HassanRaza-ru6lp]

AP ne boht achi bt ki hn or joint family Mai waqi trbyt nae hu pati AP ne sae kaha Mera b yhi msla h mere susrar mere bacho se jels hte hn boht ziada,

[@mohidfakhar7968]

Yeh sb baten krna bht easy hy... Jb us joint family mein rahen jahan hum rehty to pta chaly ga... Yahan sirf bardasht bardasht bardasht bardasht................. Wo beth kr discuss kren gy Maa sy... wahhh Jo maa ko maa e ni smjhty.. Aur haqeeqat hy k tarbiyat maa k elawa baqi sb krty... Par hr blame maa py e hota

[@naseerahmad675]

ٹھیک کہا اپنے

[@NeelamZahra-u1c]

Agr molana sahab Mera msg dekhlain too Mera sawal hy unsy mene ye amal Kiya subha subha se halat he kuch ajeeb se hogye bht ziada pareshani waly uski kya wjha hoskty hain kya halat thk hony k liye pareshani ai

[@aribanadeembarakzai6385]

Hmaray deen to khud separate pr zor deta ispr molana tariq jameel k bayan sun ly aj kal bardasht nh he separate hi best he agr koi financially kmzor he ya sb unite hokr reh rhy to thek he bhaly rahy wrna alg hojae alg ka srf ye ik nuksan he k bemar ho to koi dekhny wala nhi or khudi sb manage krna he but us chik chik or tension se behtar he jo joint me hoty

[@safiaatif6298]

Exactly

[@Zaingamerz68]

Joint family mn koi khayal nhi krta beemar chahay jitnay bhi hon Sab krna parta hai ... Alag hon to Chalo APNA hi krna hoga na Yaha to bs baho agr khari hogai h to wo Sab ka hi krlegi

[@nidashafiq9314]

Mera bacha boht zyda zidi HOTA ja rha abi 2 yrs ka h iam so worry .tell me m Kesy Tek kro?

[@Ahmad0987hassan]

Dunya ka sab se fazul system joint family h

[@GulMuhammad-fb3hv]

Humari Taraf Bacho KO martay Nahe , Tashadad Kartay hain

[@IqraShahzad-zm1su]

I agree mery sath b yahi hota hai

[@housewifediaries5551]

My child when cry he cried alot .. what can i do let him cry ..., and he has weak eyesight

[@mehwishhaseeb5584]

Please share the book link I can’t find in Amazon thank you !

[@ayeshasalman3501]

Right 👍

[@dilawarali596]

Meri family mera sath nai detti. Jis cheez sy mana kron wahi kaam krty

[@ishalfatimakipiyaribatain6434]

Assalamu Alaikum aap mere question ka answer aajmi dijiyega please mera beta teenage Mein Hai 13 years Ab Mujhe Bahut tough time de raha hai special study ke liye main bahut Pareshan hun main use per sakhti bhi Karti hun lekin kya mujhe use Chhod Dena chahie Uske HAL per use per Koi sakhti Nahin Karni chahie Manana Nahin chahie dantna Nahin chahie use Kuchh Nahin Kahana chahie Kyon kya aajkal Sab Yahi Kahana hai ki bacche ko Kuchh Na Kahe Kuchh Nahin Kahane ke bad kya vah baccha Khud Apne study ki taraf se baccha Dekha Apna future banaa sakega I am very very please give me answer

[@Syedda2812]

In a joint family system it is not possible

[@shazilsfunplanet5190]

Hum bachoun ko us wqt marty hain jb wo sunty nahi .... Aor jo wo kr rae hoty hain us sai jb bachy ko khatra hota hai tou mar prti hai

[@mohidfakhar7968]

True

[@295_maken]

Best

[@saabtazeem7113]

Right jo explain ni kr skty vo ap n explain kia

[@growhigh2032]

Bohat acha bola magar joint family me Reh k bacay ko favor Dena not easy

[@naureennaz8637]

Hum baat karte hain apne bhai behnon se

[@GulMuhammad-fb3hv]

Saas Nanand and Dewar KO q Jallad he Samajhtay Hain ?

[@funwithzarianzi9792]

Kiu ka hotay wo

[@GulMuhammad-fb3hv]

@@funwithzarianzi9792 Never , Bhabhi Apney Shoher or Bachon KO Sirf Apni property Samajhtay Hy , unky dilo me Nafrat dalti hy

[@saadyousuf1110]

​@@GulMuhammad-fb3hv😂😂....Bhai nfrat no daalti aap interfare na kro

[@mariamobeen7992]

Right good ladie

[@AroojSuduzai-fx7gl]

Zbrdst

[@housewifediaries5551]

Ap ny difficult child ni dykha

[@tarummunir8870]

Akhri baat ki smjh e ni ai h

[@Asema_Khan20]

i am not understanding what she is saying

[@tehreemshoaib]

Log coaches k ps is lie jate q k pese ni hute.

[@HDrSS]

It's not exactly like that, situation is different in different homes, in my situation I stayed alone with husband, in foreign country, it was only I and my husband were living in home, we spent 8 months, actually my husband is my all in laws, he is just physically male personality but in fact he if complete feminine from inside, my husband can't take his own even small decision, always involve her family especially mother and sister, I can take my all decisions of my life so he used to say you are dominant personality, even though I never involve and interept myself in my blood sister and brothers bcuz I feel i should mind my life, mind my business, mind my mind and mind my personality. And they take advantage of my this habit

[@SH-nv5sp]

Kon nhi pasand?Child does not like mother?

[@Nat12726]

Dont live with joint family ! Women arent obliged to live with inlaws nd serve them A safe distance is good

[@farheen6165]

U r absolutely right lekin apki batein jahilun ko pasand nahi aye gi aur na wo samjh saken ge

[@HassanRaza-ru6lp]

U r hundred parson rite

[@aishahasmi5907]

ھمارے گھروں میں بھی بچے والدین سے زیادہ پڑھانے کھلانے گھومانے تربیت میں تایا چچا پھوپھی کی محنت ھے جوائنٹ فیملی نہ خراب ھے نہ برا برداشت ایک دوسرے سے محبت کا اظہار دکھ خوشی میں ساتھ دینا۔یہ ملکر گھر معاشرے بنتے ھے نہیں تو جنگل ھے جہاں جانور رھتے ھے جسکا جدھر منہ ھوا چلدئیے

[@shahinabokhari6861]

Agreed

[@maulanakhursheedanwar7704]

بہت اچھی بات ھیکہ سب ملکر رہیں لیکن ایک مچھلی پورے تالاب کوگنداکردیتی ھے اسکاعلاج کیاھے؟؟شریعت جوائنٹ فیملی کاحکم نہیں دیاھےاورتجربہ ایک فیملی کانہیں سیکڑونکاہے کہ الگ رھنے نہ صرف محبت بڑھتی اورترقی کرتی ھےبلکہ سابقہ دوریاں. شکایات اورناراضگیاں الفت. و محبت میں تبدیل ھوجاتی ھیں عقلی گھوڑونکےبجاے تجربات ہی قابل ترجیح ھوتےہیں

[@umairakhan18]

Muje aapke bolne ka motive samj nhi aaya,it wasnt clear talk.be realistic

[@truebeliever3948]

2:00 mardd bahana kartha hai shadi ke baad aur sari kharabi maa PE daal DETA hai just because she is a BADD naam saas, yeh cheezaen pehlae se طے karna chahiey.

[@IslamicStudiesDepartment-b7q]

Sorry, but this conversation is some ideal situation, ok fine mjy tum Pasand ni ho this is mother's point of view, but what happen when mother in law thinks mjy tum Pasand ni ho, and only teaser for her is to spoil the kids of daughter in law. Aur JB wo bachy dadi Ka curtain ly k maa sy badtameeze krty Tu aik ajeeb sa sakoon in laws feel krty. This is joint family of 20s, Yh 18s yan 19s ke joint family ni ha. Jahan in-laws samjty thy k yh humara khoon ha. Humari nasal na bigaar jy.

[@saadyousuf1110]

To Alag him...himmat kren...she is completely right

[@karamelahi6596]

Joint family is not good system

[@lifestyle7746]

Apki Batain bohut ajeeb hain... Kuch smaj nahe i

[@ruqiakousar3408]

Idr to abhi munh Sy bat kehty nai k ye bachon k Liye Galt h.... Udhr wavela Shuru ho jata h.... 😢

[@deep-mind77]

Urat ka masla bas alag rehna hota haike bachcho ko alag rakh kar khodd ko mazlom aur dadyal ko zalim sabit karon

[@meerabahmed5077]

Joined family is not bad. It is the best where are many people to teach you many things l. e morality etc. Its depend on your family

[@shahinabokhari6861]

Agreed

[@foodmania.546]

For a child Allah subhana o tala assign a mother and father.there is no need of many people for a child

[@MmusabMoez-y3x]

Assalam 0 Alaikum m rehti Hun or bhut tough time hota Hy yh

[@rahatirshad4180]

It depends which joined family you belong to...I grew up in a join family with my grandfather uncles ...the best memories of that life unforgettable happy life. And I experienced worst join family after marriage that makes husband wife love into distance and hate... definitely children suffered too. Always do istekhara before marriage and choose noble families for your children..not only handsome husband or beautiful wife. Life is faar more in reality.

[@AmeeraUsman-k3g]

Not all have same experience as u have 😢

[@Yousuf.1122]

Nic natural beauty

[@funwithzarianzi9792]

Jee jee dadi bolay ge kon sa picha sa la ka ai jo dil kara ga bolay ga maray apnY bachay hain.

[@iqramajeed8522]

Yes mera family hi masla hai

[@khalilahmaduppal4789]

Bht bra Daycare centre bna kr aapko whaan incharge hona chahyay please...

[@kbaloch2556]

Assalam waalaikum We need volunteers for online work only girls can apply and earn best if interested reply limited seats all over from pakistan girls can apply

[@FaridaShabnam-js4bj]

Tum ko kaisay pata key Kiya tarbiyaat Karni hay Kiya nahin??? Haad ho Gai jahalaat phelanay ki...maard kaam par jaey yaad bachoon ka dhiyaan rakhaay??? Tum aurtoon par joint family main ziada check Hoti hay esi Liye maard ko ous key parents sey dur Karti ho...

[@shahinabokhari6861]

True

[@faizasarwat193]

Mujhy to is ki conversation ki he smjh ni a re he,speaking and teaching style is not good, question k na he appropriate answers diye

[@bakht111]

Waqai bt smj nh ai bolna kya chah rh ha

[@abunomanabunoman6346]

اپكى تعليماوربيانسے ہمارے دل دھلا دیتے ہو مین برما سے مبارکباد دیتاھوں دنیا میں ھمارے ماحول پر افسوس ھے

[@almassayed7045]

Islam mei kahin bhi joint family system nhi hai.pehle Ghar lo phir nikah kro.kyuki devar Jeth sasur sabhi se parda krne ko kaha gaya hai.

[@almassayed7045]

Jo bhi wealthy family se hoti hai wo dusri bahu ko dominate krti hai

[@saman_vlogs]

Disagree ye khatoon Jo baat kr rahi he, ye is ka life experience he , and nothing.. han ye zaroor he k u should stand for your child

[@mohidfakhar7968]

Yeh jo programs kr rahy hoty en ko yeh sb face e ni krna prta... Esy esy ilzaam lagty, aur jo jo kuch hota hy to es case mein suicide asaan easy lgta... Jis ko depression patient bnana ho usko joint family mein bhej do...

[@shazilsfunplanet5190]

Ap ny tou bachy ko maa k liye khatra bna diya hai

[@ImadWani-u5g]

Ok

[@malikhajiamin3428]

Chawlya mar rahi Hy koi Kam ki bat ne ki

[@uzmaluqman8271]

Ye to jb ap khud sas bnain g na tb pta lgy ga k bety ko alag krna kia chez hota h

[@st.1813]

Lol. Ye takleef betiyon ko alag krty huye Nahin hoti? Aur agar hoti hai, toh bardaasht krty hain sab beti ka ghar basanay ke liye. Toh bety ka ghar basanay ke liye bhi bardaasht krain.

[@ehsan560]

Qurbani dono ki maa e deti ek beti ki or dosri maa betay ki beti maa to dekhti ni jb k betay ki maa samne dekhti mera beta use rhmiyat dy rha kal tk is pe sirf mera haq h meri sas jsi b h lekin mre dil men un ki bht qadar h k us ne mje itna acha shohr dia is maa allah k bad is maa ka ehsan h mj pr or dil dr lgta agr aj m ne qadr na ki to kal mera beta or baho b ni kren gy or phir m kse brdashat krn gi baqi maa to hoti h

[@sobiarazzaq8451]

Ap sahdi na krna behn Apne bachun ki beti b pas rakhu aur beta .... Ku k beti ko b tu alg krna bht mushkil h naw

[@naziatariq678]

Mujy ye samj nahi a raha k man bap khan jay wo kis k sath rahy sub ko seprte rehna hy to kal ko hum pr bhi ye waqat ana. Hy aj jo alag hony ko khe rahi hy kal ko apny bucho se alag ho gi ti pata lge ga man bap khan jay😢

[@FurkanKhan-m2c]

Beti ko bhi to alag kia jatat hai rukhsati kar k bhaija jata hai kia baitay ka Haq nahi

[@arshadazizofficial2241]

This lady need to admit hospital mad people .

[@jazz9671]

When women talk about islam having her eyebrows shaped sharply i dont feel connected m sorry.

[@ummMo26]

Take good from everyone even non Muslims. She herself will answer to Allah about her eyebrows. Grow up

[@nayabsiddiqi3459]

Matlb had hy k kisi ki achai ni dekhni hamein kuch na kuch bura dhoond he lena hy. Koi be ensan pori tara se perfact ni hota na me na ap na he koi or. Yahan jis maqsad k liye podcast kiya ja rha in my opinion mujhy kuch be galat ni laga

[@muneebajunaid2637]

Yh uska zaati maamla hy iski jwab deh woh khud hy

[@IslamicVideos51413]

Ap ko unki eyebrows dikh rahi hai unki achi baat nahi dikh rahi ap un k face per kum or baat per dehan zyada dein apki ye who aadat hai jo khud ko nh dekhte balkay dusroun ko dekhte hai

[@rizwanawan7690]

اس میں حرج کیا ہے؟

[@HamnaHabiba]

Joint family is so bed

[@muhammadfarman8561]

Jb tum bimar ho gy kaun care kry ga aap ka husband job kry ga ya tumhary pas bethay ga chal bhag

[@techonist]

Joint family mein bhi koo care ni krta. Khud hi karni parti hai apni bhi aur bachon ki bhi

[@HaiderSaiku]

Sai BAAT ha ap Ki

[@saadyousuf1110]

Joint family MN Jon care krta hy

[@sknfbirds]

aunty kw kaho ex kam dikhae.. apnay facts pa reaity check kray.

[@kirananwar6413]

Inka ban ban k q bolti hn ye aunty😂

[@ateeraimran3029]

Door fitay muh

[@AizaNoor6969]

Not impressive 👎

[@ShahbazAslam-ve6nc]

Bus oo bus ! "Spare the rod spoil the child"

[@ShahbazAslam-ve6nc]

Hafaz ahmad , aeda to intellectual nhi aen, jidda ban ban ky dikh rahya aen. Over acting.

[@saimatahir5527]

Hahha😂😂